Never Have I Ever (A chat about common craftroom problems)

[@Arielcmr]

Let me just say that if I was playing as a drinking game I would be passing out drunk before the video was even over. Thank you so much for the tips of how you overcome some of these issues. xx

[@ardyth]

LOL! I know exactly what you mean! Thanks for watching!

[@margaretg2097]

I laughed out loud at this Celia, cos that's exactly what I was thinking 😆 🤣

[@kcinca5410]

Celia, I love this sentiment. I feel ya.

[@SandraE_]

Absolutely. I would be stone cold drunk by now.

[@JenniferSKinney]

😂 Yep, same here.

[@robintrevillian1196]

Thanks so much, Ardyth. I have "not done" everything you mentioned. Thank you for sharing - you always have such a kind and compassionate approach. One of the reasons I love your channel. ❤️

[@ardyth]

Haha! I think most of us have 'not done' at least a few! Thanks so much for watching and for your very kind words!

[@juliewurf7506]

Quilling! Years ago I bought some papers and quickly realized they weren't for me - so they sat there. My neighbor at the time was an arts teacher who was having problems finding quilling papers for one of her students. I handed them over (thinking junior grades) but this was a final year student. I was sent pictures of the student's final artwork and it was stunning! Seven years later I still get a warm fuzzy at not heading down the quilling path. If you're not using it -destash!

[@ardyth]

Oh, I love that story - it all worked out and you actually contributed to that student's success! What a great feeling! Thanks so much for watching!

[@judyconstantino7035]

Ardyrh, I was actually laughing out loud throughout this entire video! OMG! Thank you for sharing! I have been so guilty of all the things you mentioned here! Ok, here’s one of mine…I have given away something from my crafting supplies that I realized, after the fact, that I shouldn’t have and bought it again!🥴

[@ardyth]

I've done that! Only once or twice, but still! I'm starting my list for the next video on this topic.....

[@barbaraparker8225]

Thank you for this video. Those of us who have been crafting for years have far too many craft supplies. We need more influencers to make videos to encourage us to use what we have already bought.

[@ardyth]

So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

[@Hash4ever]

You are indespensible to all us cardmakers. So thankful for you and your ideas, skill and heart!

[@ardyth]

That is a lovely thing to say! Thank you so much!

[@susiehopper7005]

This was a fantastic video. I especially love that you have the humility to share the times you have done these things as well. I also employ the 'Wish List" idea. Unless it's something I know I will want to buy right away, I never buy it the first time I see it. I also appreciate your advice that we should give ourselves some grace when we do the things we hope not to. The first Never Have I Ever that comes to mind for me is buying a replacement for something before you use it. For me, it is usually a paper pad. If I have one that I particularly like and know I will use, I sometimes buy an extra. But, often times, by the time I've used the first pad for a while, I'm ready to move on and my "extra" sits in the bin unused.

[@ardyth]

I've done that! lol! Still do sometimes with specialty cardstock! (can't remember why I thought I needed Distress Heavy Stock in Black, either). Thanks so much for watching!

[@brendaelainewaddell1682]

Hi Ardyth. Oh boy oh boy... so many I am guilty of but perhaps the most embarrassing is buying something again because I forgot I already had it ... and sadly I don't have any crafty friends to pass things to. Oh well, I am learning to be a little more careful. Great video and very thought provoking. Thanks so much. 😊🇨🇦

[@ardyth]

I think many of us have been there! Thanks so much for watching!

[@sherylosullivan9619]

Yep, I’ve done that more than once! How could I possibly order the same colour Nuvo Drops when there are so many colours from choose from? But I’ve done it twice.

[@ardyth]

@@sherylosullivan9619 haha! I'm sure it's because you just really liked those colours. Hopefully you'll use them up!

[@sherylosullivan9619]

@@ardyth people have been generous in giving me things, so I gave them away. I think it would take a loooong time to use up a whole bottle of Nuvo Drops. Especially as I don’t use them a lot.

[@olivemaycards]

I have also set some things in the “not for me, thanks” category because they’re too messy, too plasticky, unreliable, too much work, or not really my style. I’m still figuring out what I enjoy most so I do forgive myself for buying things I no longer love or things I didn’t need. Now I just need to get better about letting things go - there’s always that sense that I’ll find a way to use a stamp or die, but I’d rather spend my time on and give space to things I really love.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@donnacheatle1408]

I hate to admit it, but I'm guilty of some of these too. One thing I'm making myself do this year as part of my New Year resolutions is wait. When I first think I want to order something, or buy something, I make myself wait at least 2 weeks before I can buy it. In that 2 weeks I come up with as many projects and ideas as I can to use whatever it is I want to buy. The hardest part isn't the waiting, it's the self honesty required to admit whether I will actually do those projects or not. If after 2 weeks I've admitted I probably won't get to those projects, no purchase. If I do go through with the purchase I've already got a list of projects I'm excited about and jump right into them!

[@ardyth]

That's a great idea! Thanks for sharing that with us! Thanks so much for watching!

[@mrsmcphate]

This IS a great idea! You have some impressive self-control! LOL!

[@LancashireLass]

Oh dear. How about adding something you don't really need to your cart just so you can get free shipping? Spend another 20 pounds to save three pounds fifty, makes perfect sense! I try to maintain a wish list, but it's like some kind of horrendous logic puzzle with things being constantly in and out of stock at different stores. 😆

[@ardyth]

That's exactly what I meant by the first point - and you're so right about the out of stock issues! lol! I'm so glad I'm not alone! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kittiekraft]

Ardyth, your video sure hit home for me. After years of having to purchase the next new trend products I found I didn't enjoy many of the items and felt like I had wasted my time and money. I finally gave myself permission to stick with products and techniques that I love and bring me personal creative joy. Even if it may appear to others that I am stuck in my own little creative box. XOXO

[@ardyth]

Haha! I know what you mean, Kittie! Your style is unmistakable and always beautiful! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

I don’t think you give yourself credit for your efforts. If you’re disenchanted with some of your end results, maybe try swapping a few goodies with some other crafty friends?

[@margaretg2097]

I have buyer's remorse over all the money I spent on loads of cheap dies when i first started card making just to get a stash going. I'm now spending more on better quality ones but still making mistakes. Thanks for the great tips, Ardyth 🦋

[@ardyth]

I think we all learn some of these lessons the hard way - don't be hard on yourself - we're all trying to improve over time! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

If the reason for your buyer’s remorse is that the cheaper dies don’t cut well for you, try out the VINYL SHEET HACK noted here on Y. T. by SHARON LASKA. Her hack. also does a F A B U L O U S JOB of keeping your cutting plates smooth. and FLAT!!

[@mrsmcphate]

This is a fantastic video! You make some excellent points. I have bought entire sets, stamps and dies, just to get the one flamingo in the set!!! I don't even have that many people to send a flamingo card to! However, to my credit, I did make some adorable flamingo Halloween cards!! TFS!

[@ardyth]

LOL! Sounds like we have a lot in common! Thanks so much for watching!

[@anntaft7808]

I have done most of these! This year I am refraining from trying new techniques that require the purchase of more supplies. I am concentrating on using up my huge store of supplies. I am limiting my purchases to refilling things that I have run out of and occasionally an additional embossing folder or die if it will help me use the supplies to better advantage. Wanted supplies go on a list. Often I talk myself out of buying them. Totally avoiding expensive sets of stamps,or dies that are expensive. I ask myself “will I want to make enough of these to make the cost reasonable.” Often the answer is no.

[@ardyth]

That's a great approach! Thanks so much for watching!

[@karend.3171]

I can so relate to sooo many things you mentioned. I also skip the hot foiling but have bought sets for one of the sentiments!!

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for stopping by, Karen!

[@dawnandtimdumm2633]

I have done all this! Your tips are great! I keep an art journal to play with my supplies and manage the guilt😄

[@ardyth]

That's a great tip! Thanks so much for watching!

[@olivia8979]

I think I have truly done all those things. Some I see as a big problem and some I am ok with. To solve most of it, I started off the year with a "parking lot" spreadsheet for crafty products I wanted. I would write down what I want, why I want it, and why I shouldn't buy it, what I can do instead, etc. Then I had to wait a day. January was fabulous. I put a lot of items in the parking lot, waited a day, and ended up buying almost nothing. But it all fell apart in February. I have re-implemented the parking lot again in March. (for some reason if I feel like I have gone off track mid month I wait until the next month to try to correct that. That extends to other areas of my life too) For CP inks ... I have the full set of full-sized inkpads for Party and almost the full set of minis for Spa. I kind of justify it because I only have Distress (I have never felt compelled to get them all) and CP. It is super helpful to have them all and I frequently do want to use the light medium and darks of different colors. I do hear you that I could still achieve the same results by combining colors or maybe double stamping. But I still don't regret it. But I am not too bad in this area for other craft supplies. I also need to be careful about being too brand loyal. There are a few brands that I especially love (CP, Taylored Expressions. Concord & 9th). I want to buy every new release by default because that is "my brand." I am also working on that.

[@CraftRoulette]

Never have I ever not liked your videos.

[@ardyth]

You're the best!

[@CraftRoulette]

@@ardyth. maybe but we're still trying to figure out the best at what? tee hee

[@ardyth]

@@CraftRoulette You're certainly the best at being incredibly kind and supportive and that's just a start! 🥰

[@bethweickel2145]

After 3 years of starting my stamping hobby obsession I found to my dismay duplicates of the same dies and stamp sets. Before too much judgement, I moved rummaging through boxes to an actual craft room instead of the kitchen counter. I am still at a point to focus on building dies and refill bottles. Love you how genuine, kind, brilliant of an artist you are. Love your videos! Please keep sharing!!!!❤❤❤

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching and leaving this very kind comment!

[@kkrolf2782]

Lucky you, Girl!! I’m still crafting on my kitchen counter! The GOOD part of that is I H A V E to put everything back where it has a home (albeit, a temporary one!) before making a meal! That way, at LEAST the regularly used items I have are also things I actually REMEMBER that I own!!! 🤣 😂. 🤭 😉👍‼️

[@elizstewart3316]

Great video! I can so relate. I, too, have chosen to pass on hot foiling. It is expensive. If I really want a bit of foil, I have bought the pre foiled sentiment die cuts. I still love heat embossing... and it suffices for me. I have been de-stashing for the last few months in order to redo my craft room. Right now, I know that I have more than enough supplies, and am challenging myself to buy nothing new this year (except core inks, paper or envelopes that I might run out of). Thanks for this happy reminder that it is good to laugh at ourselves and our hobby every once in awhile.

[@ardyth]

Yes, it definitely helps to have a sense of humour! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@janedgcomb4348]

oh gosh, i so admire your honesty! i am sure everyone can identify with one or more of your "confessions" - i can! thank you, ardyth, for sharing with us.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@suecooley4672]

I can really relate to this! No more mystery boxes for me. I have so many stamps and dies from them that I will never use.

[@ardyth]

That's a good one - I actually sell my destash boxes as mystery boxes, just because it's easier for me, but I understand that people may end up with stuff they won't use. Thanks so much for watching!

[@sheriwitthoft5895]

Wow Ardyth such an empowering video- thank you

[@barbaraarmstrong4295]

So much wisdom…. I truly hate the push to buy something that is being ‘retired’

[@ardyth]

There's often good bargains there, but only if you really love the product, and don't care that it won't be available anymore. Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

THAT is why I watch people like Ardyth, and Christine Stokes, and a few others, who don’t promote specific craft products companies as their main reason for being on Y.T.

[@debhalld9794]

This is your best ever video! Hits home big time! I've start a "no buy, use what I have" time in my cardmaking life. 👍

[@ardyth]

Wow! That's high praise! Thanks so much for watching!

[@hansibrittain5129]

This hits way too close to home! My way of dealing with the "Oh my gosh I just have to have that"! feeling which usually occurs after seeing a video is to park it on a private Pinterest board called "I want!" and revisit it after a week. The Penny Black Your Day die and Ellen Hutson Essential squares and rectangles made the cut. Real time savers and worth it. Thank you for introducing those. I have the circles in the queue...

[@olivemaycards]

I used to put it on a Pinterest board that I hardly ever looked at. Clicking on it to save felt a bit like shopping, but most of the time I never noticed that it never arrived. When I would look at the board some things I’d forgotten would bug me again but most I could hardly remember wanting.

[@ardyth]

Love these tips for using PInterest in this way! Thanks so much for watching!

[@susanknight183]

I am always interested in buying secondhand craft items as I run craft sessions for children, adults with leaning disabilities, and people in my local nursing home. I often need duplicates, if we are all doing the same task. Your video was very helpful. My worst habit is going to craft shows & buying from every stall !!

[@ardyth]

LOL! I think that the people in the stalls truly appreciate your support, but I know what you mean! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

Do you have a website? Or, perhaps the site of one of the groups you work with? The reason I ask is that I have access to - at this time - the stash of a former Stampin’Up gal. She has a 89” “tower” of wood mounted stamps in a 16” x 24” footprint. In other words, A LOT!! I’m sure there are SOME multiples, as she, too, would have to put on classes from time to time. If I can get a feel for what you do, I may be able to help contribute to your avocation. (Wood block MAY be prohibitively expensive to ship, but we can talk about that.). If you see this, let me know what you think.

[@nancyjenkins3411]

You are a mind reader!! I’ve done every one of these. I’m learning, though, and I love your suggestions and wisdom. I bought tons of products last Black Friday. I am still working on organizing, etc. Never again will I make purchases that big from so many companies in the same week!!!🤪

[@mzp6620]

I did the same! It was great deals but a ridiculous amount of stuff....which I still haven't used.

[@ardyth]

Just think of all the fun creating you have ahead of you! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

(( Uh-huh … of course, “Never Again!!”. 🤷🏼‍♀️ 🤦 🤭👍‼️. ))

[@GramTRN]

I have learned so much about myself and my cardmaking from this video. Thanks! I have purchased duplicates of unused items. Now I will keep new things on my desk to use next. I also have taken classes from experienced teachers at camps and crops and they have helped me see that I prefer classic lines andsymetry.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@lacieroot]

You have hit it completely on the head. I have realized through the years I don’t need it all to do what I love. But maybe it was a lot of years 😂.

[@ardyth]

LOL! For me, too! And I'm still learning! Thanks so much for watching!

[@JoanOrloffDK]

😅 when starting card making, I wanted it all, but now I know what I love to create with ❤️ thanks for sharing and happy crafting Hugs xx

[@ardyth]

I think many of us were the same! I know I was! Thanks so much for watching!

[@jelee5240]

Absolutely brilliant advice. Thanks.

[@ardyth]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks so much for watching!

[@arlenepowders4989]

That video hit home a bunch of times…you helped me feel so much better about myself…thank you!,

[@ardyth]

Haha! I think a lot of us here are in the same boat! Thanks so much for watching!

[@laurabush9812]

Buying stuff because it’s a great deal is one I fall for, and too often it just takes up space and adds to the overwhelm when I’m looking for something to use. But it was only $3! But if I don’t love it, it’s really not worth the space on my shelf or in my head it takes up. Like you, I’ve nixed entire categories, and it’s rather a relief. Sometimes I also go through and unsubscribe from company newsletters, too. What I don’t see, I don’t feel that urge to buy! Thanks for a thoughtful chat!

[@ardyth]

That is a hard lesson, isn't it? A bargain isn't a bargain if you're not going to use it. I'm still working on that! Thanks so much for watching!

[@MargaritaMaven]

PREACH! Great video.

[@ardyth]

Haha! Thanks for watching!

[@lauracatesduncan7498]

EXCELLENT rationale and advice!

[@ardyth]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks so much for watching!

[@margaretcapill3543]

Well I thought it was just me!! Many a time I've bought supplies after seeing a video, by the time they arrive I've forgotten why I ordered them! I'm now trying to stop and think before I buy. Thanks for the video, and your honesty.

[@ardyth]

I think we're seeing that many of us are in the same boat! Thanks so much for watching!

[@Sylvia.Torres]

All of these definitely resonate with me and I’ve only been crafting about 1.5 yrs! I love the pre-decision strategy!! Never have I ever organized and reorganized and reorganized my growing stash.😆 I feel like I need to set some limits and rules for how I add to my stash. Maybe it’s donate supplies every time I want new ones. Thank you Ardyth!! ❤

[@ardyth]

Wow, you're really binging! Thank you so much!

[@Sylvia.Torres]

@@ardyth Yes! I love your videos!! 🥰 Thank you for all the awesome content!

[@sueb1828]

Well, you got me when you spoke about ‘topping’ off an order because of the shipping. I’ve taken a different attitude this year on buying my craft supplies. I am more about using what I have. TFS.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@roxanneklinger3828]

WOW is this me. I placed an order and shipping is so expensive that I peruse other items, and before you know it I have a whole store in my cart. Yup! That's me. Then I have to go through my cart and have a second look and begin deleting items from my cart that I can get along without or don't really need. It's almost like an addiction. And yes I have bought things I have then regretted buying, and I have received an order and then was unable to remember what I had planned on using it for. ( not to hard with the slowness of deliveries and shipping these days, sorry USPS) 😁 Just loved this video. Made me feel a little less ditzy and just more of a normal human being again.

[@ardyth]

You are very definitely normal - from what I can tell from the comments, we're pretty much all doing all these things! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@joycewickman3249]

Fun video! It made me think of each experience you talked about and how I DID it, too. 😂

[@ardyth]

Oh, based on the comments, I think we're in very good company! lol! Thanks for watching!

[@lindavinson1273]

Hmmm, I have done all of these! I am getting better about not buying the same things (even if they are different in a way - like butterflies). I don’t watch hot-foiling videos either. I don’t even have the old one! Great video, Ardyth. 🥰

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@amberhoy9697]

Never have I ever done any of those things!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was looking for a specific item I had ordered from SSS so browsed through my past few orders. So many things that I totally don't remember buying and definitely don't know why🤷 Next thing is, where did I put them! 😉😳 So glad to know we are all the same when it comes to craft supplies. 😁

[@ardyth]

Yes, we're definitely in good company, based on all the comments! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kellysikes5103]

You got me on every one!😂

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@jackiejohnson7158]

It’s so hard NOT to look at the snowflake dies because they are so pretty 😂 I have many and did notice last year that I tried to veer away from single die sets. Didn’t stop me from getting a kit though 😂 love the idea of using stencils or stamps when they first arrive. I recently got the Fancy Star builder from Altenew and Patchwork tiles. Thanks Ardyth!

[@ardyth]

OMG, was it the WaffleFlower kit - I WANTED that snowflake! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@jackiejohnson7158]

@@ardyth hahaha no it was SSS

[@brianbean3282]

Trish here, great video! I am so guilty of most of the things you mentioned. Over the past couple of years, I have had to rebuild my craft room, due to a house fire; so needless to say I went a little nuts with my purchases. After firmly establishing that I’m not just a card crafter, I’ve had to reorganize my new room (because it’s way too small) several times. I have been better about not needing everything because of the desire to stay on trend. I’m now more of a believer in your LIMES technique, and in use what you have philosophy. The thing I’m most guilty of not doing, is the big purge. I’m starting the process but it’s slow going. Cheers!😊

[@ardyth]

Hi Trish! Thanks so much for watching!

[@bernicejanssen6540]

I have also avoided both the foiling craze and using texture pastes. I do the same as you; I don't watch any of the videos that showcase either one of these. The other thing I do is immediately delete any emails I receive regarding sales in specific companies. That way I don't see what I don't really need. I have been guilty in the past of trying to top off my purchase with the amount I need in order to get free shipping! I shop only in Canadian companies if possible and a lot of that is online. Now if the website doesn't have most of my desired products and I have to scramble to get enough for shipping, I don't do it. Right now, I am only purchasing things like adhesives because if I don't have it in my stash already, I don't need to make it. I am challenging myself to use scraps and existing materials in my craft room. When those are down substantially, I will purchase a paper kit that I really like and use it right away, mostly for the scrapbooking that I also do. I use it for that until its gone, so often I have a matching and unified scrapbook for the whole year. It works great! Also I will try to only watch technique videos, not kit openings, craft hauls and videos that require specific products from specific companies.

[@ardyth]

Wow! Sounds like you've really figured it out - well done! I'm still working on some of my triggers and 'bad' behaviours, and you've got some great suggestions here! Thanks so much for watching!

[@smply4you]

Thanks for those. I totally have been guilty of buying just because I want to get free postage or just impulse bought. But no more! 🤣🤣🤣

[@ardyth]

I think we've all been there! Thanks so much for watching!

[@valdaritter8159]

My goal this year is to use an item that I haven't used yet each month. I am still recovering with PT and I made my granddaughter a card with 1 hand and occasionally 2 fingers (LOL)... can't wait to get back to making cards...BTY Enya loved her card.

[@ardyth]

That sounds like a great goal - glad you're on your way to recovery but still crafting! You are an inspiration! Thanks for watching!

[@susieramick7202]

Yep, I am guilty on all accounts. Destashing as we speak. Thanks Ardyth I feel less guilty.

[@ardyth]

LOL! I think we're in good company here! Thanks for watching!

[@milliecookie147]

Thank you, Ardyth. I love all your tips! I can totally identify with all in this video! Trying to be more selective when it comes to purchasing products but having issues when it comes to using them.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@victoriagardner5144]

Very good advice! I’m with you on almost everything you said. However I do get FOMO. Sometimes when I see a video with a beautiful card I find myself buying the supplies before I know it! Working on that. 😊

[@ardyth]

I think we are in very good company on these issues - I definitely get FOMO as well - hopefully less often than the old days! Thanks so much for watching!

[@gailowens1925]

Great video!! I’m always after the brand new things! And I’ve probably been guilty of all the categories you shared!❤😅 I want to ad this topic: buying two of the same item at separate times! Arrggh! Usually because I didn’t remember that I already purchased something that hasn’t yet arrived !!😬🥴

[@ardyth]

I've done that! For exactly the same reason! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@melissasilvestre2442]

Never have I ever passed up the opportunity to buy birthday stamps or dies. They are now going on my “You have enough” list. I never have luck with embossing sentiments so I bought a glimmer machine (at a deep discount) to foil sentiments. So far I haven’t had big problems with foiling - and I’ve limited my foil plates to sentiments only - and all purchased on sale. I keep a wish list too. It definitely helps curb the impulse purchases. It also helps when I’m at that “free shipping so I might as well buy all the things” space. Only things that have been on the wish list for at least 6 months can be added to the cart

[@ardyth]

Haha! Birthday word dies are on my 'enough' list, too! Thanks so much for watching and sharing your tips!

[@andrewandberthapilgrim999]

Thanks for sharing Ardyth. The ultimate for me is topping up when just adding one more item to my cart will result in the same spend but shipping would be free. Oh goodness! Casing the entire online store for that perfect $9.99 item 😅. I could waste hours!

[@ardyth]

Haha! I've been there! Thanks for watching!

[@thepeddler9226]

Wow, I like this game. 1. No more Christmas anything. No more shaker stuff until depleted. I like the wishlist with links idea. 2. No hot foil. No Cricut. No alcohol ink techniques. Stenciling on hold for now. 3. I love the Distress Inks minis and I use them. If there are dies that go with the stamps I buy them, except for sentiments. 4. I like having orders so I make duplicates for me. If I really love some paper I have I decorate my notebooks with it so it stays with me. 5. I bought a set of big containers of Wow! Embossing powders from Paper Wishes and I’m not using them. 6. I have a notebook where I keep track of projects I want to do and what I need to do them. 7. Not buying the whole thing, but more like looking everywhere for IT. I think I would add, as a Canadians, to stick to those websites that gives you more for your money (shipping fees, etc.). On a side note, I made jellyfish with the top of my tulip stamps and dies: I was really proud of those cards. LOL. Thanks for the list Ardyth! - Nicole

[@ardyth]

Yeah, Christmas should be on my 'enough already' list. Love the tip about decorating notebooks with your papers! And using tulips to make jellyfish is genius! That's a great way to get more from your supplies! Thanks so much for watching!

[@MsShanarun]

Ha ha... That was a fun video!

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@nicolalederer9517]

Hi Ardyth, No.1 - guilty, absolutely! Guess it gets even worse with the extra postage we pay out side of the US 🤪. I, too, try to be better but I do not have your organisation and commitment level as you - your system is amazing! I HAVE made the decision against hot foil (price and environment reasons) and the Cricut and find it easy to stick by it. Love your videos but creative / inspiring and these type of conversational ones. Thank you for making them! Kind regards from Germany, Nicola

[@ardyth]

Yes, being outside the US means more shipping costs and more time waiting! Thanks so much for watching!

[@camcas727]

This made me LOL - a really good video 😂

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@ginnettemcpake5884]

I bulk my basket just to reach the free shipping and end up with items I use once if at all but justify it because I didn't have to pay shipping lol

[@ardyth]

LOL! Me too (and a few others here, I think!) I'm glad we can laugh about it! Thanks so much for watching!

[@bevodaniel3384]

Never have I ever bought the same stamp set or die set twice! Or tool, or (insert item).😂 I really need to learn ever note.

[@ardyth]

Haha! I've done that! Evernote definitely helps (I have a couple of videos about how I use it)! Thanks for watching!

[@barbarahill6365]

I bought the book binding system, and have never used it-I’ve taken little books to copy places and had them bound! Stamping, I bought some stamps and dies from a KZbin artist and haven’t used 1 of her products!

[@ardyth]

I think we've all done things like this - for me, I have to learn that I can like (or even love) something without having to have it myself! lol! Thanks for watching!

[@racheljolley26352]

Honest, upfront video and so helpful too, thank you. I have at long last found a good organisational system for my dies, and now I’m using them more. Am working on organising my stencils next, so that I can get to use them more too.😊

[@ardyth]

I think good organization (and that means what works for you, not necessarily everyone else) really makes a difference in how creatively we can use our tools! Thanks so much for watching!

[@suelanham5125]

I have decided not to buy copies! They are too expensive and I love colored pencils, so why bother, right? So why did I buy a set of slightly less expensive markers? I’m not crazy about them and think I actually get better results from my colored pencils. So, you are right, don’t even start spending money on something expensive just because a lot of crafters use it. Ditto for foiling- I can’t afford to go down that rabbit hole so I have vowed to not buy any foiling supplies at all. This was a Great video. It helps me forgive myself for my spending errors. Thanks!

[@ardyth]

Agreed - if you prefer colored pencils - stick with it. Glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks so much for watching!

[@jane-ellenweidanz9236]

I have full set syndrome….and have hoarder fancy paper I bought in 2006ish. Yeah I know 17 years but I only have one piece. And it is so pretty..😂

[@jane-ellenweidanz9236]

Oh and I’ve never counted the number of stamps and dies I have nor the number I have never used.

[@ardyth]

I think there's a lot of people here in the same boat! lol! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

@@jane-ellenweidanz9236 A crafter here on y.t. named Christine Stokes managed to pull off a “30 DAY ADVENT CALENDAR” -kind of marathon crafting series this last December (2023). I most certainly would NOT ADVOCATE T H A T kind of crafting, but, M A Y B E, try packaging up a Die plus some bits and scraps in an envelope, and challenge yourself to, say, 4 times a year pulling out one of those envelopes and crafting something from what’s inside? OR … If you have a crafty friend, SWAP envelopes with them as a challenge!?!

[@stellaolejar9007]

Ardyth what a great video. You are definitely a stronger person than I when it comes to these crafty decisions. Like you I definitely don't need another Snowflake die but do I turn the page (screen) no I do not. Thank you for your insights into these crafty decisions. Enjoy your weekend.

[@ardyth]

Not stronger. Maybe more practice. And I definitely still have my weak moments! Thanks so much for watching!

[@bethjackson8727]

I, like you, have I illuminated certain categories. I will not glimmer foil categories. I also don’t like clean up po❤r lasted so even thought I bought a few they’re kept in my bottom drawer! I often forget splatter and gems are not preglued.

[@bethjackson8727]

Poor texting. Sorry. I don’t like cleaning up paste after playing

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching !

[@cmayne1067]

Ardyth, what a timely video, as I'm going through the process of purging carft supplies, many of which are the result of never-have-I-evers you've mentioned. Too many patterned paper pads, poor quality cardstock, stamps/dies sitting idle...the list goes on. Like you, I have way too many copics/pencils for the amount of colouring I'm doing (or rather, ot doing), too many stamp/die combos that no longer 'speak' to me, etc. etc. I've also decided not to go with hot foiling, so that's a bonus. Instead, I'm now all over dies for sewing with felt! I figure that as my niece and nephew are getting older, cutesy cards won't cut it any more. A cute few bunny, or Easter egg, or rainbow might though. Besides, I like stitching! Anyway...love your video! Another 'got me thinking' gem! hugs~carol

[@ardyth]

That's exactly what I'm talking about - focus on the things you really love! Thanks so much for stopping by, Carol!

[@catcar8212]

I've learned a lot from this and many of your other videos Ardyth. I only have Catherine Pooler Party mini ink pads, which I love. These being the first quality ink pads I ever purchased, I wasn't aware at the time that most of the pads were too dry when they arrived. Now, facing a huge expense to buy reinkers I decided to think on the decision. I mostly grab pinks, purples, tealy greens and blues. On a lark, I decided to buy my fave 7 color ink refills, but from another brand! This way I could try these colors, for under $30. I will eventually reduce my current ink pad number drastically. Had I known that I would mainly reach for these few color families, I would have never purchased 32 color ink pads. Going forward, knowing I can be happy with just a handful of colors and saving $150 on reinkers I don't really need, I feel this aligns with my tight budget. Lesson learned!!🌷🌷

[@ardyth]

That sounds very wise! I was thinking about you today - made a card with that die you so generously sent me - I'll be posting it here soon! Thanks for watching!

[@mellyj3874]

Some great tips I will be doing as I have suffered from fomo & full set syndrome and I have ended up with loads of stuff I never use and wonder why I wanted it in the first place!

[@ardyth]

I think many of us are in the same boat! Thanks so much for watching!

[@KimberlyInSoCal310]

What a great video, Ardyth! Wow, I feel seen and a little called out! I've done pretty much everything on this list and I gotta tell ya, full set syndrome with inks is COSTLY. You buy ALL the ink pads, then you need to get ALL the reinkers! Here are a couple of mine -- Never have I ever: forgot I had a particular craft supply and repurchased it, not once or twice, but THREE times! Yes, I have duplicates of several stamps and die sets (I must *really* have liked them!), and I actually forgot I had a particular punch and purchased THREE of them! Punches can be expensive! And another one -- Never have I ever: fallen in love with a retired stamp or die set and paid *stupid money* on the secondary market for it! I have a bunch of long retired Sizzix dies by a particular designer, and many of them I paid what their original retail price was, or got a great deal and paid less on the secondary market, but they suddenly have become very expensive and several of them I've paid close to $100 for (which is 4 times their original price!) and about 6 or 8 of them I could not find in the U.S. and sent away to *South Africa* for them! The shipping was pretty insane, but I couldn't find them anywhere else. Honestly, had I known this craft was so expensive I would never have gotten into it!

[@ardyth]

I have done both of those things, too! lol! I don't think it's stupid money if you truly love it, but I know what you mean! Thanks to much for watching!

[@lavedapeterlin3252]

I really enjoyed this video. I have made some decisions not to invest in certain areas of crafting as well. Sometimes I do feel FOMO but mostly I justify buying more of the things I really like! Thanks for the great content, always enjoy your videos.

[@ardyth]

That's a great way to look at it! Thanks so much for watching!

[@cathymorris8072]

Wow, Super helpful video and all the comments are either helpful or I laughed out loud!! I have wish lists as well but they are on small bits of paper all over the house! Just yesterday I collected & went through a PILE of them. I was so pleased that I didn't need to purchase 95% them for multiple reasons that you outlined in your video. ONE of the reasons I have things I shouldn't have purchased is that it wasn't what I expected. An example is a die set of scalloped circles. I was thinking I'd get a circle with a fancy edge. NOPE it's a plain circle and a scalloped circle frame. I am trying to research better how a stamp or die will actually work/look now. Doing the research slows purchased as well. Thanks for the helpful suggestions!

[@ardyth]

I've had a few surprises like that over the years, too! Great tip about doing research! Thanks so much for watching!

[@knitty781]

Oof, never have I ever is a tough game. I bought a 20 lb. set of rubber stamps to get a few stamps for my knitting journal. I'm planning on going through them and choosing the ones I want. Pass the rest on to others. I am a fiber artist - enjoy knitting, sewing, and doing some paper crafts like journaling and book binding. Just this past summer I bought 2 yards of the same fabric. In other words, I now have 6 yards of that fabric because I purchased it twice after the first time. Obviously, I really like it. And I have so many other crafting items, too. I used to have a Girl Scout troop and obtained a lot of craft items then, I am using them up slowly but surely. Between the grandsons, the 4H club, and doing Make & Take for our county fair, I am using up lots of large quantities of craft supplies.

[@ardyth]

Wow! You are a super-multi-talented crafter - I would have trouble keeping track if I had more than one area I'm collecting stuff in! Thanks so much for watching!

[@dianelikestosew]

I don't go out to eat. I don't get my nails done. I shop Good Will frequently for my clothes. The only thing really spend money on is my health. So buying card craft supplies is what I do for fun. Even if I don't use it, it was enjoyable buying it.😃

[@ardyth]

I love that attitude! Anything that is working for you is the right thing! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

Hmmm … Check with your tax person. Maybe you can write off some of your crafting expenses as MENTAL. HEALTH. DEDUCTIBLES?? 🤔 🤦 🤭 ‼️

[@sandrashaw8343]

Thank you so much. I have a fight with myself all the time as I have full set syndrome and I know I won't use all of them, copic is an example, I had to have them all and I have not used most of them! 😰 X

[@ardyth]

That was my first real experience with full-set-syndrome and then realizing I didn't need them all. We're always learning (at least I hope so! lol!) Thanks so much for watching!

[@kathleendippner1757]

When I got back into cardmaking, I bought a lot of products I saw in videos. What I bought and don't use - foiling, pastes, bling, washi tape, flower shaping. Those items are my buyers remorse. My only full set is the CP minis. I never bought anything because of FOMO, probably because I have a small craft area. I usually don't buy something for 1 or 2 pieces as I need the whole set to be useable. I think craft storage is another topic. There are things that I have purchased based on others recommendations that worked and others that didn't work for me. Great video.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching - I think craft storage is definitely a personal style thing - I too have bought things that worked and didn't work!

[@dizzinese]

Im really enjoying this series you are doing with saying no and using what you have. There's alot of crafters out there that do the opposite. It doesn't make those of us who just can't afford to keep up feel very good. But you have done a great job of showing us how not to get caught up in all the hype. I definitely have full set syndrome, but I have always had it. I think it goes with having OCD and that doesn't help. My problem was originally that I didn't have much of anything since 2004. So for 2 years I worked on getting so many things I truly didn't have and needed for a well stocked room. But, I did just buy what someone else used to make a great card and ended up with things that I'll never use. But now I am discovering more of who I am and what really speaks to me. Like I don't have any sea or beach items. A friend of mine and my parents live in Florida, so I could justify it, but it's not my thing other than a cool seahorse or something. So I just don't look at it. Same with alcohol inks. That technique is my all time favorite, but I have too many things sitting around after a resupply to buy something else and no time to use any of it. So, I don't watch much of it and never look at the deals. I do have wishlists everywhere and can't even remember all the places between cards and nail polish! LOL So, as long as it's not in my cart, I'm ok. But I need to crack down alot harder. There's always something I want. Again, I love these videos and they are needed in this industry. With new releases every month from most companies, you can get into trouble quick not realizing how much you ordered. I've done it! So, keep up these using what we have and think about it first videos. I just used a coverplate die in a new way today and it's new. I only made one card with it and I thought of another way to use it and started it today. That is a great feeling! Thanks Ardyth.

[@ardyth]

You raise some good points here - I definitely think there's many of us who want to be able to get more out of what we have. It's all a balance - we want the stores to stay in business of course, but we also want to be responsible and do what's right for us as far as having what we need to be creative. Thanks for watching, Denise!

[@dizzinese]

@@ardyth I honestly have no fear that the stores will stay in business. Once ppl find the style they like they’ll stay. And the small stores have fantastic customer service! Thank you Ardyth!💐

[@IRC1026]

Wonderful video. Definitely VERY relatable. Thank you...

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@shellyrulli5787]

Very beneficial video! I've bought so many inks over the years and most I don't use especially since I've "moved on" to oxides. Lol!

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@craftcreek4624]

Hi Ardith, never have I ever bought the ink set. I’ve only bought the individual ink and worked with it first. However, I am getting close to 50 of the 68 distress colors!

[@ardyth]

Oh wow! Good for you! Thanks so much for watching!

[@bernadetrodakowski3786]

So far in 2023 I've been able to "X" out looking at/purchasing the things I have many of. Your example: snowflake dies. Me: bird stamps/dies. And this morning - ba-BLAM, one of my fave companies is releasing a new bird/nest die set... oh, I want-I want- I want- I want... The products totally took me by surprise in the video. They look so fun and sweet! OK willpower, its only March - don't fail me now!

[@ardyth]

LOL! Been there. I like to try to figure out if it's the look of the card vs the actual products. Sometimes (but not always) I can get a close-enough look with what I have. Good luck with your will power! lol! Thanks for watching!

[@michelegourd5742]

Ardyth, everything you talked about I have done also!! Thanks so much for sharing!! It helps to know that I am not the only who feels like like this!!

[@ardyth]

LOL! I think we're in good company - these topics seem to resonate! Thanks so much for watching!

[@teresasanner-fecto3690]

Oh gosh Ardyth... get out of my head! I have totally done all of these things and I actually am working on changing some of them. You're a big help... like my crafty therapist!

[@ardyth]

LOL! I think we're all in each other's heads on many of these issues !Thanks so much for watching!

[@susanjohnson318]

As nice as the foiling can look, I have not bought a foiling machine and will not. I have too many other techniques and projects. You inspired me on the gel press but I bought water colors in tubes on sale. I, like you used to, have a fear of acrylic paints. One of my goals (after specific cards and things for occasions) is do break them out and do it. You have inspired me on it!!

[@ardyth]

I'm interested to hear/see your results with watercolours - I'm not sure I've seen anyone use them, but thinking about it, I'm sure you'll get beautiful results!Thanks so much for watching!

[@wendihaikugrl2651]

Never have I ever bought a round-about version of something to avoid the real thing. I too won’t get into foiling…but it’s so pretty, so I got a bunch of rolls of cold foil and tried with glue, double stick tape, etc and no luck, just a bunch of rolls of unused foil in a box, a mess and some aggravation…but I still won’t buy a hot foil machine and a new die cut machine to go with it 😉

[@ardyth]

@@wendihaikugrl2651 oh that's a good one! I've done that one too - I'll add it to my list for a future video on this topic!

[@denisecurrie4555]

This was great. Thank you so much. Mine is never have I ever bought the same set twice. I try to keep my inventory list updated but if I get behind I forget I bought it and buy it again. So frustrating. Luckily I have a couple of craft friends I can share with.

[@ardyth]

Oh, I've done that one too! Thanks so much for watching!

[@terrymcgreevy939]

I love that magnetic board behind you. What a great idea.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much! It's really handy! And thanks for watching!

[@phyllisfreese8005]

I'm guilty of all of these, but doing much better. We moved 3 years ago and I purged so much that I now keep a wish list and buy when on sale. Sometimes I find I don't really want some of the items on my wish list. I made an expensive purchase on HSN Craft Day that I still regret, so I only watch a few of my favorite crafters to see what's new, but seldom buy anything. I'm a work in progress.

[@ardyth]

I think it sounds like you're progressing well! Good for you! Thanks so much for watching!

[@yolandapickard7567]

Great video ! Thank you for all your tips ! 👍

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@JenniferSKinney]

Great video, Ardyth! It gave me a chuckle. I think I’ve experienced all of those things at one time or another. But, I’m many years into my crafting life and getting much better (not perfect) at what I like, what I need, and what I will actually use. It can really help to craft with friends and try out some of their products or tools before buying your own.

[@ardyth]

Agreed - often just trying something once or twice is enough to help you decide whether something is for you or not. Now that we're past the pandemic, hopefully there are more gatherings and classes where this is possible! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kkrolf2782]

@@ardyth (( I W I S H we could say we’re “past the pandemic”, but I was laid up with it for 36 days from 12/10/22 - 1/8/23!! Then, to add insult to injury, I contracted Influenza and was laid up for a week plus an ER visit for IV fluids!! DO N O T Q U I T WASHING YOUR HANDS, PEOPLE!!! )).

[@ardyth]

@@kkrolf2782 Goodness! I'm sorry you went through that, and hope you're finally feeling better!

[@kkrolf2782]

@@ardyth Thank you for your caring thoughts and words! N O W … we just need to convince the general population that it is N O T yet time to quit washing our hands regularly throughout the day.

[@lynsalehuecker1718]

Great video Ardyth. Guilty of some of these but trying to do better. Thanks for sharing your tips on how you manage these situations. One thing I'm sure others have done is putting something in my cart from a wishlist and not realizing I had added it twice at some point. Whoever pulled the order must have thought "why do they need 2 of these stamp sets"! Now I always review my order before I hit that button!

[@Mari-cre8s]

That has happened to me too many times! Now I delete from my wish list right away when I add to my cart, so far that’s helped … and reviewing closely before paying. Some sites allow one last review, others seal the deal right away when PayPal gives approval.. learned that from experience! Happy crafting! 🧑🏼‍🎨

[@ardyth]

Oh, I've done that too! Thanks so much for watching!

[@janbrandt3739]

Thank you so much for this video! My husband and I were just discussing this very thing today. I have so much that I am trying to do some of the things you mentioned. I’m adding a few more to my list!

[@ardyth]

Good luck! Thanks so much for watching!

[@roseannem.tockstein8140]

Thank goodness I wasn't playing along with alcohol! My worst is FOMO, but I thank you Ardyth for this enjoyable peek into our psyche.

[@ardyth]

LOL! Thanks so much for watching!

[@aileenryan9552]

Great video Ardyth, I identified with more than I thought I would. For me i have had to do more thinking on what I want so I load the cart up then go away and think on it. With postage so high to Australia now and also some companies not sending here I have had to really think about that need vs want.

[@ardyth]

I definitely find that it's easy to 'get over' the need for something once you see the shipping costs and the amount of time it takes to get to me! Thanks so much for watching!

[@joanneguarino170]

I can relate to pretty much everything you said!

[@ardyth]

Seems like many of us are in the same boat! Thanks so much for watching!

[@natalies.250]

I am guilty of topping up my cart especially when it comes to ordering from the USA! On the upside, I don’t have full-set syndrome. Great eye opening video.

[@ardyth]

Thanks so much for watching!

[@kellyvezina7931]

Great video. Just had an idea, might help you with your pretty backgrounds you have made and opt out on using them for fear of messing them up (totally understandable btw) Maybe try photocopying them,... try out your design or idea and if you don't like it no harm you still have the original. And if it does work out that you like how the photocopy turned out you could just as easily send it off to someone and you still have the original. Hmm just a thought.

[@ardyth]

That's a great idea - it's amazing how good scanners and photocopiers are these days! Thanks for watching!

[@kellylaher7512]

Thank you for this video. I have really thought hard about purchases lately, and I have stopped myself a lot. Super proud of myself actually!

[@ardyth]

Haha! Well done! I've slowed down quite a bit too this year, and am enjoying the challenge of keeping to a low-spend! Thanks so much for watching!

[@kellylaher7512]

@Ardyth your welcome! I have learned to be content with what I have. I think too much choice creates so much chaos in my mind then I don't create.

[@ardyth]

@@kellylaher7512 That is very wise!

[@gingerpayne7310]

Amazing video- I am with you on the glitter plate machine and glitter foil won’t go down that route. My purchase wish I never bought was the Tim Holtz platform, thought I would like it over the Misti but I was totally wrong.

[@ardyth]

I also bought the TH platform and preferred the MISTI because of the corners, I think. Thanks so much for watching!