NEED TO RESPECT EACH OTHER PERSONAL LIVES’ | The Baby Fathers Podcast Meets The Baby Mothers| EP68

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

Not introducing nobody to my son unless its a serious, healthy, committed relationship. That is something that can't/won't be rushed because my son's safety and well-being are priority.

[@jayo3074]

Go marry your child's father smh

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

@@jayo3074 go mind your own business

[@jayo3074]

@@Age_Of_Aquarius84 then don't post your personal business online you clown. If you married the child's father you wouldn't have to worry about introducing different men to your son. This is so irresponsible

[@80sfam76]

The hole interview the man on the panel was humble respectful & real, the one time he disagreed Agent smith came out the females.

[@80sfam76]

@@pixiposttarot2919 💩

[@verginone]

Really enjoyed the dynamic on this episode

[@dazect5160]

Big up for the show ❤️

[@donsimon198]

Shoulda called this the “depends on the circumstances” pod

[@fresh4families]

On the matter of surname, asking the child is wild. You aren't just carrying the dad's name, that is a family name, roots and legacy. I can't believe this

[@dannysprang9698]

This is really Important

[@maxjohn6346]

3 months an these females will introduce a man to there child that’s crazy

[@omarsadeek2783]

I had a friend that wouldn't let me go to house, because of her child..After abt 6 months I told her the message you are sending to your daughter is every man you introduce her to you possibly slept with. I think kids should understand that platinonic freinds are real, until they are not..lol..Btw her daughter was 16. I think she had other relationships or a live in..

[@GodsGroupChat]

You overstepped… home is a sanctuary for children esp if the children are part of a single parent household… your assumptions are completely your responsibility she is allowed if not entitle not to let people in her home that’s called being a responsible parent and adult. Respectfully what happens in her household is not your business.

[@omarsadeek2783]

@CONVICTED NOT CONDEMNED🇬🇧 Facts. Thats why I chose to walk away.. The conversation was much deeper than that, she lived in a different city, if we out and I cant drive why should need to get a hotel room. I could have slept a couple hours on the couch..Btw we got in around 1am I had to work at 8am.

[@LusipherDiablo]

That man Joseph is a guru! Right towards the end, I think what they weren't getting is that many baby mothers will always think that their child's needs MUST always come first, even if the baby father has a new family, who he also has responsibilities too - nobody is saying that he doesn't give a shit, but just because you think your child should be the priority, he (and his new partner) may not feel the same way .... So what is he meant to do? When I faced that, I just went with most sense and if it was a tie, I'm gonna choose to not piss off the person who I'm currently with 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@pixiposttarot2919]

The first born child probably finds it difficult that 90% of your attention is on your new family as it is. You live with them, see them everyday, provide everyday, but Then the one time you’re needed for assistance from your other childs benefit, you say no because you want to consider your first families feelings? 1. If your new partner/family has a problem with you doing things for your child from a previous relationship, then there’s something seriously wrong with their morals! 2. You don’t pick and choose who’s more important, you treat them all the same! Anyone who argues against your moral responsibilities shouldn’t be around you. 2. Your first born has feelings too. Try considering them.

[@LusipherDiablo]

@@pixiposttarot2919 In a situation where there's no clash (and there's no drama) then you are there for whichever child needs you. That's not a hard choice. However, what about times when both kids seemingly need you? Or what about when you know (?) it's just baby mother number 1 flexing over the new woman - because a ton of them believe that their child with you, is more important than any other children you may have (not unsurprising, as a lot of parents think their child is more special than other children) and will come up with scenarios to test you? In my case, I will go with whatever makes most sense to me. If it pissed one or both mothers off, then so be it, but I'm lucky that my kids know I don't play favourites - although it took a fair bit of time and a lot of consistent logical decisions, for them to get that - even though I see one a hell of a lot more than the other. Plus, whilst my kids are the most important things in my worldz that does not mean that they are always the most important thing 24/7. There are going to be situations, when they are not gonna be the first choice and they need to understand that's not a bad thing .... I encourage them to live their lives and I'm not going to doubt their love if, for example, a friend's party, is the winning choice over wanting to spend time with me It's not always a simple choice and just because it didn't go the way, a mother might have wanted, doesn't mean that the father didn't make the right choice/is a bad parent.

[@ariesdiamond2872]

If the child resides with the mother full time then yes the father if asked should go and help with the child's bed

[@mylesrichards8448]

Stop putting simps on this show to represent baby fathers. There’s no way on earth you could give someone who isn’t the biological father a kids surname, whether or not the fathers involved. That’s just disgusting 🤢

[@LusipherDiablo]

Why? My surname is on the birth certificate and passport, but to make things easier for him, my boy uses the same surname as his mum, stepdad and his younger siblings (who are all at the same school .... and that was the only reason why they asked me, if he could use his stepdads surname on a daily basis) Doesn't bother me, because they asked and it makes sense. It's not like I've been removed from any official documents.

[@homesecrets494]

The simp you speak off said HE used his step dads name.

[@TheSockbottom]

Who is impregnating these low quality basic 304s? So sad men are going raw in these people. I guess the west is over