Negative Personality Traits of CANCER Zodiac Sign

[@いさむ-c3i]

The only thing that is negative about me as cancer sign is that I cut people off and needed a very generous amount of space and time to meditate. I tend to be jealous and clingy that's why I have step back a bit to cool down my negative thoughts and meditate on my actions.

[@Naomiluvsice]

Me too

[@PokeUFO]

Sounds like me but I am very distrustful I’ll

[@marciamellow1211]

That's right...because we are very smart...smarter than average, that is really what this negative video is about..we are hard to handle...and there is Always a reason!

[@TravelHall74]

Exactly

[@TravelHall74]

@@marciamellow1211right on I’m a very loving and caring person but oh boy when I get on your but I’m a monster

[@KhalidAfridi1]

True, one of the most worst things is that they will always remember your mistakes while forgetting all the goods

[@justeddie30]

*This is something every Cancer should keep in mind because, we cannot control our feelings, but once we learn and understand that we are who we are we can at some point conquer our emotions and can become better we will understand that we are this way because we are meant to be this way, jealousy is one of the most displeasing quality that we cancer have, and if we don't understand what a cancer is then our life will be a mess especially with people and the ones we love* *I'm glad that I found this video and I'm learning about cancer every single day it also makes me understand another cancerian too and how to talk or react to them, We Are Who We are Supposed to Be, But Yes We Can Become Better*

[@naturalqueen482]

all cancer and all other signs are not all alike oh heck No. your life does not revolve around a zodiac reading... who are making money second guessing you😂 WOW 😳 but are revovle on your DNA BORN BLOOD TRINT I am cancer and come from a strong family of love❤️ and jealousy would never be me a strong Queen 👑 a people lover 😄 get along with everyone never meet a stranger.. help needed families love doing for people very private smart educated loyal honest faithful beautiful spoil compassionated loving understanding very relax very high Gene clean family.. very classic. expensive dressers.. oh always on point. not rich...not poor😄👍loved by meny over friendly great vibe meny friends small circle.. big family of love.. never been jealous of any man. I never saw a reason too be😄🤣😄its like this plane and simple.. if you try to freak us over with the playing games cheating and lying.. dickin around.. ok so we gaslight ⛽ your ass and keep it moving 🤣😄🤣😄🤣😄🤣🤣 I don't play the jealous games but you want freak me over.😂 FOR SHO😎 cancer ♋ don't need a man just for money.. they have their own 💰💰💰💰💰💰🤑🤣💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@peterchan5097]

Jealous? I guess the word is "slightly disappointed" at times "secretly possessive" and secretly check on someone. Some insecurities. I am not sure jealous other than seeing another achieving more than myself then i do get hurt and jealous of their achievement. Learning to praise others and appreciate the strengths of others and appreciate the weakness in ourselves helps to celebrate that life is indeed different. We come to appreciate what talents others has that we might not have. Or what popularity other has that we may not have But come to appreciate gifts that you have to enable ourselves to help others. ❤

[@brella123]

The biggest thing that worked for me (I'm a cancer) is that when I realize I am trying to be clingy or manipulative, I take some time off to reflect, take measures to regulate these negative traits. Since we are so eager to please, want peace and no conflict at all times. Also, a cancer's moods are stabilized by her partners especially if they belong to earth or water zodiac signs. Taurus, Pisces , etc get Cancer's positives and are understanding of her negative personalities which makes her calm down faster.

[@iosifd2409]

My girl is a cancer , and me a pisces , yes she could be manipulative but not in a toxic way I mean I see her struggle to put me on the right pathway , I understand every movement of her , cause I see me in her , so she cannot be mean with me , she is a lovely person , because I understand what she feels , what she wants , we are like yin and yang.

[@s.selenatorswifty4321]

Thanks for understanding her ♥️

[@Sunshine-pv5zv]

Pisces and cancer sound like you guys work together.

[@iamtheresistance6495]

Most of the Pisces I know are cautious

[@iamtheresistance6495]

I seen a few Pisces men compliment someone's suit or outfit

[@Polarveis]

I’m scared how accurate this is 😳

[@redshadow4146]

Yea that’s why we’re the scariest

[@florino13]

I am a cancer male, and I laughed so hard watching this video.

[@A94366]

Righhhhhhht! 😈😈😈

[@Polarveis]

Yup 😈

[@patriciathompson7927]

Not rlly

[@ahhwe-any7434]

Im fn emotional. F it. Sometimes im slightly embarrassed by myself tho & no, im not really aware of how I come off to ppl. My feedback can be surprising. But I said dont f w/ me damnit. Idc who u r. Ill hand it to u, if u feel the need to constantly beg for my attention. Yes, I see it that way. Bc im a crab. Dont intrude on my space I never invited you into & we can be good. Otherwise, my heart is damn gold. And I can live w/ me. I dont think I'm manipulative. I said dont f w/ me 😁

[@bilalkhanofficial01]

All the cancerian mark the attendance 🥰

[@kasshmoney4423]

Wow. Sounds like my mother in law...My newborn is also a Cancer...I hope she doesn't end up being manipulative, controlling or clingy like her grandmother.

[@parishingram7150]

If she has you, she may not but you have to stop them in their tracks, during their growth. I have a little cousin that is only clingy with the cousins she grew up with and can control. She saw she couldn't control my Scorpion daughter and has given her the cold shoulder ever since. But she's ok with that because she's just like her Scorpion mother💕

[@randoguy5767]

They nailed the draining part. My ex was like an energy vampire.

[@exit6414]

Like anyone cares

[@childishbrownie]

I take that as a compliment. I'm sure you deserved it

[@Bigheartedlady]

Mine too 100% I keep my guard up with this zodiac now I've known more than one cancerian who were narcissistic and emotionally manipulative abusive and toxic.

[@lefabuleux8192]

nikola tesla, alan turing, george orwell, princess dianna, angela merkel, elon musk, meryl streep, tom hanks, mike tyson, lionel messi, zinedine zidane, will ferell, malala youssafzai ....... these are some of the most amazing and talented people that ever lived. Cancers do more, say less, definitely the most courageous, they are people who hold to their values to death, and they get alot of jealousy from others for that,they get mocked, laughed at, but manage to succeed with the most spectacular and never seen style, and stay humble about it "sometimes its the very people who no one imagine anything of who do the things that no one can imagine" -alan turing- Cancers are insecure and lack confidence, but once they get rid of their fears, miracles start to happen. A cancer who manage to control his emotions is near perfect, but to do so, he or she have to experience great sorrow on the earth. For my fellow cancers : we are the best, dont let anyone tell us otherwise

[@mrfox6966]

Keenu reeves too is Cancerian

[@lefabuleux8192]

@@mrfox6966 i dont think so, he was born on sep 2nd

[@jordanclitheroe1532]

Wow had no idea all those people were cancers , thank you for the word of wisdom fellow cancerian

[@ronieliencabunas8139]

ADD MESSI 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@armonisworld6916]

See this why I distance myself from ppl if I’m too needy for your or negative than ion gotta be around period ...

[@legendaryTMNICO]

I avoid people who complain too much.

[@emyyy-]

@@legendaryTMNICO then avoid my sister

[@pistachiosandpopcorn7146]

I'm negative when I'm alone and thinking but when I'm around others I try to put the positive on. I think Gemini brings out the positive in me more than any other sign.

[@sagarbhattarai9518]

Yes me too

[@EdRein]

Cos they are kids and you want to mother them. Childish energy , nurturing energy

[@itsyanielxo]

Same here. I’m a Cancer sun with Gemini moon and Leo rising

[@irishrose1970cr]

Control the TV, control the shopping cart, control driving, control money, etc. They belittle you, get angry at you when you cry, jealous when you have fun or get more attention than them sometimes, their problems are worse than yours, grouchy af, people are afraid to make them mad, like to be the star in others eyes, and you're just a robot that has no feelings.

[@juditheze9161]

A cancer is very emotional and we are always not the first to look for trouble or misuse others but we hate being taken advantage of by people we love genuinely. We do not forgive such hurt and will hold grudges for ever. Don’t push us. We have a motherly instinct to protect,care and love but we hate it being taken advantage of. Good part about our anger is that a heartfelt apology is enough to erase the hurt. We hate people that carelessly throws hurtful words or actions to us and want it to just slide. We don’t let it slide because the slightest hurtful words get to us. We are very emotional. Don’t annoy us too much.We do not forget.

[@melissaturner8603]

A cancerian is often misunderstood they don't get along well with females particularly because they tend to get really jealous of them people often times use them because they are very generous and they see them as meal tickets they always are attentive to ones needs physically and emotionally they aren't very good with relationships nope and they are infact manipulative not controlling well not everyone they can use your own situation in a positive light they are very very very ambitious they have a wild drive that makes people tend to Target them for no reason but cancerian have a way to yes prepare for the worst and Dodge every single bullets they are very clean and are neat freaks very revengeful they will provoke you by laughing you to scorn they will love you so much care and nurture and protect and also provide for you UNTIL!!!!! They having lots of money nice stuff overall Cancers are literally unique gems just don't mess them over and they are also super loyal UNTIL!!!!! They'll cut you off forever 👍

[@michaelellringer5600]

Cancer is the first of the water signs, and thus, the most immature. After Cancer, 2nd is Scorpio, a bit more mature with their emotions, and then comes, lastly, Pisces, the most mature of all.

[@jaysonraphaelmurdock8812]

In my experience... Pisces is a better sign for women than men. Cancer and Scorpio are better for men.

[@iamasia_perez]

I love my cancer 🤣 he clingy 😁🥰🥰🥰 I love it! I’m Virgo ♍️ we perfect together 😂!

[@dodson43]

Lol feel like I’m being attack

[@zenra2691]

Dead ass

[@moniquetrotter9495]

You are a Cancer? Oh the shame! You should think about choosing another sign.

[@brentdan68]

@@moniquetrotter9495 i think you don’t know how sign works.....

[@CODEINE2raw]

lolll july 9 here

[@christophercamille3617]

July 12🤣

[@maryscarnecchia2753]

I am a cancer and I’m not manipulative or controlling far from it. Emotional yes ✔️ and again I try to look at the positive in situations. I feel like a cancer must have pissed off the guy who did this video at some point 😂

[@jazlyncandicealay-ay8562]

OH HELL YES

[@adeoladesola7849]

I ain't manipulative

[@legendaryTMNICO]

Some of them like to take their anger out on people too much when they're in a bad mood all day. Cancer people are also the worst tutors and they don't have they put you don't down if you can't handle doing a term paper.

[@yam0307]

Mee too

[@yam0307]

@@ares3052 not all I'm a cancer but I'm always trying to protect my partner.😅

[@gaiaaoi1005]

Pessimistic or realistic? See? This makes so much sense. 😌😅

[@semkid1132]

I dont think we r pessimist but rather realistic...

[@someperson1666]

If other signs would listen too they’d know what to say. Food for thought.

[@aye_jonesfkamarvel_jones519]

Whew I was in my feelings in this video. Even when he gave the compliment in the end. Talk about a mood swing ♋️

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

Wow, you made Cancers, sound like the perfect mark, for user people and all a Cancer will do, is go lock themselves in their room and blame themselves.

[@lefabuleux8192]

nikola tesla, alan turing, george orwell, princess dianna, angela merkel, elon musk, meryl streep, tom hanks, mike tyson, lionel messi, zinedine zidane, will ferell, malala youssafzai ....... these are some of the most amazing and talented people that ever lived. Cancers do more, say less, definitely the most courageous, they are people who hold to their values to death, and they get alot of jealousy from others for that,they get mocked, laughed at, but manage to succeed with the most spectacular and never seen style, and stay humble about it "sometimes its the very people who no one imagine anything of who do the things that no one can imagine" -alan turing- Cancers are insecure and lack confidence, but once they get rid of their fears, miracles start to happen. A cancer who manage to control his emotions is near perfect, but to do so, he or she have to experience great sorrow on the earth. For my fellow cancers : we are the best, dont let anyone tell us otherwise ✊

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

@@lefabuleux8192 *Thank you kind Sir, Well Met Cancerian,* that sounds like *Cancers is what human existence is and seeks to be,* why is the world so harsh but out of that harshness comes great love and understanding, *that is the human condition,* to grow emotionally from our pain, or *channel it into something good or great.* Nothing else makes sense with so much suffering yet, so much displays of empathy and humanity too.. The thing I like about Cancers, even if we dislike you, is that we will always, think about, others point of view, we will allow ourselves to walk in another shoes/experiences to understand them. *We are the best shot for human understanding of each other.* Cancers are natural born humanitarian's with enough skepticism to not be easily fooled, especially, when we are suspicious. We need to master or negotiations skills, because that is one of our many strengths.

[@anumeghadas8969]

@@lefabuleux8192 they get laughed at and also they laugh at them selves I also do that as I am a cancerien and I am also a very big comedian and can also laugh at my self

[@marvel_finatic_child3803]

@@lefabuleux8192 Julius Caesar was a cancerian

[@dreentertainmentfordays365]

Yeah we often blame ourselves far more we blame people who are actually responsible

[@melissaturner8603]

And they always have an answer and solution to everything off hand

[@sixwheelcarlisle8491]

I’ve found myself in all of this mess as a Cancer. I was falling for a Taurus sign woman and saw her flirting with someone I despise. I couldn’t sleep and I later that night texted and told her this and then made a bad situation worse and possibly lost the woman I had strong feelings for, forever 😔 The negativity and insecurity is like gravity. The fact that she was flirting with this jerk was like poison in my heart that I couldn’t bear. 😵‍💫

[@childishbrownie]

Taurus woman !? Broh... You are dealing with the dumbest sign. Best thing they can offer is sex nothing more. Hit and run

[@jaysonraphaelmurdock8812]

If you weren't dating her then you shouldn't be so crazy.

[@harrisdizdarevic5797]

I love how he pronounces skepticism. Also how reacts to every bad trait. He should be an actor.

[@miguelguzman9620]

Cancers are actually said to be the most or one of the most loyal people And one of the most loving people

[@ALEXANDER_HART8991]

I smiled widely when he particularly gave account above how manipulative a Cancer sign can be , using that ability to our advantage 😅 SO TRUE !!!

[@kinghyder9358]

So the Cancer is every movie villain who has trust issues Might as well be the bèst villain possible

[@fortniteprpla419]

I love that cancer wins 99% of arguments

[@yayosummer4807]

@@khushbu9890 no we always have the last word

[@sarahjones-jf4pr]

ABSOLUTE RUBBISH TRY ARGUING WITH A LIBRA OR A VIRGO .

[@naturalqueen482]

how can they lose when their left to argue by themselves🤣🤣 meny doesn't stick around to listen 👂 😆

[@thainguyen-yz7ht]

But lost the wars.

[@K-Blao]

They can't take constructive criticism without crying throwing everything in your face that they have done to help. They are only on your team as long as you don't have a complaint against them. As soon as you have a complaint with them they will 100% attack you.

[@candylee2487]

He just went off and expose me 😬

[@waliimran6155]

😂😂💯🔥

[@sheilagunn2836]

I am not pessimistic!! I'm the happiest person i know!!! Please pass the bottle. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@legendaryTMNICO]

Capricorns are too pessimistic. They worry too much about what's the worst that can happen.

[@naturalqueen482]

Sheila:: I know rite🤣🤣😆 I am happy fun and funny all the time. and make everyone day with a smile🤣😆 I don't want the bottle boo.. pass me the JUG 😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣 I don't know what these fokes talking about👍😂

[@sheilagunn2836]

@@naturalqueen482 so glad to hear we are the same!!🤣 watch out world!!

[@naturalqueen482]

@@sheilagunn2836 😂🤣👍😎

[@eyuellakew6077]

No you are pessimistic , I am sure 😂😂😂 you are know predicating

[@lalani888ARTblue]

I've gotten along with cancers my entire life. But literally yesterday I had to end a friendship with one. Maybe it's got nothing to do with his sign. I can't have intelligent conversations with him. He lives in a 'box' on terms of the way he thinks and views many things in life. He can be kind but also has a need to be right. Calls anyone who researches outside of 'the box' ...a conspiracy theorist or other derogatory names. He's addicted to mainstream media like it's God or something . He makes critical jabs out of the blue. Like he's looking for some aspect of me to put down meanwhile his own lifestyle is extremely unhealthy. It's sad that he needs to do that. Unfortunately his negative traits outweigh his positive ones. He has control issues. Sad. Every other cancer I've met is much more open to newness, real conversations etc.

[@XANANAZ]

I guess the worldview doesn't necessary is reflected by the star sign.. But yes, we are complicated af and i stay away from my own star sign 🤣

[@parishingram7150]

Are u a Scorpio?

[@misscrystalnicole6897]

I can relate to this so much. Ugh. It’s the most annoying thing . How they believe they know it all and have all the answers when they really are kinda lost. There is no teaching them or Getting them to think in a different way. Or even just be Ione to hear a different view without chiming in and shutting it down. Just lame

[@pamelaharnage]

This is true. Except they left out a few things. They didn't say that Cancers are loyal and faithful in a relationship. Once a Cancer is in a relationship we are in it for life. Cancer are very protective of our love ones. There are three kinds of Cancers. The healers, the mind readers and the physic. I'm a physic Cancer. And. I'm never wrong. I go with my gut.

[@akash-ee3iq]

i m physic too n lately it is happening a lot to me

[@julietgover2832]

Perhaps Not.

[@julietgover2832]

My husband Cancer. He's never wrong despite any evidence. The word Sorry never emits from his throat. It's quite sad, really.

[@goldenjaii9275]

because this was negatives only

[@SH-mj9vk]

Pamela Harnage you're right the astrology introduce the 4 elements there are convert in 2 groups there understanding and Love level are very good. group 1. Water+Earth group 2. Air+ Fire

[@SilverFox55Ultra]

Not controlling in the least. I’ve never manipulated anyone. Emotional as in we act on our emotions, we don’t cry for no reason. I never take things personal or blow things out of the water. Pessimistic, yep very but not around people I care about. All my friends trust me and love me a lot. Granted we are suspicious because we hide in our shells and only make a decision when it’s 100% safe. I see reason and am not very clingy. I trust people to much so I don’t understand that. I’ve had people talk bad behind and was bullied heavily in school. Cancers are easily misunderstood. I’m not attacking this video or anything I’m just don’t want all cancers to be seen badly. Just because I’m not like this doesn’t mean everything in here is incorrect. I wish you’d do the cancer sun and moon because they handle things differently. In short we are complicated

[@lefabuleux8192]

nikola tesla, alan turing, george orwell, princess dianna, angela merkel, elon musk, meryl streep, tom hanks, mike tyson, lionel messi, zinedine zidane, will ferell, malala youssafzai ....... these are some of the most amazing and talented people that ever lived. Cancers do more, say less, definitely the most courageous, they are people who hold to their values to death, and they get alot of jealousy from others for that,they get mocked, laughed at, but manage to succeed with the most spectacular and never seen style, and stay humble about it "sometimes its the very people who no one imagine anything of who do the things that no one can imagine" -alan turing- Cancers are insecure and lack confidence, but once they get rid of their fears, miracles start to happen. A cancer who manage to control his emotions is near perfect, but to do so, he or she have to experience great sorrow on the earth. For my fellow cancers : we are the best, dont let anyone tell us otherwise ✊

[@riezeljeanfaurillo4743]

Same here

[@domashat427]

@@moniquetrotter9495 shut up ur prolly a leo💀💀

[@michigangirl5072]

Some of my siblings are Cancrians. My sister, 07/02/70. My brother & my uncle, 07/18/66. My cousin, 07/17/89 and her husband, 07/18/89. My other two cousins. One, 06/28 & her older sister, 07/09. Famous, but deceased Cancer: George Michael(06/25/63-12/25/16)

[@levil4012]

I agree with most of this EXCEPT the clingy part

[@Texaslonestargal]

We’re also the most likely sign to be a serial killer. 😳 True story.

[@mindymoresrosero]

Yes, I’ve read that, too.

[@pamelaharnage]

We are the most dangerous out of all the zodiac signs

[@shadowsmith1386]

@@pamelaharnage no yall not shut up

[@churchillcaruthersiii6977]

No, I think that Pisces has a claim on that title. In comparison to all the signs if I'm not mistaken I think I remember reading about the Zodiac charts somewhere and it stated that Pisces were one of the signs to have the inclination to be serial killers but not Cancers because they are just not known to have that kind of thing in their nature.

[@steffe9051]

@@churchillcaruthersiii6977bro there are many times I wanted to kill peoples bcoz of my overload emotions thank God i didn’t. If cancer gets made it’s worst than you think we don’t get angry but if it’s too much we don’t know how to handle now I’m learning how to process my emotions bcoz of therapy and learning not to react but disengage. I used to wonder when I was younger why my mom don’t understand the simplest things I can and I will get frustrated until I realize I’m different and see things differently not everyone can see , feel and thought as me

[@larrynlaurabrendon2687]

How do I know these things about Cancer? Well, I am one and I am in a sea of them. Trust me, we are some monsters. Trust me, I worked hard to become a better me today, at this moment and second. Remember Cancer, the past is the past, leave it there!!! Let me be honest. This means grab a pen, paper and take notes. Cancers can more trouble than they are worth in relationships. Don't waste your time trying to insure them of anything, it's a waste of your time. Cancer will believe whatever Cancer wants. I love you will never be enough. Going out your way, climbing the most dangerous mountain, swimming across a lake full of alligators and snakes will never be enough. Card, candy and a romantic date may or may not work. Cancers have a great imagination, but most limit themselves and their capabilities. Loyalty is a possibility, but remember Cancers live in the past, even in past relationships. They will go back to an ex because they miss them. Even if this person cheated on them or treated them horrible they will try to find comfort with them. Cancer is always looking for someone to fill every empty space they FEEL is in their heart. Any feeling of loneliness will trigger them to cling to you more or find someone or people who will let them latch on. A Cancer's response for getting caught cheating will be them shutting or pretending something is wrong. They may even respond with anger, because of getting caught. Cancers as friends can be a good thing. The only problem with your friendship might be the fact that they are taking notes of all your weaknesses and flaws. The emphatic hugs and gestures are warm and comforting. But, dont piss them off. They will throw your person, hurtful and private thing back in your face to try and break you and eat you alive. Getting to close is not a good idea for someone whose naturally positive, energetic and optimistic. Keep as much of your person life away from them. Like I said in so many words above, you will regret it. No one ever mentions the fact that they are Energy Vampires mainly July Cancers. Anyways, good luck.

[@ZodiacTalks]

Thank you for sharing these valuable insights with the community ^^

[@larrynlaurabrendon2687]

@@ZodiacTalks you're welcome. Have a great week!!!

[@juditheze9161]

You talked about yourself sis and I honestly think that you need to heal from whatever trauma you faced. I am a July cancer and I do not do more than half of what you have said here. Infact I think you just described cancers as horrible people and I am not one.

[@larrynlaurabrendon2687]

@@juditheze9161 Hi. I didn't say we are bad. We have a horrible way of expressing ourselves. I'm a Crab, my husband and daughter are as well. We have all gone on a self healing journey alone. We have also healed as a family. Cancers, can be the most unforgiving sign and the least to get forgiveness, because of our harsh and brutal attitudes. The truth is very hurtful, but so is living with the fact we will never change, until we accept our truths. I love hard. In the past I hate just as harder as I loved. We are sensitive because can't get our way, or make others see or do things are way (very manipulative) I learned to love myself, my family, my home first. I stop worrying about what people say, think or care about me (kissing up). I put me first now. I speak for myself and my family, we let go of the past and old worthless patterns. Everyone's good now 🙂

[@Ali08]

Thanks for the honesty. And may I add, some of us are emotional monsters who are hurt and need to learn who we truly are, independent of other people thoughts about us . I am a July Cancer and learning to embrace my flaws instead of burying them deep inside. I am who I am and the change is for myself, not necessarily for everyone else otherwise, it would not be as genuine.

[@carbonateprime572]

This is quite accurate I should just leave social media from now on

[@iamtheresistance6495]

Some of the cancer men I know are easy going or fighters

[@mattsamoto4451]

You just do not like that we use Cancer's empathic abilities. It scares people to know that we are reading them. But they dont even know it.

[@sukimala]

everything said was facts dated a cancer and all the they mean well an insecure cancer is soul draining .

[@dilmiamonroe7717]

My mother is a cancer ♋️ & as a libra ♎️ daughter I cannot understand how cancers think .. we don’t have the best relationship! It’s hard to deal with a person with a cancer ♋️ sign . As a libra ♎️ I’m very positive & the way I look at life ! Unlike cancers lol

[@Chloe_Kolohe808]

I’m a cancer and my mom is a Libra! We have had a mostly horrible relationship ! We went over five years without speaking to each other. Things are better between us now, but growing up was brutal having a libra mother! I feel ya!

[@susansedor5675]

Am now dating a cancer man n what my spirit dislike about him is dat his so full of negative energy n am a scorpio, he always look at me n den judge me with his ex bad habits n am not his ex

[@juditheze9161]

@@Chloe_Kolohe808 same as me

[@steffe9051]

My ex best friend was libra and was full of mind games and manipulative and everytime we meet my toxic sides will be ON it will take me time to process things and then will realize later on I was manipulated and I will take revenge to prove my point or myself. It was exhausting , went crazy and we didn’t talk for a year bcoz I wanted space then came back and realized the whole problem was him . the relationship was so toxic had to end it

[@sydious08]

Why is this so accurate

[@martir3499]

My late husband was a cancer and OH MY GOD was he clingy. I couldn't be a work 5 minutes and he was calling me

[@orafranc]

every cancer i ever met were a problem. except 2. my favorite female cousin, and an advocate that i wish i cud find her again. the other cancers were absolutely terrible. at least 5 cancers that were so manipulative and over all terrible people, terrible users of people. those friendship did not last long with me. im a Leo and Leos value friendship!!

[@onyxlotus7126]

My mother is a cancer & she was & still is a terrible parent & person all together. She's very manipulative & is a pathological liar. She's abusive & passive aggressive. In addition she's a bully towards anyone she perceives to be on a "lower level" then her. She's very petty & is a master at playing the "victim" even though she's the perp. I deal with her as little as possible.

[@delorean1278]

Well, I promise you, not all of us are like that..

[@studywell2421]

Yes DeLorean! Everyone assume us with these traits.. it's painful

[@preciosaarlisia]

@@delorean1278 are y’all serious right now? Onyx Lotus is describing his or her relationship with their cancer mother and y’all ganna say not all cancers? Get out of ur own ego and empathize with his or her struggle. Y’all didn’t even acknowledge their comment besides to announce your ego. This is the equivalent to the “not all men” saying when women describe their horrific experiences with men. Smh foreal y’all!? Smh🤦🏻‍♀️

[@preciosaarlisia]

@OnyxLotus I’m sorry for your bad relationship and experience with your mother. It sounds like she could be a narcissist or have narcissistic traits. I strongly suggest you to study on narcissism and perhaps even speak to a psychologist to help you heal your wounds. I hope you two can fix your relationship but if not I wish you blessing and love❤️

[@onyxlotus7126]

@@preciosaarlisia I have studied up on narcs & I have cut ties with her. Thank you for your input. 😊

[@ralvi-yy2qs]

I don't understand why but also surprised by the info coz it's so much similar and really can't deny

[@stxrrbiea]

☹️ all my parents are abusing and I knew I was a cancer all time I begin crying for days Non-stop I don’t have ppl to open to when I’m heart broken most :(

[@melissaturner8603]

I'm cancer I'm not needy proudly independent in every thing but otherwise your right n I'm far from clingy

[@legendaryTMNICO]

Some cancer people can be very pushy sometimes.

[@lunarbeauty]

My mind is often like a time capsule.

[@davidholland2075]

Some of the cancer I been around are patient the other some cancers I been around were not patient with me some of cancer I ran into are close to family and can be generous and some of them can be patient

[@_REVERIE]

Being a cancer is... Intense... At least in my opinion. We love in a big way, we put up with a lot. But once we hit our limit it can be nuclear and uncompromising...

[@metalfenix]

The pessimistic trait is something that gets me in constant arguments with my close family. They have me as the total negative, even daring to suggest a way to deal if a plan fails gets received by contempt. Of course, that made me withdrawn myself and not even suggest anything. They REALLY hate when I get it right and go "I told you so" mode. Oh, and yeah, I remind them of these things in the future. Oh yeah, I do.

[@t.y.b.1182]

Hmmmm… I am a Cancer Sun / Scorpio moon… so I have never been “clingy” .. I actually NEED to be alone to recoup from people. I am pretty psychic so Im not “pessimistic” as I KNOW.. (good & bad) So can’t really relate to this video at all?! The only part that might come close… I Do and have Cut off people who didn’t deserve my care and love. 😎 And NO.. I’m not sorry about that at all 🤣 Warning: Don’t piss me off - I pinch and sting .. and won’t let go until I have stung repeatedly.. (not too proud of that).. After all Cancers will kick your ass if u hurt someone we love.. and the Scorpio in me.. will never forgive or forget.

[@sidejobsCA]

same placements feel same! 😅

[@caelanpaige3291]

It's really hard to love a cancer for a long time.

[@randoguy5767]

You can love them forever.... it's the liking them that's the problem.

[@XANANAZ]

🤣 🤣 🤣

[@dariakaczmarek6398]

😳😳😳all true

[@earthq3945]

manipulative ppl, crab in the barrel mindset,

[@sarahjones-jf4pr]

The best way to get a cancer out of their funk is to get the hell away from them as they become sulky and manipulative and can be a bloody nuisance.

[@MarkipaineReacts]

Heheh "the same things that make us laugh make us cry" thanks big smoke

[@fr3ddywr0ng31]

So true 1 time a person had said something to me 2 days before and had found something out that he shouldn't have about me and brought it up in front of everyone at work. So the next day he started slacking off before I knew it i had him by his collar rag dolling him and almost lost my job

[@mauvebassetgirl21]

Really glad I watched this video, because it made me way more self-aware. I never related to the stereotypical cancer type: cling-on, introvert, crybaby, homebody. I’m the polar opposite of all those descriptors. But I surprisingly did see a lot of myself in this more in-depth analysis. Even as an independent, extroverted, emotionally restrained (bordering on emotionally repressed tbh), busybody, I have much more in common with the cancer personality than I thought. Definitely have some work to do with these negative traits. 👍🏻

[@tinastaley-haden6174]

I DIDN'T LIKE HEARING IT BUT I THANK YOU ANYWAY!!

[@alexishenon4425]

They also stalk former lovers.

[@avengernemesis7990]

I know ...I have one doing the same

[@lilbih8803]

biased opinion. not everyone is the same. cannot put everyone in a box it is more complex then one perception.

[@MrMuaythai84]

i am a cancerian and this is me 1000%

[@zak1810]

They think that cancers are weak and the only thing they do is cry but deep inside most can beat up most of the signs

[@legendaryTMNICO]

Cancers are the worst tutors and they're not the type of people you should turn to when you need help when you're struggling with you homework. They'll just put you down and berate you if you're struggling with homework.

[@emyyy-]

@@legendaryTMNICO Me, a cancer, Not helping anybody with no homework, cuz I'm 11 and suk at school: 🤓👌

[@shadowsmith1386]

Yall not bout that life stop it lol

[@shadowsmith1386]

@@legendaryTMNICO straight facts I can't stand them

[@gettingupiseverything9165]

I recently had a distance myself from the cancer before I put hands on her as an Aries I can’t do the just straight up lying and manipulative and the passive Aggressive crap

[@XANANAZ]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@XANANAZ]

As a cancerian i am sending this to my Aries fríend this is so lol I know we suck lol

[@MarkipaineReacts]

I'm a cancer but I'm emotionally absent I only show joy lol

[@TheAcrenshaw]

Lioness here, these negative traits are so true but for this Leo; my Cancerian’s positive traits out way the negatives. Plus this Leo is not deterred and it takes more than a Cancerian to take away my optimism.

[@Yui_6472n]

Every cancer I’ve ever dealt with wasn’t a good person

[@preciosaarlisia]

Sadly me too😩

[@brianna2233]

yeah because of toxic people like you who don’t know how to have respect and genuine care for complete strangers. you get what you give to us hun 😌❤️

[@Ash10000]

@@brianna2233 exactly. The person who said that Is probably a Gemini, Aries, libra or Sagittarius.. I hate those signs by the way. Lol

[@brianna2233]

@@Ash10000 me too. im married to an aries. seriously considering leaving.

[@Ash10000]

@David Aini libras are fake people pleasers. They do everything for show.

[@E_L_L_P]

To reassure them every now and then. So on point😆

[@KhalidAfridi1]

They are so emotional so jealous in love. I feel scary of them sometimes.

[@vVolb]

Cancers helps their enemies what a f*cking goddess

[@johnlovesbridge]

They are the zodiac's innate narcissist.

[@essyaraji9092]

I am a cancer

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Virgo here. I work with someone who is a Cancer (who I've liked a little for years) and she doesn't seem to have these traits at work. These don't sound that bad considering I spend most of my time around the 2 most manipulative and controlling signs-Gemini and Aries. They've sucked the life out of me.

[@princesabonita79]

#1 I wasn't aware that we can be manipulative, i'll start to use this to my advantage lol. #2 I was able to "grow" out of my overtly emotional phase. #3 I'm not pessimistic, i'm a realist. #4 I watch a lot of true crime, so yes, i'm very distrustful. #5 I was able to also "grow" out of my clingy stage. The only time i panic when my husband doesnt return a call or text or i can't get a hold of my mom or brother is because i think they got murdered (see #4).

[@natz8384]

I wish I could find a cancer man.. I am a scorpion woman 💗

[@christophercamille3617]

Here

[@jossyj1]

Awe…🥰

[@jessatapar5486]

I dunnow why but im not patient at all. I hate waiting when it comes to practical things.

[@zombiesbride]

Same

[@edgar9540]

Same

[@chavezunseen]

shopping at costco on a busy saturday.....ill rather choose death thank you.

[@peterchan5097]

Manipulation? I guess i can only say not for everyone. Cancers can be very pure hearted, truthful and faithful.

[@gwendolynn7314]

So pretty much run away from them as fast as you can. Lol

[@walkingdairy2816]

This is me && I’m a Taurus ♉️

[@MagmaDrako]

I feel scared on How accurate this is to me

[@travobsolo]

Too accurate.

[@jazlyncandicealay-ay8562]

Me seeing this vid **grabs knife and bat and flipers** **watches vid** **not even an minute later** **destroys tablet**

[@blakecripps9756]

.... I’m not controlling though

[@sana_101]

is it only me or even y'all get pissed at every single thing these days I'm getting irritated by everyone and i feel like i will burst at any moment 🥺

[@CPUControll]

Cancer ♋ here

[@VibesYT-hi]

Not controlling ):(

[@JosephLacy-v1o]

I do see some of this .but I don't manipulate.or at least I don't think I do

[@Emily-neilplays]

This is so true😂

[@misscrystalnicole6897]

I came here because I have a cancer friend , and all she does is wallow in negative. She’s always saying how she has the worst luck and only bad things happen to her. And just always expecting the worst to happen and I tell her to try not saying that out loud . And to think of th e law of attraction. To say “ I am lucky - good things are happening for me , I love my life “ …. But she just continues to be even more negative and refuses to try and look on the bright side. She also thinks she knows everything. And literally she doesn’t. I can’t hang out with her for long because she knows everything about every thing and has all the answers. So therefore I wanna run for the hills. I know that I know nothing- I love to learn from people and hear others views and keep an open mind. Not her tho. Ugh most frustrating thing ever. I try to have patience but she never has one good thing to say. Just how everything bad happens to her and it never gets better. She has so many things to be grateful for. Trust me her life is blessed beyond measure. I find myself jelous . I wish I had half of the things she has been blessed with. Anyway. Rant over. Sorry for repeating myself and I hope you can comprehend my writing lol. Abundance mindset . Growth mindset. Thank for listening

[@gianni7008]

Just broke up with A cancer

[@basedteklu8492]

This is so shocking. I feel like someone is talking about me

[@Honeysbeehive]

I disagree as we grow some of this things go away this is a immature cancer and depends what your moon and fix sign are

[@maxvitionunity]

no , not all wrongs, but not all right. we don't control other people. we care for them to control themselves , like we cancer also like to control ourselves, people tend to think we order them around, when they don't realize we give advice to those who need it. and because their own trait, cost them to only hear thing they wanted from commons thing or commons sense of thing they used to know... we can change mood by people around us. but from your views or other people views. only look us at one person, cost you think we are insecure or moody. but only when different people that we like or dislike. so look like we are insecure. but we care for other that worry for... think of everything to help them right and ask alot like insecure. base on everyone around us.

[@yellowvoidentertainment]

Where’s the surveys and the facts ? I encourage our society to think before opening their mouths. I appreciate you exercising your 2nd amendment.

[@victoryak86]

Cancer here. I can tell you don’t like us! 😟😉

[@lukeconverse6632]

Sure seems that way

[@perrrfectitbuddy3981]

The most stupid of their negativity is refusing to hear proper advice or take even calm criticism. They want to do any stupid thing and expect you not to rebuke them...absolute nonsense !