Nigerian Man SIapped His Wife And She Shockęd Him

[@estheroppong4782]

I suggest that Nigeria government enact Osinachi Law.

[@thebestindewest]

Amen o

[@localjess838]

What will the Osinachi Law achieve? We already have a lot of Violence Against Persons laws. It's the enforcement of it that is the the problem.

[@kissmeagain54]

I love this

[@letstalkaboutit2021]

That's so true. I never thought of this. They should definitely do that.

[@AjijoBeatrice]

The laws are there. It remains application of the laws.

[@naomynyevu7117]

My boyfriend slapped me and I ask him why are u slapping me? He told me that.. I was joking. And after telling me that it was a joke.. I slapped his mouth back until he was bleeding and I told him it is over. And that is how we end up our relationship. 😏😏😏

[@shanilmine5166]

@ Naomy...good girl.you could have removed his tooth.enough is enough.

[@chykedoc]

I wish to ask you why you think so, I mean why do you think it is wrong for a man to "slap" or physically raise his hand on his wife? I am not advocating for this, because I believe its wrong, but I also believe that a lot of people who believe its wrong in marriage, do not know why it is wrong, this is the simple reason why it still goes on. Share with me what you know. Thanks.

[@codeosagie]

Thank you wise lady.

[@NileGoddess]

There it goes .He will never slap any woman again

[@uzoamakaoraegbu4421]

Correct Babe!!😍🥰👍👍You are the best!!

[@ritausua9993]

So glad the narrative is beginning to change. My brother complain to me yesterday that himself and his wife had misunderstanding he then slapped her and she went to the police they got him arrested beat the hell out him,he paid money to bail himself so he doesn't want her again. My response to him was good for you because I've been telling him time without number stop beating her. I promise him next I'll be the one to pay the police to beat you.

[@shanilmine5166]

@ Rita, you're a good woman who doesn't support evil from your family. Thank you for standing with your inlaw.

[@favorfavor6025]

Than you Rita for standing for what is right & not being biased he his family. I have said i will not tolerate abuse/maltreatment towards others from any member of my famy or friends

[@peacefrank7781]

Thank you Rita.,, you r a Child of God. Which other love pass this one . I applaud you million times.

[@Mummya2021]

😘😘😘👏👏💯❤👌👍🥇🏆🙏

[@FM-ir2nq]

God bless you! That’s the best answer!!

[@uwakwegertrude3886]

This man has not seen anything. Those days are gone. He should take his time. Women are not slaves to men. Osinachi,s case will open many wives eyes.

[@dancell378]

We are for soft life, abeg.

[@si3081]

Amen and Amen I pray it open the eyes of my younger sister because she is ina very big abusive marriage, their is no day that passes by this Ogoni man does not abuse my sister!

[@Mummya2021]

Well said ma 👏 🙌 👍 ❤ 👌 😘

[@aprilsideas]

He gave a correctional slap and got a correctional response. Since he is not understanding that things have changed!

[@Mummya2021]

🤣🤣👏👏😘 Nice one 👍 👌 👏

[@ikennaemmanuelochuba3577]

Pls lets always shows love to our wife

[@lornaellis632]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@hadassahjoe8396]

🤣🤣😂😂😂 @ correctional response. Women are now ready for the men with their bullying.

[@rosebush7000]

Hahahahaha - I can’t deal with you I swear! 😂😂😂😂Correctional slap and correctional response Gbam! 😂😂😂😂I can’t!

[@chineloonyekwe2264]

The wife is Digital while the man is Analogue.😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thebestindewest]

Love dis one

[@franchescaasamoah3046]

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@yvelineyuok2235]

😂😂

[@peacefrank7781]

OMG 😳 Lol 😂

[@tsoekeawonorvivor7003]

Bingo!!! 😂

[@Crabtree1844]

Summer: as a man, I feel nauseaous that men such as the one who wrote, "I slapped my wife.." exist. He would have no teeth to fence his tongue if he tried that with my daughter.

[@TheRealDeal130]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@margarethnyamushonongora7522]

Sir 2020 to the table, you will live long.

[@princessmagtali6561]

This is the man that knows the value of a woman talking 🤗🤗🤗 God bless you sir...such men are the reason why some of us are so scared of venturing into marriage bcos me personally....I hate beating with passion...if you dare to lay your hands on me, it is over between us...that is why I am very quick to apologize even if it is not my fault for the sake peace...I don't like fight at all

[@courtoftheword]

@@princessmagtali6561 May God grant you a man after his heart. You are a good woman and a good man deserves you

[@hephzibahyahudah9895]

👨🏾‍🦲 without 🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷 😂😂😂😂😂✌🏾

[@gracemercy3039]

The new law in Cameroon, if you throw your wife's cloths outside of the house, you will go to prison. So the woman can stay whether you like it or not

[@lifewithtshidiedza381]

Bad law...

[@chiny315]

Yeah, she gave him a "correctional police arrest" like he gave her correctional slap? So what's good for the goose is good for the gander, lol. He may be physically stronger, he needs that strength to go fight another man, defend the females in his life or go till the ground as in Genesis when Adam ate the forbidden fruit. Let him go dig ground if he needs to exert his energy on something. This guy is crazy

[@estherobafemi1511]

He doesn't have a house, it's the house of both of them.He built it with his money on or the they both built it together it's "their" house.Let him set his brain right.. this is another generation.

[@MellisaWorld]

Agree with you Summer, African parents should raise their daughters to be financially secure, and not just raised them to be good wives. Gone are those days when ladies depend on their husbands for everything which is why our mothers tolerated so much abuse in marriage. Mothers need to expose/enlightened their daughters to different options most importantly, making their own money. Because that is the only power some men have over their wives. Some of these arrogant men will go as far as saying, I pay the rent and provide money for groceries, and clothes for you and the kid. So, therefore, I can send you packing anything I want. When women make their own money no matter how little it is, as long as you are not being stupid of opening the same account with your man, he will be scared to treat you like shit because he knows he does not have any hold on you. You can fly like an eagle if he decides to be stupid.

[@olusolaalbert1988]

This is a wake up call for women! Please be financially independent and free yourselves from a man’s validation ! You worth more than getting beatings and slaps from these fools! Why will any beast slap a woman ? Hmm!

[@courtoftheword]

Me, I say my daughters will learn martial art so in case their boyfriend/fiance or husband lay hands on them, they can defend themselves and beat him well. Everytime i say it my Wife keeps laughing . I am not joking Ooo

[@sandraokonkwo900]

Lol

[@gloakwuegbu7115]

I'm loving this wife. Can you imagine "correct " her, it sounds derogatory. She's not inferior to the man.A woman is an intelligent being. You reason with her, like you'll reason woth a friend or your colleague or boss,not correct her. This wife is my woman of the year.

[@sharonedwards126]

Glo, I don't care if she cannot spell CAT he has no right to put his hands on her.

[@goodnesswami1599]

Can you imagine? CORRECT, as if the wife is a child

[@stellachijioke876]

Is she his slave ? Even if its a slave does the situation demand a slap ? These cowards can't even hit their side chics at all for fear of losing them. Useless man.

[@mmaglorymathias393]

I still don't understand why slapping should be a means of correction

[@Mummya2021]

I tired, that is the mentality of Africa men , those good for nothing men.

[@healthpioneers9264]

Now my eyes are clearer. My boyfriend slapped me on the face last year and I'm still feeling this light headedness.He is not even planning for us to get married after spending 8 good years in courtship.I recently ended the relationship.

[@O_OMG]

Wow...You tried. 8 years is a life time. I broke up with my ex after 1yr+, he gave me a blow in the eye n i had a black eye for weeks. Im happy i dumped him. Shortly after, i met my husnand and 6 months later we were married. 11 years now ! Choose wisely

[@pricelessjim4953]

@Joy Onyebilanma logical question?

[@austinedosomwan3739]

A lot of people grew up from a toxic home. And that is their normal today. That's exactly where we are

[@imaobongokorie9709]

God will not allow our children meet such children from such families

[@austinedosomwan3739]

@@imaobongokorie9709 Amen

[@mercyoluwaniyi799]

True Sir

[@chilufyabwalya5416]

My thoughts exactly why not use Communication correction instead of correction slap 🤔🤔 She did right by having him arrested 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@EvermumgistTv]

The man is not well @ all by saying a correctional slap.And bringing it to social media without hiding his ugly character.

[@boycharlieO]

He lost his mind. Slapping her as a correction like he was correcting his pikin. What a buffoon!

[@thebestindewest]

...he as if she is an animal

[@wemimoadefolu8865]

I decree he remains single in jesus name. Amen 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Crabtree1844]

You don't slap your pikin either!

[@Mac_TO20]

I remain thankful that I have never raised a finger against any woman! I dare say that any man who hits a woman (except in self-defence) or his wife, is a coward or worse still, less than an animal.

[@chykedoc]

I wish to ask you why you think so, I mean why do you think it is wrong for a man to "slap" or physically raise his hand on his wife? I am not advocating for this, because I believe its wrong, but I also believe that a lot of people who believe its wrong in marriage, do not know why it is wrong, this is the simple reason why it still goes on. Share with me what you know. Thanks.

[@Mac_TO20]

@@chykedoc space here would fail me to elucidate on the whole idea. Just know that a man and woman become one in marriage. If a man cannot hurt himself, why should he hurt his wife? If a man cannot condone being slapped, why would he do same to his beloved (who is also himself)? Is the woman a kid that needs the rod (slap in his case) to be corrected? If marriage is to be as ordained by God, it therefore means that man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Has it been mentioned anywhere that Christ corrects His church by slaps? Think in this line and you would see my drift.

[@maureenishabor8036]

Man or woman nobody should raise their hands on any human being. Assault is wrong on levels.Kudos to you though👍

[@ifeyinwaezeoji]

@@Mac_TO20 well said! 👍👍👍

[@peacefrank7781]

@@chykedoc Please permit me to ask a simple question. How many old men , young men, young boys do you slap in any given day?? If you can’t slap or fight a fellow BOY at every provocation , please tell me the reason why you should slap or fight a woman at every provocation except when a woman first raised her hand on you . Remember I said first raised hand!!

[@bluebird4815]

I love this wife. Baby, slap me and one of us will end up in hospital and it won't be me. 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️ And after that, we are getting a divorce. Men like this need more than a wake up call. Your wife is not your property and she is not inferior to you.

[@nnennac904]

I'm surprised that his definition of wife material is a woman who can endure being beaten. If Peter Nwachukwu is not made an example and dealt with properly many abusive partners would not learn.

[@zainaa4509]

A lot of men don't treat their wives how they would like to be treated. She did the sensible thing, from slap can lead to more violent acts.

[@peacefrank7781]

Very true my dear. 9 out of 10 times.

[@doreenjohnson1048]

She is not a baby stand up for your right

[@doreenjohnson1048]

Woman is no fool like old time days

[@mabelconnect1387]

Marriage is for matured minds and problem solvers. Until we see marriage for what it is and not what we think it is, men/women that think like this guy here are in for more surprises. Marriage is not to be endured but to be enjoyed. Thanks dear summer.❤️

[@blessingechenwa2114]

This is exactly my husband's slogan " marriage is to be enjoyed not endured"

[@Cindy4ctv]

He is telling the truth in terms of how some wives were treated in thoes days. Sadly these still continues, however many females are waking up to the soft life.

[@moresttvshow2149]

What most women do not notice that such men will take their sisters back home immediately her husband try such with her, and start dividing soup money into two to cater for his precious sister!

[@supgirltripping310]

Standing up to self and being treated like a human being is not soft life. It’s simply fundamental and how it should be.

[@patiencemtetwa]

This content you have today Summer, I'm laughing nonstop 🤣🤣🤣🤣, this poor mindset from this man deserves, to live alone, Sadly he grew up thinking it's ok to hit a woman. I'm so happy for women now, I say the ancient days are gone!! We're in the Woke Generation 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾to women all over the world ✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾😊😉

[@isaacoguamanam253]

Honestly speaking it is obvious, that is what he leaned from his parents...As long as women keep silent over injustice behavior against them, men will keep on downgrading them...She stands for her right. from now on he will be thinking twice before he misbehave again.

[@thegracetofollow4194]

🤣😂right next time he will think twice

[@titilolasiwoku5944]

Yes ooo

[@lorasibigem25]

Coming from a man, hmmmmm, I'm surprised.

[@isaacoguamanam253]

@@lorasibigem25 Honestly speaking I have been an advocate of women knowing their right and that is what I do tell my younger once. I happened to grow up in a family where my father always proud of my mother, I am the 3rd child of my parents but I was the longest kitchen servant in my family. My wife has not stop loving my mother even in her grave for training me up like a woman..I And my two elder once was the one that stop my father from doing the domestic workers at home so it brakes my heart seeing women being punish for nothing.

[@lorasibigem25]

@@isaacoguamanam253 , this is wonderful, really.

[@toinnywainaina8608]

This is exactly what should happen…the man has no right to slap his wife who is his equal… I come from the Kikuyu tribe of Kenya and it is known by the other tribes that if you beat your wife do not dare close your eyes and sleep 🤣the girl child is just as important as the boy child and thus wife beating is discouraged in our marriages…a man can choose his kicks but he is not privileged to choose his kickbacks….

[@margaretodonkor4747]

Foolish "boy" We will not allow such nonsense anymore.

[@wemimoadefolu8865]

Marriage is not for boys like him.We should all come together to encourage the government to enact a law about beating women. 10 years plus losing all their properties. Goats!!!

[@roysyndy1741]

Those kind of men, when they go out and meet their fellow men they wrapped their tails like a 🐈‍⬛ 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thebestindewest]

All the time🤣🤣

[@roysyndy1741]

@@thebestindewest 😂😂😂😂

[@lightvictor1530]

🤣🤣😂😂🤣

[@highlyfavored5207]

You have spoken well Summer. Nothing more to add. Let abusive men like him stay single.

[@dinydgeraldine3254]

The wife reciprocated absolutely well to the slap, *it's called if you behaves anyhow you get treated anyhow* 😀😀😂 days has gone for that trash🙄😆

[@jacmyracoffie9093]

Chai 😂😂😂women have really suffered Sha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@highlyfavored5207]

People treat you the way you let them treat you. African women for centuries have allowed their men to treat them like crap and allowed them get away with it so why won't they as women suffer? They permitted the ill treatment and viciously support a culture that subjugates and abuses them. Let them bear their cross since dem no wan get sense.

[@angachiaanamba4645]

🤣🤣🤣🤣summer please don't make me laugh " let him get slapped and tell us how it feels" hahaha

[@exciting2355]

Summer, you are going too far. They can't touch those small girls they sleep with. Our mother's really suffered. You are correct my sis. Teach the kids everything equally.

[@lolao.310]

If they live in U.S.A and they happen to live in a community state, he would be in a bigger shocker if they have children and they decide to divorce.

[@maryjo2394]

I'm already laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@julscuisine3877]

Unfortunately you are right Summer, they usually say "the value of a woman is in her husbands house". A statement that I believe damaged many women's mindset, accepting anything from men. Men should treat other peoples children the way they would like to be treated, vice versa, or better remain single.

[@constancesehlola3993]

Na wawoooooooo 🙆‍♂️my sister, she did well my advice for her now let her leave bcs this man is going to repeat what he did. He does not see anything wrong about wat he did.

[@goldsdiva.]

He should be thanking his creator that it was just correctional arrest and not correctional otapiapia🤷🏽‍♀️ yeye fowl

[@agmik4767]

I have always wondered why in most Nigerian movies people just slap each other like it's nothing. I even noticed even in real life people just slap each other. Am glad this wife got him arrested. You can't be slapping people and think that's okay.

[@Crabtree1844]

There is a Nigerian comedy that promotes it i.e. "slapping" and it has many subscribers who laugh at the violence. It goes to show the animalistic level of said community and their subscribers who find violence to be amusing/laughed at.

[@evelynejeka7182]

You can never learn anything good from Nollywood

[@divinehouseholdstable.7257]

Like father like son 😭. The police did the right thing. Abuse of any form is unacceptable period. Matthew 7:12 is the scripture for all of us ❤️🕊🙏.

[@mb-s9790]

The place that got me is the MY HOUSE in his word that makes me understand why a man thinks he is above the woman in that marriage

[@nevermind5091]

Women are starting to realise it's not ok to hit or slap nor more. Welcome to the Android generation mister man. Bravo to the wife 👏 🙌 👍 👌 ❤️

[@shanilmine5166]

@ Never mind...android generation 100%

[@schenwig]

The fact that the man uses the expression "woke generation" is evident he is well informed and didn't do it. It's imaginative.

[@thebestindewest]

Or even more so should be do better

[@TheRealDeal130]

'...I'm done with this shitty marriage...'🤣🤣🤣lol!!! And we all say AMEN! He's the s**t in the marriage.

[@rosebush7000]

I have been watching this summer since I found this vlog a few days ago. PURE comedy gold with some instructions! I love it when she laughs at all the foolishness! 😂😂😂 The comments eh? Kai! 😂😂😂

[@brendadickson9583]

Welcome my sister Our sis Sumner is wise n funny with beauty to go with too🥰

[@gloriamoses9157]

Satanic agent of darkness d man is.🤣🤣🤣

[@frncamiriam8390]

otapiapia..men ddnt kn tht many woman has killed their husband silently bcos of all this abuse

[@odionugbiyobo2316]

Welcome to the new Nigeria post Osinachi may her soul rest in peace.

[@wemimoadefolu8865]

I wonder if anyone can be kind enough to start to collect signatures for Osinachi law on beating women. A law needs to be enacted as soon as possible.

[@inspirewisdom]

I feel embarrassed on behalf of men who raise their hands against women. Its just wrong guys! .If she is provoking you please just walk out, take a stroll or if you have a large house, go into a room and focus on your hobby.

[@feargod6842]

If the house belong to the woman, he would set it on fire with her in it. Men are displaying unbelievable evil these days. Men like this don't like it when their wife is empowered. Our mothers endured it not because they enjoyed it but because most of them where not financially empowered. They can't even own land or property either in their father's house or their husband especially in Igboland. Summer you're right, women don suffer for Niaja and Africa no be small

[@ytimi5231]

That wife slapper actually came from a disfunctional family setting and he learnt from his father.Women should walk out of such marriage because a set of boys who will become animalistic husbands will come out of such marriage.. That man is eranko eniyan lasan lasan who enjoys slapping his wife and sees nothing wrong in such behavior.

[@DorisHealthyTastyMeals]

Thank God the police went and arrest the man and not laugh at her as the experience someone.👌

[@ADAOBIEKE]

I always wonder how the abusive husband goes to bed and sleep off after beating his wife without any fear that he can be stabbed to death while he is sleeping stupidly. I have told my daughters just like my mom told me., Marriage is not an achievement. It is not a do-or-die affair, if he can slap you once, please run o even if it is on the wedding night.

[@dorisadams4194]

Wow he is lucky to have only gotten arrested if I was his wife I will file him with so many lawsuit that by the time I'm done a homeless man will be Richer than him

[@diyallthings]

This guys is so condescending!!! How did he manage to find a wife in the first place ?

[@Carameldamour]

This man essential think he married his child whom he can correctional slaps as he pleases. Calling the police was quite polite sir...Another would have paid mad money to offer you a correctional castration. Men as you aren't the husbands our fathers once were, don't expect us to be the wife's our mothers once were.

[@seckyilesanmi5577]

Correctional slap!!🤣🤣 she gave him correctional discipline too, can u imagine, a whole grown up woman ooo, so d training from her parent house no reach abi, Oga go n train ur children..

[@Gauzendi81]

The hundreds of 'likes' under his post is worrying , evidently he is not alone in this way of thinking. I remember a guy telling me he didn't find anything wrong with beating a woman because growing up he saw his dad beat his mum. its really a terrifying cycle.

[@wemimoadefolu8865]

The need for a law to be enacted like Europe.please make it happen.

[@pdm8446]

😡😡😡😡 Post had better be a joke or to trend! Correctional slap? As per she’s in jail/prison. Unto correctional facility! Arrant nonsense!!!!

[@josephinetozay6245]

Correctional Slap Really?? Guys! Yes in those days our mothers went through hardship in their Husband's house 🏠. They will get beaten by the husband, ill treatments n stay in the marriage, it was a normal way of life. Now the table has turned around. Women pls let us put effort into doing something meaningful to sustain ourselves. Following from Pennsylvania, USA ❤️ 🇺🇸 Thanks for sharing this video 📹 ❤️ 💕 🙌 😊

[@imaobongokorie9709]

My father never raised his hands on my mother oo.. Infact, my mum never remarried when he died because she no fit find that kind man... and na marriage in those days oo

[@noraallman9194]

Correctional slap. ? Your wife??? Well well that would be the last time he use that hand.

[@laorakojo8625]

Correction by slap, dooo oh headmaster 🙄 Love your wife, the way Christ loves the church and gave His life for it. You are busy slapping and correcting 🙄

[@winifredohiku6118]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@winifredohiku6118]

door oh headmaster 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Flourish_today]

Our mother generation were the "Sleep generation ". We woke up hence "Woke Generation".

[@adedoyinakanbi5677]

Men should learn to keep their hands in their pockets. Must a man hurt his wife to correct her ?

[@loispotter2097]

"Correct" his wife? Is he her father? What if she had corrected with a slap back? These type of men are bullies, they can't face their fellow men. Bet he'd think twice about handing out correctional slap. Nonsense!!!!

[@chichiasags9517]

Honestly, I found this video funny and annoying all in one. You landed her correctional slap, she slammed you with correctional arrest 😂😂😂. Wetin come dey pain you?.

[@patriciasunday2710]

Toh, our parents sends us off to correctional facility called marriage 🤣🤣🤣...

[@euniceizevbigie7975]

Summer alway crack me up so much anytime she says “grabbies” 🤣🤣🤣

[@omaryland5039]

God BLESS this wife time have changed Y'ALL no longer bullying as usual just imagine correctional slap.. Thank you WIFEY for dealing with him. Dont present yourself as a nobody to any man ..#womenempowerment

[@giftygifty7369]

Summer, l like the way you started your program,

[@olaoluwa2669]

Correctional slap extended to correctional police arrest and he's angry so he doesn't like to be corrected 🤣 marriage is two people so corrections is from both. abeg nor be all woman go be osinache. Oga nor know say Slavery marriage has long expired.

[@jjmkitchentv4397]

Confused man. He should better wake up from that useless dream he is dreaming of.

[@powerhouseofprayer5]

I have laughed so tay I tire. He so lucky the woman no use her kitchen utensils 🍴 on him before calling the police

[@nanlesamuel5303]

Our cultures has a way of making the woman like a commodity. When I wanted to marry my wife, I determined that I will not be pricing her bride price and I did that but her family made things so difficult for me and one of my friends said that's why no man will go through this and tolerate misbehavior. I did not have this traditional mind set that's why I still have great value for my wife and I can't imagine raising my hand against her.

[@joycats4768]

It is important to note that in India it is women who pay expensive 'groom price' and yet it is still the husbands who are oppressing and maltreating their wives also they hate having daughters because they don't want to pay the groom prices. The Indian women do not treat their husbands like they purchased them so Nigerian men can do better regardless of how expensive the brideprice is. Some tribes in Nigeria don't even collect the brideprice and the men still batter them. Abuse is never the answer, whether it be from the husband or the wife.

[@nanlesamuel5303]

@@joycats4768 I understand perfectly the point you are trying to make but I still want to believe that in Nigeria most especially a woman is treated as if she's a property. thats just the truth and that is how men build their mindset just like you see in this issue. He felt she is not a "WIFE MATERIAL" because of her response which to me she is exercising her rights. I don't know the mindset around Indians. And I also want to tell you that I have a friend who is going through terrible maltreatment from His wife because she looked down on him just like the way most men do to their wives. I encouraged him to get out of that marriage.

[@joycats4768]

@@nanlesamuel5303 Abuse is not good for anyone, be it men, women or especially the children who are always stuck there enduring and learning wrong things that will later affect their lives negatively when they also later get into relationships/marriage, so it becomes a generational plague. If Nigerians put even half of the amount of energy and dedication that they put into marriage matters especially making judgements on marriages of others that don't concern them into making sure the country has a good government and life improvement systems in place, Nigeria would be a world class enviable country today. The point I was trying to make is that men in Nigeria should not treat wives like property, period! People in marriages and relationships should stop using excuses of bride price, religion, lack of money, being physically stronger etc to maltreat their partners. Men in general should treat the women around them like they would want someone else to treat the mother that gave birth to them whom they love (married or not). Also women treat men well too. Nigeria needs to wake up and be progressive for its people, life is moving on with or without it.

[@nanlesamuel5303]

@@joycats4768 I agree with you 100%. I believe we are missing the values we have for each other. I hate it for a very long time when I see abuse in any way. And as you rightly said, the psychological effect on the children is terrible. I have been a victim as I watched my dad do that to my mom. My Father never raised his hand on my mom but I was devastated at the verbal abuse he always rain on her to the point that she will be weeping almost all through the night. That experience make me hate to see most especially my wife in that position. I remember one night I had argument with my wife and I might have said something that hurt her and she wanted to start crying. I didn't know when I just rushed and hug her and then started apologizing because I hate putting someone through that kind of pain my mom experienced. I was so very angry when I had of Osinachi's case. Infact I wish there's something I could do about it because I took it personal even though I have never seen her

[@joycats4768]

@@nanlesamuel5303 Sorry to hear about what you went through and it is not a small thing that in spite of it all you still grew up with so much empathy & care which you are now using positively in your family because it often ends up that the majority of children become receivers or participants of the exact behaviours that they observed at home whether it is negative or positive. It's like we forget that children also get raised by what they observe wherever they are, whether you want them to learn it or not. People wonder why younger and younger children are now interested in how to make money fast but the children observe a system around them with little or no accountability from the government to the citizens and see how they still get respected just because they have all this ill-gotten wealth, so they also want the same thing and yet people act shocked and want to shame the children when the children are just acting out what they see like a mirror reflection of the soceity they are in.

[@olumachijoy3298]

Love you Summer❤️

[@summeraku]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 💋💋💋💋💋

[@fruitfulwaters8130]

Gen 3:16 said,your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you,..,.......,.and so on Now the dictionary meaning of rule over you is compel,force,coerce,conquer,enslave,crush,overcome.This is the punishment God dished out to Eve.God knows that women are not the submissive type hence he said women be submissive,God also knew that because the women are not submissive,that they will always be receiving slap from the men,hence he said men love your wife.women una too get mouth and stubborn.na only correctional slap de reset some of una😁😁😁🤣🤣

[@fruitfulwaters8130]

Because Ukraine refuse to submit to Russia,Russia has decided to rule over Ukraine by overpowering them.you Gerrit?

[@njidekaadogu5431]

Thanks Summer you did it again. Your analysis is on point. Thank God for you. If you ever come to America, I’ll be your host. I have 3 boys and a daughter. Nobody has any right to slap anyone. My sons know that if they raise their hands on their wives, I’ll be the one that will beat them blue and black. My only daughter that I’ll go for omugwo, that man will regret ever being born if he lays a finger on her 😠. God will continue to bless you Summer and your children. Jide ka iji nwannem with much love ❤️

[@kimberlytv7895]

Nigeria need to have FIDA like kenya,touch not a woman

[@highlyfavored5207]

Agreed

[@icequeen491]

Hey Lovely, I love your mindset. And totally agree with you! “Women want marriages they will enjoy and Not endure” I also think that we need stronger women to raise stronger men. We as women have to demand respect from the men we choose to marry and only then can we have the right foundation to raise healthy kids. Men need firm hands and lessons on how to treat and respect women. We women as so special as we are given the gift of birthing children. No man should ever think himself superior to a woman and women need to demand love and respect or stay single.

[@stephnoraeddyson2177]

That's last year post not recent Summer, is not a joke the man came there to tweet

[@ogbonnanwabueze6974]

If any man beat my sister, he is dead!!!

[@ayukgladys9697]

Why must he correct her with a slap? Woman well done.

[@fendy9437]

My first time of watching your video. I think I like you.

[@chichiasags9517]

Summer, I couldn't help laughing. Shebi it's the type of corrections Osinachi's husband repeatedly meted out to her for years. No be only correctional slap! Why didn't he use AK-47 or bomb propeller to correct her. Anuofia!!!

[@tekenakaribiwhyte1948]

The church in Nigeria made unmarried women feel incomplete let us take mother's day where married women wear one color of wrapper and unmarried women no matter your age wear another color this can have a psychological effect on any unmarried woman and she is ready to settle for any man regardless of his character

[@wemimoadefolu8865]

The church is a complete failure. No wonder many people have stopped going to church. The pastors , those ones are really mungo parks.Turning the scripture upside down.please go to God directly and read the bible yourself.

[@angachiaanamba4645]

Slaps now have names hahaha "correctional slap" hmmm 1😂

[@chinenyekamah9541]

Good Evening mummy not Nice Women are not men Slaves he very Should men 😉🙆‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️👏👏👌👍

[@tochukwunjoku]

Summer, on the topic of marriage and defining women; do you know that some people in our community will consider opera as a non achiever because she's not married?

[@summeraku]

Of cause I know. And she has no kids.. to them she’s a complete failure

[@NileGoddess]

Lol they are the idiots to consider that

[@si3081]

@@summeraku is it rough for an Ikerrwe lady to marry an Ogoni man Please do a video on this, because my sister is in one of the abusive marriage we are talking about!!!

[@bolasdiarytv]

Summer, I think the culture of marriage makes a woman has changed or should I say is changing. No woman of this new generation would raise her girl child to be dependent on men. The children we are raising these days would not wait for their husbands before they do things. That is why they are getting education.

[@cryptoqueen5066]

Dear summer I do enjoy your narrative over some issues here but you see this one, there are certain things that are missing that you need to put correction on. I'm not in support of domestic abuse in any manner, I never lay hand on my wife and I will not but what works for me may not work for another person, so there are certain things that women needs to understand when it comes to marriage abuse, like you said God gave man power (physical strength) and woman mouth (mouth strength) which are meant to be use with respect, regard and positively but many women abuse these strength and talk down on their husband as if they are talking to an house boy or they mate, can you talk to your elder brother or your husband mate outside like that? Or you got married to him to disrespect him? pls let's be reasonable here. You see those talk and nagging on him, my sister you are beating him emotionally, psychologically and mentally that has cost many men life out there. Involving in an accident, coming back late at night from bar, not able to handle himself then one day he will lose it. So let talk about this very important and give our marriage a balance. Thank you.

[@InGodwetrust365]

People that carry gun enter bank receive greet treatment in prison . Osinachi husband was beaten heavily in jail or wherever he was kept. Mumu man . We are in New Era. Get it , woman beater.

[@hallelujahtv2150]

Even if it's a joke, for me it's expensive one. Nonsense!!. Summer this is not funny I beg.

[@mabelakuwaroberts4809]

U are right my sister

[@deborentetv478]

We are not in that old dispensation anymore ooo

[@doreenonekalit9888]

One slap for Me! One slap for You! God nor vex! Just try it! Even if you were drunk in your dream, dreaming you are drunk.

[@angelaambra7744]

I think it's a joke., but on the other hand he should thank his stars that the woman did not use something to break his head, instead, she called the police for him..... The women of this generation are far different from those of the olden days....

[@kimsung4405]

First off, I believe children being force to marry people they don't love, don't know, don't want, and do not want to marry must stop. Second off, I believe the understanding of the bridal price (dowry) this thing does not mean the man owns this bride as if he just purchased a slave. Dowry is compensation for what the head of the brides house hold loses when he gives away his daughter in marriage. Women are NOT SLAVES, WE ARE NOT OBJECTS, WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS THAT DESERVE REAL LOVE, REAL CARE UNTIL Natural CAUSES OF DEATH DO US PART. If this concept can be instilled in boys. Boys grow up to be men. And men grow up to be husbands that will love, respect, and care for their wives. Not be woman beaters, women suppressors, women haters, and women killers.💔