nyc life update: toxic friends, battling burnout & what next

[@kathrynledger]

There is a rare few people who come on here to see perfect. Most just want authentic. I came for the upcycling, but stayed for your sense of humour. Thanks x

[@FashionWizardry]

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[@shalomlee]

I remember subscribing years ago when you were at 5k subs and your personality is what drew me. Whatever angle you choose to take, we'll be here for it

[@FashionWizardry]

Thank you so much 🥹🥹❤️❤️

[@mylena3086]

there are tons of sewing tutorials esp thrift flips but it's always been your personality for me That's why I subscribed in the first place and tbh I appreciate the range 💚

[@FashionWizardry]

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[@ThePatriciaPatrick]

I completely understand you. I found your channel when you were at 60K and was super inspired as I was also creating sewing content on KZbin. I was super pumped to create content and girl I must say creating sewing content is not easy and you did so much. I didn’t do half of what you did but I am completely with you on the burn out. Please do whatever makes you happy and for your mental health. You already built your tribe. Keep building ❤❤

[@FashionWizardry]

So sorry to hear that you feel a bit burnt out too, burn out is so real. Please remember to take care of yourself as you navigate this ❤️ Thank you so much for your kind words and support, I appreciate you 🫶🏽

[@michellegromain]

Take your time with getting back online more regularly . We’ll all still be here

[@FashionWizardry]

Thank you for this, it means a lot to me 😭😭❤️ thanks for sticking around 🥹

[@nagila6394]

Would love to see more of your more chill content. You have a very funny way of expressing yourself and it’s nice to see a more serious video too. Do what feels best for you 🫶🏽

[@FashionWizardry]

Thanks so much! I appreciate your kind words 🤗❤️ I’ll defo be doing more chill content for now. Thanks for letting me know you enjoy both sides of my content - I appreciate you 🫶🏽

[@destiny4295]

I started watching in the beginning of Covid and I get so happy every time I see u

[@FashionWizardry]

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[@mylena3086]

Ive always wondered who is the person behind the sassy voice and the creative tutorials Even when you didnt show your face I was already loving your vibe which is authenthic and real Keep doing what makes you satisfied at the end of the day and try not to worry too much there are many people supporting you and the few who dont can leave

[@FashionWizardry]

Thanks a ton for the love and for being a part of the supportive community ❤️ I’m so glad to hear you enjoy the content and vibe on here. PS: The sassy voice is here to stay as that’s just who I am 🙈😅

[@mylena3086]

@@FashionWizardry p.s. that's why we adore you so much 😌 I'm glad to hear it because what would life be without a little sass here and there Or a little bit more evenly sprinkled throughout the day 😁

[@MONICA.319]

I love your personality ❤your vibe is great and am always looking forward to your content ❤

[@FashionWizardry]

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@mikaela_reads]

hi, i love youu. been watching you since a few years ago! 🦋

[@FashionWizardry]

Hiiii! Thanks for being here, I appreciate you so much 🥹❤️❤️

[@mikaela_reads]

@@FashionWizardry thank you! please take your time creating content on things that you want and sharing them here, we'll enjoy it like always.

[@FashionWizardry]

You’re a real one, thank you so much for the encouragement 🥹🥹 and I promise to do exactly this moving forward 🫶🏽

[@ourtruth216]

I love how you talked about building friendships. I still struggle with that, the weird part is ppl try to make friends with me and I just have some serious trust issues lol , I would like to hear more about your experience and process of making new friends.

[@mylena3086]

So true, I feel that aswell To also get a bit more personal I separated from the two best friends I've had about one and a half years ago That was a lot but it was interesting reflecting on it I'm okay now but I've too been thinking about red flags in friendships Especially since I am what you'd call a relationship anarchist which means I value every relationship individually and there is a huge grey area for me between what is usually seperated into the categories 'lovers' and ' friends' I love my friends dearly and would totally start a homestead including chickens with them And I need a solid friendship-esque base to even be able to get into any kind of physical or nonphysical intimacy So yeah it's a topic close to my heart and I'd love to have lots of conversations about how to find out what a person needs to be aware of in terms of friendship red flags Lying and or manipulation are definitely on the list I'd say But I also got a bunch of green flags in mind

[@icukeke]

Take your time. Uniqueness is better than being perfect. The mind is powerful. It's okay to make mistakes to be able to grow. I had to grow out of a perfection mindset because of my own thinking at an early age as a little girl. I thought I didn't have a problem and I had to change the wrong mindset I had. You can grow out of it. Sometimes you have to be wrong to find what's right by making them same mistakes you try to avoid. A perfectionist biggest problem is avoiding making mistakes in life.Just don't make the same mistake twice as if your life depends on it because in some cases it could.♥️♥️♥️♥️✝️🙏🥰

[@mylena3086]

Well this was a nice chill video and Im in for the community and cute hairstyles Cozyness and Imperfection arent always appreciated as concepts but they are valuable and magic Also I think it's completely normal to have ebbs and flows in different hobbies/crafts Sewing will always be available to come back to at your own timing if you wish to do so and I feel thats beautiful All the best

[@FashionWizardry]

I’m reading all your comments and they truly mean so much to me 😭😭❤️❤️ Thanks for being so sweet and supportive 🥹

[@mylena3086]

@@FashionWizardry of course Dear All the support and love 💐💫

[@ginahellyer3880]

Hello sweety Ive loved your shirt upcycles xx Nice to see you again 🎉

[@FashionWizardry]

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[@shanicekaranja7404]

It's by seeing your name on here I just realized where did you go I used to see you alot on Instagram and we miss you alot girl 😢

[@FashionWizardry]

Hi! I took a little Instagram break, but I'm back now. Thanks for the love and support!🫶🏽

[@KlassyEsi]

I would love to be your friend 💚💚💚

[@FashionWizardry]

That’s so sweet of you! Friends are always welcome here 💚

[@KlassyEsi]

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[@clairewulf]

pathological liars and abusive people will attach themselves to anyone, so it's not you. as long as you figure it out and assert boundaries with these people, they'll gtfo

[@FashionWizardry]

You’re so right! I definitely agree with you. I cut that particular girl off and now have strong boundaries with new friends from day 1 so as to not end up in that kind of situation again!!🥲

[@cynthiajackson1389]

Hey girl I mix your sewing videos