Nigerian men loved abroad, taken for granted in Nigeria - S2E18 | The Honest Bunch Podcast

The Honest Bunch (FKA Frankly speaking) is an audio-visual podcast that focuses on discussing real millennial and Gen z issues with no holds barred.
This Episodes features Malibongwe
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[@theauthorityofretail]

My Nigerian man loves me well. He takes care of my soul before anything. My man cares and nurtures my emotions. He made sure that I know that he is home before anything else. All The material is a gift from our ancestors and God. Nigerian men are real men, real husbands who know the value of life, love and family #nigeriamenoveranyman I’m a South African woman 🇿🇦

[@abilovesopuru7639]

Hope u will still be there when he need u most and still keep ur self for him cos the bible said marriage is honourable bed undefiled

[@rasaqkamalopeyemi2507]

That who we are

[@kuukatune]

❤

[@preciousisiguzo2052]

@@abilovesopuru7639 meaning???

[@desmondifada1102]

@ProfitLord Fx 😅😅😅😅 I just tire

[@Onlinebliss]

Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, but a man is loved only when he PROVIDES. This is a deep food for thought and thats the reality. May God help and strengthen us men 🙏🏽

[@olorunfemitayo9909]

It's deep.

[@charlesaladi2885]

@@olorunfemitayo9909 so deep.....

[@wordsbymaribeja1470]

African women and children are NOT loved unconditionally.

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

@@wordsbymaribeja1470 yh which makes Nigerian men finish

[@winnerone1817]

Hmmmmmm

[@shalkurmamdam5034]

“We are on the same team” and yes men mask a lot of emotions. Just abit of appreciation goes along way. Shoutout to men who provide for their families

[@EconomicSavant]

I'm nigerian, love nigerian nigerian women. Very wonderful people. Can't leave without them. Great cook, joy giver, BEAUTIFUL

[@EMP_Hakari]

Have you ever travelled outside of Nigeria ?

[@morolakeiwala8303]

Thank you sir and we love and appreciate your type of men❤

[@morolakeiwala8303]

​@@EMP_Hakari sorry I am asking this. I need to know why you asked him this question?

[@kevinakwarandu7679]

Shout-out to all Nigerian Men out there striving to make ends meet 🙌, God bless you all and special shoutout to SA ❤️ 🇿🇦... We love you 🙏

[@hallidaysokari4668]

I’ve been binging on this podcast every night for days now and this episode made me leave a comment, not because of the talk about how Nigerian men are appreciated abroad, but because of what Nedu said about men being appreciated in general. Thank you so much y’all have no idea what you’ve done.

[@BAMcLuke]

Many Nigerian women are not emotionally intelligent to the Nigerian man struggles.... Rather he is seen as a machine that just needs to keep working

[@buchiprecious5358]

I agree

[@emmanuelbamidele6886]

God bless you

[@chinagoziorji5427]

That most be in Nigeria then because over here in Europe is actually the Nigerian ladies that take care of the men

[@tosin0911]

I owe you a cold bottle of beer for this comment. You are the real Odogwu.

[@tosin0911]

@@chinagoziorji5427 This is largely untrue. But I will not bother arguing with you.

[@demilade1499]

Toun is a constant reminder of why I must have money, you can see a well-trained, classy girl that good money has shown on. I want my children to be like that. Kudos to her parents and toun herself

[@ngozionyeka4841]

She's well composed 🥰

[@deboraholleypet987]

Toun is a decent lady... honestly well spoken and trained manners...

[@b.lessing]

It could also be argued the other way around. Nigerian men treat foreign women differently too, even those who aren't bringing anything to the table financially. Things like cooking, looking after the home & children are left exclusively for women in nigeria but they are known to do it for foreign women with ease. Even Nigerian women who are pulling their weight financially don't often get the same love Nigerian men show foreign women that may not even be working. There are entitled and ungrateful women, but there are good ones too that appreciate their men's efforts.

[@thetruthsayer8347]

Please argue that one by yourself. South African babes sweet die.

[@realchino]

It is a lie, I lived in Johannesburg & Cape Town, it was my same attitude I exhibits to girls in Nigeria but in SA I found how important I am because I was appreciated for doing little things. Nigerian women are just looking for men that will take care of their whole generation but in other countries women will even give you their credit card.

[@rinaemukumela3038]

@@realchino i am south african women and that not true ,you only appriciated for money nothing else.

[@williamsadewuyi8234]

Well said, but note that, there is no Nigerian man that would treat a foreign woman differently if she doesn't have anything of value to offer. Secondly, most Nigerian men go through a lot in order to provide yet, they're underappreciated by Nigerian woman and most Nigerian men who are domesticated are mostly taken for granted by Nigerian women who feel so entitled.

[@sweetlemonade6925]

@@williamsadewuyi8234 I do not agree with your first point, that there is no Nigerian man that will treat a foreign woman differently if she doesn't have anything to offer. I've watched 90 day fiance and have seen Nigerian men trying to marry obese old White american ladies (which no american man would ever look at as a potential partner) even though these ladies are the most unclassy, disrespectful, narcissistic, ignorant and manipulative beings. The women will have absolutely no respect for the man and will be cursing him and controlling everything he does. Yet the Nigerian man will still pursue her and take all the insults and disrespect. One white woman was even beating her Nigerian fiance and destroying his car, another American white lady was caught beating the hell out of her Nigerian boyfriend in the elevator (he did not even fight back, i bet if she was Nigerian he would not be as reserved) and later on she killed him. Then another white woman from Australia set her Nigerian husband house on fire where he died! I've never heard a case where a Nigerian woman killed her husband, everytime I hear a Nigerian man dies its always in the hands of a foreigner (woman). Yet Nigerian men will still praise these ladies and call Nigerian ladies "difficult" "disrespectful" "not good wives" etc. I bet if those white women who are beating their Nigerian husbands were Nigerian, the men would've reacted differently and this podcast was proof, because the men were downing the Nigerian ladies for wanting men with money and being too "demanding", while praising the south african lady who literally at the start said she only likes Nigerian men because they give her 500k for her hair! Basicly if a south african girl demands 500k for her hair its no problem, but if a Nigerian girl demands the same she becomes "too demanding". See how Nigerian men treat foreign women differently and are more tolerant towards their needs? How is that mentality of that south african woman any diffrent from Lagos oloshos?

[@damilolatogun3417]

To all my amazing Naija men, we love and appreciate you. In general, Nigerian men stand out in the world. Let’s not forget it’s also nigerian women who raised these wonderful people. Remember to appreciate and nurture one another. The grass is greener on the other side BECAUSE someone is watering it.I’m married to an amazing Naija man and I won’t trade him for anything in the world. Thanks guys 🤗

[@avalonstudio2753]

as a Nigerian man, thanks to every Nigerian mothers, oo, i swear their commitment to raising good children, hardworking, children, pushing us to the limit are the reason why we are succeeding. we appreciate our mothers

[@tam_tam3496]

NAOMI said it all. Nigerian men are naturally givers and nice to foreigners coz we don't know them very well but NIGERIAN women know them for who they are that's why

[@ChiomaOlaraonye]

And who are they 💀

[@abayomiadio6485]

Nigeria women believe in extortion ... they believe extortion is LOVE

[@shamanephiri833]

said it well!

[@magkat7922]

True. They're too familiar with each other

[@emmanuelchinonso3574]

I wish this contents comes everyday because I literally watch the previous contents almost everyday. I love this podcast and the presenters. Much love ❤️ from Togo representing Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@arsydigital]

Honestly Toun cole delivers the best angle

[@trayway9067]

If u Know Cyan Boujee she si an example of type of women Nigerian men like. we know it usually be club girls who be dating Niaja men, the slay queens who are too dependent.

[@rashidahjaafaru890]

As always this was an amazing episode, you guys never fail to deliver. Too all good NIGERIAN men you are much appreciated.

[@mainam.d753]

This arguably one the best episode Malibongwe was such a vibe, the world is not ready when Africans start working with each other.

[@mazinojarikre82]

This has become one of my best podcast from Nigeria. Am based in Boston, MA and this particular episode is interesting to me

[@Iphie2019]

I used to live in boston, MA. I am now in Rockville, MD. It’s also my best podcast at the moment.

[@mazinojarikre82]

@@Iphie2019 only thing now is I have to wait every Monday 🤣

[@Iphie2019]

@@mazinojarikre82 so true 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@femijulorandfamily]

This is one of the best podcast on KZbin. I actually enjoy the divers opinions. Nedu and Husband material, you are making us proud.

[@rachelamarachiuzor7046]

Nigerian women shaped a Nigerian man . Facts

[@hutup9092]

thє culturє fαvσrѕ nígєríαnѕ mєn αвrσαd, вut unfαvσrαвlє fσr nígєríαn wσmєn αвrσαd

[@Its_superdave09]

Awww! One of my best episodes Super enlightening Shoutout to Malibongwe, hitting the nail on the head

[@olashilesamson1349]

Nice work guys..... well done i love you all💜🥰💖💜🥰💖 i love our guest for this show 🥰💖 she is so lovely and frankly

[@ikeikechika1390]

Thank you Nedu for the great speech that Naomi was even touched. Best Podcast I have seen

[@dornastudio1]

If I tell you guys I watched this podcast thrice already am not capping. This is my favorite among all others. Shout out to all my favs on seat. For the first time, I felt no hate or ill feeling about Naomi (our Women Leader) smiles!, not that I don't like her, just her opinions most times. I understand man have to provide, support their women and love without sharing feelings which is cheating, but her emphases whenever a conflicting topic is about men she stresses too much on what he is to offer physically, which is gifts, money and so on, leaving out the emotional effects and her expectancy from a man on how best to treat a woman. That's my isssshh with her.A man by default who really likes you would make you happy by all means. if he is really into you the love, care, support and spoiling will come effortlessly without even the need to ask. But I saw something different today and not the regular controversial side. She is a sweet soul who unfortunately might have been in shitty relationships hence her not so pleasant side or opinions. Big thanks to Malibongwe, she's got an amazing personality. This is the best podcast Africa has ever seen. Whoever brought about the idea, you have no idea how much this show means to us. Thanks God bless.

[@ChiomaOlaraonye]

Because they are hyping you and villainising us

[@chinonsoclement4187]

Wow so happy thanks so much guyz I just wish each episode comes everyday because I just use to wait on it every week because am know am gonna learn new thing

[@iamthomasogun]

Cool lools ..you guys have one of the best talkshow out there....really interactive!

[@olatunjiemmanuel542]

I love Toun😌😌😌❤❤.. So much sense and good opinion she brings

[@valentineogudo4336]

Today I’ll pause famzing Deitycole and specially appreciate Husband Material. His thoughts almost always 100% align with mine. Well said. God bless you bros. And yes, Deitycole is correct. 🙌🏽

[@chukwumauzo9887]

Funny, Educating and inspiring podcast! NICE ONE TEAM FSP.

[@miracleukachukwu283]

Interesting discussion. I think Mali contradicted herself by adding she left the Igbo guy because he was broke, yet she claimed SA girls do not care about how much [money] a man has to offer in relationship. Impactful podcast

[@preciousisiguzo2052]

no, she left him because of how he treated her, what kind of man shout at a woman on a date and why did he agree to the date if he knew he did not have the money please don't try to judge her, If you want to know SA women do a research about them they are not money motivated they love their man as poor as they are we believe in starting a life together while we are vulnerable, we grow together we don't date according to the status of the family or the guy we are dating at that time . We don't want your money we want LOVE other things will follow, That Igbo guy was wrong he should have not asked her for a date .That Igbo guy did not have good intentions from the on set

[@miracleukachukwu283]

@@preciousisiguzo2052 I never applaud the Igbo guy nor did I blame her for leaving him. Just said mentioning that broke part is contradicting. It's okay if SA ladies are what you described, but I must tell you that every country have people like that and also people that love you for your money. It just depend on the category you meet. Thank you 🤓

[@jaanspark5263]

To all the men providing for their families and love ones.God bless you all.Heaven bless your pocket.

[@BAMcLuke]

The realness brings me here everytime .... Love you guys

[@joeliyanuoluwa7316]

This podcast has to be one of the best things on KZbin. Toun fan all the way!!!!!!

[@bascondavid]

Nice episode.... FS is the best podcast. Thanks to our special guest who kept it real 💯

[@stanleyodoemenem8495]

As a Nigerian living abroad, we love my abroad women better cause we are appreciated more than women back home. When a woman motivates a man with her sweet love, he suppose to respond with an act of service 🙏🏾

[@ujowundungozi8780]

Really enjoyed this episode 😂Shoutout to all SA🇿🇦 I really love your language ❤My Naomi didn’t talk much ooo

[@TheSidelineSpectator]

I love this podcast honestly. Wow

[@palesakumalo524]

Ohh my why am I finding this channel now only?? Absolutely loved this ❤

[@arastooajax1]

Love this! Big one from Liberia

[@swee2003]

As a half Nigerian and half Kenyan girl, people like me might be able to give an unbiased view on these issues 😂😂, because Kenyan women too are obsessed with Nigerian men. Plus I think it’s not good for Nigerians, both women and men to be negative towards each other. We should do better. It becoming far too mainstream.

[@bamideletimileyinjoel7735]

Lol how can I follow u maybe on IG or Snapchat

[@Africanvoicez]

Agreed

[@tyaler9805]

I agree, I’m sick and tired of Nigerian women being bashed.

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@tyaler9805 are Nigerian women bashed? All I hear bout is us naija men being demons

[@tyaler9805]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 Cause a lot of y’all are by the way y’all treat women!

[@ucheukponu877]

Very interesting show. Many things to learn and remind ourselves about. Shout out to all Naija kings working hard to be the best they could be; shout out to the Naija queen mothers who raised them; shout out to the queens showing them love, respect and support. God bless us all.

[@preciousokechukwu84]

On this note...let me call my Dad and appreciate him😩❤️.Thanks for this podcast..

[@kelvindeinfanagberi1645]

Big time follower from the UK, you guy hit the mail on the head this time. My wife of 7years started telling me she appreciates me atleast once a week in the last 3years and that changed everything. This really motivates me to do more…

[@hakeemlawal6271]

Truly the best Podcast in Nigeria/Africa. You guys make my Mondays more joyful.

[@oyenugaadetola9840]

I love this episode. Great work guys

[@ucukaoma4551]

You all are REALLY good 👏🏽👏🏽 You are way too young and yet advanced to know all these life lessons... I enjoy watching your shows..... here in Austin, Texas. I forward your videos awhile a lot..

[@dayobakare8113]

Best podcast in Nigeria 😂😂❤️❤️

[@theamaefules7477]

May God bless our Nigerian men that are providers ❤️❤️❤️

[@okecultures7389]

Woman leader you will disown us today and own us the next. One of the best of episodes. Shout out to everyone that made this happen. Love ✌🏾

[@chinonyeezeokenwa6238]

Thank you guys so much for this episode, I really learnt a lot

[@christusigboekwe9545]

For a long time I thought I wasn't so interested in Nigeria shows or podcasts simply cos I felt other foreign ones were more interactive. But in all honesty, I think I connect more with this particular FRANKLY SPEAKING podcast than I have ever been with any other podcast/show. It even feels like I'm a part of the show. #INTERESTING.

[@christusigboekwe9545]

Men AWOOOOO

[@josephemeruwa7906]

Me too

[@chrixmusic8394]

Omo South Africa language sweet ooo😂😂😂… shayi

[@iykejnr6296]

Nah I prefer that Nigerian accent

[@akinloluolalekan7547]

If you go there too then sweet oooh

[@emmanuelbamidele6886]

The episode was funny to watch, I don laugh tire.... again nedu nah low-key ashewo😂😂

[@EghosaStanley-hx9ix]

My love for this guy called nedu is something I can't explain.....so fun to watch....

[@femmefatale3055]

This whole podcast is a joke😂 imagine praising her for saying Nigerian men are good because they give her money when she wants but you’re putting Nigerian women down for even thinking about asking for money.

[@ChiomaOlaraonye]

THANK YOUUUUU VERY MUCH!!! Can you literally imagine saying we are the reason we lie 🙎🏾‍♀️

[@femmefatale3055]

@@ChiomaOlaraonye they’re all deceiving themselves. At the end of the day Nigerian girls are top tier. This conversation is razz abeg. Who no like better tin? But if aNaij girl wants good for herself na problem 😂 ok nau

[@Motswako]

Exactly and most South African women date and marry South African men. The propaganda is just to bring down Nigerian women and South African men by certain Nigerian men and South African women. I am a South African woman and no one in my circles is dating foreign men.

[@tyronelorenzovalentio3414]

@@femmefatale3055 ur fraudsters Coming to abroad instead of solving ur issues in Nigeria

[@femmefatale3055]

@@tyronelorenzovalentio3414 meanwhile, there are many notable and influential Nigerians despite the bad apples. Can't say the same for the world rape AND HIV capital aka South Africa - your most notable citizen is Elon Musk a white man (descendant of your slave master) and he doesn't even claim you people.🤭

[@brightosas4471]

I really enjoyed this episode Naomi was shot of words and just have to admit that Nigerian men are trying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

Frankly Speaking this is a great subject. So had to subscribe immediately.

[@martinsobidi2603]

This is one of the best edition I have watched so far 😁😁😀 very interesting edition...

[@ogumarvelous8619]

Husband material and Nedu remain my GOAT on this podcast. The always nail it when it comes to conversation. Diety cole still be correct babe shaa....big shout out to big Nai my Port Harcourt sister ✌️

[@arsydigital]

This episode is quite hot because... I'm loving every perspective but Toun Cole has stolen my heart ❤

[@chynadutch1893]

Such a fascinating podcast!! Watching from the Netherlands 🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱🇳🇱

[@olujideoludiran8236]

Wow so interesting to watch. It is good to see d sweet side of naiomi lol. Nedu tanx for kind words really touching, Nigeria men re going through alot, but we jes have to man up like we use to and keep pushing.

[@moeshaj.6637]

I love Malibongwe’s accent 😍😍

[@tosin0911]

Please consider making Mali a permanent feature on this show.

[@didacticdriv3673]

Toun always glad to see u as usual!

[@marku.ajohnson1657]

Thanks ☺️ heartwarming 🎉❤

[@azfit_ng]

definitely. I'm a Nigerian and my SA girl love me with everything.

[@heyitsprincess1]

Nigerian women are clearly the standard. The SA woman said Nigerian women like money too much but then turned around and said that’s what she likes in Nigerian men is that they like to spend 😂😂😂

[@eldaahsamson7527]

😂😂😂😂 I know right

[@ChiomaOlaraonye]

She’s a pick me

[@hutup9092]

knσw thє díffєrєncє. 100 dσllαrѕ ѕpєmt σn σthєr αfrícαn wσmєn íѕ wєll αpprєcíαtєd, cσmpαrєd tσ ѕαmє 100 dσllαrѕ ѕpєnt σn nígєríαn wσmєn

[@adeyemiracheal4677]

This is my first time seeing this show,and swears this is one of the best shows ever. Thanks to you guys for the lessons❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@martinsobidi2603]

This is one of the best episode I have watched so far 😁😁😀 very interesting episode...

[@victoronyekonwea2910]

I legit enjoyed this episode, been smiling all through!!!

[@benardsundaytv5469]

Nigeria women is the best please other Africa are after your money 💰 go and verify

[@winnerone1817]

That's not true boss. Our women....hhhmmmm

[@chukwumauzo9887]

This Frankly speaking podcast seem like SEASON MOVIE. And i enjoy it.🎉

[@NwoduTochi]

Nedu that your part I love it “A woman cannot give me money” #word👊🏼👍

[@Adeyemiadeshinaemmanuel]

The way nedu switches needs to be studied😂🤌🏾, like he has Alter Egos

[@chinazomobutte9140]

A Relationship - "it is not a competition" as Nedu rightly said. Some of our Nigerian women don't yet understand that fact..."we are a team", especially by virtue of what we share and that's the truth. Love and relationships are not exactly difficult, humans are.

[@urshbae5054]

Dis episode gave me joy,tears and goosebumps

[@jerrytilleryjr9231]

I love this episode🥰. The end part from Nedu is very important to work with

[@olanikegrace3432]

This is the best episode so far, enjoyed every bit of it Shoutout to Nigerian men we love and appreciate y’all ☺️

[@rasaqkamalopeyemi2507]

We love you too

[@akwarauchekenzo7093]

It's actually the representative of we Nigeria men, we don't only take care of our women but we extend it to her family's and we are recognised as the best in the world 🇳🇬

[@abrahamjunior2672]

I lur you guys all✌️😊 Keep pushing d good work 💪

[@onyebuchi4mum]

This is an interesting episode and funny too. Seeing that I grew up in SA. I will keep my mouth shut to this topic

[@edotyra2812]

Toun’s outfit😍😍

[@staj]

Nedu’s speech on getting women to be more caring was so Great that even Naomi felt it and piped down! Wow ! Great show as ever!

[@oyekanmizestrasheed8054]

Thank you guys.. na like say na me u dey talk to.. God bless

[@goldfred2948]

You guys are the best. Thank you

[@ritachepkemoi5675]

Thank you Nigeria queens for shaping our men😂😂😍😍

[@ChiomaOlaraonye]

🙄 rest

[@hutup9092]

σur mσthєr gєnєrαtíσn αrє díffєrєnt, u dídn't ѕhαpє αnчσnє. whєn ghαnα full nígєríα, σur dαd ѕtíll mαrrч 9jα gírlѕ вєcαuѕє thє wσmєn dєn whєrє rєαѕσnαвlє. íf ghαnα ѕhσuld flσσd nσw, єvєrчσnє wíll mαrrч fσrєígnєrѕ.

[@funnyfun7040]

😂😂 they will not like this "thank you"

[@immaculate2197]

😂😂 your men nor be small thing

[@biancaihua5841]

I love this Mali girl. Her accent is beautiful 💕💕💕💕.

[@9inty9ine15]

This is a very sweet conversation and warming to me 😊

[@dayobakare8113]

Lmao toun always speaking sense 😍

[@codybooi9195]

Love from Southy 😘 .. we love our Nigerian man (iNdoda) 😜🤌🏽 .. really enjoyed this episode 🤞🏽

[@okechukwuemenike8975]

Well love you too❤

[@enweanichiagozie4791]

@@okechukwuemenike8975 comrade u dey try shoot your shot. I see you 😂

[@rinaemukumela3038]

jollifina are about money ,south africa women are embarrassing us .all she talks about is money ,why not make your own .

[@palesamogorosi8939]

bathong wena

[@kingsleypeters1081]

Make kuku run a Whatsap group nah. E go sweet

[@heritagemedia5551]

Good Job Franklin Speaking Team

[@trapboydre1700]

this is by far the best episode so far loved it vulnerable and funny ash laughed so hard through out the whole show my best podcast fo sho

[@RealUgochukwu_Obioha]

And thank you Malibongwe for appreciating Nigerian men Better we love you

[@phantomreach]

Number one reason Nigerian men are loved outside Nigeria is because we simp😒

[@paulosa6710]

Thank you bro for saying this. We are the biggest simps in the world!!!

[@TimileyinSegun-zy4lm]

God bless u my broda

[@childrentoys4537]

I humbly disagree.

[@ogbodoprince1678]

Insightful!!!

[@kelechiasogwa5911]

Y'all are giving me Joy

[@LindaM6275]

Very profound and intellectual conversation, very eye opening 🇿🇦

[@afolabikorede5133]

Please you people should bring in vector that guy is intelligent.. 🙏

[@young_talkative]

Nedu is always on point… bless you bosss❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dudusandra7658]

I really enjoyed today podcast ❤

[@EmIzzy95]

She said it all in the first 10mins as Toun also agreed 😂. Look! our girls home and abroad want to test your financial capabilities first and always play ‘too’ hard to get, whilst abroad if they like you they like you, also they are not entitled, they want to split bills and they don’t ask for much, that’s why when we do for them what we do for our Nigerian girls it’s like we are spoiling them, and of course we are very romantic, and that’s because our women make us go hard or go home when it comes to approaching a lady. Well base point, our Nigerian girls are queens and have accepted the higher standard, majority are not easy, especially if you are in the same class, or the girl is doing financially well, and we love them, abroad they are easy going and understanding and we love them too 😂, but most of our men would still run back home after playing. Some will stay! You need to revisit this topic with a man based abroad. They will gist you better