Obedient Love 42: For Couples

[@Groqx]

Ms. V, you basically saved my marriage already (if you remember me from last year). I have share this with my wife and asked her to consider your offer of helping married couples fully accept FLR. I have my fingers crossed that she will allow us to join in this opportunity.

[@johnconroy3180]

We suffered both roadblocks. She resisted; i had a vision. But i learned to just be consistent in my submission. i learned to present my desires as informational ~ tools for my Goddess' use ~ and no expectations. She "gets to" do whatever She wants. i choose to submit and obey Her. FLR D/s makes us happy. And i am glad i found Your channel, Viola Voltairine.🔐

[@ViolaVoltairine]

Happy to hear about your success!

[@nickymaz05]

Outstanding video, thank you! I shared it with my Wife.

[@Jon_Void]

Hello Goddess Thank you for teaching us I kneel and obey women

[@SleepBomber]

Amazing episode as always, Goddess. Can you do an episode on experimenting and/or brainwashing?

[@anthonysaich2057]

The comment above me is my first default. Yet the obligation to provide more substance in this comment I am writing. The couples subject matter is indeed rare to find info. That gives depth in terms of struggles and obstacles. In my humble experience that no one asked for, it has became a challenge emotionally. Further explanation is discovering emotions things I have not felt to a certain depth or degree. And what reactions and responses that became from them. It’s exposed parts of me that can be improved upon.

[@Bcr26420]

Ms V, here is a question that might be a first... Does a sub who has a vasectomy still need to be milked when practicing Long Term Chastity?

[@ViolaVoltairine]

Semen can still build up.

[@jwelk1023]

You have an outstanding idea. You will be successful, please accept my best wishes for your success. Also, please let me suggest an option. Offer two tiers of interaction. The first, as you propose, your role as a personal lifestyle consultant and coach. The second, a committee structure where the female in the relationship discusses a path with a committee chaired by you, with at least two other powerful womyn as contributors. I can think of no better partners than Ms. Damiani Chi, Ph.D., and Ms. Sydney Lee (AKA Astrodomina), though there are certainly others. The reason is that males crave discipline and structure, and will respond more enthusiastically to a forum that portrays FLR as a cultural evolution and social norm, rather than a personal choice. The sense of community support and inclusion will motivate them beyond their desire to serve one womyn. This will reinforce the notion that they are serving a cause bigger than themselves, and that their servitude has a higher meaning. Males love that. They will find several female voices speaking in unison far more formidable (and intimidating) that a lone voice. Hopefully you find my thoughts helpful!

[@charliebucket-u7h]

I have a question. When you transform into an obedient man to your wife and accept the flr relationship dynamic. Do you lose any respect or sexual desire of the wife? I think you do. I think as nice as it is for all. Nice and obedient is not hot. You will experience less sexual apppeal coming from your wife. But she will be happy and you will be in other some ways but your needs most likely will not be met.

[@ViolaVoltairine]

What "needs"?

[@charliebucket-u7h]

@@ViolaVoltairine sexual encounters with wifey dips if you behave like it?

[@charliebucket-u7h]

@@ViolaVoltairine and i live in a female led relationship so in my experience its a fact, however we run well but certainly before and after that transition there has been a difference but not sure if its because of it or just from the start she was doing more than she wanted. im a fan of it, i do it, so im not knocking what you teach and speak about. ive been living like it for 3 to 4 months roughly, and i dont see a way back. we both like it more this way, so im happy overall, however i am deprived of sexual encounters in comparison to when none of this existed in our relationship but its not necessarily bad for me i dont think.