No More Excuses!

[@BobbieJeanM]

Welcome to the “I’m human and stuff happens” club, lots of members here. Also remember so many times in the past when what you thought or wanted for the plan didn’t happen when you wanted. But ultimately what God wanted for you did happen! We’re told in the Bible to pray as Jesus did asking “not my will but yours be done”. I also include, and in your time. Love your intent and content, whenever you are able and God allows! 🙏💕

[@julessee]

Miaha I pray you give yourself some grace. You and Jess have such wonderful hearts and I can only speak for myself but you both bring such a calm. I just desire for you both to be your wonderful selves. Yes its always good to strive to do better but also, it is good to allow yourself some grace. I will pray for your success if your goal but remember....Grace. 😊🙏

[@elainemiller6765]

No explanation needed. This is your channel, your time, your life. I am just along for the ride.

[@kellybishop7385]

TRUTH!

[@parentingdecolonized]

Exactly. 2x a week, once a week, once a month...whenever you can.

[@bnelson2180]

I agree.. ☝️

[@beckymay439]

Good that you notice when Toby had disengaged. Focus on ur boys. We’ll be ok. ❤

[@harrietzook5066]

Ditto!!! More important to engage with your boys than us.

[@TalkingJohn88]

It's OK to not be perfect 😂 you have a lot of demands on your time. We, or at least I, get that. Do what you can when you can.

[@2024Ms.Homesteader]

Dear Miah, From your talk it sounds like you are looking for perfection in your videos. In reality people, including myself, want to hang out and see what you are doing on your farm and with your family. Every day work is not perfect and I enjoy watching normal people doing normal stuff and not the perfect way. You be you and everything will work out! Even if the camera is on with commentary later. It is a joy watching you work and play with your boys!

[@cassielawrence2740]

Jess went through this herself with The Farmer’s Table…and ultimately, we prefer it as “real life” rather than perfection!

[@brandygaddy7429]

100% agree with this comment! I also believe you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself bc with your military background and ocd I feel like you like routine…I think as soon as you figure out how to fit that camera into your routine without it having to be a chore you will feel so much better about it. Maybe just start videoing what you would like to teach us how to do and maybe do a voiceover on the video explaining it if you don’t actually have time to do whatever it is you are doing and not having time to explain what you’re doing. Glad to have you back!

[@dianamcanally5515]

@@brandygaddy7429 I so agree. Miah, do what you are comfortable doing. Go about your day, fix things, make things, take care of the place, ride your horse, show us the homestead from your viewpoint as Jess shows us from her viewpoint. I see too much thinking, too much talking, and I tune out. All the things you told us were obstacles could be more interesting than you trying to create a project to over-think. Teach by doing, let us see more days in the life.

[@misstobiano]

100% agree, this is why i love the roots and refuge content, because it's such a comfortable, safe and honest space to hang out in ✨☀🌱🐔🌼

[@camicri4263]

True! Perfection only God has it, but you know that Miah!Blessings!

[@lpatrick357]

Take the pressure off yourself. One video per week or one video every 2 weeks. We will be here when you are here. You and Jess inspired this 68 year old Mimi to start a garden several years ago. I now bake my own bread. Cook most everything from scratch. Forage the land and have learned how to make my own tinctures. So thank you both for the knowledge you provide.

[@eurthavandijk2790]

You don't owe us anything. Just make a video when you want. It is our pleasure when you take the time for us. You have a busy life. Don't be so hard on yourself.

[@gilldolphin6095]

ABSOLUTELY! Thanks for what you give to us

[@amandar7719]

Exactly. The pleasure is all ours. Always honoured to be invited in.

[@bebabear1966]

Love that you are not turning on the camera and spending that time with your son. We like your face, but we love your heart!

[@jonathanenck3814]

Miah, this sort of openness is why my wife and I have had Roots and Refuge as a huge part of our relationship. We've followed you since just after we started dating in 2019. I just want to remind you that the most important (and part I struggle with as well) part of stumbling like this is not that you stumble, but getting back up and manfully facing both that you have stumbled and continue working on not making the same mistake. You and Jess have a huge network, both in your real community, and here online that are pulling for you and your family to succeed. Its good to see the struggle too. I know it sucks to be in the struggle, but just remember, this too shall pass.

[@aloras405]

❤

[@baileywright3113]

What a testimate!!

[@HippieHollow]

I would have been just as happy watching you clear trees and interacting with Toby. Some people just talk to much on their videos and I click off. A video doesn’t have to be full of talking. I would much rather see someone doing something. Engaging with Toby is way more important in the long run than making a video. I think as humans we put way more pressure on ourselves than anyone else ever could. Delete comments and stop giving people that much room in your head. You have a beautiful family and life that’s the most important thing in the world. Welcome back .

[@kdeediana]

I love this, taking it to heart in my own life too 🙏

[@shannon.N]

Most of us are sick of perfection. I’m old enough to know better. The best thing I learned was to say no! It’s simple, but not always easy.

[@morganpeacock3652]

First you're way harder on yourself than you need to be. We're all here just tickled to get another video from you no matter how long between videos. Nobody that matters is judging you. Take your time and find your groove. Second these unplanned chat videos are usually my favorite. They speak to people's hearts which is more important than really any instructional video. My best laid plans seem to fall away so easily. I've quit more times than I can count and it's so hard for me to keep pushing forward. So this raw video encourages me so much!! Lastly if you're looking for an accountability partner we got you there too. We are team Jess and Miah all the way. See you next Monday!!!

[@vickiesquires3639]

Be gentle with your spirit. HE is with you.

[@Wildevis]

It's not the falling down that's the measure of a man, but the getting up, dusting yourself off and starting over and keep going.

[@hazzardoustime1968]

Hey Miah, in these situations, when the big plans don’t work out, just take us along and film a short video while dealing with life. We don’t need complex. We just like hanging out with you. If you are not working on a project, we like hearing what you have to say. Ease up on yourself, give yourself some grace. we’ll be here, cheers!

[@doulacoach6801]

💯 agree❣

[@MadMax-op8pl]

Yeah bc what we are attracted to is the authenticity. Nothing more. Nothing less. Best way to keep it simple, say to yourself, "is this authentic "? If yes, post. If not delete. Lol. We genuinely love your whole family and need very little to be interested or entertained. The number 1 thing u guys got is that. Genuine and authentic human beings having a heart felt human experience with as much spirituality thrown in there as possible. That's a whole other thing you have not taken the time to do but addressing your faith up front would be a good idea. And creating your own devotionals semi regularly (pr at least when u r called to speak on something) would be really good too. Again just throwing content ideas out to see what sticks. But I really am on the edge of my seat waiting for this next update now. N if I gotta wait month or 3 for the next one I'm gonna come back to ur videos and start commenting daily 😂 requesting my update. Showing pictures of my nails as I bite each one off shorter and shorter waiting to hear from you. Now I feel challenged to hold u accountable for this consistent posting. I never intended for u to feel challenged either but cheers. Let's ride.

[@GreenThumbGardener65]

Oh Miah…you gave me a chuckle. You are the one that told Jess to just show up and talk to all of us! Dude we love you anyway! Remember that old saying? Man plans and God laughs! All in good time. ❤

[@MaryinWilm]

Saw this and thought of you: People speak of hope as if it is this delicate, ephemeral thing made of whispers and spider's webs. It's not. Hope has dirt on her face, blood on her knuckles, the grit of the cobblestones in her hair, and just spat out a tooth as she rises for another go.

[@thewaywardirishícan]

I love this 🙌🏻

[@WildHopeHomestead]

So good! ❤

[@thedirtprincess3293]

Amen

[@stephanyandres5968]

Yes!

[@msdebbiep]

Something that I often say on Jessica’s videos is that, for me, the best part of the videos is the “thinking”, the decision-making, the problem-solving, etc So if life gives you lemons make videos of what you are going to do with the lemons. Trees blocking the way? Share the “pivoting”, the next steps - all this is powerful teaching opportunities

[@annbolandloveslife]

YAY! Thank you for your honesty. Here are the videos I would love to see: Raw, uncut and real. I don't always need music, editing or perfection to enjoy a video. Maybe even a "live" with "hey, we are heading to set up a deer stand....let's see what we encounter. " Or, 'hey, we just encountered a hurricane, let's assess the land and see what needs to be cleared." Second, I love the idea about generator video. Could you do one about building an outhouse? I know I am not the only one that wants to know how you all "bathroomed" during 7 days of power outage. I know Jess said that was something she'd thought about having for future in the event of power outages. Next, how about a "father/son" build of some sort? Next, you poured concrete for your workshop (or whatever it is called), how about a video of next steps and dreams about it? It's fun to hear people's dreams about their next build. What about a "day in the life of Miah" on the farm. These are just suggestions. I like your videos, so I am sticking around whether they are "KZbin perfect" or not.

[@marilynwogahn6262]

Oh my Lord. I love your feedback " Raw and uncut and real"

[@MadMax-op8pl]

We are all dreaming and manifesting with u. How big can u dream? Make it bigger! ❤

[@archaprice3372]

@@MadMax-op8plhi madmax, just think, your comment fostered this video

[@mcairlyn4437]

I'm 60, but I look up to both you and Jess. Not just for your content, but for who the two of you are as people. You're both upstanding, you're willing to take an honest look at yourself and the both of you are very motivating. You are a good role model for people no matter what their age is.

[@justoffcenteradmin8305]

I’m 71yo .. and too look up to this family for who they are. To me, that’s the ‘refuge’ they provide. Have a good day mcairlyn4437.

[@mcairlyn4437]

@@justoffcenteradmin8305 you have a wonderful day too!

[@MadMax-op8pl]

This. ❤ but especially men.🎉

[@ria9881]

OK. So as soon as you started talking about the trouble getting the videos done, I was reminded of one of Jess's devotionals. It's the "What is that in your hand?" one. She says right at the beginning that she came out to shoot one video but kept having trouble. Then realized she was just trying to shoot the wrong video. It's one of my favorites for when I need that step in the right direction. Perhaps the reason the plan hasn't worked is because you've been trying to shoot the wrong videos. Remember what you used to (and idk perhaps still do) tell Jess.... Just pick up the camera and chat with your friends. That's why I'm here. Sometimes you'll have great practical knowledge of how to do different jobs like building your workshop or clearing the trees. Sometimes you'll have farm chores and how you troubleshoot. Sometimes, the right video is exactly like this one. Sharing your struggles and what you hope to accomplish from the other side of facing them. Even if you don't fully succeed in that endeavor, it's ok. Because we are here for you. We enjoy what you have to say. We enjoy the work you do. I can't wait to see what projects you have for us whenever you are able to share them. I love watching you create things with your hands as much as I love watching your amazing wife share her gift of life in the garden. Most of all, I love when you both share your truest heart. It's what makes the two of you who you are, and I am eternally grateful that God called you to all of us. Blessed be, and be sure you're shooting the RIGHT video! lol💖

[@gemami22]

My dude - there's a difference between reasons and excuses, these don't sound like excuses me. But also, prep is part of doing, so sharing videos of the prep that's involved is real and also could be important. And this is why I follow Jess despite being a city dweller who never has an expectation of having a plot of land big enough to grow more than fresh eating veg, she shares the prep and the mental work involved and those parts are applicable across all areas of life, not just the thing she & you all are doing. Give yourself a break from expecting yourself to do it perfectly "right"

[@pamhunt392]

Miah you've got a farm to run and boys to raise, that's more important than filming. You can't do everything. Don't sweat the small stuff life's to short

[@shirleyjames9697]

I believe people will watch whatever you film and be happy. Sharing truth of what's going on is encouraging to me and I suspect to many others. There's so much deceit being shown hearing truth is like a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your willingness to share with us.

[@diannasgardenmenagerie967]

I belong to the “good enough” club and my husband is in the “perfection” club. He is a bypass patient and I don’t have any stress related health problems. I suggest you join the good enough club!

[@kathyaakananabluebird]

Welcome back! BUT NO PRESSURE from us. You find you -and you be you.

[@Cristina-gw5zp]

Amen!

[@WelcometomyCapeCodlife]

Good to see you back. No worries here. If you fall off the path it’s okay, we will be here when you get back.

[@jeniferyeadon2955]

Miah we only have 2 kids, but we have 2 full time jobs with weird hours. Stuff always comes up. We put 10 foot 4x4s in the ground all around the garden last summer, and because of time and money the fencing still isn’t up. It always happens. Actually the videos where nothing goes to plan is helpful because that’s what homesteading really looks like.

[@lesliee6721]

Honestly Miah, I watch you and Jessica to learn about what it takes to grow myself as a gardener and learn self-sufficiency. Your knowledge of homesteading, your integrity, your genuine honesty about how you live your lives and how you managed to make everything work, including your beautiful marriage is why I watch your channel. All of that creates the content that you post. The educational stuff is all a bonus. 😊 I would love to see material on what tools you use and basic carpentry & electrical information. 🛠️

[@MadMax-op8pl]

Yeah teach us about how to have a successful marriage. What it takes, what tools do u find essential for relationships, partnerships, business etc. How do u juggle ur routine? U really do have SO much to offer and u can't go teasing us like this now sweet Miah! I'm waiting in anticipation for Monday.

[@simplybarbara5083]

Your only human and we all have priorities. You have been through a lot. God bless you and your and cut yourself some slack ❤

[@christineclark]

A dear friend used to say "If you have to force it, it's probably 💩" Just let it happen and keep standing back up after being knocked down. I am confident in saying that lots of us are here because you and Jess are real and vulnerable and we can relate to that.

[@shirleyvastine9328]

Miah, you are a planner which is why everything you build is such perfection. But, thinking too much for a video puts the cabosh on just showing us life around the farm, or whatever you're doing. I would have gladly sat and watched you get up to that property and just say, "oops, I guess I'm cutting up some trees first". Toby would have right then learned a lesson on the best layed plans go by the wayside at times. Sometimes, just sit back, have a chuckle and don't stress! 😊

[@NinaM93]

I’m just going to say, I have always adored you and your wife. It doesn’t matter what it is you post, I see y’all’s videos and my heart is immediately like YES!! I just enjoy getting to know you guys through y’all’s videos. And truth be told, I enjoy the videos most where ya’ll just sit down and have a heartfelt chat, much like these. I enjoy learning also, but you and Jess have such a huge impact on not only my life, but thousands of others because of your hearts. Give yourself grace, because I’d guess 95% of people will do the same. If a week doesn’t go as planned and you don’t get a video out, no sweat. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Get back up, and keep going. I’m preaching to the choir here because I struggle with this concept, too. But God gives us grace, we should also give ourselves grace. But we know what we are capable of and like your wife just said in her last video, discomfort equals growth. I think setting a schedule is good. Just turn the camera on and be vulnerable and tell us what’s on your heart if you don’t have anything in particular to teach us. We love any content you come up with. I’m glad you’re back and looking forward to any and all content you post. All my love to all of the Sowards ❤

[@kimwood6632]

Just in time! I bet so many people are battling the same thing in different ways. To see someone own up to it is refreshing. My favorite part is the bits of behind the scene of the video that you thought you should post, and what got posted instead is actually worth more to me anyway. Thank you!

[@theresablougouras1926]

First of all you don't owe us anything this is your life! We are only seeing a small part of your life! The world world be a much better place if we walked a mile in each other's shoes! So no pressure we love you and Jess, and we will be here regardless! 💓 Blessing to your family!

[@teriparrish]

Sounds like you hold yourself to a standard in all things that is really difficult to hold up for long term. In the long run, it’s not super healthy to beat yourself up for all the things you “should” be doing. Don’t stay in that place❣️

[@TwoMadExplorers]

We love you and Jess!

[@rons3236]

You've already overcome what I think is one of the biggest obstacles guys have Miah, being vulnerable and being willing to share with the rest of us. I'm looking forward to watching your videos. Godspeed.

[@MadMax-op8pl]

I think we need a sticker that says "No More Excuses " to put next to the "Miah is my homeboy" stickers. Stoked that you really have been super consistent 🙌 can't wait to see the rewards.

[@melissajones4175]

Everything is a journey in life. It is messy and often messed up. Let life happen and film life. We love you and support you. Yes projects are good but so is everything in-between. ❤

[@pennywillis8895]

🇦🇺But was it a road block or was it a learning lesson on life. The unexpected and how we react and learning to reassess what to do next. Sometimes we have our plans but God wants something different. I’ve had health issues since age 12 and have had 21 surgeries, I’ve had 5 pregnancies and 4 children, my third pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, my 4th pregnancy I was having twins but one of the babies died at 6 months. My first born Benjamin died at 10 1/2 years old. My husband of 8 years stopped going to Church. After another 4 years he came back to the Lord. After 31 years of marriage he decided he didn’t want to be married. Life happens, it’s our response to these events that show who we are. When we believe God is in control and know everything works out for good, it helps our heart. One day we will have answers, when we meet him in the clouds. Until then we simply trust Him.

[@micheleweatherspoon6399]

Amen 🙏 God is good.

[@miseentrope]

Ya'll might have been without electricity, but you have the power of faith. That's an awesome and mighty engine. 💡 Miah, post whatever, whenever. We're here, always. 🖖

[@lindajackson9537]

THIS is life and you are encouraging each of us to face the challenges that we face to keep moving forward to accomplish our goals. You and Jessica have blessed me SO often by your honesty.

[@jeas4980]

I didn't hear excuses... just good priorities. Engaging with your kids, taking care of sickness in the family, getting sidelined by national disasters... huge changes in plans... that's the important stuff. ❤

[@jIlLiAnganz]

Miah, you can bring us along and simply document without a pressure to present! There are true fans out here that just want to follow along with you and Jess. We're not here to apply pressure! I love the saying "The stakes are high, but the pressure is off." What you have to share (processing) is worthwhile and valuable.

[@MadMax-op8pl]

I was just wanting an update on the workshop... still waiting by the way😂 but also I was trying to inspire him. Moved by spirit to remind him how important what he is doing is and that he will see the fruits of his labor much quicker if he was more consistent. I'm definitely a die hard fan truly my TV doesn't go on until R&R has a new vlog.. sincerely my heart was in the right place but spirit knew what would motivate and trigger him but my intention was never to cause turmoil or this sense of obligation. He's just gotta find a way to make it fun and he WILL. He WILL find his voice. We are gonna come back as many times as it takes. But we are here praying and dreaming for them, the least he can do is give us a clear vision for his dream. 😂 with love of course. But seriously how can we help u manifest ur dreams if ur not willing to help us have a clear vision? Without clear vision this is what we get..... less than we want, less than we can give. We got u.

[@antonianovoa6416]

Toby, good choice Miah! I am in no way a carpenter, but I would love to see an outdoor shower build. Family always comes first, and the true viewers who understand this, and support you when you do, show up. Thank you for sharing.

[@collinsddc1206]

🌺Thank you for this very real video. May God continue His guiding and leading you. Blessed by you and Jessica’s videos, many of us I should say are Blessed by you and all your teaching, reality is such a great learning experience, especially when you allow it to show who you are and how to make it better. 💜

[@MartineJLemieux]

Thank you Miah, a lot of people are getting trained to be entitled and say things that are not thought through. You do what you can and god knows your situation, like someone said before, we enjoy your videos. You guys help me thank you. Be yourself!

[@sandyhaines2124]

Miah, thank you for this video! It occurs to me as I’m watching that the most important project in all of our workshops is us. God’s not through with any of us. It’s not a destination it’s a journey. I try to relax and enjoy! ❤

[@tamarajergins6211]

Food for thought .... perhaps all the roadblocks are happening to protect you from something. Family first & always. We will always be here for you & Jess because you both were here for us in the good times & the bad. Walk on, sir. Prayers for you all always. ❤

[@jackiegammon6854]

Miah, just 'find your groove' and do it. Once a week, twice a week, those of us that are true fans just enjoy hanging with you!

[@marcyjo1972]

We all make excuses and reprioritize everything we need to get done. We are human. We just keep trying

[@MelbCrazyPlantLady]

It's not the destination, It's the journey. Instead of shooting the video, just shoot a video of you doing what you do. Show the reality, the raw truth of how your day is going. We will enjoy seeing the pivoting as much as the target, if not even more. I hope that makes sense

[@tenafleming7199]

These videos don’t have to be perfect. Don’t ever stop communicating with your kids, they are more important than the video. They can and may stop communicating if they feel that making a video is more important than them. I love all of you and your wife’s videos. Because they are real life.

[@melaniegerth5021]

Miah's Workshop is PERFECT to share the "imperfect journey"! The laughs, struggles, quitting, restarting ... we all do this! We ALL get it! Miah, you are such a GREAT role model for your family and boys ... so just keep filming, the "best of the stories" will percolate to the top!

[@naynerboppers5254]

I love your family because you guys are regular people that are open to talking about both successes and failures. You all seem to be accountable for the ups and downs and are just good people. I wish I had you all as neighbors to join forces with you all. I'm an interior designer (with a bit of architectural) that is now disabled. I started gardening a few years back to learn how to grow my prepper seed stores ... And feel in love. Jess has and still does inspire me in the garden... and your builds have helped encourage me to build raised beds (both from scratch and prefab) with my hubby. I love anything you get around to putting up and appreciate the work you all put into educating us on here. Live your life, record when you can (even if it's not perfect/ideal), and don't be so hard on yourself. I wish you the best on growing this channel and wish I could be out there to help you all! For now, even when hubby was out of work, I just keep my Patreon going so I can help in a small way.

[@tammyrowling1987]

Welcome back. The enemy always finds ways to try to stop what God will use. We will continue to pray for endurance, leading and strength. No judgment here, just encouragement and prayers.

[@lynhyslop7157]

Miah, don't force it. If making content is taking you away from family, it isn't worth it. And there is no need to have content dropped on a regular basis. Also, you don't have to talk through every video either. Just watching you build things is great. Heck, I watch people mow lawns on KZbin. Thank you for sharing. I cant speak for everyone, but I am here to watch and support when you do post. 😊

[@MadMax-op8pl]

Again drone footage would be a fan favorite lol heck even teaching people how to fly the drone so we'll lol 😂

[@kristenthore3229]

Some of my favorite videos are when Jess or yourself just sits back and says ‘this is what’s happening….things are great or things aren’t”. It reminds me you are real people just like the rest of us hard working folks! Don’t be afraid to just ‘turn the camera on’, and thank you for taking the time to do this video. My entire September was like a black cloud hanging over me with one bad thing after another happening. I just couldn’t catch a break! But being able to turn on my “friends” on KZbin since I work from home, is always a brighter time of my day. AND things have gotten better! I hope the pay do for you, too.

[@Tundermare]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge! It’s okay if you are not consistent! Most of us aren’t! A video I would love to see is all about fence building. We are working on our small hobby farm and need to put up fencing. This will be our first time and I would love to know your tips and tricks

[@marysisson7761]

Life is full of set backs. It’s also full of achievements. I’ve learned to just say I will do what I can and it will be done when it’s done. God bless you and yours.

[@wucherwildlings]

As a long time roots and refuge fan, I'm here subscribing because this is my first Miah's workshop video I saw and I feel it was put before me on purpose. I resonated so much with your struggle. This year, I couldn't get any projects tackled because of my own mindset. But now, I'm out in my ¼ acre city lot tanning deer hides for the first time. I felt a calling to pursue my goals, so I followed it and God put the rest into action. My nephews harvested deer, they were going to discard the hides and my sister said, "Take them for practice." So this is my applaud to you for posting and giving a great resource for encouragement, guidance and vulnerability.

[@leeprodgers2702]

No wonder you and Jess have such a solid relationship. Same morals, same scruples, same hard working, honest and thoughtful souls. Thank you for showing your vunerability and accountability, and especially for explaining your heartfelt thought process to tackle issues that can cause stress. I found it truly calming to be reminded that those qualities are still alive and well with everything going on for so many people lately. You are doing fantastically!!!

[@splitrockhomestead]

This story about trying to get the stand up is amazing because my husband could’ve told it. The frustration of having a million things stand in your way when you have a plan is SO real and so relatable!

[@dianehouse1441]

Thank you, Miah, for opening up and sharing yourself with us. I've always had such admiration and respect for you. I understand how you feel. I go through the same frustrations with my quilting. You've given me an emotional boost to focus and don't let other "things" get in the way of spending my time quilting and enjoying my craft. Of course, taking care of ourselves and our families is top priority . I just love you and your family. I will continue to pray for you all and apply your challenge to myself and my quilting. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. God bless you and your whole family. 🥰🙏

[@RevLetaLee]

Yup. Telling ourselves about the truth, then forgiving ourselves, deciding if it's still something we feel called to, then go forward. Your videos are great, even for a single, 63 year old woman with a tiny yard garden and 3 chickens, and no plan for anything bigger. It helps me learn for projects I might do to improve my corner of heaven, and your authenticity supports me to be a human and love myself (and my neighbors) even when I fail.

[@AmandainGeorgia]

It’s not how many times you fall, but how many times you get back up. You’ve got this, Miah.

[@FranklyFranky]

You talk about this like you’re falling off the wagon of addiction. You’re an adult with a bunch of responsibilities and shit happens generally as long as your wife keeps her posting schedule you are really just the cherry on top and that’s a compliment like the original comment said we are happy with whatever you put out regardless of your consistency because we know you do all the things behind the scenes, so we know it’s not like you left your family for two weeks to go on a vacation by yourself in Cabo, you had a hurricane and a sick kid anyone would be out of work for a couple of days.

[@cathykillion6544]

Y’all are wonderful parents and a loving Christian inspiration. ❤

[@Rebecca.Robbins]

Oh Miah! It’s me. I’m the one you have encouraged. I’m the one who needed to hear your message today. Maybe I should be thanking madmax as well! ❤

[@patwatson4836]

Give yourself grace. Nice to see the normal side of people. Know we all struggle. Hugs to you.

[@kellygreen8255]

Oh my gosh! That music during the tree cutting was fantastic!!! Also, I love your daddy’s heart for your boy! That alone is worth watching. ❤

[@ramonajolley1966]

We are human son. That is life. We seek perfection. We are not perfect. Everyone's walk is different. Continue to walk your walk. I know who you follow! Continue to let HIM guide you! GOD BLESS YOU!!

[@deborahgilliland1804]

My grandma always told me the older we get the faster time flies. It's called adulting. We get sidetracked by life's little ups and downs. None of us are perfect so dont beat yourself up over it. All any of us can do is our best and go on frm there. You are a wonderful husband and dad wich is more far important than KZbin. We will be around.

[@serenitys_zephyr]

No plan survives first contact. Adaptability is the biggest and best lesson we can model for each other and our children. You are doing great. If the world could slow down the "opportunities " to model this, I think we could all use a breather, though.

[@passionatelife2589]

Thanks for coming back. Never give up and never surrender to emotion.

[@laurasebourn1213]

Thank y😂ou! You are an amazing man, we'll always be here

[@faithandarrowhomestead]

Miah, I fall off my channel all the time. I always let my viewers know, because I think that’s polite. And my true crew is always supportive. Life has seasons, the flexible are harder to break.

[@tasteofheavenhomestead8553]

You are a wonderful human! A great husband, father., teacher and friend. We know your heart and are here for your content whenever it comes!!

[@driftingsoulsisters]

Watching Jessica's videos you both gave us so much inspiration to start homesteading. I asked you on a live stream about 18 months ago about property, we purchased the 13 acres and moved in July last year. An old run down house that was vacant for the better part of 10 years. Youve inspired many, that it's not to late to start. We appreciate ANY content

[@MrRedback22]

Miah, 🙏🏻We love your content. Its true, honest and real.. fall down 7 times get up 8 👌Looking forward to ANY video you put up. 5 mins, 10 mins.. Even if its just driving around checking on the farm.. It doesn't always need to be an in depth project.. We are here for you whenever you are. Always👍

[@SageandStoneHomestead]

Honestly I'm happy youtube put this in front of me. Even with notifications on I have to search for your channel usually. So that's a win there!

[@RichThomasInfo]

God bless Jeremiah ❤❤❤❤❤. You and your wife are doing a huge service to America. To the greater good really ❤❤

[@TheNakidGardeners]

Definitely needed this video. Thanks, MadMax and Sweet Miah

[@wandasmith7973]

Thankyou for being real and honest. You do wear a lot of hats. Your life with Christ is first and your children and family are the most important in your life. You are putting your best foot forward to shoot the videos. Detour to show him how to use a saw and being calm and problem solving. That was teaching him how you handled the situation. Forget the stress about the video and use those teaching moments. Most kids cannot problem solve when they are in situations. It’s good to see that you have a nurturing side as a father. My nephew has a very nurturing character with his kids and they are teenagers now. Kids grow fast take every teachable moment you get to teach them in a positive way. The camera is there all the time and will watch when you can post. No Stress. Blessings on your family. I love yours and Jessica’s channel because it’s wholesome, your real and positive. Leave the negative comments off the air. That only encourages wrong behavior in people and it’s like fueling the wrong fire. Thank you for being honest. Honesty is very rare in the world we live in.

[@ourfamilygardenmore5051]

my brother, I appreciate The fact that you are unashamed of the gospel. as a girl dad working 40 plus hours and coaching softball with acres to maintain and a garden I couldn't imagine trying to do content on top of it. some people are busy some are not but I've learned the one thing my kids want more is my time and not money. give all the time you can brother cuz that's one thing you cannot buy. we are all just stumbling towards Jesus trying to live the best life we can. Don't beat yourself up. Love you brother keep it up

[@shareenstone6673]

You are only human, and life is not easy. Just be yourself and know you are capable. Thank you for making it real. God bless you and your family.❤

[@JLawson86]

The enemy will try to exhaust you and wear you down… He is nowhere near your strength and authority in Christ. Bless you, Miah and I pray that you keep moving forward and I know you are a great man of God who’s gonna give wonderful advice, content, and working knowledge that people can put use in their lives. And this is why he wants to silence your voice.

[@denesemaxie7930]

Welcome back… resilience and to endure. Thanks for the reminders to get back up and get back in the fight always pressing towards the mark. Gods wants us and our hearts and to cleanse in ways we couldn’t ever imagine especially before the crushing or the fire. What a mighty God we serve that he would be mindful is us. He is our strength and our all. May we each be reminded and encouraged to continue running the race. 💕 Hugs Jess for me. I doubt I’ll ever get to meet y’all this side of heaven but until that day keep pressing forward.

[@SeedSowerMichele]

I could definitely benefit from your generator video. I just bought one and it's still in the box. Everyone appreciates having you here, Miah, in whatever capacity. It's great to see you back.

[@RootedinPearl]

You just said your initial response to a commenter was “screw you”😂 the raw honesty here is so greatly appreciated! Also loved the intro… how did I get here lol! Thanks for what you and Jess do!

[@MadMax-op8pl]

I really want to know what my comment was now. But you should make a commitment to drag a camera around with u all over and record daily or nearly evey single day. Those aren't road blocks they are content but u will get there. Just dont give up. So excited to see this bc this is what ur content is mean tto be like u riding around doing stuff. Sometimes with a kid, sometimes on a horse, and sometimes a drone footage. U earth sign people bear the weight of all the rest of the signs bc the rest of the elements land on the earth. And u r being real that's all u need to do. Just record excess and then you can schedule out ahead and you dont gotta explain squat. But i always thought there should be a men at work video channel for the women 😂😂 just the facts we don't need corn 😂just a man building a raised bed for his wife. Seriously oh and any mechanic work is absolutely a personal favorite. P.s. my name is Max-an Benfield on Fb friends of roots and refuge group too BTW.

[@elainesunflowermbraece]

Oh sweet Miah!! First off, thank you for your service 🫡. I’m a single Marine mom and I too become so overwhelmed and discouraged and you just think Lord not again! But I have found that when we pray for patience, God gives us something to be patient about, when we ask for strength he puts us in situations that would break us. I have learned so much from you and Jess and because of you and Jess I have built my own raised bed garden, build a chicken coop, build a floating deck for a mini greenhouse and have so much more planned. Just keep being yourselves, the good the bad and the ugly because we love you for it! Also remember that those who truly care and love us and see the value in us are the ones to call us on our 💩, no sugar coating! Because those are the ones that will continue to push us to greatness!! Semper Fi

[@reneecandelaria5141]

Hey, I can't wait to see your generator video. I need knowledge.

[@Blondinationjoe]

Not normally a commenter but have been following Roots since 2018, farmers table since it started and now you. I am grateful for you showing up and being real. I too would be happy to just “do you”, just takes us for the ride… I’m sure many feel the same 😊

[@ChristyStoerm]

Just check in when you can. It's okay. Prioritize the kids first. Even what you do with the kids could be really encouraging. Thankful that you are sharing your life, and thanks for connecting when you can!

[@jessicaalonsonorton7366]

So one of the reasons I like watching you and Jess is that you are real. Life happens and you have to roll with it. You just pivot. I think it's important to show that too. 😊

[@HC123]

Family first. Family before content (videos). Will be here when you are able. No pressure.

[@havenacresmaine]

Other homesteaders, other farmers. We get it. We all have the pressure, high expectations of our own selves; and often take on more than we can actually do. Welcome back!

[@thekaylornator]

Thanks Miah! To post or not post is not really about personal preference. I've personally set lots of goals over my 71+ years on God's earth. I've personally allowed many of those goals fall to the wayside. I get where you're coming from. You recognize what's holding you back and keeping you from accomplishing what you intended. Maybe instead of twice per week, Monday & Thursday, the goal should be once per week. You're a very responsible guy and a very focused guy. However, life is made for living. That means we tend to over- complicate it and fail to keep the important things...the important things. I'm praying for you and supporting you in your resolve to do the posting. If you find you cannot meet the two per week goal...well it's okay. I'll paraphrase an old saying I've heard all my life as it applies to your goal..."no one on their death bed ever said I wish I'd spent more time making content". One of my favorite sayings is "IIWII" "It Is What It Is" or as Yoda would say "Do or Do Not There Is No Try". I know you can do whatever you set your mind to do. So, go with Yahweh's leading and guidance and you can never go wrong. ❤

[@Ricci.w]

Thank you for being real! You are a “man’s man” as they say, but real men have feelings and struggles and experience successes and failures but it does not diminish who they are. It’s so hard to come to grips with who we are and accepting our strengths and weaknesses but you and Jess have done this in a very public forum. All while teaching us to be self-sufficient. I admire and respect you both for your continued transparency and willingness to press in and press on in the midst of it all. This summer has been a crushing summer for many, but God is still on the throne and when I see others taking time to acknowledge that, and recognize how much they needed Him to get through the crushing seasons, it makes me feel like I’m not alone… anyway, thank you Miah, thank you Jess, you continue to be a blessing in the good times and the bad and God will bless you for your faithfulness.

[@CynBay]

With all the "shtuff" that has been thrown at you guys the past few months - you still have the wherewithal to voice your thoughts and prayers for us Floridians with Milton's Mess. Thank you Miah and Jess.❤❤