Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson on Teyana Taylor and Iman Shumpert’s divorce

Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson on Teyana Taylor and Iman Shumpert’s divorce | Nightcap

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6 ай бұрын

Shannon Sharpe and Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson discuss the news that Teyana Taylor is filing for divorce with Iman Shumpert. After being married for 7 years, Teyana alleges that Iman has grown jealous of her being the bigger name in the power couple, and she says Iman has not stayed loyal throughout the marriage.
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@Tech-nicallyBlack 5 ай бұрын

When he mentioned Tab and Chance, I smiled. Chance was an officer for 20 or so years and was the provider so when Tab gained her spotlight, she retired him because he worked hard for 20 years and told her to focus on what she loved doing which was acting. I think it's beautiful that she retired him and is rewarding him.

@SuiteTaBuByA 5 ай бұрын

This! Context is key.

@Trustthatvibe8228 6 ай бұрын

My parents were together for 50 years until my Mom passed. Fundamentally they respected and really liked each other and admired what the other person was good at. He's an introvert, she loved people. He didn't want to go, he'd pay for her to go with her friends, then he'd be happy hearing she enjoyed herself. Respect and boundaries.

@jelissafrank5858 6 ай бұрын

This is beautiful 😢 thank you for sharing this

@thevictorianichole 6 ай бұрын

Aww, I will one day have this type of exchange.❤

@avianartis-fleary7660 6 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@Trustthatvibe8228 6 ай бұрын

@@jelissafrank5858 you're very welcome. They were beautiful together, and the pics from their early days are 😍🔥❤️

@Simone-ls8ni 6 ай бұрын

👍 My parents are the same, married 57 years!

@relationshipcoachingwithni4517 6 ай бұрын

I can definitely see the growth in Chad. I'm so proud of him. Good job. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Daffy_C 6 ай бұрын

I don't agree with him. Ion think ppl should look at another marriage and try to be like them. Focus on yourselves dont try to be like some celebrity relationship you seen that you think is working.

@Daffy_C 6 ай бұрын

@@tommygunn2782 He said he looked at other ppl relationships & asked to them for advise with one of his. Did he not?

@recomiller 6 ай бұрын

@@Daffy_CLike how sports players uses each other moves to become better was all he was saying.

@Daffy_C 6 ай бұрын

@@recomiller That is completely different. You can't compare fixing a relationship to fixing a jump shot.

@relationshipcoachingwithni4517 6 ай бұрын

@@Daffy_C we can always learn from others. That is why having married friends can strengthen a marriage. My our marriage coaching practice we lead by example daily. 🧡

@stbsole 6 ай бұрын

The issue stems from people falling in love with the idea of the person instead of the reality of the person. I understand people say “don’t settle” but that means dont settle for someone who just satisfies superficial needs you have (money, clout, attention). True marriages and relationships are non stop work and most people are not willing to put in that work.

@dreamweaverkhronikles9206 6 ай бұрын

It starts with the individuals themselves first tho. Marriage is both an inside and outside work. If they don't have a solid foundation, then of course the home they built won't last. No matter the repairs. It will not last.

@angiewilliams8472 6 ай бұрын

NNNNOOOOOOO,.. THE ISSUES STEMS FROM HIM,.. BEING A COMPLETE NARCISSIST!!! & THEM 2 NNNOOOTTT BEING ALIGNED!!!

@chrisallen3333 6 ай бұрын

I like that comment.

@angiewilliams8472 6 ай бұрын

@@chrisallen3333 WHICH COMMENT???

@mahbubmo 6 ай бұрын

True. But at some point you get tired of fixing issues.

@Sunshine-F1196 6 ай бұрын

Ocho it takes a grown man to admit you watch how other men carry themselves with their women to make yourself better in a relationship. Kudos to you!!

@artful_dodger1928 6 ай бұрын

Ocho asking all of the right questions. Need more of this.

@brendafizer6444 6 ай бұрын

Mr. Sharpe hit the nail on the head. A lot of people are putting all their business on Social Media. In addition, folks gotta understand that everything in marriage & relationships is not going to be peaches & cream. When I have relationship issues & if I need advice, I go to my closest friend who has been married to her husband 43 years or I would ask an elderly woman who was married a long time & now she is a widow. IMHO, the reason that the divorce rate is sky high is folks aren’t willing to work out a problem & there’s too much telling of their personal relationship business. BLESSINGS TO BOTH OF YOU!!!!

@user-xs9gd1tp5q 6 ай бұрын

@brendafizer6444 Salute ! 73 cycles around the sun, agreeing. Bmore in the house...Go Ravens !

@Maxrepfitgm 6 ай бұрын

@user-xs9gd1tp5q you're actually going to experts in the area you need advice on. Too many people go to their single, never married, friends and relatives for marriage advice.

@flashbacksports5306 6 ай бұрын

Best advice I was given before I got married was a friends father who had been married happily for 30 years...He said, I think of her first and she thinks of me first. In essence, you can't have selfishness in your relationship..Going on 37 yrs myself now...

@chanellsmith3204 6 ай бұрын

Chance worked in law enforcement for 15 yrs while Tabitha chased her dream....so it's his time being at home 😉💞🥰. They're foundation is blessed.

@shawnwebb7373 6 ай бұрын

I’ve been married and I stayed through infidelity and verbal abuse. I covered him for a long time. 21.5 years together, 15 years married. I divorced bc I didn’t see it getting any better. It was the constant disrespect and disregard. He had one job, behave as if you’re married! Marriage isn’t for everyone! Ppl need to be real abt whether or not they’re marriage material!

@m.l.9199 6 ай бұрын

This podcast is GOLD. The chemistry between you two is perfect. The deep talking about great topics from real life and sharing your own experiences with us shows how humble you guys are and makes it very easy to connect with you guys. Keep on that work we won’t let y’all down.

@SummerBaby731 6 ай бұрын

Wonderfully put😊

@ashleyjenkins8120 6 ай бұрын

Totally agree with this comment

@Nonnies.Glam1 5 ай бұрын

Facts !

@TawannaRucker 5 ай бұрын

Much respect, Chad. You’re absolutely right. Surround yourself with other healthy married couples who speak life into their partner and partnerships. Watching others in healthy marriages who move in the way you want to move is a powerful thing. The mindset is different. The conversations are different. How they communicate and argue is different as well. I know exactly what you’re saying.

@Denafree15 6 ай бұрын

I love Chad’s facial reactions to Shannon’s way of thinking😊

@kengy1991 6 ай бұрын

Shannon is right. Divorce is way too easy. Marriage takes WORK. You can’t just give up when situations change in the relationship. Better or worse. Richer or poorer. Sickness or health. Don’t make the promise if you can’t keep it.

@aliciaknott8109 6 ай бұрын

I'm going on 34 years of marriage 41 years together. I don't believe people include those words in their vows anymore. Too many marriages are based on Hollywood vows. The put in their vows reasons they can get a divorce.

@Klgray7373 6 ай бұрын

Unless one cheats! Unless one is abusive (mentally/physically). Shannon quoted 2 of the three. Cheating! Emotionally abusive! It’s a wrap! Statically if the person gets help it will help them more in the NEXT mate not the mate they had those issues with. That’s is crap to work together abuse & infidelity! Period!

@kengy1991 6 ай бұрын

@@Klgray7373 Obviously cheating and abuse are legitimate reasons for divorce. That’s fairly self-explanatory. I’m talking about situations where people just say they “fall out of love” or just have some type of disagreement.

@Klgray7373 6 ай бұрын

@@kengy1991 make it plain say that. I know people that don’t believe that. They believe mean are ok to cheat if the are a good financial provider & they blame the woman for being abused. Yes some women cheat & are abusive but I do t know any men that stay in it. I know women that have been condemned by “religious” folk for wanting to leave & trying to do so. Let’s not make assumptions about it being plain when it’s not said. Have a good day

@kp9779 6 ай бұрын

Marriage doesn't take work but it takes commitment, respect and trust. When you're doing what you love its not work.

@HummingbirdConversations 6 ай бұрын

Ocho is basically creating a school for himself to learn how to navigate a relationship and produce the desired results. This is the definition of intelligence and facilitating your own learning.

@ccebs8009 6 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, there aren't many father figures displaying this in the homes to emulate and learn from. Glad he is finding it out from other sources

@cagedragnarok1781 6 ай бұрын

@@ccebs8009don't do that

@F_E_A_Rise 6 ай бұрын

Shannon reminding everyone to set and MAINTAIN your boundaries and expectations in every relationship. Don't compromise what makes you great on your journey to greatness!

@melindalee4574 6 ай бұрын

First I want to thank the both of you for doing an outstanding job! I try to tune in daily. My husband & I have been together for 31-yrs married almost 28 yrs. You have to have a mindset of failure is not an option when it comes to your marriage. Each of you WILL change in some sort of fashion. As long as your changing in a better way to continue building a strong unit than you are good to go. One love to all the married couples and to those who love-love. Sending love 💗 from Dallas.

@StayCool302 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this ❤️ I’m 5 years in with my wife and I’m still learning how to be a better husband to her.

@naklovesjesus3204 6 ай бұрын

Amen♥ By the way, if you wanna be real keep Jesus in the relationship. The real ✝️Jesus by the way, not the cotton candy Mickey Mouse version

@gogo17s 6 ай бұрын

being abused is not grounds to refer to a "failed" relationship. These are some serious allegations in which what you commented does not apply at least to Teyana's situation.

@thaganjagurudoughboi6458 6 ай бұрын

F all that! Be by yourself have fun, & save all that stress of a relationship! But congrats to u tho

@karlkookieman7759 6 ай бұрын

This man love a dog over woman is sick

@tressie24 6 ай бұрын

Shannon is old school and it’s beautiful to see that men like this still exist. Ocho has grown so much and that’s great!

@drew957 6 ай бұрын

Only thing Shannon was missing on the Tabatha and chance situation is that while she pursued acting Chance was a police officer holding them down it’s not that he’s okay playing background to Tab they moved as a team from the grind 💯

@TheodoreBakes 6 ай бұрын

Exactly!!

@Jralford8 6 ай бұрын

It boils down to respect. All this what Shaye is saying sounds good. Respect is monumental.

@shelleym2432 6 ай бұрын

This show is gold! As you continue growing please keep the transparent conversations going! OAN: I love when Ocho removes his shades, we like seeing the eyes.

@jokerYG 6 ай бұрын

The more I hear about Shannon's personal life regarding his dating, the more I see why he's still single. Not knocking his do's and dont's but he has a strict list that has zero wiggle room. From what I've gathered is that he has a mental list of requirements for his mate, and if you don't meet 100% of them, you're not the one. Not knocking his choices, just an observation.

@MCtwenty3 6 ай бұрын

I mean you’re right but I’m sure unc happy doing him lol

@luisvalentin5039 6 ай бұрын

Yeah, I'd been listening to him more and more and I've been arriving at that conclusion as well.

@jokerYG 6 ай бұрын

@@MCtwenty3 lol probably so, but those dogs can only do so much🤣🤣🤣. Definitely can't do what a woman can🤣🤣🤣

@cgpxae2119 6 ай бұрын

He got standards like a 20yr old female

@AEdavirgin 6 ай бұрын

They're always annoyed men have standards.

@princellasmith7562 6 ай бұрын

I believe Teyana. So many of these women celebrities are tied up with men who cannot handle their shine. They deserve emotionally, intelligent men who support their talents and their careers, and want to be true covenant mates with them. A good example of this is Courtney B. Vance and Angela Bassett. They support each other. I loved seeing Courtney standing up and cheering when Angela won the Golden Globe. He does not seem the least bit bothered by her success. He appears to be a mature man and a good father to boot.

@GodLovesYouAllTheTime 6 ай бұрын

Those are mature men and men of character. Angela B’s husband is just that. He’s a man of honor seems like. Seems like he’s a secure man. Secure in himself and his wife. A lot of these men now days were not men who were even shown love growing up. Let alone how to love themselves or someone else. It’s just sad that men want us to be these docile women but also make money and be educated but not make more than him or be more educated. It’s kind of like we are danged if we do, and danged if we don’t.

@Roadrunner0077 6 ай бұрын

i couldnt marry a girl who wouldnt change her last name

@Seen_not_heard 6 ай бұрын

@@Roadrunner0077and that’s your boundaries to have. Some men can.

@DoDahhhhhhhhh 6 ай бұрын

"Mental abuse" yeah no i dont believe her. Most females saying mental abuse is simply a disagreement on value & respect

@HavenInspired 6 ай бұрын

The biggest issue is people don’t discuss their expectations of their partner before getting married. Everyone has their own depiction of what marriage is and what the role of a husband or wife should be. We don’t take the time to pick the person we want and need versus the person we just want in the moment.

@flboy85 6 ай бұрын

The divorce rate is high because women aren't willing to put up with the bs that they have for decades. My grandparents stayed together because my grandmother stayed and gave 10 kids to a man who beat her and had side kids. I'm glad the rate is higher. My grandma shouldn't have felt obligated to stay.

@Neffect371 6 ай бұрын

Hmmmm one side of story perhaps?

@CurvyKeto 6 ай бұрын

@@Neffect371one side of the story is enough if he beating and cheating on her. No excuse for beating or cheating when he had the options to leave. Alot of times back then the women stayed due to no jobs or career being a stay at home mom and giving them all the power

@chriseasterly5142 6 ай бұрын

Most of these divorces nowadays isn’t due to physical abuse. It’s just you pissed me off so I’m out of here. If there is abuse, sure get divorced.

@Neffect371 6 ай бұрын

@@chriseasterly5142please repeat

@Blckbrry500 6 ай бұрын

Can I just say that Mr. Johnson/Ocho Cinco has the best teeth, smile that I’ve seen on a black man. On another note, I appreciate his and Mr .Sharp’s perspectives on hot topics. Thank you gentleman. 😊

@kofing123 6 ай бұрын

Listening to Shannon Sharp definitely lets me know I was raised by my grandparents

@kofing123 6 ай бұрын

And what Chad said at the end I've done that only to end up hurting myself even more

@Daffy_C 6 ай бұрын

Yeah Ocho wasn't on point. His advice to me in my opinion was wayyy wrong. Don't look at another relationship and compare it to yours. Nor seek help from another person, just talk to your spouse.

@Racoons4Change 6 ай бұрын

@@Daffy_CI think it’s healthy to do what he said and you. I talk to old married couples and take the good things I see. I also do things I want to do. No shame in corporating things that might work, but I see your point.

@ftmb1022 6 ай бұрын

I'm married 24yrs, next April will be 25yrs. Marriage is not easy but it can work if you are both committed to the process and the journey. My husband is the one in our marriage that is always in the spot light. And I don't have a issue with, I know my place, who I am and I'm good. We have to learn to support each other as couples and stop being jealous of our spouse.

@donitaphilpot8537 6 ай бұрын

I really loved this couple together. I am praying that one day they will be able to get counseling and get it back to where it was.

@keyshiacharles7104 6 ай бұрын

Oh yea ? When ? After they divorce ? That’s what’s happening here divorce proceedings..

@shiestlifesam 6 ай бұрын

You loved what you seen from the outside looking in you don’t know these people

@URFAVTROLL 3 ай бұрын

@@shiestlifesamthissss and social media stuck on people living “ their “ fake fantasy lives

@nbrown9790 6 ай бұрын

Chad, those were great questions. Personally, we are lost. A lot of people grew up not knowing what a successfully healthy marriage looks like. Then you have 2 vastly different individuals that are coming together, but cannot form a union. Dreams are different and aren’t supported by each party, financial goals are different, sexual preferences are different(monogamy isn’t for everyone) and sometimes people just lack emotional intelligence to take their marriage to the next level. People need the work on themselves before marriage and not get into relationships with people you do not see yourself with long term.

@christopherlee8072 6 ай бұрын

There is no successful healthy marriage. It's fights and trials all the time. Your gdad stepped out all the time. If you want multiple women then that should be discussed and that should be the expectation. I thought they had an open marriage according to her.

@nbrown9790 6 ай бұрын

@@christopherlee8072 A successfully healthy marriage does not mean that it’s rainbows and kisses all the time. There are boundaries that needs to be set, there is respect and understanding. Yes people do fight and there are trials, however, it’s how do you get out of it. If there are never solutions and repetition of that trial, then marriage doesn’t become successful. You nor I never met neither one of my grandfathers to know who was stepping out on who and how they dealt with it in their relationships. And whose to YOUR grandmother didn’t step out on your grandfather? It goes both ways.

@tyroneanderson2168 6 ай бұрын

I totally agree with everything you just said!!!

@kadefa2 6 ай бұрын

I am loving this!!! I have been married for32 years.. it ain’t for the weak!!! it takes WORK. We have more good days than bad days. People don’t want to work through the days.

@rooster7762 6 ай бұрын

Shannon has a point; there used to be a shame associated with being divorced, but now I know people who take pride in it.

@QrownedQuein 6 ай бұрын

Right! Light throwing a Divorce Party. The world is just Very different now

@Maxrepfitgm 6 ай бұрын

They have no honor, no shame, no commitment to anything or anyone but themselves. They want romance, but they don't want to give loyalty.

@saxking101 6 ай бұрын

There’s no pride in staying with someone who cheats on you as well

@Maxrepfitgm 6 ай бұрын

@@saxking101 There's no honor in not keeping your vows and honoring your commitment.

@saxking101 6 ай бұрын

@@Maxrepfitgm that includes cheating, right? I just want to make sure we both view infidelity as part of that “honor”

@Ysnuggle 6 ай бұрын

I’m thinking the same thing Chad said. They looked so happy in the media and on their reality show. You never know🤔

@greenenergysolutionsteam 6 ай бұрын

Maybe instead of shows about getting married, perhaps we could interview people getting divorced or in the process of divorce and ask them how they went from happy in love to divorce. That would be a great show if they would come with a open heart

@kayl7189 6 ай бұрын

100%!!! I am tired of those “Bachelorette” , “Marriage at First Sight” type (scripted) shows…. we do need real life situations aired so that we all can gain some insight!

@JK-rt1gy 4 ай бұрын

🥰🥰 Ocho has arrived! Listening to him talking about RC and Channing’s relationship goals shows tremendous growth! Go Relle

@MrBlpete 6 ай бұрын

Damn, sounds like he's dealing with the transition of being a retired athlete and it's not going so well. He needs something to do. A purpose. A man without a purpose can be very self destructive and start behaving in ways that are extremely detrimental to the ppl around him. Hopefully somebody close to him can help him get his mind right and channel some of that alpha energy into a purpose and he can find some sort of fulfillment again.

@chrisrobinson8339 6 ай бұрын

Shannon at the end. Inspiration. "This is how you become great". Wow

@yesshesaves6887 6 ай бұрын

Every marriage is different. You have to craft the marriage that works for the both of you!!

@artful_dodger1928 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for this talk Unc and 85. More please!

@jenisereedus 6 ай бұрын

Excellent episode Unc and Ocho, please do a follow up 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@codew2467 6 ай бұрын

My take is simple: I will be your peace, your cheerleader, your homemaker, your lover and your friend but you have to be my protector. You have to protect my person, my reputation, my values, my feelings and my heart. Most importantly, your word must be your bond as a man.

@reneestephens5757 6 ай бұрын

Amen!

@stonedog23 6 ай бұрын

It never fails. Get a reality show, get a divorce. No couple outside of Rev Run and Justine (I believe that’s her name) survives a reality show.

@Klgray7373 6 ай бұрын

Reality shows don’t kill healthy marriages but will expose those with cracks

@kayw0 6 ай бұрын

Ice T and Coco!!

@MsKylea 6 ай бұрын

@@kayw0Gene and Sharon, Ozzy and Shannon, T.I. and Tint🤷🏽‍♀️

@filmadcamp1512 6 ай бұрын

Their reality show was a long time ago.

@kayw0 6 ай бұрын

@@MsKylea YEP!! They Are still together ❤

@user-rw7fh2ni8m 6 ай бұрын

Great relationship conversation! I felt the question, “what is perfect(relationship)? Nothing is private anymore. Your perfect relationship starts with keeping others out of the inside of your relationship.

@qr5354 6 ай бұрын

We make marriage work by taking one another feelings as if they matter as much as our own feelings. Talking about the issues sooner than later and having the conversation in a respectful manner with the goal of fixing it. Ego has to not be present at any time for either person.

@sabrinawilson-chase9562 6 ай бұрын

💯

@Racoons4Change 6 ай бұрын

Agreed

@MoonMoon-fx1op 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@BoodaSDavis 6 ай бұрын

Unc & Ocho TALKING!!! 🔥🔥 This is content at its finest. Keep going kinfolk ✊🏾

@AJConsultsGlobal 6 ай бұрын

Yes.

@dwightwilliams7514 6 ай бұрын

You have to be able to communicate. Both parties have to be able to communicate efficiently. Weather it’s good or bad you have to be able to talk things through and keep your relationship private. Not everybody needs to know what goes on in your marriage. I’ve known my wife for over 11 years and married for 5 of them. We go to counseling every week to help strengthen our foundation. It’s different strokes for different folks but you have to be able to communicate. It starts there

@theplatinumexchangegroup 6 ай бұрын

Ocho with the GROWTH…I love it! He mentioned Duke…I watch his podcast Nice & Neat with Omar and Jalon, and all of them are very intentional about personal growth. Relationship problems aren’t “relationship problems”, they’re lack of personal growth problems. I believe the divorce rate will start to decrease once people start doing the work to evolve and become better humans BEFORE getting into a relationship. When two people come together who are intentional about growing and becoming the best version of themselves that’s possible whatever challenges life throws their way, they’ll be able to handle TOGETHER. And then there’s the whole compatibility factor that people overlook…lots of people just end up in relationships with people they never should have been with in the first place, but that’s another issue so I digress…

@brownsugar2271 5 ай бұрын

That’s it right here. Personal growth! Perfecting your imperfections on a daily basis. Working on being the best version of yourself.

@jakerriabrown1150 6 ай бұрын

My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have had our ups and downs, but we communicate. Communication is key. Marriage is beautiful. However, it requires work from both. We both were and still are blessed to witness marriage between both of our parents. My parents and his parents have been married for 30+ years. We are striving for 30+ years also.

@miacarswell4973 6 ай бұрын

Marriage is not the same when I was growing up , those men and women stay together no matter what. People need to build a friendship first! I love "nightcap" Unc and Ocho!

@ctmckin 6 ай бұрын

I think the “no matter what” is the issue. In a marriage, you shouldn’t be doing no matter what. You made a commitment to a person so doing whatever you want and hurting others is not the choice you should be making. If you continue to be selfish and hurt people, then the person who is getting hurt has a right to decide to set boundaries for themselves. If you want your marriage to last, make better decisions or you run the risk of losing the person you love. So the onus is on the person who keeps harming to preserve the marriage, not the person who was harmed. I don’t blame people for not adhering to the no matter what stance anymore. Now of course I’m referring to big issues. Not things that can be worked out.

@ForeignCease 6 ай бұрын

Back then women were less accessible and held more value

@doctorkhumalo7730 6 ай бұрын

@@ForeignCeaseHuh?

@ForeignCease 6 ай бұрын

@@doctorkhumalo7730 i was looking back and women never had freedom like they do now so relationships in general are different

@christopherlee8072 6 ай бұрын

They had no choice but to stay together.

@tonit8672 6 ай бұрын

A relationship is not just about money. You have to spend quality time with your mate. You have to listen to one another.

@jehwhite1582 6 ай бұрын

Love this podcast man

@KoreanMike 6 ай бұрын

IMO, Selfishness and disrespectfulness leads to Divorce and a lot of people get selfish and don't respect the union of marriage. It happens too often. I agree Chad we as men have to copy men that are happily and successfully married to their wife long term.

@chriseasterly5142 6 ай бұрын

Shannon is right. People are too quick to get divorced. No attempts to go to therapy, consultation etc to try and fix the problems. Please it’s too easy to get divorced than in the past.

@dwharton8983 6 ай бұрын

No,no,no the issue is people are too quick to get married before they truly know that this is THE ONE, there is a substantial period of time that has to go before you get to that conclusion 1 year of dating 2 years of living together

@AmaZinGly-m3 6 ай бұрын

@@tommygunn2782 if they were good married material nobody would be rushing to get out

@cindyben3089 6 ай бұрын

How do you know people are too quick to get divorced.. how much time have you spent in others marriages to say so?

@mayarandolph8788 6 ай бұрын

Lol why are we listening to the advice of a lifelong ba bachelor who ain't never been married? I'm confused as to how and why folks think he's qualified to speak on this. Also, before, just as it is in many places, folks stayed married in the past cuz folks didn't have access to divorce (based on the means). Men have been leaving relationships for centuries with little to no consequences, the only difference now is that everyone can file and women aren't forced to put up with the abuse of our grandmothers

@cagedragnarok1781 6 ай бұрын

@@cindyben3089there are statistics that back that up. Don't be lazy. Look it up

@erinnmjones 6 ай бұрын

They completely skated over the fact that this lady said her husband was allegedly unfaithful, suffered emotional abuse, and he crashed her car while drunk and fled the scene. Somehow this became a discussion about Shannon’s dogs sleeping in the bed being a non negotiable when he’s dating a woman…how? On the other hand, I can appreciate Ocho sounding like he really wants to make a relationship work and that he’s willing to compromise. Shannon just sounds like it’s his way or the highway…God bless him…smh

@ItsTheM4dness 6 ай бұрын

It’s his show, he can decide where the discussions go. If you dont like it, maybe go watch something else more fitting to you like The View. Besides, a wealthy and well accomplished man like Shannon has the financial capacity and social stature to attract a wide variety of women across all ages, so im sure he’s doing fine by “his self” and only sleeps on a lonely bed if he decides that particular night that the juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

@KeeKeeSoto 6 ай бұрын

@@ItsTheM4dnessyou sound obsessed. Your response has nothing to do with the OP comment.

@erinnmjones 6 ай бұрын

@@ItsTheM4dness God bless you as well

@erinnmjones 6 ай бұрын

@@KeeKeeSoto chillleeee, he ride for his, don’t he? Lol

@SoCalOnTheBeat 6 ай бұрын

its easy to take the only info put out about him like most women do what the men do wrong they never talk about what they did and all you doing is going off her story im 90% sure she did some things too! and i beg you any amount of money she disrespected him too! thats women problem always play victim to their flaws with no accountability! so u and the women on this comment sound bitter how he obseesed for stating an opinion? see how quick you disrespected him off an opinion? talking bout he obssed how??? but see yall talk about communication skills but women talk willingly how they want with no consequences!

@JB-gc6jo 6 ай бұрын

As I continue to listen. I enjoyed this topic.

@cwa659 6 ай бұрын

…Open yo own damn door😂

@cheatingscoobydoo 6 ай бұрын

This the one it’s servant behavior to have to race to open someone’s door

@sandrahumes-benton3087 6 ай бұрын

Many marry for the wrong reasons or marry the wrong person. Love is the glue that holds marriages together. Marriage is a serious commitment and if you are truly committed you work through the tough times and learn to compromise.However, when you’re talking about lives lived in the spotlight, that’s a whole different animal. Egos, money, the environment and lifestyles of the rich and/or famous can make a long term marriage very difficult to sustain for obvious reasons.

@truthseekingfreethinker5214 6 ай бұрын

But I've heard women say that love isn't enough anymore. Women think they are progressing, but really, they are just destroying.

@sandrahumes-benton3087 6 ай бұрын

@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 Love is the basis for any sustained relationship with anyone. Money, sex, beauty can’t sustain a relationship because those things may come and go. Without love you have absolutely nothing. So yes it takes more than love, like commitment, compromise, fidelity compatibility, financial stability doesn’t mean rich just stable. And your relationship has to be your priority. And I totally agree that there are men and women who aren’t stable enough or capable of sustaining a long term relationship with anyone because it’s all about them all the time.

@Chisomaga4eva 6 ай бұрын

NOW THIS MAN CHAD HAS BEEN DOING THE WORK! COME THROUGH KING!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@RITAS1964 5 ай бұрын

Much respect for Ocho😊 I am on the fence when it comes to Shannon something is a little off to me.

@calikeisha365 6 ай бұрын

The thing is Teyana Taylor had an open bedroom to other women and there was still infidelity proves that some people are never satisfied. A relationship can only hold the weight of the relationship each individual has to be responsible for their own happiness and security.

@christopherlee8072 6 ай бұрын

That's why I don't think infertility was an issue.

@SoCalOnTheBeat 6 ай бұрын

exactly soon women not happy no more or bored everything go left and thats facts!

@TriggaTreDay 6 ай бұрын

It’s always funny to me how people say marriage is hard. Man it’s no more hard than dating different people all the time or being in a non-married relationship. As my husband and I went through some tough times as we matured in our relationship, I told him that I only deal with some of his “crap” (most being miscommunication and some tactical stuff) because I love him and because he’s my husband, because baby I wouldn’t dare give any man that didn’t marry me this much of my energy. But once you comb out the communication issues other things tend to become much easier to solve. My husband has a desire to be better and grow as a person, same as I do, and that’s why we work, even when we are not seeing eye to eye. But we want to best for each other regardless of how much attention the other is getting. If my husband is shining we both win, if I am shining we both win. Iman seemed damaged in that department and there is no fixing a broken man that is jealous of you as their wife. That woman publicly put that man on a pedestal and it still wasn’t enough. That’s crazy to me.

@zmanr2090 6 ай бұрын

That last statement Chad said at the end said it all.

@SoCalOnTheBeat 6 ай бұрын

exactly!!! sums it all up!!!!! soon the women not happy everything go left and thats facts!

@t.c4799 3 ай бұрын

Great show guys!!!!👏👏BRAVO!!!!!

@zamokuhlemncwabe2664 6 ай бұрын

This is by far the best episode. GROWTH!

@sharmainebrown6927 6 ай бұрын

Everyone has their own way of thinking. Love Shannon and his old school values. When you’ve come from struggles as many have, paying for things when one has money becomes easy. Believe me Shannon is no fool at throwing his money around. I love my SSU brother!💙🧡 PS. Never say what you won’t do. There is nothing wrong with opening a car door for a lady. Adapting to changes in life won’t kill you, but make you go stronger . We have to get out of our own way as people. When the right woman comes along you’ll do what it takes. The same goes for women!❤

@ciciwilliams 6 ай бұрын

I love how much Shannon loves his dogs. It always brings a smile to my face. ❤❤

@gzt4377 5 ай бұрын

@@CvDaddythey do

@user-qk5uf3jc6w 6 ай бұрын

Great Episode

@errollynjackson-dickerson8885 5 ай бұрын

Ocho has grown and his work on himself shows. The maturity is priceless… congratulations!

@tammywilliams9138 6 ай бұрын

I love that last question Chad asked

@itsthecrimboss 6 ай бұрын

Where was Shannon dogs at when his house was getting robbed?

@ebo7310 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@lindaannoliver5627 5 ай бұрын

Wow I loved this conversation great guys Happy Holidays

@anissamiles1782 6 ай бұрын

That topic led to a wonderful conversation 💖✨💖✨💖

@COACHAD4632 6 ай бұрын

Great topic, guys! Relationships, not to mention marriages, are very difficult. Honestly, I've learned from each failed one that I've had. Eventually, I will put all of the learning together and ride off into the sunset.😁

@Racoons4Change 6 ай бұрын

This is so true. The only reason I’m engaged now is because I decided to be as vulnerable as possible and completely trust my partner hoping they won’t hurt. Me on purpose. I met her and I’ve loved it ever since. Whether it’s getting married or not, we as humans want companionship, no matter what legality comes with it . We either share I knit out with one person, or keep dating, or die alone.

@simplyblesd 6 ай бұрын

So many 💎 from both of em

@MsBeautytoons 5 ай бұрын

I enjoyed this segment.

@iamjamesmeeks 6 ай бұрын

Shannon said he’ll pay your bills but he ain’t opening no doors 😂. What?!

@monroejackson9723 6 ай бұрын

Been married 26 years marriage is an everyday commitment, Both people have to be willing to sacrifice there time,there money, and there wants in order for both of you to become 1. Noone tells you being married is hard, difficult and draining. They think marriage is supposed to be easy. Remember anything worth having comes at a high cost and you will never grow if you don't get down in the soil and add nutrients to the foundation

@kdrickSportzHustLE 6 ай бұрын

Great segment!!

@derrickwilson4619 6 ай бұрын

Hey @Unc where did you get that tee it's fire.

@darrinelliot. 6 ай бұрын

8:10 ”I don’t care how fine you are. I don’t care how much $ you make. Dogs ain’t going no where. They live here you visiting” Took me out Unc. 😭😂😭😂

@u.r.i.a.h. 6 ай бұрын

If someone NEEDS an animal to get themselves together emotionally. Then you need to seek professional mf’ing help as a human being. If you can’t live alone BY YOURSELF, as a human being, and you NEED a whole ass dog or cat to help you get through the day, you need professional help. This man has confirmed he is GAY.

@kgalegoldsgym 6 ай бұрын

That sounds real weird, sounds like he might date women for appearances

@u.r.i.a.h. 6 ай бұрын

@@kgalegoldsgym does anyone know what happen with him nicole murphy?!?! She fine as hell! they went on a yoga date and aint heard shid since. I think nicole said “Its the dogs at the table and in the bed for me!” Lol.

@user-hm6pe3is4e 6 ай бұрын

Richard Pryor quote 🔥

@Aoybonit 6 ай бұрын

@u.r.i.a.h. sorry but this is my opinion...just as Shannon thi is how I too feel about my dog (whom has provided much more than any person has). His dog gives him JOY & PEACE 2 off the most important things in Life. Just because in your mind you may feel what can a dog do, no he cant get sexual gratification no a dog can't brung in an incone (some do), no the dog can't verbally talk with him ( but they can if the bond is strong) which he seems to have. This does not make this man GAY, he has tapped into what helps & make his life PEACEFUL...and no amount of pussy or $$$ will or can change that. Please try not to assume or judge because it isn't your job 2 do so. This man is HAPPY with self & what he requires in LIFE

@lafayettedickens6236 5 ай бұрын

My wife and I have been married for 32 years now. A woman needs her space just like a man needs his. Mutual respect and trust are key ingredients to a long-term relationship. It's not all about one person or the other. Each partner must have a heart for their mate without losing a sense of self. Each person has to love the other for who that person is as an individual. That's what I have found to be paramount. Women don't like clingy men but they do need to feel loved, needed and cared for and money alone can't cover all those bases.

@stevehardeman2773 6 ай бұрын

Yalll got a hit show please don't stop!!!!

@kimberlymercer1088 6 ай бұрын

I love your show

@chickadee124 6 ай бұрын

I was in a relationship with someone in the cannabis industry. I have a catering company and one of the farmers wanted to work with me. Business for me was booming. His boys were raving about my business and he was downplaying my bi,. One day he asked about my profit margins and he said "That's WAY more than me!" My girlfriend overheard the conversation and told me that it would cause a problem. I dismissed her warning and from that moment, things got worse because he was secretly in competition with me. We split 4 years later and he is still pissed.

@cullenamays6613 5 ай бұрын

Too many people in marriages seeking happiness. Not enough seeking Holiness.

@dunsonkeia9398 6 ай бұрын

Look at Ocho cheap behind 😂😂😂😂

@MoneyMane2112 6 ай бұрын

This is GOLD!!! Therapy

@deestudd 6 ай бұрын

what Ocho said at the end there is so true and im so sick of hearing men say happy wife happy life, those men are the problem cos apparently there willing to sacrifice there own happiness and that will never work in a marriage. its happy spouse happy house u both shld be happy and that entails listening and understanding each other and some compromise. and a whole lot a work. and not using social media as relationship goals when u dont see the work they put in behind the scenes.

@cheatingscoobydoo 6 ай бұрын

Straight truth bomb bro, half the time you’re breaking your neck to make a woman happy and really they’re unhappy with themselves

@user-lt1fx2he5s 6 ай бұрын

The key to any successful marriage is communication if you don’t have communication you won’t have a successful marriage

@vittiriowashington5211 6 ай бұрын

Communication and comprehension

@boston1976 6 ай бұрын

Understanding each other's style of communication. My statement at work is English is not standard by that I mean we each hear words but interpret based on our knowledge set. This is what is challenging for so many people.