OCD and Hyper-Inflated Responsibility

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Mark DeJesus

Mark DeJesus

Күн бұрын

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@vagirlf.4513
@vagirlf.4513 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! How does this not have like 500k plus views !!! 20 years of psychology care and therapy and THIS helped more than ALL that. THANK YOU MARK!!!!!
@evanlutz7071
@evanlutz7071 2 жыл бұрын
What kind of therapy did you have? If you have OCD, exposure and response prevention therapy works best.
@rachaelbeaulieu2121
@rachaelbeaulieu2121 2 жыл бұрын
I hear ya, these videos are what have been helping me. God's grace through Mark's ministry 🙏
@bjones5791
@bjones5791 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah,blowing my mind,too!(in a great way!This is amazing!)🙌👊
@Jesusandmentalhealth
@Jesusandmentalhealth 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@matthewgray659
@matthewgray659 2 жыл бұрын
It's way better. Psychology doesn't get it
@helenbradford9437
@helenbradford9437 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, and what a relief to find out the fear of losing my salvation is an OCD trait. And thank you for offering us solutions.
@houstoncambodia1
@houstoncambodia1 2 жыл бұрын
Man, it's a scary theme of OCD, isn't it? I knew it well at one point, but I needed to find my way back here to remind myself.
@dinasophia9440
@dinasophia9440 2 жыл бұрын
@@houstoncambodia1 I’m struggling with the salvation OCD as of almost 8 mo. ago. It’s the worst thing I’ve ever been through in my life.
@houstoncambodia1
@houstoncambodia1 2 жыл бұрын
@@dinasophia9440 Mark Dejesus is a great help.
@MegaSaanch
@MegaSaanch 10 ай бұрын
Me tooo!!!!
@LittleLouisaYorkiepoo
@LittleLouisaYorkiepoo 2 жыл бұрын
Pausing to cry every couple minutes Opening my eyes to how my thoughts are my worst enemy. I need a new way of thinking You explain it perfectly Thank you !
@marktdejesus
@marktdejesus 2 жыл бұрын
It's an honor.
@marythankssomuchthishelpsa1177
@marythankssomuchthishelpsa1177 Жыл бұрын
I’ve listened to some of your podcasts now and my mind is blown. I didn’t know I was OCDE but wow, you have described my behaviors to a T. It feels like you know me!! Thank you so much for this work. Thank you for sharing this!
@deejustdee4097
@deejustdee4097 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this 💜 This is God's confirmation for me, He led me to this channel. May our Abba bless you so much. I am a single mom of 3 in Jakarta, Indonesia 😇
@CP-jv6sc
@CP-jv6sc 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the long form information. Details on what this is like as a Christian is not easy to find. The more information the better.
@sublevo2112
@sublevo2112 7 ай бұрын
Mark, your videos have lifted a weight off me. I have been spiraling over something for almost a couple weeks now. Waking up in the middle of the night just to feed my compulsion, and confessing my sin to multiple people only to feel good for moments and then be hit again. I found you yesterday and I feel a sense of weight coming off of me. I am so thankful I found your videos.
@sxfnlc
@sxfnlc Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how I found your channel but what a blessing. You have a great grip on this whole subject. You also understand the gospel and grace. Very helpful Blessings.
@loripirollo7177
@loripirollo7177 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mark, really appreciate you and Melissa. I love how open you guys are. Your teaching is top notch and a huge help to the body.
@marktdejesus
@marktdejesus 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@vagirlf.4513
@vagirlf.4513 3 жыл бұрын
Watching again months later and still so good I get something new every time ! Thanks Mark ! I will continue to support this amazing ministry! ❤️
@Buckeye4life7
@Buckeye4life7 Жыл бұрын
It’s so hard when I don’t know how to feel love without performance. Then my intrusive thoughts come that hot to my core. It’s debilitating
@anniec4867
@anniec4867 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! I am so thankful to God for your ministry! I started crying from the beginning of the video because you got to the very point of many issues I have! Pd: long term videos are better! We need this format! there are many necessary things that cannot be spoken at a 5 minute video!
@loriholtman8763
@loriholtman8763 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a wonderful blessing from God. Thank you.
@conniemcdonald5344
@conniemcdonald5344 4 жыл бұрын
This episode. Is soooooo Powerful.. am resonating sooooo. Much💎💎💎 thankyou thankyou for your transparency
@marktdejesus
@marktdejesus 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Connie!
@Jesusandmentalhealth
@Jesusandmentalhealth 9 ай бұрын
You are a HUGE encouragement to me Mark.
@iancoggeshall9057
@iancoggeshall9057 Жыл бұрын
I grew up going to church but it was to keep up appearances for my parents. Why we went there was never explained or explored. No relationship with Jesus was ever established. It’s been so hard to establish my relationship with Jesus and god as an adult. Thank you Mark for doing these OCD videos. You have no idea how much everything you present is what I deal with today. Years of therapy have never been able to explain this much.
@roderickreed491
@roderickreed491 3 жыл бұрын
I have an appreciation for you because you were troubled so much and I rejoice that you helped me with this Mark!
@robertvangorder1983
@robertvangorder1983 4 жыл бұрын
Anyway, thank you so much for this series. It truly is a Godsend. I used to wash my hands compulsively as a little girl for a period of time, and within the past few years I’ve realized that I think I’m still battling with OCD and anxiety...
@robertvangorder1983
@robertvangorder1983 4 жыл бұрын
Wow...this is really helping me at the moment. I battle anxiety and OCD as well. I am currently obsessing over whether or not I am saved. I recently heard many people saying “once saved always saved” is a lie “from the pit”. I have known the Lord since 2007...and have said (and believed) the Sinners prayer many times. I also have changed and feel the Lord hears and answers my prayers. I battle with perfectionism as well, and the last thing I needed to hear was that I’m partially responsible for my salvation. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I feel sorry for my husband as I question and doubt! I just can’t understand how people interpret scripture so differently...and so for the first time in years I am so confused. Sorry to the bother you! If you and your wife could maybe say a prayer for me (and anyone else who is battling this), I would truly appreciate it.- Michelle
@nicobody7797
@nicobody7797 4 жыл бұрын
I had the same Problems too. I still Battle with OCD but i am sure that Jesus did everything to Save us. Salvation is Not your Part it’s Gods😉❤️ I can recomand the Channel René Roland. She Talks about salvation by faith Alone in christ alone by faith alone. It was a bleesing for me. But of Cause our OCD issue is not solved that way😅 Much Love and Grace to you
@robertvangorder1983
@robertvangorder1983 4 жыл бұрын
Nico Body thank you so much for your encouragement! - Michelle
@jpadkins1988
@jpadkins1988 4 жыл бұрын
Also checkout teachings of Gregory Dickow online. He has really helped me to finally believe I am saved by grace (not what I do or don’t do). He also has a really good book Fast From Negative Thinking.
@robertvangorder1983
@robertvangorder1983 4 жыл бұрын
Julie Adkins Thank your reference! I will check him out too. - Michelle :)
@marcusbuckner5582
@marcusbuckner5582 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Rob, Praying for you. 😌. I know you’ll ‘pray it forward’........so many Christians are too proud to realize they need some mental nurturing.....your honesty goes a long way. ✝️🔜
@JedStevens1234
@JedStevens1234 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a born again Christian and had guilt and shame most of my life . Didn’t realize it was OCD , plus always fearing of my salvation . I am now working on receiving the Love of Father God . It is hard . But I’m going to keep on pressing in . And No More “ what if’s “ satan ! You are a liar !
@inthepresenceofthelord990
@inthepresenceofthelord990 2 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. So much knowledge with biblical counsel. Thanks. Good work
@emilee930
@emilee930 Жыл бұрын
These deep entrenched thoughts and fears will actually change the chemistry of your brain after a while. Living in a constant anxiety state will eventually deplete your serotonin to the point that physical symptoms appear and persist. Thoughts are so very powerful.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service officer Christopher j cramer! You have great youtube videos and you support both the science and the first! Chris cramer is a true science patriot, a science angel on earth!
@HS-tm4xe
@HS-tm4xe 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!!
@artmitchell6280
@artmitchell6280 Жыл бұрын
Praising the lord for you! And how he is using you!! I just told my wife I can’t believe you don’t have millions of subscribers!!❤❤
@barbarahennington2165
@barbarahennington2165 11 ай бұрын
The Lord continue to pour out the rich blessings of his love on you & your precious family. ❤
@epicmissionmedia
@epicmissionmedia 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much, your heart and teaching has been a big help to my healing process
@emmacowles50
@emmacowles50 2 жыл бұрын
Such an incredibly helpful video. Thankyou.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
My highest prayer for today is a better relationship with my father!
@estherrogers5553
@estherrogers5553 3 жыл бұрын
I love everything that you're saying. It's really reaching my heart and touching home. I just wish I could get rid of that 1% feeling of what if this thought is right. What if it's true. I'll be in deep trouble if it is..
@MasonsMotions
@MasonsMotions 10 ай бұрын
You are just the best. Thank you.
@Anonymous-fj2uo
@Anonymous-fj2uo Жыл бұрын
I think have an inflated sense of responsibility for others. I once saw a dispute in public between a couple. The guy wasn't very nice lets just say. Others were around, and confronted the guy. I sat there paralysed. I cannot tell you the how much I ruminated afterwards! I felt extremely bad for not doing anything, I thought I'm just as bad and cowardly as people I see in scenarios on youtube doing nothing. I replayed a better scenario in my head where I would have gone up to the lady to ask if she was okay. That perfect scenario played in my head over and over again for DAYS, up to TWO WEEKS. I tried to get rid of this 'not quite right' feeling and I would have given anything to go back to the situation. The repetitive REPLAYING in my head nearly drove me crazy. This not quite right feeling also happened when I got my braces off early, I regretted it so much and that persistant feeling of regret and 'not quite right or missing out on perfection or what could have been' drove me to suicidal ideation. I haven't been diagnosed but I'm working on getting better, and I feel like I've identified my struggle with these videos.
@andreash.906
@andreash.906 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome stuff Mark!
@laurawesteddins3514
@laurawesteddins3514 Жыл бұрын
God bless you!
@radvibes
@radvibes Жыл бұрын
It doesn't help if you're in an environment where there's a love deficit and.everyone blaming eachother
@Mooriah38
@Mooriah38 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to feeling guilty for being free from guilt
@sabrinasusen7463
@sabrinasusen7463 2 жыл бұрын
I'm spinning out after the part about us bring selfish and it makes me think even more God must hate me bc of the awful and self absorbed person I am. I know that is an example of it. I hope with time it helps me instead of just creating more guilt.
@MegaSaanch
@MegaSaanch 10 ай бұрын
I can’t believe someone could put to words what I have felt since my birth. In OCD community and of course NOT in ocd community as well.
@Sunnyanne283
@Sunnyanne283 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@UserT25164
@UserT25164 2 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing
@beeson5450
@beeson5450 Жыл бұрын
I have gone through a year… in the past I have definitely gone after my anxious feeling trying to fix things. This year, at this point I am so stuck, I don’t want to do anything at this point
@alxb211
@alxb211 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there! I hope you're doing better now
@Thankful305
@Thankful305 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting how we can see it in others as we've been there so many times. Hypervigilant and over explaining !🤔
@OliviaS-gc8ue
@OliviaS-gc8ue 6 ай бұрын
Hi Mark! I love your videos and am learning so much! I also really love the music you play at the beginning of your videos - it's really inspiring. Could you share where you got it?
@marialiedel7971
@marialiedel7971 2 жыл бұрын
This is SO helpful!!
@bettypartin1793
@bettypartin1793 2 жыл бұрын
Mark I appreciate your ministry so much and I want give a donation but I do not know how to go about it.
@Nightwalker25-m3u
@Nightwalker25-m3u 4 ай бұрын
As someone who deals with crippling anxiety and needs to use it as a crutch in a daily basis. The difficulty is harsh.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I am praying for all Armstrong chapel attendees to keep the faith in stem!
@153Viktor
@153Viktor 9 ай бұрын
25:50 Mat 11 25 What is the tool you use for pulling up scriptures?
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Chris cramer is my university of minnesota system father. I'm crying thinking about that.
@jyrikinnunen4212
@jyrikinnunen4212 2 жыл бұрын
Is there any way to turn on Swedish subtitles for these videos it would help so many people in my life?
@marktdejesus
@marktdejesus 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe I could get in touch with my ancestry and learn Swedish. :-)
@jyrikinnunen4212
@jyrikinnunen4212 2 жыл бұрын
So that explains why I can relate to you so much 😂😂 Is there no option for automatic swedish subtitles? So many people would need this😇
@roccofelder1551
@roccofelder1551 5 ай бұрын
I'm learning about myself I need a reboot of my faith
@TheFoxxyKayy
@TheFoxxyKayy 9 ай бұрын
Mark! How does this relate to feeling responsible for other people’s salvation? At some point I even walked away from the faith for years out of feeling responsible for other people being saved, by not telling them about Jesus. Can you shed some light on that?
@andrewcerrone4096
@andrewcerrone4096 Жыл бұрын
Amazing
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Between my father and I our ideal state is no drugs or excess body fat.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Bro I'm so Christian right now I'm high inside the inner tabernacle of joshua!
@radvibes
@radvibes Жыл бұрын
Sometimes writing a letter or just writting down how you feel helps
@sarahlawrence1244
@sarahlawrence1244 Жыл бұрын
You’re awesome and I love your messages but when someone is spinning out having spiritual warfare etc ocd complex ptsd the 2:00 minute countdown could be left out…just a suggestion God bless ❤😅
@debbieann9136
@debbieann9136 4 жыл бұрын
🎯
@newaccount4772
@newaccount4772 Жыл бұрын
How do i get the books?
@the_calvinist_jonah7230
@the_calvinist_jonah7230 3 жыл бұрын
I understand that I am to not focus on the ROCD and such, but at the same time, why is it that I can't help the thought of becoming spiritually lax with everything? I look at the puritans or people of remarkable faith and I know they weren't perfect by any means yet they were solid on holiness.
@MrRogal00
@MrRogal00 3 жыл бұрын
ROCD is always works based in everything it says. When you strive for holiness, it will drive you to work hard, and be harsh with yourself if you fail. And you will fail, because it works under the Law, and you know how ruthless that is. However, holiness can be only achieved, if you are deeply rooted in God's love, and your holiness grows out of that. Remember, that Jesus is the root, we are the branches. We can only produce good fruit if it comes out of love, otherwise: dead works. That's the difference. You can live as holy as humanly possible but if you don't have love, it doesn't help you. Hope this helps. :) Good luck on your journey!
@paulineamayun
@paulineamayun 3 жыл бұрын
Hi mark, do you suggest watching the videos in order?
@paulineamayun
@paulineamayun 3 жыл бұрын
I kind of already started to watch them out of order LOL but do you suggest in order?
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Dear Indian hill rangers I'm trying to help Armstrong chapel have faith in stem despite my personal bad habits!
@diegopisaartworks9511
@diegopisaartworks9511 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. God bless!
@sammisaylor2173
@sammisaylor2173 3 жыл бұрын
37:35 😂
@nicholaspino33
@nicholaspino33 2 жыл бұрын
Mark - can’t I base assurance on the fact that God still convicts me of sin? As in the whole premise that you can rest that you haven’t committed the unpardonable sin if you’re concerned about it. I’ve been trying to do that but I’ve still struggled.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I've got a lot of thoughts that I think are God but are not. That's my point of intersection on the tradeoff plot of drugs vs cancer vs experience.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I'm praying for the Indian hill rangers to work with my parents because stuff like runescape cop makes zero common sense.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I'd like my mom to know that I work with God on the role of chemistry, chemical engineering, and science in my life.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Hey minneapolis police wanna do a king James book of Joshua study in support of my future campaign?
@danielapearls1491
@danielapearls1491 2 жыл бұрын
Fear of losing my salvation is constant. I go over and over my mistakes as in my childhood, only my mistakes were pointed out. My abusive alcholic stepfather would sit me down and bully me into failure every night. Im damaged goods now. At 46 I no I am not normal as I am programmed wrong. These videos are good but think about it. When you were in the middle of your mess do you honestly think watching these videos would help? The Holy Spirit helped you and you cant video that on. It may give people light bulb moments but thats it.
@bettypartin1793
@bettypartin1793 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Daniella. Mark speaks truth and the Bible says you will know the truth and the truth will set you free. He might not be reading to you from the scriptures but he's speaking the same truth that's in the scriptures. I hope God will fill you with so much peace.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I'd like Kevin ward to know that today my moral compas is the bible.
@MegaSaanch
@MegaSaanch 10 ай бұрын
I can’t believe someone could put to words what I have felt since my birth. In OCD community and of course NOT in ocd community as well.
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