Ntseeg Saub Dhau Lawm Thiaj Plam Tus Zoo Hluas Nraug. 8./13/23

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Never too late to move on ! Happiness leaves to a healthy life ✨️ 😊

[@kaoxiong6148]

Marriage is about finding someone you love and spend the rest of your life with…a mistake that costs your entire life of unhappiness because of your evil mom…😩!!!

[@iTek14]

The past is beyond your control, but you can shape your future with the time you have now.

[@chang3568]

Sister, he have no benefit to you. Let him go and love yourself.

[@mcvaj02]

If you are not capable making decisions on your own and still depend on your parents to do that for you and control your life, you are not ready for marriage. Best to just live alone. This goes all men and women.

[@PaibxyoojXiong-yi4tw]

Pp

[@paublawmxavqhia4509]

😊 go to yoga no you are you are

[@Faifferz]

I feel like back then they still relied too much on their parents to make decisions for them. Shame and respect are huge indicators on “good” people back then. You always wanted to respect and you never wanted to shame. Nowadays we have more freedom because we take a hold of our own lives

[@kabxiayang5399]

Yog kawg cov niag saub no ma dag heev

[@PM-oe5mk]

PLEASE, STOP moaning and groaning about your miserable life! Are you handicapped in some way that forces you to be stuck where you are?! NO! Your life is what YOU make of it! Stop with the victim mentality and start taking charge of your life and create the life you want. Yes, your mother contributed to your situation, but ultimately you are at fault for listening to her and not yourself (after all, it's YOUR life, not hers)! No doctor husband is going to fall into your lap; if you wanted a doctor husband, you should have been actively searching for such a husband! You need to stop blaming your mother (she's dead) and start making GOOD decisions for yourself for once! STOP with the pity party you've thrown yourself all these years! It's time to take actions if you want changes in your life! No one has a great life purely due to luck; it's ALL about good decision making and making the right decisions at the right time. Luck has very little to do with how a person's life turns out. IMO, divorce your loser husband; he's dead weight in your life right now and is a huge contributor to your misery! It's YOUR choice to continuing living like this or start over and create a better life for yourself and your children!

[@Ntxhi67]

Listening to this story make me appreciates my husband more. Tus txiv hlub yus tiag nws txawm siv nyiaj npauj li cas rau yus los nws yeej tsis muaj kev khib. Sister you need to take charge of your life and stop listening to family telling who you should marry. Life's too short to be unhappy. Love yourself, Pull yourself up and do what makes you happy.

[@xionggpa]

Same, it made me appreciate my husband more... great reminder for me on days like this. i forget to appreciate my husband every day & every second. ❤

[@denamoua7262]

Pab koj tu siab .peb ua neeg txhob tos hmoov yuav tsum mus caum yus txoj hmoo.kav liam zoo dua tsis tau txiv yuav.txog txij tau ua yawg nrauj los nws yeej tsis tsheej haj

[@stacysong7618]

Not sure why you want to marry that guy! If I’m already 30 something I rather live by myself instead of paying that divorcée guy child support & bills.! In America no one can force you to married.

[@yl7495]

Some women want a man to support them

[@palee4760]

When you want a doctor desperately

[@iofdabholder]

Instead of waiting...you could've become a doctor yourself!

[@whatever4622]

Why become a doctor when her FUTURE husband is one..😂😂

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly!

[@Vv1720V]

I was just thinking, if she had continue to further her education, maybe she would’ve met her doctor husband.

[@kelbra3689]

Personally, I think your mom just didn't like your boyfriend and used her saub ability to separate the two of you. She knew she made it up, that's why she blamed herself in the end.

[@zouahurkman8957]

I never believed in those. My older sister has been told many times her husband is coming this year. It's been many years and it's not happened.

[@maiyang8492]

No one can read the future. You control your own destiny. Learn to love yourself.

[@MyLifeRideorDie]

This story reminds me of someone I know back then! Her life is so much similar to this story. This is sad!😔

[@maivnaasthiabvajthaiv7798]

it might be the one you knew.

[@pajhnubhlimas3778]

Pab koj tu siab me viv ncaus 😂😂😂

[@yayaj2568]

Yes sister dance to your own beat... life is short for mediocre things. Dont let other decide for you, you make your own destiny nothing is ever written for you, you write your own dont let shamans tell you anything!! 💯 if they aint billionaires i ain't listening!

[@zoolikuv]

It's your luck and you're choices.

[@chaolee606]

Sister, don’t tolerate a person like your husband. It’s better to dump him into the trash and move on. It’s better to live alone with your children’s. You’ll actually be much more happier then to live a abusive relationship with someone. Who doesn’t love you.

[@npaujbais]

You have a choice. You can leave that man anytime. You learned your lesson, sounds like.

[@chuechang3860]

Xum yuav tub txom nyem tsis Xum yuav yawg nrauj yog zoo zoo ces luag yeej tsis nrauj los rau koj li os mog

[@ellayangmn]

To be honest, you did it to yourself. You need to do what right for you.

[@kanman4507]

Ntseeg cov niag saub gub teb cais neej kawg phiam Txoj kev ntseeg cov niag laus ruam cais kob huam

[@saengmany255]

Txhob ua me ntxhais mloog lus es thiab tsis zoo li zaj story no os😢

[@pongthao655]

Do not be too harsh on this sister....yes, sometimes we listen to our parents too much because peb "fwm" them and do not want to over step them even when we're adults. And yes, that is a huge crutch, but she should also have said, no even if I am an old spinster, I will not marry just because you all think I should. Also, like he said, if you are divorced chances are he has to pay child support. Maybe should have looked into that as well. I just feel for her because she was too pious and let her chance at happiness slipped like sands through an hour glass. Hopefully she'll rise to the challenge and make it better for herself and her children. It is late in life, but never too late...I hope. "HUGS" rua tug viv ncaug nuav.

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

There you go...your doctor yawg nrauj right there!!😂😂

[@yl7495]

😂😂😂….he sure got a doctorate in kev sib nrauj!

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Dont let others decide for you not even your parents. As parents you shouldn’t make decisions for your children, do not over protect them from the reality of life…you’re supposed to guide them whether they are on the right path or a troubled one. Give them the warning so they are aware and let them choose their own path, so they will not tu siab to someone else due to regret.

[@pojlaib4986]

Divorce him! Why you still with him? 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@phajej-khedub]

hahaha tau tus doctor zoo kawg

[@rickythao2834]

Cov niag ntsej muag saub ntxim ntxub saub dag ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws

[@deldoe2398]

Stop believing those things; fall in love with him n marry him. That was your big mistake for believing your mom. Remember it’s your life, not theirs. Good luck sister.

[@dustywind06]

I was told i was going to marry someone 10 years older. Heck no. My husband is only 4 years older. Not every shaman can see your future.

[@cocopha5778]

Saul mas qhia lus rov qab zoo ces tias phem phem ces tias zoo no nawb txhob ntseeg ntseeg saub nawb

[@denamoua7262]

Kav txhob tu siab lam zov koj cov menyuam nyob tsis tau ces ho muaj nrauj.peb cov yuav twb yog niam nkauj txhav qaib los luag twb tsis hlub tsis pab yus...

[@andrew4628]

Niam ntsuab teev qhov yuav kom zoo koj hais tau muaj qhov feeling ntawd kuv xav kom koj xaiv ib cov music coj los phim rau koj zaj neej neeg ntawd mas thiaj kho siab os.

[@mcvue9133]

You have to seek a second or third shaman opinion too. it’s just like how you have to seek second opinion in the medical field.

[@chuechang3860]

Cov niam neeb es luag tsis thov pheej mus saib luag tej neej mas zoo nro rab dub xyuas xa mus cuag poj cuag yawm xwb os

[@youavang5439]

😂😂

[@bgr4669]

U may have felt the “Asian obligation” when u were younger, but u don’t have to do that anymore. U have free will. Take back ur power. U deserve to b happy too.

[@yenglor691]

You brought this on yourself. You knew he was a divorced man, yet you chose to marry him. Work on yourself - get your own doctor degree instead of depending on someone else.

[@Yajsuab]

You didn't trust your heart, instead you wanted a doctor so a child support husband is what you got.

[@lublwgdej35]

Tos koj lub neej tsis zoo tsis tim leej twg. Tim koj xwb. Txhob nco nco koj tus qub hluas nraug es koj lub neej thiaj zoo

[@jackieyunan4899]

Khaws luag qub khau rau ces khee luag qub mob ntag nawb lawv aw...

[@diannaxiong693]

Yus twb muaj ob lub qhov muag xaiv es tseem mus yuav tau cov niag dab tuag tshaib ces kawg txom nyem xwb os me ntxhais aw...tsi tau hlis rau koj kiag li os..

[@maivnaasthiabvajthaiv7798]

zaj no mas tis npe tias : niam ciaj saub ntxhais ciaj khaub.

[@pajthao4813]

Xuab dhau lawm os koj na nria luag tej ua neej thiab ma cas koj ho nyob uv nws ntev npaum ko coj koj cov me nyuam es yus mus yus mas ruam dhau tsis tim koj niam os tim koj xwb

[@m468hue5]

Plam koj los cas koj tseem nyob nas txiv tseem muaj coob ne cas koj pheej tseem nyob mas ntshe koj yeej ntshaw ntshaw tus txiv dev zoo li no thiab mas yog koj tseem nyob nrog nws nyob ces txhob tuaj hais hais nawb tsam nws muab koj luam yog phem npaum li no ces nrauj kiag los muab nws xa pov tseg kiag os

[@kawakiyang7049]

LMAO hahahaha hahahaha hahahahaha bwahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha hope ur doctor tom is worth the wait LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@meexiong5801]

Just divorce that bad dog and move on and love yourself first

[@yd2819]

My advice is to leave him! If you don’t then yes you are the Npam one! Stop blaming your mom. You have a choice. You made your choice so you gotta live with the consequences. You still have the ability to make choices now so leave him. You don’t need him. Self love and respect please

[@mayhang6546]

txiv tag lo cas koj tseem yuav thiab

[@baovwj352]

Tus txiv ko ntsaws khib nyiab ntxov npaum cas ces zoo npaum ntawd rau koj xwb mog Viv ncaus tso tseg kiag

[@nx5944]

Tus me muam awd! Kuv xav mas koj txoj hmoov mas thiaj Txawj phem tiag2 nawb. Peb ua neej nyob mas, koj mloog koj niam koj Txiv tau txhua yam, Tab sis txhob ntseeg saub ntxiv lawm nawb mog, kuv yog ib tug neeg tsis ntseeg vaj tswv Tab sis kuv kuj tsis ntseeg saub thiab nawb mog. Pab tus muam ko tu siab kawg, vim tias lig rau nws rau tiam no dhau lawm nawb mog.

[@saalienahvajj5506]

What a sad life

[@maivue284]

Tus me sister aw…pab nrog koj tu siab rau koj lub neej os Tej zaum koj niam hais tias koj yuav tau ib tug txiv el lais-yawm thiab el tshiv-dawm xwb es koj hnov tsis tseeb koj xav tias txiv dov-tawm xwb os. Lwm zaus no ces mloog kom zoo zoo ua ntej es thiaj tsis ua neej ntxuag kua muag li ko nawb mog.

[@kayeng1978]

Neb tiag tiag tsi mus saib neeg lub neej os

[@michaelf2700]

You made ur bed so lie in it. No one can force u to do anything u dont want to do. U have choices.

[@khialy1239]

Poj hmoob ruam aw koj tau Zoo lawm mas txhob tus siab os

[@menavue9633]

What is done is done. Right now, it’s not too late to make a better decision for urself. No one deserves to live in misery, unless u are enjoying that kind of life. Ur husband doesn’t value you, cheats on u, use u, takes all the money, how long are you going to live in a suffering painful marriage? The choice is urs. We only have one life to live here, so make the best decision for urself and stop holding in any resentment. Forgive ur parents and move forward with what makes u happy.

[@seeyang72]

Cas nyb tos tus txiv doctor ntev2 laus tas es yus ho g mus kawm kom yus tau doctor ma Ntuj e....yus ces npam lawm lau zaum no na

[@asiane]

Yog koj niam saib saub leej npaum ko Cas ho tsis saib kom nej raug lej Lotto ma? Koj ces yog ib tug pojniam hmoob Ruam tshaj plaws.

[@niaglaussayaxangly8806]

99% of lovers would die for love but you didn’t. I guess you didn’t loved him enough. Stop the blame game, it’s time to ride your own destiny.

[@sayyang767]

Why you believed your mom you are going to get a Dr.? You did not make decision yourself now you know it’s too late for you!

[@CaptainHookhatesBooks]

Karma for being a gold digger waiting for that doctor.

[@thaevang5369]

Ua cas ho tsis xuas 2 roob taus rau niag pog saub ko kom tshee tshee ko taw ces yog hauj lwm xwb ma.

[@lubsiabzooyang2806]

Koj ces kawg tau txiv dev tawm xwb os...

[@yerxiong8312]

tus ko ces yog koj niam txoj kev npau suav Dr lawm los mas

[@denamoua7262]

Txhob ntshaw txiv doctor/txiv txawj ntse yuav tus phim yus xwb thiaj nrog yus nyob.cov txiv ntse y yus tsis ntse ces yus ua luag qhev uv luag luam yus xwb😢

[@saLLy0608]

Parents will always have a say in their kids’ life choices, but the real decision was YOURS. You can’t blame your mom for your unfortunates in life. It was YOU that didn’t stand up for yourself. You didn’t stand up for the man you loved. You didn’t stand up against your mom’s decision. You didn’t stand up against your relatives that made you married that loser husband of yours. At the end of the day, it was all YOU. It was the path YOU chose. Only feel sorry for your own mistakes in life. You can’t blame others. To stay or to leave, is YOUR choice. Just make the best of your marriage if u choose to stay.

[@xwmkabyang354]

Tso ua yawg nrauj them child support zaum 2 kom tsis muaj chaw tuag chaw nyob, hos yus los yog neeg raug tso tag los.

[@goldeneagle2394]

Ua neeg nyob na, xav kom tau txiv Dr mas yuav tau muab iav tsom yus tus kheej seb yus zoo nkauj puas txaus nawb. Tsis yog hais lus thuam cov phem tabsis txiv Dr luag yog txivneej. Luag twb tau txhua yam lawm. Luag xav yuav tug pojniam zoo nkauj lawm xwb luag tsis yuav tus nkauj laug es zoo tamada kawm ntawv tsis tiav ib daim degree qhov twg nawb. Qhov koj niam hais ko ces koj niam tais xav kom koj yuav koj tus hluas nraug vim koj niam xav kom koj tau txiv dr es nws hais nws xwb tsis yog dab hais os mog. Txhua leej niam ces yeej xav kom nws tus ntxhais tau txiv dr es lam hais xwb.

[@amazinggrace8136]

Is people seriously surprised she got it wrong? They get it wrong 99% of the time 😂

[@nkaujseehawj9885]

😢

[@Niamhuabtais24]

Leave your txiv dev. Don’t use your kids as excuses to stay.

[@judyvang9089]

Koj niam tus vauv doctor es koj niam pheej kom koj nyob tos ces twb yog tus yawg nrauj ntawv ntag.

[@nkaujsaiszimwang6990]

Wow. Its your own loss for believing your mom too much. Your life is in your hands not your parents. I hope you leaned from your mistakes and make the best out of your life 😮

[@lindayaj1333]

Omg life is too short. Get out!

[@gaosayvu6554]

Txhob liam rau koj niam tag2 vim tias koj yeej paub tseeb koj tus hluas nraug hlub koj tab sis koj cia koj niam tsav koj lub neej thiab xaiv txiv rau koj ne

[@oppolaos7589]

Niag yawg nrauj siab yeej pheem

[@roseanimetor8157]

Why didn't she pursue her education while she was single? It would have been wise for her to prioritize self-improvement instead of relying on finding a husband who is a doctor.

[@whatever4622]

Why go to school when her fortune teller mom saw her future with her doctor husband

[@roseanimetor8157]

@@whatever4622, wasting energy on things that are not true is a common trait among individuals lacking common sense.

[@PandYThao]

@@whatever4622😂 your comment had me dying 🤣 💀

[@maitha3886]

She and her mom literally waited for the doctor husband of fall off the sky and land in their life LOL. Crazy lady!

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Vim li cas nej pheej ntseeg saub na yog saub keej npaum ko ces saub twb tsis txom nyem li los mas, peb tiam hluas no yeej tsis ntseeg saub lawm yog koj pheej mus saib saub ces saub hais Lus phem phem rau yus naw,

[@user-wb6hi4xx5z]

Yg lm ma tus ko twb tiav txhua yam lm ces yg doctor lm las ma niam saib yg lm ho nj g paub xb

[@PYANN02]

Love and do things for yourself because at the end of the day you only have yourself.

[@lukemoua9027]

Koj los koj ruam ho koj niam los yog niag saub.xyob txhiaj saub dag es thiaj tsis tau txiv Doctor

[@leefamily6061]

You are in charge of your own happiness and life. Stop allowing people to dictate/plan your future for you. I feel sorry for you sister.

[@YajMorey81]

Love yourself and leave that life!!! Stop using your children as an excuse!

[@nancymoua4982]

Your mother was too selfish just wanted to control you and made you stay as nkauj laug nrog koj niam nyob xwb. Thaum kawg koj thiaj tau yawg nrauj, yawg child support, yawg mob stroke thiab yawg El cheater. Too bad that you're too mloog lus dhaus lawm koj niam thiaj control tau koj. lawm.

[@judythoj6904]

All kinds of stupid stories.

[@yeejxyoojneejthoj6612]

Tu no ce yog kiag Kj niam tu vauv dav tawm ntag ma

[@tinaxanit]

Im so sorry this happened to you. You are the creator of your destiny... you can still create the life that you want... believe in the power that's instilled in you.

[@yeethalo86]

Why are you blaming your mom? It's your fault for listening to her and not making your own decision. 🤦

[@LymeeCha]

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ ruag tiag2! If you can't make your own choices, you deserve the life you get!

[@denamoua7262]

Koj tus txiv no nrauj tau laem nws tsis muaj ib qho zoo...cheater gambler drinker....koj nyob mus ntxiv los koj lub neej tsis vam meej

[@treewipasaesong3980]

ไม่อย่าโทษพ่อแม่นะ แต่บางครั้งเจ้ากรรมนายเวรก็มาในรูปแบบพ่อแม่

[@17maukabtsab]

Girl so sorry for your fate.

[@fuemoua8345]

saub quav dev dab ntxwg nyoog xwb txhob ntseeg mog

[@nhiachaothao6693]

When you have bad fortune everything goes wrong. Right decision still turn out to be wrong choice. Foolish people don’t have the conscious to know the phenomenon of this imperfect world.

[@tongyang6314]

Niag txiv liam li ko es thiaj tau ua yawg nrauj los ma, cas koj yuav ntseeg koj niam ua luaj li na, txog thaum kawg tsis tau txiv Doctor hos tau txiv yawg nrauj xwb. Nrog koj tu siab kawg uas koj yug los xiam tiam lawm os tus me niam tsev aw.....

[@yervue559]

Nej txob ntseeg saub os saub ces tsis tsua muaj tseeb os

[@asiane]

Nej yog cov Hmoob Meskas uas lam tuaj nyob Tebchaws vammeej xwb Tabsis nej tseem ruam noj quav heev.

[@SV-xb1rg]

Don’t be mad at your mom. Be mad at yourself for believing her lol

[@flryprn745]

🤣😂Your mom lied to you. Of course every parent want their kids to marry doctors but R there enough doctors for everyone?? At that time era, there weren’t many Hmong doctors like now, your chances of getting a Hmong doctor were very slim, use common sense could of saved your life. Don’t wait for your prince, go search for him.

[@wayang392]

Niag twb mob stoke tag li ko lawm es tseem mus thag hluas nkauj thiab ces muab nws xa dab kiag xwb mas vivncaus cas tseem yuav thiab na.