I am a 37 year old trans woman who recently came out to her parents. Let's just say it didn't go so well but having loving, supportive friends and counselors really helps. It also warms my heart to watch videos like this and hear such a sweet pep talk! I
@zaczach621329 күн бұрын
Thanks. Sometimes we try to open the wrong door. I see it a lot people are focused on a certain goal or vision and are blinded to the door that may actually be the one for them. It's what happens when people start thinking where they should be or whats expected of them. Some of the best decisions I have ever made have been encountering a locked door and stepping back and thinking maybe there's a reason this door is difficult to open and if I would choose progress over perfection I'd be better off. I take a very everything in it's own time approach. I don't worry about what I can't do only what I can and how I can be better and improve on my weaknesses. Potential and positive thinking is really just about achievement. Therefore a way to compere yourself to others or what you should be. Be the best you can and screw everything else. I know that doesn't work for everyone but it's a very calm and peaceful way to be. There is a lot of power in saying I am the best version of myself and there's no metric for being a kind person. You may have more potential then me and you may do more to reach it or I may have more then you but I can promise all I care about is bringing peace to myself and sharing that with whoever I can. I's easy to overthink it. Thanks again. Peace.
@dopaminefield29 күн бұрын
Some of my goals could be considered both delusional and realistic at the same time. I keep pursuing them by not concentrating too much on the final result. Instead, I enjoy the process. You are who you are, and you do what you do. There’s no point in dragging yourself down with questions about where it all leads. Just enjoy the process of doing what feels natural to you.
@melaniegriesemer29 күн бұрын
I was also recently so moved by this idea. It was a Friday night and I found a Catholic Church with 24/7 adoration, I’ve never been to this church before and had no idea where exactly to go, there were a few buildings and I kept trying doors and they were all locked, I walked around to the front, it was all dark everything was locked, then I came back around and saw a person entering - I tried the same door I first tried and THEN IT OPENED. Sometimes we have to keep trying and eventually we’ll get in, maybe sometimes we have to find a person who has gone before us to see it’s possible ❤
@newmexicanera29 күн бұрын
Thank you !!!
@HoldenKingdom727 күн бұрын
very poetic way to put it
@MarkAg4729 күн бұрын
Knock Knock.....
@itwillwaffle174529 күн бұрын
I love you and your videos. You really inspire me and anytime I’m having a hard day or hard moment I watch your videos to make myself feel better. I love the way you explain things. 🥰
@anomalousenigma531229 күн бұрын
Keep sharing your wisdom and spreading that light Kindred. Thank you for your words and i hope you have a blessed day as well!
@frankducky613029 күн бұрын
A true stunner!
@TrevorSnaith-xl8fz29 күн бұрын
Everyone limits themself because of their perceived limitations.often people limit themselves due to limits forced upon them by others. It can be overwhelming sometimes.it can stop you from doing anything.
@frankducky613029 күн бұрын
I want to have more goals and ambitions in life but i have self esteem issues and suffer from panic attacks. I was also mercilessly bullies as a kid. All these things have made it difficult for me to express myself and come out of my shell Just as an example im getting a haircut for the first time in months tomorrow and i’m really nervous that my ears, which already freakishly big, are going to stick out even more. That might seem like a dumb thing to get nervous about but it’s how i feel. I always wished i could be a famous actor but i’m not good looking enough or talented enough to make it to the bigtime, or smalltime for that matter, so i settle for being an usher on broadway. At least i get to see talented people perform everynight and then go Home and sing the songs from Wicked for my parents (who are my toughest critics). I’m 37 years old and i know my life is probably as good as its going to get. But for a vivacious, well spoken, beautiful woman such as yourself, the world is truly your oyster. I hope u make your dreams come true with your music or whatever pursuit u set your mind to and really take the world by storm🤩
@cddrive3429 күн бұрын
Love it
@vodka541029 күн бұрын
HEEERESSSSS JOHNNY!!!!
@jeffm720129 күн бұрын
please recc some books on buddhism? you seem so spiritually sound, i want what you have
@dragonviper8322 күн бұрын
Can't we all just admit that society sucks and give up on all this fake positivity?