Never do this after anyone dies in the family | Vedic rules for Death Rituals | Vastu, Spiritual

[@happygirl8189]

My mother got stuffs like winter clothes shoes sandals with price tags as gifts from her elder sister in uk but never ever wore those new stuffs. She kept them.neatly for future use later but then died. She had not worn any of it till her death. Can the daughter keep 1 nightie of her mother which was several times worn by both mother n daughter then washed and folded neatly in z wardrobe before the mother dies? Kindly help and reply back.

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

If wearing clothes awakens your emotions towards that person to a great extent, then you should avoid wearing those clothes. If the dead person had any attachment to those things, then avoid using those things.

[@happygirl8189]

@Healthy Natural Remedies no. These things dnt awaken negative emotions. I feel my mom is near me whenever I see that old winter nightie and feel a sense of security. I have to have something that reminds me of her presence because unfortunately for me right after her death I had nobody to turn to, no relatives to care for me, nobody to console me, I had to do everything alone by myself, even my own tears so crying ddnt really happen. Yes I cried but it was not done so much to remove my pain anguish n be less emotional fragile. 😢 nobody visits n phones me ever for myself it's always to ask me to help out or order me about doing this or that. Nobody ever asks if I had food or slept well or feel sad nobody is there for me. I lost my mom. With her death I lost z angel who truly cared for me.

[@happygirl8189]

So just holding that old yellow nightie abd remembering her smile makes me stay strong amongst all those problems im still facing. I do everything myself manage everything and stopped relying on others since a long time. I dnt text nor phone relatives anymore now. I do everything by myself. I have turned from a lovely sweet adult to a mature grumpy adult with fear n sadness in me and inability to handle anything easily and prone to illnesses easily and always wishing someone would come n tell me everything is OK and I can cry openly n I can sleep a little more n dnt need to cook n can smile n laugh too n I dnt need to be stressed about lack of money. But good persons dnt exist now.

[@happygirl8189]

Kindly help how to handle myself better now and reply back plz 🙏

[@AdityaSharma-pk1gt]

Can i visit other places other than my hometown(assam) .. Basically i want to visit my village(in bihar) for some purpose?

[@lkasturi07]

What if the clothes and stuff was given to you by the person who died later on ??

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

If someone gives you clothes and stuff when he/she is alive, then he/she gives it to you out of his/her happiness; in such a case, the attachment of that person to those things is almost nonexistent. Shubham Bhavatu

[@HelloSohanyt]

My grand father died recently at my home on Tuesday is we have to change the home if not we face severe problems? Or do santhi homaa at home is this real ?

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

Simply perform a Gruh Shanti Puja to cleanse your home of any negativity that may have arisen after a death. This ritual helps restore peace and harmony within the household.

[@HelloSohanyt]

If not ?

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

Sometimes, not performing Gruh Shanti can cause psychological stress for the family members, leading to an increase in negativity in their minds. These rituals help calm your mind and assist in overcoming grief.

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

You can also perform Udaka Shanti Puja

[@HelloSohanyt]

@@HealthyNaturalRemedies we are planning to move another house is this help us

[@DivyaK-zx4tw]

Can couple can get intimate after 3months of husbands mother death in the same house will it effect reply

[@HealthyNaturalRemedies]

Yes, they can