Nkauj Tshwj Lubb Neej Lwj Siab. 8/26/2024

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@jolievang2995 4 ай бұрын

I got married at 35. At 35 I still have single Hmong men with college degree chasing after me, but tbh, after 30, you don’t have much options bc most Hmong men get married very early on. Just bc we are single after 30 shouldn’t mean we should just settle for any single Hmong men. I met my husband (he’s white), he came and asked my mom for my hands in marriage, paid a larger bride price, he treats me like a queen, has a great paying job, I don’t pay for any bills bc he takes care of everything. The only thing I do is cook for us bc he can’t cook, but he helps me clean, he does the dishes and does most of the chores in the house. Btw, we’re the same age, never been married, no kids, college graduates, healthy and still young. We believe in gender equality and treat each other with respect. Just like any other race, choose wisely for a life partner. I’d rather be right and late than early and wrong. Just saying.

@cleartao3924 4 ай бұрын

I also got married at 35 too and got myself a single Hmong man with a master degree too. No matter what you do or your choice is people will judge you regardless so do what makes you happy and could care less what others have to say. When it’s your time, the one that loves you will come to your life. That’s what I believe. When elders asked why I still single and not marry, I told them that I am still waiting for my Mr. Right lol

@khamyang5128 4 ай бұрын

Gotta use that degree title to change the subject that ya some left over 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@jolievang2995 4 ай бұрын

⁠@@khamyang5128 You sound sad.

@ashton8878 4 ай бұрын

May we see a picture of you guys together?

@maxiong7557 4 ай бұрын

He had no choice, but on the real note... why go for an older chick when u can get a younger one especially when men reach their financial peak at 35

@kuvxwb11 4 ай бұрын

Woman, u dont need a man. If you can support yourself you dont need a man. Having a man in your life will give you a big headache. You will have to tend to hmong men like they are kings and whatever you do, you can never ever please them. Just stay single and be happy. Who cares what people say. They are just jealous of you.

@NpaujNyag 4 ай бұрын

👏 💯

@a2dazgod539 3 ай бұрын

Sometime people have to sit down and reflect on their life. Where we stand today is the result of all our decisions and actions. We are the master of our own destiny.

@josiemoua7723 2 ай бұрын

Well said! This is a great reminder we control our own destiny.

@angelinexiong9781 4 ай бұрын

Sister don’t worry about marriage n me don’t care about marry. Now I’m 47 year old I still here never be married n I don’t feel bad n I love me self as long as have good job keeping work hard get own house … never feel bad. If u put ur self down then they will put u down too

@michaelf2700 4 ай бұрын

Dont settle for less for the sake of settling. U r selling urself short on trying to find happiness bcuz u think u r running out of time. U settle when u r ready & happy. Live for urself.

@luvinniceboxers 4 ай бұрын

It all just depends on what you want in life. If you want marriage and children then yes, work on your attitude and find a loving husband and get marry earlier. Once you hit 35, there are risks to bearing children and your options in a committed life long partner may be limited in the hmong community. Look outside, there are plenty of fishes in the sea. 😊

@keoka9860 4 ай бұрын

Team Nkauj tshwj🥰txaus siab rau tus kheej os

@PanidaSaesong 4 ай бұрын

❤❤

@jackieyunan4899 3 ай бұрын

Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov kaj siab nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...

@krystalyeu799 4 ай бұрын

To the lady of this story, age is just a number! Why do you listen to everything anyone says or gossips about you? In life, if you have a goal or goals, be committed and reach for it! Your education, for example, go for the finish line and achieve your higher standard. A boyfriend who is not ambitious or understands is his loss. There are men all over the earth. Why did you let a couple of broken hearts break you and your confidence? You STOP your higher education before you have yet to begin. And settle for a loser at the end of the game. The only difference was that my husband and I had dated since high school. But we received the terms "nkauj laug & nraug laus" and many more; they never bother us because we know exactly what we want in life, and marriage at an early age is not the answer. Our goals were getting through medical school and establishing ourselves - we married at age 30. Today, we are in our mid-50s with two grown daughters. Your brain is too foggy - please get therapy and figure out what you really want because you are still young! Also, it is unhealthy for your children to rush into a young marriage, as this is 2024, and life requires a partner, not a bully.

@MaiYang-jb8wt 4 ай бұрын

Agreed! This lady's brain can't think through then and still can't think through today!

@7stars2love 4 ай бұрын

I feel your pain sister. Hope one day your life gets better os. Thov VajTswv txhawb koj zog mog.

@BeaSong-d3g 4 ай бұрын

Sister aw,..why u feel bad about yourself being single and independent? Nothing wrong being single all your life. Why listening to others talk shit about u? Remember u owe your own home and nobody pay your bills. U know hmong pple cant handle the single and independent person and hmong pple have no respectful for women. U should consider date others race instea hmong guys. Trust your gut and your heart what best for yourself instead listening others. Nobody know u more than u know yourself best dirvoce him and find your happiness.

@hmooblor1 4 ай бұрын

i think you are missing the point shes making. she said she isnt educated just some beauty when shes younger but now thats gone as well. what happened was she had a bad attitude and thinks so highly of herself and put others down.

@myadvantures0426 4 ай бұрын

Sister, you got standards and those old boyfriends can’t accept that. It’s ok. My aunt didn’t get married until she was 39 years old, she has my 2 cousins at 40 and they’re all grown up now and my aunt is close to that retirement age and she didn’t regret anything. Be happy that you lived out all your youth when you’re young. Never regret anything in your life.

@KgJv-wf8jm 4 ай бұрын

🎉

@MeeLee-y9o 4 ай бұрын

Girl, you are confident and content. You will never find your happiness if you try to pleased everyone. If you’re not happy, don’t stay in that relationship. It’ll lead to more problems and it’ll take a toll on your mental health. Wishing you the best of luck. 40:44

@YajMorey81 4 ай бұрын

Stop worrying about what others said about you, focus on your marriage and yourself.

@giangdinhgiangdinh7445 3 ай бұрын

Raug Kuv lub neej heev😮😌😔😔

@siavang5637 4 ай бұрын

Tus viv ncaus aww muab lub neej nyuaj2 siab ko tso mus os mog. Tsis healthy relationship! Tham lwm haiv neeg lawv txoj kev xav txawv hmoob. Nyob rau sab nrauv cov zoo tseem muaj kawg. Nrhiav kev kaj siab ua ntej lub neej yav laus thiaj tsis muaj2 mob os nawd. Txhob mus quav ntsej txog lawv tej niag lus qia neeg uas hais ub hais no tsis zoo. Koj yeej zoo tabsis koj mus mloog cov lus phem txo koj lub zog koj thiaj ua neej txhov pes nyho. Listen to your heart. Don't pay too much atention to what others saying you bad this and bad that. Love yourself and get out of that relationship. Find happiness for you and you baby. Being single is okay.!!! Don't stay in the relationship were makes your life miserable. Hope you read all the incoragement in here and hope this gets you some good ideas . Love yourself and get out when you still have brains left.

@niamntxoovtswbxyoojchannel2454 4 ай бұрын

Cov nkauj laug yeej tsab tsim txiaj dua thiaj tsis tau txiv

@chuechang3860 4 ай бұрын

Yog tsis zoo ces kav tsij nrauj xwb

@กัญญาพิมพ์วัฒนลีกุล 4 ай бұрын

Tsis tshob kes. Nyob ua nkauj laug zoo tshaj li os

@cua1879 4 ай бұрын

💯

@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb 4 ай бұрын

yog

@nkauj_zoo 4 ай бұрын

Niam laus aw kuv tshai2 lub neej tu siab li ko kuv thiab nyob lau2 thiab os tama kuv zoo siab vim kuv niam kuv txiv hlub kuv heev os (Kuv qhia koj os hlub yus tus nkeej yog qhov zoo tshaj plaw os)

@maileex4209 3 ай бұрын

Sister, if you feel that way now, don't wait until you way older. Follow your heart. Do what you want. Don't care about what other think. What matters is what and how you feel about yourself. It's up to you.

@paovang1548 4 ай бұрын

Your value determines what you can get. Even goodwell stuff still have some value, don't give up yet

@onglormoua4779 4 ай бұрын

Ntuj aws tu siab dab tsi no peb cov yuav thaub lau peb twb lam xiam tiam mas los

@yhyh7477 4 ай бұрын

Yog kawg os kuv twb yog nraug tshwj thiab 😂😂

@NaibNim 4 ай бұрын

Sister!!! 35 isn’t old! 35 is the new 20s and 40 is the new 30s. Tsis kk li os… Live your life to the fullest! Your family isn’t helping much either. Believe in yourself. Move out and be on your own! More freedom.

@pajyeebtuskoj5nco429 4 ай бұрын

Sister, I wouldn't care what these ogs think. Peb cov poj niam tsis tas muaj tus txiv thiaj ua tau lub neej os mog. Txhob tu tu siab.. life is too short to please all. I wouldn't care if I can support myself that's all that matters . Take the time to love urself. ❤

@MAYHLUB 4 ай бұрын

Sister, you are an independent person, why you have to listen to people that don’t support you. You had a job, a home, and a car you don’t need anybody to put you down. You are smarter than that…. right??

@saengmany255 4 ай бұрын

Niam tus me ntxhais ces niam yeej hlub2 niam xav kom ua me ntxhais tsim txiaj xwb os tab sis me ntxhais tsim txiaj dhau es ho yuav g tau vauv ib zaug thiab 😢tu siab kawg lub neej me ntxhais.

@praneea-nanpon7992 4 ай бұрын

Don't worry about marriage, don't worry about what others think of you. If you don't find someone who matches you, don't be sad. Learn to be happy alone and plan your retirement well. As long as you don't become a burden to anyone in retirement, that's great. It's better than getting married without confidence and having a miserable married life. from a divorcee.

@ThomyYa 4 ай бұрын

Txhob yuav txiv nyob twj ywm zoo dua os mus yuav txiv ces kev nyuaj siab tawm plaws tuaj tiag

@TsovXeemPlis 4 ай бұрын

Cov lus txhawj siab rau tus txhais zaj dab neeg no. Koj txhob muab cov neeg no cov lus coj los zwm rau koj lub siab vim feem coob hmoob, yog ib cov neeg hais lus txo yus lub zog nkaus xwb. You will be free when you let go of every thing especially your ex boyfriends, people gossips, your regrets, your pleasing others then you will have a happy life. Nco ntsoov yog neeg tseem thuam yus vim lawm xam kom koj mob siab tias koj xaiv yuav kev ces koj yuav ua neeg thiab ua koj lub neej tsis sawv vim koj yuav niaj hnub chim siab khib siab tias lawv hais yog lawm. Qhia rau koj lawv hais tsis yog lawm, lawv tsuas yog txo koj lub zog kom koj ua neej poob qab xwb. Let your past go, get up on your feet and stand on your ground, don't let their words bully you be free and you will be happy. Remember if you're mentally and emotionally happy, you will see the difference in your life.

@SuzieHlubKoj 3 ай бұрын

Women like Us are strong and independent! We don't need men to complete Us. We can do bad all by ourselves!

@chaovue1895 4 ай бұрын

Thaum nyob ntev liko mas yuav tsum tswj yus lub cev kom yiag ntxiag es txhob cia yus puv2 ma es thiaj nrhiav tau tus hlub yus. Tabsi yuav tus twg Los yeej muaj kev nyuaj siab ibyam tsis txawv li os hlub luag li luag hlub yus xwb os

@phoebelor1173 4 ай бұрын

Tham mis kas xwb os txhob k txog hmoob

@neebvaj4982 4 ай бұрын

Hi nyob zoo os niam laus aw kv nyiam kj cov neej neeg kawg li os

@รัชนีแซ่เถา-ซ9ถ 4 ай бұрын

Tib neeg ce yim laus siab yim tawv yog lawv tsis hlub yus yus yeej tsis hlub lawv thiab

@leevue7803 4 ай бұрын

Yog koj tsim txiaj ua tib tug ntxhais zoo muaj kev kawm muaj zoo hauj lwm ua ces tus neeg yuav los yuav koj ces yeej yog tus zoo xwb thiaj yuav tsu koj Kuv mloog mas tom koj muaj kev nyiaj siab los vim koj yeej tsis muaj kev kawm tsis muaj zoo degree tsis muaj zoo hauj lwm ua koj thiaj nyiaj siab li no

@kuab50 4 ай бұрын

Lub neej yog 2 leeg yuav sin pab siv zog ua thiaj tiav thiaj muaj neej zoo ua. Tab sis saib koj qhov kev xav yog tus txiv yuav tsum fwm koj, yuav yog tus ua zoo koj xwb, yog kuv pom koj lub siab xav, coj li no ces kuv tsi yuav koj ib zaug li lauj.

@Xyooj-qo6im 4 ай бұрын

kv twb ua thiab os tab kv ho g yuav hmoob kv mus yuav lwm hai neeg lawm os viv ncaus

@ylt4072 4 ай бұрын

Seems like no one is putting you down. You just don't like to hear the truth. They say you are old and this is what you need to eat after birth, b/c you are old. You still want everyone to bow down to you. Like that one lady said, you dont know how to say "thank you"

@HmongEs907 3 ай бұрын

Dont settle for less. Find the guy with potential. Someone who respect u from in and out. Dont feel bad. Go date other races. Taste the rainbow. 🎉 I married outside my race after dating hmong. Im a SAHM. My white husband go work while i take care of our kid. Get someone who treat u like a queen. ❤ Dont listen to these ignorants.

@maivang6987 4 ай бұрын

Tus me viv ncaus tsis txhob tu2 siab kiag li os leej twg yuav hais yus los nws hais nws os . Yog yus nyob yus mas kaj siab tshaj os es teb chaws no tshob ntshai tuag li os yus txawm tuag los yeej muaj mikas pab faus es txhob ntshai kiag os es yus hlub yus tus kheej zoo duas mog.

@malygranger3739 4 ай бұрын

You don't need a man to be happy. You can be single and happy. No one but you, can make you happy remember that.

@phuablubneejluagntxi1318 4 ай бұрын

Kv nyob lub teb chaws los tsuas xwb kv twb muaj 27 xyoo lawm tab sis kv niam kv txiv tseem cheem tas zog kom txhob mus yuav txiv no xwb ho tej nyab nus los lawv yeej g tau luag hais ib los li ca rau kv li lawv tseem hais tias g muaj ib tug txiv tsheej haj lawm ce yog yus txawj nyob no los kav tsij nyob twj ywm xwb no tab sis kv twb ho nrhiav tau kv tus hlub2 lawm thiab

@chongxiong340 4 ай бұрын

Don't feel bad for yourself. Never ever settle for less.

@HnubzooXyooj 4 ай бұрын

Lub neej yuav yawg nrauj ce lo khaw lawv li qub mob xwb od.

@houaxiong9996 4 ай бұрын

Sister I believe you feel this way is because you surround yourself with toxic people. Family does not always mean they have you in their best intentions if all they do is belittle you and make you feel less than. I have a nkauj laug sister and I never say those kind of words to her. Marriage,kids are a choice. You can always leave and find the right people to be in your life. Good luck!

@LinaLina-gv3hs 4 ай бұрын

I agreed! People can start their life and marriage at whatever age they feel comfortable and ready. Many of us in America don’t feel pressure to get marry and have kids young anymore.

@7stars2love 4 ай бұрын

So sad lub neej ua ib tug ntxhais hmoob. I got married at age 32, my husband is a lawyer, we both are college graduated, we got married and live our own lives successfully, we don't ask anyone for help but the hmong OG still criticized me for a nkauj laug 😢. Hmoob lub neej ces tsuav tau txiv thaum hluas2 zoo nkauj xwb khwv tsis tau nyiaj los yeej zoo tshaj li lawm os. Twb yog vim no hmoob thiaj poob qab deb tshaj luag lwm haiv neeg.

@aminglao2938 4 ай бұрын

Kv ce zoo ib yam li kj thb o 😢

@janessathao9108 4 ай бұрын

Girl idk why you feel that way? I’d rather stay the way you are right now. Less drama less stress, anxiety etc. girl, go to school and carry your own self. Be independent. You don’t need all that stress in your life. lol 😂 idk why rush to get married? Just bc you stay single don’t mean you’re bad. Girl I’m 30, and I’m an independent woman for a long period of time, I recently just got into a relationship with my man not too long ago. I don’t even rush. Don’t let no one tell you that you’re too old. You’re never too old. Don’t let nobody change you. If whoever don’t like you, they can go f themselves. Periodddd. 😂

@JulieRich-zw4sf 4 ай бұрын

Koj g tau paub hlub koj tu keej xwb

@praneea-nanpon7992 4 ай бұрын

Don't be sad, lean to be happy with your single life. Lean to plan take care yourself after now. If you have enough money and planing you don't need someone hurt you. Why do you live in a developed country but have the mindset of an ancient person

@youwatchme3631 4 ай бұрын

Pojniam 45 xyoo tseem hluas2 zoo nkauj ho. Tiamsis yuav tsum yog yus saib xyuas yus tus kheej kom yiag ntxiag

@MissPeachie 4 ай бұрын

Agree. If she takes care of her body, she will still look good since she never had kids.

@NalisthojThoj-ou1fz 4 ай бұрын

Kv hnov koj zaj dab neeg no ...ma nco ceeb tias tsam kv g tau txiv thiab .. tab si no kv muaj hnub nyoog 23 ib phua phooj ywg ces lawv yuav txiv tag lawm ..qhov kv tsis tau yuav vim peb tsev neeg txom2 nyem ntshai tsam tus tu tsis hlub yus ces ua poj nruaj thb xus ua nkauj luag .....😅😅

@caaspasvang7427 4 ай бұрын

Neeg coj nruj coj phem ces kawg zoo li ko xwb tiag ua neej nyob na

@maivnaasthiabvajthaiv7798 4 ай бұрын

maum heev maum tsab ntse,heev, nkaus,lim hiam,xuab, thaub koj tseem yuav koj ces twb muaj hmoov dhau lawm,dhuav kuv dhau lawm, mloog xwb twb npau taws lawm,leej twg yuav ua tau koj tus txiv,ego girl.

@maithor8427 4 ай бұрын

Tus ntxhais txhob tu siab os,laus thiab hluag los yog lub ntuj tsim xwb yug me nyuam ces yeej zoo ib yam xwb.

@chuechang3860 4 ай бұрын

Cas nej yuav ntshai tsam nej tej ntxhais tsis muaj neeg yuav naj

@panglo7814 4 ай бұрын

Sis, being a single person doesn’t mean yug yog Nkauj laug. We have to value ourselves. Don’t settle for less. There’s always someone out there for you. Txhob khuv xwm yug tej qub hluas nraug. I rather have a name that I am still single ua Nkauj laug then Lub npe poj nrauj. Lub npe poj nrauj is worst for hmoob. See yourself worth. Love yourself. Regardless what you do ppl will complain. If married into a loving excepting family then you are good. But if you married into a family that doesn’t like you and doesn’t expect you, ua rau yug haj yam lwj siab xwb os.

@myyearmouanoutoua6908 4 ай бұрын

Nej cov nkauj laug mas feem ntau yog qias2 dub ov koj yuav tau pauv koj tus kheej ..koj thiaj lis muaj txiv nawb..los koj rov mus ..nyob ib leeg ..ua single mum xwb laus

@pahouamoua8054 4 ай бұрын

Lub teb chaw no, kj txhob k txog cov neeg hais kj, cov hais kj yog cov neeg tshaj 100% xwb, tsuav kj nrhiav tau rau kj noj xwb, hais zoo ceb pab lawv zov mi nyuam, hais phem ces tsis tas hnov xwb.

@metublor9096 4 ай бұрын

Txhob tu siab xav tias yg txoj hmoo, kj yuav tau ua siab ntev hlub lawv cov menyuam txawm cov menyuam ntawv yg kj cov los kj yeej xav kom lawv hlub ib yam, menyuam yg cov g txhoj pob es mloog lus ces yg menyuam g puv 100 lawm xwb o 😂

@jiaxiong8991 4 ай бұрын

In this day and age, most women choose to be single and independent. She doesn’t have to be married to be content, she’s got her bills paid, she can eat what she wants, travel, etc. no man to tell her what to do and no expectations from anyone. Consider that freedom! Tsis muaj hmoob yuav lawm los kav tsij nrhiav txiv neej miskas xwb los yeej tau. Txhob tu siab os sister! Txhob khes leej twg hais yus, koj xav ntau ces koj nyuaj siab xwb. Number 1 problem these days in marriage is always infidelity. You have good reasons for being single that long.

@panhiayang9029 4 ай бұрын

All I can say is “Stay Humble”

@ThePrincessWorrior 4 ай бұрын

Stay humble and go single

@maxiong7557 4 ай бұрын

Women reach their beauty and peak from 18 to 25... their assets are their beauty and youth. Most men have to build our assets we cant just stay skinny and look good... you have to build your finance, have investments, look good, stay fit, have a 6fig paying job... if u are missing one of these then it is an issue for modern women today. Overall women have more options to choose between men, men have to build to have options so age do matter and higher age means more body count and to men body count matter also

@suexiong537 4 ай бұрын

Hahaha believed you were a princess...

@ncouazooxwbya1552 4 ай бұрын

Oh my!!!! Please growing up!! This is a free Country of living the way we choose to live our life!! You only 35 yrs young!! So many people get married they were between 40-50 and still considering maturity!! May be you’re thinking too! much and have a low on self esteem!! Please learn how to appreciate the way you are and value yourself more!! Forget about peoples talking s.h.i.t behind your back if they have enough guts to tell you the way they want you to be, kindly reply M.Y.O.B. than walk straight forward with a smile face girl!!

@leevue7803 4 ай бұрын

Tus koj ib tug me ntxhais muaj peev xwm mus nyob yus ib leeg rau kawm ntawv kom muaj zoo degree kom tau zoo hauj lwm ua yuav Vaj tsev tsim kom muaj ntau yam zoo rau yus lub neej ces luag thiaj saib tus muaj nuj nqi xwb tsis txhob Xav txog qhov pheej yov mus yuav txiv xwb

@lisvaj7375 4 ай бұрын

My husband and I have different education standings. I have a college degree and he only finished high school, but he is so hard working and a great husband and father. I make 3 times more then him but that never stopped me from being with him. Even after being married for 20 years, I wouldn’t change anything. Don’t settle for less but know you will never find the perfect person. You are going to have to give and take something.

@LeeVue-q4y 4 ай бұрын

Sister. Koj lub siab yeej Tseem tsis hloov li nawb. Yus yuav tsum swb ua ntej es mam li yeej thaum yav laws ma thiab li kav laws nawb. Koj rov qab tig saib koj niam seb nws coi lica. Yuav tau muab nws lub neej Los ua Ib lub qauv nawb. Kuv cov lus no yog lus nyiaj lus kub. I busy heev. Twb yog koj es kuv thiaj li Los hais cov lus no. Kuv tus me txiv ma. Vwm Los vwm los kuv tseem yuav ne

@nyobzoshavtaischannel9304 4 ай бұрын

Tus viv ncaus aw,,, koj lub siab me dhau lawm os tej niag lus luag tej hais koj ntawv koj twb uv tsis taus li ne lawv hais ib los koj khaws kiag cia xwb ne tej niag lus koj hais ntawm koj mas nws twb tsis mob li yog koj txawj coj na tiamsi koj coj tau siab nqaim dhau ib lo ob lo koj khaws tib si tswb nyeej ntsoov cia khaws ya teeb meem kiag xwb

@ntujntsuabzim1588 4 ай бұрын

nyob zoo xav kom koj pab hais 1 zaj neej neeg yuav xa li cas rau koj

@cua1879 4 ай бұрын

Trust me you will not die because you didn't settle and get married. Having a spouse and children doesn't guaranteed blue skies & green grass. Your life and your worth is what you make of it. Think about it... if your ex-bfs that got married are so called happily married, why are they constantly checking up on you?🤭😂 They're mad you didn't settle and miserable like them.

@sunshine_96 4 ай бұрын

Txhob care os niam laus aws yus laus lo yus twb tsis tau mu thov lawv noj yus twb khwv txaus yus noj thiab. Kv xav hais rau koj tias ua ntej luag yuav saib koj muaj nqis koj yuav tsum saib koj tus kheej muaj nqis tso nawb. Kv lo twb muaj muaj hnub nyoog lawm twb tsis tau yuav txiv thb tsis tau xav yuav txiv li 😅, txawm lawv yuav hais li cas rau kv lo kv tsis care li vim peb ua neeg nyob yog yuav kom yus ua haum2 lawv siab es yus lo nyob lwj siab ces noj tsis tag li os😂.

@hmongremark2686 4 ай бұрын

Coob tus ntxhais hluas nkauj xwb coj tus xeeb ceem thiab ua tha loj rau hluas nraug xwb zoo li yog poob saum ntuj los li koj no mas muaj qee leej muaj mi nyuam tsaub tag mam yuav txiv yawg nrauj los yog txiv yawg ntsuag tom qab. Muaj ib txhia kuj tau txiv nraug xwb tab sis yog txiv phem nraug los ncauj lus tsawg nkaus xwb.

@ThomyYa 4 ай бұрын

Ua nkauj laug tsis txhais tias yog tsis zoo ua nkauj laug nws yog neeg tsim txiaj xwb na kuv muaj 2 tug mi ntxhais muaj 32 xyoo lawm tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab li vim lawv muaj lawv nyiaj siv na

@menoogdejdawbxyooj9166 4 ай бұрын

Ntuj aw kj ces siab me dhua lawm os thj li xav tias luag xa nyiaj me ntsi rau luag tej me nyuam xwb los kj tsi kam yuav ces cia tuag nim laus nkaus xwb mas

@kellyyang1628 4 ай бұрын

Who cares what they say, leave if you are unhappy . You are just torturing yourself.. you were able to get a home and be by yourself at one point, you can do it again ! You have your kid now and that’s all you need.

@dohcvtecboy 4 ай бұрын

Plenty of single hmong mens. I have many friends, some master degree. But picky too. Now all there womens their age are divorcies. Lol.

@MsBliaYang 4 ай бұрын

If I knew what I know now I would have never gotten married young, girl. Now I am divorced with two ex husbands. I am NOT proud of it but that was me when I was younger. Don't be discouraged just because you are older. If you try other race, they would respect you.

@tinachannita193 4 ай бұрын

When someone say anything to offend you all you need to say is, watch your mouth, if you don’t want to be offended then don’t offend. Say it just like that. I don’t allow no one to put me down cause you need to protect yourself first and foremost.

@Shihtzufun2 4 ай бұрын

Your problems are worrying about what others said to you. You need to stop listening to what they said. If you already have a good job, car house why need a man for? Most Hmong men are headaches only. If you are not happy, just leave, dont make yourself suffer.

@panouthao6350 4 ай бұрын

You settled just because society pressured you. You married the wrong person. But you can also start working out and build muscles.

@baolee945 4 ай бұрын

Girl, you are not old. Don't listen to people, but believe in your heart. These Hmong people don't know to give advice and encouragement. If I were you, I would leave. Don't keep comparing yourself to your old boyfriends.

@maylee3735 4 ай бұрын

Ua CA kj zaj neej neeg no zoo li kv li thb o

@yeebntshachannel9254 4 ай бұрын

Peb nyob teb chaws no tsis Tau k Tias yog nkauj tshwj, txiv neej Siab phem2 li es yus nyob yus khwv rau yus noj xwb tsis muaj Neeg khwv rau yus noj tshwj tsis yog koj Niam koj Txiv yeej tsis pub rau koj noj xam maim no peb Cov tub Cov ntxhais Twb tsis yuav txiv Tsis yuav poj Niam LAWV Twb nyob LAWV Xwb mas mi sister aw 😊

@yenglor691 4 ай бұрын

I don't understand this story... time to move on with life sister.

@MosThoj-yp2cb 4 ай бұрын

Cas koj zaj dab neeg no yuav raug kv ua luaj thiab os tus me viv ncaus aw

@nkaujmoobleeg 3 ай бұрын

Girl, you don't need a man to be happy! You grew up in this country, I don't understand why you think you would need a man to be happy.🤷‍♀️

@wisteria4550 4 ай бұрын

I don’t understand why every time we Hmong women have problems with our husbands, we always consult with the in laws or his family. They never support you. Make decisions on your own!

@leevue7803 4 ай бұрын

Ruam mas thiaj mus tham cov niag ntsej muag hmoob nplog huab noj huab haus no ua dab tsi na yus nyob lub teb chaws vam meej es yus yuav tau coj yus txoj kev vam meej xwb tsis txhob rov mus yug cov niag ntsej muag hmoob nplog pluag kug no

@pajlis5886 4 ай бұрын

I think it's not that you have such high standards and no one can reach them. Zoo li koj yog li tus neeg siab me dhau. No one is perfect so if you are looking for perfection you won't find it. Having standards is 1 thing being selfish is another. For a relationship to work there has to be compromises. Those who say my wife or husband treats me like a queen/king are 1 in a very few . Asian white black Hispanic are all human. Humans are not perfect. If you can't love your husband's kids move on. You can't compromise with your husband get a divorce. Life is not a fairytale. There are struggles and heart aches. Until you put effort it's your own fault. Pretending it's ok doesn't count.

@hlubtushlubkuv9881 4 ай бұрын

Viv ncaus aws... tsis kk os xab maim no tsis muaj txiv los tsis muaj teeb meem lawm. 1 txhia niag tub twb tsis hlub niam thiab txiv es niam txiv twb tsis tau kev nyob kev tuag thiab. Yus nyob yus yus thiaj li tsis muaj kev mob hlwb. Peb cov tub cov ntxhais tiam 21 no lawv twb tsis kam yuav txiv yuav poj niam lawm.