NYC Diaries| how I stay motivated, long distance relationships chit chat, & summer try on haul

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[@mayanessa690]

Awww this was SO good to watch as always your vlogs just put a smile on my face. Loved the conversation with your friend on long distance relationship. I was in one years ago and it didn’t work out because he didn’t make the time or effort. So well done to both of you, and I’m SO happy you have a positive out look on it. And I agree everyone says oh long distance relationship don’t work. THEY DO WORK. if there’s a will there’s a way.. and you really need to work on it making time and making sure you’re on the same boat ❤

[@LoisYou]

aww thank you Maya for the support ❤ totally agree with you!!

[@nicolehyc]

It was so refreshing to hear your take on LDR! I started my current relationship in long distance and were on different sides of the world for a year. The funny thing is, the pandemic started just 2 months after I moved to his country...so we went from LDR to absolutely no distance at all, seeing each other all day every day. We've been together for almost 5 years! It does help when you two plan a date for reunions, so there's something to look forward to together. Communication, patience, open-mindedness, and living your own separate lives while maintaining one together are essential. No relationship is easy!

[@coIdside]

Sundays with Lois are the best! 🥰Btw you and your friend had such a good conversation. you guys are so eloquent and well-spoken 🤍🤍

[@LoisYou]

aww thank you 🤍🤍

[@scsweetie09]

Loved this convo! My husband and I were in a LDR for 5 years prior to getting married. Looking back I’m happy for that time! I was in my early 20’s and it gave us both time to establish ourselves post college. ❤❤ All the best to the LDRs out there! If it’s meant to be it will be.

[@TheLexay]

Love you so much! You inspire me with your maturity, intelligence and class. You and your friend are such friendship goals ❤

[@mansoor3159]

Lois you came so so early with this vlog and me and my sister was eagerly waiting for this vlog you are my inspiration and I wish you have a wonderful weekend🤗💗💫

[@LoisYou]

thank you Mansoor 🥺💗

[@leapheaoun]

Ahh you blessed us with a 20mn vlog ✨❤️

[@LoisYou]

hope you enjoy 🥺❤️

[@marccolomayt82094]

Love your entertaining and motivating NY vlog so much! ❤

[@LoisYou]

thank you!! :)

[@OlaBelinda]

Ur loafers are so cool!! Been following ur vlogs for sometime and u have such beautiful outfits 😍😍😍

[@lynnferry291]

Loved the outfit from Rat & Boa! You and your friend gave some great relationship advice. I totally agree that it's so hard to truly connect with someone these days that when you find the right person, you need to hold onto them. You mentioned you'd be seeing your boyfriend in 10 days - I hope you're with him now! 💖

[@LoisYou]

thank you so sweet ☺💗

[@nazerkezharmaganbetova3652]

You re currently my fav blogger💗 thank you for such a amazing vlog l love u from Kazakhstan 💙

[@minjihan4302]

I love your style and your vlogs! Your are giving such positive energy :)

[@LoisYou]

thank youuu

[@sara_mrukwa572]

I love youre vlog Louis! U are my comfort person

[@LoisYou]

aww thank you Sara

[@_juju_5]

Loving the longer vlog, Lois … please do more ❤😊

[@LoisYou]

aww thank you! :)

[@meglisa123]

Omg 20mins love it!!! Miss Lois vlog so so much :(

[@LoisYou]

aww thank you, will be posting another vlog in a couple days

[@crazybotches236]

Maybe this is what you needed for your channel/brand - being more personal!! Within the first few mins I felt a diff vibe to your usual vlogs and felt like you were more personable/relatable! Usually I get this feeling you’re more private and only show the ups in your life aka more professional on camera I guess? but today hearing you and your bf talk felt so personal and I felt like I could see this other side of you! Like girly, lovey dovey cutesy side 😂

[@LoisYou]

thank you good to hear! I'm always trying to find a balance between sharing/ being open about my life & also keeping some parts private! I'm so grateful for our community and I will continue to share in the capacity that feels right. thanks for being here ♥

[@KevinUchiwa]

Great video Lois as always, i wish you a nice weekend.

[@LoisYou]

thank you! :)

[@goldsand]

I love the fashion in the vlogs but I also like when you do your sit down hauls dedicated to things you’re loving

[@gracelisamay]

Yay it’s a 20 min vlog!! I love the new high/low rise jeans and also thank u for sharing your LDR perspective :)

[@LoisYou]

thank you Grace!! :)

[@daniellehickman3021]

Loving the girl chat in pjs ❤ Light blue top super cute.

[@dominichill1492]

Lois you know I'm always here to support every single video that you make. Such beautiful earrings you have on Lois sweetheart. Have a wonderful 4th Of July week to you Lois sweetheart. Wish I lived in NYC to purchase you some earrings.

[@LoisYou]

thank you Dominic!! :)

[@rhonnelsimms6550]

I understand about the flats…I have looked at those, and think they are stunning

[@LoisYou]

haha yes but also look like hooves 😂

[@jowusuboadi]

Hi Lois, this was really nice to watch and I don’t know if you remember me but I met you at the lion king in London and you were so nice. It’s so nice to see your channel growing and your still the same lovely and kind person! If you want any London recs of things to do, I would be happy to share ☺️

[@LoisYou]

Ahh yes I remember you sat right behind us ☺️ Thank you for your sweet comment and for the love & support throughout it means a lot ♥️

[@jamieeec]

can you do a video on how you save up for all this travel trips $$? love your vids and your personality 💜

[@terrenceb8855]

I was like, where is Lois hopes she alright. Then I see this on my feed 🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳 always a treat

[@LoisYou]

thank you! :)

[@kayleel9735]

Thank you for sharing this!!

[@LoisYou]

thank you!!

[@dmybkris]

I am so excited to see your vlog❤thank you for your sharing❤love the choker and the earrings，so stunning so chic

[@LoisYou]

thank you for watching ❤

[@user-sv5jn6qu8q]

로이스 님은 항상 열심히 사시는 거 같아 멋지고 저도 항상 보고 배우고 힘내고 있어요! 좋은 영상 감사합니다ㅎㅎ 저도 보고 열심히 힘내서 일상을 살아갈게요 🥹🩷 Lois, you look so passionate always and i learn from u lots of time like your attitude to do everything in life. thank u for good video inspiring me n my life! ☺️ u r so great! (sorry for my bad eng)

[@LoisYou]

넘 감사하고 감동이에요🥲💕 Thank you so much for your kind words! 앞으로 함께 해주세요 더욱 긍정적이고 좋은 애너지 많이 나눠요♥️ 즐거운 하루 되어요!

[@IvetParris]

I simply love your videos!

[@LoisYou]

thank you :)

[@ETarchives]

Palet changes each 7y yes !

[@erickjerland1281]

What I like about NY is the energy that it has.

[@erickjerland1281]

Hi I celebrated Ringo Starr's birthday today outside the Ed Sullivan theater in NY. I took a hippie bus to Strwberry Fields in NY.

[@soccerprincessz0]

Can you share the link for your black dress? ❤️❤️

[@LoisYou]

it's old from COS :(

[@vickytsang1334]

Hey Lois!!! I am trying to find your short video that I watched a week ago about using the Dyson air wrap to curl your hair. Can’t locate it now. I would like to share with my gf! 😅

[@LoisYou]

oohh it's on Instagram reels ! :) thank you

[@vickytsang1334]

@@LoisYou ohhh! 🤣 I kept searching your utube channel lol! Thanks ! Love all your outfits! So chic!

[@christineduran1896]

Hi Lois. Love your new video ❤️. You always have refreshing new fashion to share with us, and meals you enjoy. Love the talk you shared regarding relationships and friendships 👍🏻❤️. You are amazing ❤️. I definitely look forward to seeing more from you. You inspire me ❤️.

[@LoisYou]

thank you Christine ❤️❤️

[@TimirOnMyWay]

Stay with love ❤

[@mindbodysoul8214]

GIRL, 20 MINUTES!!!! SCREAMINGGGGGGG‼‼‼‼Did I tell you the time I'd made KFC....Man ohhhhh MAN was it ever Delicious. Love you and your friend time....Always 🥰💛✨ p.s. I loveLoveLOVE the Tabi Flats💛

[@LoisYou]

hahaha thank you!! :)

[@kiranaali7838]

Where is your gold chain necklace form?

[@suzenneroncal1484]

Where is the gold choker necklace from?

[@LoisYou]

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[@lexiriverafans]

10:52 what is the name is the green ring from Mejuri?

[@sophie.teafortulle]

Am not in a LDR but you said made so much sense! Hoping everything will continue to go smoothly for you 😄 I’m SG-based, so if you want to meet for coffee or something to talk more about SG/life, hit me up! 😊

[@CassandraMooree]

Please do more hauls

[@clair9801]

Can you please share the choker?

[@LoisYou]

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[@jesseeec]

How did you and your bf meet? Was it always long distance from the start?

[@user-rv4zb7zj5u]

Random question.. but do you not put on bed sheet? 😅😅

[@LoisYou]

haha I do I was washing them because my friend was visiting soon 😅😂

[@ArtemisB.]

Im more wondering why you aren’t trying to find a way to live together, when you both have finished your educations? Like, is it a permanent thing for you? LDR. Just because you live together doesn’t mean you don’t have lives outside of that. I’ve been married for many years - we are very independent people and have very different interests and friends too. We support each other in need and are always there for each other in many ways that would be impossible if it was LDR. We never get tired of each other - I think that’s only a thing when you’re with the wrong person, honestly.

[@LoisYou]

no not permanent and we are working towards that goal! every couple has different circumstances and I think of course people aren't in LDR because they are tired of each other!