Never Live With a Woman

[@alpha_male_s]

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[@zrunner240Z]

30:53 AMEN BRO....If you're the same person TODAY that you were 7 Years ago......then you just wasted 7 years of your life!

[@namename3139]

how do I get my own place

[@Phoenix_Atlas]

I live with my girlfriend and I have my own spare bedroom for my hobbies and stuff and she can decorate the rest of the house how she wants and I don't give a shit.

[@ShaunZachary]

Couldn’t agree more, bro. Living with my ex was the worst. You get to see the nasty side of these chicks, and their daily mood swings be having you on eggshells. Keep your living separate as long as possible.

[@damiantirado9616]

You guys need to stop dating toxic women. If you’re walking on eggshells then you’re a beta

[@ShaunZachary]

@@damiantirado9616 lmao- when I was 18 I certainly was. Every man has to learn this valuable lesson one way or another.

[@damiantirado9616]

@@ShaunZachary what I’m saying is don’t let a woman make you walk on eggshells you either stop dating women that behave that way or you put her in her place

[@ShaunZachary]

@@damiantirado9616 I understand what you are saying. What I am referring to are mistakes i made 15 years ago to co sign on AMS point in this video. Trust me bro, I’m good.

[@leonardgooden4983]

@@ShaunZachary Damian out here like he tryna get a super chat donation 😭

[@label1877]

I was dating a girl 10 months when she got fired from her job for laying out. Less than a week later she asked to move in with me. I said no, it was obvious she was looking to use me. After another 3 weeks when she made no effort to get a job despite everyone here begging for employees…I ended it. No woman will drag me down.

[@blacksilverchair3315]

Redpilled 👍🏾👍🏾

[@viardleveille1365]

Never reward bad behavior. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@7_philk]

Good move bro!

[@Mr.Miller9]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🐐

[@idrissahmat498]

👑 👑👑👑👑

[@brookswashere3400]

Whenever a woman has any sort control/power - it’s always a disaster . ALWAYS.

[@damonpitt2528]

You're damn right bro and when the honeymoon stage is over with that's when you see the b**** come out they fake it till they make it

[@Goldkingdom47]

Just get the bag..Women can be a liability

[@sukigrim7256]

Can't give a man control, if you do shit ain't gone get done

[@verne4665]

The matriarchy is a disaster waiting to happen, I have female bosses it sucks

[@Lifeoftheparty8290]

@@damonpitt2528 some of them ain’t even good at faking they tell on themselves after a few questions

[@blacksilverchair3315]

Take it from me, it's the worst thing a man can do. You get zero respect, zero freedom, and run the risk of being thrown out at the whim of her emotions.

[@JimmyCrackCorn_]

THAT!!

[@TheMegaGamingWizard]

Sounds like my mom, since i turned 18. Im 22 and im not leaving MY house. Its been a 4 year war and im winning.

[@aliamin2159]

Lol underrated

[@dandybuck4184]

Them Cons not that bad 😂😂😂

[@blacksilverchair3315]

@@dandybuck4184 until you experience it. Don't say you weren't forewarned. A hard head makes a soft behind.

[@SDC214]

If you do live with a woman. Have separate rooms and stay out the place for as long as you can EVERYDAY. When you get off of work, go to the gym, go to the park and chill, go over your boys house. Monday - Friday don't come home until its time to go to bed or she says she's cooking. I don't care if you don't do anything but sit in a parking lot for hours, do it. Get her used to the idea that you come home whenever your done, not when she expects you too. And if she tries go give you littel errands to run while your out, you answer back with your own errands she needs to have done by the time you get home.

[@theerealatm]

A little extreme but the message is clear and definitely warranted.

[@IcyBandicoot]

I did this. It works consistently but it’s like acting, you give a piece of yourself away every time. I did this with my ex until I left the state. It’s always that serious

[@mikhai5317]

Separate rooms and never come home? I think that’s a bit extreme, might as well stay at your own place

[@SDC214]

@@IcyBandicoot It only feels like acting if you haven't fully accepted that women want what they can't have or that's not easily accessible. Distance is crucial to maintain respect and order under one roof.

[@SDC214]

@@mikhai5317 And what part about being with a woman is not extreme? They don't like balance. They don't like rules. They don't like order. They change their minds every time the wind blows. They don't take pride in earning it, They take pride in enjoying it. You can stay single but you will screw yourself over this if you do ever decide to get serious with a woman and disregard this as "extreme".

[@frontlineaffairs3142]

Never at all. One of the worst mistakes I have ever made. I’m glad I made that mistake at 18 and not 28.

[@solos_reactions3769]

Big facts bro I’m glad I learned at 22

[@blacksilverchair3315]

My father schooled me in that. Never made that mistake in my life. We need to teach these young men out here.

[@carlosbarahona5271]

Same here I moved in with my ex at 19 lasted 6 months then I was out that mf. Glad I learned that lesson in life early.

[@deshawn1801]

I did at 26 never again

[@dblock338]

I did that at 24 never again

[@Kr1tik10]

Being alone is a leverage.

[@h4xo7]

Fucking W comment 💪

[@b.a.samuels]

Neatly expressed.

[@christopherhall9348]

I had an ex to put me out for some bullshit & i was paying all the bills. Then she called me later that week to complain about not being able to pay the bills! I told her to kiss my ass & a month later she was living back with her momma & i had my own place soon after that. These modern day women are crazy as hell!

[@TradGuyTravels]

The audacity of that chick. She fucked up a good thing she had going too

[@krandy1181]

Living with a woman is pretty much like signing your life away. You have to report everything you do to her to the point she controls you and she become your entire life instead of just being part of it. I liked my gf so much more when I only seen her a few days out of the week, versus everyday.

[@mightymouse1780]

Facts

[@gb_the_accuser]

Men BUY your OWN HOME! Yes, let her move in, however NEVER let her have leverage ON YOU! ITS your HOME, she just stasy there. If things go bad, EVICT her with the court. Simple as that. Dont be a coward and run and hide and not live with women. Just know how to PROTECT what you have built. She can live with YOU, that doesn't mean YOU have to pay HER BILLS. She is just occupying your space, that is it. You may have to buy extra food but atleast you have the comfort of not having to waist money on the dating market.

[@smd4246]

@@gb_the_accuser Ngl if i let a woman move in with me, i would only smash with a rubber on, and even then i would pull out, that way, if she gets pregnant, i would know the kid ain't mine, win win situation

[@theunknown3537]

@@smd4246 good idea bro

[@TLACY606]

If you live in a common law marriage state, then HELL NO. It's not running and hiding, its common sense, hell I look like fighting a woman or having to spend money for an eviction in MY PLACE. Keep it simple from the beginning, and keep seperate places. She can come over and hang out, but ain't no moving in. @@gb_the_accuser

[@victorjordanjr1109]

As a Beta simp my whole life this man speaks the truth in this video. Living alone does make you want to crave marriage and a family, which often can lead to depression. A man living alone can focus on developing or cultivating hobbies and develop their own unique passion. Its never to late to change, grow and learn and im 39.

[@edgarammipoe4218]

Thank you for that I'm 39 and just got out a relationship and about to move in my own spot.

[@urbannuance5151]

Some of the best advice given to me from my uncle was, Never give up your place for a female. Meaning never move in with her. Let her move in with you if anything. Never give up your stability, for the emotional instability of a woman.

[@tigerpause2470]

U have a good uncle

[@oahts5906]

I learned the hard way, at least I’m still young.

[@michaelowusu5474]

😢

[@Solid800]

damn

[@MrEOM41]

She still gonna take over your place 😅

[@T3hSandman]

Haven't even watched yet and I know this one is facts. Also, never let a woman have any kind of control over your living situation for long. Not even your moms, aunties, whoever. Not a single one of them can handle having any type of authority over a grown man.

[@T3hSandman]

@@Abena_Goddess87 That's what I meant. As in they have authority over you by virtue of controlling your living situation.

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

I hear ya - T3hSandman! I agree with AMS! If you plan to live together with your girlfriend - moving in with her is a super bad idea, she’s always going to be in control, and that should not be what you want. If she’s the one moving in with you that’s a lot better - because that’s your place, at least it will feel like you’re in control… But if you want things to feel like you’re both in control which is ideal - then move into a new place together, that way you’re starting fresh together! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@tyquancreagh]

I'm in this situation, but I have control. But deep down inside I don't feel like the man of the house. I don't want to move because she has kids and it feels wrong to get a 3 bedroom place for her kids when I have my own kids....although my kids live with their mother.

[@thomashunt6000]

Straight up don't let your living situation be dependent on a female. Period.

[@MrEuroDollaz]

@@thomashunt6000 facts my dad always told me to always keep my own place. A woman will treat you differently if you can go back to your own place versus living together when if you have to leave your homeless.

[@realspitfire]

AMS been the 🐐 now for nearly half a decade. Keep inspiring, brother. It’s crazy to see how much you’ve evolved over the years. You seem a lot more calm and wise, and guaranteed your teachings will live on long after you’re gone. ✊✊✊

[@alpha_male_s]

THANKS BRO!

[@realspitfire]

@@alpha_male_s absolutely

[@Mecca188]

Facts he’s my other dad

[@zuibeckpulezon4626]

AMS & Fresh & Fit goats lol

[@rockboy360]

AMS is a Bible-worthy Prophet lol

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

I have never moved into another woman's house, but I have witnessed friends doing it, and let me tell you, you will be like a fly flying into a spider's web or a venus flytrap. DON'T DO IT!

[@lovemyFilipina]

I've never done it before either but I've had many friends do it and it always ends badly by then getting tossed out on the street I can't tell you how many times I've had to offer my couch up to my friends this has happened too but that was in our younger days I haven't had to do that for quite some time now they've learned LOL

[@gb_the_accuser]

Men BUY your OWN HOME! Yes, let her move in, however NEVER let her have leverage ON YOU! ITS your HOME, she just stasy there. If things go bad, EVICT her with the court. Simple as that. Dont be a coward and run and hide and not live with women. Just know how to PROTECT what you have built. She can live with YOU, that doesn't mean YOU have to pay HER BILLS. She is just occupying your space, that is it. You may have to buy extra food but atleast you have the comfort of not having to waist money on the dating market.

[@nolansliker944]

Moving in with a chick is the kiss of death for any relationship

[@natru2dagame]

Did it once.... Never again the worst experience of my life. Don't share ANY living quarters with women ever!!! You will totally regret it, even family members/friends. I haven't met ONE who can manage their money responsible enough to even maintain their own lifestyle 🤦🏽

[@sidohofman6835]

Me too. I got out and took my losses. I feel bad for my elder brothers. They are stuck and have babies and sexless life. 🤨🔫

[@merunasg]

I don't know about you, but I lived with a woman for close to 2 years. Never had major issues, wanna know why? I made it VERY clear that she must obey to everything I say or she's out.

[@PeerlessUtopian]

I agree with you. Even family members, it's the same crap.

[@alexanderpapii4866]

@@merunasg Exactly

[@MichaelSmith-lm5sl]

@@merunasgThe claim suggests that a harmonious relationship can be maintained by enforcing strict obedience from one partner. This perspective is not only antiquated but also unhealthy and contrary to modern understandings of healthy relationships. Mutual respect, communication, and equality are foundational to successful and fulfilling partnerships. A relationship based on dominance and obedience is likely to be fraught with issues, including emotional and psychological harm. Therefore, the claim that a woman must obey everything a man says for a relationship to work is complete bullsh*t.

[@marquisnishawn6598]

When my girl gets on my nerves I can get in my car and drive tf home . That's PEACE that simps don't have.

[@thedissilent2548]

You saved more money being in a relationship?😳 For me it’s the total opposite. I actually save much more money when I’m single than when I have a girlfriend. Maybe it’s the kind of girls I date, but I also attribute it to the fact that I don’t really chase women like that when I’m single.

[@shadrackdorleans6146]

Facts thats what i was saying in my head about myself as well

[@wilsonfisk4741]

Actual fact

[@jeremiah8716]

Because they expect you to pay for everything

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

Same I saved waaay more being single lol

[@merunasg]

Could go both ways it all depends on your lifestyle

[@robertjones6839]

Every man raised with a good father knows this. Never live with a woman unless she lives with u. Don't move in with her.

[@planeguy95]

What about neither?

[@lwill4075]

Neither bro, neither. Don't move with a woman at all. No matter if it's your place. Stay in separate homes.

[@bullydakidd2023]

It got so annoying living with his wife, my boy left his house, and moved to his elderly mothers home located 2 hours away and worked virtual from another city. Goes to his house one day or two a week. Most Women are annoying. If she's a woman who likes to talk, RUN. If you're going to make a mistake and live with a woman, the best pick is a woman of very few words. A quiet woman.

[@keenansmith7176]

I understand the point of offering this advice but the drawback to a quiet woman is you have no idea what they're thinking. As conniving and manipulative as women can be, that's a dangerous route too. The quieter, the more sneaky.

[@bullydakidd2023]

@@keenansmith7176 Talkative women aren't going to let you know when their doing sneaky things either. Matter of fact they're going to talk about everything except the selfish or sneaky things they do behind your back. maybe I should said. "A woman of few words" 🤷🏾‍♂️ But even then, Although you might not know all a quiet woman is thinking, you can observed and watch her behavior. Most people can sense their significant other is "up to something" or something is off by a gut feeling. Usually if you get a gut feeling that something is wrong or off, you're usually right. I can remember a girlfriend I lived with always cooked for me. Any time she made a dish for family or took food to work for a work party, she ALWAYS made sure she set some of that food aside for me to eat. One night she cooked up a dish to take to work for a party they were having at work. This time she didn't set aside any food for me. I took notice to that, but didn't mention it to her. Over the next couple of months there were days that she was coming home later than usual. And she continued to make some food dishes and pies 🥧 for work, and not sharing any of it with me like she usually does. Still she was saying she loved me and doing everything good else she normally does for me. Well I came to catch her cheating on me with a dude from work. That's why I wasn't getting any part of those food dishes or pies she took to work anymore. That's why she was coming home about an hour later than usual from time to time. My gut told me something was off, I didn't let her know, and I went about catching her with her coworker.

[@michaelcobbin1558]

My dad never taught me about woman cause he was a simp himself still is I’m just glad it’s vids like this out here

[@Godsent313]

Fr my dad makes more than my mom and always over the road so my mom basically runs the house. My dad a simp my mom more of the masculine energy

[@michaelcobbin1558]

@@Godsent313 I feel your pain bruh keep yo head up big dawg

[@unknownsource4359]

I respect my pops and all no doubt. But he was emasculated by my mother. As a little kid I wanted to box but my dad was like your mother doesnt want to. She doesnt want you to get hurt. Fuck that when I get a kid ima put him on boxing regardless of what his mother says. My pop never taught me how to handle confrontations at school. He never schooled me on the nature of women and how to be ahead of the curve in that matter. my mother was the one who would whoop my ass if I didnt listen. She was more vicious than my father. My father had his flaws as a man but he never deserved the disrespect my mother gave him. My pops was definitely under the black bottomless hole of my mother. I resent it still because I wish I had a more alpha masculine not giving a fuck father figure. He was a hard working man that provided for the family but he lacked those alpha traits that he could have injected in me to prepare me better for that cold world out there.

[@michaelcobbin1558]

@@unknownsource4359 sheesh same bro but ay that’s why we got each other shit we can each learn things from each other and we up on game now, better late than never

[@Happy-Me.]

When you and a woman know that you are the best she's had and she knows others want what she has and she also knows that you can be perfectly fine without her whether she lives with you or not. She will look out for you for the rest of her life!

[@truthexposed839]

Exactly

[@bullydakidd2023]

💯

[@personne7542]

I wish it were that straightforward but women(people?) never stay satisfied even when they have it great. They get that itch and fantasize about something else. And there is nothing their partner can do to stop it. Also, if a lot of women like the guy, that just spurs the gal to be paranoid about being cheated on. A peaceful, low maintenance, lasting relationship is next to impossible.

[@sungaze342]

@@personne7542 if you ain’t getting no butcheekz just say that 🤣💀

[@Happy-Me.]

@@personne7542 You have to keep your frame and be the prize. She needs to be your biggest fan and know that you have options and do better than her!!

[@teirjenkins4550]

I don't see my GF for a few days and when I finally pull up shes so excited she jumps into my arms. Best feeling ever to be missed.

[@AGodspeed1]

The mother of my children showed me that this was true. She lured me in when I was down bad and totally turned demon/hoe on me and blamed me for all her wicked ways. And my dumb ass had two kids with her. Over 4 out of our 7 year past relationship, she had almost 60k and I didn’t see a dime of it. Most of the money was given to her for my two kids and she didn’t hardly anything for them like she was supposed to but has them in her care. She does bare minimum so she can smoke weed and chase a music dream but her mental is fucked claiming she does the best she can when I know she can do better, way better. Now she broke again and on top of that is dating my former mentor and so in love with him and he treats her like crap cause he’s just using her. But she bought him all type of apple products and whatnot. Now, she talking child support but I didn’t hear from her about anything including my children when she got 37k and was blowing it with my former friend and mentor. They’re both bums and I’m so sick I had kids with her. All this…. Because I lived with her. Fellas……… if you down bad on your own stay that way and get out the rut on your own. Please I beg of you.

[@johnstamos4325]

I feel for you. Be strong for yourself and your kids. Cut ties and keep it about them!!!!! You'll be alright although it may get rough at times. God bless you, Brother!

[@lwill4075]

Sorry you had kids with her... that's my worst nightmare, having a kid with a negative toxic female. Good luck bro

[@michelesosa8038]

I agree, that absence makes the heart grow fonder. I work 3rd shift and my husband works 1st shift-this works for us. We’ve been married for 19 years and I truly, look forward to my days off (& spending quality time w/him).

[@torachan23]

And it allows you to see your side dude(s) in peace while your "husband" is working

[@alessbritish228]

@@torachan23 bruhh

[@RulingClassMentality]

@@torachan23 damn homie 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@chevchelioz6663]

Are you with a beta Provider?

[@Chad123-g3d]

​@@torachan23insecure dude talking 🤡

[@Woahboyzxx]

Extremely point on with the pro about creating space between you and your girl. You will notice a difference in the way she treats you when she’s not seeing you all the time. Keep the experiences great, give her solid hits of dopamine, then give her some time to miss it.

[@lancelima9786]

hey living alone is one of the best things ever but some family members and some people in society will criticize or think something is wrong with you even if you have chicks come over.they believe living with a woman Is life fulfilling.i see it as being ultimately happy living alone getting to chose what you want and doing what I want without compromising for anything

[@ithinkiamlostareyoulostasw1971]

Consider that if is the place you're paying for, you can do any kind of food, can go from here to there with your butt without cover, put the music you enjoy and play games as long as you wish, you can do as much as you like in the time you feel is right. No pressure, no arguing, no nagging, no extra work, just you living the life. If family or society consider that's "empty and boring" they really don't know shit of how to live a happy existence. :/

[@goatonthatrack]

Last time I tried to move on with a woman, that was the biggest regret I ever done. I had to leave the apartment, after she monkeybranch me with another guy, cause at that moment I had no job. But she make a hell in my life months before that happen, shit tests, disrescpect, all of that bull$h*t.

[@thomashunt6000]

Sounds like you a dodged a bullet bro. She Gon do the same thing to the next guy.

[@goatonthatrack]

@@thomashunt6000 Said and done bro, she dump him too after a year, and came back to my city to her parents house again, same city that we left when we decided to live together. Everything has a consequence, and I cannot live with a woman anymore. Womens just use you as a tool, then trade you up when she thinks is necessary. All we are is providers, if not financially, emocionally, we have our dark nature too, but after knowing this, theres no happy end anymore. Live your moments the best way that you can. I'm turning 27 this year, my dream is to be a music producer, I'll try my best for it, until my last breathe. God bless us 🙏

[@aliamin2159]

Gotta have your own spot never move in to hers, learned that the hard way

[@goatonthatrack]

@@aliamin2159 Even if is an apartment, like in my case. if ya both pay for the bills, you the one who have to get out, if things happen, she will not leave.

[@SOLIDJR2000]

I feel your pain bro 💯

[@stopthecancelculture]

I respect AMS for taking a chance of leaving Alabama to moving to NYC and then quitting his job to do his own business to KZbin. Lesson I learned is in life to receive great rewards you have to take risks in life.

[@IcyBandicoot]

I’ve done both. I’m with an ex an ex is with me. Obviously living with her is a death sentence for your masculinity and growth. Her living with you if you’re not careful can be a power trip, especially if you’re self employed.

[@4669Mikehines]

Damn right about that..... when they come in move in with you it's different ball game and u call the shots.

[@Cahluvca]

Never move in with a woman..definitely not long term....seen many hobosexuals go through bs but they usually find another one...couldn't be me

[@merunasg]

Hmm how does it affect your growth? Yes, you get more comfortable and stop caring as much about things you cared when you were trying to attract females but that's your responsibility to stay a tough mf when the going gets easy.

[@aliamin2159]

Man i lived with a female back in 2017, i was about to finish school, was working too. I was paying half the bills and she always wanted to blow money and go out instead of chillin out and saving. Got kicked out of school lost my 5K$ i had saved. Set me back a good 2-3 years. Dont do it, especially if you’re young. Theyre not who you think they are when you first date them.

[@User_Brandon]

Hear hear

[@brenenhightower4833]

That's is exactly why I avoid younger women

[@alexanderpapii4866]

The younger women yea😂

[@aliamin2159]

@@alexanderpapii4866 yeah that’s true

[@ak_naral]

*Living with a woman in San Francisco, in a shared apartment, in a room, same bed, smelling each other's farts at 5-6am, dirty laundry and amazon packages all over the floor... the American Dream.*

[@AK47_.]

This was funny. Unfortunately completely true, no matter the vicinity / country.

[@Levi-1992]

GET OUT!!

[@davidcollins_highvaluemale6585]

Lmao! 🤣🤣🤣

[@blackshadexl]

Oof…I’m guessing sex was the only time you were happy with her lmao

[@ak_naral]

@@blackshadexl Yeah, but reluctance to find a rubber at 3am and not caring about pulling out half asleep has its own consequences.

[@Mecca188]

I was gonna do this in 2020 cause I wanted to go on my own and my ex girl kept pushing to me that We should live together and pay split the bills ,my dad threw a fit that I shouldn’t live with a woman especially so young,Basically cursed me out not to and now looking back especially at how me and that girl broke up and how bad our relationship got at that point it’s a good thing I listened to my dad and didn’t now this video is listing all the things I avoided 💪🏾💯

[@TheMegaGamingWizard]

Dads are never wrong! And when we are, we own up to it and admit it. Women never do that.

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

@@TheMegaGamingWizard : Women DO 'admit' when we're wrong. It's referred to as ' grown folks' s..t'. At least that's how I view it to be.

[@Cahluvca]

Father was on point

[@sidohofman6835]

Man your dad is a blessing. I wish i had a experienced male figure in my life. I made the mistake to live with a girl for 6 years. It was a hell. I lost part of my soul, all my money and everything else when we broke up. No i’m good and at peace and I’m always try to tell the youngsters don’t you ever live with a female.

[@drewtakesprofit8897]

I DID move out with my ex in 2020, dumped me in 2021. living solo ever since. she wanted big daddy back a month after dumping me. came to "get her stuff", smashed, kept smashing for a bit, then had to cut it off. she bounced to another dude in ONE WEEK after I cut it off. we dated for 3 years lol

[@graemewillis410]

Everything about this video is so true, any man who has any real interaction with women knows it. AMS is the real deal.

[@aryansarvian3045]

This is facts. Made the mistake of moving in with an attractive "boss babe". Never again. Broke it off 2 months ago. Instant relief. I'm 35, in shape, in my prime, working on my rental property side hustle. In no rush. Never EVER move into her house. Whole energy changes. And it's waaaaay more work. Lesson learned.

[@a.d3167]

How is it more work big bro ?

[@a.d3167]

And what is your side hustle about ? You do fix and flip ?

[@aryansarvian3045]

@@a.d3167 good question. When I say way more work I really mean holding frame. Keeping frame long term is more difficult if you're living in her house. As opposed to your own house, or one you bought together. You have more say in the end. I moved in while I rented out my house. Also own a duplex that I rent out. I've owned the single family home for a while, and have rented for 2 years. Looking to sell it before I incur capital gains, then move the money into more rentals when the time is right .

[@aryansarvian3045]

@@a.d3167 This was just brought up on 'entrepreneurs in cars' "How & Why You Complicate Your Life" . Streamed yesterday. Check it out on KZbin. 45 minute mark. I didn't cave like the guy in the vid, but you'll get the point. Living in HER house is an uphill battle with regards to maintaining frame.

[@Cahluvca]

Moving into her place long term is a no go

[@roadrunnertrav7179]

I let my sister live with me. Had to kick her ass out. Just dirty. Dirty dishes, leaving dishes in her room, smoking black&milds, spiritual shit burning sage. Smh she had to go. Couldn’t do it. I love living by myself.

[@elijahmoyo9350]

Facts crazy ladies don't practice cleanliness my sis is worse and a phd

[@sungaze342]

LMFAOOOOO OMF😆😆 this was too funny the first two sentences 😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 took me out 😩💀

[@GUnot33333]

I had the same issue with my sister 😂😂😂

[@oahts5906]

Wtf is with the sage shit?

[@melorileytv3408]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@king-nick2023]

Living with my ex was one of the most difficult things I ever did.. also one of my last roommates was a women. Extremely lazy, stealing and hiding toilet paper 🧻, running the ac and heater like crazy.. getting her kicked out was such a plus

[@lg_4da695]

another thing to keep in mind. When you live with a woman they nest and their nest GROWS. It will grow to the point that all you have in a place you pay for is a 1ft by 1ft square.

[@user-ir4dj8sy1c]

Going through this now. Getting the hell out as we speak! Never, ever, ever again!

[@Cp-pi1xt]

Same boat

[@Cahluvca]

Lesson learned

[@lwill4075]

Same... got 1 more month left of the lease and I'm ghosting her azz.

[@ProperXSmoke]

I remember in 2020 right before Covid hit I got laid off my job and evicted from my apartment. Had really nowhere to go and my ex took me in to live with her dad 😂. Bruh never again will I live with a woman. She would constantly dangle that power over me and throw me out in the cold when we got in a fight or she fucked up. Trust me I bossed up and learned from my mistakes.

[@dbo3039]

That must've been hell bruh

[@adrianmobley6805]

Yes, you shouldn't live with females if you can't afford your own place. Never give them that power!

[@oahts5906]

Been there, yup yup and yup

[@Wolfdawg504]

Gotta say, I really appreciate how objective you are with these pro/con lists.

[@renaldsunset]

I agree ! Most guys would totally bash the idea of living with a woman. Zero pros

[@adambondarenko8922]

AMS ability to read psychology on why people do what they do and think how they think is what sets him a level above all other dating coaches. Emotional intelligence is a rare asset I appreciate the knowledge 🔥

[@05Street10]

Underrated comment!

[@americacherri9663]

You should never move in with your lover unless you plan to build a life together. If you need help with your rent downsize or get a roommate.

[@jonniehickson5599]

I don't know why men think all women want them to move in. None of the women I know wanted that. The only man I lived with was my ex husband. And we were engaged. I made it crystal clear that I wanted no roommates to all the men I dated. Don't bring or leave anything. The next morning you had to go!

[@miamidolphinsdiehardfan109]

When I was with my ex girlfriend I moved her in with me only because the household she was living in was abusive and her mom husband was sexual touching her other than that I wouldn't took her in everything was good going great when I moved her in I got sex all the time she was submissive feminine I couldn't keep her off me then months later she changed everything was going downhill talking to other men i kicked her out great topic AMS never live with a woman gentlemen.

[@lovemyFilipina]

So she says her step daddy was touching her but I've heard girls cry wolf so many times on this particular subject it's like to go to for these broads so that you have sympathy and pity for them when a woman says that kind of s*** to me I take it with a grain of salt I'm from the show me state give me some proof

[@superwhale6665]

@@lovemyFilipina They all speak the same language.

[@aliamin2159]

Somethin dont sound right in that story

[@givemedatchin7765]

@@lovemyFilipina it be bull sh!t , why not file a police report? she'll come up with other excuses as of why she doesn't do it

[@dreadheadrastah]

Dame that’s crazyyy

[@corporaterobotslave400]

Did you know (?): in the Bible it is required that women living in your household must have a separate living area to stay in (away from you) for one week every month while she is bleeding from her period? I think if we brought this practice back it would help eliminate a lot of arguments between couples.

[@TheMegaGamingWizard]

Yeah well she can kick rocks for a week and go somewhere else. Why would I lend an area of my space for that bullshit? That's her body, her business. It has nothing to do with me.

[@sergioauguste9956]

Facts.

[@naija395]

@@TheMegaGamingWizard because it’s scripture

[@fouinylantigua5701]

Lol to be honest with u this bible is a whole lie, take another example my boy lol

[@naija395]

@@fouinylantigua5701 what verse is a lie

[@JMrealgamer]

As a married man I can definitely agree with this. Once my wife and I got our own places life was a lot more peaceful for both of us. Not everyone can do this though. People are different.

[@schafer240]

Open relationship?

[@JMrealgamer]

@@schafer240 ha ha ha! Nah bruh. I said if that’s what she wants to do then she can have her knight and shining armor pay for our divorce. When your married you talk about this. We don’t believe in open marriage. Like our man here. I don’t get attached so if she wants that she will have to leave me. She can at any time. I’m on my purpose in life. That’s the key.

[@schafer240]

@@JMrealgamer Fair enough, why get married then?

[@JMrealgamer]

@@schafer240 good question. Like I said people are different. Some need more space then others. Sometimes both people need to have their own space a lot of it, but of course still get together from time to time. Like our man says here if you’re arch the video, you have to create that space between you so you can be missed. Plus this prepares me for a job that may take me away from the wife anyway. There are many people who work abroad far away from their spouses. She is showing she can handle it, and so can I. There also has to be a level of trust and maturity to be able to do this as well. Like I said. Not everyone can do this. For me and mine it just works.

[@schafer240]

@@JMrealgamer I'm not questioning the space, I've personally never moved in with a woman. You seem to keep talking about space, I'm asking about why you took the step to get married, especially when you keep preaching space.

[@jamesaandoh]

I know you may never see this but dang man this shit is so crazy. I remember watching your videos a long while back when I barely got women and thinking just how different but logical the things you said were. And now years later after I’ve had my fair share of experiences with many different women I’m looking back at your content and I’m just in amazement by how similar the way we think even though I haven’t watched your videos in years. Being an alpha really is a mindset shift.

[@jermainejpshepherd2778]

Big facts here. Learned my lesson in 2013 & haven't looked back since. Love my own space & how undisturbed it is by a female presence.

[@ricosurvillion]

Amen. Just got out of that situation. Never again.

[@Spectonimous]

Agreed. Hard enough dealing with them as it is

[@lawrencer908]

He's right I'm fucked!!! We split and life has been shit ever since.

[@cheapthrills9251]

What do u mean ?

[@pablonator3000able]

@@cheapthrills9251 he became too dependent living with a woman, too emotionally attached now things aren't the same for him

[@lawrencer908]

@@pablonator3000able yup now I gotta get my entire life back on track

[@romel_storm]

Yeah I’m not living with my girl but she’s stayed some extended time, and we did a lotta shit (hung out a lot, sex, dates, arguments, even got a few tattoos together - not of each other) . I could feel myself getting attached, so I told her I needed some space. Even after just 2-3 days of that I felt better.

[@Shaquille796]

I was with my girlfriend for 7 years before we moved in together.. after the 1 year lease was up we went our separate ways.

[@onejamaican1551]

Sad to hear

[@marquesbrown4326]

The way I want to go about women is to have them live in separate homes. I have my own and I'll give them a crib to live in. I'm not living with a headache

[@alexgordon6722]

Facts

[@AV-kr6gc]

You be paying their rent/mortgage while she bringing Sancho in that home lmao

[@marquesbrown4326]

@@AV-kr6gc 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'ma keep tiny cameras all throughout that bihh. Good one tho😂

[@siddtendrilrs4847]

@@AV-kr6gc hahahah

[@taylaron5864]

Made the worst mistake moving with my ex recently letting my place go to move in hers. Thinking it was a good idea for our relationship. Thought wrong 😑

[@dbo3039]

You live and learn playa

[@youngnick1800]

Yea u fucked up by doing that bro but life about learning

[@alexanderpapii4866]

Why in the hell would you let go of your place and move into a female place…….. is she the man?

[@redrum8302]

I haven’t watched the video yet but I’ve been saying this since watching your videos in 2018. I naturally came to that conclusion on my own after getting all the advice from the red pill community in general. It became obvious “No woman can stay with me” so glad to see you made this video 🔥🔥

[@MarcellusL.]

Living with a women is the absolute worse, I was so miserable living with my ex she had 4 kids and we was living in a small apartment. That was my first time with a chick that had kids and also living with one. I will never again put myself in a situation like that & even date a chick with kids… I even remember when I moved out my apartment, i got a house with my moms she begged me to get a place with her because she know I handle my business when it came to paying bills. I knew it was a bad idea but I wanted to help her out. Now I’m paying for it like AMS said it doesn’t feel like your place even though you’re paying half… I remember hearing my moms on the phone with her friend, saying if she wanted her bf to move in he could and she didn’t need to discuss it wit me because this is her house. I was so pissed when I heard that, I sacrificed my freedom of having my own place for her. You can never satisfy these women even your own momma. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@mariguanestico]

Single mom w 4 kids in a small apartment? Literally sounds like hell

[@mocitymedia92]

You are a beta simp cuz. Man up G

[@MarcellusL.]

@@mariguanestico It was hell idk what I was thinking just young at the time didn’t know no better

[@alexanderpapii4866]

I hope all those 4 kids are yours and you’re the first baby daddy…….. if not you’re definitely a simp for getting her pregnant

[@christhomas6199]

Your mom was way out of line for that shit lol😂

[@JL-et2nh]

My pops taught me this too get something that feel likes your own first. He even said don’t let her move into yours either if y’all not married you meet up spend time then go back to your separate places wherever that is. And I’m glad he taught me that

[@alexanderpapii4866]

Your dad is a simp… getting married is a L for men especially losing everything after divorce….also don’t gotta be married to move a girl your fucki*** or baby mother in….. and when it’s your place you can let anybody move in and kick anybody out

[@mikep1r]

Man you KILLED IT in this video thanks a lot AMS!💯🏅

[@malonjehhutsonhachuma8420]

AMS introduced me me to the RP the other year and I have never looked back since. Much love from Lusaka Zambia. Africa is watching

[@freedomgunsandliberty]

This brother spits facts like biggie spit bars. Smooth,confident and secure. It’s how we have to be as men. Just say wwjbd? What-would-James-Bond-do? Calm,cool and collected is key to masculine energy. Stay up and on your purpose kings we run this ✊🔫🇺🇸

[@yopelps]

💪🏾💯

[@davidwhite206]

The Great AMS blesses us with another gem. Protect this man at all costs. This is right on time too with this subject for me personally. Just when the Beta rears his ugly head, AMS slaps sense into me.

[@burosangi3855]

😂😂

[@Whiteblueblackgeeen]

Moved in with my ex, her parents lived upstairs and owned the house. What the hell was I thinking. My mom warned me too but I thought nothing of it. Worst thing you could do

[@fouinylantigua5701]

Before moving with a woman you gotta know if she can live with u, try to make her stay at your house for sometimes to see her reaction towards you, I had a girl when I was 24 I tested before I plan to moving with her smh I was like nope you gonna stress tf out of me lol she couldn’t even cook , she cooked a rice for me oh my lord that shit was bad 😂😂😂I was like damn that’s why u was single at that age

[@devintailor1844]

Rice bro no sides atleast a piece of chicken 🍗 😂

[@brentcproductions]

I figured you were going to say get a new place together. Yes this is true always have a woman move into “Your” spot that way she can never tell you to get out of “my house”

[@jthegreat3627]

Been saying this for years! Glad you’re getting these internet “alpha males” hip

[@riorio1544]

Been there and done that w living w a female. My and this girl dated for 1.5 years and loved together the last 6 months and that’s when the relationship when to shit and we split up. Only did it bc her roommate up and left her but looking back it was stupid af to move in w her bc it just led to problems and arguments

[@KleerVizionsTheForum]

I live with a woman but have properties I use for rental income, with an open hall pass situation! If it get wild or disrespectful I can always go home! This sets it up for the woman to always maintain respect for you 😉 knowing that you have a house an another woman at your disposal!

[@OldSchoolStrength]

This is what im trying to do now 👍

[@amirh.6160]

AMS must be protected

[@TCS_Aquatics82]

Fellas you shouldn’t even have to watch this one to know you shouldn’t EVER live with a woman but if you ever doubt it, listen up.

[@homiehero6064]

So how r families made?

[@Cahluvca]

@@homiehero6064 Welcome to the era of regression

[@trustyoungpierre9959]

@@homiehero6064 marry her before you live together.

[@onejamaican1551]

​@@trustyoungpierre9959then you get a divorce and lose all your shit.

[@mangagnome9764]

I've never had anyone in my life who would teach me these things. thank you AMS. going through your videos has helped me a lot as a man. 🔥🔥🔥

[@iamdre228]

AMS is the most sensible dating coach out there. No fluff, just real game

[@tinomartinez7820]

Last thing you want to hear as a man is "well you can just get the hell out". I'll never make that mistake again. Zoom to Thailand fellas! A passport will solve 95% of your problems with women.

[@mider-spanman5577]

Currently in the mist of this. Feels like a battlefield, minefield, warzone, all that. We split a lease though but I just feel claustrophobic sometimes.

[@lordkwazz36]

Been there, done that. Never living with a woman ever again. It's the worst

[@Loro23]

1st comment to hear the 🐐AMS spit that gospel🗣💯🔥🔥🔥

[@rwomck]

This brother is on his shit I'm older than he is and I'm learning new tactics 💪🏿

[@miryanski]

Zero cons to living alone! Free Man For Life!

[@bodhip]

Ams speaks straight facts man he knows what hes talking about 💯

[@BIG_L.O.E]

I stayed w my girl for 20 something days....she not my girl anymore 😂😂

[@dbo3039]

😆😆😆

[@User_Brandon]

Well that escalated quickly 🤣🤣🤣

[@BIG_L.O.E]

@@User_Brandon can't cohabitate with crazy bro 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jayxav3159]

If you’re an alpha no matter what situation you always have control

[@soul2soul4]

A lot of people are over thinking it. Just be Alpha, if anything her living with you will let you know everything you need to know

[@Moralesscalpmicro]

I love living with my girlfriend daily ,bjs , home cooked meals and all that shit about the shows is true , that shits crazy 😂 Although i got to say i stay busy working on my craft so i guess everything just naturally flows the right way. Also we’ve been together for 4 yrs now , might be temporary or not , at the end of the day my priority is becoming my best self for my future kids .💪🏻

[@mariguanestico]

@Marty Yo thats a kids mentallity, if you are in a serious commited relationship having someone else is guaranteed to ruin everything There are some good girls out there worth living with, seems like my man ivan found his just like I found mine

[@mariguanestico]

@Marty Yo theres literally millions and millions of kids just like you lol

[@Moralesscalpmicro]

@@mariguanestico yessir my only advice would be to get good at the vetting process and take your time find the right women !

[@Moralesscalpmicro]

@Marty Yo never said it wasnt ?

[@oahts5906]

Daily bjs and daily sex was great, but eventually it wears you down in some way….it makes you weaker or something. Was my experience at least. Had a lot of fun but I’m ready to focus on my mission now lol

[@MiiDev69]

Ah, yes, The Notebook, the movie about the most toxic relationship ever.

[@knoir2193]

I used to see you pop up on my feeds and overlook your videos. Now I’m catching up with all your videos ➡️ this is gold ⚜️⚜️⚜️🔥

[@cannonfodder5766]

Welcome brother 💯

[@spikeboy101]

Ams likes the notebook 😂 love this man, real g

[@Codycrispy]

The pros of living by yourself outweigh the cons!!

[@LongtowerNyc]

Here’s the best idea. Buy a house and don’t tell her you own it. Then if she wants to move in together have her pay a portion of the rent and cook. Easy way to pay down a mortgage.

[@lovemyFilipina]

I've made this mistake three times I'm not proud of it I've never lived with a woman that I wasn't married to first and that my guys was the mistake that I kept making over and over and over never again he's right about everything he said they change as soon as you're living together it's a whole new ball game it's a gradual change usually but it's steady change just don't do it I have a beautiful Asian girlfriend now and I keep her 8,000 mi away I go see her every few months and things are great

[@100mphFastball]

Seems like you’ve been in some sort of a trance the majority of your life.

[@lovemyFilipina]

@@100mphFastball Pretty much but I'm wide awake now it's never too late to change your ways

[@100mphFastball]

@@lovemyFilipina yeah, it’s crazy how we’re all in a sex/woman trance. Only a few of us snap out of it.

[@drewtakesprofit8897]

Shesh how do you get married and divorced 3 times

[@lovemyFilipina]

@@drewtakesprofit8897 well I certainly don't hold the record but I was definitely blue pilled at one time some of us are slow learners

[@Allergic2broke]

Secks gets a little wack too. Stay on your grind and sometimes leave and say you got shi to do even if you don’t

[@YoungRelay]

Best answer. If you do this I really don’t see the problem living together

[@Maliquejones9365]

What ever goofy ass movie ya girl wants to watch, you should give it a try because it will give you game and insight in womens thinking. Sex in the city is a great show to watch. Bunch of chicks who hit the wall just not understanding men. AMS THIS IS A GREAT VIDEO

[@rollo69222]

This man is totally absolutely completely right. Stay strong! Don't become a dog....

[@roadrunnertrav7179]

I live in a duplex. My girl live downstairs and I still need more space. I’m distancing myself now. I see how she don’t clean like that, closet full of Amazon boxes. Order food every day. Smh. I’m not taking her with me when I move.

[@Bomaximus9]

AMS i came here early to ask if you can do a tour for supporters to meet you. I am in Houston man and would pay to hear you talk in person, and get some pics. Get on your purpose and make it happen!

[@way2hezy869]

That sh*t was funny😂 6:29 , great video man.🔥

[@abdullahreaves6460]

Had to share with this community, she would never hesitate to say it’s her house, so if I don’t like something leave, then called the police on me because I was pissed, and not giving her phone back after wanting to see it because her story about messaging her ex didn’t add up, now I’m in a new city broke af, but making my comeback

[@brownsuede4413]

Man that is so truthful my ex was that way always saying it's my house this my house that she freaking changed once we moved in together.

[@BomB_Don]

Dude right.. I lived with 2 females before saved up a lot and everyone knew their role. Was great. Roommates aren’t as bad if you always working

[@adrianmobley6805]

This is important. If there are clear roles then it can work.

[@fabrice8940]

Roommates *** big difference than your gf. Still compromising as I had briefly dealt w this in college and the women will team up against the guy. They don’t always like each other but you can instantly become a common enemy. You also have to do extra things just bc you’re a guy and you’re the one under scrutiny

[@bbkingme8831]

At mid 30s u get tired of hangin out wit boys. U want a womans company at home. Why? Because its fun being around women. The vibe is great when they want u. After they get used to u it gets dull but thats why u learned everything. To restart it

[@pierredelegance720]

I tried living with my current girlfriend two times and it didn't go well both times.

[@CoachatCole]

Single guys. As far as money is concerned. Eliminate all debt. Cut your monthly expenses to electricity, water, rent and gas. Save half your paycheck. Do this for 1 year. You will never look at dating the same.

[@ivandunn1334]

You forgot food! But yes

[@butchurbear8059]

Literally packed my stuff out my ex girls house because things changed quicker then when i was with my ex wife.