Nothing More - Fade In / Fade Out (Official Music Video)

[@BetterNoiseMusic]

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[@wetwet25610]

Me too

[@edwardweig5313]

​@@wetwet25610❤❤

[@The85F0X]

I'm 34, watching my son (7) fade in as I watch my father (73) fade out. I just hope I'm doing right by both of them.

[@NightlyDaymare13]

💚🖤

[@MonRoeTheory]

Your are. Follow your heart bro : )

[@brokebudgetaquariums6934]

I (24)feel the same way. In the army away from home for 6.5 years going to be 9 before I get back have a son (2) that has only seen his grand parents (60) twice... I understand what you are say way more the. You would think it’s a very very hard think to look back on.....

[@cadler5885]

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[@jerryjelato3471]

Just the fact that you worry about it tells me that you're doing a fine job. Sounds to me like they are cared for immensely. Keep up the good work.

[@wanted221]

My dad died yesterday. I can still hardly believe it, we had talked the night before. I’m 25 and he was 59. I had actually shown this song to him a while back and it had made him cry because we have always been so close. He was a great man and father, he would always give all of himself for others no matter what. I’m really going to miss him.

[@amandabuchholz5313]

I’m sorry about your dad! Not easy to lose a parent! My dad passed April, 21, 2015 and I miss him everyday!

[@amandabuchholz5313]

My dad was 52 when he passed! Very young! My bestie showed me this song and I cried through the whole thing! I hope you find strength to make it through the pain or push through it, I still struggle when I think about all him and my mom who died January, 11, 2014, they were separated since I was young! But about how much they have missed! Reach out to people close to you who you trust!

[@No_Way_NO_WAY]

@wanted221: My condolences. My father died 7 years ago. Thinking that he is gone is still difficult to get my head around. Sometimes i catch myself thinking to give him a call and ask him when we meet the next time. Having good/nice/happy memories about the interaction/live with someone is the best weapon against grief. Remember the good times and hold on to them.

[@taylorbodie]

That's a legit video great song and the content here actually makes you think and appreciate !!! Great band!!!

[@SkibidiToiletRizzMan]

I had to put down my dog it really hurts 😭😭😭😭😭😭🐶

[@aaronc1942]

It's so rare to find a music video that REALLY adds to the song

[@damianlewis6421]

Roses for the dead _ funeral for a friend... Hits right in the feels

[@Juncti]

You're not kidding, song was already emotional, but this wrecked me on a different level

[@wdm_twnp_atl]

Absolutely amazing job

[@perparimhebibi5492]

I can recommend you Kodaline - Brother, here's the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2e3iYOErselo80 :)

[@chrisparrish9526]

dam right

[@TheZankas]

My father took his own life on September 8, 2019. This song already reminded me most of my father even before his act. This song took on a double meaning for me at the moment I learned of his act because I found out 1 week before, without telling him, that I myself was going to become a father (of a son). The video was released (I saw it, wanting to listen to the song beforehand) on September 13, 2019, the very day of his funeral. It remains my favorite song for my father, and now for my 2 grand boys and my little girl. Thank you for the gift Nothing More

[@Nick-is-Rad]

This song made me want to reach out to my Dad who I haven't seen in almost ten years. ** UPDATE: It went well, and he told me he missed me for I think the first time in my entire life. lol **

[@hollyknapp2650]

I pray to here from my son one day I'm so glad to see you reconnect its a beautiful thing hold on to it dont let it go being a parent you never sleep the same you always wonder what there doing and pray that day comes when they speak to you so seeing this gives me hope thank u

[@nadiabeckett3049]

That's awesome!..Well done for having the courage..Life's too short..Too many let pride get in the way until it's too late..💜

[@josephdinardo5162]

Bravo brother! So happy for you

[@kaynereaver]

Same. Alot to catch up on. Few grandkids he hasn't met.

[@ronnietraina9745]

Cheers man, life’s to short Love and Forgive

[@danielgonzalez2042]

My daughter, who’s in rehab, said this song reminds her of me. I hope before I fade out completely her life is filled with more love, happiness, and peace than I’ve ever had.

[@brettboulette5106]

I PRAY THAT HAPPENS FOR YOUR DAUGHTER YOU SOUND LIKE AN HONORABLE MAN

[@izzy3226]

I recommended this to my father while I was in rehab too:) I hope you all find peace

[@crystalann9521]

I wish my Dad was still alive to have him listen to it 😖😭 he passed just before Christmas 2020 💔 n I'm struggling w my own demons I wish only to make him proud but feel like such a disappointment lately my heart legit hurts I miss him so much so much left unsaid so many questions unanswered

[@brettboulette5106]

@@crystalann9521 you sound like a good daughter im very sorry for your loss may GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE BEAUTIFUL SOUL 💯💖

[@SortenRavn]

Hope your daugther is Well by now and are doing great. Best wishes for you both

[@CorneliusJefferson]

This song is a falcon punch to the emotions. Had me in tears, and my father is alive and well.

[@jamesprice2163]

Same but I know deep down that eventually the day he's gone is getting closer but it gives me reason to enjoy every day that I can with him

[@CandiceMarcille]

My dad is emotionally unavailable. So, it just "falcon punched" me for other reasons. I like your choice of words.

[@gaarawinds]

Same! I was listening to this song while working because I liked the tune but the lyrics really punches at your heart once I payed closer attention. My dad has a heart condition so it's always been a worry since I was a teen. I need to spend more time with him.

[@ryanjamessti9250]

Yes...🙏

[@aik51912]

Same.

[@kellyhansen1068]

I lost my husband 2mths ago to cancer. My son turned me on to this song. Reminds him of his dad in his final days. Aaron your dad was a phenomenal dad to you. He wanted great things for you This band really means something to him thankyou

[@nickcoates8508]

Keep your head up 😕

[@danielleoakley9577]

I am so sorry for you and your families struggle and loss! Sending love, strength, healing and hugs to you and yours. From a somewhat anonymous person on the internet.

[@justinarnold84]

Sending Internet love your way, that's the best I can do. So sorry for your loss.

[@hungo8290]

your SON turned YOU on? 4K

[@beezybeez6285]

This is so good !!! But you must hear "Whispering Wolf" by SLT !!!

[@dbeaumontresident847]

This song brought my son back to me. Make peace while you can, hug that person and tell them how much you love them today, right now.

[@Oneinthesame1]

33 and just lost my mother 3 weeks ago and its killing me, only thing holding me together is my lil boy. I love you mom

[@Rick_Johnson82]

Not sure if you will ever read this, but this song was used as intended. A musician’s purpose one could say. I was alone…..well someone else was with me. My father. In the icu on life support. I played this song as I held his hands that were just like mine. I watched him pass. It took just about as long as this sad and beautiful song. Thank you 🙏

[@JerTin-Woodlands]

I’ve NEVER, in my 50 years, been hit so hard by a string of lyrics. “When the grip leaves my hand I know you won’t let me down,” hits that emotional button so hard I thought I broke for a second there.

[@SuperSickNerd]

I think it’s the music video that makes it’s extra sad! Don’t get me wrong lyrics are sad as well! But literally the saddest song I ever heard!

[@danieljohn2007]

I lost my dad 13 years ago when I was 30 and he was 57. He passed away from prostate cancer. I know exactly what you mean with those lyrics , they hit hardest for me as although he always said he was proud of me I never wanted to let him down. He was a good father, not great as he made some terrible mistakes (and I chose to forgive him) but I loved him dearly and we had a very special closeness due to our shared love of music and video games.

[@JerTin-Woodlands]

@@danieljohn2007 It’s was 22 years ago today we were holding my dad’s funeral. He passed at the hospital after hip surgery, day before his 70th b-day. He was supposed to be released that day to the rehab facility, but after complaining of chest tightness the dose of morphine they administered sealed his fate. It’s just a horrible experience to watch cancer take it’s toll, at least mine was not drawn out like that, I couldn’t imagine dealing there, it’s nice to hear you were able to forgive him too, that says a lot about you.

[@hyperactivekaiju420]

You and me both i lost my dad when i was 12 nd this song hitd that bawl your fuckin eye's out button on replay

[@Mortal209]

Alright I won't lie, the moment the father buys the painting I start tearing up, then when the son realizes that his father who he abandoned was the one who was buying his paintings it fucking tore me apart.

[@howardruncie]

My friend i could agree with you more on this , I teared up like a person with salt in there eyes and you know what I am not ashamed of it.

[@benmurray5089]

His father abandoned him

[@spoolcdn]

since my dad passed this song hits so hard :( its one of the only songs that brings me to tears everytime I hear it

[@tewksburydriver8624]

@@benmurray5089 .. no he didn't. Son ran out, wasn't forced to leave.

[@johngrim8624]

I’m currently holding my new born son in the NICU listening to this masterpiece fighting the urge to cry. (in fear of waking him) Growing up with no healthy father figure, i made the realization that i made the man i am today and i will do every thing in my power to make sure my little one will never have to feel unloved the way i had to growing up. Thank you so much Nothing More for creating this masterpiece.

[@Ultimascale4]

Hopefully your doing great. Just remember good intentions aren't enough and you'll do good. Jordan Peterson lectures are on KZbin so it can help to give insight if you want. I might be a stranger but I believe in you. Keep your head up.

[@gregslipknot4207]

I have never cried so hard watching a music video ever! Literally balling my eyes out this video/song really makes you realize we need to spend time with our loved ones!

[@hungo8290]

baby

[@WhiteWolfGuild]

Me too😭

[@SuperSickNerd]

Yes it’s sadder then , last resort reimagined. Makes you want too appreciate what you got until it’s gone. “Until it’s gone” by linkinpark , you hear the baby noise at the end! 😢. Showing you your loved ones are limited.

[@thecasualsperspective]

This is one of the most masterfully crafted pieces of art to exist. It teaches a message, wrestles with a very uncomfortable and painful truth, and although it's sad to lose your father it's your duty to him to uphold the values he instilled in you and never to give up on the pursuit of your dreams. I am a very traditional man. Hard working labor jobs, management, real estate flips, construction, red blooded american raised. Crying isn't a very acceptable behavior amongst men in my family and is generally seen as frowned upon in lieu of a family disaster. I played this song when I was fishing with my father and we both started to tear up. If you have a father who is hard on you, who is strong willed, who is protective of you... please never assume he doesn't love you with all his heart. He is patiently waiting for a time to defend your life even at the cost of his own. He is ever vigilant in ensuring that you are as safe as you can be. That is what people who TRULY CARE about you will do. They don't enable you to be wild and a free spirit. They don't validate your mistakes and wrongdoings or let you "live your life". They try to steer you off the dead-end road before you hit the roadblock and end up OD'd on perc's at a party when you're 19, they don't keep telling you to hit the gas towards the roadblock. They assess the danger and make a judgement call because they love you and want to keep you safe. Hug your fathers, you don't have them forever and as they grow old they may develop Parkinson's or Alzheimer's and it may be hard for them to remember who you are. Enjoy the time you have with them while they're still fully conscious.

[@scottlally8374]

There is nothing wrong with crying just don't wast tears for people or things that don't matter save them for the things that do

[@tonyabayman2344]

This song hits insanely close to home. My Father has progressive Alzheimer's Disease and now my job in life is to take care of him the way he took care of me as a child.

[@jerryjelato3471]

You're an amazing person dude. I've been in healthcare for 8 years and have worked my share of nursing homes. It's not an easy task doing what you're doing and I think you need to hear just how much of a good thing you are doing. I hope one day when my father is to that point that I can do exactly what you are doing. Because he deserves it. Just as your father does.

[@tonyabayman2344]

​@@jerryjelato3471 I just wanted to thank you for saying that. It honestly put a lump in my throat. There are actually assholes out there who are so detached from what this is like that they try to make the argument that "What's so hard about it? All you do is sit around with your old man all day and live off of his Social Security.". They have no semblance of a clue what it is like to have to watch a man you idolize your entire life and is one of the most mechanically minded and logical human beings ever to exist literally scream at the TV because he thinks he is having a teleconference with the news broadcasters.

[@gryyphyn8639]

I went through that with my MGf and it's balls. I wish you all the strength and care you'll need. No advice, no sage wisdom, but all the well wishes you can hold Alex.

[@bobbythompson8661]

If you havent heard it, I highly reccomend a song called Blank Stares by Jay Allen. It's very emotional but powerful.

[@brittanyjohnson3579]

Bless you

[@Craterface666]

My Son was just born 4 hours ago. My Dad was given 2 months to 2 years to live 3 months ago. We haven't spoken In years and probably won't. He saw me in, I'll see my own way out. I'll make sure my son never becomes us.

[@patotes95]

Thank you Nothing More. This song means everything to me. My dad just passed yesterday and this masterpiece brought me just a little closer to him and to my Son. Hoping I can be as good a father to him as my Dad was to me.

[@eriklkire]

This song tears me up every time, man. I lived with my mom after the divorce and I always think of what life could have been like had I chosen my dad. I love my dad, and I know he's proud of me, but I look at my son and I hope I can teach him as much as my dad taught me. I hope he becomes a man he's proud of.

[@rdjess]

When I first heard this song, I played it for my son and told him this was my song for him. He always asks me to play “his song”. He’s 5. ❤️

[@PottersWork]

I told my wife this was my song for our son and she teared up a little after listening...I looked back at my son and he rolled his eyes. He's 12 lol. Just wait for puberty Ryan ;)

[@PizzaMadeMeFat]

@Edie Beacon no it's kinda cute

[@jonathansalminen1595]

Dont let that slip away make it his song man

[@Alexdugger1098]

Aww

[@ryanmclaughlin2775]

Nice

[@jakeharvey3249]

I'm 17, This music video has made me snap back into reality. I've recently spent more time with my dad just because of this. Thanks. :)

[@obnoxii1943]

Don't stop bro, give him all the time you can.

[@Chrisgr98]

That's good for you I lost my dad when i was a kid, now on my 20s moved out into a bigger city to educate my self better, I go home rarely and seeing my mother who raised me all by her own getting older and older every time I visit her is a stab in the heart, enjoy your time with them dont make my mistake.

[@victorfoerster7180]

Do it while you can Goodbye comes to fast for most of us.

[@amandabuchholz5313]

Life is soooo short and we don’t know how much time we have! It’s not a yolo, but you have to make the most of it and spend time with people you love because life is never certain!

[@kevinkevin6207]

I wish I'd had spent more time with my Dad when I was 17 he passed away about 4 years later from cancer. Regrets every day

[@AJ-eg3yr]

Being a new parent. This brings tears to my eyes every time I hear it. This song should've been a lead single on this album

[@TaveruS2]

The song is great but too long for a lead single.

[@Yep344]

My thoughts exxxactly dude. My son just turned 11 months old yesterday.

[@nlcgoddess]

Totally agree. This song gets me every time I hear it.

[@Ibanez-ct1ih]

Completely agreed

[@MillerMade]

The only reason I disagree is because its one of those hidden gems

[@nastymandy8330]

I'd always understood this song, much like many this band puts out, but the video when added to it, just makes it so much more visceral and powerful. I'm on good terms with my father and my stepfather and I hope that by the end, regardless of what happens, I can also say I did right by them, and that there are no worries or regrets.

[@collinreece2249]

Rest in peace, Dad. Miss you every day.

[@intolerable4317]

Finally this song makes me cry and gets me in my feelings cause this song is literally life

[@theirishpotato6588]

True.

[@hyperspeed_心猿]

You stated how the song is for you in the most 2019 words possible. haha

[@Brandon_Renegade]

Same , I was literally tearing up not even 20 seconds in. This is such an amazing song and the video is really well put together. I love this band soo much.

[@bobbysamadman389]

Every damn time I hear my eyes get heavy and this video did it again

[@chel_c.8049]

I cry every damn time i listen to it.

[@iremain8760]

I can honestly say that this is probably the greatest song that will ever be made. I don't think any father can keep tears from pushing through while listening to this song.

[@AcaciaVix]

This is one of the most powerful songs I've ever heard in my life. Everytime I listen to it it has me bawling like a baby and leaves me feeling so incredibly grateful to my own father and everything he's done for me and so incredibly grateful that I still have him with me

[@SS-dm5iy]

Do you have kids also? It hits even harder then...this songs always makes me cry but when the dad dies and the son finds all his artwork it just destroys every last bit of me. Your kids will never possibly know how much you love them, how you always want what is best for them.

[@finallyrigid]

I just lost my father at 80 years old and im 29. Im just thankful I was there to hold his hand as he went. This song had been on repeat. He was my best friend.

[@lindapawlowski8560]

Don’t feel bad! I live with my mom and she’s 82! It’s heartbreaking to see how much she is getting older! Like she’s having memory problems her walking is slowing down! It fucking sucks to see someone that took care of you your whole life fade away!

[@randyranderson5122]

Hi. I just had to tell you that I'm in the same situation. My mom was/is the most wonderful, caring, talented woman I've ever known. She's the reason I became a chef, and she's the reason I'm still alive today. She never gave up on me when I was trying, and failing, over and over, to beat alcohol and opiates. I pretty much lost everything but my parents. She's basically gone now. Alzheimer's and a stroke have taken her memory. I'm taking care of her, with my Dad's help, in the house that they have lived in for 50 years. She doesn't remember that she lives there, or that she has a husband and a son. At least I got sober for good before she started her slide! She still says that she's proud of me, but she doesn't know that she's the reason. My point is that Alzheimer's Sucks! She doesn't deserve this. You are NOT alone. ❤🙏 Oh yeah, isn't this song and video incredible! They have another video for the song "Jenny" that hits pretty hard.

[@uberdude222]

I've just had my heart crushed. Four years ago, I lost my Dad. And this beast of a song looks as though he wrote it. Damn it, my favorite band just kicked my ass

[@steferly]

nathaniel hewett I lost my dad four years ago too. Seems like just yesterday. I hope you’ve been able to keep your head up and find some joy since your father’s passing.

[@cadler5885]

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[@MsAiella]

Mine died last year. Now I sit here and cry... I wish I could turn back time

[@uberdude222]

@@steferly by no means has anything got easier, as they tell us this lie to pacify us. I'm so sorry for your own heartbreak, as I know it very well. It's a very long story, but I ended up with PTSD to top off depression I've had since 02. I do want I can, as there isn't really a treatment for me. I just live. I live my way, for me. I don't know what life will hold for me. So if tomorrow comes for me, I'll just deal with it and try to make something of it. Life is about learning every day, as if we don't, the world will go on with us as it's relics.

[@uberdude222]

@@MsAiella you're welcome to chat with me anytime. The road you are on will be long and hard. And don't think for a second that this will get easier. You will never be "over this". That's called reality. If all you can do today is manage one thing, just live. Just live for yourself. Tomorrow is no promise, so live for you today. Breathe hun. For the wind to blow is guaranteed, as to breathe its air is not. You take care, ok?

[@19DevilDawg86]

This song means so much to me as a Father of two young men. Every time that I listen to it I am reminded of the things that I have failed at and in the same breath all of the things that I have done right. There is no instruction manual that comes with being a dad. It’s all trial and error. The one thing that I have learned throughout the years is love with all that you are. Regrets are going to happen no matter how hard you try. Just never stop loving your children. Thanks to guys of Nothing More for writing a song that touches this old man.

[@mariasalvatore5060]

"We all get lost sometimes trying to find what we're looking for" 🖤

[@justinmorgan1988]

INTENSE!! the baby crying at the end made me cry like a baby!!

[@thewisdomofcharlygryn2548]

I'm a prime example of what this song means!

[@richard-ii]

I took a good look at my dad after watching this. Then I hugged him.

[@omaryanezzavala3295]

😍😍😍😍

[@kaylagoebel9226]

😭😪❤️

[@latinlady2959]

@@kaylagoebel9226 ....

[@SBPTeam]

At least you still have a chance... good man.

[@patricklamoureux265]

Thank you for making this song. I watched my Dad lose his battle with cancer this past January. He was the strongest man I've ever known. I was fortunate enough to see this song performed live and couldn't help but cry.

[@AtomicSleuths]

Never clicked on something faster, and I waited 13 years for the new Tool album

[@badzr2]

13 years for total dissapointment

[@frankunodostres473]

SOAD fans laugh at this comment

[@cadler5885]

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[@Elchinodiabolero]

@@badzr2 disappointment? Have we listened to the same album?

[@Elchinodiabolero]

@@cadler5885 why Do you post that On every comment?

[@devinc325]

This one always hits hard. I'm watching my father age before my eyes, as if overnight, and it's a harsh reminder that our time is short. Cherish the ones that brought you into this place, that loved you and raised you, love the ones that are with you through all of this, struggling and striving, raise your kids with a little more love and kindness than you were shown, so they return it when you're just as disabled and struggling as they were. We're all on our way out, enjoy the ride.

[@spencerdonovan9405]

Great Fathers are rare! The lord blessed me with the best!!!! I strive to be half him!!!

[@JCL51475]

Moral of this story: there is no room in life to harbor resentment. Forgiving a person is so much easier and such a breath of fresh air, rather than carrying the weight in your heart year after year.

[@ronaldmullins8445]

This is so true.

[@odysseus5322]

To.True......Just to bloody true

[@fr4me.01]

Some people do not deserve more than two chances.

[@jesseweston7845]

I forgave my father for leaving me at 5 and he beat the shit out of me stole 2000$ off me and took my truck I will never forgive him again

[@dismurrart6648]

While this is true, forgiveness is a 2 way street. The other person needs to be better to deserve it. Honestly if my father or step mom died tomorrow, the only sorrow I would feel is for the people who loved them

[@Dustinchugs]

I lost my dad 9 months ago. Never take your loved ones for granted.

[@jasonsalistean9192]

Dustin Varner same but a year n half ago unexpectedly he died too young hope you doing good bud

[@Dustinchugs]

@@jasonsalistean9192 Getting by man. Thank you, hope you are as well

[@omaryanezzavala3295]

😥😰😪😭

[@Dav06ss]

Same here 1 year since i lost my dad.. be strong and talk if you need too

[@shadowwolf386]

My heart hurts for anyone who loses a parent. Coming up on 4 years on the anniversary of losing my father. It never gets easier, but we learn how to cope better as time goes on ❤💔

[@squirrel3443]

This makes me wish I had a dad that actually loves me and wanted a relationship with me. He never wanted me. Hopefully I can give my children a better life.

[@EvanAnderson64]

Same for me brother I have one now and he's my little best friend we do everything together and even though I never really had one who was there for me he knows I will always be there for him.

[@squirrel3443]

Evan Anderson That’s so heart warming to hear ❤️ people find it a little odd when I thank them for being a great dad to their children, fathers don’t hear it much and the children are so lucky to have a dad that loves them! It just makes me happy. I am so happy for you, thank you for being a good dad! 😊

[@coryminix4757]

Deep down inside your father always loves you, sometimes there are circumstances that prohibit him from being in your life...

[@FarrFromPerfect]

We can always learn from others. Their successes or failures. Sounds like you turned out pretty good, you will be a good dad. He might have fucked that up for you if he hung around. There is a silver lining to everything

[@maggierezac5820]

@@coryminix4757 you are absolutely correct! I lost custody of my 3 kids 30 years ago & the bullshit that was fed to them by their "realest" mom, that I didn't even know was happening, skewed everything. He cancelled visitation so often I finally had to take him to court to get the Judge to remind him that it was my right! Oh man, it just sucks so very badly, it truly does. I have 7 grandchildren & I have met...1. I have also not been allowed to even know the address of one of my daughters & her family since May of 2016, so yeah, never ever assume. Peace y'all.

[@antho9921]

Lost my dad 6 years ago, 5 years ago became a father myself. I can’t make it through this song without tearing up.

[@TheCoolDave]

My dad passed away when I was 18, I am now 51. Every time I watch this video I break down in tears, EVERY TIME. Just amazing work guys, you really pull in the emotion in this video.

[@andrefernandes9754]

You know that a song is good when it is spoken by the heart and it touches your soul. Am I the only one that sees life differently after watching this clip?

[@ramonviana5311]

No, absolutely not, my friend!

[@christinagraham3146]

You're not the only one!

[@samuraisakuzy6854]

I watch this video a lot. I love the band but today I comment. My son is 1 year old today, I am 31 and my dad passed away in 2014 from cancer. We had the toughest relationship until the last four years he was alive. This song and the video, together, keep me grounded, in tears, and realizing what matters most. Thank you to the band, the actors, and the director. Thank you.

[@Brandon_Renegade]

Not even 20 seconds in and the water works had already started for me, such an amazing song and video!

[@shawnchapin9684]

This is mine and my sons relationship and I wish and I pray that someday he’ll that I have changed and I desperately want him in my life. He’s a Marine now and I couldn’t be a prouder father. I just wish I could tell him in person. Sorry this song/video just hit home.

[@artymuse9930]

I pray that you will get that reunion.

[@petergardner6601]

When hes back home you can start to make things better

[@eriklambert3809]

Brother I'm with you. 3 girls. Spent 25 yrs in the Army. Tons of injuries and surgeries, just to push more. It is beyond hard. And harder to explain. But they will get it. All we have is faith. Just the fact this touches you says more than you know. Just keep pushing. And always be better. It doesn't matter if it is an inch or a mile. Just put on foot in front of the other. Know you are awesome and better than me. You got this

[@pinkmonkeybird2644]

You can tell him now. Please don’t wait. None of us are promised tomorrow. My mom is long gone and I have so many regrets about not having peace between us.

[@amandabuchholz5313]

Tell your loved ones what you feel! Don’t hide this! Your son needs to know how much you love him and are proud of him!

[@morrisonadams9220]

This song is my dad’s dedicated song. He found it for me and it just stuck as our song. I’ve put my dad through a lot and he taught me to straighten my path. Here’s to all those dads

[@natashabennett8937]

I heard this song right before my son was born earlier this year, and had I known that a few days after I was going to lose my Dad, I would have hugged him harder the last time I saw him. Our last photo of him was holding my son and I love that picture so much 💙

[@DG-eg7sv]

Wow, life is so short. We fade in, then life goes so fast and we fade out. Just keep the faith 🙌 and do the best you can in this life. Just be kind and love each other.

[@coltondosch8448]

I'm a father of two of two little boys and I take care of my dad at 73 with dementia and this hits my soul and makes me want to cry

[@alexanderwoods2204]

Let it out brother, no point in keeping it bottled up inside

[@brittnaybradshaw1678]

Got me balling my eyes out

[@ColtSayer]

I miss and love you dad!!! I lost my dad November 2023 at age 53.. I’m 30 now.. I miss that man still!!! We’d speak every damn day till he passed. I fixed up his car he pretty much passed away in and i drive it now.. I know he’d love that!! but damn it hurts at times still with thoughts coming and going.. still never fair!!! I always want to be with him at times and frustrated but I know I’ll meet him again some day!!! I still miss you pops and will always love and miss you!!!

[@leovillamil7371]

I don't think I ever listened to a song that forced me to shed tears before, I'm seriously choked up right now. I needed this very much.

[@pbwgodofdeath]

Feelings are nice right ☠️

[@leovillamil7371]

@@pbwgodofdeath It's not like I'm a colder-hearted bastard. I struggle to watch Cast Away without crying. I just never came across a song that made me that emotional before.

[@igorhornik7640]

This is .. just WOW. So emotional and one of the best music video for me. Love You guys and give a cookie to that director. He and everyone who was working on this music video did incredible job. Thank You.

[@R0gueAssassin]

Yeah wow was all I could say too

[@glaserw]

I haven't talked to my son for 4 years. We had a big falling out, on top of his mother teaching him to hate me. I am not a perfect father but I love my kid and miss him very much. Very well written song, this band knows how to make excellent music.

[@evanpwns09]

it's not too late, you're both still here. Try, find a way to reconnect with him, neither of you will get this time back.

[@blaziwolf3163]

Try your best to reconnect, be prepared to open up old wounds so you can both heal together.

[@rudysambranojr.8487]

I'm with you brotha. And it hurts even more when everybody loves your son and it turns out he is Just Like YOU......it's a sad world. Going through a similar thing with my 12 year old son. I told him every one can try to change you and make you hate me. It will never take away and erase almost every weekend and more (don't know what goin out is anymore and I wouldn't change that for the world) Nobody else has to know the Truth but you and your son. Because when you're willing to stop breathing for theirs to continue in less than a second... nobody else has any ammo left that can actually damage and "get" to you. I always tell my son...learn from your Dad. And im always talking about my mistakes first. Be smarter...make your road smoother as much as possible. Played drums in bands for years and my son Noah got his "full size" drum set earlier this year and is tearing it up with Trivium songs Bury Tomorrow...LOG...and even WhiteWashed yesterday. He is better now at 12 then I was at 16-18. And I told him that's the goal...let me help you save time and get their a little quicker so maybe you get to enjoy the ride a lot longer than Dad. That's the way it should be...not me being jealous and pissed off and start being a fuckin hypocrite and start worrying and wasting all my time on some fake image thats only holding up the people that compare their lives on social media daily. I always tell my son if I'm not being real with you and I'm not giving you advice from the heart then I'm wasting your time...stuff doesn't seem to work out for me most of the time or for some reason things come out of nowhere and suddenly just pull the rug from right under. One day the words just came out to Noah...."I will live in the dark.....so you can live in the light son". Here a song "Dream Gone Bad" by Killer Be Killed. The last lines that Greg screams are my heart and soul for my son. Your son will always know your heart...not everybody had to like Dad. But he never worried about the fake people that just love to gossip and tear others down. Too busy sharing all these great songs with son before I do croak lol. He'll have anthems that randomly come out and instantly....."Dad's song" will pop in his mind. Those next few minutes and every song you heard shared sang laughed cried are heard/experienced the first time hearing that new song from one of our favorite bands.....that is what keeps us immortal forever. Dead is only what's forgotten...best wishes brotha. Pump those tunes and stay strong....day by day. Enjoy life...it goes by like nothing ☝️

[@bubbaberto123]

Acceptance temperance you shall perservere...

[@trentelko763]

Every time I listen to this I cry

[@melanietompkins4210]

This video is powerfully directed... I cry every time I see it, as though mourning the broken relationship between the father and son.

[@MUI_LJ]

My grandfather passed away yesterday, sadly i was not there nor i had the time to visit and spend the last days with him. I will never forget you grandpa, you were my example, my wing, my comfort, you suffered so much for us, and i hope you know it wont be in vain. I love you so much. May you find your peace, while i continue where you stopped.

[@zacharysheets9327]

This song already made me cry and now you make this? Dang....

[@moogledoodles]

Zachary Sheets lmao I thought the same exact thing!

[@jonathanolsen0018]

I'm not going to say that I don't know who needs to hear this - because we all do. Tell them you love them.

[@SofiiaKorolova-z1d]

I have found this song 2 years ago, listening to it, especially with a video makes me cry every single time, no matter whether im showing it to someone or just listening to it on a random Tuesday... Hurts like hell, but helps to heal at the same time

[@newsnowmilitia1147]

I’m 31 years old my son is 8 and my best friend we game together I do all I can and buy what I can for him because life is short and we all need to live it up the most with our loved ones

[@epicnutshot5794]

i found this song about 2 years ago and it was a much needed wake up call for me to treat my dad better. i lost my father on the 4th of July last week and I'm thankful that i made the necessary changes to end on good terms.

[@kevinwilliamsaydentt]

I'm 30 this year, i watched my dad pass away 2 years ago. my sons 6 months old and all i can say is this song resonates with me so much...... i feel its the strongest message ive seen in a music video clip. support your child's interest's.

[@ladylouheadbanger1056]

This song by Nothing More is so incredibly powerful! Every time I listen to it, I am reminded that life is so short, fragile. Enjoy every minute you have with those you love because you never know when it will be your last.

[@brightonrally]

Oh great thanks. Now I'm tearing up. I recently lost my father and now have a son on the way. I wish he could have met him, it was a very good man.

[@blakeweeks4007]

This song is for my two beautiful boys. I’m young but you never know when it’s your time to go. Loving and living every second I can with them.

[@TheSpartanT]

Lyrics. Just the other day I looked at my father It was the first time I saw he'd grown old Canyons through his skin and the rivers that made them Carved the stories I was told. He said: "Son, I have watched you fade in You will watch me fade out I have watched you fade in You will watch me fade out When the grip leaves my hand I know you won't let me down Go and find your way Leave me in your wake Always push through the pain And don't run away from change Never settle Make your mark Hold your head up Follow your heart Follow your heart Just the other day I stared at the ocean With every new wave another must go One day you'll remember us laughing One day you'll remember my passion One day you'll have one of your own I say: "Son, I have watched you fade in You will watch me fade out When the grip leaves my hand I know you won't let me down Go and find your way Leave me in your wake Always push through the pain And don't run away from change Never settle Make your mark Hold your head up Follow your heart Follow your heart, follow your heart, follow your heart" We all get lost sometimes trying to find what we're looking for We all get lost sometimes trying to find what we're looking for I have watched you fade in You will watch me fade out I have watched you fade in You will watch me fade out When the grip leaves my hand I know you won't let me down Go and find your way Leave me in your wake Always push through the pain And don't run away from change Never settle Make your mark Hold your head up Follow your heart Follow your heart, follow your heart When the morning comes and takes me I promise I have taught you everything that you need In the night you'll dream of so many things But find the ones that bring you life, and you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me That's where you'll find me."

[@STEVYN_W-A-Y]

Man that song brought tears to my eyes.. I lost my Father 20 yrs ago yesterday and that just opened the tear ducks man WOW what a song ❣️💯

[@raeridethewhip5197]

We are at the year mark of my going to Heaven, I miss him very much, this song reminds me of him, thank you dad for having my back when I had no idea what was being said about me, but either way it brought u back to me, not as just my kiddos mom, but u having your natural instincts come back and there u were, I could not believe it, my dad remembered me and loved me as his daughter before he went to Heaven, I kept my word , and in the end he kept his, as all I had ever asked was to keep and watch over my little ones, and I will always have so much pride in my Dad for taking care of my wolf pack, when I was away trying to help save our our youngest family member, who now gets a chance to know his Papa bear too. I miss and love u both always, until we meet again, please watch over my little wolf pack and my little one in Heaven . Love mommy and a loving daughter. 😘 ❤

[@SLNNISTERGAMING]

So many musicians in this world have no idea that music is a way to unite man in times of dispare. But when those few in this world that know it will always bring out those emotions for true peace.

[@МихаилОлейник-ъ1у]

I lost my father almost a year ago, and every time this song happens to me (and it is on repeat), memories of him flood over me, how I miss him now by my side ... (I love you dad)

[@jackdawson8411]

Not only is the story telling through the music amazing but paired with the directing of this video my mind is blown. Yall did a fantastic job

[@ashleypowell6231]

this makes me cry every time... my Dad passed, and now as I watch my kids grow it makes me want to fade slower than he did. I want them to have me through the tough times I wish I had him for...

[@rileyodonnell]

I'm 22 and I currently live with my dad (56) and my grandfather (87) thats 3 generations in one household. I'll never be more grateful

[@trevor4081]

Lost my dad in 2015, a week after my 14th birthday. Still think about him all the time and I hope he’s proud. He got me my first Dirtbike when I was 12/13 and taught me how to ride. He always wanted to get another motorcycle after he sold mine when I was born. I’m grateful he inspired the love of riding in me so now every time I’m out I get to think about him and be thankful for all the good times he gave me and know he’s watching me create more

[@fernandonvsbr]

This is a masterpiece. Just absolutely beautiful! I'm speechless watching this! Always remember, the true love is found ONLY in family all the other thing are just a decoy to distract you and put you in a wrong way. Come on, give a kiss on your mother, give a hug on your father say to all of them that you love them. Kiss your wife and your children. This life is about it guys! Much love from Brazil!

[@haleyhymers2479]

This broke my heart, lost my dad when I was six - almost 20 years ago. I didn't get to experience life with him. If things could have been different, if he didn't die, if I had a chance to have him in my life, I would cherish every moment. Please call your parents and tell them you love them ❤️

[@O-san4]

Wow, that was both sad and terrifying. It's quite rare for me to see music videos that's capable of capturing what I usually think of the song, I'm really impressed.

[@joseprice8966]

shit bro.. as a dad to a 2 year old son... this video hits.. time flies.. this video brought on some real tears..

[@shane3498]

This song hits me in all the feels as a man with a son and a father. It is beyond perfect.

[@psychocentric]

I still can't get through this song without crying... however, I have been able to stop ugly crying now. Progress.

[@brettt67]

I've been listening to this band for a while now. I always knew it was a special song but when I lost my Dad today it is so much more special to me and is helping me cope in ways I didn't think were possible. RIP pops, and thank you!

[@dismurrart6648]

This song makes me feel comfort but also sadness. My father has been abusive my entire life along with his wife so I have had to cut them out. Sometimes I think about the fact that one day he will fade out, knowing his firstborn has no interest in a goodbye and he never got to truly see her fully fade in because of his own choices. Sometimes that's the only catharsis you get

[@slandshark]

I'm 43 and a father of 4. My 4th child (my first son) was born just before I heard this song for the first time. I will never forget the lyrics of this song. It hits me in the feels deep. I haven't cried in over 25 years. This song and video (seeing it for the first time as I write this) brings a true tear in my eye as I think about my kids and my Dad.

[@andreazehtabchi4684]

The saddest part in anybody's life is to watch your son fade out first and you would give your life in exchange 💔 I miss you S.

[@samharper8293]

This band is epic! The lyrics of this song synced up with incredible videography and storytelling, goes straight to the core of your heart and soul. I’m 59 and a father of three young men. 2 are twins. This really hit home for me. My father and I didn’t see eye to eye and I left home at 17, (Mr. Know it all) .. Thankfully we were able to resolve our problems before he passed, and I was able to tell him he was the greatest Dad in the world. We cried together.

[@martinschmidt6898]

This is the most saddest song I ever heard in my life. Absolutely incredible. As always.

[@justinwnichols03]

It's been almost 3 years since my Dad passed...we weren't really close but even still....I can't listen to this song without losing it...

[@HamerBoogie]

I lost my dad exactly 1 year ago. This song is so powerful. Thank you.

[@atomsk01]

This is your daily reminder to call your dad or the person who raised you and tell them you love them. They're not always going to be there, so take advantage of time that they still are. Peace \ /

[@arryrocks9167]

This song was released just around the time I lost my father. It's hard to listen to sometimes because it resonates so loudly but even though it makes me emotional it reminds me how lucky I am to have had the finest man I've ever known be my father. Few are that fortunate in life.

[@tylerlloyd3722]

Exact fucking same arry I feel for u

[@marylaurie2321]

My son is 3 and is obsessed with this song. He calls it “favorite song” 🤍

[@brettkling7064]

My 3 year old girl, now 4 was absolutely obsessed with song and video. Unfortunately for me, I cry almost every time I hear it. Lol

[@yogadork_namaste]

It's so interesting to see what songs toddlers enjoy. I know the first video my daughter ever danced to was safe and sound by capital cities. She wasn't even 2 yet. Then at 4 I got addicted to "sit next to me" by foster the people and it became her favorite song, too. She used to call it "car song" because I always played it in the car. She is 8, now, and it's still one of her favorite songs.

[@skyrimwarrior-sc8dw]

My dad passed away in January. I'm about to finish high school and this song made me think about him. Such a great song.

[@SawyerAnderson104]

congrats on graduation

[@vernonsalisbury5276]

Good job on graduating man, your dad is with you

[@vernonsalisbury5276]

Don't ever forget

[@nula654]

Now I just miss my dad. He died in 2016... and I'm still so glad that I got to make things right with him before he died. We didn't always have the best relationship, but I loved him and I miss him everyday. My son sent me the link to this and I have to admit he sure knows good music.

[@matthewharrod4586]

I think its been at least since middle school since a song has made me cry. My dad had me at an older age i can see his age and i know i will not have him forever. I can barely handle even the thought. This song is so fucking beautiful. Thank you for making me feel something. I sent this to him and told him how much he means to me. I have lost a mom and every grandparent. He is all i have. This is such a beautifuk song