P1-What Happened To Me In China | The Deportation

[@jonimartin5961]

My 18 YO daughter was talked into going to Taiwan to teach young children. Once there, the principal, who had met her in the US and was the one that talked her into this horrible plan, became a different person. Once there, the principal told my daughter she had to sign papers stating she had a four year degree. My daughter refused, saying the principal knew she only had a high school diploma. The principal also confiscated her passport. My daughter called me to say that this was in no way what was offered to her before she left the US. I called the consulate office in Taipei to let them know my daughter was in trouble there. The consulate called the principal directly to let her know they were monitoring the situation and that this girl needed to return to the US. Long story short, my daughter was taken to the airport in a week and returned home.

[@linaa3469]

❤❤❤

[@MisterMediocre666]

Imagine my shock...

[@Ulriiich23]

very common with these psychs, they thik the world revolves around them

[@ranchuchip]

Yo, taiwan is not china

[@jonimartin5961]

@@ranchuchip No Kidding? I offered that comment because there are some good and bad countries to teach. Even though Taiwan is supposed to be “Western Friendly”, it was a total crap experience for my daughter. At least in China there is a US embassy. In Taiwan, there is only consulate offices due to the issues between China and Taiwan, and the only consulate office was a two hour drive.

[@MrUndersolo]

New sub! I was a teacher in Japan, and I avoided most of what you went through, but many women went through things that were too awful to contemplate. I watched your earlier video, and I think that you should write a book about this. I have friends who have worked in Korea and China, and this is a story that people need to consider if they are going to work overseas. Many thanks, and stay strong! -from a West Indian living in Canada

[@walkingaround360]

First mistake, going to China with a tourist visa when your purpose is to work there. Second mistake, not reading the entry card they give you in the airplane, there it says you have 30 days to make your residence permit

[@lz9672]

You are absolutely correct.

[@fionaslife]

The first mistake you made (without judgement) was moving there in 2022 when there was a mass exodus from china (including myself) trying to leave and a black girl died in Shanghai during that time. I absolutely agree with you 110% the energy is completely off in China. It wasn't bad when I moved there in 2017, but when the end of 2019 hit and we couldn't get back into the country during the Chinese New Year holiday, and when we could all get back in, we couldn't get out. I remember being on the last plane from Thailand heading to China. China was so harsh. They made a random last minute decision/rule that anyone on a plane heading to china, needs to land by midnight or they cannot get in. Do you know the people on the planes that missed that deadline (that they were also unaware of this new decision/rule) were never allowed back into the country and were away from their families, belongings, etc until 2022. Only being allowed back in with special permission. They were closing down training schools and going into international schools to remove and change systems. It was very difficult times.

[@dr_muyoka]

Wow! This is incredible. I can't imagine what that was like for anyone who had to go through that.

[@siziwemk3750]

Girl I agree, China after 2020 was hell 😭 I’m still traumatized. The mass exodus was brutal it’s like they were going on a witch hunt

[@mimimtambo1131]

her name was Noma, we exchanged money once 😔 did they ever release the cause of death ?

[@fionaslife]

@@siziwemk3750 😔 so many experiences and fears all at the same time. This doesn't justify how she was treated, but the whole event was irrational and the behaviour of the chi ppl was irrational too.

[@fionaslife]

@@dr_muyoka living in fear, anxiety, stress, and the unknown.

[@ThabbyShenge]

One thing I have learned in this place is once they keep emphasizing what they “did for you” and how “far they had to go” to save you,”, they are indirectly telling you that you are owing them in someway and they will come back to collect. I am not surprised that she kept telling you about how much you didn’t have to go back to SK. Eyi futh madoda👐🏾

[@nondumisomathenjwa5075]

We Thaby lapho they don’t even care what you have done and what you have sacrificed for them yoooooh ngyababonga mina

[@lindc1070]

They do that to staff who act Entitled.

[@juliamccarthy6695]

@@lindc1070iam not sure about it. Iam an American and a friend of mine would work for a Chinese company from the United States. When she visited the head quarters in China she could not believe how the bosses would talk to the employees. This would never happen in the United States unless you want to be sue and pay a huge amount of money for harassment. China is not to the level of the civilized world.

[@iaaniceboywat]

Story telling is your calling….i could listen to you go on and on and on and won’t even lose an ounce of concentration

[@lewis20002000]

YES, she is a very good storyteller.

[@1ZZFE]

You mean she is faking it?

[@katiebouldin305]

I’m so thankful you were able to leave that country. How terrifying. You are a beautiful, courageous warrior! Sending you love light and continued strength 🩵💜♥️

[@mairahmanzini2928]

I'm so impressed at how you stood up for yourself with that manipulative woman. Evil people always show their true colours when you don't go along with their nonsense.

[@linaa3469]

❤ Correct.

[@02loud]

They literally had one job 😐 I'm an international student and can relate in the sense that I trusted an agent to do some paperwork for me, total fail! I demanded to check it over first before submitting because he was rushing everything. Inaccuracies, spelled my name wrong etc. Got rid of him and his shabby paperwork. I also do everything myself now.

[@lastspoil5547]

You’re blessed in the eyes of Christ. ✝️

[@covermin]

I am sorry, this situation happened to you. It breaks my heart to know there is another level of hatred in some countries overseas. We experience racism and discrimination in America, but I'm hearing more and more stories like this from China. Definitely wouldn't feel comfortable visiting there now.

[@ladydusk1]

This is great you sharing your experience with others like this. I had already decided that China was one country I don't care to even visit and your experiences have confirmed that for me.

[@africanbeauty6556]

I can’t wait to listen to to you tomorrow, I like the way you tell things very clearly with confidence . I enjoy listening to you .Good to see you back here .Big hugs 🤗

[@ginac-u4s]

I live in Thailand, the feeling of being cursed is how I feel here, so don't run over here- money is terrible, horrible bosses, visa runs that cost you money, its costs YOU money to work here..... just FYI

[@lira2414]

Thank you for your comment I was considering moving there.😢

[@ThePinkPantha21]

It's like this in most Asian countries based on who you work for. I loved Thailand but it wasn't good working for others on contract while doing so. People glamorize being an expat way too much.

[@lindc1070]

So why dont you just stay in Africa?

[@sibusisomanentsa7952]

Ariana what are you doing here??

[@lisanomafola6804]

When did u come to Thailand? It's been 4months to me it's not hecting at all just the salary is too little

[@dennisndirangu2536]

We love you Nolu and you look so beautiful, greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@linaa3469]

​@@Nolusindiso_HlekoI love you too! 💓 From Far-East of Russia!❤❤❤

[@Aeon1019]

Our MELANIN Goddess, please know MANY went through various traumas during and after C0VID, But the Universe Had y0ur back in 0rder to get y0u to see 0ur Enemies and t0 M0VE Y0U BACK T0 THE MOTHERLAND! Welc0me Back. Peace, Healing and Much Bliss 🙏🏾

[@Ms.Me.MuRuiQi]

Thanks for sharing your story. It serves as a good reminder that yes, everyone has a responsibility to make sure he/she is legally in the country. Always look at your own passport(s) and visas/permits while being mindful of all remarks and expiration dates (I believe on the Z visa it specifically states that you are required to apply for a resident permit within 30 days and the little blue (formerly yellow) entry card reminds you of your responsibility to register your address within 24 hours). Businesses will do whatever it takes to keep their profits high (even at the detriment/expense of their employees), and it is not uncommon to use this terrible “leverage tactic”.

[@Karalolcowlaw]

You’re making too much sense, concepts like self responsibility and accountability are lost on this creator.

[@diasporaconnecttanzania3521]

I am so glad you made it out in 1 piece sis! Glad for you, to live and tell your story!

[@chosen_one1602]

I can't really comment. Africa and China has a certain relationship, I do not understand. As an African American going to China has never crossed my mind.

[@m_martha_e]

Consider Taiwan instead! I’m a black Jamaican woman and was fine ❤

[@sic_transit_gloria_mundi]

Indeed, the relations between China and African countries are called a win-win. By the Chinese.

[@SheKingLifestyle]

Always, proud of you! I am in awe of your courage & strength. Thank you for speaking your truth about some of the atrocities of working abroad (albeit we are grateful for the blessings to be able to do this). Most importantly, thank you for taking care if yourself even as you continue to share. You have saved many. I was just sharing with a friend yesterday that I wish South Africa provided enough resources and opportunities for us so we don’t have to seek them elsewhere. We have the most beautiful country and we deserve to also enjoy its perks. Take care lovely.

[@Magcuda]

You are too articulate 🥺. So clean 🫧 and calm

[@THE-id1by]

Clean?

[@Magcuda]

@@THE-id1by I said what I said ❤️!

[@Accuface2000]

This was so informative. You are so articulate and a good story teller.

[@siziwemk3750]

Reminds me of my last job in China, worst year out of my 8 years there. Usually the employers handle picking up at the airport, finding accommodation and basically treat you like an egg, my first 2 jobs were like that. But the third one 🙌🏽 I have no words

[@abena8339]

Story time?

[@channlegirltocaboca1153]

Are you still there?

[@deadby15]

in the past few years, the Chinese government's policies have changed and they are way more anti-West now. You can get arrested for "Spying" without any evidence. The absurd thing is, they never tell you WHY you got arrested.

[@siziwemk3750]

@@channlegirltocaboca1153 I left, they didn’t give me my last months salary, it’s been a year now

[@siziwemk3750]

@@abena8339 long story, but yeah basically after Covid they changed so many laws about English learning - a lot of English training centers were shut down due to this including the one I worked at (big company with over 200 schools in the country and 10 in the city I was in ) had me unemployed for like 5 months, didn’t get my salary for the last 2 months I worked there including my annual bonus which was a lot, they claimed they wanted to refund parents their tuition fees first then the teachers would get their salary, never happened even when a bunch of people sued. Found a new job, took 2 months to start coz that city was in lockdown so schools were not open. This was a kindergarten, when it was time to move the school refused to make arrangements for the move or even pick up, but agreed we could send our belongings to the address of the school. When I got there no one from the school came to meet us to help find accommodation, first 🚩 i asked for a salary advance to make a down payment for 3 months rent and 1 month deposit on the apartment like how other schools do to help you settle in since I was low on cash due to the lockdowns and unemployment, the school refused saying they don’t have money lol, I spent 2 weeks looking for a suitable apartment while living with a friend. Fast forward school is about to start they went through the agent for us to go and collect our belongings coz they were cleaning up getting ready to open the school, did that and then school started. Second 🚩 they refused to pay for my visa which was a first for me, and the immigration in that city or the agent were scammers they asked for a hefty amount of money for it to be processed, it’s usually ¥400 they were asking for like ¥17,000. Out of desperation I paid with a payment plan from the school about monthly deductions from the school (they said they would put in half but never did). Anyways third 🚩 it wasn’t just normal English teaching like all the other schools, barely had time to prepare for my classes they required me to be with the students 24/7 during all their classes (PE, Chinese, Art, Culture, Music) I was co- teaching all these classes during the day despite each classroom having 5 teachers in there all day. Watch the kids during meal times and nap times (though there’s a full time Nanny in the classroom all day). So this included feeding the students, preparing their beds for nap time, soothing them to sleep sometimes, dressing them up before and after nap time, doing their hair and all that that’s not a part of being an English teacher. They expected us to have a 30 min lunch break when it’s usually two hours and the contract said so too (mind you work started at 7:30-5:00 while the contract said 8:00-4:30), we had to fight for an hour break. Mind you all of this was not in the contract and some of it was against the contract. There was this weird rule that said every teacher should put their phones in the principals office the minute they get to the school and they could have it back by the end of the day when they’re going home to focus on students apparently , foreign teachers refused coz that was ridiculous and we needed our phones to have access to kids songs , printable flash cards and basic presentation of the classes. The school had only one computer to share amongst all the teachers including the printer which didn’t make sense no matter how many times we requested for another one. There was no proper English curriculum to follow I had to introduce one every English teacher could follow. There was a time when lunch break had some weird rule that we couldn’t use the common dining room for lunch break, instead we should just grab a chair and sit outside the door of your own classroom and eat there, like where do they do that at? 💀 that lasted for a short time because it just didn’t make sense how controlling management was. Fast forward after a year of hell, turned out they had changed my work permit from an English teaching position to a Caregiver position without my knowledge which is a big deal, they were withholding my work permit and didn’t want to give it to me. I ended up getting in trouble with the police almost got deported but didn’t, they refused to pay me since “I got in trouble with the law” even though it was their fault. Weird vibes those guys, that was my final straw I left the whole country.

[@nompumelelomdodana3867]

From the onset there was so much trouble... 😢

[@ItsMeYourfavorite7]

Honey 2022 to Shanghai 🥺 2022‼️Usually Chinese schools pay for flight, hotel and visa fees. If they don’t book they flight they reimburse you. They were really trying it. Good on you for standing on business and not paying that 3k

[@godornothingpodcast]

You are such an eloquent speaker. Well done.

[@EmpressJulia77]

I can relate to some of these things you’re saying😢. I am also livjng abroad on my own and sometimes i question my decision, and i have decided to document 🎥 it all. I wish you all the best in your future endeavours Nolu❤❤❤❤❤.

[@NomadicIslanders]

As a full-time traveller, there is nothing I hate more than immigration putting responsibility on the outsider when they don't know the process! In some countries you have to register your address with the police within 48 hours, however ONLY your hotel or AirBnB host can register for you. If THEY don't register for you, YOU are the one who is responsible and you to pay the fine. If it's my responsibility, why not give me the ability to do it myself in the first place?! How do you give the local the ability to do it, but the foreigner the responsibility to make sure it is done. So in a lot of the Eastern European countries we have to run after our hosts for days to make sure they register us 🙄. I hate inefficient legal systems. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us.

[@rosshilton]

What a remarkably eloquent young lady. You are clear, concise, and speak precisely with good pronunciation. You should go into media.

[@sammypop160]

Please write the book girl. I would read it. Trust me you have so many important points. People back home need to understand.

[@blueirene2659]

Hi Nolu, so normally I wouldn’t comment- or I’d say you know what- this is China, it is what it is- just suck it up BUT I’m so sorry this happened to you! It was really horrible. The whole residence permit situation wasn’t your fault, it was their mess. I also applaud you for standing your ground regarding the payment however that could have placed a target on you. I’m yet to watch p2 and p3. Thanks for sharing your experience, it’s important for all of us especially those in China.

[@queenm7525]

Finally I found your channel again 🎉 i guess it serves me right for not subscribing to behin with but I'm all subscribed now. There are other people talking about the same things but You tell it better ❤

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@ashenaura]

You handled yoursell very well. Great story and story-telling. we kow-tow to you, 3X🙏📿

[@africanstories-o8d]

Am happy that you managed to run and you okay now, when i saw that video myself i cried

[@phridays]

Is Japan an option? Probably similar problems but at least there are foreigner-operated schools where many of these things won't happen. Random people will still want to touch your hair though lol. Sorry to hear about your so many challenges. Stay strong, I hope you find your peace.

[@ThePinkPantha21]

What some of you dont get is that traveling abroad is a gamble. In every sense of word. These organizations give you contracts and bring you in and it is their responsibility to make sure your paperwork is legit because of immigration. Some of them will literally tell you oh its no problem we got it, not a big deal! There are soooo many ways it all can go even when you do what they tell you to do and what you are supposed to do. Been there done that. Its not a matter of judgment its a matter of trusting people who have hired you to work. This is why I suggest that if people are leaving their homes to go to a new place, do not give up your entire life back home in case it doesnt work out. At the least put somethings in storage so if you must come back you have something. And always have enough money to put yourself in a hotel for a month where you are going. Some of these organizations are lawless, it is NOT the fault of the applicant.

[@mannbill1]

You need to write that book and give details to show the world what it was like. It's truly story worthy.

[@ZolileLusiba-xi8wd]

Nolu God keep you my dear. Iam so sorry for everything that you went through. Iam in the process of moving out as well. It is toxic

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

Really toxic!!!

[@Magcuda]

Best wishes ❤

[@Akiellia]

First, I must say I am sorry to hear about your deportation situation. That must’ve been difficult. I am assuming based on the fact that the school semester starts in September they might have been disappointed that you weren’t there at the start. They should’ve told you to come in two weeks earlier so you could’ve gotten enough time to be quarantined and settled for school September morning. Overall thanks for sharing your story.

[@privatejapan5599]

I was thinking about you! Why don’t you just come and teach in Japan? I will help you for free. It is super easy to land a job and teach English here. It would probably only take two weeks.❤🎉😊

[@Fundudzi_]

Hey. Please share japanese recruiters

[@Faith.Chitengedza]

Hy @privatejapan5599 can you please help me

[@hershe4341]

I'm interested. Tell me more please. I can move from China ASAP

[@channlegirltocaboca1153]

I’m also interested to teach in Japan .. I also have a bad time in China too.

[@MeMi-w8k]

Hello love, can you help meto get a ESL job in Japan. Im comingfrom China with a similar story @privatejapan5599

[@debbiebarnette9715]

This is so horrible! You should tell everyone how badly you were treated and physically assaulted. I hope you can get them prosecuted.

[@RaviMehay]

Yes that's how I feel right now I am from the uk and British too but people are so mean to me here which never happened to me before. It is like a voodoo doll or something, I am not understood by anyone and no one feels for me at all

[@lewis20002000]

Somebody, please tell me what's the attraction for black people to go to China, maybe I am missing something. As mentioned, I lived in Germany for 6rys and LOVED it.

[@indigoskywalker]

it's like Qatar, the UAE and Oman, very similar behaviours. My wife is from Jamaica and had a really hard time in Qatar as a teacher. The thing is Nolu, surely you did your research about China and how racist they are about Africans? If I was African, China would be the last place on earth i would visit let alone work.

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

It's not about Racism. It is about Afticans not understanding these countries expect a higher standard of work and commitment. Thar is why they are way ahead. Her standard of work and attitude was not acceptable. Had she gone to other developed Asian countries, they would have sacked her too

[@indigoskywalker]

@@Sunshine-zi4nq in your opinion

[@siziwemk3750]

@@Sunshine-zi4nq you’re speaking from a place of ignorance. All they require is image, this lady is well educated and speaks English at a native level. Chinese schools will literally employ Russians/French and non English speaking Europeans citizens who only speak 20% of English for their esthetics, skin color, blonde hair, blue or green eyes. They can only have a high school diploma and no years of experience but still get paid more than a black or brown person with qualifications and experience. They don’t care about the quality of education when it comes to English, as long as they can sell the classes to parents who worship white people and look down on Africans or African Americans

[@moss_piglet]

@@Sunshine-zi4nq That's an insane thing to say 1. Countries in Africa are behind as you say because of the destabilizing nature of colonization and proxy wars committed by countries like America 2. The work culture in some SE asian countries is controversial in itself. Look up "black companies" in japan. It is about racism and you can't invalidate the stories of people like the woman in this video. People try and pretend like immigrants are freeloaders, but they get exploited very very often. Also, where did you learn that Africans lack commitment and are not hard working???? They are fighting for their lives and the lives of their families everyday in some places.

[@LifeWDeja]

I have a family that wants me to au pair and I’m getting ready to apply for the visa and then fly there from Thailand this month. I’ve really been thinking about if I should do it or not…

[@yasminbarry7941]

Congratulations on being so resilient! Your story is not just fascinating..... It's also going to help many other potential travelers.

[@animallover5890]

Girl! Red flags for the start!

[@dwayneclemons5497]

Anytime you have a society, where every day, at the end of the work day, no matter where you are in any city in China, you're going to hear the Kenny G soundtrack, "Going Home", then you know that there is something fundamentally wrong with that society. I just had to say it! Your unfortunate experience reaffirmed some doubts and suspicions I've had about China for too long. I'd look forward to go for a visit, I'd supposed. But I have no interest, whatsoever, to be there long term. While it's true that "racism, sexism and all other isms" are prevalent everywhere, apparently China is one of those societies where said isms are virtually legal.

[@user-lv5bt3nt3r]

I lived in China 2010 to 2013. As a blue eyed white guy I got treated like a rock star everywhere I went. Strangers would come up and ask for photos with me. But on my first day in the country I met a guy from Kenya who was studying medicine in Wuhan. He basically helped me get from Hong Kong to Guangzhou (where my chinese wife was waiting for me). During the bus ride he told me a lot about the racism he experienced daily. He said it was a lot of small daily things that really bugged him rather than really aggressive things. But at that time China was a very positive place with a lot of optimism about the future. Thats gone now, although i havent been back for about 6 years. One thing that amazed me during my time in China was a washing machine detergent powder advert. They had a really silly advert where a black guy gets in a washing machine, they put the detergent in and turned on the machine and then a white guy climbed out. I have to admit I laughed when I saw that advert but I was also amazed at the mass naivete of a country full of people who clearly had no idea how offensive that really was. I was really laughing at how completely out of touch with basic social norms chinese people in China were and probably still are. A lot of their racism - including the kind of I guess you would call the "positive racism" they had towards me - you can possibly put down to the fact that they really dont know any better, because they have very limited contact with foreigners. But the problem with that idea is that some chinese are absolutely lovely and very sensitive to these things and others can turn racist - in a very dark way - at the drop of a hat. Which I have also experienced in business dealings with China since leaving China. One of the weirdest things Ive found, while doing business in Singapore, is now much the singaporean chinese, hong kong chinese, malaysian chinese, and mainland chinese, all dislike each other. Ive actually heard the worst racists comments about chinese people, from other chinese people.

[@johnlesoudeur3653]

The globalists are trying to force mass multiculturism in the West and it is causing so many problems. Many of the woke people use Singapore as a paragon of successful diversity. Anyone who has worked there and looked under the surface will concur with your findings.

[@morena-jackson]

You tell stories very beautifully, you should try storytelling as maybe a side gig. You're very good at it and your beautiful accent really adds to it.

[@BatsiraiMusuka]

28:57 aahhh… the joys of being a foreigner. It is what it is. You are sort of in limbo of servitude to your host nation, second class citizen and if it’s a nicer country than yours a nice layer of wanderlust to glaze over all this.

[@melliesweets70]

Not to be disrespectful, but why would you move during Covid? Really sorry about your experience but sounds like you didn’t do enough research 🧐 happy you are home safe now ❤

[@janelleodionu3631]

This question is sooo stupid. The whole world was in shambles during Covid. It wasn't good or safe anywhere in the world. So where was she going to move?? Also, the money and opportunities and China can be really good for obtaining professional experience and building the initial stages of your life. China was harsh towards people during Covid, but people were dying right and left in the U.S. and in many African countries during Covid. In the U.S. the virus was handled poorly, so I myself decided to stay in China and put myself through school instead of coming back to the U.S. Please stop victim blaming.

[@PedraVanDerMerwe-mn6uc]

Nolu thank you for sharing your story💕💛

[@maynel6252]

After not getting a response the first time, it would have been my way out.

[@Bubblethedog-o7f]

lol I can’t believe they really charged you 9000 rmb my husband is American, every time we renew the visa it was a smooth process even if it’s delayed… I think the reason they gave u a hard time is cuz they trying to punish the kindergarten for not following the rules … so the staff should hold full responsibility, sorry u have to go through all these craps

[@suzicabingrub6515]

PASS THIS TO SERPENTZA if you haven't already.(other youtube channel) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He'll give it wide spread coverage!! So sorry for all you've been through..sending tons of healing vibes hun.

[@sibahlegqola7627]

All I can say is I'm happy to see you ❤

[@oyandakona5994]

Some asian people are cold Thank the universe for Miele , angels are everywhere❤️ Hope you heal and retro from this experience Ama china rhaaaa zizikhohkakali sana

[@jackholman5008]

All people are cold look at what africans do to each other too

[@priscilla8068]

​@@jackholman5008she literally said "some"🤦🏿‍♀️.

[@linvi_chemutai]

Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤️ Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️ Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace

[@Buhle1_Hadebe]

​@jackholman5008 😂😂😂😂😂Oh please

[@Talentaire]

Do you think Chinese culture is racist ? I have heard so many stories in that sense.... and lived one.

[@cherylyoke4872]

Thank you for sharing and I think for you to write a book is a good idea and then promote it by going on talk shows.

[@Akiellia]

Also, once we arrive at the hotel, they generally register us. So it is the hotel’s responsibility to do the registration so they should want to fine the hotel not you sighhh

[@DoogieFresh]

You are sooooooooo pretty. Okay, that is all. Okay, that's not all. You don't need the wig. You're very beautiful without it.

[@stephaniebell8217]

The recruiter messed her up

[@usericgggftytt]

God sweetie God grace dont forget , please get to know him and thank him. ❤

[@IBISUSADIVERSE]

Let's go back there together in future

[@Akiellia]

Not the universe but God worked it out

[@sandisiwelelethuntusi3960]

Yhoo glad you are ok and safe

[@dittadelvita5618]

I can’t believe this happened to you😢 China is not a nice place for travellers

[@siziwemk3750]

@@dittadelvita5618 it’s good for traveling and school, working however is a gamble

[@fredbantu3694]

Apparently she was compensated so why doesn’t she mention that ??

[@vanilla93orchid28]

My question is when you get a visa in your passport isn’t your first move to check the information on the visa mainly the expiry date

[@pelomk9022]

She always lies by ommission this one

[@mdengentongaxhamini]

Compensated by whom?

[@natak.2287]

Where are your sources ? .. “trust me bro”?

[@tazmunster7646]

Write that book. let the people of your country known

[@ladynikkie]

I believe you should write a book at least serve as a warning to any people of color that are traveling to any parts of Asia

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

If other Africans are like her, Asian employers should be warned. Any business will have to shut down if all employees were like her. Constantly having accidents and going on leave. Refusing to listen to feedback. Handing in work late. Just plain rude.

[@luyandadyani9233]

I'm sorry mkhaya, thanks for sharing. ❤

[@llamaliammm]

damn im chinese and even i feel unsafe to be in China. cant imagine how terrible it is in a racist place with a autocratic bureaucracy

[@kesay3466]

Am i wrong sweetheart for thinking some of this ur fault.❤ hear me out… you went to a country to teach during a health pandemic and thought things would be organized ethical and structured! Let me know.

[@janelleodionu3631]

Yes. You are wrong for thinking that. A pandemic doesn't cause someone to punch a young woman in the face and treat her like crap. Please stop victim blaming.

[@kesay3466]

@@janelleodionu3631 So, you are the problem. You are an emotional based thinker rather than a rational thinker. I said “some” not “all”. To grow and develop as a person? identify what Is your fault versus what isn’t ur fault. Of course no one should punch you. People like you Janelle who fail to identify personal development strategies, negatively impacts society and I guarantee your having personal issues

[@kesay3466]

@@janelleodionu3631 Let me respond again since the Author deleted a very respectful and thoughtful reply to you… i wonder why🤔

[@kesay3466]

@@janelleodionu3631 Janelle, you received my initial reply, I work in tech so even though deleted, you have a record via notifications. (Responding again) After she deleted my comment, communicating to you the importance of self growth and personal development strategies, I 💯 stick to my comment! Of course, no one should be punched in the face (that is why I referenced “some” not “all”) However, I do strongly believe that she contributed to some situations and that emotional intelligence is critical in cultural settings.

[@janelleodionu3631]

@@kesay3466 Pandemic or not, there is absolutely no excuse for how this young woman was treated and it ultimately reflects poorly on China and underscores their deeply rooted racism. I've been living here in China for nearly 5 years now... and let me tell you.... the kind of nonsense this young woman endured would never happen to a white woman from Australia, America or Canada. There is absolutely no excuse for a teacher to be punched in the face. If you believe that a teacher is unprofessional or incompetent, then fire him or her, but resorting to violence is never okay or permissible under any circumstance. This African sister didn't deserve what happened to her. Point blank period. Hopefully you will just admit that your judgment is harsh and undue instead of being stubborn about having to be right.

[@Akiellia]

It appears they weren’t competent to handle the process because why did they allow things to escalate the way it did. 😢

[@李珊-f2r]

Europe is very raycyst

[@mamamalet]

Everywhere is racist and as someone you’ve travelled a lot, Asia is the worst of all places especially when you have a problem and need government officials as a black person.

[@ricordiaerei7776]

We? Racist? We are too much soft maybe 🙂

[@natak.2287]

Then go somewhere where it’s not

[@mysteriousme3006]

​@@natak.2287But it's like that everywhere!! I can't escape that part of life either 😔👣

[@BatsiraiMusuka]

7:46 first red flag dear😩 Anyhow, hindsight is a perfect science. Not your fault.

[@BatsiraiMusuka]

11:06 damn… that was quick. Red flag number two. Thank God for the Recuiter🕊️

[@orange40]

China is an amazing place. Unfortunately bad things happen in every land.

[@yasminbarry7941]

Now..... Oscar didn't get into trouble for giving you that great advice, right?

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

Bru 🤦🏽‍♀️ these people were something else.

[@CharityMareya-rn5if]

You moved to China at the wrong time , we all struggled here

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

Okay

[@MessyBootz-ex6zl]

to say someone move there at wrong time is crazy work..I dont care whats going on in America I still treat people well. Your statement is an excuse for somehing that is unexcusable. The chinese people are very racist towards black people no matter the time. Just be HONEST or say nothing!!

[@Deadman7782]

Write that book.

[@tonywalton1052]

I wish the Left would speak more badly of the Chinese. They tend to just concentrate on white Americans and Europeans. spread the negativity more "diversely" (the Left's favourite word)

[@1ZZFE]

You pathetic hater, that's why life is bitter. May you find peace within.

[@natak.2287]

In general it’s only hate on white. While there are more racism literally everywhere else

[@natak.2287]

It’s “racist” to call any non-white a racist 😅

[@martinmoxey2180]

Leave those Asian countries' please before you are seriously hurt.

[@OLBICHL]

sounds like the school was very disorganized and dragged you into that mess never rely and trust the word of one person

[@kevinisawake]

Time to come to the UK and get Married to me - I am looking for a wife. 🥰

[@Ellie-nz2wk]

Ew

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Time is money 😮

[@liamduffy5276]

was this an illegal job?

[@lz9672]

Sounds like she didn't finish all the things before being qualified to working there.

[@mkhululimandlenkosi6255]

Listen China and the Chinese will humble you hey. As a fellow Saffa who's lived there for the past 8 years even during Covid I can safely say don't move there without doing proper research about your employer. Also China is hard hey not an easy place

[@meagain9649]

karma will come promise karmaaaaa!

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Why would you live in the country illegally and expect not to be deported???

[@gurlwhowants2dj]

Just 7 mins in she said she didn't know it. Did I miss something 🤔

[@SoulTravelHealthandWellness]

Exactly 😅

[@stephaniebell8217]

She trusted the recruiter and didn’t follow up. Plus didn’t get everything in the contract

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

​@gurlwhowants2dj how could she not know it? Didn't she even look at her passport?

[@lonisnow7651]

Sounds like they were trying to find a place for you because of all of the trouble that came from being in a hotel but you refused

[@acgrant5417]

Frankly speaking the whole idea of moving to China during a pandemic was a BAD idea! And you did operate with a lot of ignorance for someone who is a teacher….more research was really required before moving. And then you go to another country on the assumption that you can use your credit card!!!!! Basically go to another country with no money! Then the friend who said come to Shanghai where is he in all this? Isn’t that what friends are for? Share information and the whole process, share tips and key things about this move…help you settle or welcome you when you arrive, help you when in need?

[@theratrace999]

After listening to you, I conclude: your judgement is questionable!

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

Okie 🙂

[@RosyBibliophile]

What makes you say that?

[@idkweirdchic4960]

First of all , You seem very nice and like a great person,very chill. But I feel like the catfishing looks super bad on your part. I think in China in Asia in general they care too much about appearances just based on all of the story times and videos I've read and heard. I also think Milly is so nice but i feel like shes kinda bending over backwards for you. The tardiness thing too. Ive worked with only asians before and they are so strict! I would never do that again. I think you should have done a bit more research before moving so soon like that! 😢 You seem too chill for a strict teaching job in China like that. The company that i worked in was only Chinese and Vietnamese. Another thing I feel like you had the idea that things in China were gonna be like how they are in Korea but I feel like Chinese have a different mindset than Koreans.

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

She is just plain incompetent. Handing in lesson plans late, refusing to accept feedback from parents, refusing to cut her nails. " Chill" is a very diplomatic way of putting it but she is like a fish out of water in an Asian work space. Her whole attitude is off. Btw ,thus won't be tolerated in western countries I have worked in either.

[@prashanttayshetye8469]

come to india

[@janviljoen-rm8zs]

The Deportation of the self entitled

[@Yandisa75000]

Universe my foot??Cant you just acknowledge God😢???God created the universe

[@realDunalTrimp]

Nope humans created God.

[@valrahul]

No. You will be d€@.d but God doesn't d1e. God made you@@realDunalTrimp

[@mamamalet]

Please let people be themselves. Why do you want to force her to acknowledge God?

[@itumelengletlatsa1459]

China is straight forward, follow the contracts 100%, emergency is not their problem, have a community.

[@Nolusindiso_Hleko]

And you all do not see anything wrong with that? Okay

[@MirrorminD1989]

Ya'll ignoring the fact that abuse is not normal! Chinese people have a problem with respect and racism. Even IN asia (i'm thai) we hate mainland chinese so much. You'll understand when you meet your really real mainland chinese.

[@niket527]

You're gonna have a really tough time in life then, good luck with your "100%" stuff...

[@onewaytosavetheday]

China is in complete shambles right now, the people are angry at the government and the government is angry at the people. I heard you’re out of there as of right now and if that’s true, I’m glad to hear it. I hope you and the country are able to heal ❤️‍🩹

[@1ZZFE]

Utter rubbish.

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

China is in shambles? Then how would you describe most African countries including South Africa?😂

[@andujarpain2629]

i find this woman talks and talks and it still makes no sense! It has been almost a half a ayear and still she is "angry". it would be better to think how can she help others avoid her challenges, when millions of studients all over the world study in china, with no problem. What mistakes did she make? The wrong ompany? What is its name? Where did she find it? did she speak to other south africans who used this company? etc, etc. 2nd. Did the chinese govt investigate and punish the guy who hit her? If yes? or no? why not? All of this meandering he said, she said is not helpful and too personal. There are millions of manipulative people in the world! People who go abroad alone all are strong people! I have traveled to many countries and did everything myself. I found schools, jobs, etc... In paris a polish guy to advantage of me and I threatened him, but because I was american, he gave in and paid me my salary, then I left! People helped me, etc... That is what you do, when you travel alone. Otherwise, you go trhough a school in your own country who set up everything. That way you donot have to worry or be strong. cheers!

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

She seems to have problems everywhere. Even in South Korea . One of her videos was a rant about how Asian men don't want to date black women. She seems to have self worth issues, but at the same time seems to much prefer non African countries and even men.