Healing from our past relationships. What advice can we share?

[@6penny372]

People don't give this guy enough credit for his jokes tho! lOl 😁😁

[@nathynice1]

He brings so much life to this channel 👌

[@khangelanincalu8504]

My thoughts exactly! Bro Skhu I life I tell you. 😄😄😄

[@brianchizaza1989]

You can say that again hes a legend

[@katlego5077]

Honestly I love how he laughs at his own jokes 🤣🤣.... it kills me

[@valcaciaseloane3600]

True. Skhu brings some vibe

[@kelebetsemogale6736]

This nose is normal truly speaking

[@blackwoman_015]

True aii

[@dimpleface6758]

I mean it's really normal ... Who ever commented has never seen Mandla Sithole from the old generations

[@ntlharhingobeni2879]

The nose it's normal xem

[@sthabilephungula1314]

True..

[@goddessprivyndlovu9061]

I actually think he is handsome

[@xolelwathandokazimantungo6457]

You are right Nozi. My former boyfriend who I almost got married to and even planned a baby girl with flipped when the baby arrived. 3 months after the break up he started dating someone else and even moved in with her. People kept asking me if I am dating and I kept telling them I will not date just because he moved on very fast I will take my time to properly heal and prepare myself for another man who will be totally different from him and do things differently. It's almost 2 years now and I am making sure that I take my time and heal properly before I date someone else.

[@bathinikowane5879]

This is my story... we had a baby... he did a 360 on me when she was 2/3 months old. i didn’t even have the luxury of 3 months. He was already in a situation with someone towards the end. I’m still single, healing and working on trusting again as I struggle to see how I can get involved with someone at that level again. It will take me a long time to get there. I’m married to my life’s purpose now. But grateful for the heartbreak and disappointment. It has grown me in ways I could never imagine. And has taught me and owning my happiness.

[@bukiwemzamo7247]

W

[@NewaNemandalale-jw7jm]

U must not sleep with a man b4 u get married. Plan kids in marriage

[@MrOrsen]

Bathong Skhu is DRAMA Skhu is everything.., did I mention how much I LOVE him, haibo he is everything, what nose? Mxm people are just a waste

[@moemo4016]

I know ryt..that nose is ok for it's face..it's ok for him

[@neoneoi]

The Mayaba's thank you for this pertinent topic, I personally relate with this so much

[@shumanobomi7466]

What nose nyani like people mara!

[@nguyekanye8852]

I think that person wanted attention xeim,there is no big nose at all

[@mmbidiwilliam2414]

SKU experiences really lead him to be such kinda guy, really polite and matured... I really respect his mentality honestly ✌️

[@thandokazisolibanzi8213]

I like how Skhu looks at you Nozi, your husband loves you a lot🤣🤣 my favorite couple ❤️

[@somiboltina604]

I love ubhuti Skhu for u Noz. He just embraces your craziness and your strength so well. ❤️

[@balisamancayi]

I'm so happy to see you here my friend. I agree with you! ❤ Please send me your contact details via LinkedIn.

[@xolelwathandokazimantungo6457]

"What defines you as a person without that job? Who are you?" - Skhu🙏🙏🙏🙏 Nindichukumisa entliziyweni nina noy2.

[@esthermpokela5773]

Love this amazing 👫. Such an inspiration 💃💃😘😘❤️❤️💓💓♥️🔥🔥🔥💐

[@ddawgntsham1243]

Ndomelezekile, as uMabuyekwendeni oHIV positive thank you guys...dating again and slowly getting there

[@thanandlovu5107]

You guys are so matured ..the level of articulation 🥂

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Cheers 🍷🥂 to that

[@nkhen_c357]

Hubby was so brutally honest. We hardly hear that. Thank you

[@gracenovie]

When two beautiful minds meet❤️. I could listen to you guys the whole day. So much wisdom 🙌🙌

[@juliledube8873]

I actually did on Sunday, l was listening to her content the whole day.

[@tembitheteacher6499]

Jonga intloni zento...

[@eviceshambare7122]

I am happy to say, wife is now listening and giving husband chance to speak without interrupting. You are amazing though! Above all you have a fantastic relationship. Your nose makes you unique so don't worry. Love you guys

[@alexrantseli3301]

I'm yet to watch a boring video from you guys and I suspect there will never be one because we love you guys so much. Nozi when I get into another serious relationship I hope to be with someone who has your spirit, intelligence and honesty to name just three things. You guys are lucky to have each other I will always be rooting for you. 😎❤

[@katlegomashilo6079]

Skhu is such a wholesome person(and his humor is the cherry on top😂).You have an amazing hubby Nozi. Oh,and we love having him on the channel.🙌🏽

[@BoboThami]

He looks so emotional ☹😓. I am glad God pulled through for u sir

[@swazi4769]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Your nose is perfect. Missed you guys and Nozi, the channel is "ours".

[@masentlelebona9226]

Do you two sit down and have meaningful conversations over dinner and just enjoy picking each other's brains? I like that mahn.

[@klavistyg]

Thank your husband for sharing his story for me. I am going through something similar, build again from nothing. Hearing him talk has helped.

[@HappyGirlsWW]

I pray that God becomes your strength in this difficult time 🙏

[@khangelanincalu8504]

If there ever was a perfect combo. The Mayabas are it. Thanks for yet another edutainment of an episode. 🙏🏾

[@jo-annensovosilaule940]

I could listen to you guys all day! The maturity in your and the wisdom bombs that you keep dropping.

[@Kiki-sv9cl]

Your honesty is so refreshing . May God bless you .

[@namakau2985]

Revenge is necessary sometimes 😂😂😂

[@friedashifotoka6556]

your husband's humour is the best. love the content

[@thanandlovu5107]

Lol that person is hater Skhu siyakuthanda thina. And please feature in all video's 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@lisiwemtshali6823]

Mr Big Nose...in the building...love u guyz...thank you

[@heathermbambeni5789]

11:20 I saw Skhu being vulnerable... thank you sir for opening up,it really takes a real Man.

[@tendaig7048]

This dude is straight-up funny, am in stitches

[@kaddyeyo2533]

Stumbled on your videos yesterday! Want to say........you are doing a good thing! and as per the nose.....really didnt notice it until you mentioned ! All I saw was a good man! but now that I do, I wish everyone has that size of nose, maybe the world will be a better place, if people 'breath and smell' better!

[@sharonjumba4648]

😁😁😁

[@MyTrails_ZA]

Your last commemt👌🏽

[@pascollcampbell7580]

When ever I watch this guy.He makes my day!!! He’s very very hilarious and entertaining...Lol !!!!!!!

[@narelaurantsho3352]

🤣haibo! who said that about our special guest!? we must find that person & deal with them!🔪 how can they ruin things like this! 😂There's nothing wrong with Skhu's nose okay! I like the level of maturity here... and the honesty... you both have been through the most... Thank you for sharing your stories with us... You are loved 💖, please ignore the nasty comments okay! That unhappy person must stay away from this channel!

[@DzunyB]

Recently divorced and stumbled upon one of your videos and have been binge watching since. The two of u have really aided in my healing#noPressureThou I just love u guys❤

[@thesanexplorer]

Who made the nose comment? Tell us who it is, we just wanna have a conversation. Not when it comes to our good husband! Love from Toronto

[@MrOrsen]

We want to beat them up 😂 😂

[@ndakhona3336]

they need to be dealt with hahahhaha

[@Itfhobi-yebaPhuthi]

Gathering here waiting for the name 🤣😂 🥊

[@nayelushaba3041]

Revenge is not necessary, let go and Let God. He will meet his Karma

[@MadamEllaMalala]

A conversation... Yes, that! *cough* We good people! Show yourself! 🤗

[@nompumelelosihlangu3436]

When Bhut' Skhu spoke about taking ownership when you've wronged others in order to fix yourself and not repeat the same mistake moving forward. At times, if not most, we drag the toxins from past relationships into a new relationship and speaking from my own frame of reference mna ndangena kwi relationship with all my walls up thinking if I don't protect myself this time around no one will. The problem with that is I never took ownership for my role on how the relationship ended. Thanks again family for the vital and sound advice! Oh by the way ndicela igama lalomntu who commented about your nose, I want to see something 🤔..... As always, great content guys! Keep it up!

[@anathinkenku2411]

I’m just here for Skhu 😂😂 he’s such a mood. Ndihleka oko 😂😂, I love you both so much❤️❤️❤️😉

[@unathijam-jam]

I dont know how many videos I've watched now😊and umama udikiwe because am always on phone and once she calls me ill be "yima mama uNozi usathetha" 😂I love you guys.

[@fio9174]

Wooow i have fallen in love more with this Gentleman. That person was just jealous, i dont see how big it is.we love u here in Uganda ,so cute.God bless you both.

[@thabielee]

I keep on taking breaks because this is an intense episode. From the introduction by looking at our favourite sbari I could tell ukuba it's gonna be a heavy one. I'm happy & thankful to God that you guys have found each other, ningumntu omnye who deserve each other. A beautiful episode that I wish everyone who is contemplating getting into a new relationship would watch. Healing is important just as much as finding the right person for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thabisilemtshweni7615]

Skhu is very handsome, with or without a big nose just like my husband. 💙

[@thembimatrose2369]

Mr Mayaba's nose is PERFECT!!!!!!!

[@janepherkhisa1801]

I like watching mature content like this

[@sinalogqunu9232]

14:09 - 14:31 That is the kind of introspection we all need to do for success in the next relationship. Critical things that were said: "I've wronged people" & "I had to own up to the wrong things that I did which led to my marriage crumbling".

[@kgomotsodunjane4451]

That's honest truth, time is a healer..it took me 2 years to recover from my last relationship..wow hey

[@lelethumgayi7512]

Five seconds in the video and already I'm laughing, you guys are so funny.

[@sharonjumba4648]

You guys are just everything....undeniable chemistry, true, open conversation and so comical. I enjoyed every single bit.

[@sunshineandroses8]

Nozi, you’re such an incredible woman🙌🏾, you’re questions, you’re listening skills, the way you interact with your hubby. I love how articulate you are and how you process everything you are hearing. You really are incredible. I love you so much 😘

[@estherkaruku8478]

I just love the way you listen to each other without interrupting; at the end of the day, everyone feels heard. ❤️❤️❤️

[@immaculatekemihingo262]

OMG, I can't stop laughing..... that was such a negative comment. Haters will always find negativety. Don't mind them, you're such a beautiful couple.

[@janenagana7252]

Big nose indicates a proper, and a real African man .when you look at our great grandfather and grandfather you will know.

[@malaikah8329]

😂😂😂😂.. kills me everytime she says "ahhh lady" when referring to her mother. Sisi.. you teach young ones how great it can be to marry a seasoned man, he fills you with maturity and wisdom. I love how you look at him, your expressions as he speaks, as you acknowledge his wisdom. God bless you

[@vilampi9268]

He's so handsome and you re a beautiful couple. I love your interaction.

[@chantallkitoko2521]

I liked the vid even before pressing play! I love you both

[@alletagrandy2545]

I love this channel and why I didn't know about it...but thanks that you always addressing the issues and skhu we like you and both of you I enjoy it

[@nikita-aliyahmgoduka9610]

Powerful. Time off is essential

[@elizabethleboho9752]

My favourite couple 😍 Did you have kids in the first marriage Skhu? How is your relationship with them and with your new marriage ?

[@zodididee4097]

Phakathi inside let me just say i love you before i watch❤️

[@Not_On_Bread_Alone]

When Nozi says Ladyyyy!! I DIE 😂😂

[@preciousndlala6038]

U 2 deserve ur own TV show, love guys The world needs more ppl like u

[@MyTrails_ZA]

Love your KZbin conversations and your madness on Facebook. You are the epitome of HOPE.

[@theroyalrecollections3832]

You all are both handsome, good looking and smart couple! Don’t know what those folks are talking about.

[@naledikumalo9833]

The rawness and transparency from this video made me subscribe. Thank you guys for sharing and being so vulnerable. You have no idea the impact you have had and the questions and answers you have helped answer in my head and so many other people's heads also. Watching from Ireland😁😁❤

[@siyasangadyalo-paliso3218]

"What defines you? without your job, without your money and without all your materialistic things, who are you?" shuuuuu bhuti Skhu is out here dropping bars. Shuuuu!!!! Got me thinking. Thank you guys for your honesty, I am sure do learning a lot!!!

[@tjitjikutuarakepembekotjii]

uSkhu is definitely handsome but I'm with him the person who commented the nose gave a topic for that really soothing intro conversation.

[@mimiliousleboko1112]

I died 😂😂at senior citizen..... Skhu is life to the channel yazi😂😂😂😂😂😂👌

[@sisiphosethumbasa587]

I'm glad I found this channel 😇🙏❤️.

[@z.vmdaka3806]

Thank you for this . Im on a journey of self discovery and dealing with my issues. This helped put alot in prospective i love you and Sku niziz goals and both so inlove a beautiful reminder that love comes in all different forms and it is beautiful to be inlove .

[@janetkyara8004]

Thanks for this clip, well I love when you speak your language mixed with English😘

[@thobilevilakazi6566]

May God heal you Nozi we neva stop praying for uzozibonakalisa kuwe ubaba u have a humble heart

[@NghishiinawaMudjanima]

Loved this...and love you guys. As usual, informative and funny at the same time. Love from Namibia

[@seipatimokoena6152]

I love you fam so much, your content is so relevant and comes from a place of honesty ♥️

[@nomsebenzi1]

We love you Skhu and we enjoy having you💛

[@MsPoxxy]

I recently followed you guys and I must say I love you both maan. May God bless yall union

[@samukelisiwendlovu4507]

Wow guys this is a brilliant video thank you for being so transparent and honest with us ❤️❤️❤️

[@maseramemolumo1440]

I love this channel, 3days in and I’m hooked. Thank you for sharing your love, your experiences and your life with us

[@NtombizonkeMehlomakulu]

Hehake Nozee, I’m here again & still enjoying. Masterpiece is that I’m watching you at 03:11am, abantu balele nogal!

[@shaz4709]

Lovely video... beautiful to see honesty and love...As well as personal growth in relationships

[@asie_dudula]

Sana, akusemnandi apha!!! Thanks for the insight, very fruitful.

[@noendlovu4788]

The two of you just bless me. Your life is a testament that God is good all the time. He meets you at your point of need and blesses you with something that you have not even imagined. God bless your both always🙏🏾

[@image2320]

I really love you guys, all the way from Namibia. You are such an inspiration to all of us. There are lots of people struggling with this kind of issues, and so much stigma even in our church communities. It's refreshing to see people accepting each other, and have a blessed beautiful life. You are such a blessing. Lots of love.

[@kekeMakhetha]

So real, so genuine, I love it 🧡🧡🧡🧡

[@candidtalkswithlauvena1835]

Mr Husband, the person's comment shouldn't hurt you Sir, you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God and he saw that you were perfect and handsome Sir. And only an illiterate person will jave time to comment on things that they themselves can't even fix. We'll you might have a nose that is not created as they maybe want tit to be, but if they can look around themselves they too have some imperfections according to the human eyes. Calling someone names is you not fearing and appreciating God's creation. U'Sku you are handsome Sir. Perfect hubby for my Daughter U'Nozi💕💐💞💐💖

[@lungilehlongwane8730]

Great topic and lovely couple. My Fiance and I have been together for more than 8 years and we recently started talking about our previous relationships in depth. I realised how we needed to have this conversation even though initially I didn't see the need. IT IS ESSENTIAL people.

[@vuyisekakani7375]

The emphasis on MY😂😂😂I love you both so much,thank you for sharing your stories, many of us can relate and indeed find pieces of ourselves in them...😂and marn there's NO big nose there!

[@andiswaedyantyi]

Yooh this is real content, i never leave this this chanel without learning something.. thank you all so much.. its been a year im trying to heal now im confident that i will get there one day youve given me hope. Ta Skhu you're are hot if i can say so.. ungafike nalomntu ebegeza unjani yena and its always the sgrwabz abagezayo

[@leahledwaba7002]

OMW I'm really obsessed with you two🤣🤣🤣

[@bonolo_mikali]

Lol "we don't wanna imagine". This is beautiful

[@tabisaxentsa8701]

Your transparency is very much appreciated & empowers a lot of people, you are such a lovely couple ❤️ I'm a South African living abroad and I recently started watching your channel, I love it! Keep up the good work 👏🏾👏🏾 Nozi you're such a lovely and beautiful sister, Uyathandeka ❤️

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Skhu don't ever go to those "nose job things" your wife loves you the way you are.....your personality says a lot about you I love you guys so honest/ beatifull/ and inspiring

[@musabooysen9600]

Thank you for being so open and honest. You are healing sp many hearts 💕

[@ThandsTV]

This is powerful Nozi. Most times we need to have a break between relationships even if just to digest understand ourselves and what went wrong in our relationships.

[@ThandsTV]

What Skhu said really hurts my feelings. We need to take care of our men and make sure that they know that they are worth more than the stuff that they have. They are more than their jobs and the amount of money that they have.

[@songijoseph3068]

Fully agree! That break in between relationships is sooo crucial.

[@zodwamahlangu6426]

You guys are so inspirational❤

[@bulumkobulumko652]

Hey Mrs PLEASE say "our" channel We demand "our" from you "lady"

[@nqobilecebekhulu868]

Sesikhona!!!...No guest la, he is one of us..Now let me watch ke, ill be back.

[@ruemac14]

Im doing a marathon of your videos, y’all are such a lovely couple.

[@luluqhola]

Those 4 👎are probably from the cyber bully and the exes. Yuh! Can we have a 2 hour long chat, please? 30 minutes is too short. Nibadala kum, but I feel like we are good old friends. You're so relatable. I haven't been to eLusikisiski since 2017. I'll go just to chill nani 😂 ubhut'Skhu's jokes give me life😂. Niyathendeka. You're good together and you deserve this happiness.

[@mayie7]

You guys are so practical, love your content❤️

[@authenticstories2571]

Nozi ...you seem like a good listener. I enjoyed watching you listen. I loved how you guys communicate.

[@lunathimanxusa4047]

First time on your channel Nozi and I’ve already watched 3 of your videos. I don’t know why I’m such a late comer to nice things but I’m here to stay🤗❤️

[@katlego5077]

Everyday people with relatable challenges and victories....you guys are great

[@dikolizaskk5847]

Nozi shame so open/ honest and beatifull inside and out.....Skhu thank you for loving this woman and God bless you