Newlywed Struggles: Top 6 Difficult Topics Couples Face

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Happy Tuesday everyone! We're back and we wanted to do a sit down video with you. We haven't done one of these in a while, besides the challenges and the question and answers. We aren't therapists here (clearly) but we had fun explaining how these subjects impacted our relationship. It's like we have a therapy session in front of the camera, haha. Just curious, do you all talk about these in your relationship? Are they uncomfortable to talk about? We didn't think so. We think they might be at the start of a relationship. We have a surprise for next week's video. If you don't follow us on Instagram, follow us. You'll see on Saturday :)

[@thonyfothergill]

Loved this guys. Your banter is lovely to see. Lots of love x

[@andrewgreen9264]

A really sweet,insightful clip,I think the best thing about you both is that you are each others best friend , this is the basis that your relationship is growing stronger ,and tbh your 'pet peeves' aren't that bad 😁 The arguments is the one that resonates with me,my late husband was the 'Bernardo' ,he wanted everything settled ...he was the sort of person who didn't want to go to bed if we had argued whereas I just wanted things to calm down 🤔. It's good to see you are still evolving in making the clips and as you said in the live chat Sunday when you start travelling again you want to increase content across You Tube/Patreon then different styles of clips will no doubt help ... End of Chapter 1 😂😂😂 P.S. when the subjects came up at the beginning I think you spelt arguments wrong ...(sorry) lol AJG 🇬🇧

[@darriontunstall3708]

Stepsof2Foreigners great video guys!! Y’all are cute Husbands together! Keep praying for me and my best friend to become friends again thanks

[@wagnersansuy2865]

Vocês se completam como a lua e o mar. Sinto que o Senhor Bernardo Vespermann é mais razão do que coração, acho que tens mais paciência para ouvir do que o Senhor Adam Pate que é muito metódico, organizado e que não consegue sintetizar bem as emoções e para evitar conflitos desnecessários prefere sair à francesa como no dizem aqui no Brasil, destaco que o próprio Adam evita fazer isso hoje pois evoluiu. Sou um pouco assim, evito discussões e saio. O auto-conhecimento de vocês como casal está evoluindo bem e isso é nítido. Continuem assim, só desejo o melhor nas vossas vidas. Parabéns pelo canal mais uma vez, e mais uma coisa ensina o Adam Pate a rebolar ele está bem travado, muito engraçado está parte do vídeo. Abraço grande!!!

[@claramarianongtraw5030]

Like the new addition of bloopers.. its funny.. God bless you both.. you guys should try doing like a challenge video ( spin the wheel with different things..)

[@Jiozinu]

If you get divorced,I'll never believe in love again.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We won't get divorced.

[@donaldstorm4959]

Ditto xoxoxo 😘

[@jewelryhandmadedg9617]

Stepsof2Foreigners primero Dios que así sea!

[@jieognare7936]

I can see it coming..

[@MarianoContiOK]

😊😊😊😊

[@ayushshukla9348]

It seems like you are telling a story to the children, damn that's so cute , I really appreciate you guys , you both are awesome ❤️ huge love from India 🇮🇳

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How kind of you to say that Ayush. Thank you. Big hugs from Portland :)

[@vinaysharma1369]

You both awesome. Love u guys

[@bigcock582]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Guys! You just have to fuck more !!! Even more!

[@BMW-je4xn]

Ayush are you looking for partner

[@infphere1890]

The moment i saw flag of india i knew there will be a guy(s) asking for being in a relationship.

[@aldrummond4061]

Love you guys. How do 2 people so bonded find each other ? It' truly a rare thing in life. Your videos show it so well . You guys are so real, like old friends I've had. You both have helped so many people see what real love is. Continue loving each other ! LOVE and PEACE .

[@speronocte7516]

My boyfriend and I, just had our one year boyfriendversary, are not married yet but going through the same exact things right now. It’s good to know that we aren’t alone in our issues and progress. Thank you guys for shedding light! We appreciate you both.

[@kalanipagan3581]

One thing I learned, the key to a successful marriage is to keep the option of a divorce out of the picture. Once you let that be an option you bring it to life. Don’t keep that as an option.

[@laurapickman9415]

You are my Zen after a long work day. You two bring light and love to so many. We need that now. Much Love. Also, you two will be awesome dads!

[@gsusan11]

Great video you guys. You two really seem to have your act together and that’s very refreshing. As long as you can sit down and talk about a subject you should be able to work it out between the two of you. Life is a learning experience and the best thing you can do is learn and grow together. And I loved the bloopers at the end!

[@kennethjefferywade9527]

Adam and Bernardo I want to share something with you that my grandmother shared with me when I was little. When loved ones get into an argument never let the sun set on it try and resolve it before the sun sets. Some arguments might take a little time to get resolved. It's good to stop think about what you're going to say, before saying it because you can say something and not be able to take it back and feelings are hurt words are said and it's a lot more damage.

[@AJD323]

I love how you guys put bloopers on your video because it shows that you guys are a realisitc couple and not just faking it for the views.

[@psremington]

Love watching you guys take this journey through life. It’s so refreshing seeing two guys willing to work at their relationship. Blessings to both of you. ❤️❤️

[@williamallman8330]

Love your openly sharing your most intimate relationship. Honesty, communication and respect are the major facets to a successful long-term relationship. I speak from experience with two failed ones under my belt.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much William. We agree with you. Big hugs to you.

[@micsph8657]

I nominate you for an Emmy Performance for this particular episode. My fav quote unquote Adam sliding your hands on Bernardo's face "I love how he talks about dishwasher but he really doesn't even do the dishes" that ending was so Perfect...it's should be added as a future sitcom...ohh love the soundtrack really smoooth...Abiento Guys...

[@harrietcarr307]

I really enjoyed the way you chose to discuss these important couples relationship topics. I know in my own 2 marriages, some of these were hard to talk about w/o getting defensive. My last husband didn't ever want to have a disagreement. He called it fighting, which I thought was stupid! He never saw his parents disagree, (!!) while mine were very vocal. So he would get upset if I wanted to discuss something. You can't have an honest relationship in my opinion, if you won't be open with your partner. You two have that willingness to talk about any needs or issues. I think that strengthens any relationship. Your videos are a nice mix of activity, discussion, games, travel. That makes them ever fresh! You editing, photography and music choices are always improving, and show the time and effort you put into each one. This was great. Love you, Harriet

[@isangblacktupa]

Hahahaha OMG on the towel and the falling asleep and snoring when watching a movie 😂✌️I can totally relate with mine

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

haha, I think pretty much all couples can relate to those :)

[@Jenny-wv1fb]

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[@Asklu1]

You are so funny, even over difficult topics! By arguments don't put pressure, don't reaction in heat, be responsible, argue with the love not out an emotion. Breath deeply! I'm not married!

[@Sky-fr4sj]

You both reminded me so much of my big brother and my brother-in-law, in the early stages of their marriage relationship... Now 16 years later with 3 kids, they are still the same, except the fact that they are more in love with each. Plus the love between you both is so beautiful. May you both be together until the end of this journey, and in the next.

[@raemundvp1153]

This is such a good video. It shows that you have a normal loving relationship. It is not just a therapy for you but a therapy to ther couples who watch you. Awesome job! Love it!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RBS_]

....I AGREE! ; )

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Raemund. We just don't feel like we have any credentials for people to listen to us. Our pasts are CRAZY! haha. What we can say what has worked for us and yes, we've had some problems in some areas but that's the fun part of a relationship. Watching the other person overcome an obstacle with your help. What an amazing feeling.

[@leoacosta3315]

It’s refreshing to see two awesome gay guys having such a healthy relationship. It’s very inspiring. I wish you and your respective families love, health, and prosperity 🙃

[@jieognare7936]

Leo Acosta for now. wait till 1 year..

[@eternalgemini]

@@jieognare7936 They've already been together for multiple years, I think they'll be just fine! ❤️👍

[@jezzaqc]

Love the blooper reel. Before that I hadn’t quite appreciated how much work goes into these videos and making them so good!

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey! Haha, yes, the videos do take some time. Especially when you have to memorize something, haha.

[@jezzaqc]

Stepsof2Foreigners Well thank you! The effort is really appreciated. The videos are awesome. Really cheer me up! Thank you!

[@tplmic5866]

I smiled and laughed so much. Thanks for showing your love for each other.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much :) Glad you are still enjoying them.

[@justthedailythings6892]

Happy almost coming out day which is the 11th I feel like you guys have inspired people that have trouble with expressing their real feelings and I appreciate that because not every person that people talk to have gone through what you guys have gone through if that makes since

[@Droolingmutt]

YES! I'm so glad you two posted a video. These videos have become a part of my daily routine and everytime I see a new video I just get so excited. 😂❤ Thank you for making our days brighter!

[@RBS_]

....us, TOO! ; )

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Quarantine, you are too kind. Thank you. We will continue to post new videos every Tuesday but watch out for 2020. We might be making some changes :)

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Always so sweet :) Thanks!

[@Droolingmutt]

Oh my goodness, can't believe you replied to this! My cousin says I'm overreacting when I screamed at the notification, but I say otherwise. I can't wait to see what changes you two are going to make! You have the support of your devoted followers no matter what. ❤

[@WDrafa-el]

Beautiful what they shared. There are differences in two people but if they are based on love and understanding there are successes in the couple. I love you guys, you are special

[@attilaszabados7431]

I watch an episode of yours every single night like guys how can you make me feel those happy tears in my eyes? Keep doing this, much love from Hungary ❤️

[@paulkeating9950]

Another incredibly well done video. I’m still catching up on old videos but I feel like a kid at Christmas because I have so many yet to watch.

[@samyoung2260]

I love this video! U guys r perfect for each other! I appreciate u smashing the fantasy that a relationship with your perfect guy is not going to b with some issues. The great thing is u guys try to work it out with humor and understanding. Keep enjoying the energy u both exude! Thanks for another humorous and revealing video! It s all true, once the honeymoon stage is over, u notice some the habits of your partner that annoys u! If u r able to overcome these annoyances, the relationship will get stronger. I have no doubts u r able to work the issues out and make your relationship even more special. Sam

[@lelandpeck4585]

thanks guys for your openness. Just remember never to let the sun go down before you've cleared up any arguments!

[@josephpatrick4375]

I can hear all of America letting out one big "awe....."

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Haha Joseph :)

[@johnmarkquarre8291]

Hi

[@josecarlosferreira6820]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners 😅😄😄😄😄😄😄😊😊😋

[@johnbrassey5481]

Not just America! The rest of the world 🌍 says it too!

[@teddyg.8602]

😍😍

[@nancyborden5860]

You guys are the bombs. Just stay true to each other and on your 50h anniversary, you can rewatch this post and smile.

[@missaires9831]

I’m jst too addicted to you two, i jst wanna keep watching you cz i admire the love you have for each other. Luv y’all 😍

[@tillu2809]

Yeah..I too

[@b4804514]

Bernardo is really on point with the first comment. Identity is critical. We have watched you guys grow closer and closer clearly working on your shortcoming with each other and making a relationship to be very proud of. Having the courage to talk about these very personal subjects shows us just how much confidence you have in each other. Well done guys Your videos are always like having a conversation with friends

[@RBS_]

......yeah, and I'M that chatty-ass guest that won't leave the damn Party!! ...ha-HAA! 🥴 ....and you're RIGHT about the Boys....VERY inspirational, they ARE!! 👬💕

[@rodell100]

Marriage and relationships are difficult. I have lived together with my partner for 8 years. MarrIed for 3 years. Divorced for 3 years. Back together now for 3 years and with all the struggles we are happier now than ever. Never give up and know the grass is never greener on the other side.

[@waltervelasquez6834]

Alan and Benardo. I greet you from my great admiration and the greatest joy of my heart, his love fills me with laughter and dreams, I love you very much from El Salvador, many blessings and they continue to grow.

[@chc4002]

You are irresistible ...really !!! ..You release the joy of living... You are so beautiful because so much in love... You can approach all facets of the life of a couple.... Thank you so much to exist :)))

[@rajesh6743]

S u r correct

[@marth9660]

Love this. You have already achieved a great balance between organically growing into each other but still deliberately making time to focus on where you’re at with each other and where/how you want to move forward. You don’t over analyse but you still reflect and share. Insecurity and jealousy have always been the pitfall for me - because of serious trust issues. And as for a wet towel on the bed......that would push me right over the edge 😂😂❤️❤️ Love you both xx

[@CassDunham]

The opening sequence of this video was perfect and hilarious! I have a solution for your dirty laundry hamper. Get a hamper without a lid, it's life changing! Those hamper lids are tricky, no lid, no problem! lol

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hey Cassee, thank you very much. We tried something a little new to the intro. Most of the time the hamper doesn't have the lid on it because it's mixed in with the clothes, haha. Lid or no lid, the clothes would be on the floor :)

[@davidblegen5182]

Happy Tuesday! Great Video. I love your honesty with each other and with us! You guys provide us with a glimpse that no relationship is "perfect", and we all the opportunity to have a purposeful conversation for a Win-Win! Hugs! David

[@hydeemangubat6249]

I like the Argument topic its cute everytime Adam agreed what Bernardo said .."he does"..bloopers are fun ..Thank you again guys for sharing this kind of video..Godbless😊

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Hydee. Yes, our argument subject, we were interested to hear what the other would say. I'm glad Bernardo mentioned those points :) Big hugs to you.

[@lawrenceharris7369]

You guys are hilarious, but real, and true to yourselves, and one another.

[@curivo8]

Remember guys we love people for their qualities but we love them for their shortcomings

[@АдамОздоев-о4р]

Вроде

[@bretvegan]

Great job bringing the videos to the next level. This video brings a new perspective of who you are and what you both bring to the relationship. The way you engage with each other is a fantastic formula. As with any medium, film, TV, or KZbin videos, if the content draws you in then you'll return for more. Your personalities and senses of humor are a nice escape from the challenges of the day.

[@joshbaker430]

My husband and I shared an account( equal amount deposited monthly) and kept our individual accounts if we wanted to buy personal items or surprise each other with gifts. My pet peeves were that he would shave and leave the hairs in the sink. The worst was not replacing the toilet paper. Remember in the long run life is short and these little things really don’t matter. I miss all those silly things. Love you guys. 😀❤️❤️😘

[@richardblackwell1230]

Great video - loved the bloopers at the end - more please. Relationships are hard and you do have to understand the other person very well. The pet peeves one is something that you try to change in the other person but sometimes you realise that you will just have to accept it.

[@massing_august]

I'm already loving this..😂😂♥️♥️

[@enzomartinez8083]

Me too just with the beggining...i was like "ok I already love this"...😃😃😃

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How sweet. Thank you. We tried something new with the intro.

[@noven100]

I only wish you guys more love, good health and happy marriage. You guys are made for each other. Watching the videos and see the way you talk and interact with each other is PURE LOVE!!!. I have been with my partner for over 21 years and I can't imagine myself without him.

[@nutcaseneo191]

It is our 5 yr anniversary tomorrow, you guys have helped us a lot in our struggle. Love u guys 😘😘🍎🎂🌟

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow! Happy Anniversary guys. Congrats. That is amazing. We love you too!

[@garygreely7782]

Very enjoyable; it was great seeing you both being honest. One has to continue to communicate to each other to keep honesty and respect for each other. It's never good to keep things bottled up. Keep up the great work and I really enjoy watching your journey with each other.

[@dh6418]

You two still together after doing this episode? lol ! You both are just great. I think your future together is gonna be awesome. The fact that you two are willing to work together and not let things bug each other so much makes me feel really good about your marriage. But then again, I'm no therapist either ! lol love you guys, take care .

[@jamesbjames9555]

Thanks again for a more intimate look at your relationship. The love and respect for each other shine thru here.

[@eddieyyy3]

I agree finances is the hardest thing to go through in a relationship. Even with my bf of 7 years I still struggle to find the balance between “spending based on emotion and not reality.”

[@lucimarlucas2841]

Parabéns pelo trabalho lindo

[@jean-marcpatron9389]

you are so cute!!! Your hapyness is contagious ! THANK YOU !!!

[@latabernadelduende]

13:54 Bernardo: We can’t have much stability in our lives Corona: u staying home darling

[@stevenescover7251]

LOL. Benard and Adam you are working through the small bumps that a loving couple experiences. However, the key is communication based on understanding, respect and satisfying individual expectations. Its balance with love holding the equilibrium in the relationship. Now having said that, I love your sharing on each of the videos. In one way you are being courageous because humans like to make judgement on many aspects in others but never use self-reflection to gain their own insights to their weakness, strengths and deficiencies. So thank you for be sharing and modeling how we can be better humans. Being honest if you were living in the same community i definitely would want you in my inner circle. 😊😊😊

[@O0oRnPo0O]

It’s so adorable, love watching your videos! You always make me smile, don’t lose this passion you got between each other! 😉

[@derekvandeventer9524]

You guys are adorable. It’s cute how real you get with each other and how you laugh and acknowledge the things about yourselves. It’s inspiring. And Adam, I’m with you: keep your eyes and your hands off my man.

[@RBS_]

.....well, I see Derek doesn't play! ...ha-HAA! 😡👊😲

[@derekvandeventer9524]

RBS got that right!

[@jasonsmith5295]

Love the bloopers, We want more bloopers at the end of each vlog.Love you both

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Hahaha Jason, okay :) We love you too.

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[@GregRBaird]

You two continue to impress me on your relationship and your journey. I appreciate you and your honesty and sharing your world with so many...you are educating and opening so many hearts and minds. Hugs and love from me.

[@briansherrod1916]

Every Tuesday, I get what I’ve been waiting all week for! ❤️

[@a.2169]

What's your @? You cuuute

[@lonewolf8905]

Love this 😍❤️ These two are sooo relatable. Im like Bernardo when it comes to arguing and like Adam when it comes to getting jealous.. 😝 Love the bloopers at the end 😂🤣😂👍🏻👍🏻

[@amirnisar4959]

The whole world goes on and on about love. Poets spend their lives writing about it. Everyone thinks it's the most wonderful thing. But, when you mention two guys in love, they forget all that and freak out..love you #stepsof2foreigners ♥

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

We love you too Amir

[@mohdfirdous1665]

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[@amirnisar4959]

@@mohdfirdous1665 Walayakum asslam.. Thank you ☺

[@mohdfirdous1665]

Jazakallahu khair

[@mohdfirdous1665]

Amir nisar aap kidher say hoo.

[@galev3955]

Lately I wasn't watching your guys as much because I admit I was a bit envious of your happiness, I wasn't sure if maybe it would just make me feel more lonely. But this video is just so wholesome and it is so great to see and hear you be true with each other and be open and vulnerable and talking about these things. It warmed my heart :) There is really not much out there to know what to expect from a healthy gay relationship, or if one is even possible. So for that reason I think it is very useful to see your example.

[@thetravellinghobitt]

Hello my lovelies! I think my personality is sooo like Adam’s! Apparently I leave the dishes on top of the dishwasher which drives him nuts! Talking about arguments, me and my partner don’t go to sleep not settling it and say I love you and a kiss in the end. I think that makes it more better for us and keeps us in a tight bond. I would love a dog in the future! Hahaha! Good acting guys! Loving the bloopers! 👍🏼😂😊 I love you guys! 😍❤️😘👍🏼

[@RBS_]

....a DOG!? ...for them, or for YOU!? ....WELL, we all know Adam is not one for 'pussy' (13:32) ...ha-HAAAA!!! 😾❎ / 🐕‍✅

[@denningselan2830]

Lovely couple

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

How are you? Yes, we agree that going to sleep when you're in an argument isn't good. We solve any problems before sleeping. We hope you guys are doing well. Glad you liked the acting :) Big hugs.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

That's certainly right :)

[@RBS_]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners ....🙀!! ...ha-HAAA!!

[@humanityin1minute898]

Dear Adam and Bernardo, what a great video! 😊🙏🏻 more than the answers itself, I truly believe that the inspirational content of the video is your cumplicity. This video is such an amazing example of expanding consciousness through your own internal things: I felt like Adam is not going to stop being jealous suddenly but I get the feeling he is not trapped in his jealousy anymore. That is such an amazing message of freedom and kindness ! 😊🙏🏻 thank you, guys! Hugs (abraços) from Portugal

[@alfonsomoser]

Thanks for sharing this amazing video guys! Even if you talked about trust I think that also respect is a very important value in a couple life. Respect is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. But what exactly is respect? Respect means in my opinion that you recognize that your partner is a whole person, and not just a way to get something that you want. It means that you know your partner has different experiences and opinions from you, and that's ok. Furthermore you desire to love his experiences and to share them so that the relationship can grow towards an unexpected happiness. A massive hug from Trentino Italy 🇮🇹 Have good days together and hopefully for ever. Alf 😊

[@RBS_]

.....lovely saying, lovely meaning, and, from an ITALIAN, TOO!? ...well, AWLRITE! 😉👍

[@vallebm9844]

Hi! Appreciate that you do not try to pretend that all is perfect in a relationship and, good thing you take things with sense of humour. That is the key! Thanks for the video! 😍😍😍

[@iqtanmendro9549]

My favorite couple on youtube ... Huge Love from Indonesia 🇮🇩

[@markpopson5616]

You guys are so cute together! I think we as well, keep learning about you guys as well!

[@wesleyoliveira6975]

Nossa, adorei o "papo cabeça" de hoje, vocês são maravilhosos juntos e estão em perfeita sintonia, mesmo com pequenas discordâncias vocês conseguem chegar a um denominador comum. Uma sugestão, ficou bem legal os bastidores do vídeo no final poderiam manter nos próximos. 😘😘😘😘

[@GabeToView]

Hello friends thanks for sharing part of you life with us. Good topics that make you think. Some times we tend to argue for things that are not relevant. And is good to talk and solve them right away. Hugs and all the best

[@rubberdc]

when you Adam have a shower , why cant Bernardo just walk in and hang his towel ? My husband always puts the towels back the way he wants to, I like them folded and put on the heated towel ladder neatly . It infuriates me when he repeats it .

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

The door is unlocked. That excuse of me being in the shower is lame. (Yawn). I'd prefer it if he walked in on me every now and then but no, the towel stays on the bed :)

[@DragonLightz]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners Hey, Bernardo! Adam said he prefers it if you WALK IN on him every now and then. Get the hint? ;-)

[@patgrant8881]

I love u guys!!! On the argument if it’s really heated, best to walk away settle down then agree to sit and talk when calmer.

[@secretperson1396]

Hey, I'm a new subscriber and a new fan :D I'm a 21 y.o. gay man from Indonesia. We have 34 provinces here and 33 out of 34 provinces don't criminalize homosexuality. Even tho it's not criminalized in most of our provinces, it's still really hard to be openly gay. If you are openly gay, you may get "social" punishment from your surroundings. I've dated two guys before and the first one only lasted for 1 month, the second one only lasted for 4 months. How pitiful I was haha. Kinda hopeless romantic here now. But I love watching you guys. You guys both are really amazing :") So happy for you, guys. I do really mean it! Keep being amazing. Love from Indonesia

[@alexdjuan5641]

I'm form Indonesia too , that really sad and bad fact and put us into hard feeling being gay 😔

[@TheGor800]

I love your honesty. Thank you for sharing your experiences and your relationship issues.

[@marceloamancio91]

Os erros de gravação 😂😂😂 melhor do mundo, que venham mais vídeos assim !

[@Amir-yx8zu]

Hi

[@lilycatlin]

Bernardo, I can relate to the dishwasher issue! Good luck with getting Adam to load it correctly! Another great video, guys!! 👣👣

[@petermacleod7509]

I like this video,it shows how much you both trust each other.❤️❤️❤️✌🏻

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Peter. We're glad to hear you enjoyed this video.

[@octhom1]

Another great video you two! It’s nice to see that all of us go through a lot of the same things. Weather you are newlyweds or been together for 20+ years we all have differences to deal with. 💙💚

[@susiew.9012]

Happy tuesday boys. I really enjoyed this intimate insight into your relationship. I think you both did your fair share of squirming haha! You both put your points across with good humour tho which is a good thing, as is compromise and discussion. Kudos to you for this open and honest vlog guys, love and hugs 😍💋😍💋🏳️‍🌈

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thank you. We wanted to be as honest as we could. Glad you enjoyed this video. Big hugs to you Susie :)

[@COPESHONESTYTRUST]

I enjoy the line of the concept taken and I followed to the T. Informative and to the point. Keep building and make your memories be the tool to guide all how to assess and work on building LOVE relationship. Blessing @ Stepsof2Foreigners.

[@robinsummers9141]

This video was great! You both are so adorable with each other!

[@flaviaesse9864]

Whaaat? Adam kittens are adorable! Anyway beautiful video, as always I love the positivity that you bring to this platform. Love from Italy 💓

[@asminhasvisoesdomundojunio6694]

Na parte das discussões só faltou a "vozinha" de reconciliação " baby I'm Sorry" kkkkkkkkkkkk

[@Manry65]

Interesting topics but the most important thing is the respect between the two. Many greetings from Panamá City, Panamá. Luis Ricardo.

[@jimboland4161]

My partner and I have our own bedrooms. I can’t imagine sharing my bed for anyone. We had separate bedrooms for 17 years.

[@user-dd8rl4ej5d]

How do you have sex?

[@rafwd1968]

Woww how y'all become a real partner when you're not sharing your bed together ? I can't even imagine

[@georgescott3652]

It was fun watching this again. Always enjoy your humor.

[@jimjefftube]

Being able to laugh is so important, regardless of the issue. We can always see the love for one-another and the laughter is so endearing & heartwarming! Best wishes to both of you and never stop working together to solve issues!

[@michellegriffin7172]

You two leave me with positive thoughts. Every video so THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH! Blessings from Alabama

[@geocape7060]

This was one of my favorite videos of you guys. So cute man.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, that's nice to hear. Thanks so much :)

[@carloslozano7736]

geo cape

[@harleen521]

Hi guys! I just wanted to say how much I love you! I just started watching your videos a week ago. I already feel like I have known you for ages. I can't wait to follow you guys through your adventures (I sent you guys a message on your facebook, not sure if it went through). Anyway, you guys are a breath of fresh air! Wishing you many many years of health and happiness together. Lots of love.

[@jessparr8019]

I loved the video, but the bloopers certainly were entertaining at the end. Happy Tuesday Adam and Bernardo love you both. ❤️😘

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Thanks so much Jess :) We love you too!

[@ronaldlabieniec987]

Hi, guys. I discovered your channel about a month ago. What a discovery! I love the two of you together, and I love traveling with you via your channel. Believe it or not, I've seen every video...some more than once. Thank you for every single one of them. Here's to 500,000 subscribers, which you totally deserve. Love from Connecticut 💖 Ron L.

[@duutdes]

I'm rewatching this just cause it's Tuesday now and I'm waiting for your notification🤣🤣

[@michaelalanjunak]

Love you two and your visibility to the community. You do so much for everyone with just one of your videos

[@beatlejuice1340]

3:47 oh dear Lawd!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 The best twerking the internet has ever seen😂😂❤️

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Don't you be making fun of my amazing twerk. I want to be this drunk again :) - Adam writing!

[@beatlejuice1340]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners you guys made my day🤣🤣🤣 Adam the way you lifted you leg when you were on the floor made me laugh harder, luckily there was nobody in the bus with me. The driver said, "I wanna be watching that too" 🤣🤣🤣

[@beatlejuice1340]

@@Stepsof2Foreigners I usually wait till I get home to watch your videos but the amount of excitement I feel when I get a notification from you, makes me act like a kid who just got a bunch of candy🤣🤣🤣

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Wow, you're too cute. Thanks. Yeah, I was a bit wasted at that moment. I normally lift my legs up when I'm a bit tipsy :) haha.

[@Stepsof2Foreigners]

Don't read into that "I normally lift my legs up".... that means nothing :)

[@jacquelinevicars4235]

Love this video! For every couple, they will have their ways that work for them, but the one thing that all couples absolutely have to have is honest communication. If you don't talk about what makes you happy, sad, expectations etc.. then it won't work!!

[@texanrob]

Great Video guys, This one made me laugh! 😅I notice details, Adam is that a passion mark on your neck? LOL 😲

[@stevec404]

I get it - your 'stable place' right now is...with each other! The world is your playground; as it should be for everyone. XOXO

[@dannc3344]

Nice video guys! I love this kind of videos. Its funny and great The Best part : Bernardo eyes 15:08 hahahahahaha

[@davefrommelbourne1237]

Well done fellas they’re the right topics in any relationship. The bloopers made me laugh too!