A Rebirth EP.4: Navigating Friendship Fallouts & Healing From The Trauma.

[@NthabisengMathole]

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[@ntombimtambo2548]

Enjoyed it thank you

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thanks babe❤

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Those ads affect your channel? I always skip but I won’t skip as per your request fave ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

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[@malillomoetseloa7967]

Enjoyed it ❤

[@sinhlemahwayi6610]

I can relate so much, I used to be someone who would share everything and anything about my life, until I got hurt by all the friendships I had, some I never confronted till today and it looks as if we are okay but honestly we are not, but I’ve built up so much walls and boundaries to a point that I fear having friends around my personal space. One thing about friendships they have left me traumatised and hurt.

[@NthabisengMathole]

I am so sorry to hear this babe. I pray for your healing and hope that one day you will find your tribe❤

[@thandiwesebolai9588]

I can honestly relate. I am also afraid to let people in. Sometimes it may even seem like you are mean and you are honestly no. Once bitten twice shy. I think Sometimes other people will compare themselves to you and if they don't get to where you are( I hope I am making sense) then they start gossiping about you. Eish it's a lot.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Listen, you are making sense and I completely get you!

[@sinhlemahwayi6610]

@@NthabisengMathole I hope I get there one day.

[@sinhlemahwayi6610]

@@thandiwesebolai9588 kuningi, but one day, as Nthabiseng said we will heal and find our tribe.

[@melonnelon855]

I prayed for the friends I have now.. got tired of being lonely and prayed for godly friends. To be honest they are different and truly God sent.Pray for friends!!!

[@NthabisengMathole]

Oh so happy to hear this babe, I am so happy for you and so encouraged ❤

[@boipelotaaibosch5929]

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[@joeydlaminivlogs]

And a lot us don't pray for friends we don't even set criteria to the kind of friends we want. We should be more intentional about how we make friends

[@JM-gn9by]

Ladies let’s just build circles to hangout, vent, talk about clothes and make up, and take our secrets to God. Then looking for “friends” won’t be so hard cause we won’t be expecting that much vele

[@NthabisengMathole]

Love this approach honestly 😂

[@matseilanephala]

"Same way you pray for the kind of partner you want, pray for the kind of friends you want" This right here❤

[@gracehlatshwayo2789]

Profound ❤

[@joeydlaminivlogs]

I almost missed out on q great friendship because of past friendship traumas. Thank God she was patient with me because I found a sister❤

[@wewemhlaba7593]

You look so beautiful Mama Rui😍.Has anyone ever told you how great of a storyteller you are?You have become so comfortable in front of the camera and it's great to watch❤❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Oh wow Wewe I appreciate this. My husband told me I thought he was just being nice because I’m his wife lol

[@motlalepulemorake4965]

You are indeed such a brilliant storyteller. I can listen to you the whole day. Thanks for the great insights.🌹💕

[@NthabisengMathole]

@@motlalepulemorake4965thank you so much this is encouraging🥹

[@hlayisanimabunda]

Adult friendships are tricky especially when you’ve had a lot of breakups. Thanks a lot for this video ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Yes they are. The most painful if we are being honest❤️🤞🏽

[@bakangmahalelo5107]

My weakness is oversharing and something I am really trying to work on😢

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are not the only one babe. I know alot of people struggle with this. Pray about it. Not everyone deserves to know your life like that❤

[@Swaz310]

@bakangmahalelo5107 me and you both.... Am also trying to work on it so bad....and i hve been burned so many times by my oversharing

[@sithabisomthethwa7383]

Me 3

[@anastasiamgidi1378]

ME4😅😅..we really need to get rid of this syndrome of oversharing..I'm bad at it trust me

[@palesalepheane6390]

Yoh so glad to see someone suffering from the same thing, i overshare, hopefully it will stop.

[@Silly_tilly809]

Nthabiseng, I am happy with the stage you are at. You are coming out of the shell. Blossom girl into a beautiful flower that you are.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you my love❤

[@enduranceholdon4932]

I Had Thee Most Purest Friendship With My Childhood Neighbour(Since The Age Of 8 Years To 18Years), She Is 5 Years Older Than Me. We Are No Longer Friends Due To Distance & Different Lifestyles But She Had Pure Intentions, Never Used Anything Against Me, Same With Me. This Video Made Me Miss Her So Much.

[@NthabisengMathole]

So beautiful to see that there are genuine people out there thank you for sharing I hope one day you guys will get to connect.🥺

[@mapulemadi262]

I was traumatized in a friendship in grade 3 and shame! After that I knew I was alone and I didn’t care about making friends but God chose good people for me and we’ve been friends for years.

[@NthabisengMathole]

That is beautiful babe so happy for you❤

[@sanelemakaula1807]

One thing about varsity “friends”, we trusted the wrong people… i keep saying “yoh” every time i think about my varsity friendship experience.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Lmao no amount of 'YOHs" is enough!🤣

[@reethak8452]

Same sana 🤣😂😂🙊yoh . I keep saying “YOH” 🤣😂😂😂or ndim o wrongo😂 ???

[@kedimogale595]

I guess I am fortunate enough that the girl who was my 1st room mate back in Varsity, we still best of friends to this day❤

[@karabomafate3070]

relates🥲

[@IamAobokoe]

Yeyi 😂

[@onicabernards8572]

Sitting here looking at your gorgeous makeup. I believe friends come to our lives for a season to either teach us something. I stopped over sharing, I was betrayed by friends

[@NthabisengMathole]

Yes! Once we start accepting that some friendships are seasonal, we will have peace of mind in navigating friendships❤

[@thakgangmaleka4445]

Friendship is amazing, sorry to everyone who went through trauma. Hope yall heal and find genuine friends ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you babe❤

[@MillenialKay]

Sooo true, the body and soul tells you. Definitely agree with praying for everything and everyone who is in your life I'm sharing this with my niece is varsity, I'm in my early 30s and I've also learnt the hard way with friends so these type of videos are good reminders. Loved this video❤❤❤

[@elle_rankou]

I think friendships while married is a much deeper topic that can be explored. I’ve learned to release my frustrations or concerns about my marriage in prayer and not entrust that to friends because you can never know what’s in someone’s heart. I agree we can learn to trust friends and not live in fear and we need the girlies that understand our emotions and that we can vent with, but I indirectly let friends know my marriage is thriving 365 days in a year as far as they are concerned 😂

[@NthabisengMathole]

That last line? I’m with you lol🤞🏽😂

[@elle_rankou]

Bagotsi 😂 !! 10 past 4

[@NthabisengMathole]

@@elle_rankou100%😂

[@MonaeunderscoreZa]

Yho I relate😩😭regarding being best friends with your roommate. Yho towards the end of the year, we had a fallout, major fallout and turned against me😢. Worst, they knew her at home but then it I’m glad that happened because I then became friends with the best people who were my seniors at the time and they became my sisters, who then helped me in navigating Uni, went to church with 🙌🏾🫶🏾. Friendship fallouts are the worst especially if you constantly bump into the person every now and then😢. I take friendship seriously, and by far I haven’t had any friendship drama🙌🏾🥺. Thankyou for sharing your Story❤️and you look Great!!!! Additionally, I love your bond with Didi🫶🏾it’s beautiful to see.

[@NthabisengMathole]

I’m so happy you found your tribe sis. Thank you for sharing❤

[@forexsigna-m1j]

I found that making friends with people that are older,wiser is working for me❤. People at my age I find it very tricky to be in a friendship. ❤❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Love that babe. Thanks for sharing❤

[@thepriestess5969]

He understands you and rooting for you trust me.

[@kholumakoae4334]

the face beat was beat to the gods...wow. a look. 🥰🥰 10 seconds in I had to say...now let me watch the whole thing.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you my love❤

[@__gra.ceee__6365]

I can relate to everything especially the part where we shared everything 😭 to anyone that is thinking of having a roommate , please don't do it !!!!!!!!!!! its all fun and games till your mental health is at stake. At the end of the day its the experiences that makes us wiser.

[@NthabisengMathole]

You can have a roomate but you don’t have to be friends who share stuff🥹

[@jabulisilembatha4313]

The face beat and hair in these rebirth series…. Is giving 👌👌👌👌👌

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much babe you guys deserve the best version of me 😄

[@jabulisilembatha4313]

And we appreciate it ❤

[@refilwemooi3557]

I can can completely relate Nthabi. My circle is very small. I think it’s Virgo thing. Once you’ve been betrayed it’s so hard to let you guard down. You look gorgeous by the way😍.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Yep you are right it doesn’t help that I’m a Virgo lol. Thanks babe

[@leratomohlakola4817]

So so relatable sis🤞! I also NEVER share ANYTHING! My walls are literally always UP and because I enjoy being home in my own space, I've avoided close connections my whole life. So thank you so much for this, I have come a long way but this was another beautiful reminder that God really wants us to live in community. Friendships are honestly so beautiful and refreshing🥺🤞.

[@NthabisengMathole]

They truly are. There are genuine people out there 🥺

[@mbalidlamini3536]

You are me and I am you regarding friendships, I can relate so much. I will take your advice and start praying about it🙏🥰

[@Thabie168]

This episodes really helps in getting to know you better. You saying that you don’t share, I honestly saw that in you. I am parting ways with a friend who has a similar character. I am not saying it’s a bad thing but spending years with a friend I barely knew it’s a question it self.

[@NthabisengMathole]

After spending years with them I can understand why you would want to, I get it❤ And I’m sorry it has come to this.

[@Grace_product]

Sending hugs and love to all the ladies. Friendships are beautiful❤🙏🏾

[@NthabisengMathole]

Arg it’s so good to see someone with a positive view on friendships🥺❤️

[@nomalungelolungi8047]

Thank you so much Sister, I really needed to hear this. My problem is that I trust easily and I would share my personal information yoh and regret after. But I'm in a prosess pray about it. Thank you.

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are welcome Lungi and all the best❤

[@RichAunty1]

Relatable. Over the tears I've gone from "bff", circle of friends to an actual loner to protect myself. Its super lonely when you've good news to share then it hits you that you've no one to share it with. Then it hurts even more during tough times & I'm literally alone. Agreed, we aren't meant to live in isolation but as at here & now I feel like " better safe alone than sorry with the wrong company"

[@NthabisengMathole]

I totally get this🥺

[@nzalisekocutu9801]

Oh my gosh Nthabi you just took me back to 2006. I was doing grade 10, 15 years old and a friendship fallout got me on anti-depressants and 2 weeks out of school. That was one of the worst years of my life and I was ready to repeat grade 10 but my family forced me to go back to school. Thankfully I left that school the following year. Fast forward 2009, I am also doing 1st year and ofcource I befriend some people at Res... 🙄... Did I not get into a similar situation? 😓. My problem is that I've always been too trusting and I never learn lessons. It's only in my 30s where I'm refusing to find myself in the same predicaments.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Friendships are so difficult to navigate and breaking from our friends leave us with scars that take forever to heal☹️

[@nzalisekocutu9801]

@@NthabisengMathole Ma'am!!! I swear I'm still healing.

[@PabiMathiba]

I get it. And I know many of us who are watching/have watched this video get it, but I really get it. And I think it’s important to vocalise the trauma we went through and how it’s affected us in the way we build friendships now. This is beautiful. Thank you ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Alot of us have gone through this hey ☹️

[@katlego_johnson]

Such relatable content, I’ve been so traumatized by friends that I’m completely content with doing life by myself. I know it’s not healthy but navigating adult friendships is tricky

[@NthabisengMathole]

Listen, I’ve been at a point where I’ve chosen to be alone than with the wrong friends so I get it🤞🏽

[@IamAobokoe]

Being a loner is top tier. I also chose to distance myself from friends and wing this life thing alone.

[@tsholoseremane]

So relatable, the trauma doesn’t go away. May we heal and attract our people ❤️

[@_que_mendu_]

It never goes away 💔 You deemed "too secretive" Or "too sensitive" Kanti you're dealing with past friendship trauma Ladies are so tricky hay

[@NthabisengMathole]

And we will babe❤🙏🏽

[@donnahnellyM]

Im just like you when it comes to friendships. I’m very guarded and take my time to let ppl into my life & personal space. The spirit of discernment has saved us from people with evil intentions.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Absolutely sis and we thank God for this🙏

[@JabulileMathenjwa]

Lol you reminded me of when I used to sob for hours when my bf goes out with his friends. Now it feels so good to be there one going out with my gf

[@NthabisengMathole]

It’s good to have your own tribe because one thing about men they will go out with their friends 😂

[@tlagomohoera6157]

The Rebirth segment is the best thing that happened to this channel pls❤️✨ but they should come with a warning sign sometimes because wowzers 🥺. adult friendships are sometimes else 👏

[@NthabisengMathole]

Arg thank you babe. We are all learning, relearning and healing❤

[@hildandaba1466]

What a beautiful video. The topic is so touching because honestly everyone needs a friend or two but it is so hard to find your tribe man. Have to start praying about this honestly. We don't take friendships so serious until we have been through the heartbreak.

[@NthabisengMathole]

This is true we don't take them as seriously as we do romantic relationships.🥲

[@lisaaarh.r]

The setting and quality of this series,great work mama!🤝

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much. Only the best for you guys🥰🥰🥰

[@xolileradebe2498]

Firstly I'd like to say that you look gorgeous. I'm liking today's look. I'm only 20 and this is what I've learned about friendships. Be strategic on WHO you vent to. Everyone does not need to know everything about you. Have different friends for different parts of you. In that way you give certain versions of yourself away to certain individuals only. What your church friend knows about you might not be what your gym friend does. AVOID having mutual friends with your friends. Group dynamics never really work. One party will somehow always feel like an outcast. Group dynamics also create room for gossip. If your friends don't know each other, there won't be reason to talk about one another in the first place. Lastly, it isn't necessarily about keeping your circle small but tight.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Sis!!! You were preaching!!! Thank you❤

[@lihlemaziko7360]

Wow!!! I could not have have said it better! What is funny is that they never know the damage and trauma caused! Trust me I know what you mean, I think just being vulnerable with people that don’t understand your authenticity vis very problematic! People hurting hurt other people! I sure learnt this the hard way!

[@NthabisengMathole]

Most of us have had our fair share of heartbreak from friendship fallouts and they've left us with so much trauma.

[@Makhotso_]

Friendships are such a beautiful part of life. It definitely hurts when they end but I agree that endings should be in love and appreciation of what was. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Only a pleasure babe😊

[@Meet_Lebz]

Yho Nthabiseng,friendship breakups are the worst shame.This video took me aback to one of the friendship breakup I had in 2021 and my heart feels so heavy right now.Its really so sad when a person can speak so ill of you after the breakup when you can just sit there and watch.Ho bohloko shame,I know exactly how that feels been there.Love and light and I really pray God brings the right friends our way as we pray for them like you mentioned otherwise this was so good to watch.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zaneledm]

Thank you for sharing, I need to pray to stop over sharing cause it’s dangerous:

[@sonilejere4316]

Thank you for sharing this, atleast I now know that I'm not alone in the way that I feel.I thought it was strange that I was building walls every time I got hurt in a female friendship. May God bless the broken road that leads to beautiful friendships💕

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are so welcome! So many of us are still healing from the trauma so you are definitely not alone❤

[@madammomy]

I love how you unpacked this topic mama. Always such a touchy subject but it’s made me realise that sometimes it’s not personal but it’s just a trauma response how some friends don’t celebrate one another loudly 😢

[@NthabisengMathole]

It’s all about being open and honest with each other ❤

[@zintlesizani9948]

You just looking better and better! Absolutely beautiful ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much❤🥰

[@shokim5034]

Loved this. Thank you Nthabiseng for taking time to record and share on this conversation. This is definitely what I needed to hear and listen to. ❤❤

[@matimerle]

Such a relatable vidoe Mama Rui, Zizi mentioned something similar "your husband cannot be your everything". So true, we need girls in our lives. You look stunning!😍

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thanks for watching babe. We really do need girls in our lives💕

[@masanarikhotso5780]

I have experienced a friendship break-up and it's as painful as a relationship break-up but I still have a great friendships that survived the test of time and challenges like any other relationship. I would say my female friendships is one of the best things I am greatful for🙏Most of them are high schools friends and one varsity friend😇

[@NthabisengMathole]

Arg I am so happy for you my babe🥰

[@mosechele3370]

I love it when you switch to SESOTHO...That part where you are sharing a story and then go..."enge enge..."😂Love it❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

I wish I could tell the whole story in Sesotho but I have to respect my non-sotho speaking subbies😂❤

[@Mibiafolabi]

And your non-South African subbies🙏🤎

[@Thandi_Dhlomz]

So relatable…I have also been through the WORST with people I have called friends. But One thing I have learnt about God is that when someone is not meant for you, He will remove that person from your life and yes it may hurt but re ya fola mahn. We pass those “Friends” like they never meant anything to us and it’s ok.❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

This is true. We do move on and more often than not it’s for our own good🤞🏽

[@innocentiadiphoko3931]

Thank u so much for this Nthabi❤

[@dimphomaponyane]

"Pray for the type of friends you want", "Let it end in love" nna ke kwele.

[@NthabisengMathole]

All the best mama❤

[@legallifeskills519]

i felt i gave and gave to particular friendship because we grew up together, but i felt and feel like that is never reciprocated. In addition, i am always single, when they got into relationships, they are nowhere to be found.

[@NthabisengMathole]

🥺❤️ I am so sorry babe. Sending lots of hugs. I hope and pray you will find people who will give you the love you deserve.

[@ayandadube1289]

Thank you for this video...interesting how I pray for my daughter and the kind of friends she should have and forget to do the same for myself.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Right? I completely get you!

[@zinhle__z]

I relate to this video so much ! Congratulations for trying to open up and embrace new people into your life , some of us are still engulfed by fear of friendship betray and still full closed up❤.

[@NthabisengMathole]

It takes time my love and I am not even 100% there yet. Be patient with yourself and pray for healing. You will find your people🥰

[@athilugalo4343]

Mama Yui you are so wise and beautiful 🥹❤️ every time I listen to you I always learn something new🫂❤️ Bless you

[@NthabisengMathole]

Aw thank you so much for this kind comment I appreciate it.🤗

[@hlengiwebeletane7794]

Yho @Nthabiseng this resonated with me so much. This is who I have become because of past friendship hurts. Thank you for this, I am going to try and breakdown the walls in steps. 🤗

[@NthabisengMathole]

All the best mama you got this❤

[@Theynotlikeus38]

Such an important conversation and valid points made, there’s pros and cons with this and tbh I’m glad I experienced fall outs while young because I know better now, imagine with social media now, all your ndabas on a public platform, at this point in my life, being a loner can be cool too😭🤞🏾❤️

[@NthabisengMathole]

Listen I get this. Nka screamer for 7 days straight if my ndabas were to be on the net yoh😭😭

[@Theynotlikeus38]

@@NthabisengMathole 🤣😭

[@kgotleleloselepe_]

You look so stunning! 🥰 It's really hard to get into another friendship coming from a bad friendship fallout. It's encouraging to hear that you were able to find a friend that you can now open up to! Really enjoyed the video🥰

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you for watching babe❤

[@nthabisengmthimkulu3996]

Thank you Nthabi...l found it super powerful when you said that “Same way we pray for partners we should for friends"😍😍😍

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are welcome 😊

[@nomfundozulu5647]

Can I suggest that u sit down with Tshia Smith on a podcast so she can share how she got over fallouts and remained friends with those friends. Maybe we can all heal from friendship breakups and begin to move from traumas

[@Lindz_Sk]

So Triggered but hey it's a journey and I'm glad i decided to allow myself to be a friend and have a friend ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

All the best with your friendships love❤

[@naledindinisa8732]

Very relatable. Friendship breaks-ups are the pits 😢

[@NthabisengMathole]

They hurt more than romantic breakups to be honest.☹

[@KegomoditsweSehularo]

I'm still traumatized by friendships i cant confront people when they hurt me so i pull back. so far I'm convinced that I'm supposed be by myself

[@katlee_ntuli7951]

Yooh! Maybe one day I’ll get to this stage where I’m open to friendships 😫 right now I’m at “my husband is my friend” stage, which is not healthy 😂

[@NthabisengMathole]

Ey sis! Kuzolunga 😂❤

[@Pearleta100]

Hello beautiful soul, thank you so much for this video because I can completely relate, I have so much trauma from friendships. I am also on the journey of learning to break down my walls, I have decided to pray for friends, giving the Lord to lead me to the friends he believes I need in my life. I honestly just want friends that can love me the way I am willing to love them, most people don't understand that friendship is a relationship, it requires work just like any other relationship in our lives. I have had to let go of so many people because of misalignment but trying to force it to work.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Let's keep praying for the right people I believe God will bring them to us.🤗

[@_que_mendu_]

Congratulations to those who got genuine friendships 🍾😊

[@NthabisengMathole]

We all deserve them🥰

[@anovuyoozabor]

Thank you for your vulnerability sis. So many of us can relate. I needed this.❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are so welcome❤❤❤

[@keora15]

Lesson learned indeed. I have boundaries now but I still find it hard to build friendships. I just let it go.

[@NthabisengMathole]

It is not easy babe, at all! It's quite a process even.

[@luthomatiwane9158]

It’s so scary how a traumatic experience affects us 😭 We really need to be kind to and patient with each other; and to always extend grace to people ❤️ I loved this 😘

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much for always showing my love.💕

[@towellamambo1998]

I thoroughly enjoyed this❤❤❤......this is a validation of my approach to friendships

[@NthabisengMathole]

So glad babe thanks for watching❤🥰

[@Tumisang_Thebe]

I can relate to this. I have learnt a lot from this video.❤

[@boitshepokekana2039]

This video is so eye opening yor friendships are so tricky and we honestly do over share with the wrong people 😩

[@NthabisengMathole]

Yep🤞🏽 We really need to pray🙏🏽

[@MbaliLMazibuko]

Grateful for good friendships in life,those people have helped me more than family❤️ This was nice❤️

[@luzannesoyizwapi]

The way I enjoyed this !! Thank you for sharing😘

[@NthabisengMathole]

Glad you enjoyed it!❤

[@rosehlatshwayo7238]

Thanks for sharing this dear, loved it it’s wisdom not to just trust anyone also to guard your heart. Some people are just out there to hurt others, you right God is the answer for directions he won’t fail us this vlog 👍❤️

[@NthabisengMathole]

Aboslutely with God we can never go wrong🙏

[@kamogelomatsemela1845]

Before I continue watching, I just had to stop because ma'am the quality of this video?? Scrumptious 🔥🔥🙌❤️ And you?? Gorgeous 😍😍

[@NthabisengMathole]

Arg thank you so much babe🥰

[@mrspboledi]

I fully relate with this, it’s been barely a year since I’ve started opening myself up. Thank you for this conversation

[@NthabisengMathole]

You are more than welcome mama♥

[@lebohanglelaka6315]

Yho Nthabiseng what a lovely video le molaetsa wateng.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Ke a leboha hle, ke leboha le ha o shebelletse 🧡

[@ayandahmzila1792]

Ooh I am really enjoying this series😩❤️

[@mosechele3370]

I last had a friend in High School. Our friendship was only within the parameters of the school yard and walls. Beyond that nix. To this day...no friends. I have girls from work...I've also learnt not to be vulnerable by over sharing with them.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Vulnerability can be our biggest enemy at times and it’s so saf how people can use our openess against. We need to always guard our hearts❤

[@athimapapu4367]

I am the same, ive been through it with friends. I dont like new friends. I believe we can interact here and keep it cute. 😅

[@NthabisengMathole]

I get you 😂❤

[@Meet_Lebz]

Also you look gorgeous hle Nthabiseng😍

[@Tocaboca89216]

Hi Nthabiseng I just love how well articulative you're, I could listen to you the whole day. This was so relatable and informative as well. All love from me❤️

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much❤🥺

[@Keitumetse9]

Bathong Ausi Nthabiseng, o montle gore. ♥️

[@kelebogilemab]

Ma'am you are me and I am you😅... I don't like sharing because I have trust issues ❤. At 35 I'm still hoping to meet someone that I will align with fully. And theres things that you really can't share with husband.. Things that need a woman to woman. 😂 But ke sana, we end up talking to ourselves 😂. We honestly need to pray for friendships. 🙏 Thank you ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

We do babe, and God willbring our people to us 🤗

[@MargaretLeso-nn2bg]

Mma Rui you are a good storyteller i really enjoying your videos,thank you am learning alot from you ❤❤❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much🥺🌸

[@srnjamela7999]

Loved the vid..am in my early 40 and still have boundaries, and I am very sensitive to even label my friend “best friend “🤭because of past trauma, but I really like what you said about praying and asking God to give you the right people in your life ❤thank you so much for that babe, and you look so beautiful 😍

[@NthabisengMathole]

Listen sis it takes me months before I call someone 'Friend" let alone "Best Friend" Trauma is something else 😆

[@PfaneloPrudence]

"Let it end in love" ❤ As a very young adult this is eye opening and I took it to heart.Thank you for sharing

[@NthabisengMathole]

My pleasure Pfanelo thank you for watching❤

[@keracreates7976]

What a timely word!!! Always giving Ausi!!!!!

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@mabiim]

Currently in Varsity When I met my Roommate for the first time I thought she is a really nice person but as time went i realised that I am living with a python. I thank God for revealing her to me.

[@NthabisengMathole]

It is a blessing to now see her for truly who she is🥲

[@mphomoahloli9175]

I can't wait to watch 😁❤️ No Ads were skipped

[@NthabisengMathole]

I appreciate this so much❣

[@lee.ndhlovukazi]

I’m also trying to open up a bit more to new friends and I pray that God leads me towards my tribe and them towards me.

[@NthabisengMathole]

I believe he will babe❤

[@silindokuhlekanukakuhle7493]

I'm not Sotho ne? But i love it when you switch to Sotho yhoo " Ha ke rate moferefere" 😍 Super late as always, but I made it yay! 🎉

[@NthabisengMathole]

Better late than never I appreciate you❤

[@MimiShelly-pl4qr]

I can relate on soo many levels. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thanks for watching!❤

[@innocentiamphuthi6206]

I almost fell off my chair, you are so gorgeous😍

[@NthabisengMathole]

Aw you are too kind thank you so much🥰

[@Ceeno_zuko]

Also what you expect from friendships, even if it’s influenced by your past traumas, you attract it. Food for thought. 😊

[@NthabisengMathole]

This is so true when you go in a friendship with your guard expecting it will fail more often than not it does.

[@thulidlamini5791]

Oh dear, that hit home.With love, thank you for sharing your wisdom❤.

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you for watching🌻

[@NthabisengMathole]

Thank you for watching🌻

[@MalindiPearl]

A sit down vid to listen to on my way home from a long day at work❤❤

[@NthabisengMathole]

I hope you enjoy it babe🥰