Not Feminine Not Masculine - INFJs Have A Very Androgynous Personality

[@BoomShikha]

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[@prasannatashinde7254]

I am like this,even I fell like a tomboy.

[@eimanm4676]

The INFJ is a gender on its own 😂, and no one understands what gender is that except INFJs , hard to explain 😁, story of my life

[@supernovaone7876]

Eiman M thought I was the only one that knew that.

[@BoomShikha]

BRILLIANT!!

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

Bingo

[@lucyvalentinovalverdegonza2241]

true that!

[@micks336]

Or you wonder if there are other genders on other planets.

[@SadeMetsavirta]

I can relate to this so much, I’m still uncomfortable with people looking at me in a sexual way when it’s not a person I feel the same way about :,0 I wish I could just decide who is attracted to me and have the rest of the world be platonic towards me

[@BoomShikha]

Yessss!! Oh my god. This is so me. I want everyone to be my brother and sister. EVERYONE!

[@AcerW-s9e]

me too

[@david_oliveira71]

Ohh yeah, that'd be perfect...

[@puffyevergreens]

Yesssssss me too

[@donnastichert549]

I always see myself as a human first...a female human second...a sex-role stereotype--NEVER!

[@BoomShikha]

Brilliantly said!

[@redwolfpaper7691]

I also have naturally gravitated to having mostly all male friends. I didn’t understand why for the longest time beyond the fact that I enjoyed myself more while being around them. However, upon realizing that I absorb emotions so easily, and then, eventually discovering that I am an infj, it became apparent it was the lack of drama that did it. With guy friends, not only can I relate more, with the subjects I enjoy, but they are less likely to bring their emotions to the table, which means I can go home without absorbing their baggage. They’re also way less clingy and I can come and go as I please without upsetting the friendship. They are also way less likely to bring they’re problems to me and expect me to be their shoulder to cry on, or in the event that they do, are more likely to follow my advice, which is quite refreshing. The only cravat is that sometimes I have to weed through those guys that think they can have a relationship with me by intentionally coming in as a friend first and then switching gears soon after. Annoying, but not too bothersome and I feel no guilt kicking them out of my life.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, it's always the case. We are not going to have a relationship with you, just friendship. Get it!

[@shirleneedwards5493]

Yesss! Relatable

[@1Road2Success]

I am a male INFJ and I can totally relate to this!!!!!!!!! Wow!!!!! I’d never heard of this before but it makes so much sense!! I wouldn’t describe myself as feminine but I can relate to a lot of things that are considered “feminine” by society! I love romantic comedies and movies. And it’s sooooo much easier for me to keep up with female friends than male friends! But I’m both! I also love technology, sports, and I’m attracted to women! As you explained here we’re very complex. Although I have felt insecure at times about having this quality, over time I’ve come to accept myself more and it’s become something that I’m very proud of. This was very eye-opening for me! Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, exactly. Complex creatures are INFJs. :)

[@kennyblue587]

Some INFJ men can be percieved as very masculine but when people really get to know them they show there feminine side

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, same with the female INFJs. :)

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

Oh man, I hear ya

[@anthonybogart5224]

Wow brother, spot on!

[@cahlelammon2846]

pretty much

[@telemahostelemahou7406]

kenedy blue thats exactly it, my friend! Yes we, infj males ARE sensitive indeed and we need to admit the fact that we cannot approach women so easily even if they make some moves themselves. This however doesn't mean we are sissies.. If we WANT it we GET it. We are "sigma males" as far as i understand. I personally dislike both "alphas" for being annoying and "betas" too for insulting masculinity in so many ways.

[@VoiceOfPassion]

That's so us! Me and my boyfriend are both INFJ. We always joke with each other about him being the lady and me being the guy in this relationship :D

[@BoomShikha]

Ha!! I love it.

[@AzimutEleven]

OMG... I TOTALLY relate to this! :) It's always a surprise for me when people say I'm so delicate, soft spoken, feminine. Whaaat?! I feel I'm so much the opposite! I mean, I'm the one who shake hands and hug or punch guys on their sholder, instead of kissing them! :p

[@BoomShikha]

Hahah! Yeah, isn't that weird? I am so masculine to myself, that when people say I'm feminine, I am bowled over.

[@Ephesians5-14]

Lol omg me too

[@sarahfountain1064]

I am right there with you girl, I have no use for society's boxes especially as a lesbian INFJ. All my years in school and even into my 20's I was trying to fit into society's box but I now know it is no place for me and I am all the more happier for it.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, absolutely!! There's no point to it, really. Because people will hate you even if you fit in and do everything 'right'.

[@stringbean2620]

I just came out too....it makes the sliver of possible people as a companion even smaller......

[@ThaiGinger7]

This is really interesting, and I totally relate. I identify as feminine, definitely, but I eschew overtly "girly" things. I love my athletic build and short, pixie haircut. I get along equally well with men and women on the level of friendship. And though I'm a perfectly attractive woman, men rarely hit on me or pursue me in a romantic way, probably because I don't present myself as looking for that type of relationship with them (this can be a great frustration in the rare instances when I WOULD like to solicit a romantic overture). I find that this all puts me in an awkward position relative to the current state of gender and sexual identity politics. For example, even though I embody a sort of androgyny with respect to my personal characteristics, I can't quite get on board with gender non-binarism because I am perfectly content being female. But I also struggle with the #metoo movement because I don't feel that sense of shared oppression by men. I think what it comes down to is that my gender and sexuality do not feel like the primary factors that influence the way I walk through world. They feel like very subordinate aspects of my identity. I think of myself as a scholar, a writer, an athlete, an artist, a friend...and then a woman who is occasionally romantically interested in men. And so while these movements to open up opportunities for women or to provide more options for how people express gender and sexuality seem like things I should get behind, I mostly find myself annoyed that they push us to put these aspects of identity front and center. I would be curious to know what others think about this.

[@BoomShikha]

I LOVE this comment! Because it describes quite articulately everything that I feel about being a woman in this world. I also don't feel oppressed by men and don't get the #metoo movement. Thanks so much for sharing this!! You are awesome.

[@supernovaone7876]

Wow. I'm 66 and never knew anyone like me until I took the test and found out I am INFJ a couple weeks ago. As a very young boy I had a crush on the girl next door but was banned from seeing her because in the 1950s boys that played with girls were considered sissies. So I got tough. And alone.

[@sergeygolik7698]

Sonic Boom harsh,hope it got better?

[@BoomShikha]

Awwwww. :(

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

Aaaw :(

[@supernovaone7876]

sergey golik Thanks for your compassion. I didn't mean to bum anyone out and yes I can honestly say I've never been more excited to be alive. Spent way too many years with the futile goals of trying to make myself "better" and "normal." Just recently came to the realization that I'm loved the way I am. The past has no hold on me and am grateful to be alive and believe in miracles.

[@ironsnowflake1076]

Sonic Boom welcome to the INFJ family...your comment really touched my heart, I found out I was an INFJ about a year or so ago, I will be 42 this August. The wonderful young woman who, creates this channel, literally changed my life, because she is who led me down the path of understanding myself. I always knew I was different, it made me feel broken somehow, I felt like I didn't fit into those societal norms you were speaking of in your comment....one day I was researching personality disorders online and by random chance, one of Boom's videos popped up..and her words were like an epiphany! She is who introduced me to personality typing (had never heard of it)...what a beautiful experience it has been to discover that I am not alone and my personality is normal, but just very rare, I wonder if you have experienced a kind of spiritual awakening as well. I kind of felt like parts of my heart were dark, and I was wandering around trying to feel my way to try and understand myself, and Boom turned on a 1,000 watt lightbulb. It has been amazing!.....anyway sorry so long, I was so fascinated by your comment on your recent discovery as well.

[@mariko9910]

I totally agree with you...feminine outside but 'cave man' inside...😝the 'cave man' came out bcoz i dont like asking for help or when i am angry. I always think i am more like a tomboy while growing up than a girly girl but i do like to dress up once in a while.

[@BoomShikha]

Cave man inside!!! Muahahhaha. Love it.

[@jenniferkeeponfighting7561]

You should see me at Home Depot lol

[@lenabussman1808]

I am INFJ and l can tell that because INFJ are such extreme inverts which is a feminist energy most INFJ develop a very strong exavert side that is extremely masculine that helps them function in society and deal with every day life. Which means if a INFJ is dule in nature and truly very balanced. U have to have a thought for every feeling and a feeling for every thought so feeling & thought are balanced. I would agree that my mindset is neither male or female it is a balance between male & female. Raising my children l was both a mother & a father to them. Each INFJ experiences are different because of our physic abilities and how we deal with society, family and upbringing make a huge different on how an INFJ fits into the world. I've never felt strange about being an INFJ. I have thought other people where strange though. We have to have both logic & feeling to navigate this world. That's the bottom line. What has helped me is meditation & self hypnosis. I'm a very tough lady. All INFJs will have to toughen up to achieve their goals. U can't sit around thinking oh ok special because on rare & on to sentive to have to deal with these idiots. U just deal with them and move on. When your out in a sea of people for to long find a space u can be alone in and regroup your energy. Its like charging your cell phone. When u loose power just plug yourself back in. Physical exercise helps also because it keeps us grounded & strong. Basically your body is like a radio receiver that picks up frequencies of others. We feel others feelings, we feel the earth energies , some of us are telepathic and can hear sound waves ECT. It can be overwhelming at times. I have worn a lot of mens clothing before while working on film shoots with mainly male crews. I was working physically hard a well as beinging creative's , the t-shirts and hiking boats or basketball shoes protected my body and helped me. I am also a fashion stylists and have a closet full of dresses, high heels and handbags and love jewlery and beauitful girly things but most days lm in shorts, tank tops and sneakers and on a bit of a DVA. We are who we are make the most of it and have Big Fun! I did!

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us!! I am sure the younger INFJs will really learn from it. :)

[@jenniferkeeponfighting7561]

I was told last week I was freakishly strong, like a sasquatch. I was like aw thanks and put on my lip gloss.

[@BoomShikha]

Hahahha! :P

[@propheticdreams8703]

The feminine / masculine obsession with infj can also bleed over into sexuality. Most don’t want to discuss it but I believe most infj women can relate to the idea of penis envy, and I don’t mean this in a negative way. The same can hold true to infj males in the opposite.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@aaronhuffey6390]

I am so happy I found your video. All my life I have never felt I fit in. I am a guy I definitely look like a guy. Could say I look like a scary guy with my shaved head and goatee. But I am very soft spoken and feminine type guy on the inside. I tend to have more female friends then guy friends. It’s funny at work most of my friends are lesbians. I seem to get along better with them. It’s crazy while writing this I’m still in shock that I am not the only person in the world that is like this. Thank you for making these videos.

[@BoomShikha]

You are so very welcome!! Thank you for watching, and welcome to the INFJ world. :)

[@No_Enemies_Kale]

This tends to show that INFJs are more in tune with the Anima/Animus. Something I've been into when I started learning Jungian psychology and TOOL (Ænima). Being in touch with the opposite sex qualities and not judging them or repressing them. Brings a person to a more wholisitic view of themselves and the world around them, which can usually tend to the sense of seeming intimidating since it is being closer to the soul, which most people have a hard time with, especially with the cultural stereotypes of what men and women should be. Those who judge or repress these qualities tend to be weaker mentally, and that'll show in other areas of their lives, but never really dig deep into their psyches and what their shadows produce in their unconscious behaviors. Interesting stuff lol

[@BoomShikha]

Really interesting!

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

Thanks for explaining that. I have male coworkers try to talk to me about sports. I know enough to improvise through the conversation. But I always felt uncomfortable with the conversation. I would walk away muttering under my breath, calling them a "chest thumper". I enjoy a ball game now and then, but I just can't get into it. I try talking to them about my G.I. Joe collection and KZbin channel. I get met with the same attitude I give, yes they relate, but I get the "geek" vibe coming from them. I like who I am, because I feel that I can meet both sexes on fairly equal ground. That helps me in my dating life. I throw the phrase around, "I understand", quite often. Why? Because of this beautiful gift of INFJ. It's never done me wrong.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, the beautiful gift of INFJ. I love it!

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

And yeah we really do understand, not just saying it like a lot of people do

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

Eric Côté YES! thank you. We have an uncanny understanding, boy has that been a blessing in all aspects of my life.

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

JoeMotion Videos 82 me too

[@walkthehighway]

I agree it's no fun for an INFJ to conform to society's stereotypes, it's just stressful

[@BoomShikha]

So stressful!!

[@davidnotte4424]

You nailed it again!!👍 Perhaps is was the amount of female family members that raised me (INFP, ENFJs etc) which created this “perfect storm” that Ive turned out to be? I relate with females 80% of the time and males 20%. Its easy to blend in with the “guys” nowadays, earlier in life not so much. I never complained though, it was always nice to be surrounded by the ladies😉 when the guys were out doing their “bro stuff”

[@BoomShikha]

Hahah! Bro stuff sounds boring. Just kidding.

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

Yeah me too. Always had a lot of female friends too, about 50%

[@Frogluv64]

Wow!! This is so totally me!! I was always a "tomboy" as a little girl, building greenhouses, digging tunnels, playing with cars, collecting bugs!! And had cousins my age with lots of money who lived next door and would come over to flaunt their new dress or jewelry, and I would just be like "Oh ok!" And run off to make a slingshot. As an adult I learned how to change the oil on my car, lay brick, weld, stucko walls, and drive a tractor!!! I absolutely love being a woman though! I am on my second marriage and in trying to figure out what happened in my first marriage, I think I I may have come across as amasculating!? Now, I let my husband try his sho at fixing things around the house first. (And when it is put together wrong and is done skrewing it up) then I will say hey can I try? It is so funny!! Love it!!😀 Thanks for the great on-site!!

[@BoomShikha]

Hahahaa! Awesome stuff. :)

[@vale900m8]

Omg that's very interesting!! Why didn't I find you earlier?? I'd have spare myself a lot of "crisis" ahahaha thank you (sorry my english is not that perfect) I just thought that I was strange and that I had to change everything about me to conform in this society. That caused me a lot of psychological and physical problems through the years... You don't know how useful you are

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!!! :)

[@dyspepticepilepticskeptic424]

True, I don’t get why all my female friends wear makeup everyday. I don’t really feel like myself when I wear pink, flashy dresses and certainly hate it when others would assume I would do these stuff just because I am another “dumb” girl. Although I see myself as quite more masculine than the others, as I like wearing dark colors and won’t be caught dead with a purse, I am still very much a heterosexual female, unlike the standard stereotypes. I actually never noticed this until a guy in my class pointed it out.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!! We are a mass of contradictory sexual stereotypes. :)

[@RM-sx5kl]

your friends wear makeup every day because they want to.

[@livin4thelionofjudah]

Again, yes! I had an awesome best girl friend when I was a child, but she abruptly moved when I was in going into 7th grade, then we moved out of state a year later and for decades after that I didn't understand how to be friends with females. Totally, "men are easy to hang out with because I know how they think"! I'm in my early 40's now and I've learned slowly over the years how to converse with and make friends with women and kind of "speak their language." I do wear makeup, mostly because I have an older sister who I was very close with growing up who wore makeup (ESFP) and taught me how, and I can talk about it for a little bit (mostly to explore new makeup that will improve my routine), but I still feel more comfortable around quirky, funny, easy going males than females. I'm the IT dept in our house with 2 teenagers. Guys in my office come to me with techie questions too and I've always loved math- it's just solving puzzles, which is so fun! 🤗 I hate wearing dresses and my decorating style is more masculine than my husband's.

[@BoomShikha]

Love it!!! Thanks for sharing...

[@jenniferkeeponfighting7561]

I've been told I speak and translate fluent dude speak. Guys are great.

[@EH_888]

Yes, I appear to be relatively androgynous, however, I am heterosexual. I prefer minimalist comfortable clothing. I also have had issues as a child with accepting that I was a girl. Puberty was extremely embarassing for me. I also feel awkward around groups of women. We've usually very little or nothing in common. My very best friend is an INFP male (since 9th grade; I am now 28).

[@BoomShikha]

Interesting!! Very similar to me, indeed.

[@charlesgreen2027]

Play your own role, that's how I live

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!

[@anthonybogart5224]

Funny you bring this up because I've always been able to have conversations easier with women. Not that I fail with conversations with other guys but it's more natural to converse with girls.... unless I'm crushing on her. Then I suck at talking . And another thing, I feel like INFJs only have crushes, because we rarely get to the point of relationship. Maybe it's just me.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, great point about crushes. It never ever goes anywhere for me as well. :)

[@gingerbreadzak]

00:12 🚺 Despite being an INFJ, the speaker sometimes feels androgynous and struggles with societal expectations of femininity. 02:40 🧔‍♂ The speaker identifies more with masculine traits and finds it easier to connect with male friends rather than female ones. 05:29 👩‍🔧 INFJs are often androgynous, displaying characteristics of both genders, which can lead to difficulties in fitting societal norms. 06:27 🤓 Despite societal expectations, the speaker embraces her technical skills and interests, challenging stereotypes about gender roles. 10:26 💪 The speaker advocates for authenticity and breaking free from societal molds, emphasizing the importance of pursuing one's interests regardless of gender stereotypes.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@crischansan]

There's so much to say. Very interesting and a broad topic, love it. I get you really and I relate much. I'm one of the boys. I also consider myself more masculine (I even consider myself, a gentleman) but also feminine in terms that I'm mild-mannered, soft-spoken (which are typical INFJ traits), long-haired etc. For me it's easier to be friends with boys too than with girls. It's hard to get me angry but, inequality, may it be in gender, gender roles, hierarchies, race, age-related authority (not to say to disrespect elders, I just dont like the fact that you respect them just because they're a certain age, etc. when in fact respect is everyone's right.) It's one the things that makes me tick-it makes my blood boil esp when directed at me. Just thinking about it..argh And regarding a theory, since I believe in reincarnation. Let's say, you're an old soul, you lived a hundred or a thousand lives, as a man, a woman, a mother, a businessman, a carpenter, Mafia, a warrior of Rome, a jazz singer, a nun, a knight, an alchemist, an Egyptian, a "tree" doctor, a caretaker of kids in a tribe, or born in a family of cheesemakers in, let's say, Pompeii or even an albino bird that's already extinct. If say, we are all those lives (even if it's not true) then were not doing ourselves justice by fitting in a few specific boxes dictated by society. We're all unique in one way or another so make your own box you can call - "yourself".

[@BoomShikha]

LOVE this comment. Yes, we are everything all at once, so how can you put me into a tiny box?

[@blackpearl1t]

cris chan great comment man esp love the reincarnation part

[@crischansan]

Thanks man and sister! It is also said that the people we have, close to and will encounter in this life had already been part of our lives before. If we lived as old souls then, more likely, everyone met before as family, friends, acquaintances or just someone you knew in different circumstances. Hahah, so if you find someone in the crowd you're oddly familiar to, have indescribable instinctual connection with and/or someone you're comfortable with at first glance (also, people you haven't met personally), then at least say hi to that old friend.

[@blackpearl1t]

cris chan hi! Haha rly appreciate ur comment man or woman haha. Doesnt rly matter. So much love and insight. Its rly nice to see. I love comments that touch my heart and resonate

[@crischansan]

jes gam Hello! woman 😊

[@t.anderson6069]

Great video. I totally relate. I am female and most of my female friends are 20+ years older because I have little in common with women my own age. Also, I prefer to cover up. Who wants attention from creepy guys?

[@BoomShikha]

Eeeyu, not me. :S

[@oscarl.3563]

Halfway through. I can see why you'd think of yourself as tomboyish and you'd probably blend in with the guys and be easy to get along with. But I think that that is just one mental layer. You're also very feminine. A woman for sure, unless my eyes are deceiving me... As for myself I have long hair, socially considered a feminine trait, and have pursued some feminine lines of work and did enjoy playing with one particular girl when I was a small kid. I have a sensual side, I suppose. But there is something about my nature that is _steel_ . It's not empty words, but true. It's a unique and personal quality of mine, of my soul, manifesting itself in my body and well aura. Like a bullet in space, flying in the direction that I've chosen. Hard, few get close or stay close, most move out of the way. I lose touch with it, but with a little bit of meditation the sensation of it comes back.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, great point. Thanks for sharing!!

[@asgardlowkey891]

I relate to this content, this explains every questions in my mind since I found out in my psychology test that I am an androgynous and it makes me realize and understand why am I acting like this. When I shop for clothes I always go to men’s section bc I feel protected when I wear t shirt and not exposing my skin or whatever. I can also be friends with boys and when it comes to girls I can’t relate anymore when they talk about make ups. Sometimes I just wished that I am a girly type of girl so won’t feel judged or whatever and I don’t consider myself a lesbian coz I just don’t want to be identified to be like that because my feminine is higher than my masculinity when it comes to trait. But I feel you when it comes to clothing my appearance is more like manly I don’t know I just wear t shirt and pants that’s all But I have one more question, what gender do you fall in love with?

[@BoomShikha]

I fall in love with the masculine gender, myself. But that's just random preference. :)

[@chamboyette853]

I wish I could meet someone like you, as a friend. I'm a guy and tend to have an easier time talking with females. And in some ways I react like a female.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!! Exactly. I have done a video on this - how INFJ males are more feminine minded, and INFJ females are more masculine minded. 🙆🙆🙆🙆

[@chamboyette853]

@@BoomShikha You should see a movie on youtube where this kind of stuff is suggested. It was a long time ago before the crossing of genders became more mainstream. Would you like the link? It's 15 minutes long. By the way, can you give me a link to your video?

[@krane8349]

I relate to this!! So much. Like in every way. I’m very feminine , but have many male friends and have always felt very masculine internally. !! This is crazy. I have always thought this, and you put it into words thank you :)

[@BoomShikha]

I'm so glad to hear that this resonated with you!!

[@Margaret75]

Omg I never played with dolls either in fact one year I asked for a play machine gun so I could play army with my friend Greg. The boys would not let me play because I didn’t have my own gun! Instead my parents got me an Easy Bake Oven!!!!! I was so pissed off 😤 we lived on the 3rd story of an apt building and I threw the oven over the balcony and watched it crash to the ground! So satisfied for doing it too! Pi so relate to you right now!

[@BoomShikha]

Ha!!

[@simplyjoe7888]

Haha omg this is so true. But it's always important to work both types of energy.

[@BoomShikha]

Absolutely!!! That's paramount.

[@RainbowSkyDancer]

On a related point, I'm really blessed to have people in my entourage - my ceremony family especially - that accept me as is, no bullshit, no judging. I'm extremely blessed even. Quirks and all. Some may not understand me necessarily, but the acceptance is so important.

[@BoomShikha]

That sounds so wonderful! I am so happy for you.

[@kimireneanderson9645]

Oh, yeah, I was a tomboy all the way. Didn't play with dolls. About 15 years ago my male chauvinist brother found this card trick and told me that 100% of the time females always picked a certain card, while 100% of the time men supposedly picked another card. Well, I picked the card he said men always chose. My brother was so weirdly incensed. It was interesting to learn, however, and I hope I find this card trick/test online, but what I did learn that day was that he was really hostile towards women. I learned more about him that day than he did about me. I totally saw his real face that day and it informed my relationship with him for the years that followed. Love, love, love your videos. They track across gender and age. Thank you! So on the mark.

[@BoomShikha]

So interesting about the cards!!! Thats such a cool trick. Love you as well, and thanks for bringing your awesome energy to this channel. xx

[@blackpearl1t]

Great talk fav topic is staying urself n leaving behind labels

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!!

[@crischansan]

yup, only bottles deserve labels, they may not even like it either :)

[@Mayhemrock]

As a male infj, this makes so much sense. In India, not being great at math is pretty much a death sentence, career wise. I was always more the artistic type and it was always in conflict with my "traditional" role. My interests were always nerdy though. Sci-fi, the world wars, heavy metal. The way I interact with people though was more feminine and my emotional nature made my female friends consider me a "drama queen". At least now I know why. Being a heterosexual male, this makes it difficult to find some who is genuinely attracted to you because you do not play a clichéd macho man.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, I know what you mean. It is really hard for a male INFJ, especially one like you. :S

[@Mayhemrock]

@@BoomShikha Thanks for the reply! Really appreciate it. Love your channel. It's helped me figure out so many things about myself. Keep up the totally awesome work helping people figure out themselves and their lives!

[@toryclemons1604]

Omg i didn't even know this. Thank you soooo much. Im a TS female and now i know not to be ashamed bout me still comming off as a bit still "masculine". Ty hon your fabulous. ⚤⚘

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, I know what you mean. Thanks for watching!

[@kaunas163]

i'm infj female and men always come to me for help :D i'm in IT, programming, systems architecture, teaching, etc, and everyone comes to me for help :D

[@BoomShikha]

Hehehehe! 😅😅

[@Margaret75]

Omg me! I relate as a male as well I think like a guy and have always surrounded myself with men in my career I was in data networking management and was always the only woman! Don’t make friends with women easily. Even with my gay friends find me androgynous the lesbians hit on me and the gay men call me a gay man in a woman’s body lol. I am also very feminine to my straight friends thank you for this!!!!!

[@BoomShikha]

You are absolutely welcome!!

[@monicasojka2738]

My best friends are very girly! They are graceful and they care how they look! I am the one that loves to get dirty in the garden! So I have the ugliest hands. So I feel like a clumsy ox! I am really very petite.

[@BoomShikha]

Awww, I know how you feel. :S

[@sieglockh]

This might explain why I feel at home at home depot but also Michaels craft store

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, absolutely! Well put.

[@jenniferkeeponfighting7561]

I go to Home Depot when I feel stressed! Sawdust.....big wide aisles of toys.....

[@henningskogstoe2700]

Beeing a male INFJ kinda sucks...you are right about not naturally expressing masculine vibes. Which is a turn-off when it comes to triggering attraction towards females. As long as you are decent looking INFJ female, its all that most men in this world cares about.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@mannyabreu2047]

I wish you wanted kids... this world needs more people like you!!!

[@BoomShikha]

Awww, thanks Manny!

[@AcerW-s9e]

i used to love getting hand me downs from my older male cousin; shirts, shorts, jeans. when his sister gave me her clothes i didn't know where to wear them for. BUT i found my grandma's traditional clothes and i was ecstatic. go figure

[@BoomShikha]

Hahaha!!

[@dhananjaysharrma10d2]

I'm an INFJ, and the thing which I like the most is Physics!

[@BoomShikha]

Yes!!!!

[@jodiwest1382]

Thank U Didn't Know What Androgynous Meant😂

[@ChitraJayawardena]

They are girly girls but there is a warrior and a protective leader that is very much similar to a father figure inside them. . Their Empathy and Compassion create another protective mother figure too. Yes, they are excellent at Maths and Arts. They would be Multitalented individuals. Yes they love to be dressed up like princesses in fairy tales.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!

[@pgg3684]

This video really hit home! I am girly looking, but have a masculine personality and it confuses people. I don't care to fit the mold just to make other people feel comfortable. I enjoy having male friends and playing sports and usually get bored and annoyed of hanging out with the majority of women because I don't care about most of the things they do, plus I hate drama. I enjoy dressing up and being feminine but my hobbies and general interests aren't very feminine.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, I enjoy dressing up as well, but then I also enjoy working on technical things, and working on Calculus problems. So it's definitely a conundrum. :)

[@purple_hoodie21]

Woah! Being an INFJ and having gender identity issues, this explains a lot about me

[@BoomShikha]

Oh I am glad I could help a bit. Thank you for sharing. xx

[@ghost-facedhindu4275]

Many people in India believe in a idea that people are a split between masculine and feminine. Some people are majority masculine, and minority feminine. And vise-versa, me I'm a 65-35 split in favor of masculine. I've shot assault rifles and thrown grenades for the US Army, work on cars, hunt, and do martial arts. However, I also paint my fingernails (and toenails), like goth fashion, do yoga, and wear an anklet and toe rings. Like I said, it's a split.

[@BoomShikha]

Really interesting!! Thanks for sharing.

[@USSJ2Otaku3084]

Wow, there's much I'd write about. I grew up being one of the few boys coming from a family with more females that is matriachal. I'm more masculine (possibly more of a gentleman) but I can in some way understand some ways females express themselves due to the endless hours of lectures my aunt's were giving me at the age 6 (yeah, they were not having it). Then you have my uncle's and at times, my father whom I also would go through hours of manly talk at an early age (they too, weren't having it 😆); just don't accept the alcohol. So it's like I'm in the eye of the storm of a tornado. I feel like in life, I'm walking in the equilibrium. Most of the woman I know (whom I'm friends with) are somewhat tomboyish. I have a balanced amount of friends, male and female. Friends usually come to me for advice and help in most aspects. So I have retained some sort of balance as I grew up. I never had grudges nor was I ever interested in gossip. I "LOVE" Math and Science. DIYs like as in building your own go kart and etc. Played sports a lot. Loved to rough house a bit since I never could play with kids my age. I am a geek as well and embrace it. Futuristic technology is what excites me and I can go on for hours; still want a hoverboard 😏. From the guy side it was always told that whatever happens, you should keep the feels concealed. So I was emotionally mature at an early age. If only thing that comes off as feminine would be the facial (hate it) features (if I shaved), a bit of the voice (hate it) and I guess emotional and supportive roles. Do you know what it's like to call Target and having the rep calling you ma'am?!?! (Phone rings) Rep: Hello, My name is Cassandra. This is Target. How can I help you? Me: Hello Cassandra 😄! I'm calling to find out if these two specific items are in stock 🤔. Cassandra: Okay, so what's the first item that you're looking for? Me: I'm looking forward to buy a Nighthawk Router from NETGEAR 😄. Second item is a fragrance called Dunhill Fresh. Cassandra: Okay, and you said the second item is Dunhill Fresh, correct 😄? Me: Y-Yes, it's on my to buy list 🙂 Cassandra: Okay, *ma'am*, I'll put you on a brief hold, okay 😃? (Silence that speaks for itself and Target Phone music chimes in) Me: You.....(and what ever holiness is left is now gone and it's when I use my voice for the worst. My accent comes out. Mischievous settles in.) Mother: Elija~ I sense a disturbance in the force. Uh oh, I know that smirk and twinkle in the eye. That twinkle is a spark... don't do it Me: What smirk? What twinkle? Mother: When someone calls you a ma'am smirk....and there's a flame behind those eyes that's about to~ (too late 🤣) Me: (Uses the flight attendant voice/auto machine voice) Hello, I'm calling to find out if the item is in stock....(instantaneously follows with a very old man voice) Do you have it please? (Follows back with the auto-machine female voice) I am willingly to pick this up today (Cassandra gets the hint because she's laughing even though the phone is down...it takes her 3 minutes to collect her thoughts) Cassandra: Is this a prank call? Lol 🤣 Me (Regular Voice): No, not at all 😐 (Internally: 😈..Let her have it once more) Cassandra: (Lol) Unfortunately, we don't have that router or the fragrance. Me: Okay, thanks 🙂. Cassandra: Thank you for calling Target, (laughs) bye! Me: (auto-machine female voice) Bye (raspy voice follows) for now....hehehe 😅. (Conscience: Was that even necessary 😒?) Me (internal voice): Silence 😣, for just this one time 🙏 Yes, life for an INFJ, male and female, can be quite rough. I tend to live life with humor as it's one of the things that keep me living. Now, I have a parent to take care of, tchau for now 😁😅.

[@BoomShikha]

YOU KILL ME!!! This is brilliant. :) I laughed all the way through.

[@USSJ2Otaku3084]

Boom Shikha Conscience was not for me on this one 😂. I'm like "Shhh, just this one time 😋! I won't do harm, I promise 😇🙏. I promise I will retract the horns and go back to the Ways of the Halo 😈".

[@hanaboskova]

Hehe :D I work for company making electric cables system for trains and I love it! Not my dream job, but Im thinking about it all the time and I really reallly really (hihi) enjoy doing it. You speak from my mind, sis.

[@BoomShikha]

Awesome!!!

[@Esperanzaaa]

Ive been watching alot of your videos because I am an infj & it nice to feel like I can relate to someone so much ! Lol i find myself being very feminine at times but ive been told i am balanced between masculine & feminine nature. I try not to dress too revealing because of the fact i know i attract unwanted attention & i try not to do that often. Its about balance to me.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching and giving me your support! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@KyleBeanBurrito]

The whole molding into a certain shape thing is the bane of my existence. When I was younger, the deputy principal thought I had autism just because I was different, no, I'm an INFJ. Don't get me wrong though, I have no problem with people who do have autism as most of the ones I've met are lovely people and they're actually pretty clever.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, indeed!

[@Silla685]

Thanks for your insight, Boom Shikha. Yes, I know what is that you're going through since I'm an Asian female and there's a lot of stereotypes that put on people by society. I don't understand why they had to judge us negatively just because we didn't fit with the stereotypes. Aren't we free to do whatever we want as long we don't hurt other people ? Don't you agree ? Thanks for your video ^^/ *pardon my language and grammar also mispelling that occur. thanks ^^/

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, I agree, and thanks for watching!

[@prachirahate1631]

No wonder why I was Kung Fu & power ranger fan when I was a kid. And my dad was what are you watching, so much fight😅 Ya being a female I mostly do man stuff which I thought that this trait came from my mom because she is manly (she'd lift heavy things, do fixing of things etc what a dad should do). Also, how did you studied math, especially calculus. Though I'm studying Astrophysics but I still struggle with it. I love the fact that how confident you were when you said 'im good at math'. I want say like that one day too. But I just do calculus mechanically. I'm still not able to see behind the scene stuff or the big or whole picture of how math works. How did you figured out? Any book recommendations?😅 (Also, one thing is before starting any task I get scared of it. Thinking, will this really be understood by me. When will that day come when I too understand the stuff like others because I still struggle to study. I mean I manage to get average grades but I'm still not satisfied with the way I work & my understanding)

[@BoomShikha]

Maths is alllll about practice, daily practice. I would do at least 2 hours of practice work with everyday, also because I found it fascinating, it made my brain work, and I loved it. :)

[@purpledallas3165]

Great video as usual. I read somewhere that Libra females come off as more masculine and Libra males come off as more feminine. I know this is true for me as a Libra (October 16) INFJ. I gravitate towards men all the time and as a lesbian it can be tricky because I want friendships with them only (because we have a lot in common sports and beer) and not a relationship.

[@BoomShikha]

So interesting!! Thanks for sharing. I don't know much about astrology. :)

[@jodiwest1382]

U R A True Blessing Girl Thank U😍😁

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching. :)

[@forgedinink2546]

Tee shirts, sneakers. Skirts suck lol, I recently decided to try wearing more girly clothing and I didn't feel like it suited me. I don't really feel like a Tom Boy but I definitely don't feel girly either. I do tend to dress in clothing that are as comfortable and intimidating (usually band tee shirts lol) as possible when I feel like I'm approaching an uncomfortable situation. (Let's be real though I'm probably not intimidating at all) I had a lot of problems with friends in high school because I didnt relate to the dating, shopping, makeup or crushes. lol

[@BoomShikha]

Same here!!

[@akprincess1999]

I ❤️ your videos so so much. I have always been called a 'dude chick' my guy friends would always hang out and complain about the same issues we were having with a significant other. I am feminine but masculine.

[@BoomShikha]

Thank you so much for watching! I really, really appreciate the support.

[@c.s.70]

I get what you mean ;) so true. There are layers of paradoxes here.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, so many freaking layers. :)

[@c.s.70]

Totally. Complex layers but can be tiresome sometimes, can't begin to find ways to explain to others what can seem like sometimes seemingly random, out of place, confusing or even alarming behaviors to others when there is a cohesive logical thread behind our behaviors. Thank you btw for making these videos! So agree with you on the androgeny traits as a fellow female INFJ here, can't really be boxed in but even here there are some paradoxical aspects, it's like we are both fem/masc but also have extremities where as a female INFJ I prefer a male partner who is even more masculine than I am but with the right amount of feminine insight and also underneath my seemingly hard exterior there is a very vulnerable and feminine core while having a very ambitious uncompromising scale of vision of an ideal world. I also wonder how much we overcompensate from the frustrating categorization early and still in our lives as females as well as in a society that values masculine traits. To what extent have we abandoned certain genuine feminine traits in us falsely associated with shallow fem that turned us off in the first place? I know INFJ strongly craves both acceptance/belonging as well as individuality and freedom to be and follow my vision in an uncompromised manner. It can be a struggle to figure these things in a world that is not easily conducive to these things, but I have a feeling that it will be worth it in the end. Your videos bring dialogue on subjects only INFJs seem to deal with often alone that nobody seem to get. Keep up the the good work!

[@lenabussman1808]

Last week l was waiting in line at a building that had benches. There where people sitting everywhere a young mother with a baby in a stroller & a another small child tryed to move down the aisle when her number was called. A black women sitting on the bench started complaining and making a big issue out of the fact she had to move her feet when the young mother with the stroller passed through. And the women got other people to start complaining. I'm not sure if it was because lm an INFJ but l got mad really mad and l looked at the women and the people sitting with her bitching and l said children should All ways have first priority. They where shocked. The women said Oh u think so. I said I know so! Its the petty things that demons do that irrate the shit out of me. There just so dam stupid!

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, some people can be so stupid, but the problem is that they can influence other people along with them!

[@hitsounds]

Here's my take. The INFJ male has highly developed intuition and the expression of this can be perceived as effeminate - however for me at least this does not reflect or relate to my masculine traits like being competitive, or low in agreeableness. It's also an INFJ trait not to be overtly sexual as far as I can tell so there's a perception of androgyny based on outward behaviour. As with other INFJ traits there can be an assumption from others that we are soft and manipulable down to how we process the world manifesting behaviourally, particularly perhaps for males. I'll go on the record as saying that where necessary sexual, competitive, single minded and other traditionally male traits will come forward - often to the surprise of others who think they know us!

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, INFJs can turn the other way very quickly, and surprise everyone around us, but we don't do it often. :)

[@hitsounds]

Boom Shikha maybe we think there's a more elegant solution most times?! 😀

[@KatBuckner]

I agree with this! I think we tend to be more "etherial' beings, so we don't think in such binaries.

[@BoomShikha]

YES! I use that word, ethereal, all the time. :) Love that you used it, too.

[@nihilhawthorne9410]

As someone who is struggling with gender identity issues I can relate to that.

[@BoomShikha]

That must be tough, and I am grateful that you watched my video. Thank you.

[@nihilhawthorne9410]

From what I've understood INFJs are usually struggling with a weird disconnection between the mind (Ni) and the body (Se). It's ten thousand worse when you feel like you are in a body that doesn't necessary correspond you. But even though all INFJs wouldn't necessary be struggling with gender identity issues I feel like we're probably the most androgynous personality type. It must be sounding illogical for someone who will transition sooner or later, but gender roles or stereotypes have always been utterly incoherent to me as if they didn't really make any sense whereas they were obvious for those who were around me.

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, I did a video on the poor mind-body connection. kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3PaZWqYgJyDh5o

[@jodiwest1382]

I Dress Like A Ton Boy For Some Reason When I Dress Femine I Feel Weird & Purposefully Dress Down Eye Roll😂Even The Other Day I Could Have Bought A Skort Beautiful But I Couldn't Buy Then I Thought What The Hell Is Wrong With Me Frustrating Cuz I Want To Look Beautiful

[@jodiwest1382]

Absolutely😍😁Omg Finally

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching. :)

[@sergeygolik7698]

What's true is true (in my case) and I'm happy that I live in a country where if I want to express my sides I can do it safely.

[@BoomShikha]

Awesome to hear that!!!

[@jaredduran3828]

infjs try to be strong even sometimes were weak but we do our best ☺

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, we always try to do our best, which I like.

[@darleenbrown5717]

Yes that's a fact we always try to do our best

[@jamescob9934]

your video always seem to trigger new ideal and thought I never thought about before.like a car jump starting another car and that's very addicting (to cause one to think) to an infj. lol your my trigger (boom) shikha.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for the support!!

[@MirimeIsiliel]

My male avatar here fully supports your opinion. I'm female. So, I presume there's no need to add anything else.

[@BoomShikha]

Ha!! Awesome. :)

[@TheBananaDeanna]

Spot on!

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!!

[@mia7065]

I totally relate to this…

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!

[@oscarl.3563]

We're all unique. There is the general truths about the sexes and their characteristics, and then there is individuation. I have never understood why people deny that there are general truths or patterns, and diminish the value of it, just because someone stands out in some way. Or why someone should be hindered in their development just because they are of the wrong sex or age or whatever when and if it's so clearly right for them. We must observe and see things as they are but it seems like people cannot hold _seemingly_ opposing thoughts in their heads at the same time. Like boys don't play with dolls, but this one boy does.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, we are all unique and that's something people keep on forgetting as they try to shove us into boxes.

[@macalab.3539]

This explains SO MUCH ABOUT me

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!! Glad you found it useful.

[@NikkiDocherty74]

I am not going to speak for all INFJs, but I find this insulting to my femininity. I don't consider myself typical in many ways, but I also do not consider myself androgynous at all.

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing, Nikki! Of course, these are just generalizations, my videos. And they aren't going to be true for everyone.

[@Skooby13]

I'm right there with you!

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching, Neko!

[@shirleyware9059]

I totally agree with you, I've been a tom boy sense I could craw or walk, and feel I could talk better with men than women!!!

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@patticooperschwanke7112]

I get along better with males,I think because less drama and i think with a more male brain..I think in abstract and everything is black or white..if that makes sence?

[@BoomShikha]

Yes, absolutely!!!

[@darleenbrown5717]

Yes Being around to many female's they are full of alots of drama and jealousy and you can't trust 99% of them i really supposed to say don't. Trust them 100% because we don't suppose to trust nobody but GOD 100%

[@warrenschasker5750]

As a male infj I feel unqiue to what you had to say because at first I was straight but then I was kinda desperate and sought « role Playing » but then I was like I gotta get a girlfriend but I couldn’t cause I was « broke” so I watched straight porn and attracted to curves , however I do understand your point on female traits I understand i try to find harmony and I have deep empathy and am very emotional when I feel deeply affected by what I have done “too hard on myself” but however I feel very contridary because I did tried doing female voices online because I was quite lonely but then I went to a job dance and got me some good good( booty fm) I’m not attracted to men and I have never had a boyfriend, I love women and I even tried asking a lesbian out , I tend to notice that I am always trying my best in work and in physical training witch got me self consous of my own body( I think I was bulemic) I lost weight and had a dream of having a big booty but it was a nightmare because I was very councsous of my body as my butt has a big clump of skin on the bottom, I know I’m the man but I also know there’s a inner child in me that is very tingly and full of energy. I just see myself As a spiritual man with good endurance but I Am kinda scrawny but I can do push-ups, I just act very calm because that isn’t expected. I think of myself as a goofball who is in the process of learning new things about myself everyday. This seems very weird but it’s the truth I’m not lying!!!!!! I think I’m a straight bisexual if that is even a thing?! I played with myself 2 ways but I realized that doing it the gay way is self harming on myself as I was most likely being attacked. I feel 80 percent manly and 20 percent girly because I am very intuitive and can improvise things quite perfectly it seems as I just love to create all sorts of senerieos in my mind like movies and stuff. I feel like I love both aspects of the gender because I wanna see how it feels for a female to have sex but still be the man I don’t ever want to be macho man unless I match what I do because macho men lie and have ego. I want to have a balanced sence of ego matched with purpose and action behind it and it is a battle in me every day that I try to console my self. I think that if you have too much ego you will fall off and be fooled by your self . From my observations i can sence ego trying to swallow me And make me a jerk, the way I see it is that I must be a protector (as its in my name) as I live the world around me and I feel a great sence of bringing it great honor and diligence. Even though I just started it’s all falling together now as music inspires me to get things done in a fury. I feel like I am just an observer taking notes down and putting into a mental catalogue as this is the most important step to take in a journey as I was full of self hatred because I felt like a disgrace but I’m understanding the principality of (fraction recripicals) and I know I have the power to flip it to something very full of good, usefull potential. Whenever there is a person who is new to physical fitness I will try and motivate them as I remind them what shoes I was in and tell them it was easy to get it done( sometimes I really am hard on my self) and this makes me try harder even more! I just feel all over the place in my sexuality but somehow I manage to keep it mostly straight but I have strayed because I was thinking of females (sad huh)

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for sharing, Warren!! I'm sure you will get to where you wish to get to, if you just keep on going.

[@warrenschasker5750]

I got enfp, then I got the debater then I got infp

[@truetoreality]

Haha that's interesting to hear about your math skills, since my male INFJ friend is absolutely miserable at it😂 Couldn't believe he took out his calculator to find out how much 240 - 160 cm was. But I didn't want to offend him so didn't say too much about it.😅 We all have our weak areas and he's really talented in others.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, of course, not everyone is going to love Maths as much as I do. :) We are all talented in different areas.

[@truetoreality]

Boom Shikha I was referring to "not your typical female /male", since as you said men are supposed to be good at it.🙂

[@YVZSTUDIOS]

Interesting. I didn't know that this is an INFJ thing 😅 And yes, I'm a guy and I do indeed also relates to that. For example I find Josei anime pretty entertaining, which is very unusual, because Josei is made for (young) adult women 😂 But even tho I prefer some stereotypical female things over stereotypical male things, I don't feel less of a man. And yeah, even tho it's sometimes hard, I've found out that it's actually an advantage. For example it's quite natural and easy for me to _"understand what a girl is saying"_ and _"activly listen to a girl during an conversation"_, compared to a typical male (generally speaking), whom some are really struggling with these kind of things. Suprisingly I don't have much female friends. But that's mainly because I study media computer science, which is like 90% male and I don't have other connections // ways where I see females at my age. And the small amount I do know, are either already married or have a boyfriend 😂

[@BoomShikha]

That makes sense. I do like INFJ males - they seem like good people. :)

[@YVZSTUDIOS]

Boom Shikha Thanks ^-^ I really appreciate that you reply to every comment!

[@BoomShikha]

I really try! I want everyone to know that I am here for them. :)

[@SibbySan]

Yesss so much yes!

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching, SibbySan.

[@jodiwest1382]

Love Math & Science However Grammar Was Always Confusing

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching. :)

[@a.whychild6591]

🤔 this is so interesting. So I am very feminine, but I think I think in a masculine way often. I am uncomfortable with shorts, but that's just because of how I was raised 😂

[@BoomShikha]

Thanks for watching!

[@jareanchaibuchar2765]

I'm a male 100% (Still falling with female) but other people look me like a female, and they doubt about me and judge me. (you know by them eyes.) it's not the first time to explain it but whatever i'm used to it and never explain about myself anymore. Thanks for this video too, if someone ask my gender or they feel what i look like i will send this video too answer. lol!

[@BoomShikha]

Hhaha!! Yeah, please do. :)

[@visam28]

Great video thank you. For a time in my 30s before I understood that humans all have male and female energies within them I wondered if I was supposed to be a man. I don't dress like one and don't want to be one or anything I just don't fit the "stereotypic" female. I never wear dresses or skirts and stuff like that lol.

[@BoomShikha]

Yeahhhh!!

[@visam28]

❤

[@bethp3468]

do you think its a narcissistic trait? Ive heard that female narcissist are masculine/feminist like and male narcissist are very feminine/misogynist type. I find it interesting how infjs are the opposite of their gender in characteristic, do you think it has to do with narcissistic conditioning?

[@BoomShikha]

Interesting. I don't know about that. I don't know much about this subject, to be honest. :S

[@bethp3468]

@@BoomShikha I’ve also heard people refer to INFJs as Ice queens and they can be narcissistic because feminine is vulnerable and emotional and masculine is tough and logical to surpress feminine in a woman is to surpress vulnerable emotions and replace it with un healed feminine energy

[@jodiwest1382]

Ditto On The Guy Friends Cuz Less Hormones Less Gossip So I Thought Uggghhh

[@asabintang4374]

Yeaa rebel! Or don't Haha 😁

[@bearlogic2394]

All day everyday day rebel. 😁

[@BoomShikha]

Yesaaaaa!

[@jornandersen]

Reminds me of Tinkerbell .

[@BoomShikha]

Awwww, thanks for that. I love Tinkerbell.

[@micks336]

Maybe it explains the facial hair from high androgens in the body. INFJ look into adrenal fatigue. I pose as Male online less harassment then.

[@BoomShikha]

Really??? So interesting.

[@mariapet3509]

This video could have easily been 10 minutes shorter conveying exactly the same point

[@BoomShikha]

Yeah, but I do love to talk, and as this is my channel, what I want goes. :)

[@stringbean2620]

New necklace! What is it?

[@BoomShikha]

It's the same one as before, Turquoise, and Tourmaline. :) Thanks!

[@stringbean2620]

Okay just looks like there's something silver around your neck in the video. Have a good day!

[@leslielandberg5620]

yup. I am essentially a dude. But shhhhhh...I'm on the down low in this killer bod.

[@BoomShikha]

Hahahah! :)