Obligations in the Bedroom | Intimacy Struggles | Trauma and Intimacy

[@gabriellevautour23]

This was so validating. I didn't even know I had these issues until my last one year relationship where we barely had sex because of my issues of always feeling pressured (not from him) and hoping it would just to away with time. And now feeling like i cannot start dating again before I get therapy to figure this stuff out because I definitely can't make another man go through that and no one will stand for that. Cant wait for part 2!

[@decodingcouples]

So glad it resonated with you!

[@leilap2495]

What about a partner that is shaming the other for wanting intimacy, as in that something is wrong with them for wanting it?

[@ML-di8lt]

Can you kidnap my partner and clockwork orange this into his brain, please? Every time I try to tell him that the only way physically intimacy will feel safe again is if he stops pressuring me, it turns into this huge fight.