it reminds me of sth. jah was talkin about about

You look so beautiful in blue! I’m sorry your family wasn’t treating you right. I believe in you too and I’m proud of you. Keep it up 💗💗

Hey are you available to talk to?

You are insane

You are my toxic family <3

This topic it's so important, Thank you because u talked about it. And we love you so much ❤✨

I was really sad before I came across your channel... My girl crush said she wasnt interested in me, and it made me sad because she was my first friend in uni... but we may not be able to hang out anymore.. and then I saw your video @_@ I thought u almost looked similar to her... now I think I can have the strength to de attach myself and take care of myself

This is amazing... goodluck in your master's... I'm a year older than you but the advice and story is great and helpful

My Mother is very toxic. I secretly think she's jealous of me or she just hates me. I have so many examples from my life about how many mental hardships i have endured because of her: 1) I hated my lower teeth, so years ago i had a bonding procedure done to close the gap which made me self conscious about smiling. Once it was done i felt so good about myself and i was ready to finally come out of my shell and talk more. My Mom threw cold water on that right away. She remarked that my tooth looked bad and that it looked like i had some fake substance on them (well, she was right). But still, i cou;dn't believe how insensitive she was about something that very important to me. 2) Years ago, when i was in much better shape, i was obsessed with riding my bicycle. And i told my parents i was determined to one day reach 100 miles in a single ride. After many months of trying and i finally did it one July day after eating plenty of food during my ride so i didn't run out of energy. I was so proud of myself. I told my Mom and she literally changed the subject. Never even acknowledged it. 🙄 3) My quest to find a girlfriend is very important to me. I know my life won't necessarily get better with a girlfriend but it's worth a shot after years of being lonely. Well, my Dad discussed the possibility of going to Latin America or Asia to find a sweetheart for me and my Mom chimed in by snidely remarking that women from those cultures are willing to overlook ugliness if u are American but not poorness. smh P.S. I could write a book about all the other abuses i have suffered at her hands. I used to love my Pop Pop so much who died about 10 years ago, and conversely i never liked my cousin (who is roughly my age and much better looking and more successful than i am). Well, my Mom once admitted that i should love my cousin more because he had defended me when my grandpa said i wasn't very smart and would never succeed in school, She deliberately told me this to hurt me because she knew how much i loved my Grandpa and how disappointed i would be that he secretly thought i was stupid. Seriously, what kind of horrible mother does this stuff?

U are getting your masters at your young age? Wow, i’m 37 and i only have a measly bachelors degree, i was too scared to pursue a masters

Completely stunning!

This is really good advice, but what about the case where someone else you love in your family is caught up in their toxic culture and doesn't have the means or the desire to leave it? That's where I feel I'm at.

y’all needa listen to her fr

I can relate to this title I have a small yet toxic family so I could use this tutorial

I hope you are doing well 😊❤

Yes" it's all,,, about me not others 😉😂🥰.

21:46 ... 24/10 thurs :)

The last few months I have totally discovered how true this is on my own. And then this video comes up and affirms everything I accidentally discovered. Thanks

Thank you so much you deserved a subscriber. I’m 20 too and I just finished uni today, and now since I have a four month break I’m going to just focus on myself from now on and not waste time on other people cause I want to do things that I like and make me happy.

Some of those background sounds sound scary😱

Www❤

Jesus is the meaning to life Amen

Are u indian?

You're so pretty and your voice is cute. I also like your eyes.

Wednesday actress??

Now being selfish gives you status. A doomed society.

Sweet summer child

So demure

*hi* :D

Thank you for the video, you're so inspiring

I like fashion because it can really inspire you in a positive way.

Being authentic is showing your true self to yourself and others all the time.

So inspiring Thank u 🌻

you won’t find your authenticity from a youtube video with [insert any number here below ∞] views

I love you, your videos, and your advice on things. You have such a beautiful smile and your so good and teaching me how to be my own person 🥰🥰🥰

Thx you 🙏🏾

Yeah I struggle with this one. If I'm not mistaken, youve said before that you follow Buddhist philosophy, yes? I do as well, and I'm not sure that we can even be our authentic selves because there is no such thing as the self. That thing you beleive is your 'authentic self' is just your ego and a set of desires and beliefs you have formed about yourself, based on your thoughts and feelings and memories, none of which are real.

true authenticity is extremely hard to find these days and I can't blame people when they are bombarded with programming and judgements at every turn.

She's so gorgeous i love her energy! ❤️✨

♠Black & White 🤍

God is beautiful and loves beauty. Those who attack you for how you look have a do not love their own beauty. They have an insecurity, lack mindset, or inferiority complex in regards to beauty. So what is inside them manifests outside. They do not love themselves unconditionally and thus cannot love others unconditionally. I love you unconditionally.

ur videos do keep me motivated fr !

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Hijab?

Probably the meanest bully remark that i suffered as a kid was when i was about 12. My parents had bought me a really fashionable looking canary yellow jacket for the winter. It had a hood and deep pockets where i could store my candy and i loved it. Well, around this time i was a little chubby for my age so of course some of the bullies in junior high picked up on my pride and immediately went to work making me feel horrible about myself. "Hey, Cab!", they would yell, everytime i wore it on the bus ride, or on the playground when kids played football. Finally i got so mad i ripped it on purpose and threw it in my parents closet and told my parents i had ruined it while playing football when some of the kids barreled into me at full speed and left me writhing on the floor in agony.... To this day i regret that i didn;t have the guts to stand up to this punks and just be proud that i liked the way i looked and kept my prized jacket.

That's me. I'm staying single. I'm very happy being alone. Doing my own thing. Not being controlled. 😊❤

the root cause of bullying for someone like u is clearly jealousy. People see how wonderful u are and it makes them angry, which is completely crazy, especially when its coming from family. I won't be having kids, mostly because i'm a lonely bachelor who is already 37🙄, but even if i had a partner i would do everything in my power to convince my sweetheart to avoid children, for fear that i would end up perpetuating this negative cycle of parents hating their children.

I dont' want to sound like a creep, but i feel if life was fair we would all have a person like this in our lives as our partner, someone who gives us a reason to live... money and possessions are great, but at the end of the day u still have this empty feeling knowing there's no one next to u when u fall asleep... This weekend my parents took me to mall so i could spend the bonus money i got from my job, and while i was there i was looking for slacks and i happened to walk into Old Navy and i was floored by the gorgeous sights... Long legged beauties as far as the eye could see... And i was one of the few men in the store. But just as i was getting excited, and trying to make as much eager eye contact as possible, it all ended in failure as not a single girl maintained steady eye contact with me. I left the store dejected. And a trip with my Mom to Sephora went just as bad. I was practically rubbing elbows with all sorts of beautiful young girls and women in there, but not a single one noticed me. Even walking out of the mall with my parents on both sides with them holding all my expensive purchases (i looked like a vip) didn't work either, as i kept getting rude looks from all these women and finally we just headed home with my tail between legs for a hot dinner and a warm soak in the bath so i could relieve all the negative energy in my body. P.S. At least i got fuzzy socks at the mall which is some consolation.

Orchid smiley next to window🌝 👶😎☺️ 😄

I was told once Guitar played on piano not sound realistic. I think it sounds beautiful. I keep playing piano guitar even if it is real guitar. Hold onto a sound a dream ✨️ 👶 😎