No one is coming to save you.

[@makelifemedicine]

If this hits a nerve, it's probably a sign you've been waiting for SOMEONE- prince charming, mommy or daddy to come and rescue you...the fairytale is over. Welcome to reality 👁

[@TonyZagr]

Hi sister

[@makelifemedicine]

@TonyZagr Hey there 😉

[@TonyZagr]

@@makelifemedicine may I ask your name?

[@makelifemedicine]

@@TonyZagr Caitlin! I think it says it on my channel 🤔

[@Beau-h7q]

@@makelifemedicine What about princess charming? She has not showed up at my front door and I'm pissed 😂

[@BobMinelli]

The late great John Trudell would often say blaming others takes us off the hook of being responsible. Add guilt sin and blame which is the Trinity of the chains that holds everybody down. We're not guilty we're responsible and by taking responsibility is where we grow as human beings.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@BobMinelli That's right 💗

[@keiserphoto]

Yeah, I know this. I’ve said for years ‘you have to be your own rescuer’… yet your point blank statement reminding me that is hard to watch. Because it’s so true.

[@makelifemedicine]

Absolutely. Good on you for understanding this early on 💕

[@ronangoulart22]

Thanks!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@ronangoulart22 YOU! 💕 Thank you, always 🙏🏼

[@deepbludude4697]

Ive lived by this ethic all my life but thanks for pointing it out to others.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@deepbludude4697 You get it 😉

[@pixieshine777]

Love this, I want to install this program in my brain! More content like this please and thank you 🙏

[@makelifemedicine]

@@pixieshine777 Well aren't you just the sweetest little thing in the whole wide world?! My goodness, thank you! I appreciate it more than you know 💗 And I will definitely keep the content coming 😉

[@pixieshine777]

@@makelifemedicine the way I melted when you said that! 🥰 I love ENTPs

[@makelifemedicine]

@ You think I'm an ENTP?! Never gotten that one before. In the past I first tested as an INFJ, but I've tested several times in the last 7 years and it's always INFP.

[@pixieshine777]

@ Yeah I’m getting ENTP vibes! It could be the narrow context in which I see you, KZbin videos where you’re ardently & intelligently ranting with what feels like auxiliary Ti. Your sweet appreciation of my comment felt like an ENTP’s tertiary Fe to me. I enjoy a theory of ‘INFJ having developed their tertiary Ti so it’s coming through stronger’. An INFJ would probably pull more punches though (I’m looking at the pinned comment right now 😁). I’m not getting INFP (and I was married to one) but if you keep getting that on tests it could be because ENTP and INFP both have high Ne. Or because ENTP, INFJ, and INFP all ‘give a shit’ so to speak. If you have 8 in your Enneagram that could also be causing you to get INFP test results because it would have you wielding Ti for Fi reasons (Fi having much to do with values) but the way you incisively articulate those values is giving ENTP auxiliary Ti for me. As an INFJ myself though I do love to leap to conclusions with limited information 😅

[@makelifemedicine]

@pixieshine777 This is fascinating. We need to talk more about this 😂 I've always been fascinated with MB, but also just personality assessments in general. I'm an Enneagram 4x5 🤔 Now I want to take the Myers-Briggs again!

[@embracethewizardwithin]

💯 I so feel you, I've been this person in my past and I see it all around me within my friends, family, co-workers, and complete strangers. "The certainty of misery is preferable to the misery of uncertainty." ~ Virginia Satir

[@makelifemedicine]

It's so freaking common, isn't it? I love that quote 💕

[@adelarsen9776]

4 important things in life - Health, Family, Freedom and Integrity. Carnivore diet is proper human behavior. No one is coming to save you.

[@EricMoore790]

Sometimes people really do awful things to you but one should always work hard to become hard to mess with.

[@makelifemedicine]

I like your style 😉

[@oonojoe]

Nobody's ever been betrayed by their enemies.

[@BenIsFiguringitOut]

Damn! You’re always on point!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@BenIsFiguringitOut well geez thank you! I appreciate that 😌💗

[@EricNoel-qv4gy]

It ain’t easy looking at yourself. It’s mighty easy to let yourself be distracted from it tho.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@EricNoel-qv4gy The distraction is not only easy, it feels GOOD most of the time. It's a seductive little f*ck...

[@GASMONEYLITERACY]

Amen sister! Keep spitting facts!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@GASMONEYLITERACY Thank you! Appreciate you 🙏🏼💗

[@GASMONEYLITERACY]

@ I have shared your videos to my friend and business groups. I have a team of brokers who are all entrepreneurs who have goals and dreams! They need a new voice to hear the same things they hear me talk about. It’s my pleasure to send it to them! Great content that’s very focused and the messaging is on point! Keep being you! You are on the rise sister!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@GASMONEYLITERACY Wow, this is so flattering. Thank you so much for sharing this with me. Hopefully it resonates with your team! I know sometimes people do need to hear the same thing from someone else's mouth 😂

[@lakerskid2013]

Back when Cingular was a phone company, they had a slogan named “Raising the bar.” That applies so much to every aspect of your life, you have to keep raising the bar to high standards while looking within and continuing expansion. You’ll always get out what you put in when it comes to anything in life.

[@makelifemedicine]

Who knew Cingular would be so prophetic? 😂 You ain't lyin though.

[@4Authenticity]

Accountability. Everyone wants it, few are willing to be it.

[@makelifemedicine]

Agreed 100%

[@John-Jay-Allen]

People have real issues in today’s society taking accountability about their actions that end up in negative outcomes!

[@makelifemedicine]

100% its an epidemic 😂

[@EricNoel-qv4gy]

Another well put delivery of wise counsel from you! I can only hope the masses that need to hear it , will tune in. I firmly believe we live in a world that has made it more difficult to follow that guidance , thanks to technology. I have always been self directed, for better or worse. (much to my parents chagrin, at times) ) , but it requires self reflection and , that requires time, and in todays world , technology has gone out of its way to make it very difficult to be left undistracted long enough to accomplish this. My feelings are that the first dicipline needed is to intentionally disconnect for meaningful periods of time , and engage in some serious self reflection. Long enough to get beyond the "wallowing in self pity period". A chance to choose your own direction and head in it.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@EricNoel-qv4gy yes, I agree. That is 100% what is required. That path has to be chosen willingly...and this is where we run into problems 😂 For whatever reason it's not the most popular path 😉💗

[@EricNoel-qv4gy]

Indeed, but that’s a good thing for you! And I have no idea how my last message wound up under someone else’s response. That’s how me and tech roll together. 😂

[@makelifemedicine]

@@EricNoel-qv4gy 😂 Well, I found it so that's all that matters! 😉

[@JakeyWakey]

It's a major shift. It hurts at first. But yeah... Worth it.

[@makelifemedicine]

It sure does...ultimately liberating 💕

[@PersianDollTarot]

So many of my subscribers, think sky daddy’s coming to rescue them😂

[@Chaitogether]

Great channel!! 🎉❤

[@redrider8036]

Another great and short video! Keep up with these bangers and your channel should blow up! American society needs this in a bad way!

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

I've been blaming me for as long as I can remember. Granted, I witness the screw ups from people around me, but it was me that should of avoided them to start with. All that said....waiting on me hasn't worked. Me seems to not know how to get ...unstuck. Oh well....I'll turn to ice cream.

[@riseandshine3053]

I feel this…. down to the ice cream

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Dancing_Alone_wRentals 😂 In all seriousness though... conscious you knows how to get unstuck. It's unconscious you (the subconscious) that is getting in the way, and feeding you ice cream 😉)

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

I don't know @@makelifemedicine ...every time I come up with a new ingenious idea designed to get my train back on the tracks.....things seem to just get worse and... I'm back in line asking for two scoops.

[@smallworksbigbiker]

Brilliant advice

[@makelifemedicine]

@@smallworksbigbiker Thank you! 💗

[@markangel8278]

The sooner we realize no one is coming to rescue us the faster we can start living . I like the way you think.

[@makelifemedicine]

100%! And thank you 💕

[@itshsilva]

Hey Caitlin! Sorry for a comment outside of the scope of the video, but I don't recommend you getting a ring light... skip it in favor of a COB light with a softbox, and I would suggest the combo of Amaran 60x S + Amaran Lightdome Mini SE (since you prefer to have less stuff as possible, and being able to move easily). Promise you'll get more value and usability of these instead of a ring light. 😉

[@davidmoran4875]

Because we see life through a false duality of success and failure. Once we've cultivated self compassion in the midst of what is falsly perceived as 'failure,' we'll continue to strive and refine ourselves. Then others will see the results that they perceive as success and ask, 'How did you do it?' to which the refined person can respond by acknowledging that they strove through self compassion until they reframed their perceptions of failure as opportunities for growth. 🙏

[@makelifemedicine]

Precisely 💗

[@ariffjasmani8729]

6 *Keys* to Progress : 1. *Nobody cares* about you, so you better *care about yourself* 2. Guard your *eyes* 3. If you want to change your *outputs,* change your *inputs* 4. There's *nothing wrong* with you 5. Choose your *own suffering* and *stick* with it 6. Get *hyped*

[@makelifemedicine]

@@ariffjasmani8729 Haha, I like these 💗💗

[@nw8000]

That is one funky shirt what brand is it? I want one.

[@makelifemedicine]

It's from Amazon (don't come at me 🤣)

[@nw8000]

@@makelifemedicine If it looks good its looks good, doesn't matter who makes it 🙂

[@makelifemedicine]

@nw8000 😂 ok phew 😅 Thanks!

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

Fantastic video! You speak with such animation. I was reminded of some of those Disney characters that are larger than life. tHanks for the video!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Dancing_Alone_wRentals 😂 I take that as a compliment! I am nothing if not animated! Thanks for watching 💗

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

@@makelifemedicine yes!....If it isn't positive I'm not going to say it. ( That said, your videos make it easy to write nice things ) * my videos make people pause, reflect on how many wrong decisions they made in life that led them to me.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Dancing_Alone_wRentals You are a gem 💎 Your videos sound very impactful 💕

[@stephanie4175]

I find myself incapable of figuring out how to fix my problems. I blame myself 1000%, but I don’t feel good. I think worthless and helpless are my go to thoughts. I don’t know what to do. I say that constantly. I want this year to be a year of change.

[@makelifemedicine]

This is so cliche, but "be the change" 😉 You also need to choose different thoughts. I know it doesn't FEEL like it's a choice, but it is. And self blame is not the same as self responsibility and accountability. The former is destructive and unhelpful, while the latter is empowering and productive. If you want this year to be a year of change, then MAKE IT ONE. It is on you, 100%. If you believe you are incapable of fixing your problems, then that will be your reality. You have to shift out of victim mentality. Take your power back. 💗

[@monicatriant1207]

I really get what you’re saying and there are so many people that do suffer in this mentality, but I am the antithesis to what you were saying and if I am not taking responsibility, please share in the comments, but I worked as a psychiatric nurse and I had to remove a little 23 year-old girl down from a door in which she hung herself and this affected me mentally because I have children and it disturbed me that such a young child would want to end her life and then this affected my mental state and cause a medical psychosis in which, then I punched a nurse for some unknown reason while I was seeking medical help and I was served with felony assault charges, and I can now not work as a nurse, and I am very lost and trying to take accountability for my actions when all I was doing was doing my job…

[@makelifemedicine]

@@monicatriant1207 In this case, I would definitely be working with a psychiatrist and attorneys. And I'd also (as annoying and trite as it may sound) trust that I'm being guided, and that I'm supported. And that I WILL find my way again. Sometimes it's impossible to make sense of what happens. It's pointless to even try. But what you can do is to not let it become a wasted experience. In other words, find the beauty. I promise, it's there.

[@monicatriant1207]

@ - hey, thank you for your kind words and understanding. You are correct and I am doing just that. I am working at a gas station right now and I am ok with that because the work environment is way less stress and I really don’t want to be a nurse at this point in my life… I will get there. I was nervous about my original comment because I know your message wasn’t in regard for freak ass situations like mine so again, thank you for not blasting me on that lol You are super awesome!!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@monicatriant1207 Haha of course, I would never blast you 😉 You are doing great. Take it day by day, and the pieces will start to fall in place again 💕

[@monicatriant1207]

@ haha, well this may turn into “How to Survive Living In Your Car” if the market is not already flooded with videos like that… let me check Chat GBT 🤣🤣🤣

[@makelifemedicine]

@@monicatriant1207 it's actually a fabulous idea

[@PersianDollTarot]

Great videos, keep up the good work and that background is beautiful. I honestly don’t know if it’s real or fake lol.

[@Chaitogether]

Lame ass life 😂😂😂 love this lol

[@Toxic_Male_Minimalist]

And nothing is more cringe than people who think a politician is going to fix their lives

[@makelifemedicine]

Oh that's the best of the best. Big Daddy Government 😂

[@douglaslangham4417]

Well aren't you just a ray of sunshine tonight.......😅

[@MsHoneyBBQ]

Weirdly, my problem is actually that i KNOW i'm the one creating my crap life but i can't figure out how to STOP doing that😆. i fully blame myself and that only makes me feel worse... but my understanding of this is the same as my answer to how u asked why people keep staying in this place of dismpowerment: because we've been taught to........ EVERYTHING is a habit. just like you said in another of ur recent videos, your belief about everything IS what is shaping your life. and everything is a HABIT of thought. "change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change," right?😉 when we start a new habit of thought, and let this new thought build momentum, it will replace the old conditioning... but sometimes, that conditioning be REAAALLLLL deep in there. lol. and it takes full committment to reshape it... but it CAN be done. EVERY time. the issue that i have with things is that i was told that i can "be, do, and have ANYTHING that i choose".... so, if this is the case, what if i WANT someone/something to come into my life and change it??? lol... i WANT to collaborate with others to build amazing things. and i recognize that there is strength in numbers, and that it's easier and more fun to create things with help. i am only one person and while i COULD try to do everything myself... why? when the world is full of SO many amazing and talented people?? i've tried for too long to do it all myself and i'm tired now. i just prefer help. i have nothing to prove to anyone or myself in saying "i did all that by myself!". i actually think that's part of the 'old system' u mentioned too. that belief system that tells us we all have to be independent (especially if you're a girl) and self-made all that. so, that's where i get a bit hung up. i kno it's me, but cant see how, feel bad that it's me and want help but am being told that i shouldnt want help, and then feeling bad about all these opposing thoughts and so i sit and do nothing, feeling overhwhelmed while being broke and hungry.... and yet, i am still self-aware enough to see that the only thing at play in life is WHAT I AM CHOOSING in each moment. so, if i have a tug of war in my vibration (wanting a thing while simultaneously believing that i can't have it, it's not possible, i don't deserve it, etc etc), then i will effectively hold that blessing away from myself indefinitely and then be all sad and whiny that my life isn't changing (which is pretty much what i've been doing, lol)..... But, i do actually understand what you're saying here. everything boils down to intention. the underlying vibration that you're holding about the thing that you're focused on. and the universe ONLY and ALWAYS says "YES" to everything we say we want. so, if you are 'waiting' for something to 'save' you (the first presumption here being that you think u need to be 'saved' from anything in the first place), then the Universe will say, "ok then. you are waiting." meaning that, you will continue to experience the process of 'waiting' for a thing that you wish to have but not actually recieving it. because that's the definition of 'to wait'.... my personal issue is that i understand much conceptually, but have yet to KNOW it experientially. but i'm getting there. and i know that i'm doing well.. but i still seem to have a few weird things in the way that i can't quite get past..... i really like your content. thank you for speaking on these things that are really prominent in my field of attention atm... i have been struggling to find a satisfying way to attract/allow in financial abundance and have been repeating the same damn cycle for over 5years now and this video actually helped me see things a little clearer..... i hope to have a breakthru VERY soon now. lol Sending 💖

[@xikano8573]

Not DT or Jeezy Creezy or Aliens or AI?!? Wwwhhhhaaat??? 😢😢😢

[@makelifemedicine]

I don't even know what half of that means 😂

[@xikano8573]

@makelifemedicine 🤣🤣🤣

[@eyekelly1530]

THIS PART RIGHT HERE: “The problem with waiting for other people to fix your life is that they don’t care enough. Because **no one feels the weight of your struggles that you do**It’s not their responsibility. So **no one is going to feel the sense of urgency that things need to change the way you feel”**Very well said. 🫡 That resonated with me for my own wellbeing AND in another way you may not have been addressing…it emphasized the likelihood of how heavy or intense things might feel for my closest loved ones on top of the emotional weight I feel for them. The challenges of life. These messages are appreciated.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@eyekelly1530 I'm glad it resonated with you 💕

[@chambde9]

P.S I'm a ticket too, that's why I resonate with you, ha!

[@makelifemedicine]

I like it... "ticket"...I'm going to start using it! 😂

[@eldanno5970]

Ring lights kinda suck. Get a small COB light and softbox kit, more expensive but much better, much more control and power.

[@Dancing_Alone_wRentals]

Or have a look at what Markuspix suggested recently.

[@MikeyP109]

Massive projection.

[@MrDemetrius98]

Love your personality, if I had a channel it would be this. This is me, talking to family and friends. Some appreciate and most don't. But things need to be SAID! We're Kindred Spirts for sure. #Subscribed

[@skc-wg2yq]

it's "bugs" for me😅

[@makelifemedicine]

@@skc-wg2yq 🤣 #wehaveaninfestation

[@Fancycent]

True true

[@Bulltradernitin]

Nice video

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Bulltradernitin Thank you!

[@chambde9]

You're a ticket 😅 and I say that very, very endearingly. Good stuff. I honor your passion and your heart. I also like the way you talk or your voice - I can't quite put my finger on it. It's both I suppose. Blest be the tie.

[@makelifemedicine]

A ticket, eh? I think that's a first! Haha. I will take it as a compliment 😉 Thank you, I appreciate you 💕

[@chambde9]

@@makelifemedicine Compliment in every way ☺💕

[@makelifemedicine]

@chambde9 I figured as much 😉

[@kyle22071]

Im no longer stuck family evicted me because im to honest lmao I'll rather die from cold

[@makelifemedicine]

Stay strong ✊

[@clarkesid]

Conscious direction is the problem. Fear. Our innate intelligence is organic but we are taught from birth that artificial patterns and artificial measurements is the same as organic when it's not the same. Artificial measurements which is most of mathmatics which expands or despands upon quantity where quantity is organic Intelligence. Artificial measurements also turns life into a game where the universe is not a game. The false ego is when the brain perceives a lie is truth and then will lie and can be controlled thru artificial concepts and beliefs severed from the organic natural world. It's an identity crisis where we are all the universe here experiencing life as one whole piece but the false ego believes names are real and then becomes separate from the whole and tries to fill the void with artificial concepts. The real problem is the authority positions that enforce this conscious deception upon the children where they believe that they are correct in teaching the artificial is the same as the organic when it's not. Then when an adult breaks free from conscious deception and exposed the danger to authority they become triggered and invade or attack. Therefore, humanity is being programmed to except invasion under slave morality. This has been going on for thousand upon thousands of not millions of years now. Solutions. No more hypocrites. Teach the difference between artificial and organic concepts and not before the children can organically understand what artificial means. Artificial means unnatural patterns and unnatural measurements that is not our innate organic intelligence. People that have been attacked for exposing this problem need relief and the support of the people to get it fixed immediately.

[@makelifemedicine]

Well thought out analysis 💗

[@DrmCom2003]

So what you're saying is, no one's coming to save me? (Le sigh)

[@makelifemedicine]

Sadly, 'tis le truth 😉

[@DrmCom2003]

@@makelifemedicine Ugh fine

[@makelifemedicine]

@@DrmCom2003 😆

[@carlito5011]

I demand someone rescue me... and bring pizza. 🤨

[@makelifemedicine]

Demands, eh? 😂 Pizza seems reasonable though!

[@carlito5011]

@@makelifemedicine I'll share one slice... minus the crust (thats mine). I'm not a monster. 🤷😆

[@megamusicmessenger]

The important question is , does it have pineapple ?

[@carlito5011]

@@megamusicmessenger blasphemy

[@megamusicmessenger]

@carlito5011 how dare you !

[@Bo-zr5yu]

I'm waiting for Jesus to come back/to die. I've lived.

[@EricMoore790]

You could do another tub video is you want lol.

[@makelifemedicine]

Why thank you for the permission 😂

[@PirateWasHere]

hey, what do you think about newest AI models ? . I mean that now most people feels lonely, while simple AI models are soo good, that there is nearly no way to tell if this is AI, so you can feel like this is your best friend with all needed knowledge. Never mean, angry, always " Comforting " . Soon most population will find, AI "friendship" as a better choice than with other human beeing. Now we can see that delusional people can change their gender to " Magic Pink Penguin " so LGBT+++ . It happen because there is too much freedom, and AI will give even more " Mental " freedom. Do you think that we are doomed ,? or that you will be able to change mind of kids which will be born in next 10 years , where there will bo no job for us ? I am watching your videos, and I am curious about your POV, because psychology says " You can not help someone , if you will not change world around them & to do it you have to see what they see ". Cheers

[@makelifemedicine]

@@PirateWasHere can you clarify this last sentence? I'm slightly confused by what you're saying..." You cannot help someone, If you will not change world around them and to do it you have to see what they see." What exactly do you mean by this? Then I can answer more accurately 😂

[@coolrip007]

Stop wasting time waiting for the other one change and be a better partner. Just leave the marriage and find real freedom! * years and 80k wasted!

[@aaron___6014]

Is this your parents kitchen? I heard your reaume and Im not understanding how you bankroll a home with a kitchen like that.

[@michaelpoczynek]

The best way to predict the future is to create it. 😀

[@makelifemedicine]

@@michaelpoczynek That's right 😉

[@Beau-h7q]

Did you get that necklace at a larp? Do u wanna go Larping w/me?

[@makelifemedicine]

Idk what that means 😅

[@rickchollett]

@@makelifemedicine LARP is "live action role play." They are quite enjoyable! Especially the medieval ones!

[@makelifemedicine]

@rickchollett oh! I've heard the term but never knew 😂

[@rickchollett]

@@makelifemedicine I went to my first one this month and I'm hooked! I've got them planned throughout the year already!

[@makelifemedicine]

@rickchollett That's awesome!