Navigating singleness and future relationships | On Water Podcast Ep. 6

[@renasaito7383]

I found u through Instagram. I love ur content. This topic is something I’m thinking about especially recently. Thank you❤

[@nazhayaamariah4226]

Lmfaooo the weird “ God told me” is an instant ick! I feel like the devil is tryna trip me! And I ain’t falling for it !! 🏃🏽‍♂️🏃🏾‍♀️💨

[@sanoekaaihue2411]

Thank you for this video. I really believe for myself in coming through relationships that have been abusive and then turning to relationships that pulled me away from God, I’ve spent the last season asking God to heal my heart, help me to repair the way I see myself. Sometimes throughout my day I catch myself telling God that I’m not ready for a relationship yet lol. And He has been so gracious in that time…even if I’ve felt lonely and unworthy, I know I’m not ready yet…and I just keep living for God first ☺️

[@kehindebello7891]

Yess love that you said head knowledge to heart knowledge! I’m learning that our heart posture for the things we pray for is so important!

[@khanyiteffo7264]

calling me out😅, I'm definitely realizing I'm so comfortable being single. I thought it was because it was peace but, I am now realizing its probably fear

[@Butlale]

Teenage boi in the house. Uhm I've been single literally my entire life. As It should (according to some adults) About a 2 weeks ago I got approached by a girl in my grade and asked for my number, we talked romanticly ever since. I don't want to date her because as I've gotten to know her. I don't think she's ready for dating. I'ma be fr. If I know the bible more than the girl I'm with, thats a problem... ain't no way I know and understand the bible more than (because I barely read it) Obviously right now I'm diving deeper into understanding his word more. But back to the girl. She has no hobbies and seems to be reliant on others for all her emotional needs [positive emotions included]. It seems that she might be using me as a cure for her quote on quote loneliness if we were to date. I don't think shes ready to date... Andi don't want to date her. (Im basically saying she isn't interesting) How do I break it to her that she needs to work on herself without coming off as rude, arrogant or judgemental

[@OnWaterPodcast]

Hey! I would first off suggest you talk to a spiritual leader/pastor if you're trying to talk to a girl romantically lol You need accountability and guidance when it comes to this stuff. Also, if you don't want to be judgemental, it would be wise to not judge whether or not she is ready for a relationship/needs to work on herself. You can make the decision to not pursue her and pray that God works in her life. Seek wise counsel and don't take this on by yourself! Hope that helps