Nigerian Men Are Taking All The Women in Uganda and Kenya FOR THIS REASON| Ep. 80

In this podcast, we explore why East African men are often seen as not romantic. We discuss cultural and societal factors that contribute to this perception and challenge stereotypes surrounding East African masculinity. Tune in to join the conversation and tell us what you think in the comment section.
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[@Kenganda]

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[@CYR1977]

Join everything!

[@Shonuffmann]

As long as you have complete creative control, get that bag!

[@blockavelli]

As long as you can keep ownership of all your intellectual property.

[@blackchain1900]

Bro, you should explain what the marriage rate is like here in America, with all this romance.

[@sonofnok2153]

@@blackchain1900 ...at the end of the day, does that lead to marriage and a family.

[@bellooricha6866]

Truth is, Nigerian men will keep giving you forever. They're raised to be both providers & romantic. A Nigerian woman doesn't have to do a lot, don't just cheat & be a supportive woman.

[@tabiagebre8168]

and some will cheat.

[@kingkunta07]

I’m not East African , I’m not American , I’m entertained. Fire episode 💥😂

[@princessroyalty7879]

Nigerian and Liberian men really know how to cook food very well. Seems to me like they learned how to cook food from childhood. They clean the food properly before cooking it. After the food has been cooked, it tastes very good.

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

And, so we should cook as well...

[@finedash5744]

So no eastfrican man know how to cook??

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

@@finedash5744 they do, but very few you'll find them in the kitchen cooking......

[@amandaeguale1641]

@@mpendakiswahili3053 yes you should cook

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

@@amandaeguale1641 are you okay in the head!!!....

[@jahkarimirza7286]

That brother s right. Women are affected by the Hollywood Western movies on romanticism, which is the Roman way.

[@Babanla420]

Especially the host. She is so Americanized

[@djhuiti100]

I agree. All I hear is roman-antics. Its pretty disappointing to be honest & im all for treating my woman like a Queen.

[@kevinfowler8712]

Harlequin romance novels and of course television. Even though this is true we must take the time out to show that we appreciate the gift God has given us.

[@rbailey3309]

With all thy getting, get thee understanding.(Proverbs 4:7)

[@KingMike-un5vz]

​@@kevinfowler8712 yall may be right but I gotta say it doesn't take to much for us to care about our women n show some love and be genuinely in love with to woman.

[@chineduozulumba7833]

Watching from Nigeria. I really enjoyed your conversation. I think it depends on the perspective you are looking at. I think African men need to step up a bit, however they are not doing badly. Our women also need to appreciate us more and not compare us to the men in the West (U.S, U.k). My marriage is 9 years by the grace of God and I am enjoying the wife of my youth. Romance is good, but its not everything required to keep a relationship or marriage. Financial stablility, kindness, senstivity and emotion maturity is key. Nice channel, I just subscribed.

[@Jahzeal101]

He will make every Girl in his life feel special, truly, 🇳🇬✔️

[@omoluabiorishaluabi]

To be honest, Nigerian men would be romantic because they grew up seeing it around them. Nigerian men wouldn't see anything wrong serving their wives ...cooking, gifts, helps shopping and above all romantic sexy etc

[@cjceejay5261]

Really? You just described simps you are used to.

[@Tiktok_Reddit]

😂😂😂, which Nigerian men or you’re speaking for your circle?

[@omoluabiorishaluabi]

@Someone you Love ...when it is mentioned Nigerian men or Tunisian or wherever does not mean totality...and how many have you met...not even 0.00001%

[@wealthbymind]

I'm an American Black Woman and Oshay I hope that you are schooling these young ladies and that you are in truth about today's topic in knowing the destruction that these fake romance perspectives and behaviors have caused in the Americas. These young ladies are too young and they don't know the full ramifications of not having emotional control. I'm not saying women shouldn't be emotionally supported but where does one draw the line? Some of what these were saying is an immature perspective that "may" lead these women to having a "potentially" high body count, emotionally drained, unmarried, unsatisfied, spiritually dismantled, and eventually potentially alone because they won't be able to peer bond. These ladies have to be mindful of what they are doing "unconsciously" to themselves when they jump from guy to guy in exchange for money in some form (mobile topup, groceries, etc.) and then when the women don't get what they want from one guy they move on to the next. So basically why should men trust settling down with these types of ladies. Life has ups and downs, and if the man has a problem in life financially will these young ladies just leave him instead of helping to lift the man when he's down on his luck?

[@alieast3196]

You should be a pastor because you are speaking the gospel 🕊️🌞. In all seriousness we should all be aware of the toxic seeds from the bad apples in western culture. Nigeria and Congo are two of the most westernized countries in Africa and their is a small percent of men there who have made wealth from abusing the people and resources in their country. Those are the men they are speaking about not the everyday people in the villages, cities, and slums who cannot even afford a plane ticket out Nigeria or the congo. They are basically African passport bros lol 📘.

[@wealthbymind]

@@alieast3196 And, the crazy thing is that people are following the "WEST" and other cultures with perspectives and behaviors that are damaging not only to the mind but to the body and the spirit. We are supposed to follow a higher power (whatever name you put on it). We are supposed to let our ancestors and higher forces guide us but instead, we are allowing the wickedness of man to lead us by the nose and place "evil agendas" before us that do not serve us. Some of these agendas are subtle and look innocent but in the end, they are the most destructive because they are noticed when it's too late. Many are functioning without higher principles and because of such they have nothing that gives them a baseline. Your principles help you to know where to draw the line. When you don't have principles, then anything goes and people can be steered in a direction that is damning. Again, having principles is a way of setting boundaries of knowing what you will do and not do. Culture is bigger than an individual person. You must hold principles so your children will know what to stand on. We should have individual principles that benefit the whole. People are letting misguided perspectives and behaviors dictate what has been proven to not be good in the long run. People are looking for instant gratification and a quick $dollar and not what will hold them and their community together for the long haul. The other crazy thing is that if I were to call a woman who jumps from man to man a whore or a prostitute, she would be offended. But when you look up the meaning and the etymology of the word, they would fit the description exactly. And you don't need to stand on the street to be such. Believe it or not, this is why some people can't connect intimately. They have too many other people's energies on them. Many do not hold their bodies as temples (male and female). Not everyone deserves your energy not to mention sex can be a dirty thing, physically as well as spiritually i.e. disease, blockages in life, etc. Both males and females are prostituting and compromising themselves for less than nothing because they don't see themselves in high regard. It is what it is and I'm not judging but I am wondering, when did we lose our creativity to make something from nothing. I agree with you it's not all (in whatever locale) however we must be aware of these damaging perspectives that are like a virus. We must protect ourselves from this at all costs. We all must think higher and carry ourselves in that manner. Respect yourself first and then others will respect you. We have forgotten who and what we are supposed to stand for. You don't need to be a pastor to speak the truth. We had principles of truth way before the advent of the Bible, Christianity, and Islam. The spirit of a higher order was once in us and we carried ourselves in that way. Many no longer carry themselves in such a way and the ones that do are looked upon as if something is wrong with them. So, it is up to you to seek the truth in all things even if it hurts and no matter what anyone says. At least then, when you see yourself going the wrong way you can adjust and self-correct. I'm here as a black American woman (there are still some good ones out here) who is a living witness to the destruction of our people all around the world and it saddens me.

[@khem127]

Mmm ,Oshay doin better. At least he maturing to community consciousness. Baby steps……..baby steps. Good job Oshay!! Why do some of these ladies sound like men??

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

I wish they could realize, right now as a man doing we'll in Nairobi Kenya, it's difficult to find marriage oriented young woman ..... They evolved to something completely foreign to us, they copy and paste everything they see from Hollywood.....

[@lubanzaozunu6527]

@wealthbymind..... Preeeeach!!!! 👏👏👏 You should be on the next episode as a guest.

[@aao449]

As a Nigerian woman, you all need to take it easy with each other. You ppl are really going for each other’s jugular.

[@mikeking-yh7km]

I love Rachael's contribution... There's no need of faking love.... Men are built as warriors, protectors and providers... No need to be carrying ladies bag. African culture and upbringing is quite different from other continent....

[@KingNnaji]

Giving is a part of the Nigerian culture and it is the men that pay for everything and the provider. It is part of Nigerian culture

[@henryokoye1014]

Exactly. And a way of life.

[@cjceejay5261]

What’s this thing about women and money?

[@omoluabiorishaluabi]

The fact of being poor guy and no woman interested in you is all over Africa and it's not because women only want money, it's feminine nature. Women by nature wants security both physically, economically and financially, even intellectually. I have had this issue of east African men not being romantic as west African counterparts. However, i believe east African women could figure out the comparison became west African men becomes available for them. It's always like that in life when you have experience of two sides. I believe our east African men can make changes.

[@dmvpro2014]

Oshay fits the definition of romantic according to Joanita, because he has American accent and the money to spend!!

[@SSF4Kingship]

Lol

[@joanitamaaya]

Lol

[@tundebakare6887]

😂😂

[@marthavineyard6959]

This was a good one!😂 Jonita really did her thing this time!

[@jnginc_]

This problem is not unique to them. The brotha shared a valid point. Women all over the world see Hollywood romance and desire the same. Thank you for sharing.

[@afckajjansi]

Then they complain if men do it lol

[@ogunsoladare2613]

The lady that spoke behind the scene make a wonderful intelligent contribution. She needs to come out occasionally on the show.

[@adeolajackofallTrade]

What most people don't understand about My Niaja bro is that we are raise to fear woman, and to respect woman, also we know that the more we treat our woman right, they have the potential of Give us that Blessing to grown in our business...

[@waynemoi]

One thing I really REALLY love about this channel is that you guys don't constantly talk over each other and you let people finish their point. Big ups!

[@christset]

As a NIgerian man, if u want a peace of mind, listen uganda men, when u get married, give all your salary to your wife and tell her to use the money to pay all the bills in the house including the house rent, that way, she can't be asking u money, cause she already knows what's coming in. then get your side hustle on to keep that extra money for your self.

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

What a simp

[@victorikenna597]

Wrong advise 😂

[@johnolaoluwa]

Then you make her look outside to "support" the family. The whole matter is one of education. The woman needs to know for herself what real life is, not one based on fake expectations that is actually lots of body counts.

[@christset]

​@@johnolaoluwa Women have unique ways of thinking that differ from men, much like the distinction between the operating systems of an iPhone and an Android device. Once you grasp that concept, u are on your way.Koye e..

[@johnolaoluwa]

@@christset It is not as hard as people try to make it. Women love naturally, but find it unnatural to submit.... Men don't find it natural to love - that is why the Bible commands the woman to submit and the man to love. Disobedience to this simple command leads to problems, which neither can handle. So, I understand where you are coming from about giving her the salary to pay all the bills, including the ones you incurred, it makes her feel in total control - that is still wrong. She should be in control of building the home while the man should be in charge of protecting the family. ... It is that simple.

[@analyticalmindset]

I personally loved this episode lol I was laughing out loud the whole time. Im liberian and spend on my Ghanaian girl . It goes both ways though .

[@hojochijioke7068]

It is just a cultural thing. African culture sees the man as a giver and the girl as a receiver. But times have changed and the giving and receiving goes both ways. Love ya all.

[@tundebakare6887]

Men are natural givers and women are natural receivers

[@BillMatte-gk9df]

Sometimes you just aren't THAT girl. If men aren't treating you right, they just don't like you much. Don't confuse lust for love.

[@RealStellaStella]

Hahahaha🤣. This is one of my favorite episodes. Although I never ask for money, I agree with what Joanita, Khuhani, and Racheal said because I noticed what they said about East African men.

[@aetjr69]

Mine too. I think Joanita and Outabrian have a secret think for one another....LOL

[@11damilola]

I have been to several clubs, lounges, hotels, exotic restaurants etc in DRC and the way Nigerians spend money can't be compared to the Congolese at all. Nigerians are top spenders. In December 2019 just before the covid, I travelled with 2 of my Nigerian friends to DRC for 8 days and we spent a total of $34,800 on exotic drinks and champagnes in the club in just 3 days. The club owner told the DJ to stop all french music and play strictly Nigerian music throughout our stay. Nigerians love fun and wouldn't mind the cost. They're big spenders.

[@bobsecret199]

Spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks” over the course of 8 days is just sheer INSANITY! Over those same 8 days my total expenditure would be less than $45 TOPS! And I’m a 7 figure man!) $1,000,000+ 🙄

[@11damilola]

@@bobsecret199 @bobsecret199 Nigerians love fun and it doesn't sound insane to them. I don't think spending $34,800 on exotic drinks is a big deal to a group of young Nigerian men who are worth millions of dollars and own gold mines in Conakry, Mali and Goma DRC. They went on a business trip and equally had fun. I don't see that as insane as long as they were happy and it doesn't affect their business and investments negatively.

[@I.K.U.K.U]

I am a Nigerian, and I work so hard to be able to spend 100k$ on drinks one day. It’s not madness but we love it

[@bobsecret199]

@@11damilola I’m certain that the vast majority of Nigerians know NOTHING about having “fun” as much as men like me! And I have FAR more wealth than most Nigerians dare to even fantasize about! But anybody that equates spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks” 🍹 🥤 🍺 as “fun” is truly lacking …in MANY ways! The AVERAGE household in Nigerian earns just a bit more than $200 USD per MONTH! So let’s not pretend that most Nigerians know ANYTHING at all about wealth! In the USA we blacks who actually ARE wealthy …and did _not_ grow up in poverty can ALWAYS recognize NEW MONEY and the people who DID! The NEW MONEY blacks are prone to do all of the childish flexing and love to wear expensive jewelry, drive fancy cars and to be seen. What they are far too dumb to realize is that there is an entire industry of people who get rich and make a living off of their zeal for relevancy. They know that these hood rich people have NO idea what the difference is between a $100,000 watch and an $800 watch. They have absolutely NO idea what fine aged wine tastes like or should taste like as compared to something picked up at the corner liquor store. They can’t tell REAL gold from FOOLS gold and they can’t tell a diamond from a cubic zirconia. You could pick up something from Target and tell a hood rich negro that it’s a designer original and that the label is very exclusive and they will pay 100x more for it than it costs at the store. (Petty people are just that desperate to be relevant or to APPEAR rich!) All you have to do is act a certain way and talk a good game and put a high price tag on something and a hood rich negroe is extremely EASY to fleece! The poverty class always make a MUCH bigger deal about their relatively NEW money and love to flaunt it, toss it around and spend it frivolously…and FOOLISHLY! But the people like ME who have NOTHING to prove and are used to wealth tend to be significantly more frugal and conscientious about how we spend it. Men like me have MUCH more in common with men like Elon Musk …THE wealthiest man (by FAR) on the entire PLANET 🌍…and NOTHING in common with the typical RAPPER …who grew up in poverty in “da hood!” It sounds like these Nigerians share this _HOOD_ mentality when it comes to money! Spending $34,800 on “exotic drinks and champagnes …in the club …in just 3 days” is something that I’d be too EMBARRASSED to admit to! ESPECIALLY if I came from a country as dirt poor as Nigeria! 😖 After you consume all these “exotic drinks and champagnes” it all comes out as rancid smelling yellow *_PISS!_* And the people who mixed up the drinks and sold them to you are LAUGHING at you behind your back! 😄😁🥲😅😂🤣

[@docfada1701]

​@@11damilola Exactly 💯 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯👍🏾

[@amrikiaswad4263]

I never seen Joanita with this much conviction

[@Malcolmmillsknows]

I LOVE this channel!

[@ewm4266]

Sticking with my Luo and Coastarian men from Kenya, Thank you, Nigerians got nothing on them

[@TheRealness101]

Opinions are like A holes, everyone's got one. I'm sure other people have the same sentiments for Nigerian men, against the men you're praising. Big up to Africans, simple, why hate and throw shade?🤣

[@realvibranttv2255]

As a Nigerian, I respect you immensely for loving your fellow east African men. For me, love knows no boarder. If I find love in Uganda, Kenya, South Africa, Senegal or anywhere, I will settle with her.

[@ewm4266]

​​​@@TheRealness101 Why are you butt hurt? Not everyone loves Ogas and it's ok so take several seats back and whine over there abeg

[@fistandpen2505]

Another Nigerian. You definitely should at least show respect to your men. So not sure what this whole thing is about. Nigerian women do their thing, so you'll hardly hear complaints other than the usual fun gender banter. And of course our African/black ladies generally are awesome. I will say as a man in the diaspora, Nigerian men definitely get a lot of love across race, culture and ethnicity so we're not complaining😇

[@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799]

​@@realvibranttv2255 story

[@mandyb6414]

Women always walk with backup money. Do Not allow a man to left you stranded.

[@abiodundami]

Honestly, as a Nigerian man, based on the responses of the Uganda/ Kenyan guy I can see why their women prefers a Nigerian or Congolese man. Its true we like to spend money but the truth is you need to understand women's love language. If you want to catch a monkey act like one. Women want everything they desire but its not possible for them to get all they want... its just not possible. If you put that statement into perspective you will get any woman you desire.

[@kyomugisharoset8266]

Who said Congolese man?

[@KiguruNganga]

You talk as if we still don't get these women, we don't need your advise

[@romellomyers7636]

I never commented before on this podcast before but today I just subscribe I love to see that you can have a discussion about dating and it doesn't turn in to hate like in the states and the woman never said all men. I luv to hear everyone perspective so keep doing you'll thing.

[@Kenganda]

Thank you so much for your subscription

[@a1illustration658]

If I speak I’ll be in BIG TROUBLE! 😂🫣 Great EP ❤️🇬🇧🇺🇬🤝🏾📍

[@fausterbrenda8513]

😂😂😂Y

[@davidosimiri7344]

If you don't have money give what you have 100%, and this is to both parties. It should be a mutual thing. Love from Nigeria

[@isaiahkenny3544]

Exactly

[@sulezinyembezigqeba]

💯❤️

[@Yahia08]

I am a culprit lol West african in UG who married east african women Interesting topic Edit: it is a (cultural) thing that men from certain tribes in west africa, at the least the ones that i know, would spend enough on their wives. It is not simping, but a responsibility. That being said, these men would expect their wives to keep up with their responsibilities as well.

[@ambroseosuan5457]

You guys are great, East African ladies are natural, romantic, and loving .

[@abroslife]

Here's your 1000th like. Great content.

[@Frainkey]

Seems like it boils down to exoticism where the women have negative impressions of the men in their area and gravitate to other men from different areas because it's exotic and exciting to them.

[@tombimashri8149]

All about the money

[@Frainkey]

@@tombimashri8149 Yea but that’s literally any relationship/marriage. Difference is women are now more than usual extremely SCARED. Scared of struggling, they start out broke, they do bare minimum or well for themselves and have to depend on her man’s income primarily so if you seem financially unstable, how can she trust that you both will be financially ok together?? Yes, I understand the gold digging aspect, entitlement, spoiled money draining. I get that but them not the ONLY women out there either. If them the only ones you come across. Learn, analyze, reflect, and choose a different quality of women. Choose better. That choice can be where you are or elsewhere. The trick is knowing what you want and learning where to find what you want and whether you are what they want in return.

[@blackblaze5271]

@@Frainkey I don't know if it's 'exotic' but people everywhere complain the most about their own.

[@Frainkey]

@@blackblaze5271 I agree with your statement. My reasoning for the word exotic. You say people complain the most about their own. So they like different than their own. There’s generally a fascination with the different. It sounds different, behaves a bit or a lot different, it’s unexplored, new, exciting, romanticized. Pretty much describes exotic.

[@magaretekwin3659]

@@Frainkey well said. And, most women got to realize what they want in a man doesn't come ready made. Most times woman and the man in her life got to work together to get their relationship to the level and quality they want for both of them. Unfortunately most women want everything to come ready made, the money, romance, maturity, too notch love, etc. It doesn't work like that in real life.

[@ronniegarcia8503]

One thing I can say about Joanita, she is great at making any good man run into the arms of another woman. Every 30 seconds she says the words money. Who wants dat headache?

[@borngreat-4-life930]

Everybody got their own experience. Leave my girl Juanita alone. 😂 😂

[@joanitamaaya]

😂😂😂😂

[@ronniegarcia8503]

@@joanitamaaya yes Joanita Happy Mothers Day!! One day you'll make some pretty children❤😉

[@joanitamaaya]

@@ronniegarcia8503 thank you. Happy mothers day to the women in your life.

[@cpd7172]

I was thinking the same thing 👏🏾

[@maduagwunkemakolam4788]

Joanita, that was a beautiful discuss ❤

[@Abeisgreat1]

I think east african men are vetting harder to filter users and finessers and if the girl passes that test then they invest.

[@winnykazungu8675]

Am dating a west African, and honestly they take care of their women.

[@carpediem4512]

Soon you will regret deeply.

[@LethalSam]

​​@@carpediem4512 How? I am Nigerian and I am proud to say we take care of our women.

[@winnykazungu8675]

@@carpediem4512 really, why. Anything I should know

[@Stratocaster01]

@@carpediem4512 envy is the weapon of the weak.

[@hamzexphilosopher]

@@carpediem4512 she will be done dirty like what the nigerian did to Desire luzinda

[@sistaluv1357]

Great conversation.

[@nightbeat1media]

Joanita was on fire this episode. I have to say you are some beautiful and smart women.

[@fabianparson3378]

😂 This is the most conviction Joanita has displayed in a video! She's taking that Feminist training program to heart! Lmbo😂! Funny episode. From Team Stingy!

[@joanitamaaya]

😂😂😂😂😂I’m pressed!!!

[@leeayi243]

@@joanitamaaya Nigerian women will say, marriage vows, "for better for stay, for worse for go"🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️. They not hanging around for the in sickness part, they only want in health part.😂😂😂

[@fabianparson3378]

@@joanitamaaya you look like you have a whole husband tucked away in a suitcase somewhere. 🤣🤣🤣 You're not pressed! Big Daddy Oshay can have you married off by noon. 🤣😁😁

[@soinda87]

@@leeayi243 😂😂🤣

[@BillMatte-gk9df]

She needs to realize, that if men aren't treating her special, they aren't into her. She is replaceable.

[@archiejones340]

Familiarity can create resentment

[@alexxb7957]

Johnita betta keep teaching these men.. Yes hunni!

[@Ismail-cf6xu]

My boo looking lovely with her head covered today. Very regal. Hey Jonita 😉 👋🏾

[@blackchain1900]

"If you give, first, then I will give." The host.

[@profg5tv785]

When it comes to dating you can see Nigerian men being very passionate, this is due to Nigerian’s culture where commitment and love is a way of life, That's why most Nigerian men date to get to the aisle in no distance time, because a typical Nigerian man is family-oriented so living happily ever-after is their end game. Nigerian men are taught right from a young age to treat the female child lovingly. Be aware that Nigerian men are also dating and marrying women from other countries. In Africa Nigerian men are getting married to South Africa and Kenya women most especially and also not only in Africa but in Europe and America. Don't forget Nigerian men they're selfless men and they'll go any length to do things for the one they loves. Nigerian men they're always having a firm determination and desire to be successful. Dating a Nigerian man is soothing as they treat their partners like a queen.This means you remain the heart while he is the head. By so doing you both will be in symbiotic kind of relationship.

[@tzunammi]

Igbo...

[@nomaddiaries9790]

Which Nigerian men are you talking about? We have many tribes here and am sorry to say, not all the men are the same.

[@paulokeke8337]

@@tzunammi I'm Igbo and this trait is seen not only in my region but nationwide. We have dwelled among us so long that we now share things in common. So yeah, Nigerian men...

[@amos_eternal]

​@@paulokeke8337 thank you

[@colinmk256]

I didn't know Brian was this shy yamawehh!! 🤣🤣 Great episode ba guy!

[@kelvinwarren8761]

@Kenganda I did know you were from the Golden state. Calu stand up!!!! We may have to link, because I plan on visiting Uganda soon..

[@thoughtsonthis154]

As a Nigerian man, we just don’t spend blindly like this video would portray, we do spend and sometimes even more than the other guy and that’s cause we want you and we believe you are worth it, the moment you don’t show or meet up to our wants or the Value or potential we see in you because maybe you became lazy or entitled, that is when we leave you. It gets worse if we find out that you are after the money and what we can give that makes you the same with the other girls out there and we will do and act accordingly with you.

[@BB-vy5rx]

Bruh stop the cap, I'm Nigerian too and too many of our men blindly spend hoping to get sex. We have a whole lot of men hyper focused on getting cash just so they can get women and they fail to build emotional connections with these women because that's what society makes them believe. Why do you think we have too many cases of cheating partners and the rest.

[@Tommy-km4wo]

They're more so saying you guys are more attentive and better in other areas.

[@isaiahkenny3544]

I feel that Bro exactly 💯👊

[@JHKanus]

Exactly.. Once we know you are only with us because of the money, then be ready to be left.

[@mzfeisty1554]

Makes so much sense..

[@sholasholknb9199]

Jooanita has the most amazing smile, will not might waking up to that smile every morning. can she sing? 🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@HakimZziwa]

Great topic guys, much thanks to Rachel for being the most neutral, hope we get to see her one day, I agree with the ladies however, I think there also needs to be more of creativity suggestions in terms of activities to do that contribute to the romance vibes from the ladies side and not leave everything to the East African brothers given their weakness as stated by Rachel. For Joan 😂😂😂, she is good looking and will for sure find that man of her dreams one day. Great content guys, keep on.

[@alvinwitherspoon5960]

That’s right Khuhani….. it should always be a win win situation in any relationship.

[@professorricci938]

Ladies and gentlemen I am from Nigeria. The thing is I put priority above anything. If I would date any woman, she must be of substance. I believe guys should be romantic. If u can't do great things, do small things in a great way. You don't need to be super rich to woo a woman. In the long run she may be the one that will pay your bills. Go to saloon with her, check on her, reassure her. And make sure u r dealing with someone that is ready to be with u. With these ladies will like u.

[@obn1459]

Why must it be men stressing to make the women feel loved and wanted all the time? Why can't women also make men feel wanted and loved? Yet they want men to do certain 'unmanly' things to feel equal and in same power wavelength with men. Basically wanting to eat their cake and have it.

[@Drega001]

Man Oshay. This is so constructive compared to your previous American panels

[@philippelindsey5042]

This episode was great. Hilarious!

[@TanzaniaTony]

East African women are definitely the best in africa. The other places are too effected by the west. That’s why I moved to Tanzania 🇹🇿.

[@borngreat-4-life930]

We are coming with you..😂😂

[@HRL.]

Sincerely, there is nothing wrong in investing in your lady. I am not talking of those asking for birthday money, data top up, and petty stuffs of such with the same breath there is nothing bad doing these things for her occasionally.

[@jackjack-bw8ks]

Joanita didnt come to play...I can respect it. She is very respectful doing it I appreciate her for that.

[@Daron7181]

Outa Brian had me rollin 🤣 on this one!

[@africaine4889]

As a congolese woman , congolese women love their men. They are not to much into west African men unless they are from a francophone country. Especialy cameroon and ivoiran becaude they are the closest to our men

[@Kenganda]

Thank you for commenting!

[@Love22320]

Is Congo not in west Africa

[@berthekabwe871]

​@@Love22320 DRC Congo is in Central Africa.

[@connectronald4720]

​@@Love22320 in East African Brock

[@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799]

​@@Love22320 learn your geography dimwit

[@officialpraizedetravelle]

I support the Ugandan guy....as man I can't date someone who I know or feel like she just want to take advantage of the fact that wealthy...

[@ps4gamesonly623]

I enjoyed this so much great podcast 😂

[@phinamartins8830]

To my East African babies go get your Nigeria men,A.American men or even white men Go where you feel valued, loved and spoilt my lovies

[@jackjack-bw8ks]

I cook, clean,iron, hvac, landscaper, mechanic, plumber, father, clean and fold all for my household. I also grow our food.

[@borngreat-4-life930]

You need an award.

[@thesolvent]

What did I learn today?🤔 That I need a good amount of money to be perceived as romantic in East Africa. Got it. 😂

[@afckajjansi]

facts

[@dilisacio9433]

🤣🤣

[@cspliff]

🤣

[@topeanj]

bro its life everywhere in general...at this point anyway it is what it is

[@browngyampah7536]

Very wise and open minded.

[@tonythompson8549]

Great show💯

[@onthegrind9971]

Shes definitely encouraging SIMP behavior. I. Loving what im hearing from these east african men keep it up brothers

[@anubizzzzz]

the women in arica are not the same as ur women in the west...they are mostly traditional and mostly expect a traditional man

[@onthegrind9971]

@J O most women want a traditional man. The difference here is that they themselves dont want to be traditional.

[@WOKEBEHINDRETURN]

@@anubizzzzzbut it sound like the same asking price..for usa women..us women saying the same shit

[@mwenyienock928]

🤣🤣🤣 I like Brian's composure in this one Ladies need to work to get attention from the Man The Man needs to be prepared to give these Ladies attention. period.

[@emmychannel5563]

That lady finished it up with ' when can I see you? 😂 kudos to the West African men.

[@jamesmathebula2323]

Wow! Joanita is emotionally blasing here For me what I've noticed over the years is men or women from another country or continent they are regarded or rather perceived as so romantic than local ones same goes to different race relationships

[@rbailey3309]

It does not take a lot to be romantic. Kind words and compliments; a walk in the park in the park, flowers, or a thoughtful deed can be just as romantic. A man who doesn't think a woman is worth treating special is not going to find a special woman. If a woman wants to be treated right, she must find a man that treats her the way she wants to be treated. Just because a man is strong doesn't means he should not be treated with tenderness. At the same time, just because a woman is empowered doesn't mean she should not be made to feel special.

[@khem127]

Thank you!!

[@christset]

That dont work with the majority of African women though. their love language is money.

[@rbailey3309]

@@christset Unless you are a majority of African women, your response is prejudicial.

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

So we should adhere to the cultures and ways of the white man.. ... flowers, that's very weird

[@rbailey3309]

​@@mpendakiswahili3053 If someone gave me a sure tip on the stock market, I would not refuse it just because I got it from a white man. If I found a $100 bill on the ground; I would leave it there because there was a yt man's face on it... They do not have a monopoly on romance and they damn sure don't deserve it more than we do. It worked for me! If it works, use it.

[@stephenogbuabia8674]

Rachel is making good sense.

[@robinp.6540]

Oshay, Oshay, Your work and efforts are truly excellent. I was initially put off by the length of this video but found it engaging and most informative. The hostess, guest and you were excellent. I will watch more Kenganda ! Kudos to you, Brother! Looking 👍 Great!

[@dikembeafrika8918]

Evolution, things are changing. It’s 2024. Men you need to step up.

[@KingPorter]

I'm praying for these African sisters though. They sounding like they fully endoctrinated in the feminist bs

[@knix9014]

exactly bro

[@quincydacreator1266]

I heard that over feminist is a problem in east, is it true. I am Nigeria

[@anthoniquesharon1828]

Don't generalize it's not all of us. These are central region women belonging to the "Baganda" tribe so majority tend to be after money they are the gold diggers of today so to find awife go to other parts of the country where the women are traditional and other tribes.

[@teejayangel6638]

Oh shut up! Boring. Can't think , only echo what the stupids in social media echo.

[@a.muchemi4360]

20:16 20:16 20:17 😢

[@kwamekankam-boadu2467]

Yes your woman is your BIG business! She delivers unparalleled returns!! The more you invest, the more HONEY she delivers!!! Her sweetness only multiplies by the exponent of your investment. 💯

[@joanitamaaya]

Preach Kamwe!!!!!😊

[@kurokaizen1889]

Lmao.

[@Bama7530]

Love it bro!😂😂

[@Cahluvca]

Reciprocity is appreciated worldwide

[@jermainegoss705]

She looking fine with that head wrap

[@amrikiaswad4263]

Yes

[@Cosmic_Mage]

Some of the most feminine women on this planet that I've ever met, hail from East Africa.

[@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799]

Stories, is it by big shapeless ynash? Is it brain I guess not much in east Africa

[@mtdspfgh]

​@@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Hes right. West African women are masculine and loud. East African women are very feminine.

[@nightArbitrage]

It was dope hearing from the people in Thales background. Just went and followed Khuhani.

[@OshayDukeJackson]

thanks so much!

[@afrosamtv]

interesting 😊 we are learning from these people

[@Abeisgreat1]

Keep going down this western materialism and transactional relationship and prepare for the same destoryed dating environment as the west. East African women be careful what you wish for.

[@Cahluvca]

Just wait for it....seems inevitable

[@tzunammi]

💯

[@haggaiandagile6232]

Guaranteed two generations it will be different

[@arinagereciano178]

I am an East African man, we take the goood and well groomed girls. And leave the bad apples to others.

[@joanitamaaya]

Lol 😂

[@giftofgodstarnorth6363]

We are monadic people, the boards are colonial made, there is lots of women on the continent, feel free to explore any woman from west, east, central and southern. Don’t feel like you have to be confined to one region in Africa. (We are Africans)

[@perpetuallearna9466]

😂😂

[@chiefpharoah]

thanks for your sister!

[@EAST884]

Same here you hear these so called good lovers from the most populous country in africa that they know how to look after their women etc all lies no love at all just business ATM thing few EA women who go for them only go for them not because of love NO only one thing MONEY believe Me I've see most of those so called love ends up with tears I've seen it and our EA women will be left broken sometimes with kids then they start to look for a man from back home or Europeans If they do love them let them stop giving money,phone contract and all fake stuffs to see if they'll stay around after all if a man knows in order to keep you He must use his wallet then you are a working girl he will be cheating behind your back aswell Yes you should take care of your woman but any woman who cames to me because I can offer or give money financial stuffs that's NO NO because if someone with more money than you shows up you will be dropped immediately I've seen it So slay queen's are NO NO ill avoid them

[@francisatteh7893]

Great topics but i was just laughing almost all through especially when Brian talks Men and brethren; that's what it is , African cultures may accept some certain things like homes chores, cooking etc are different so also you can't love the way some countries loves basically it could be as the result of the economic conditions over there. God bless Nigeria and Africa. Kenganda take these❤❤❤

[@sihlemasondo2898]

East African men keep it up if the ladies go they go nobody will die

[@professorricci938]

It is is a cultural and normal thing in Nigeria to spend on women. It is not that we are showing off. I have seen guys pay their girlfriend school fees. Even the guys may not necessarily end up marrying those ladies but they still spend and care.

[@Naija4K]

Nigerian men are the ones who come with the money…. in the black community. The French speaking African men bring the romance sweet talking… I am not sure what the East African men are known for…

[@aao449]

😂😂

[@CrystalGabriel]

East African men are known to be stingy😂😂😂 They are more financially stable than the West African men, but very toxic. The society in East Africa makes their women respectful, and kind but they never hold accountable to their men. They are so entitled. I think Black American women and East African men should just do a collab to see who can be mean towards the other... All Hell will break loose 😂😂😂

[@orisenabritt]

we fix our countries. thats why these are the areas everyone want to visit. you dont waste money and "romance" on low quality women..reason you dont see eastern africa men roaming africa looking for women and hustle. they go to europe or americas. basically we dont simp. look at congo and nigeria? great places to move in? nope.

[@panafricanist2520]

Great Show.

[@afrykablak9131]

Wow Jonnita is the defination of a spiritual thinker SHE Apply prevention on spitritual unknown curses it a good thought of her

[@cryptoflipdoe7141]

That lady in the black dress is absolutely beautiful!! like ridiculously beautiful

[@borngreat-4-life930]

We are plenty who have crush on her. 😂 😂

[@mbuyimasuwa9081]

​@@borngreat-4-life930 TRUE STORY 😂

[@JesseVealIII]

All these women are talking feminist talking point. Lol. Stand strong my east African brothers! ✊🏼

[@isaiahkenny3544]

I can't wait to go to Africa 4real!

[@adesolaayodeji6066]

Nice discuss....

[@killmewithsmiles]

Whats more disappointing is that these womens' standards of romance is based on western acts. I did not hear anything that is rooted in their culture.

[@truethots3088]

Some Nigerian men may even cheat but they will pamper thier women.. they way you treat your woman is the way society judges you. much respect is giving to men who take very good care of thier women. The man can even go without to make sure his woman is okay. It's not about spending the money only its making your girl feel like a baby girl, flatter her, sweet words etc