Niam Txiv Kiag Los Tseem Txo Yus Zog~08/29/2024~

[@krissiekhang0218]

Ruam tiag tiag hom txiv neej no os....😢

[@millennialhmong7121]

OMG....you are so right, there are guys like that. Only those of us suffering this kind of abuse would understand the pain and suffering. You only know if you know! At least you have a supportive mom. Hope you find peace and joy to make up for all those years of head ache.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

You made the right choice, sister, by divorcing that no good man. He wasn't going to change for the better. You didn't deserve that mental and emotional abuse. Hope you will find a good guy who will truly appreciate you.

[@xeevang3907]

I know Im not the only spouse/wife who feels this, is going thru this, or have gone thru this. The first 1.25 mins of the intro and I already know this is also my story. When a narrow-minded husband blamed or unwilling to accept the facts that the wife is either correct most of the time, smarter, earned more or have a higher degree and then he said we are over-stepping him. My dear sisters, if this also sound like your life story/marriage/partner, you either leave a man like that asap if you could or you just do you and ignored him. As a hard working woman/wife, I learned that most men with no precise life goals and or know he lacks things himself are some of those who purposedly bullied their own spouse, kids, etc so he can feel entitled to his man power or authoritative male status (bc thats the only thing he thinks he owns or was given). He cant step down his ego, he cant cooperate and unwelling to help/support his wife. Never let men like that eat you up and pull you down.

[@TuaVlog-fb6sp]

Tsov tom kom ces tsi khe yuag law mas nrog koj tu siab

[@maicthao9692]

Yog kuv ces nrauj lawm os

[@hmooblubneejsibpab3471]

Lub neej niam txiv txoj nkawm tsis muaj kev sib pab sib txawb ces ua siab tso tseg xwb os mog koj ua yog kawg lawm os tus sister aw

[@gaoyang5064]

Wow!! I can't believe it. It's good that you move on.

[@kellyxiong8739]

What a waste of 7 years. I'm glad you got out of that toxicity.

[@pvp503]

That’s why people said married your own class..

[@meexiongvang3373]

Me ntxhai aws tus txiv zoo liskos xwb tsi txhob khuvxim tus neeg tsi txos hwjchim ce lawv yeej muab pojniam siab qi qi saib tsi tau ponniam kiag lis cov neeg zoo lis kos mas tsi txhob txuag Nws kiag lis os yuav Nws los nkim sijhawm thiab mob hlwb xwb ce Nws tseem yuav ua kom yus tuag sai xwb mus nrhiav dua tus hai lus haum yus saib tau yus thiaj xav yuav nws yus thiaj muaj kev kajsiab yus thiaj tsi muaj mob os me ntxhai

[@kenxiong5540]

Wowo kuv xum koj tshaj li PEB ces Xav tau ib tus poj niam muaj peev xwm li koj tshaj...😭

[@diannaxiong693]

Zoo koj dim lawm os me ntxhais aw!

[@chiaher3962]

Txhob tu siab os nws kuj tsis yog hais tias txhua2 tus kawm ntawv siab yuav txawj xav hos cov kawm ntawv qis yuav tsis txawj xav tus neeg txawj xav thiab siab zoo ces nws tseem tsis kawm ntawv siab los nws yeej txawj xav thiab siab yeej zoo, tus neeg yuav ntse ces tseem nws muaj kev kawm los nws yeej ntse tej zaum kuj yog nws pom ib txhia poj niam yeej coj li nws xav ntawv thiab, hos koj los tej zaum koj yuav xav hais tias cov txiv neej tsis muaj kev kawm ces yuav zoo li koj tus qub txiv thiab tsis tau txog yus tus xwb os.

[@zoolikuv]

Good for you for not going back

[@chaolee606]

Can’t deal with narcissists guy

[@suemay2597]

Jealous and insecure husband like that are always the one to wreck the marriage.

[@pahouavang2891]

Glad you got rif of him! Live your life to the fullest.

[@nkaujhmoobheu3874]

Cov txiv neej li ko ces muab lawb kiag xwb tsis muaj nws los kij yeej nyob tau.

[@cheexiong1634]

Omg time to leave this husband! He is plain jealous and wants to be better than you but won’t all you to do yours to improve both your life. Forget him!

[@payang3701]

Thaum peb poj niam zoo zoo siab peb qhia peb txoj kev zoo siab rau nws tab sis nws txo yus lub zog ces thaum kawg yus tig ua poj niam zais siab thiab ntxeev siab rau xwb.

[@mayervang-her9610]

What a toxic partner you have. I’m so glad you’ve decided to keep your job. Some Hmong men are like this, it’s been ingrained in them by their parents and the elders for Hmong men to be like this. I’m glad you had the courage to move on.

[@nouxiong1583]

Tus txiv DEV no ces ua lub GOOD BYE xwb os sister.

[@levieyang]

I'm glad you left him. God I can't stand him just listening to your story... Meem txom tiag tiag lol

[@miabhlub63]

He has a 1975 mindset! Yuav ib tug txiv zoo li no yuav los yeej tsis ntxiv yus dabtsi.

[@cookingcutiepieAI]

Tus brother aw koj ces plam kiag koj lub me pov haum zaj thiab tus ntsuag nyiaj ntsuag kub ua yuav los txhawb koj lub neej lawm lau

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

My now ex-husband was the same way, except he didn't allow me to put my degree to work. He wanted me to stay home, raise his kids, his parents and our kids. Twds the end of our relationship I was diagnosed with liver cancer, he decided to cheat on me and said that I never worked a day in my life so I need to walk away empty handed. Some of these men aren't worth putting our life on hold for.

[@thorbao3200]

Lub neej tam sim no pauv lawm tus viv ncaus, koj tus txiv tsis to taub tias txawm yog poj niam Los lub peev xwm yeej sib npaug nrog tus txiv neej. Qhov teej meem Los ntawm koj tus txiv xwb, tej zaum nws tsis lees nws tus kheej tias nws tsis txawj ntaub txawj ntaw es nws thiaj li muab lub txim rau koj ev

[@leepaoyang5670]

Lam nyob Me kas xwb cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob ib co lub hlwb tseem nyob puag tom qab 1975 thiab os.

[@jackieyunan4899]

He deserves to be single forever..

[@hmongremark2686]

Niam txiv txoj kev sib nrauj sib tso twb yog ib tug pheej oppose lwm tus rau yuav luag lub tswv yim nthuav tawm thiab tshwm sim tawm tas li. Tej teeb meem zoo li no tshwm sim rau ib nkawm niam txiv tus twg lawm ces tus ntawv cia li tsis xyiv fab ua neej. Case no mas tej zaum tus niam kawm ntawv siab dua tus txiv lawm ces nws siv hwj chim zog tswj tsav nkawv lub neej xwb. Feem coob tub txawj tsis lam tau lam nrauj ntxhais tsis txawj, tab sis feem coob ntxhais txawj keev nrauj tub tsis txawj pawg lug rau yuav luag txhua lub state muaj Hmoob nyob.

[@zouachang7857]

Muab koj tu txiv ko ntsaw thoob khib nyiab zoo dua nawb

[@colleenchan9872]

Oyo nrog cov niag txiv neej tsis fwm yus li ko mas ntxim ntxhub dhau os! Hais abtsi los xaus kiag rau txoj kev xam khib ces lawb xwb! Cov neeg tsis muaj kev kawm li koj niag txiv ko ces yeej tsis nkag siab koj li os..txhob cia cov niag neeg zoo li ko los txo koj txoj hauv kev os mog..kav tsij pursue koj txoj kev npau suav thiab kev ntshaw xwb os nawb..tus neeg zoo li ko tsuas txo koj lub zog lub siab nkaus xwb nawb nws yeej tsis Benefits koj li os...nws lub siab twm zeej tem xeeb heev nawb cov neeg li ko tso pluav kiag kom nws txom nyem nws thiaj paub os..

[@nkaujhmoobheu3874]

Cov txiv neej ruam cas kuv pom tib co txiv neej es yeej tsis nrog poj niam saib laj kiag nyias hais nyias 1 zaj hais mas lob puag tom tej los hais yeej tsis hais yam yus hais kiag

[@maynengvang9896]

let him go...😄😁😃

[@navachang1949]

When you are sharing your wealth with him and he acts like that? It's good that you left him. You definitely don't need his BS.

[@chonyang6444]

Sister cas koj yuav hais tau opposite ntawm kuv os. Peb ua neeg nyob tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej yog tus nws tsis hlub koj lawm koj txawm yuav ua npaum cas los nws yeej tsis pom koj lub txiaj ntsig. Cia nws mus rau tus tsim nws es nws thiaj nyoo. Ua li koj ua yeej yog lawm. Txiv neej tseem tshuav cov zoo thiab, mam siv sij hawm nrhiav, txhob maj maj nawb.

[@MaryLee-mo8rr]

Ua cas nej pheej xav2 khavtheeb txog nej txoj haujlwm 3, 4 xyoos degree is not all that. Cov nurse doctor lawyer uas tau nyiaj ntau2 twb tsis mus khavtheeb los mas. Hmoob mas yeej khavtheeb os, yog yus khav2 mas neeg ntxub2 yus heev nawb. Yus txoj haujlwm zoo lawv yeej paub tebchaws yeej pom mas. Muab hais los koj yeej xav khavtheeb koj tus txiv thiaj cem. Kuv tus Nyab tas nurse 8 xyoo 1 xuaj.moos yog 100 lawv twb tsis khavtheeb tseem ntshai tsam neeg paub os

[@nancymoua4982]

muab nrov kauj vab kiag xwb niag txiv dev no nas.

[@visibopath1412]

Tus txiv dev li no, kuv yog koj ua ib tug niam tsev ces kuv muab nws ntsaws pov tseg hauv thoob khib nyiab pib thaum ntxov lawm. Yog kuv ces twb qhuas kuv tus pojniam thiab tsa nws lub zog ob peb theem kom siab zog. Zoo li nws khib txog nws tus niam tsev vim nws tsis txo nws lub hwjchim li. Koj tus txiv ko xiam hlwb lawm os hahah... Twb tsis yog tejzaum xiam hlwb yog xiam hlwb rwj tag li 😆😅🤣 Tabsis, koj yog ib tug niam tsev yog luag tus qhua sab nruav txib koj los koj yuav tau kom lawv ho txib koj tus txiv thiab cia kuv nrog kuv tus txiv tham thiab no ov.

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

Niag tsov tom txiv ruam npaj nauj. Best to get rid of him asap.😂😮

[@PH-ThailanD]

niag nrej muag ruam kom. nub no plam koj lawm caig kawg txom nyem mas

[@luemas2766]

Ya should had an agreement before you applied for your manager job. But he should had supported you too.

[@diannaxiong693]

Hi siab phem heev yog kuv ces muab nws lawb dab kiag xwb yeej tsi nyuaj kiag li yog coj phem li ko yog niam khav theeb koj niag txiv ruam tsab ntse os.

[@Pojhuabtais]

This relationship was very toxic.. what a loser husband gives me headache already😮😮 your a strong woman don't let any man treated you like this

[@kuab50]

Koj niag txiv tsev no thiaj yog tseem2 ruam tsab ntse tiag tiag li lauj yom!! Vim nws tsi kam nyob nws qhov position li nawj!

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Yog muaj tseeb li koj hais ko ces twb muab nws lawb lawm ntxov

[@17maukabtsab]

Whaooooo that man is negative!!!!! His ego is too rude

[@phoenixrogue25]

This guy is crazy. My husband is so thankful I make more than him so that he doesn't have to work so hard, lol.

[@maileevue116]

Good thing you left him

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Guys like your husband feel threatened by smart women. He’s too insecure. He wants to suppress you to make him feel important. If you want to climb the ladder, move on and leave him behind. Better to divorce now than later.

[@piamoua3649]

Tus txiv neej twg Yog coj tus cwj pwm zoo li ko ces, kav tsij muab nws disposal (not re-cycle). Tab sis Kuv kuj xav hnov Koj tus txiv sab thiab.

[@harryt1451]

Get out of the relationship, lady. Find someone who builds you up and amplifies the good in you. This man-child will only drain your spirit.

[@Uatushlubkoj]

Hoyo cov niag txiv hmoob poob qab lis no ce muab ua lub good bye thoob khib nyiab xwb os 😅

[@nouvang9245]

Hmm, I’d like to hear his side of the story

[@lenalo6736]

You don't need a husband like yours

[@Niamtswv00109]

He’s so jealous and threatened by you. He’s an insecure little man. Don’t let him make you feel guilty for doing well for yourself.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

When you are married to an illiterate spouse & different level of education, they won't understand you much, especially if they have a high ego!

[@baoyang6565]

At the beginning..we already know his a looser from his family's eyes. You better off without him

[@MissPeachie]

Your husband is insecure and jealous of you because you are better. It’s ashamed that he couldn’t be happy for you. That is why you should marry someone that is compatible with you.

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

She lying just to made her look good where his side 😢😢😢😢

[@kouxiong143]

The problem in this relationship is that you guys got married for the wrong reasons. He married you because of his parents, and he doesn't know what he really wants. You married him because you love him and want to build a life together. The foundation of a marriage is love. Your marriage only consisted of one-sided love. He may have cared and maybe even loved you at one point but he was never in love with you. He loved the idea that he found a good wife who met his parents' standards. But it was never what he truly wanted. It was what he thought he wanted.

[@bchang227]

In truth, a husband and his wife need each other. 2 is better than 1! Without your income, he could never afford a nice house and vice versa! Some of these hmong guys' ego are a big as their balls! 😂 They need to learn to txo hwj chim miv ntsiv and be more understanding, paub xav thiab lo!!

[@nkaujmogmim125]

He's jealous off u better then him. Ruam tsab ntse

[@Faifferz]

Sounds like he’s jealous that you have goals and ambitions. Also sounds like he wants a mommy and not a wife.

[@appreciatepurview]

He's in denial.

[@kelbra3689]

I don't think he's jealous of you. He's actually very insecure that he is less educated and makes than you. It's constantly on his mind which is why when you haven't said anything close to it, he brings it up. He's always thinking about it and judging himself everyday. Since he thinks about it all the time and feels inferior to you, he thinks you and everybody around you guys feel the same way. I think thearpy could have saved your marriage.

[@debbieyaj4642]

I don't know why you still married to him. Nws twb saib tsis tau koj. Nws saib koj tsis muaj nuj nqi hais lus phem thuam koj npaum ntawd ces muab nws tsij thoob khib nyiab mus yuav tus thiab. Tseem muaj so many good guys out there who will listen and support you, appreciate you, and your job. Coj koj cov menyuam Khiav kiag mus kom vaj tse ntiag tos nws nyob nws ib leeg kom nws thiaj paub tias thaum tsis muaj yus pab niam tub es seb nws puas txawj nco koj. The kind of guys that have an attitude like your husband i don't like it. Leave him someday he will miss you and regret it.

[@gyang999]

I only listened to this story up to 15 min and I have to stop because this guy is too annoying. Sister, if you end up divorcing him then good for you…if not, then consider it. Cov txiv Neej ruam tsab ntse tsis tso hwj chim li koj tus husband ntawm ko ces ua Neej yeej nyuaj nyuaj.

[@maylovang1880]

Cov niag txiv phem li no ces tsis tas yuav nws li. Chim li cas no yus twb tsis txawj tsis ntse tiag nev yus tus poj niam twb yog tus ntse tshaj yus tiag tiag li ne niag txiv neej ruam ces ruam tiag tiag, koj xaiv yog lawm me ntxhais aw

[@kermoua6883]

Koj Tus txiv mas siab phem tshaj! Muab nws recycle trash and move on to some one who cares and loves you! Love your self and find your happiness 😊

[@maivang6987]

Koj tus niag txiv mas thiaj yog ruam tsab ntag las tus viv ncaus aw! .

[@tiaxiong4805]

If I were you divorced him

[@enangthao8509]

I absolutely hate men like this. You're a team, not competition.

[@sunnygirl973]

Zoo lis yog xam khib xwb os yog tsis txhawb yus zog na. Vim nws under yus qrhov level degree ne. Nws xav muab yus tsuj kom tis av xwb os. Cov zoo lis no mus tsis txog twg os. Yus nyob yus ib leeg zoo dua os. Tsis need this looser. Cias nws mus yuav tus ruam ruam es nws mam nco koj tshav ntuj nrig thaum muaj nyiaj thiab thaum pluag zoo lis cas os.

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

That guy is Hmong men 1975

[@songcha9495]

He's very jealous

[@xwmkabyang354]

koj niag txiv dev tsab ntse siab phem xwb cov txiv aub zoo li ko ces ntog tsuab tau od mog

[@lukemoua9027]

Koj tau tus txiv ruam tsis txawj qhuas , tsis txawj hwm yus tus poj niam....muab nrauj pov tseg

[@pamthao8955]

Rau qov koj bwb bwb ne lol 😂

[@yinglee8513]

This seems to be an insecure, old-fashioned guy

[@kokolaurels5021]

I don’t understand neb cov lawm tawm siab na. Neb kawm txhawm xwb you guys are not that clever at all. Don’t brag yourself that you guys are smart.

[@nancyvang3796]

Thats one insecure dude

[@thomasveu8365]

Txiv dev hmoob ruam xwb mas

[@CampingFever]

Sounds controlling

[@mualeena]

Your husband sound so insecure and his ego is too much

[@tvang8]

Your husband is just jealous and insecure

[@kiab7557]

Why would you brag about how much you make to people? Hmong people just love to brag. When people asked how much I make, I’d respond as “enough to pay for my mortgage and ensuring my babies and I have enough eggs and noodles to eat.”