Girl code (but for black girls)🩷

[@AynonMollie]

“Another black girls success is also a win for you.” Hit hard, it’s such a strong and supportive mindset I love that❤

[@machellebryson6205]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@LifeofFlora]

I agree with you here ❤

[@carlybrandenburg4214]

I soo agree!!❤❤💪🏽 we have been pulled down by every race of women for far too long. #speaklilsis!

[@Honest000w]

Yes….i had a black coworker do the most to make me look bad. I was just like wow

[@AboutDesiree]

Exactly! I hope everyone could finally understand this💕

[@dillonmichaels6037]

My personal black girl code is that whenever I see a black girl with cute hair, clothes, great makeup/perfume, etc. I make sure to let her know. I love lifting up my sisters and making sure they know how beautiful they truly are! Btw, you are absolutely stunning!! 😍

[@geolassx5755]

I'm a senior white woman and I do this a lot, especially in grocery stores. I even compliment the dudes too. Everybody likes a cheerful compliment

[@MrsThollo]

​@@geolassx5755That's nice of you. I make sure to do this with younger women and girls. We're surrounded by eurocentric standards of beauty and lacked representation for so many years so it's important to us.

[@Hi-ox4wp]

love this so much! i hope u try and do it to everyone tho instead of just black girls but i love complimting people i see and the black girls just always seem to eat

[@livinmabestlife]

Same

[@kittikat4812]

Yesss!! I do this too. I might even go out of my way to come over and just say how pretty a black girl is to her. I might have anxiety but it’s gonna take a back seat for this!! 🔊🔊 And it’s nice when it happens to me. Nothing but love ✨💖

[@ForbiddenConversations]

I'm not black but leaving a supportive comment. You're gorgeous.

[@laurenmackenzie2014]

She really is.

[@SimplBoba]

Ikr❤

[@Anindeterminateamountofbees]

Fr she looks amazing

[@charadreamuur7229]

@@Anindeterminateamountofbees for real!

[@Allie_Victoria]

WAS LITERALLY GONNA SAY THE SAME THING LOL SHE IS STUNNING AGSHKHFH

[@Griefandgroceries]

Your skin is beyond rich. And stunning. And I wish to live in your kingdom with its supportive rules/regs

[@kaileymo]

The “I see you sis” smile in public is one of my favorite parts of the culture 🙌🏿🖤

[@Ouulala]

YES!!!

[@israeliana]

Yes🎉

[@Cynnas]

Literally every other culture does that too.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

@@Cynnas I don’t see that much with euro women.

[@fruitsarelife7073]

Yess sister, Black Girl Code 👸🏿🙏🏾💖

[@lk_c7214]

“Any Black girl’s win is your win” words to live by sis! 👸🏾❤

[@slimting]

Agreed 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@onevillagesalon]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@t.r.s8138]

Well you have to take the L's as well...😂

[@lolaleach18]

This ❤

[@jennyr005]

makes no sense to me? like how is HER win MY win? i didn't earn anything just by being black that's so dumb

[@allishiaknotts9399]

If we see a black girlie in an interracial relationship we celebrate her being loved the right way!! She deserves that regardless of the partner’s ethnicity or race!

[@Zuzu-go1ve]

Weird to assume that they're being loved "the right way" just because their partner is not black.

[@mirandascott8058]

@@Zuzu-go1veexactly what my mind was thinking when I read “loved the right way!!” But I’m just gonna mind my business and solely agree with your comment. On another topic tho… I wonder if this would be weird: girl code (white girl edition) lol 😂 plenty of white Girls also wear lace fronts and the wrong foundation lol granted they get more shades

[@jrpunkin1]

@@Zuzu-go1ve They worded it weird but I assumed that they meant that because they are in a happy relationship they are being loved “the right way” not because they are in an interracial relationship. I think they meant to just support the woman for finding romantic love regardless of their partner’s race because they have love and that’s what matters. I could be wrong but that’s how I took it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Artaxerxes.]

​@@Zuzu-go1ve there's a clear pattern though

[@pinksmoke234]

@@Zuzu-go1veshe literally didn’t assume that though, she said ‘regardless of the partner’s ethnicity or race’

[@Summergirl13-yu5bn]

I’m a mixed girly and I just want to leave a supportive comment for that 25% in me,your hair AND skin is flawless 🫶🏼

[@EdenDoesMakeup13]

OMG SAMEMEEEEE

[@Hearts4Peyton]

samee i’m mixed %50 on each side

[@wintersong9870]

I just wish mixed girls could support each were always trying to please black girls or white girls but never ourselves.

[@janiceog7852]

The whole "Any black girl's win is your win" is so true. Every time I see a black women succeed i just get so happy. Like ur so amazing and u just lift up every other Black woman too 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@MrFishateyokids]

Tbh I noticed black girls are the least hating types

[@LacieAnimations]

I think this could be said for any kind of woman, skin color doesn’t really matter 😭

[@authanjohnson2483]

💯

[@raerohan4241]

It's really bad some people take advantage of it. Like, any black-owned business will either have the greatest products/service ever at reasonable prices, or they will have the absolute worst at ridiculous prices. Nothing in between

[@el7284]

​@@LacieAnimations this. We're trying so hard to kiss black ass.

[@Sunny_Jade]

we NEED more black women supporting each other,instead of tearing each other down

[@lightbeing1113]

I agree.

[@MJCaribbeangirl-oq1lb]

Yes we do. The girls who are not supportive need to be reminded that it won’t cost them anything to give support.

[@tehewhatthe]

Women in general not just black women/girls

[@brittanystearns6596]

​@tehewhatthe totally agree with this statement as women should support other women. As a black biracial girl in my experience among my peer group though it is rare, compared to white/euro, Native, Asian, Latinx, and Middle Eastern girls. I'm grateful for the girls who accepted me. It's just sad that usually I was genuine with the girls in my black community and was rooting for them. You honestly gave me realization now, not just supporting women, but knowing/finding your true people.

[@cartiergrls]

@@tehewhatthepretty sure this video is talking abt black girls, thanks though

[@jennalofsness9897]

Can we all just admire how amazing her makeup looks! You look SO good!!

[@starhamilton1072]

It’s not her make up it’s the skin that makes the make up look good

[@IloveJesus777j77]

Have faith in Jesus alone to be saved

[@nairamatsolo8590]

​@@IloveJesus777j77preach❤

[@louiseandyjonjackson]

@@starhamilton1072her skin is INSANE im jealous

[@carlieneely]

Gurrrllllll the lace is lacing the shad is shading like gurlll your stunning

[@kr3ativeKay]

It’s the “envy can get ugly” for me 🥺 other black girls would sometimes go out of their way to be mean or just flat out malicious. It needs to stop. I support this movement 🎉

[@sandylucius4001]

The change always start with self. Be the change you want to see. A compliment can go a long way if it's genuine. ❤

[@renee7113]

And also- know that you’re not going to receive validation from those individuals. You may have to make an entire shift in your circle. But you’ll find the right circle for you.

[@OnlyOneAvana]

You telling all facts! I moved to LA and the prettiest girls are the meanest. At the end of the day it’s insecurity so I just shrug it off and keep it moving. You can’t even compliment them😒🤷🏽‍♀️

[@renee7113]

@@OnlyOneAvanaas long as you know that you’re just fine as you already know. Leave negativity alone and pick up positivity elsewhere. Amen to that.

[@aaliyahcolon7769]

No fr I had a fellow black girl say "she's aight she think she allat" I was just walking down the street with my family.

[@lovelylittlegirl3332]

“We never ever call a black girl white washed” wish you were there to say that to all the people who said/made me feel that way. I’ve often felt/been excluded despite being a literal dark skin black girl just because I don’t fit into the stereotype of what people think African girls are like. Sigh. I grew up on Disney, it’s not my fault I had little to no representation of people like me and hence never really learned how to interact with other people like myself. I’ve always had anxiety and was very protected from the public as a child because of my chronic illness. I stuck to what I knew and Disney, Winx Club,.. etc, were all I had.

[@theregaltoast9364]

Same. I’m more into a lotta pop music and fantasy books/reading and theater so I get called white a lot

[@pinksalamanders]

there's no wrong way to be yourself. 💕

[@neeren777]

@@theregaltoast9364you have such cool hobbies!

[@ilyaalister8193]

There is no wrong or right way to be who you are. You do not have to conform to stereotypes, you were born as you are and no one can take that away!

[@CookiezNCreamz]

OMG WINX CLUB WAS THE SHOW GROWING UP!!!!

[@kellywilliams3082]

Black girl code sounds way more wholesome than the girl code I grew up with. You are absolutely gorgeous!

[@candiebe3193]

That’s sad to hear.

[@veryrarre]

@@candiebe3193girl anyways lmao, find something to do

[@shark_boytoy]

@@veryrarreIt’s sad bc the girl code she grew up with wasn’t wholesome. I don’t think there was any hate there. /gen /nm

[@lcdp9459]

I wish you the best and may god bless you with people who have nothing, but good intentions for you! 💛

[@mai_raa]

I may not be black but I still follow this! ❤ I love yall black people yall make my day :)

[@babyramses5066]

Thanks friend 🧡 I love u too

[@Amberclaw001]

these are great rules to follow, any race. I agree

[@humblebuggg]

Aww thx love u too

[@nailtrop]

This is manifesting a new wave for the black women community. THIS IS UNITY

[@fruitsarelife7073]

👸🏿🖤✨

[@camilleespy7395]

Yes this is new and I’m here for it

[@rebellefleur2993]

And this is what makes us stronger 🥰💅🏾💪🏾

[@djlivvy46]

Lol, this isn't new at all. How do you think we even got to this point?

[@summer7honey]

​@@camilleespy7395VERY new...I didn't want to this hasn't always been my experience, but I'm HERE FOR NEW!

[@imthebossmermaid3648]

“We support and root for her always” words to live by for every Black girl in general!

[@heyitssarah7545]

Girl, you have the prettiest, most flawless skin. It’s such a beautiful shade and so insanely smooth. I’m jealous 😭 You could be a model fr

[@waffleaffle231]

She's so glowy! It's beautiful. Sometimes light can make little rainbows in dark skin and I love it so much

[@BillieBluntTV]

How can you tell? It's layers of make-up.

[@heyitssarah7545]

@@BillieBluntTV somebody’s jealous they aren’t as pretty as she is 👀

[@SW-oc2pp]

@@BillieBluntTVactually, makeup tends to make your texture show through more; her skin is a beautiful canvas that accentuates her makeup...not the other way around

[@BillieBluntTV]

@@SW-oc2pp Really? Why do many people look like a totally different person once the makeup is removed?

[@racheldesir6612]

Period! Your win is mine. I live by that code. Don't let me see a black woman with a cute outfit on, it's over, you're getting compliments up and down. I love when we love on each other!

[@abbieamavi]

The lace lifting is so applicable to criticism in general, like that saying “if the person can’t fix the issue in 2 minutes, don’t say it in public”. Also you are stunning 🌻

[@AnnaleishaMae]

Good point

[@emilybrettschneider1472]

What’s a lace?

[@soliss6676]

​It's part of a wig, so if the lace is lifting, the whole wig is lifting. Meaning it's more likely to fall off, and can also look a bit odd to those who don't know what's happening.​@@emilybrettschneider1472

[@takami_0710]

@@emilybrettschneider1472 its something used to hold down hair before putting on wigs im pretty sure, to make it look more natural

[@emilybrettschneider1472]

@@takami_0710 thanks

[@thatoneweirddudeinthecorner]

Similar to the wig thing, I’m a hijabi so when my hijab’s wonky or my hair is showing I rlly appreciate people telling me 😭

[@Luluqueen28]

Same😭

[@eternall0ve16]

@@PNDCstrike34girl u take it off, u don’t need to wear it in your own home only in public around men who are not related to u

[@Tyrone_T]

@@PNDCstrike34i don't think sleeping with a hijab would be comfortable

[@PNDCstrike34]

@@Tyrone_Ti was thinking it wouldn’t br comfortable already🤦🏾‍♂️

[@PNDCstrike34]

@@eternall0ve16fym girl

[@ShianLanae]

EVERYTIME I see a black women on social media who went from small businesses to big businesses I get so happy!

[@taneicesayaspencer8896]

Metoooo 🎉

[@MsLaLa-nq6mi]

Same ❤

[@Sari_isobsessedwith_mel]

I’m not black, but like you’re literally so pretty like wtf!?

[@ewdavid5083]

What does your race have to do with this?

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@ewdavid5083This video is literally about race. Lol. She’s just showing support. Damn. 😅

[@ewdavid5083]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 the video is about race but calling her pretty doesn’t require you to say your race lol “I’m not black but you’re pretty” sounds like you’re implying that only black people can call black people pretty

[@Summerxchild9]

@@ewdavid5083 she means she’s not black so the video doesn’t apply to her but she wanted to comment and leave a compliment

[@aidatejeda7403]

Me either 😂she has a really pretty face she would be pretty in white black or tan skin 😅

[@MusicalBotany]

This is an excellent perspective. Infighting can be a really big problem in marginalized communities because of the fear that members are fighting for limited opportunities. There's room at the table for everyone. Ladies, let's put the envy aside! Thank you for this message.

[@LisaSoulLevelHealing]

This is correct.

[@demimajek382]

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing😢😢

[@khaleesireyna731]

I like that, "there's room at the table for everyone"! Whether we are talking white women, women of color, straight women, queer women, cis women, or trans women (or any variance of intersectionality, there), we should be uplifting one another and if this table doesn't have room, we all should be speaking up to make sure we get a bigger table to fit all of us!

[@bunnybangz]

I have alopecia so the lifting part I did relate too even though I know I am not black but wig gorlies unite 😂❤

[@Nidalkabashii]

❤❤

[@Thebeezzkneezz.]

I have trichatellamaina and I was about to comment the same thing ♡ Wig gurlies ☺️

[@shadowsan8953]

twins!

[@shadowsan8953]

twins!

[@shadowsan8953]

twins!

[@liyahrochelle7716]

I love the love from our sisters that aren’t black. Additionally, as a black gal I appreciate your message ❤❤

[@lalalajuice]

I love your comment, you're gorgeous ❤️

[@sheilaannramirez8674]

You’re so pretty 🤩 you have such a beautiful complexion💕

[@angiadcock8196]

I am so sick of the myth that “there are only so many spots at the top” making women think that another’s success is somehow preventing their own. Girls. I want all y’all to succeed and if I get to the top I wanna take as many of y’all with me as I can. That’s my girl code. I don’t envy or get jealous of other women’s success (except for my tiny petty, weak moments) I’m just happy ladies are out here killing it. Love yourself and love others. Don’t hate. Don’t judge. Let’s all go as far as we can together.

[@maniacb9171]

Probably the most positive I've seen a human.

[@rayasversion]

im glad there are people like you in this world, keep spreading positivity 🤍

[@manifest2203]

I think that was a lil bit true in generations prior. For example, very women could succeed in private jobs or succeed in government high level jobs or often times even small jobs. Plus the number of high level men is always small too. So women had to compete like fr. Now that isn’t true anymore because most positions have opened up for women too.

[@CiCiMoya]

Thissss 🎉

[@beab8738]

​@@manifest2203 we now know better than to fight for a man that want to be taken and for jobs that your company wants to give to someone else. Go where you're wanted.

[@kraichellecurren7892]

As a black woman, I support this beautiful young lady’s message. 🖤🥂

[@fruitsarelife7073]

Yess sister, Black Girl Code 👸🏿🙏🏾❤️

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

Not many people care 🥱🥱🥱🥱

[@kraichellecurren7892]

@@Rise-and-Shine333 Your point?

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

@@kraichellecurren7892 I made it

[@teresam5199]

​@@Rise-and-Shine333you do tho

[@do4699]

Very true about the hair advice. I'm white but have lots of issues with hair breakage that isn't common for white hair. In my early 30s, I randomly asked a black woman in the store for a shampoo recommendation. She gave me the best advice. I started going to a black salon, even though i get funny looks. I'm very glad that I did because my hair grows to waist now instead of breaking off at my shoulder blades.

[@jayb1854]

Ignore all the funny looks. Im happy for you

[@JuriAmari]

I got my best friend a bonnet and gave her some of my hair products. She says it’s the best thing that’s happened in her routine because now she’s able to brush through her hair with no pain. Curly girlies need to stick together!

[@clamh84]

@@maononsaka81I have 4 daughters, only the youngest has curly hair. I bought her a bonnet out of desperation, her curls got matted so easily. It’s been so good for her hair that my eldest daughter and I also started using one.

[@charle7537]

I'm glad you asked! Black women are loving and nurturing, despite what the media may portray. I'm glad you found your hair tribe and you feel comfortable. And of course I'm glad you found what works for your hair! We love to see it!!

[@ellab2009]

babe you’re so gorgeous

[@HunniBeez]

"You see a black girl out in public, you just smile." Simple. Supportive. Easy life ❤

[@fruitsarelife7073]

Yess sister, Black Girl Code 👸🏿🙏🏾💖

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

@@fruitsarelife7073 imagine a white woman saying “white girl code” 😂 so bizarre. And then white people are the ones accused of racism 🙄

[@Pico_DeMayo1738]

Ok so fck everyone else?

[@Randomthings...2.0]

​@@Pico_DeMayo1738 honestly wow 😧😮‍💨

[@EsiNotEssie]

Yes to the hair details! I met a girl at college and she had the prettiest crochet curls I'd ever seen, so I complimented her on how natural the part was and how pretty the hair itself was. She told me exactly where she got the hair and who put it in. Turns out my mom did it so we had a good laugh once I recognized my mom's phone #, but I bought the hair cause it was cute af

[@stardustfactory8311]

That’s actually hilarious that ur mom did her hair 😂😂

[@NoHandoutsGiven]

Lol sounds like your mom is gatekeeping her skills from you😂😂 jkjk

[@EsiNotEssie]

@@stardustfactory8311 Lol right? I'd forgotten that my mom had a lot of clients from my university

[@EsiNotEssie]

@@NoHandoutsGiven I don't blame her lol, I tried to learn but she quickly stopped me because she wanted me to look over the business side while she looked over the technical side while I got my degree. She's very good at her job but she wants me to have a different skillset

[@NoHandoutsGiven]

@@EsiNotEssie Awe that's sweet! Shout out to your mom! And congrats and your journey... Please finish... For us! 🙏🏾💪🏾

[@nubianqueen222]

Exactly. I feel all women and girls should have this spiritual sister bond. No fake or phony ways when it comes to giving compliments or asking for information.

[@capnfuzzybutt]

All women of all races ✨

[@chantayamagee2334]

Go Make A Video For All Women Then👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 We Talk About BLACK GIRL CODE ON THIS POST✨✨✨

[@novasolar6207]

Im not black but i think this just needs to be ingrained in to every and all girl codes for the rest of forever. Also i love your hair its so pretty on you and the makeup is fantastic ❤

[@belleflower1108]

as a black girl who has struggled to fit into the black girl community this means a lot. and you are so beautiful ❤

[@Kandipiisen]

"black girl comunity"? i would never.. ever say "white girl comunity" like what? segregation is real i guess, even if I don´t see it because don´t live in it.

[@KaseyBatesYoyo]

@@Kandipiisenyou mad😂

[@KaseyBatesYoyo]

@@Kandipiisen😢😢😢😅😅😂😂

[@cam1ly_]

@@Kandipiisen it’s not segregation. She just simply said that she struggled to fit in with black girls. no need to make a big deal out of it.

[@aria2aria2]

@@Kandipiisen i’m going to be civil and respond with some nuance. there’s nothing wrong with finding community in people who share your experiences. there’s a lot less black ppl than white people in the us, so you have to take that into consideration. a lot of us deem community with other black ppl to be important because our heritage was taken from us. white people can easily form their own community, but unless they were colonized they don’t necessarily need to. we all do the same thing with religious or economic status regardless of race. it’s ok to be around people who relate to your experiences. when i’m looking up makeup videos, i’m not going to search “white girl” when i’m not one. there are some things black and white people may not always relate together on, and your tone proves that.

[@lavenderdust7912]

This video and this comment section are so wholesome. Women uplifting each other is always my favourite thing to see.

[@confusedscreaming24]

White guy here but this video made me smile, I love seeing people support each other and learning more about how I can support people with different experiences to me

[@Thetruthgirl]

Yes, I am white too, but to me what she says just seems like basic human decency that we should all live by.

[@akilahb6020]

people like you>

[@kelsey.targaryen]

Ooo a nice one!

[@rachelmagana5142]

I came to the comments ready to start some damn arguments but ALLLLLLL comments I’ve seen have been supportive. Thank god. I was ready to shame any and all idiots talking sh*t.

[@louiserules]

Same also a white dude but ey being a decent human being is (or should be) universal

[@only1twin]

Just beautifulllll! brows tea, lashes tea, skin/complexion top tier!👌🏾🙌🏾

[@esppupsnkits4560]

The jealousy thing made me immediately remember how the girls that were my actual friends were treated because of things like colorism and them actually being curious and wanting to learn but I literally heard a TEACHER say one of the girls was “too dark to be acting all smart”. We were in 3rd grade, too. She had the prettiest dark skin and was so incredibly sweet and literally taught me how to study. Sorry for rambling but you reminded me of her

[@alego8072]

😢

[@JaneDoane]

wow some people really ain't sh*t

[@ndh6356]

Ewwww she shouldn't be around children with that mindset. That's so disgusting and I hope your friend is doing well and y'all are still in touch!

[@Treemonieee]

@@BhaktKumari-ct9lmYou are beautiful regardless. Never let anyone ruin your self esteem! You rock!!

[@staceyrodriguez8200]

You are GORGEOUS! Im not Black but I still celebrate women and beauty.. PERIOD!!!

[@skylermayeux855]

I may not be black, but I'm gonna leave a supportive comment girl, your skin looks amazing. I'm bringing genuine love. Your skin is flawless.

[@HiHiHopeYourHappy]

Yessssss like it looks so smooth and pretty!!!

[@surmillius]

Yall see how she’s glowing? that’s what happens when ur graceful and kind in this life, lmao it is so easy and freeing to be unproblematic. love the positivity 💕

[@bree9288]

ONG.....IM WHITE WASHED BECAUSE I SPEAK PROPERLY...WHAT?!💀

[@noku._.]

GIRL ME TOO!!😭✋✨👑

[@alyssawynne24]

this!

[@arilove4740]

“Celebrating each other success big or small” and “never call a black girl white washed” hit ❤

[@richbisms1601]

Love the way you blended it all together. You look beautiful!🫶🏽

[@kit922]

All people should be supporting the wins of black women 💖 thank you for making this

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

What does this even mean ?

[@RottyMacbeth]

​@@Rise-and-Shine333 "I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.” -Audre Lorde. It's about raising up people that share a common struggle. By tearing one another down, success becomes harder to achieve. By instead raising each other up, everyone receives the support that they need to end the struggle.

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

@@RottyMacbeth yes that doesn’t explain a thing. Just some speech with no explanation at all. Black and white woman that are are being abused are the only woman that are shackled so I still don’t get it. What is it that black woman are so shackled by? Can you give examples of why black woman seem to be having such a harder life than anyone else?

[@djlivvy46]

​@@Rise-and-Shine333- you can read about r@cism, colorism and misogynoir if you want to know more. Also the history of slavery, colonialism & globalisation.

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

@@djlivvy46 what’s the history of slavery got to with what this lady said please? You dont see white people bringing up the Barbary slave trade every 5 mins. Black woman today are not slaves so I don’t get why some of them make out they are direct victims of it. It’s beyond ridiculous. We all know the history and how terrible it is but black woman use it as a way to be a victim and pretend they are oppressed which isn’t the case. Black woman have the same opportunities as anyone else. Opportunity in life is about where you come from, what you are born in to, not because of the colour of skin

[@caitlinmarie49]

100% about the lace lifting. I was in the store and I saw a beautiful black woman with her lace lifting and I whispered it to her as I passed and she was so grateful. I didn’t wanna cause embarrassment so I just said it loud enough for her to hear.

[@chiarac3833]

#classy to be kind

[@CGI_Andy]

I wanted to tell the nurse who was taking care of me her lace was lifting but I was too shy and didn't know if it was alright to do.

[@greatestboop6758]

With all the toxicity I have personally seen in some black communities WE NEED MORE OF THIS!!!

[@Brooklyn.H903]

I love this video! So supportive to all girls and girl codes! Private talks are a must about everything for girls! Thanks for the tips! ❤️

[@SenseiChanel-h9e]

Being a girl is so special, we are so blessed 🌸♥️🫀

[@monaebreak561]

It's horrible!!!!

[@mischa8623]

@@monaebreak561it can’t be that horrible, some people wish they were women lol

[@lynellb]

But we need to support one another as she said, we "envy each other so much 'til it can get ugly".

[@FloatingBlossom]

African American women taught me to love myself and others. We need more women supporting women.

[@cantplaywitmyyoyo]

Yassss queen 👸🏽.

[@tursiopsgirl8]

Not black but I love your perspective on how women can support each other. Regardless of our differences, we (women) all need to start supporting each other in this same way. No judgement, give tips and tricks freely and learn from each other. Thank you so much for your message! You are an amazing soul (with a fab minimalist beauty also!)

[@8jaime8]

She is absolutely stunning, but there is nothing minimalist about her look in this clip: false lashes, weave, full face of makeup, French mani, etc. Maybe I misunderstood what you were saying. Did you mean something else? If not, perhaps reconsider what minimalist beauty is. Minimalist beauty would be more like skincare but no (or almost no) makeup, no weave/extensions/wig, no false lashes/extensions, buffed nails rather than polish or gel/acrylic. A major beauty routine has been so normalised that a major routine is now mistakenly seen by some as minimal as long as the colours are more natural rather than bold. Minimalism is about buying less and using less. The look she does here is lovely but actually high maintenance compared to how we are naturally. In any case, I totally agree that she is ridiculously stunning with or without makeup, and the positive attitude is even more beautiful. :) I hope you know I’m saying this because I want women to realise we have internalised beauty duty as being so normal that many see a high maintenance look as natural or minimal, when it isn’t at all. We aren’t obligated to do all this work! We can if we want, but it is work and it’s not natural or minimal, and we need to acknowledge the work, time, and expense that goes into it. I don’t want women to feel like this is the norm and some sort of obligation. We are good enough as we are! Being ‘pretty’ for others is not our job or obligation. We are naturally beautiful and good enough the way we are without the paint and procedures.

[@registeredjopper]

​@8jaime8 and if she wants a full beat and wig and lashes and nails to look good for herself?

[@MzDoubleZero7]

You are absolutely stunning!!! Your skin is EVERYTHING!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍

[@miaironstone6783]

Im not black but i just HAD to stop and mention how PRETTY this woman is. She looks like a real life black barbie. And her makeup is so nice too.

[@Ari..........]

“mememememe” stfu just say “youre so pretty and your makeup looks nice”

[@miaironstone6783]

@Ari.......... dude chill out I promise you it is not that serious

[@miaironstone6783]

@mimiiyw true but I mentioned it because the video was targeted at black women so I don't really have anything to say about the vid itself, just wanted to make an unrelated statement, if that makes any sense? I wrote that comment after I hadn't slept for like 2 days so it's entirely possible it doesn't make any sense

[@Tricethelibra]

Agreed…she’s absolutely beautiful…but you could have left the “black Barbie” part out darling 🫣

[@bigdawg2004]

@@Tricethelibraprobably would have been better for them to say “you look like barbie” but since barbie used to be pretty uninclosive they said black barbie, but i’m sure they didn’t mean any ill intent! not saying your suggesting that i just want it to be clear i don’t think they were :)

[@TheAshleighw89]

Your makeup is flawless!!! You're absolutely beautiful

[@pragyasingh2297]

I’m not a black girl but what you said makes a lot of sense and I support you, queen ❤ also you are absolutely stunning, inside and out

[@ashnanabanana]

your skin is so clear and flawlesss omgg 🤍

[@carolinebeggs4386]

i’ve been smiling at other women for a while, just always seemed appreciated & reciprocated. i didnt realize until now that it can be a form of bond. such beauty in such a small act.

[@ImNotACatLawyerButIPlayOneOnTV]

I watched this multiple times because I just appreciate the richness of the melanin. But also the lace front gatekeeping is real 😂

[@nooneuknow48]

I am not black but am always here to support. You are GORGEOUS and your message is even more beautiful. Im seeing so much hate and us vs. them rhetoric online and in the news and it's so refreshing to hear things like this. 💕

[@lynellb]

Agreed! Let's spread love...and more positivity 🩷🙏🏾

[@nkebemcomfort2390]

If you don't like the post scroll please what is the problem for being black...is it your channel she post what she likes

[@nkebemcomfort2390]

Yes I'm proudly black

[@aliciax5854]

@@nkebemcomfort2390What are you on about? 😂

[@nkebemcomfort2390]

@@aliciax5854 😏😏😏I'm on about you 😂

[@Liza-pz2so]

Your makeup looks sooo good

[@hunniboop1]

I can't get over how stunning you are!

[@thechristoshow1]

I’m a guy and not black but I ALWAYS be out here supporting my people of color!! You look STUNNING! ❤️

[@palladium607]

🙄

[@maryamonur1160]

@@palladium607 What you mad about this time?

[@audreyorely-jw8hd]

Don't bring your negative energy here​@@palladium607

[@joyt.barnum1956]

❤

[@mnchhichi]

@@palladium607what the hell could you possibly be rolling your eyes at

[@Cherisheddd]

The hair detail got me. My friends will come up to me and ask stuff about my hair and it’s always a full story time love it girl your gorgeous

[@reaganissocool]

you’re absolutely stunning😍

[@melanatedmaylanie2902]

Girl yess I feel you on this. As black women we need to help uplift & empower each other💪🏾. No more of bringing each other Down and acting like we in a competition with each other. We are created beautiful and strong, we need to be there for each other, especially when we are trying to figure out where one of us get their hair from, "We need answers sis!!" Lol 😂😂👍🏾 By the way your complexion is so beautiful its phenomenal, keep staying pretty sis😍😘❤❤

[@fruitsarelife7073]

Yess sister, Black Girl Code 👸🏿🙏🏾❤️

[@Allie-lo6ci]

Why don’t we just have Girl Code and lift up every one of our sisters, not just one race, and stick together as women?

[@MsLaLa-nq6mi]

​@Allie-lo6ci because as a marginalized community, black women need this. Women supporting all women historically haven't happened universally. And until you understand marginalized groups of BIPOC women need to uplift their own as well, you will continue make tone-deaf comments like this one.

[@ardabasakgz]

as a non black person i really agree about "a black girl's win is your win" this is soo true, i would support woman and speak highly of them no matter what and I've known black woman, they are absolutely so loving and so generous in heart. They lift you up, mentally and spiritually 💘

[@kiannachlo]

Exactly it should only be women for women

[@kimallnaturelle]

Rooting for all my sistahs. We all we got sometimes. I do not gatekeep anything. You're beautiful sis. Keep it up!

[@ch.8365]

genuinely a good energy type video. im not Black and not a girl but i can see the importance of these tips fr. and you're so pretty 🫶

[@GimmieFwopFwop]

Your skin is absolutely luminous!! Love this vid girl! Never call a black girl whitewashed… felt that in my soul! Let’s stick together y’all! ❤❤❤

[@socksandpi1264]

What is whitewashed? I don't think I've really heard that term, and I'm wondering if it's similar to how skin bleaching was encouraged to a friend of mine when she lived in Korea, because "pale skin is pretty". Or is it a different thing entirely?

[@GimmieFwopFwop]

@@socksandpi1264in this context I believe “white washing” means saying that a black girl is “acting white” .. we get shamed for being too “ghetto” and then get shamed if we are too proper so we must be trying to “act white” or “bougie”.. the video is basically saying we are individuals, so don’t try to call anyone out for not acting the way you think a black girl should act…. But colorism is definitely a thing also and being ashamed of darker skin or being shamed for it is definitely a problem too (which is where your concern about skin bleaching may come in)… but since this is a video about how black girls treat other black girls .. we don’t encourage skin bleaching amongst each other to the point of needing to mention it (IMO I don’t find that bleaching is as big of an issue in the US) so I believe it’s the definition I mentioned above … and thank you for your question and genuinely trying to understand 😊

[@socksandpi1264]

@@GimmieFwopFwop Gotcha. Thanks for answering, Google just kept referencing white actors playing non-white roles, or non-white actors playing white roles and having their skin made to look lighter. So, I was a bit turned around. I agree, I don't think skin bleaching is really an issue here (or if it is, it's strongly hidden?). No one should have, or made to feel, shame for their skin (or the circumstances of their birth). None of us control how we were born. People are just so nasty towards each other, especially towards children. Like momma said, "if you don't have something nice to say, keep your mouth shut". Could you imagine the quiet if people followed that?

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

You are stunning! I don’t know black girl code but I know girl code. And all of my friends and I mean all of them are black women. And I have their back and they have mine. I don’t know how I was fortunate enough to stumble upon such a wonderful group of people but I was. And I’m thankful every day for them. My point is BE KIND. It will get you places in life. Good places with good people.

[@NayyRoseee_]

I wish I had this video 5 years ago😩going through HS was so tough especially being a black girl from New York, all girls wanted to do was fight, be jealous, nasty animosity for no reason and 9/10 it was over a ugly boy that didn’t want neither one of us or just simply being yourself. I didn’t even really have black female friends growing up, I’m a girls girl so I can hang with anyone from any race but to have a black female friend that looks like me, and move with a good heart and mindset that would be the icing on the cake☹️❤️🫶🏾girl code is serious

[@candicewatts9810]

Not sure why these things have to be said, you should already know this. Thank you for this and I’ll add you always address a black woman with a man 1st. Don’t even look his way until you’ve acknowledged her! Don’t care if you know him and not her!✌🏽🙏🏽😇

[@ZovaBe]

This is so important! As a west African, it broke my heart having to disassociate with my west African female "friends." Wether it was to me or towards me, everyday was nonsense. Gossiping, flirting and sleeping with their friend's boyfriends, gate keeping, being obviously upset by any success that comes their way. Just pure chaos. My white tensor friends always treated me like a sister, ironically.

[@SandraWAsumu]

That is tremendously sad. I'm black originally from Central África, but I'm born and raised in Europe. I'm not disconnected from my african culture but I am very well integrated in my european culture as well. Everytime I hear horror stories like this one, about the incapability of black women to support and love their own, it makes me incredibly sad...

[@tianathomas7732]

I agree, I also distanced myself from people of my heritage because of their negativity but please be careful with the white counterparts. I promise you they’re not any better, every race has shady questionable people. Don’t assume they will be loyal, truthful and a good friend just because they’re white. You are not their kinfolk and they will always remind you of that when it REALLY matter. Best of luck to you ❤

[@LilacMorelli]

Real, I’m over half black (DNA test says like 60%), but yk how black genes work so I’m completely white presenting. On culture day all my black friends mocked me for “trying to be black so bad” when I wasn’t even wearing an African dress (a Venezuelan one). Like my sister can do box braids, talk “black”, wear our cultures because she looks black, but I can’t. Surprisingly all my white friends stand up for me and don’t care how I look. I hate how they’re always stereotyped as bigoted tho.

[@imawakemymindisalive13]

im white, i live in california, and sadly i can confirm that there are plenty of fake female friends here too 😢 we can thank the patriarchy for that one (they have internalized misogyny)

[@TK-cg4ks]

I’m an East African woman with awesome female African friends. I find it sad how quickly you are to admonish African women in order to align yourself with whiteness. Our people are just as complex and dimensional as any European. You do not have to suppress your culture in order to be accepted into western society. Where is the pride for your people? The rhetoric that black women are inherently more difficult to get along with is incredibly insulting and heartbreaking.

[@cookie22100]

I’m so happy to see the general girl code among these comments. So positive. Love all of you ladies.

[@Whatdidijustsee00]

Agree with this. Anytime I see a black girl out in a relationship where she seems loved and appreciated I feel so happy for her. If she is old (like over 60), I have been even known to shed tears of happiness!

[@blu.pi1l]

Girl you’re literally so gorgeous what 💗💗🎀

[@blackgirljoy5045]

The world we live in as black women🙏🏿 I wish everyone in this world becomes like you…. Much respect 💯

[@stephanierandall1170]

❤

[@In2uCon]

I SSSSSOOOOOO wish we would all embrace this notion….BLACK women ROCK!!!! If we truly understood this, there’d be no reason for the shade and hate. LOVE THIS… keep spreading your positivity BEAUTIFUL 😍

[@Rise-and-Shine333]

You create hate by separating yourselves with comments and attitudes like this. It’s not that big of a deal. Woman rock. You are not that special

[@MsLaLa-nq6mi]

💜 💯💯💯

[@elizabethcartagena-vp5tp]

YOUR BEAUTY IS UNREAL !!! I literally gasp whenever I see you. 🥹💛✨

[@jjwicked69]

Awwww 🥹🥹🥹

[@orchid069]

Today me and my S/O was leaving a restaurant and I saw these two black ladies at the end booth that we had to pass. I was looking at the one facing me because the blouse she had on was GORGEOUS and I was going to compliment her. Before I could say anything, she said something to me about MY outfit and I was like Sis...that blouse is giving..the lady sitting with her was like I see you Sis..I see you. So we all cheesing and I'm like you ladies have a great day. My S/O was like did you know them? I said no, but this is how grown women act. We support, lift up and compliment.

[@rhondasworld9989]

I love you for this! My dad always raised me to be kind to others. But he always said being a black person is different, we must always speak to one another, smile at each other, because most of us are labeled as not friendly! I’m 34 and everytime I see one of our ppl I’m always kind.

[@Kima89]

Your dad was a good man

[@kandybpoppin928]

Same!! ❤

[@rhondasworld9989]

💙💙💙

[@sabrinahoward5891]

Me too

[@cariroberts9142]

My parents instilled this in me as well ❤❤

[@seaweed.brain_.cos08]

I’m not black but at least for my black girl friends I want to be as supportive as possible so thanks for the tips :) you look gorgeous girl ! ❤

[@_sunchildd]

ok can we talk about how GORGEOUS your skin and skin tone is tho?! you legit RADIATE ✨✨✨

[@ashdiaz-ih4ct]

Girlll you’re makeup is soooo cute 🥰

[@Mal-xq2bh]

Love the supportive vibes!!! Let that Black Girl Magic shine! 🤎

[@manamana8606]

God I wish more communities would be supportive like this. It’s sweet to see ❤️

[@applejellypucci]

This is not the norm, sadly.

[@goldenmamabrie]

I’m here for the unity sis!!! We needed this. Thank you

[@hazelgreeneyes6294]

Her skin is amazing!!! Gorgeous

[@PositiveVibesFromNevski]

I am not black but this is such good advice! I love this! You are gorgeous ❤

[@Scarlettdonatella_57]

GIRL YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! YOUR FACIAL STRUCTURE IS LITERALLY SO PERFECT. AND YOUR VOICE💕💕

[@anicoleww]

I always get so sad when I hear ppl say stuff like “if a woman compliments another woman, she’s really just saying ‘girl fix yourself cause this ain’t it’ or something to that effect”.. That’s such a toxic way of thinking and I *know* it’s *not at all true* when I compliment someone! I don’t want anyone to have to second guess every compliment they receive, I want them to feel good about themselves!! Btw, your skin stunning 😍

[@JAnd-andJ]

I genuinely compliment people, especially women, all the time. I refuse to do anything but uplift someone. Be a part of the solution, not the problem and hate. Most of the time, if someone can't give or receive a compliment, they have insecurities or worst issues. Life is already a challenge. Why would I be the sprinkles on top of your potentially messed up day 😅. So I smile, uplift and genuinely compliment ☺️ ❤

[@minik6193]

Hmmm… I’m sorry, but I’ve never heard of this being a thing… how would you know someone’s compliment is being malicious? I’ve never assumed that, and certainly have never done that… and yes, she’s stunning!❤

[@ToniKace]

@anicoleww WTH are you talking about?? I think you're trying to make this beautiful Queen think that all the compliments she's getting are fake. Never heard of this and nice try. When someone says someone is pretty that's exactly what they mean. Seek help.

[@ToniKace]

​@@minik6193Ya makes zero sense lol

[@farahsgymnastics2376]

I’ve literally never heard this before.

[@olgaparramore6113]

OMG I’m so OBSESSED with your makeup ❤ slay queen

[@Guitargirl680]

Not black, but taking notes for all the ways I can support my friends who are. They have always told me when my makeup is wonky and fixed my hair when it was wild. Is love to return even the smallest favor. Also you are gorgeous! Keep on sharing girl code, we need more of it - regardless of race! 👏🏻

[@NtmEva]

But how are you going to give them tips on 4 type hair then

[@giannax5645]

@@NtmEvathis video doesn't even discuss hair types, go somewhere else💀

[@NtmEva]

@@giannax5645 she literally says “don’t gatekeep hair tips” so how is she gonna give her black friends hair tips without their hair 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@giannax5645]

@@NtmEva she was talking about wigs specifically in this video but okay💀 either way, you do know google exists right? Or do you just want something to be miserable about?

[@xo.hannii]

​@@NtmEva​ what shes doing is so positive bruh and you gotta act like that. Take your negativity somewhere else.

[@pinkface7759]

I’m not a black girl, but I have so much respect for black women! You all are so beautiful 💕✨🌸

[@Mijah1016]

😅

[@TGRAM7]

Every female of any age needs to hear this. BGC should be learned and upheld. BTW: you’re gorgeous 😍

[@mlsa9520]

Beautiful! Love your makeup and glowing complexion 😊

[@UToober17]

Can I just say this video is freaking awesome! The support and respect black ppl give each other is always awesome

[@stephanieru]

Human decency is a beautiful thing, we should all be supportive of each other, this was such a refreshing video xx