Ntxov Nrauj Neej Ntxov Zoo. 11/21/23

[@bluewhisper5008]

Glad you walked away from this toxic relationship. ❤❤

[@XimMuas-m3r]

Kv lo dhuav cov niag txiv neej ua tsi pab yus khwvnyiaj kawg li thiab o dhuav siab tiag2

[@niamntxoovtswbxyoojchannel2454]

Zoo siab nrog koj

[@chaituaher724]

Good for learning your life the hard way. Tab sis yog koj ntxov nrauj ntshe koj kawm tsi tiav, ntxov nrauj ntshe tug zoo los tsi tau txog.

[@Cimzoo2020]

Dhuav cov txiv tub nkeeg dhau lawm os

[@christinabthao8825]

Kuv nyob koj qhov chaw ntag os sister...kuv dim plaws ma tshav ntuj nrig

[@ir0nm0nkey123]

puas yog mas! are you remarried now?

[@DararatSongsawatwong]

เหมือนชีวิตฉันเลยแต่ฉันม่มีความกล้าเดินออกมาจนตอนนี้อายุขึ้นเลข5แล้วจะเดินออกก้อเสียดายทรัพย์สินที่ฉันสร้างมาลำบากใจกายมาตลอดเครียดจนตอนนี้เลยเปนเครียดสะสม เมื่อก่อนเราน่าจะได้ฟังเรื่องราวเหล่านี้สร้างแรงบันดาลใจให้เรากล้าเดินออกจากชีวิตที่แบกรับอะไรคนเดียวซะทีนะ

[@maipha8560]

Yep, there's no future with a partner who's lazy and without any future plans. The sooner you cut that cord, the better off you'll be. Glad you've learned your own lesson and walk away at your time. No regrets and keep your eyes on the prize.

[@brucehawj3306]

Dhuav cov dev tub nkeeg tshaj. Hnav av.

[@zoolikuv]

Glad you tried your hardest to build no regret for leaving. Most importantly, glad you see your priorities.

[@cecilethao5105]

❤❤❤❤🇲🇫

[@leelaiyah789]

Leej twg qhia yus los yus tsis ntseeg cia yus rov qhia yus, yus thiaj ntseeg. Thaum koj txias tsim siab txaus lawm es nrauj thiaj tsis muaj hnub rov qab hos yog koj niam koj txiv hais xwb yeej mus tsis tau.

[@hanhmai-sr3nz]

Zaj neej neeg no thooj li kv lub neej dhau kawg li ta sis zoo qhv kV muab nrauj ntxov lawm

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

So proud of you.

[@vickyvang80]

U finally grew up.

[@mayalee2400]

You are hell of smart, good for you, you're strong, you show him whats good girl...your not mean, you do what's rights for yourself...proud of you..

[@MissPeachie]

I would leave that lazy bum too. I can’t stand people who won’t work. You were smart to plan everything before leaving him. It’s draining and exhausting to be with someone that has no ambitions and goals.

[@TrusCheng4797]

Tus viv ncaus aw txiv tub nkeeg thiab txiv sai siab txiv tham hluas nkauj ces zoo ib yam xwb os qhov zoo ces hloov tswv xwb nawb .

[@quanvlog4264]

Kuv lub neej ces zoo lj zai dab neej no 😢😢

[@ljvue]

Keeping up with the Joneses.

[@plusplus9491]

😢😢😢😢😢ca kuv lub neej es nim zoo kiag li kj lub thb es ua neej tsawg xyoo lo nyob qhov qub vim tau tu txiv tub nkeeg xwb tu siab tshaj li os lawv ntshe yuav tau dua hmoob tshiab thb lo ca os 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@tiachang-sn5ic]

Yog kawg everything on ur hand

[@ปิณิดาจารุภคไพศาล-ป6ญ]

Lawv aw!!! Cov txiv zoo li no es lub neej caum tsis cuag luag li mog tseem hluas ces muab nrauj zoo dua laus2 li yus no es tseem nyob rau lub teb chaw uas tseem siv tus cai qub2 es nrauj nyuaj2 thiab yus los laus2 lawm es lub neej yeej caum tsis

[@sombunman5551]

Yog leej twg nguag cais kev pluag tsis caum li os puab yawm aw

[@ntxoovntxoo8413]

I agreed with you on making your own destiny. Be picky with who you choose to be in your life is so important.😊

[@tuamhawjdw3]

Tus zoo mus, tus phem los. Tus phem mus, tus zoo los. Tus neeg tub nkeeg tsis ntshaw lub neej zoo. Tus neeg ntshaw lub neej zoo tsis tub nkeeg.

[@cheexiong1634]

Glad you found a better road to take sister❤

[@kvang1045]

My ex was the same too. He couldnt hold a job and care more about his friends and being lazy. Doesnt help me out on household chores or watches our baby. I pay rent and insurance while he is out and about with his friends. When he need $, he would ask me to go withdrawl the $$ i save up working at fast food prior to getting married from my parent. On top of that he also cheated. After 2yrs of marriage, i took my child and left that bum. He still lives with his parents to this day. Im glad you left..you definitely made the right choice bc that is not a husband. He is a leech. Glad your life is better now

[@kaoxiong6865]

Leave him then.

[@kvang1045]

@@kaoxiong6865 Smh. did u even read the whole thing? I left him 16yrs ago. Lol

[@hmoobthoj2024]

Good job 👏

[@kuabmuajtsuasxiong8712]

Lawv nej puas dhuav cov txiv neej uas tawm rooj mus nrog phooj ywg tas li yus txhob hais yog hais tes twb ntxias yuav muab yus nrauj xwb nej puas dhuav os lawm .

[@NoviceCreations78]

Dhuav kawg li os.

[@Emily-bx3db]

Ntshai dabtsi, nrauj ces nrauj xwb. Cov txiv loj leeb tsis pab pojniam tsuas paub tawm rooj mus uasi nrog phoojywg, forget it!

[@vickyvang80]

Wow

[@lisvaj7375]

I know alot of people that walked in the same footsteps as you. Getting married young and having to struggle to survive. I’m glad you had enough and walked away. Good luck.

[@Hmoob_xyooj206]

Ua cag kuv txiv twb tub tub nkeeg thiab ua cag kuv txiv hos muaj muaj nyiaj no kuv niam ib leeg khwv xwb tab si kuv txiv muaj nyiaj tshaj kuv niam ub 🤔

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

Loved can blindness your eye for sure. You should listen to your parents because they were older, wiser plus they see your boyfriend attitude when you’re dating. Glad the great lesson you learned from, plus please don’t blame or never compare your children w/their father because it you the one that gives your kids with a great discipline from young, you Be a role model and live your life by good example for them.

[@thedark-_-lord8285]

Sister…I am happy for you that you were able to have the mental power to leave your ex. Some women can’t do that so they still live in a miserable marriage especially husbands that don’t work and gambling addicts. Regardless of what his family said, they were in denial and biased. Its their son and brother of course they have to be biAsed.

[@xwmkabyang354]

neeg tub nkeeg neeg dai qhuav es koj thiaj li yuav khwv nyiaj tsis tsaus nws phob nws tsuas xav ua kom nws zoo nyob, ntxov nrauj ces ntxov zoo ntxov tso ces ntxov tsis nco, luag hais tias noob txiv poob tsis deb ntawm hauv paus ntoo ces yog cov tub hos niam txaij pliag ces ntxhais lawv liag ces yog cov ntxhais mas.

[@beevang7967]

Sister aws tsis tas tub nkeeg os yog nws txawm ua haujlwm zoo Los yog nws siv nyiaj loj2 ces yeej yuav tsis taus. Cov nweg siv nyiaj loj ces khwv tag Sim neej Los yeej pluag kus.

[@lukemoua9027]

Koj nyiam nws dua nws nyiam koj ces nws thiaj siv koj tas li xwb vim nws xav tias koj yuav khiav tsis tau nws no ov

[@AleeLor-m1f]

kuv tus txiv dev ces zoo kiag li no thiab tiag ntshe tsis ntev kuv yuav muab nws xa mus rau nws tsev neeg thiab os lawv yus khwv npaum cas los nws yeej tsis khwv li los cem yus mas tseem hais tias nws khuv xim nws tej qub hluas nkauj yog lawv paub mas ntshe zoo qhov lawv tsis yuav xwb os

[@KathyLee-o7k]

I understand what she going through because I dated 1 single hmong vang guy n just lazy like her man too..he never want to work n lived off me for 6 years until I left his lazy ass in 2018..I finally feel happy n peace n life good..not broke no more..

[@Ntximhlubchannel]

Kuv tu txiv ce zoo kiag li tu niam tsev no tu txiv kiag lo tseem tshaj thiab muab vaj muab tsev tsoo piam tag

[@KevinWhitebear]

Ces koj paub lawm mas yuav ua licas koj lub neej thiajli zoo li teb li chaw.

[@Ntximhlubchannel]

@@KevinWhitebearxyov li o g paub xyov yuav ua li ca li o

[@kaoxiong6865]

Thov faj koj Zaj dabneeg no mus rau tus qub hluasnkauj nyob 52. Kuv ntseeg tias koj lub need ces raws nraim zaj dabneeg no ntag.

[@yenglor691]

Good for you - it took you forever to move on.

[@solomoua5520]

Sometimes parents are right 🙏

[@yerlee5465]

So sad so true

[@FfxFfxx-sv7cv]

Eb...nej cov ntxhais hmoob mes kas ces tau tus phem nrauj tag los tseem nriav tau tus zoo kuv yog ib tug nyob lub neej tau tus txiv tub nkeeg li tus niam hluas no thiab kuv ces lub neej nkim tag kuv ib sim lm kuv nrauj tau 4 xyoos no lm nrhiav tsis tau tus zoo li lm kuv ces tsis cia siab tus zoo li lm

[@MeeLo-v1q]

Now I’m still stuck on that way. Don’t know how to do cause I have 2 kids 😢😢.

[@sombunman5551]

Nws muaj khoom zoo koj tseg tsis taus li os pog aw

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Lesson of the story: When you cant admit wrong you struggle longer. Loved the wrong qualities in a person.

[@hmongremark2686]

Ib tug txiv tsev twg ua neej tsis raws siab xav xwb li nyiam haus dev cawv, twv txiaj yuam pov, ua plees ua yi, yos hav zoo hav tsuag tas li, nuv qav nuv ntses, tso qaib sib ncaws, thiab tub nkeeg tub nkig no ces tus niam tsev tsis need yuav nws ntxiv lawm vim nyob teb chaws no mas nws tsis vam khom txog kom tus txiv ntaus thawj loo mus luaj teb ntov ntoo, ua txhab nplej txhab pob kws, xov laj kab teb, tsim nra nyuj nra nees, hov riam hov txuas, phiaj txuas phiaj hlau, ua yaj nplej los tuam yaj choj, los sis puas mus thws qab teb luag teb rau poj niam mi nyuam ua lawm.

[@kaimarro517]

Pa, I hope this is you. I hope you made it out of your marriage. Seeing you suffer in high school is what pushed me to continue with my goals in life. It’s what scared me from men and marriage. I still think of you and have always wished the best for you.

[@Alex143-s9g]

why men work to take care of family and women be a house wife is accept, but when women work for take care of family and men be house husband is not accept?

[@Cindy-s1t]

When you have able Hands and feet, doesn’t make any sense to me. Nowadays, both parents need to work to make ends meet. Should have left that bum a long time ago. Love alone can’t pay the bills!!

[@miabhlub63]

Sis, koj thiaj nyob ntev ntau xyoo rau yus loser ex-husband. Kuv ces twb ya plo ntev.

[@Lisa_X5]

I’m surprised to see you stay for 10 years with the loser husband of yours. I would’ve left him day one when you see that lazy behavior. You can’t let him go bc you love him? But, I’m glad you were strong enough to leave him.

[@พิมลแซ่วาง-ฌ8ฎ]

ชีวิตจริงจะเหมือนในนิยายมั้ยน้อ....คนขี้เกียจ

[@kuvxwb9555]

Good for you but things don't always work out the way it did for you, for everyone. Don't ever brag cuz you don't know your future.

[@monkeybanana9269]

It's only regretful if your spouse still have some good qualities. If they have 0% and it's a toxic one, how can it get worse?

[@JRxwb]

👏👏👏👍👍 Very good for you! The unknown future is better than the scrabbling life you’ve been suffering because a loser husband like him will not help you. I hope and pray 🙏 that ladies in your shoes will have the courage to move on like you too. Ladies like you deserve better than the loser you picked wrong in the first place.

[@chang3568]

You are right sister. Gotta help your faith if you don't like where it's going. I am so glad you're strong enough to leave a lazy man and found someone better.

[@sayyang767]

My is more lazy than your 2X, but I still love him every day.

[@Lisa_X5]

What’s the benefit of having him around when he can’t help you?

[@kvang1045]

And thats something to be proud of? Do better

[@monkeybanana9269]

Then why complain?

[@deldoe2398]

Up to you to be his slave all your life.

[@nkaujntse5196]

How did you not get to pay spousal support and split 50/50?

[@bgr4669]

Wonder if they never got marriage license…that or dead-beat ex probably didn’t have any money/sense to hire a lawyer. Plus, her kids stayed with her, so doubt ex will get spousal support if she’s raising the kids.

[@amazinggrace8136]

That’s why it’s important to know who you’re marrying and what you want in a spouse before marrying them. You may be in a better place now but the children always lose in a divorce.

[@krsclis]

Not always. I feel that staying in a relationship like this and that of an abusive one just sets the kids up for failure. OP appears to be strong enough to hold her own and teaching her kids the value of hard work. It might be more detrimentally negative for the kids if the OP had stayed.

[@amazinggrace8136]

@@krsclis now that we are here, what I say stands true. The ones that suffer are the children. Stats don’t lie.

[@krsclis]

@amazinggrace8136 So you're saying that it would've been in the kids' best interest for them to still stay in a 2 parent household despite their dad being dead weight? Not every situation is a loss.

[@amazinggrace8136]

@@krsclis when did I say those children are better in their situation with the bad father? You’re not comprehending. I said it’s important to find a good spouse in the first place so you don’t have to divorce bc divorce only have negative effects on children. Regardless if you’re wealthy or poor, lazy or hard working, divorce have negative effects on children.

[@amazinggrace8136]

@@krsclis it’s always a loss on some way regardless of how good it looks on the outside why? What children want two mom/two dads/Two homes? What children want to chose which side to be on? Which children want to not have their mother or father when they need them? Which children wouldn’t rather their own biological father or mother to love them over a stranger? What would not be a loss is both parents love each other and love/raise their children.

[@maryly09]

Omg, another story turned lecture. Lately all her stories are like this. 😒

[@michaelf2700]

How does he have a credit card if he never worked in his life?

[@niammeejvaj2980]

You still can he uses her income to apply.

[@kate_x7741]

You can still apply and get credit card even you don’t work

[@keith23615]

Ua cas peb twb nyob teb chaw meskas lawm es nej cov txiv tseem ntau tau nej thiab naj….?kick his ass back.

[@maylee9765]

Soo boring