"Not All Birthing People Are Women!"

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[@marcusdib]

Didn’t want to wear my lenses today lol

[@LeotheRoomba]

you're a wizard harry! hehe❤

[@Jerbies_Kimmers]

You really look great with glasses on😎

[@AngiefromOZ]

Looking good ❤

[@eerielamp]

I'd watch Marcus star as Harry in a new adaptation ​@@LeotheRoomba He's more man than DR, anyway

[@tracygoode3037]

Those are some nice glasses! You should wear them more often.

[@Tigress583]

"Front hole." I have never felt so dehumanized and disgusted at the same time.

[@juliawacker]

Yeah..why do talk about women like they are s*x dolls?

[@docmacabre]

Seriously, it sounds like they stole it from the incels!

[@nadrassheelf]

@@docmacabre Or bad fanfiction written by 12 yo who can't use the real words because they're shy.

[@arwenstrong2818]

The Canadian Cancer Society just apologized for using the word "cervix" instead of "front hole." It's a PORN term. If someone ever refers to my anatomy that way, I'm going to tell them it's sexual harassment. I'm a sexual assault survivor, like a huge number of women are. Tons of millennials, like me, also have early porn exposure trauma. And we are now teaching CHILDREN to use that word. Oh, also, they recommend trans men get screened, too. Because affirmation and stuff. While women who might have cancer wait in line behind someone with a nonexistent cervix. It makes me heartsick. I'm done. This is my line in the sand.

[@dammar117]

Nothing disgusts me more than seeing the vgina referred to as a hole. A hole is an opening. The vgina is a whole muscular structure. Think more like a tube. It HAS a hole (just like the pnis does, btw), but it IS NOT a hole. How degrading to refer to our most female body part as something as devoid of material substance like a hole!

[@Cardinal_claw]

The biggest thing for me is how dehumanizing these terms are. Chest feeder? Bleeder? If any of these "terms" came from literally anyone else, they would've been shot down for dehumanizing women.

[@someoneovertheinternet4417]

They are fighting against discrimination with misogyny, let's all act surprised!

[@taki7546]

Hey, anything for a gender inclusive language🤡

[@rosebrent9440]

Let's not forget, men have breasts too. It's already an inclusive term. So chest-feeder is intentionally dehumanising.

[@mariecherrytree]

It sounds like some Sci fi human trafficking sh*t.

[@user-hn1yu8nd5i]

I was in Dallas airport and they called pregnant women over the intercom to board as "preborn carrier "

[@scotthix2297]

I’m not a vulva owner. I have a Toyota….

[@nineteenfortyeight6762]

🏆

[@notyourordinarygran]

😂

[@desireew4613]

This 😆

[@TheZombieButler]

LoL

[@amandajohnson8116]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@pallasathene453]

If someone is ever calling me a birthgiving chestfeeding Vulva-owner with a front hole we gonna have a real problem

[@resurrectionevil6581]

I'll say they'll have a new face hole if anyone calls me any of those words.

[@amandajohnson8116]

You and me both!

[@gal_targareayn6721]

+1

[@Teresia12]

Same here

[@Redlingstein]

Totally agree with you!!!

[@megsley]

the erasure of women from our language is absolutely horrifying - notice how theyre not doing this to men.

[@dammar117]

Totally notice! Men would never put up with such degrading nonsense.

[@TheZombieButler]

This

[@BrandiBAR]

Until it affects men, don’t expect men to care about it.

[@NoahNoshes]

That's because men would never stand for this. Women are so worried about being "nice" that this is not just being tolerated; it's being celebrated.

[@barbrothers2]

nope, with them its just "girldick" 🤮

[@mooshru_2762]

I'm a trans guy, and "inclusive language" makes even *me* feel uncomfortable. "Inclusive language" hurts quite literally everyone. It is so dehumanizing and vile.

[@ericvogt3993]

It really is sickening to see people being reduced down to biological functions. It says a lot about the people who coined and use these terms.

[@missgoldie2763]

I have no problem with inclusive language on a case by case basis, it's there use as blanket terms I object too. This is despite the fact I don't believe NB is a thing and the idea of a F to M doing the most female thing possible; getting pregnant, is baffling.

[@Turqoiseee]

Same, the they thems making me really uncomfortable.

[@Iudd_]

To the normal trans men, wouldn't that make them feel worse since pregnancy is a female thing?

[@SwankemasterSupreme]

I like trans men who actually act like men.

[@Chloe-fc3lv]

As a woman, this is dehumanizing and disgusting. It honestly hurts to see other women agreeing with these disrespectful terms.

[@arwenstrong2818]

My feminist mother referred to herself as a "birthing person" on Mother's Day & I burst into tears. She doesn't understand why. I wish she respected & loved herself as much as I respect & love her.

[@hannabio2770]

​@@arwenstrong2818, talk with her about it! Explain to her more how you feel and why. She's your mom, I'm sure that she would likely hear you than clowns on the internet. 💞

[@mommabear_27]

When I was pregnant, my doctor called my husband my birthing partner, and myself the birthing person, my husband immediately corrected her. She apologized and told us about inclusive language.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

​@@arwenstrong2818I mean if that's how she feels, that's how she feels. You can have a talk with her, but you can't really change what someone refer to themselves as.

[@GuranPurin]

Women being reduced to body parts so men can feel "included" in our spaces almost feels like a parody.

[@G.D.G.]

They already walk in to our bathrooms with no regard and when called out say "oh, im non binary" while looking like Thor.

[@kaydabalab]

"front hole" OMG thats like the most disgusting way to talk about female parts. "FRONT HOLE" ITS SO DEMEANING

[@armymarshal13]

Yea that's one way to have the least appealing sexy talk ever. "Oh yea, put your pole in my front hole"⛳

[@arwenstrong2818]

It's literally a porn reference. And they're encouraging children and doctors to use it.

[@kaydabalab]

@@arwenstrong2818 nooooooooooooo whyyyyy

[@kaydabalab]

@@arwenstrong2818 seems like they always finding the ugliest ways to say things

[@Cristina-rj6kz]

They want to try to get normal ppl to call the Natural Biological Female genitalia a "front hole" so they don't feel bad about how their genital "wound", (that is NOT natural, and has NONE of the Biological actions that a Natural Biologically female genitalia can do). If "all women" have a "front hole" then they think that validates them. Which is pathetic because Biological Female/women don't need to shove a cucumber up their "rot pocket wound front hole that's made from inverted Bio ball sack skin" to "dilate" so their Frankenstein genital wound, that grows hair on the inside due to the hairy ball skin inside their vaginas.......Frankenstein doesn't close up like it's NATURALLY trying to do... because it's a mutilated wound...

[@q.t.gamingfamily]

I refuse to beg for forgiveness for identifying as the woman I am!

[@Teresia12]

Amen!

[@valerievonskullz825]

I just had a son this past November. His birth certificate asked if he was non binary trans or other 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ i hate it here

[@karenmurray351]

Congratulations on the birth of your son 🩵

[@rollinstone5217]

Are you kidding me??? Where do you live? In Weirdovia? I thought I heard it all but apparently things can always get crazier. Congrats on your son, he's lucky to have you as a parent 👍

[@RaefonB]

Whoa, whereabouts in the world are you based? Even for people who believe fully in the ideology of non-binary and stuff...how would they know if the kid was one of those categories at birth??

[@saramitchell5000]

Must be in canada ?

[@NiaLaLa_V]

@@saramitchell5000 or wokie hell Washington. I relocated here from Idaho to be near my husband's family and we are about to go back to my family in Idaho because it is so insane here. Liberals actually tell me I can't share my personal experiences because it is disrespectful to the troons who attacked me. Hence why I started calling them troons!

[@CrayolaCoffeeBean]

I will never apologize to anyone for being a woman and using real world, accurate language instead of degrading, sensitive, forced terms

[@Teresia12]

Amen sister!

[@irenemiller9958]

SERIOUSLY!!!! 💯

[@renzinthewoods]

99.9% of all births are conventional traditional historical pregnancies. No one is saying that a trans man who chooses to be pregnant doesn’t deserve respectful care, but turning the language inside out is ridiculous.

[@jayeclements6452]

100% of all births were of a baby nurtured in a uterus and delivered from that uterus either through the vagina or a surgical opening. There is no other way. Anyone who chooses to become pregnant must therefore have a uterus. Thus everyone who nurtures and delivers a baby is A WOMAN. End of discussion.

[@guttertongue]

The thing is, trans men who give birth or have previously given birth are also 90% of the time not actually transgender. A true transsexual/transgender person wouldn’t want anything to do with their assigned sex (i.e. a female to male; giving birth, periods, breasts, etc.). But yeah, I agree regardless, respect and care should be given to anyone in the amidst of pregnancy and giving birth. If not for the mother, then at least for the child.

[@latonyanewsome0]

​@@guttertongueExactly! A lot of them who get pregnant actually feel disgusted by it.

[@jayeclements6452]

100% of ALL births involve a baby nurtured in a uterus and delivered from that uterus, either via the vagina or a surgical opening. There is NO other option as science currently stands and has done for millennia. No one has ever lived who has NOT been born in such a way. Thus every one is nurtured in a female uterus and "born of a woman". To say otherwise is simply denying the science and thus the truth.

[@WithaHardar-mn9mp]

A trans man is physically a XX chromosone woman who looks like a man but is not. You can paint a toyota to look like a corvette but it still drives like a toyota. Why do they push this absurd non sense so hard? Because when words are meaningless illegal alien squatters become "voters".

[@Sarah_1704]

Come on, just call women incubators at this point. It's just as disrespectful. 😒

[@justmythoughts2962]

They already do.

[@annamossity8879]

I was going to say don’t give them any ideas! Guess I’m too late.

[@kollateralschaden3127]

Meat spaces with a bank account

[@BPEntertainment1]

I was also going to say don't give them any ideas. 😆

[@Leamichellefan2244]

I am so fudging sick and fudging tired of this inclusive language rubbish that’s not being kind. That’s being idiotic and feeding into delusion. It needs to stop.

[@violagulianna6692]

u can swear

[@TheDisturbingPanda]

@@violagulianna6692 Lol tbf it's pretty adorable to see someone who doesn't even wanna swear still support common sense. This person's innocence must be preserved

[@vamvam7690]

@@violagulianna6692they’re clearly a huge Glee fan so it makes perfect sense they’d be uncomfortable about swearing lol give them a break! Jk, jk 😅 To be fair though, swearing gets your comment removed pretty often on YT these days so a lot of people write ‘fudging’ ‘effing’ ‘f*cking’ etc now to avoid that It’s pretty ridiculous but that’s the world we live in. Censorship needed lest someone be mildly offended 🙄

[@AutumnEquinoxx]

I can't wait for this nonsense to come to a stop.

[@user-ms3bv9hv3r]

Please tell me went it will stop I’m just going hide under a rock until the delusion stops

[@ros2480]

I'll give them 10 years and this will all be over

[@sylvanawick3819]

I give it 2-5 years, since normal people are already sick of this crap 💩

[@CrayolaCoffeeBean]

I’m from the Midwest. I grew up saying “you guys” even to room full of women (there’s that pesky word women 😉). I’ve been doubling down on saying “you guys” at work in spite of it being a mostly liberal company because that little dash of pettiness makes me happy 😈

[@arwenstrong2818]

I love it. I'm Californian, and they will pry the word "dude" from my cold, dead lips.

[@cheeling794]

i say you guys and also call amyone a dude lol

[@scorpzcorpz4017]

I still call everyone dude....lol

[@kimmiewise1044]

We in the south have been blessed with "y'all" so the alphabet Mafia don't have much to fuss about. We only get pressed on religion since we're Bible belt and we don't take kindly to those who don't respect religion, regardless of what religion. Of course things started changing after gay marriage was legalized since even fundamentalists respect the law. They just protest and proselytize peacefully, if offensively. But most of the south is pretty libertarian in the so long as you don't force them to do or say anything and they leave you alone. The only clashes really happened when one side tries to convert the other in any direction. For example, Christians and Muslims actually have a tumultuous relationship despite both being Abrahamic religions that share a lot of the same morals. Christians try to convert Muslims and Muslims try to convert Christians all of the time through theological debate and research. There's also the Catholic-Protestant conflicts and Baptists putting a finger in every pie possible. And when you realize that the Gender ideology is just another religion, it's actually not all that surprising that the other religions immediately start trying to debate the LGBT. They have a belief system and religions have a belief system and the way these groups work out their differences is debate and conversion.

[@severianmonk7394]

The male vulva is in the back and if it menstruares you could have cancer. Cancer.

[@andydufresne5297]

"No, you have a v-jay-jay, baby" 😂 Marcus is on point, and on a roll, as usual.

[@cheeling794]

he always is😂

[@melissavlogs6248]

I don’t understand this. Women fought so hard for rights and now it’s like women are being erased just to be “inclusive”. I’m so sad seeing this happen.

[@devilchilde8957]

Unfortunately it's a lot of women(feminists) that are contributing to this delusion.

[@heyyoitsjess463]

as a trans woman, without women we wouldn’t be trans. stop encouraging bad behavior, and accept that that you are different

[@Lloyd-Franklin]

I can't even begin to tell you how much I hate being referred to as cis. Anyone who calls me that in person I won't be responsible for my actions.

[@esthelaheredia9664]

Same!!! 😊

[@kaydabalab]

same!!!!

[@Esther.1983]

For one it will be the last time we ever talk to eachother…

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

@Lloyd-Franklin You can't justify violence based off words because it doesn't make you any better than them. I imagine most trans/non-binary ppl won't call you cis in person if you don't like it.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

You can't be for violence if you want change. So you will be accountable for your actions because you hit someone based off a word they call you

[@UmamaGoblin]

Putting a qualifier on a majority is unnecessary, which is why "cis" is an offensive term. It's also a term that let's you know the person speaking shouldn't be taken seriously 🥃

[@NorthernRealmJackal]

Some thing is unnecessary, therefore it's offensive? That's your logic?

[@Leamichellefan2244]

I agree sis is an extremely offensive term because like it or not biological men and biological women are the majority and I’m not trying to be hateful to people like Marcus when I say that.

[@FH4Player6397]

​@@NorthernRealmJackal Shut wokie

[@Leamichellefan2244]

@@NorthernRealmJackal it is offensive because it’s not needed, but of course defend rubbish and see how far that gets you.

[@MouthyMiriam]

I despise being called cis…. It’s degrading and despicable and completely unnecessary.. I am a woman plain and simple. I fought really hard to maintain my sense of self over my years of dealing with abuse of every kind, and being a woman is one of the proudest things of my life. Take that away from your own peril

[@arwenstrong2818]

The Canadian Cancer Society just apologized for using the word "cervix" instead of "front hole." That is a PORN term. If someone ever refers to my anatomy that way, I'm going to tell them it's sexual harassment. I'm a sexual assault survivor, like a huge number of women are. Tons of millennials, like me, also have early porn exposure trauma. And we are now teaching CHILDREN to use that word. Oh, also, they recommend trans men get screened, too. Because affirmation and stuff. While women who might have cancer wait in line behind someone with a nonexistent cervix. It makes me heartsick. I'm done. This is my line in the sand.

[@CloudyWolf713]

I’m so sorry for what happened to you. I hope you’re safe out there nowadays.

[@Lemonade_Stand_]

Do you mean trans women because trans men still have a cervix (unless theyve had bottom surgery).

[@squoctopus]

A cervix isn't a vagina. I know this is not news to the people here but apparently the Canadian Cancer Society doesn't understand women's anatomy.

[@kellyhoward6941]

Are you freakin; kidding me?!?! Great advances in medicine.

[@ForeverMe543]

So demeaning Tired of bullying and segregation with language

[@dg9531]

"inclusive" language is exclusive, as it excludes the feelings and truths of every biological woman I know. and "my" truths are actually factual, not something I made up to separate myself from the norm.

[@TheAvprobeauty]

to be “special”. one of these days Im going to say “oh you special alright just not in the way you want” 😂

[@tassiodrigues]

Exactly! They pretend to be inclusive all the time, when they explicitly want to exclude everyone else but themselves 🙄so desperate for spotlights...

[@jakethegreatest473]

Its funny how inclusive language is dehumanizing and double dehumanizing to normies.

[@lizard2222]

Sometimes I'm just in disbelief when people use language like this thinking it's inclusive and it just sounds arrogant and ignorant to me.

[@fergieingrid2521]

And misogynistic, offensive and derogatory.

[@TheIrreverentUncleAl]

Who knew misogyny was deeply ingrained in the trans movement?

[@livf1601]

The thing that is frustrating for me is that their attempt to use inclusive language just further solidifies the binary. For example, we ALL have breast tissue, that’s why men can get breast cancer, so there’s no reason to call it anything else other than breastfeeding regardless of how you identify. It’s a word, THEY are the one gendering it

[@dammar117]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@xamyx725]

And, men also have a “front hole”; it’s called a “urethra” 😂

[@dammar117]

@@xamyx725Exactly! It irks me so much when the vgina is referred to as a hole, when it's a strong muscular structure. It's a tube, not a hole. And like a tube, it HAS a hole, but it ISN'T a hole. Even outside the whole trans context, this is demeaning to women.

[@user-ng9ew9sj2v]

This is literally a religion. Why is she begging for forgiveness

[@lukasvandewiel860]

Because it will give her upvotes and views on KZbin, which creates income for her.

[@tessabiggs2917]

All those words all very insulting and dehumanising in so many ways.

[@johannesstephanusroos4969]

6:10 Misogyny: it's okay when we do it, but if you don't agree... REEEE, transphobia! 🤦🏻

[@AuthorNicoleEglinger]

Thank you for saying this Marcus!! I'm not begging for anything and will never bow. I was born a woman and would never degrade myself and lower myself down to calling myself body parts. Giving birth to my four children was the most precious and beautiful part of my life. I won't disrespect those beautiful memories by doing so. Being A Woman Is More Than A Pronoun and Wearing Lipstick!! Women are so much more than body parts. When you have gone through what women have gone through as every other women on this planet then you can call yourself that not until then. If this makes me a bad person then I'll be the villian. It won't bother me one way or the other. 😮‍💨🤨🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@amandajohnson8116]

Preach!

[@MIZNOFACE]

Confusion equals inclusion to these ppl ..

[@TrueCrimeDoula]

I'm a childbirth educator and doula and I won't be saying chestfeeding, or any other "inclusive " language because I do believe it is insulting to women. We can't separate biology out of birth - it just doesn't work that way.

[@lovelight2577]

Why is it only those things that are exclusive to womanhood that use inclusive language, like birth, menstruation, breastfeeding etc. Why does nobody hammer on about inclusive language when it comes to housework, makeup and stereotypes?

[@wilma400]

It's also funny how I haven't seen any "inclusive" terms for male body parts. How is vagina offensive but penis is fine? What about beard? Chest hair? Etcetc 🤔🤔

[@simonwinn8757]

@@wilma400 Men just don't care about these terms and the only ones that it would affect are transwomen, I don't think they want terms to remind them of origins. It like going up to them and saying "sir".

[@lizbrown6943]

What bothers me is the censorship. Sexual assault, rape, suicide etc. are real life occurances. But you can't real terms because 'triggered' PTSD terms are misused. A bad experience is a part of life not reason for special treatment because you self diagnosis.

[@jentapsell1137]

I have diagnosed ptsd, depression from extreme experiences, I hate that people use these conditions and others to try and excuse bad behavior. PTSD is a real condition that has actual symptoms that the sufferer is dealing with and they alone are responsible for dealing with it. There are many different ways of controlling the symptoms but those methods are not anyone else’s responsibility and they don’t have to make allowances for the condition. They can be kind or understanding but the fact people who self diagnose use it as an excuse really upsets me because it’s hard enough to deal with without the extra stigma because of these people.

[@kristiemao4275]

It's not just that, it's about money. Advertisers are the ones who don't want to have their products advertised when content creators use these words. Ironically, it's only the independent content creators that get blasted, and not channels like FOX, CNN, MSNBC, ABC, NBC, CBS or News Nation.

[@9teen9t4]

It pisses me off because I was diagnosed with PTSD from a whole-assed really-real violent incident I barely survived and what pisses me off to no end is when one of these 'oppressed victims' throws that word around so casually (i.e. "I had PTSD because I was misgendered" or 'words are violence'). How DARE THEY cheapen what actual really-real victims/survivors endured?? HOW DARE THEY? It's like they keep poking the bear, keep poking the bear. When do we, as the -silent majority- bear, finally stand up to it??

[@tula1433]

The connection between non binary and the social acceptance of trans people plummeting is so apparent. Sadly now stats show declining social acceptance.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

Yeah unfortunately

[@SilverFoxy207]

women= mothers, mothers =Women. How is it these people can take away my identity as a women and mother. Who are they to take this away from us. We used to be seen as second to men for the longest of time. And the people who use this are trying to strip women down to nothing again. I'm more than over this.

[@Smileplease87289]

When I gave birth 4years ago next week, the hospital called me birthing person and chest feeding. I struggled with it as it took away from the word mum, breast feeding and all the things that I wanted and I carried this baby.

[@aaabbc379]

so you struggled with the mildest form of misgendering?

[@9teen9t4]

Did you at least tell them to F.O.?

[@sheriv7677]

That sounds so ugly for something that is actually beautiful.

[@GalXZ42081]

There is already the term "birth canal". "Front hole" sounds like the way a preschooler might differentiate their anatomy.

[@ericvogt3993]

Yes... it's very dignified and respectful to be identified a "chest feeder" or someone who has a "front hole." It's in no way degrading to be reduced to a function of your biology. Sarcasm aside, people wonder why women are (rightfully) angry about this.

[@PinkandGold87]

I used to be offended when I felt like I was being reduced to tits & my vagina. Now I don't even get that - I'm just a bunch of holes & milk ducts.

[@Yzkideze]

It is so true that you will never be "good enough" for these types of people. They dont want to be "inclusive" they want to control you. They change terms and definitions on a whim and expect you to do and say whatever they want in order to consider you "a good person". How stupid you have to be to follow their orders disguised as "respect for others" makes me angry and sad 😂.

[@squoctopus]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@spikemurphy5054]

8:51 I have referred to groups that have only females as ‘guys’, and I use ‘hey guys’ when greeting people regularly. And guess what, NO ONE CARES. I’m not going to walk on eggshells just to please some of these people.

[@Acehigh-Jenkins]

I use Dude as a totally gender neutral term theyre probably coming for me next!

[@unkemptjargon91]

They'd rather have 99 percent of mothers be disrespected and have to talked about in this new language, than let the 1 percent be just a little uncomfortable and have to deal with things in the lense of reality.

[@sjent]

"Inclusive" generally means "majority bending over to tiny minority", as it implies majority operating based on standards, that they do not like(otherwise they would do it without all this whining already), but that tiny minority prefers. This is the opposite of inclusive. This is elitism, narcissism and entitlement. elitism /ĭ-lē′tĭz″əm, ā-lē′-/ noun The belief that certain persons or members of certain groups deserve favored treatment by virtue of their superiority, as in intelligence, social standing, or wealth.

[@DeviousFink]

Literally includes EVERYONE EXCEPT women. Soooo.... EXCLUSION?! Of the group that needs protecting the most.

[@chefnyc]

Language is important but you don’t get a document with “correct language” if you are giving birth at an NYC hospital. The form was full of stupidity. “What is the mother’s gender? In parenthesis the person who gave birth” WTF?

[@kellysouter4381]

Time to Escape New York

[@chefnyc]

I found a photo of the exact document. It goes like this "Mother/Parent (Woman giving birth)". Select S.e.x.: Male or Female". This doesn't even use gender language. It's flat out asking male or female. I thought male vs female wasn't open to discussion; man vs woman was "debatable".

[@monicanavarro2906]

Absolutely insane, but unsurprising these days.🤦‍♀️

[@greylady4818]

It’s Orwellian what they’re doing with language

[@Hopespringseternal]

100% agree. Thanks for always defending us women! It’s funny, she wants to make people she doesn’t know comfortable, but doesn’t care about all the women, she knows and otherwise, uncomfortable 😂 It’s such a contradiction!

[@jawbreaker8125]

Waiting for someone to unironically use "sperm implanter", "front hose", "testicles owner" and "gonad carrier". The fact that they're only doing this to terms referring to WOMEN is so telling.

[@GreenVikeenArt]

So it's okay for some people to not listen to her because she doesn't use "inclusive language", yet others are wrong for not listening to her because of said imposed language. If what really mattered was the core of her message, it wouldn't matter if she used inclusive words or not. She wouldn't be begging for forgiveness either. She's terrified.

[@JaylaStarr]

Can u imagine how confusing gender is going to be for kids growing up with a trans parent.. he’ll all kids growing up are gonna be so confused hearing men can be pregnant

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

If a trans parent is honest about their transition towards their kid and still beli5in biology, there shouldn't be an issue. Trans ppl are allow to be parents as well.

[@JaylaStarr]

@@dynamitesparkles1457 it’s still confusing I have an 8year old no one said trans people can’t be parents

[@9teen9t4]

all by design ..... all by design. They want the kids, they said so themselves. Parents need to be extra vigilant these days.

[@JaylaStarr]

@@9teen9t4 reminiscent of brave New World by aldus Huxley how all the kids were being raised together in an institution, interacting with each other sexually it was weird.

[@mamamichellegist]

ughhhhh. as a BREASTFEEDING MOTHER these terms are so irritating and honestly gross. why do they sound _dismissive_ as fuck!? biology is simple. science is straightforward. science does not care about the feelings of humanity. it’s not that hard.

[@taki7546]

English is a pretty gender neutral language as it is already. How would these people survive in Europe (e.g in germany we don’t even have a similar word for“they“. If we talk about multiple people, we use „sie“ which has the same meaning as „she“)

[@juukaart9530]

I also wonder this. In portuguese we don't have gender neutral pronouns. Even the plural is gendered.

[@justmythoughts2962]

​@@juukaart9530same with spanish. Peculiar how this is only happening to this degree in westernized English speaking populations. I mean they can keep TRYING to make latinx happen, but it's just NOT going to catch on. In fact, MOST latinos and latinas I know (and as half of my extended family is at least HALF hispanic that's a lot of people) absolutely refuse to acknowledge it or use it and take it almost as an insult. There is a degree of pride for someone that is latino, latina, or boriqua. They aren't letting THAT go without a fight. It is very much part of their identity. We have got to STOP being afraid to push back.

[@9teen9t4]

@@justmythoughts2962 Unfortunately, I can say the same for my ancestry - especially the Dutch side but the problem is that not enough people stand up to it, everyone just rolls over and complains. My best friend is latina and from knowing her family, I understand the nuances within the hispanic community about this and I completely support them as well. I guess I've seen it referred to as a bit of a 'machismo' kind of history in some areas (thinking about her Dominican husband and brother in law in particular) and I know they are beyond offended with this garbage.

[@Ktakahashi18]

Ok if a trans-man wants to use that language go for it. But don't you dare call me, a WOMAN, a chest feeder, bleeder, or birthing person. That is incredibly insulting and degrading.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

This whole inclusive language is suppose to be for trans ppl/non-binary ppl anyway

[@murasakiahiru]

It's best to use medical terminology regardless of feelings.

[@lorrainechamberlain7818]

Right on, Marcus. ❤

[@karite2]

I imagine that the emotions these people feel when they have their delusions validated are similar to when a racist feels validated, or a sexist, or just anyone who has a horribly unpopular opinion and find one person that seconds their delusion. A feeling of validation rooted in hate.

[@Jessicad9304]

They always gaslight when they get called out. “We aren’t trying to take your language! We never did that!” 🙄

[@renferal5290]

I refuse to use the language of dilution

[@tyler-ix7mf]

notice how nobody ever talks about men's bodies this way 99% of the time..

[@phoenix9ty]

What is with these people, and this mass psychosis that is occurring? So over these people, and their policing of how I think, feel, and speak.

[@GenX172]

As a gay man I completely agree, I can barely keep up with all the new genders that are coined. I basically feel invisible at this point. Not bothered though ❤

[@darkangel_1978]

Nope. I'm a mother, a woman. I gave birth, breastfed, and I had my kids come out my stomach, not my vag. I hate when people try to change my experience, so that their little fee fees don't get hurt.

[@tassiodrigues]

They tried so hard to be inclusive for so long they became exlusive. Everything and everyone should prioritize their well being, that's their preach now.

[@Redlingstein]

I’m a woman, I’m a mum of 3, I breast fed all 3. All these degrading terms they call us women now, I’m outraged.

[@Mungoteazer11581]

I really don't understand those people, that are like "I am not a woman, I don't want to be a woman!" But at the same time they want to be pregnant and mothers??

[@TanyaRando]

I'm so glad I changed my mind about being a midwife! I've nursed many trans people over the years, never had an issue with them, the only difficulty we had years ago, was the wards were ALL single sex. We were all considerate about what we called them just the same as we were for everyone else, but we never lied to them. I think I'd have had great difficulty in doing my job if I felt *FORCED* to speak, or document in a particular way.

[@nathanponder6464]

Good thing logic is timeless.. in future children will be asking their parents “did people really do this?” Will you be the one saying “we didnt know” or the one saying “we didnt buy it”

[@SewMyHeartTogether]

All these terms are so dehumanizing and humiliating!! T his new era of 'inclusive language' reminds me a LOT of when misogynists would call women "holes"...

[@Queenofthatank]

All I have to say is Thomas Beatie created this mess when *she* became "The world's first pregnant man" in 2007 and everyone was on the "He's a pregnant man" train even though we all knew he was born a she because he told everyone in every interview ever "I'm a trans man. The only reason I'm doing this is because my wife can't carry a child but I can"

[@dammar117]

I don't agree. This nonsense did not exist in 2007. Thomas Beatie was not redefining language for women. I read his book back then. It was fascinating. The dysphoria while going through pregnancy for the love of his wife. I was, however, disappointed to find out years later he had two more kids (why the need to repeat this three times) all for them to separate in the end. But this language nonsense is a much more recent thing. It seeks to normalize trans and non binary pregnancy. TB was just the opposite, an exceptional phenomenon.

[@divaducks]

@@dammar117 I don't care if he was doing it for his wife, to me, that says, she never had gender dysphoria, I can't imagine going through that 3 times, claiming to be a man., When I first read that, I was a lot younger and I thought, that's not really fair. You believe you're a man, but can do what women do? No, sorry, the gender dysphoria that she had, would have set her back mentally and emotionally, and although I didn't read their book, what they did was hypocritical.

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

@@dammar117"TB was just (...) an exceptional phenomenon." Yes, she was the exceptionally phenomenal exceptional phenomenon of a pregnant female mammal. That had only happened... well, let's say several trillion times before.

[@azillliasmith2734]

@@knrdvmmlbkkn agree👍🏻 ❤

[@dammar117]

@@knrdvmmlbkkn Come on, don't pretend to be stupid and not understand what I meant. TB was an exceptional phenomenon as a "pregnant man." Yes, not a biological man, we all get it. But still someone who presented and felt like a man. Normally, such a person wouldn't go through pregnancy, because it would be the most dysphoric experience. For a real trans person, that is. So, this case was exceptional in its context.

[@OsakaJoe01]

"Some people are just looking for things to be angry about." DO TELL! 😂😂😂

[@talvezrafael]

This reminds me of 1984, the book. Exactly as said in the book, they try to create a whole new language, turning it into a weapon, and finally try to make anyone who doesn't join the enemy, the anti-revolutionary who does not tolerate the "progress". I'm a trans man and I just feel even more uncomfortable when people use these terms. It's ridiculous. I'm not a person who menstruates, these are women, and I menstruate because biologically I am one. It's just logic, but activists love to deny reality. Pathetic.

[@9teen9t4]

Thank you. As a biological woman, your comment is such a breath of fresh air!

[@AS8643]

My brother won't talk to me anymore bc I said you can't be non binary and trans at the same time. He said it was under an umbrella. I don't do that umbrella bs. You can't believe you're neither sex while believing you're trans. It just doesn't make sense.

[@daisymae3258]

Her child is going to be SO messed up!

[@6AlphaMikeCharlie9]

If you try to hard to be liked by everybody, you'll end up not being liked by everyone.

[@individualperson4090]

I wish people would stop labeling themselves these things. (I'm not transphobic)

[@alee7311]

The fact that you have to say you aren't transphobic shows how we as a society are walking on eggshells just saying facts or an opinion... and I completely agree with you about the labeling. It really needs to stop.

[@Iudd_]

I recommend dropping the term transphobic completely, just ignore it It has completely become a buzzword for anyone who disagrees and/or offends the *easily offended* alphabet mafia

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

Some ppl are transphobic and transphobia does exist,however the word seems overused now unfortunately

[@individualperson4090]

​@@alee7311 As agon hare once said, I'm not transphobic I'm wokephobic

[@alee7311]

@@individualperson4090 that's a very good way of putting it.

[@Emilyspeace]

It’s not up to anyone but them to make themselves feel comfortable. The rest of society doesn’t think or behave the way they do, therefore we shouldn’t have to change our ways.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

So are you okay with LGBTQ+ ppl referring to non-trans ppl as cis? Just as long as their not personally calling you cis to your face?

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

So why do cis ppl get offended with the term cis?

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

So why get offended with the word cis?

[@9teen9t4]

Exactly! Their emotions are not my responsibility.

[@9teen9t4]

@@dynamitesparkles1457 'cis' is a made-up slur. If you don't want us to use the 'wrong words' then don't mislabel us either.

[@gaving.griffon2703]

Soon it will be "I'm a cis man, and I identify as a birthing person!"

[@logibear_dare4747]

Thank you for your content, Marcus! It’s relieving to hear such sane world views compared to what I’m stuck with every day. I’m so happy I’ve found a person like you ❤

[@xsatisx]

i’ve been infertile since birth so by their logic, i’m a non-birthday person. so what does that make me? a non binary? trans? a xe/xer? because they obviously want everyone to know that the only point of being a woman is your ability to give birth. that’s all that matters. not a soman’s morals, talents, career, contributions, relationships, nothing. it is all irrelevant if, god forbid, a roman doesn’t have a uterus. even if i have everything else that would make me a woman, it all doesn’t matter.

[@ameriewestfall6389]

My mom has been working as a nurse and a lactation specialist for over 20 years and it’s so sick seeing the pain its causing her not only at work but how degrading it is for her as a mother

[@mr.vorrnyvorrn2516]

”Chestfeeding” is honestly insulting towards men who have 47,XXY SRY+ karyotype and moobs. So I guess that counts as DSD-phobic misandry too, no?

[@bluebelltv2346]

they need to learn that being exclusive is sometimes necessary.

[@chellechelle826]

Thank you marcus,because I'm so fuckin tired of the absolute disrespect and comparison and not able to have an honest discussion. When the facts are brought up they move the goal post to more disrespect, then expect respect for it. I appreciate it. ❤

[@laurenzorangee]

I am just so confused…don’t all humans have an area of their body referred to as a breast?? Why does chest feeding even need to be a thing?

[@Zarreth]

These people will break their arms patting themselves on the back for this stuff.

[@elka2974]

The terms and gaslighting reminds me so much of the "Newspeak" in Georges Orwells 1984, what I find very disturbing.

[@taliaumen232]

I love to say " Even if you take two different candies and put them in each others wraps, they still stay the same, new appearance doesn't change anything".

[@luckytyler2860]

👌❤️

[@9teen9t4]

I like this and may have to borrow it, thank you!

[@daffke1185]

The woman in the first video annoyed me so much. I'm a woman and i have a son and i think it's disgusting they call us cis woman or birth givers or bleeders. And begging to people who want to look like you but don't respect you ! I can't take it anymore. I respect you , Blaire and Buck because i feel respect from your side aswell. And you can dress what you want you don't need to make up pronouns because of it! I tried to respect everyone. But they don't respect it when i ask not to call me a cis woman !

[@Asian-Legal-Immigrant8341]

Vulva owner? That's a new delulu word. Wow! That's so disrespectful!!!!!

[@lukasvandewiel860]

"If you are a friend to everybody, you are an enemy to yourself". Very good one!

[@Pidatha]

I love how decades back they wanted to be called Transwomen/men to avoid feeling dysphoric, but still knew they were men /women but now they're using the guise of "be kind and inclusive" to change language in every field for everyone and erase any difference between trans and real gender, and CryBully anyone who doesn't play along

[@annamossity8879]

I smell grifting from the midwife teacher! He admits that it’s maybe 1 percent yet his company focuses on those? Trying to be relevant, I suppose.

[@ShYeager]

1. You look good with glasses 🤓 2. As a bi woman, I'm offended by these terms and trying to erase female terms to not offend trans people is stupid. We humans need to recognize what we are, and simply need to respect each other's emotions, but we cannot please everyone. 😅

[@TordenFaaret]

i'm so glad all of this practically smacked into the gates in my country it was so rejected. some absolute clowns wanted to remake the national anthem with "iNcLuSiVe LaNgUaGe". for one, the anthem wouldn't work because of the increased syllables. for another, there are no lies in that anthem. mothers *have* cried, fathers *have* fought, that's just a fact. does that mean mothers have not fought and fathers have not cried? no, obviously. but using your brain and having an ability to reason when information isn't overtly stated apparently don't go hand in hand for these people. hence, they only met rejection, and probably a lot of insults.

[@camipanzarellasteele3587]

So disgusting and these poor children. I pray for them. Please help them.

[@Clint52279]

0:33 The language engrained in your brain will be needed when this fad ends (probably when the mass amount of malpractice suits hit) and people realize how silly they were acting.