Marriage; A Poverty Alleviation Scheme ? FT Don Jazzy | S3 EPS1

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[@rawlingsokafor8274]

Everyone saying they love jazz's honesty because he's famous and rich, if one unknown person share same opinion they will say the person is useless

[@bencoinstitute]

Exactly bro

[@giftsamuel6108]

No mind hypocritical Nigerians

[@my3mids386]

DonJ..God bless you. I love u so much

[@chikeziekezinwaoha1970]

💯

[@emmanuelemmanuel268]

Correct person

[@ibeanujoseph1428]

LOVE first before any other thing What happens if that money isn’t there anymore? What will hold both parties together? Cos tomorrow even with all the money(status or whatever)you may look at that person with so much disgust and not find any other reason to be in the relationship or marriage,that’s why so many relationships are going south and once hate enters,GAME OVER… Love may not be everything but Love brings understanding,tolerance,patience,compassion,consideration,selflessness,forgiveness,willingness to stay You just genuinely love this person for who that person is and not what he/she can do for you. When both party genuinely love each other It would definitely last However as a man have money ooo Even if na the least

[@NobleJay77]

exactly

[@Tony_Ray010]

U no lie

[@Emma-cy9lp]

The fact is that nobody will "love" you just for who you are for a long time and in a CLOSE relationship or under the same roof if you cannot do 'anything' for them. Maybe we are getting this LOVE title all wrong

[@happiness_bonheur]

Love vanishes too

[@cmichael2967]

Anyone who believes that LOVE is unconditional is grossly delusional.

[@adongo8226]

Watching from Kenya. I just want to say if we look at the history of marriage and the reasons why pple marry ,love has never been a number one motivation. Security, survival and many other social-economic factors are the main things.

[@Ziccoprime]

True words

[@Oluwatimilehinfgt]

You also didn't cite that That's why people keep up with rubbish and abuse and the rest because the reason they married is still secured.....and really how is that life... that's just selfish in my books, once what you want is affected the person diminishes in your eyes. Real reasons for marriage God's purpose and will on earth be established and companionship.

[@ekeneokorocha3236]

Marriage was never for love, love is an abstraction, it's lust and desire to procreate, Marriage is for money/security and has always been.

[@ndichiecosmas]

I don't double date and it's not me deceiving myself. It's just what I want and the energy I also want from my partner. I feel unclean having multiple partners

[@jessedavidson98]

You sabi book guy

[@swiitdoll]

Very rare of an African man.

[@ndichiecosmas]

@@swiitdoll Well I don't think it's African problem though. I feel its all about contentment. We need to develop the spirit of being contented and grateful for what we have ✌️

[@amourelove475]

I’m single 😢

[@ndichiecosmas]

@@amourelove475 It's not about being single. It's staying committed to the relationship when you find one. Am single and not searching or mingling. Relationship is not something you should rush, being single is not a crime too. You take your time and get someone who share same energy and ideology with you. Believe me good guys dey

[@jerrynweke]

Hahahah nedu dey always know the right story for any gist abeg avoid friends way dey work for radio 😂😂😂😂

[@ayoguonyekachi9338]

Nedu should learn how not to interrupt someone when they speak.

[@glowriyah4827]

My thoughts too 😢

[@idokopauline9127]

Plz Nedu be advised.

[@francisnwaobi]

Facts

[@josephfofana2996]

He talks too damn fucking much.

[@ayomidebasit8041]

Exactly!

[@mhizbecca1030]

Nedu and lie na 5&6 this guy dey compose die 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣fear short men

[@user-pi5eq3de2q]

Naomi is speaking from personal experience. She is dating or have dated a broke guy before. The pain and emotions in her voice says it all.

[@mikechiks983]

Great discussion as usual. Edu, limit your interruptions when someone else is speaking.

[@IFEOLUWA-IJEOMA]

2:46 i love listening to Husband material. He is so so intelligent and speaks so intelligently

[@starone5458]

Those that pray together stay together. A good woman is for a good man. A good man is for a good woman. May God guide us all

[@finallyaugok1885]

I enjoyed this episode alot but i was saddened even as i watched. It made me realise the opinion we have of marriage is based on what we have seen, experienced or witnessed. All the more reason we need to see more good , godly marriages out there (because indeed they are there but bad news travels faster and wider). I can watch this and feel i truly can not experience marriage in the sense of what it was designed to be my the designer. Its a no brainer to say you cant have reasons or incentives to want to marry a person, those things are important yeah but i think rather the question to ask is why one wants to get married? If you do not not knw the purpose of something as defined by the inventor, abuse of that thing is inevitable. Dont be fooled o, there are good, loving, faithful, Godly and very happy marriages out there without any polutions of the age we live in. They are there because It is possible. I dont mean to sound religious but God created marriage; Marriage shld then be run by the inventor's manual on marriage (scripture) not by Culture.

[@Princessofpeace19]

Very true 👍

[@al.sevenviith]

“Can I iron your face-mask?” @husbandmaterial be too much 😂😂😂😂

[@ukemichael7099]

Beautiful storyline, mind blowing humility @Donjazzy

[@kobbyygp8292]

I'm Ghanaian 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 and I love this show I swear everything. The best show 💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@iam_martnz]

I love this show. Looking forward to more episodes ❤️🎉

[@abuchicharles2096]

A very nice one, shout out to Don jazzy he makes me feel humble, a very humble man he is 🙌

[@DeraConsumables]

This episode is amazing with Don jazzy na super blessing. If both genders can take what they dish out the relationship pool will run smoothly. One ❤ guys

[@patrickv.8492]

Interesting discussion. The guy on the far left with the green cap, pls let others speak. Plus off record discussions are off records.Bringing to the public what u discussed backstage is unprofessional and libellous. I think Don Jazzy handled the discussion excellently. The ladies had a lot they couldn’t say , due to Mr Green cap 😳

[@medialinktv5983]

From my little experience in life about relationship, I can confidently say its a 100% gamble no matter how careful u are at it.. but there are things u must do to help u scale through when everything go south. 1. Try to find happiness outside a relationship. 2. Try to avoid damaged people, no matter how much pity u feel for them. 3.try to make more money 💷 LOVE is not the same fo4 everybody, as u grow older ur love language or understanding keeps changing.

[@kanzeibanye]

Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.

[@kanzeibanye]

Its much deeper than that! You attract what you are. Saying that be careful of damaged people… you are damaged as well. Your upbringing has a huge factor as well when jt comes to choosing a partner. This relationship thing is deep, and sorry to say this video was informative but surface level. If you as a person dont know what u want out of a relationship or ur needs its a problem in relationship. You will never be satisfied. There are so many other aspects but this is just a few.

[@staggerudoaka3231]

Don is a blessing to 9ja, Africa,& the world at large, is just exciting seeing him all day 🍷

[@greggotonoh]

Quite interestingly Don Jazzy personality is super awesome. It's just a live and let live .. Well I thought I only loved Toun's Voice but she seems to be sitting strong in my heart.. ❤️❤️

[@ogumarvelous8619]

The biggest highlight of this season is that intro of De Don,HM sabi this hype thing walahi 🥂

[@chinonsoclement4187]

I thought don jazzy is just humble but man is also very very truthful I wish everyone is dis life will be dis truthful then all will be well Thanks guyz for been back with dis new episode so so happy dat I will be listening and seeing u guyz more often again

[@giftyitama5787]

Love is not a spirit that possess you It is a conscious decision to have affection and dedicate yourself to another human

[@NOTHING-sf4rp]

I love this

[@oyato1]

Not really .. it’s simply well manners , excellent knowledge to be , selfless seeing another as greater than u, kind compassionate to the needs of others , respectful with boundaries understanding & being of great assistance to others in their need. Avoiding all quarrels n living in peace atall times .That’s love ! It’s not romantic .. it agape . Once u got that for the common man , family n friends trust me ur relationship or marriage wud b superb cos the foundation of wat makes a great person is already solidly set in stone. A selfish arrogant person is never capable of any good qualities of ppl interaction .. they quarrelsome as hell don’t ever see they maltreat of others cos they always in their own head all about themselves . Dint deceive urself such ppl can’t ever have others best interest st heart not even u so run

[@Emma-cy9lp]

So apt

[@chisomo8088]

@@oyato1 what you just described is not love

[@babalolaoluwaseun8220]

Omo that girl on pink, deh hustle jazzy 😂🤣😂😂

[@Elsol1910]

A great show with large portion of sincerity dished out. That said @Edu interrupts the other contributors, its a talk show let other speak frankly!

[@MKO_DRIGINAL]

I missed you guys thank God you guys are back with full vibes ❤

[@technopreneurialminds]

“DJ Cuppy brother wey no well” is derogatory coming out from someone like Nedu.

[@oluwatobioluwanifemi2904]

I cringed hearing that statement

[@mrmike1582]

love is the willingness to like and care about someone to a great extent. it involves making sacrifices and is based on decision more than feelings.

[@TobbyPeluola]

What is amazing is amazing, My guys here, the amazing quartet, You guys are sound and awesome... Cheers guyz....

[@blessingchikwem6530]

This episode is educating,the whole advice here be ur true sef, and the right person will definitely find you and everything you want will definitely start coming

[@ogoro3066]

I never watch finish, but so far what I can see from the conversation so far is you have to be comfortable, confident and content in who you are and where you are in life before adding someone else to your life. Overall people do marry for many different reasons and not just for love.

[@ifeanyinonyelu904]

Lovely to see this again

[@chijiokenwaigwe2348]

What a way to kick start 2023. I feel we all see marriage differently

[@benjaminayodele7524]

Don Jazzy's level of honest is out of this world, he's just frank and believes he owes nobody explaination for his kind of person, being truthful and opening up for who he's is just something very uncommon, I mean VERY VERY UNCOMMON, lot of us are just hypocrites

[@ogienenifranklin6014]

Am I really here to learn, bcuz I definitely believe in Love and be a one woman man. I admonish u guys not to dirt pple who does it and are fighting to do it. Nobody is perfect but we should try to be a better version

[@konboyeevelyn73]

Jazzy is making a very valid point....if you can go out and like another person and end up doing one on two with that person ..what makes you feel your partner cannot fall into same ditch

[@afolabifilani8308]

Lovely episode, thumbs up to all the in house crew and big ups to the baba himself, Don Jazzy.

[@Ayo.Oluwaa]

Neduuuu !!!! 😂 he always has gist !😩 please be keeping small secret!

[@patrickchinedu1806]

Nedu try not to interrupt your fellow host and secondly you don’t have to speak for us men, nedu speak for your self do not generalize it.. their are good men out there, when I mean good men real good men.. as for jazzy I no just know watin to tell you.. to self discipline.. you said all your friends cheat that does not mean all men cheat.. keep deceiving yourself.. no self control.. because it’s jazzy now people will be saying it’s honesty for me! Make una continue to dey advocate for rubbish.

[@_1hilda]

Like I calmed down to listen to this conversation Everyone has their right to do what they want but you people should stop generalizing Cheating it’s not normal to cheat. Marriage is a beautiful thing Love to is amazing. Not all men cheat and it’s abnormal to even cheat . Some marriages are really working out with 2 faithful Partners. Do what works for you. The mind is a magnet you attract what you think. As a man thinketh in his heart so he is !

[@Onlinebliss]

Laugh wan kee me when Nedu shouted “Ahh noo, noo“ (44:45) and Jazzy tell am “you don remember some bad thing wey u do abi? Jazzy is the realest Don🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kadiriomobolanle9759]

This was fun to watch no liesssss Thumbs up guys

[@lilliankunu3658]

Great job, guys 👌🏽👏🏽 I love the openness and the matter of factly manner with which you handled it. I wish couples could be truthful with themselves from the onset and tell each other what they want to see if they can be together or not, there won't be much heartbreak and breakups like we've seen lately. Yes, Don Jazzy probably hasn't met the one who would tick all his boxes and make him want to be faithful. Or, he has met her but was probably disappointed at how things ended between them? Anyway, I wish he'd someday feel that butterfly 🦋 someday, and the person would be deserving of him. I would like to use this momentum and say a big thanks to him for making the Nigerian music industry what it is today. I am always thrilled as a Nigerian in the diaspora whenever our music is played on radio stations, in shopping malls, nightclubs, and parties. And now, people are also sampling Nigerian delicacies and are curious about Nigeria. Keep up the good work, and continue to be blessed 🙏🏽

[@saintdanielz5019]

Its Don Jazzy's honesty for me. Respect boss🙌

[@ednahokposin3144]

Make una try dey allow, una guest talk. No carry all the talk, talk.

[@victorshonubi8542]

Love is never enough, the earlier people emancipate themselves the better

[@teecy5469]

Love is definitely enough sir/ma What we need to understand is what love means.

[@temmy8529]

how about accompanying the love you have for someone with contentment!this goes both way!

[@Iphie2019]

@@teecy5469 I totally agree with you. Many people don’t even know what love truly is.

[@masculinityorientation790]

@@teecy5469 gbam

[@bosemechrisryan9736]

I wonder when people will start to accept the fact love is never enough. That's why many people will keep getting hurt because they think love is the ultimate.

[@orerowaye8643]

My favorite bunch ❤ Toun Cole looks good as ever 😍

[@prichabenny]

for the first time ever!!!! i totaly agree with big nay 😅😂she entered 2023 and decided to be love and light happy new year😄😄😄😄!!!

[@naomihamade4147]

Toun is always saying exactly what I’m thinking tbh 😂😂 love eettt love herrr ❤❤

[@gloryokon43]

It`s only in Africa that love doesn`t exist due to poverty!!!

[@samuelrebirth]

You mean the scam your gender called love?

[@judeocheme4772]

I enjoyed every bit. Don BABA, Husband Material and Toun made it great for me

[@orjionyinye5988]

I have Really Learnt Alot From All Episodes Starting from season 1, Weldon My People, One Love

[@gabrielakinbode770]

Faithfulness has nothing to do with money. Know this and Know peace. Standing by a man with no money does not earn you his faithfulness. If you are worth his faithfulness, no matter how promiscuous he is, rich or poor, he will give it.

[@siride3269]

Love for me is "RESPONSIBILITY" to an individual, not the chemical reactions of hormones in the body.

[@habibafahd1163]

It makes sense

[@shola04]

Love is not responsibility. Responsibility is responsibility, nothing more

[@BiggieMontero-kv7vv]

I really love the show Nedu and husband material keep it up and more hight to the program ❤❤🎉🎉

[@bettysamuel6214]

I’m a big fan….nice job guys🙌🙌🙌 I miss u guys…. Welcome back 👏 Shoutout to Don baba God bless you

[@paschalogochuks2954]

If you start getting attracted to every fine girl you see, it will never end. I just think we should be more truthful.

[@ruthnmegbu860]

I totally agree with you.

[@ConfidenceOi]

Truthful is not the word Brother, it is faithful.. I can be a truthful cheat

[@omidioraayomikun1056]

Awe, make everyone just do whatever makes them happy jare.... There is no one way to tell this story of life, choose your path and walk it.

[@kelvinokad7002]

I love you guys so much because you project what is really going on in the society (I love the Topic) Much love to Don Baba J respect Boss, Mr Nedu and H.M you guys always rock my world 💞💯

[@strongholdltd6387]

Love is Kindness & Loyalty to the person you with - Because when money & looks fade away, it will take other things to keep y'all together....

[@itiboribocomedy]

These reasons people marry for now is why marriages don't last. When you really love someone you don't know the reason, you just love them.

[@ha_diza]

The only thing i have learnt dz today is in dz life have money man or woman have money oh.....

[@nmaunusual]

I no even know say, una don drop video oooo 🤷 I guess I couldn't tell from d change of name I just saw it on Instablog and rushed here surprised. Welcome back d honest bunch 👏👏♥️🥰

[@adeyemitemitayo153]

this might just be the funniest episode of this season..i wan laugh tire😂😂😂😂..don jazzy no dey feel nay atall..🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Chimezieduru]

Don should know women will excuse his cheating because na him get the knife, yam and goat, because don will not date any woman that will cheat while they are in a relationship.

[@duchesshil8474]

All am hearing is love is transactional We all want something in return.

[@ogbolugreguche990]

Awesome honesty from the crew. But my opinion is that people still get married out of love for each other. It might be a few %, but it sure exists. Am unapologetically part of that %. Nice show from you guys

[@speaker_vibes]

happy my favorite show is back 🔥🔥🔥🚀🏁

[@seamisola]

It’s the way Don jazzy was looking at Naomi for me like “Wetin this one dey talk”😂😂

[@jidejamiulawal5877]

I thougt I was the only one that saw it

[@akanbiolufemi4742]

Lol..exactly..'who sabi this one..abeg shift, because I humble come una show'. Even me I fit leave the show with wetin dat babe dey always yarn. Nonsense, thinking she was being honest..no rich person would her attractive if she keep showing she in it for the money. It is a turn off..money wey no easy to get.

[@CE-rf8mt]

I believe this conversation went this way as none of these people knew the definition of the term love but have rather substituted it with a different preconceived notion! It is true that people want different things and are free to choose what they want. But at the same time we should not disguise our desire for a better life for “love” The moment you say you can never marry someone below your class, that’s the moment the deciding factor for you becomes class. It forms the foundation for whatever feeling you eventually develop and term it “love”. Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”. Attraction is quite different! You can be attracted to people who are rich, or handsome or for different reasons. You may believe yourself to not be attracted to people for similar/opposite reasons. Do you want to marry someone you are not attracted to? Mostly a NO for most people. Is it possible to eventually fall in love with someone you were not initially attracted to? Possibly Yes! Why because love seeps in beyond understanding. Love may mean different things to different people but there’s a common denominator - it does not discriminate! And until we are able to define and accept what that means, this podcast has been a waste of time.

[@adegoke2661]

This statement 'Marriages now are built on wrong foundations in the guise of “love”' is a matter of perspective, and different people may have different opinions on whether marriages are built on the wrong foundations. Some people may argue that many modern marriages are built on a superficial understanding of love and are not based on deeper emotional connections or shared values. Others may argue that love is still a vital foundation for marriages, but that other factors such as communication, trust, and mutual respect are also important. The truth is that each marriage is unique and the foundation of it is based on the understanding and agreement of the couple, and what works for one couple may not work for another.

[@jaycheung5837]

Well said

[@VictorIfechi]

💯

[@atilormaorji660]

Thank you guys for this wonderful episode, special thanks to Don Jazzy🙌🙌

[@jecintachioma9456]

My God Don's level of sincerity is a top notch ❤❤❤

[@fiifibutler2223]

I won't sit to allow any woman I paid bride price for to come and say she can see other men, before you make those rules, tell your parent to scrap off your bride price, let's share everything 50/50 and then you can tell me this story.

[@martinokoro4556]

They keep saying men with money Men with money Men with money Men with money are 1% What happens to the rest of the men I think in this show a lot of times they don't work with facts and statistics They just just speak based on their own opinion or the Lagos experience... 🚮

[@ochemegowon6107]

This particular episode is very hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JamesDray-zc2qq]

Thank y'all for this podcast, I've really been helped

[@bellomohammeddamilare3318]

This Naomi thought process can be very funny, she say na MANAGE, you get money as the lady too.

[@shola04]

No mind the girl. Na dem dey do pass

[@ifouzezi]

Omo... Don Jazzy is mad honest. I swear!

[@celebritymodel19_]

Mehn I'm glad I put on this post notifications, I've learnt a lot

[@adebowaleadeniran9474]

For the first time in my entirety, I listened to a 58minutes podcast....And it is worth listening to. In Life, Just be honest!!!

[@KingstonFortune]

I love Don Jazzy so much, what a legend! I love that he remains true to himself and very honest... the end of this video was really hilarious 😂😂😂 S/O to Nedu, Husband Material, and Toun.

[@cynthiab1683]

Don jazzy I love you ❤❤ thumbs up the honest bunch 🥰🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯

[@emmaxoba8115]

Don Jazzzy is just something else... can't help but love that man... sha mk e come sign me oo I sabi sing 😏

[@keechiO]

Lmao! Husband material is wayyy too funny!! I cried laughing towards the end! 🤣🤣🤣

[@adeola9857]

So happy this podcast is back! Toun's honesty is always so admirable, literally just says it as it is!

[@NobleJay77]

ikr😄

[@victoraustin691]

Hi

[@LOVETH950]

I love Don Jazzy his so playful my kind of person ❤❤❤much love Don,

[@alabasamuel5482]

I too love husband material… he knows how to do his work diligently and so are the rest of the crew. Sending love ❤

[@ogiagablessing8284]

It's the way @donjazzy keeps looking at Naomi vomit her feminism for me😁😁😁 The girl no just one face reality.

[@davidcollinstutu]

She sounded dumb and I think it’s as a result of where she’s coming from

[@ngozionwuma5280]

" so you envy him just because of that? So e nor reach to envy?!😂😂😂🤣 The truth is, the WHY is different from person to person. Some want to get married for just companionship, so if the partner loses concentration, the love expires.

[@makindeoluwafemi6511]

I'm happy you're back. We go again this year.

[@lajan27]

Don baba na clown! Shoutout to all the hosts... U guys are doing well!

[@victorolorunfemi2647]

Nedu literally told chris rock's joke from tambourine, word for word 😂

[@Kattie_Michelle_B]

Thank you so much for this entertaining convo, big up guys🚀💖 Can we please just reduce on SPEAKING ON TOP OF EACHOTHER OR CUTTING EACHOTHER OFF 😌 thank you though

[@hopechychy649]

God bless you guys for bringing in this legend

[@NdubuisiShedrach-kh9zp]

Omoooo This show is always educative

[@edimepeace5583]

I laughed so hard towards the end 😂 Kai I really miss you guys ❤

[@cynthiaobi4682]

Don Jazzy’s opinion on relationships gat me thinking 🤔.

[@loisadaeze3598]

Gush!!! I love Nedu’s sense of humour,in fact his personality is so attractive

[@danpowertouch4379]

The art work is very creative and I like it

[@akinseyi7886]

Don Jazzy, there's nothing like butterflies. In reality, marriage is a COMMITMENT. It's okay to say you are enjoying being single, but waiting for butterflies to happen is CAP. It would never happen.

[@teecy5469]

I calmly disagree sir, Butterflies is just another word for attraction. How do you marry without attraction? It is actually the first thing you'd experience most times. Commitment is what you engage in after the wedding and in the marriage.

[@akinseyi7886]

@@teecy5469 Donjazzy already said that he has being with ladies whom he was attracted to, but then, there was always another finer person. so the butterflies he is talking about here is not attraction. Jazzy is referring to someone that would solely sweep him off his feet such that he would no longer be attracted to any other person for life. that is impossible cos there would always be a finer or more appealing person. so going by his logic, Jazzy may never get married and that's fine. But if he wants to be married and stay married, that's where commitment comes in (pick one person, and CHOOSE to stay committed to that person).

[@teecy5469]

@@akinseyi7886 yeah, I feel you now and you're definitely correct. He has to make that decision, it doesn't come as a feeling to stop cheating. Because it is flesh instigated. He has to decide to stick with one woman.

[@ogiagablessing8284]

I think he is just being honest, if millions of couple were to be sat down and interviewed, you will find out that “commitment" was an option they chose just so to be married and fulfil societal norms. 5 years or less into a lot of marriages, these same commitment tend to wear out 99% of the time thereby we find more “cohabitants" instead of “couples”. Problem is that, no one is ready for this sort of honesty for the fear of what people/hypocrites (battling the same issue) would say.

[@temmy8529]

@@akinseyi7886 lol the beautiful ones are yet to be born sef