3 ways to fight Moral Scrupulosity OCD

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OCD and Anxiety

OCD and Anxiety

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Moral Scrupulosity questions every thought and action and evaluates it. It's the never-ending dilemma of wondering if you're a good or a bad person. Here are 3 tips to use if you struggle with moral scrupulosity OCD.
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@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
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@gracie1901
@gracie1901 2 жыл бұрын
In my own experience, this theme has been the most painful and debilitating one to deal with. It’s especially hard because when I explain it, sometimes people only think it’s about hypothetical wrongdoings and they forget that I can obsess about real wrongdoings as well.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you feel misunderstood. OCD tends to have that effect on people. You are not alone in your struggles!
@sameeralam1725
@sameeralam1725 Жыл бұрын
Yea I feel absolutely hopeless I gave up fighting ocd for a while
@Polpsyspi10
@Polpsyspi10 Жыл бұрын
@@sameeralam1725 There is always hope, keep fighting!!
@Polpsyspi10
@Polpsyspi10 Жыл бұрын
@@sameeralam1725 I had severe OCD for many years and my mental health has very very improved, I send you Love and Light
@3009teresita
@3009teresita Жыл бұрын
​​@@sameeralam1725 I pray for you I hope you are better my friend
@chanellemartin5463
@chanellemartin5463 Жыл бұрын
this perfectionism is exhausting. it makes me depressed.
@GabePerson
@GabePerson Жыл бұрын
I'm a massive Harry Potter nerd but there's a section in one of the books where one of the portraits is saying really mean things and Dumbledore just calmly responds with "thank you, that's enough" and I just pictured reacting to my intrusive thoughts that way 😂 funny the things that click in our head
@Annakb23
@Annakb23 3 ай бұрын
😂 I love this !
@windfalls238
@windfalls238 11 ай бұрын
This and real event OCD pair up like a catastrophic team, in my experience these two have been the worst when working together, but especially when compulsions are reassurance related- I've lost count of how many times I bothered friends about whether or not what I did was wrong or how deathly afraid I am of being "exposed" for the wrong things I've done in my past, almost as if I didn't ever change or grown as a person in OCD's eyes, but I think it doesn't matter if people can grow past these mistakes, for this disorder, there is no forgiving. Thankfully there's effective treatment on how to deal with it, these videos have been really helpful to me and to many, thank you Nate.
@JohnBrown-ig5nc
@JohnBrown-ig5nc 6 ай бұрын
The "false alarms" I've been dealing with for several years have been guiding me. I don't want to be that way anymore
@guppiegupp
@guppiegupp Жыл бұрын
Whenever my moral OCD acts up to the point I can’t handle it I watch this. It calms me down. I’ve been watching this over and over when I have a breakdown for a while but haven’t commented until now. Thank you for making this video.
@Mazorka2006
@Mazorka2006 Жыл бұрын
Hey, I’m just replying to ask how are you progressing right now?
@guppiegupp
@guppiegupp Жыл бұрын
@@Mazorka2006 not perfect but better than it was. i’m at least watching this video less.
@moonie6368
@moonie6368 Ай бұрын
I hope you're doing better, it may not seem like this but we are all in this together!
@bneum
@bneum 9 ай бұрын
"Stop trying to control everything and LET GO" Tyler Durden. It is what it is. Let whatever happens happen - LOST. Maybe. Maybe not. This is good. Thanks Ryan from Yellowcard.
@embroideredragdoll
@embroideredragdoll 2 жыл бұрын
Thinking about that time when Kanye West said “I guess we’ll never know” usually helps me with this.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you imagine it in his voice too! It helps take the edge off.
@gracie1901
@gracie1901 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love that and will be using it 💕
@norad1304
@norad1304 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this video just saved me.. tears! It was exactly what I needed to hear in the mental state right now I’m in right now.. What relief!! Thank you Nate, your words gives me hope and calmness when I didn’t think that was possible. Thank you thank you thank you for your work.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that you found this video helpful!
@JamieRoseLincoln
@JamieRoseLincoln 5 ай бұрын
I only recently learned that this was a thing and it made my life make so much sense. From the time I was a child I was obsessed with rules and following them and if I thought I did something wrong I would replay it in my mind for YEARS until I had a mental breakdown and “confessed” it to my mom who then told me that I was fine and a good person. Mine definitely happens with overthinking decisions I already felt I made a correct moral decision on and then twisting them to be immoral and guilting myself into thinking I’m a bad person.
@REP090
@REP090 2 жыл бұрын
Today I had a massive surge in my scrupulosity OCD, which is heavily based on my morals. I couldn't break the thought cycle until this video. I'll be trying your course... thank you for all you do for us who struggle. You help more than you know. You come across as a friend, as someone relatable and understanding. You're greatly appreciated.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Those are the kindest words and they mean a lot! I'm sorry to hear about your struggles! I hope you can find some relief in what you're experiencing!
@dengholm
@dengholm Жыл бұрын
Look into what role shame had in your childhood. Did your parents used shame to get you to obey? Did they emotionally regulated you...or was you a extension to them. Was the roles switched? You regulated them... always obey because of fear of shame? People pleasing....this could be a deeper reason for your OCD. That you are ASHAMED for who you are.
@cattinhcaochieuupdate1817
@cattinhcaochieuupdate1817 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, I'm Vietnamese, can you give all videos with Vietnamese subtitles, I and all of you in Vietnam really need videos like this to help. I'm really stuck but I can't read English, this disease in our country still has many limitations that are not well understood. 😣
@vyolentj93
@vyolentj93 8 ай бұрын
I think the simple fact that someone with moral scrupulousityy does this kinda says their a good person in and of itself because bad people know their doing wrong but they DON'T CARE. People with this condition obviously DO.
@fibsh546
@fibsh546 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video man. I had a massive surge of Moral scrupulosity OCD over the past few days (which is odd because to my knowledge I've never had it before) and it lead to nightmares of me getting abandoned and shamed by friends and family members, and even getting arrested and charged. I had trouble sleeping, socializing, and I didn't even get out of my room for a while. Luckily I'm talking with a therapist about it now.
@kusharha532
@kusharha532 Жыл бұрын
so well explained 🙏🏼.
@juliagreen4974
@juliagreen4974 Жыл бұрын
thankyou for posting this. i came across your channel and this video in particular on a really dark night surrounding this. Thankyou.
@emjgeronimo
@emjgeronimo 5 ай бұрын
You've always been such a big help. Thank you, man
@koennijhuis4386
@koennijhuis4386 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! And not discussed a lot on the internet!
@ginga_ninga_53-82
@ginga_ninga_53-82 2 жыл бұрын
I’m honestly so glad that you made this video. A lot of the situations I’m in and I’m thinking, my thoughts and feelings are manipulated into the last thing I want to feel at that time with no clear explanation. I’m not diagnosed but I’m pretty sure I have OCD and this really helped so thanks 🙂
@Pan_de_Elote
@Pan_de_Elote 6 ай бұрын
I love your content so much
@grettaarzate8070
@grettaarzate8070 2 жыл бұрын
100% me growing up. When I was really young I would ask my parents "will it dry?", then as i got older "is it ok if...?", then as a teen i'd ask my friends "are you mad at me?", etc. My OCD now has other flavors in addition to the scrupulosity, but scrupulosity is still underneath it all unfortunately. Great post Nathan.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining what you experience. It's interesting that OCD attacks the things we don't know more than things we know for sure.
@timgoddard-hill6231
@timgoddard-hill6231 Жыл бұрын
This is extremely helpful. Thank you
@studyingvideology1362
@studyingvideology1362 2 жыл бұрын
Now thumbnail is even more accurate !
@rylandweet7750
@rylandweet7750 2 жыл бұрын
I always come back to youre videos every week… they help me STRONGLY! for about a week then my ocd creeps back but this is my first year going through this since I been sober from alcohol, I’m super happy for you’re videos, I am trying to exercise, get a good sleep, eat healthy and trying to quit smoking by slowly cutting down, but I notice sometimes I end up smoking like I normally do and then my ocd comes back so I am back here viewing youre video to hoping it helps me feel good for another week to completely stop smoking and be good!
@lindseystratton8160
@lindseystratton8160 9 ай бұрын
Your channel has been such a helpful tool for me. You are such a huge blessing to so many lives, mine included. Thank you!!!
@kerryfaden94
@kerryfaden94 Жыл бұрын
You are really helpful thanks!
@rfbrash
@rfbrash 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. This is one of the clearest explanations of moral ocd I’ve seen. Thankyou.
@taurezfrankie7322
@taurezfrankie7322 Жыл бұрын
Words cannot explain how much this video means to me. I've never had someone describe so perfectly a problem I've been unable to put into words. THANK YOU.
@Diana_5398
@Diana_5398 11 ай бұрын
Your voice is so relaxing. After taking notes from what you say in your vids, i press replay so that i can listen it again to help me sleep
@trishlajain9162
@trishlajain9162 9 ай бұрын
Nathan! I can’t tell you how much this video helped me in accepting my illness!! Thank you so so so so much ❤ More power to you ✨
@amy52347
@amy52347 5 ай бұрын
Thank you. This helps so very much. I have struggled with this very thing for many years.
@EH-fw3pg
@EH-fw3pg Жыл бұрын
I had been doing so much better thanks to you and others here on KZbin. I recently had a slip back Into my old habits which was very distressing. This video was a helpful reminder of the tools I learned before. Thank goodness for people like you who share this knowledge. Everyone struggling, I promise you can get better and feel joy in your life :)
@RichardTLDR
@RichardTLDR 2 жыл бұрын
This is me. Oh dear. Thank you. You are so helpful.
@JoseRios-hw5hv
@JoseRios-hw5hv 4 ай бұрын
I think this is the best video I've ever seen of yours! I have this type if ocd...one of many! Thank you! You're great at what you do and 100% know your stuff!! Keep em' coming!
@balloon4202
@balloon4202 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u sm! This video really helped
@theeternallowlyoutcastrn
@theeternallowlyoutcastrn 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I felt really good after you shared this. I understood myself
@margaretlilley9853
@margaretlilley9853 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for this clear & encouraging video! I am full-time counselor and a happily married mom of 3 who just became aware of my ocd worries a year ago. OCD is tricky!!! Love the phrase you use here that those recurring thoughts are "false alarms." Super helpful.
@sickboy-o-1433
@sickboy-o-1433 Жыл бұрын
Im gonna try it! Thanks man!
@paulamint1385
@paulamint1385 Ай бұрын
You explained my life in every colour there is. Thank you
@bankstiffinya.3895
@bankstiffinya.3895 Жыл бұрын
I truly wish I could get therapy from you. I’ve been in such Torture and pain for so long. I’m just exhausted beyond description.
@Manfresssh
@Manfresssh 11 ай бұрын
This video describes me to perfection, im struggleing from almost 2 months with instrusive thoughts expecially about immoral or violent topics. And if i dont feel disgusted, or very bad in som way about that this means that i could possibly douing that action even if have no emotional reaction. And this is a real torture because this scares me and to reassure me i say to myself "dont worry your toughs arent that bad even if you attuate them" but they are, is just my morale compass that seems kinda numb i mean its not working at all, its like im feeling empathy for evils and not for the victims or goods. This makes me feel so wrong, because i always trusted my judjment skills but sice this thing kicked in not anymore and makes me suffer so much, also because from what i know i never been a real violent person , full of hate. But now im always checking out how ik feeling looking at innocent, like a baby or a family member and if i dont feel absolutley nothing its ok, but it never is, i always feel something like anxiety and this brings me fear because that anxiety is recognised like wrong and inappropriate also because it became difficoult to recognise emotions because im always hoping that is not some sort of attraction or violent istinct, but ive lost (due to fear and anxiety i guess) my lucidity i understanding my feeling if they are normal or not. So i hope im not the only one from a side and beeing it because you know, its bad...
@betterhalf4719
@betterhalf4719 2 жыл бұрын
You are my light at the end of the tunnel every time I’m 23 and this has been one of the toughest past couple months not realizing my thinking pattern was a problem. Thank you for all the videos you post, you truly make a difference ❤️
@determined919
@determined919 8 ай бұрын
I feel for you. It is a pain no one who hasn't struggled with it will understand. Stay strong. There is hope. I was freed from this burden years ago. I still have some remnants of OCD but can live a mostly normal life
@lemoncakeslemonade5430
@lemoncakeslemonade5430 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely relate to a lot of this! I don't have moral scrupulosity ocd, but I have perfectionism ocd, so I definitely relate to AGONIZING over small decisions (I just check constantly if it's a "perfect" decision instead of a "moral" one). But all types of ocd have similar treatment plans, even if the exposures are different. You need to face what's scaring you, and accept all of your thoughts without judgement (or even welcome them, like you said!). Thanks for this video and all the great stuff you put out!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!!
@adiga202
@adiga202 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Nate for doing those videos! I noticed my ocd comes back/gets worse when I'm in stress.. it helps me to remind myself that it is the ocd popping up and complicating things.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Of course!
@Alritealritealrite
@Alritealritealrite 2 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with OCD as a child and religious scrupulosity is one of the diagnosis and recently I've been focused on 10-year time frame starting 30 years ago. I absolutely adore the dog I have now and it's getting old and for some reason I flashed back to a family pet that I wasn't always good to. I was younger then and had my own trauma. Honestly it's hard to tell what's a real memory and what's not. One thing about OCD is the present always gets neglected because we try to figure out the past.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing!
@liviafama5887
@liviafama5887 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I feel so seen! So many helpful points. Thank you so much for the work you do. I needed this today :)
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this was able to help you today. 💜
@destinylugo5108
@destinylugo5108 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! You have helped me so much in my darkest moments of despair
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad! This means so much to me.
@dingdong436.
@dingdong436. 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I have!! Thanks Nate for all those explanations!!😍❤️
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@ToaDre3000
@ToaDre3000 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, 100% this is me. Thanks for video.😁
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@Ikigai747
@Ikigai747 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nat! I couldn't thank u less I got no words as always...
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@paulsieling8912
@paulsieling8912 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Nat, thanks for your efforts! I’m currently struggling with the fear of having infected someone with covid, due to a false test. It’s hard to accept the uncertainty that you may be guilty of causing harm to others. Keep up the good work!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Darn pandemic! Sorry for what you're going through my friend.
@dakotaburch7471
@dakotaburch7471 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this video. It’s usually always about religion. Like you said, my thing is that I don’t want to not care if I’m a good person.
@studyingvideology1362
@studyingvideology1362 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing for me, today i needed this video, wow ! Thanks...
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this came at the right time! 💜I wish you the best!
@ginga_ninga_53-82
@ginga_ninga_53-82 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy Nathan made a video about this! I was so worried that I was a bad person just because I was questioning the laws about the age of consent and maybe if I was agreeing with them when it was a lower age. I think I suffer with pocd and I feel like my views are changing in a negative way. Maybe I agree with the view, maybe not…🙂
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe, maybe not! You've got this!
@andeetate7356
@andeetate7356 2 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!! I'm glad you liked it!
@beautybrandy9816
@beautybrandy9816 2 жыл бұрын
I’m scared that then I’ll turn into someone who doesn’t care which makes me a bad person…
@edgarroberts8740
@edgarroberts8740 2 жыл бұрын
I (22M) recently learned I have OCD bc of a really bad bout of POCD. Looking back, I wonder if a phase I had age 16 being really really stressed that I was contributing to climate change was actually a scrupulosity theme. I couldn't stop thinking, every step of the day, about the idea each little thing I did was contributing to the end of the world. I'd get up and have a shower - hot water heated with gas I'd make breakfast - food grown with industrial fertilisers, transported from God knows where, and cooked in a powered oven I'd go to school - in a car that uses fossil fuels All the computers and books and equipment was manufactured in a factory and if it used power, it was bad of me to use it I took a lot of extreme measures to reduce my feelings of guilt. I took ice cold showers, I never used central heating, I worked by candlelight. But, no matter what, I was still panicking at the tiniest decisions. Thankfully, I opened up to a teacher, who was the first person to make me realise I was being ridiculous 😂 He laughed and said, "You are an ant, Edgar. Climate change isn't your fault." I'm curious if anyone else has gone through something similar. You'd expect, with the rise of "eco-anxiety", that themes like this would become more and more common.
@shabnam6059
@shabnam6059 2 жыл бұрын
It was interesting, I wasted water for washing and I have a bad sense in my heart...
@gracie1901
@gracie1901 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you so hard. Same age, too. I started to notice the decline in my ocd and mental health around 19-20 when my similar themes took hold
@sarahskicks
@sarahskicks Жыл бұрын
I totally understand this. It’s comforting to know I’m an ant. Thanks :)
@pedrogazola2672
@pedrogazola2672 Жыл бұрын
thank you from Brazil !!!
@saltydog22179
@saltydog22179 2 жыл бұрын
This video is SO relatable - it describes my subtype of OCD perfectly!! Thanks so much as always for the great content - it means so much to OCD sufferers like myself!! I think it also ties perfectly into relationship OCD - because I have so many doubts about being a good/bad person when it comes to relationships, especially friendships!!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! I am so glad you enjoyed the video.
@ADevilFromHeaven
@ADevilFromHeaven 2 жыл бұрын
Covid made me get so much moral ocd with contamination themes (never had contamination part ocd before, but now its super anxious about possible infektion someone, especially as I did infect someone and she ended up fight for her life in hospital
@albalmal
@albalmal Жыл бұрын
Cheers Nate ❤️
@sabrinamitten1363
@sabrinamitten1363 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think I have ocd and it might have started when I was 15 where I ruminated about how when I was in elementary school, I thought it would be funny to wake my friend up with a kiss on the lips once at a sleepover, because we’d laughed about that happening the night before and I was terrified that I’d abused my friend. I would like- obsess over how old I was and I just couldn’t remember and I was scared that the problems my friend has today were my fault, and it’s still something that I’m scared to talk about, because I would never forgive myself if truly traumatised my friend, but honestly it’s getting better and although it is terrifying going outside with this uncertainty as I’m applying the advice online for ocd I am seeing what happened as less and less bad, so thank you for posting about this.
@sabrinamitten1363
@sabrinamitten1363 Жыл бұрын
... I have an immediate family member with ocd and when I was suffering from my extreme anxiety I didn’t really think that I had ocd, because I didn’t think I had any compulsions, but I did have awful intrusive thoughts and I would obsess over a specific thing from the past and possibilities in the future for hours and hours every day and I thought I would be put in prison if I ever told anyone about them.
@stuartmuller1211
@stuartmuller1211 Ай бұрын
Great video, i have suffered with anxiety for many many years. I was always the joker on the outside, an incident triggered my OCD and it took years and years to realise that OCD never stops and you wont get an answer as it will go on and on. The most interesting thing i learnt is i was feeling guilty forvhaving thought's, i paid to much attention to them , and because my morals and values are good, i thougyt i must be evil or a bad person then you ruminate, then the anxiety and depression comes in. So i learnt and im always learning to actually allow the thoughts and give them 0 meaning, so i just say there you are hi, and literally do not ask myself why. I just learnt theres no reasoning. We all have intrusive thoughts ocd sufferers are decent people, but we can make mistakes. Turn everything into a positive and the monster will be caged
@3009teresita
@3009teresita Жыл бұрын
I can relate so so so much!!!
@ImpulseGenerator
@ImpulseGenerator 2 жыл бұрын
This channel is great. It helps. I honestly wish the psychiatrists and psychologists I've spoken to would have suggested I might have OCD traits, because constantly treating these thoughts and feelings like they're my fault (what I made of them, not the professionals) was so, so exhausting. Now training to distance myself a bit and work on treatment. I want to be a good person so so bad and try to treat my environment how they deserve to be treated, but it can go too far to the point of self-censorship and trying to suppress/dismiss my true feelings. Which can be so destructive in the long run.
@SonGoku-ro4qd
@SonGoku-ro4qd 2 жыл бұрын
Man I just love you man❤️ you are a real life Hero and I one day want to help people just like you and bring glory to GOD 🙏🏽✝️
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you so much!
@kerryfaden94
@kerryfaden94 12 күн бұрын
I have this Thanks for helping!!
@ADevilFromHeaven
@ADevilFromHeaven 2 жыл бұрын
This. Is my biggest struggle in life. I take up the problems on the world and if i do anything bad im a bad bad bad person who doesnt deserve to live. Ruminating right now on a choice where i struggle with "if hang out with them this they might get covid" "if i leave them Alone something bad might happen"
@ADevilFromHeaven
@ADevilFromHeaven 2 жыл бұрын
I left them Alone and im scared now
@destinylugo5108
@destinylugo5108 Жыл бұрын
❤ I just wanted to tell you that today I am unsubscribing myself to your channel, because I am healed from OCD , and so much of that is because of you, thank you Mr. Peterson!
@ZuneraNousheen-fu7hu
@ZuneraNousheen-fu7hu 2 ай бұрын
I have experienced this all, but finally overcome completely ♥️♥️
@cecil.321
@cecil.321 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 👏👏👏
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@ScottyMcCraigles
@ScottyMcCraigles 8 ай бұрын
Feeling pretty defeated on this and many other fronts. Dealing with ROCD, mental compulsions and rumination, scrupulousity/moral OCD, perfectionism, contamination OCD, and more that are affecting all aspects of my life and often compiling on eachother. It seems like the root of it all is thinking I'm a terrible person no matter the evidence for or against it. I'm seeing a therapist who specializes in OCD now, so hoping that helps immensely.
@rickyg4288
@rickyg4288 6 ай бұрын
Hello sir! If I may, I too once struggled with scrupulosity and moral OCD. However, I write this to you as a way of hope! I overcame moral OCD by believing the Gospel of Jesus Christ! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKC3Z5-rjKusnaMsi=HSzXHbjZgT8_FVm3 . The truth will set you free and I do not know you but I would love to see you in heaven. If you watch some of the videos on that channel I linked you, You can know that you will go to heaven when you die! The gospel that I present you is found in 1 Corinthians 15:1-5 “ (1) Moreover, brethren, I declare to you the gospel which I preached to you, which also you received and in which you stand, (2)by which also you are saved, if you hold fast that word which I preached to you-unless you believed in vain. (3)For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, (4) and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures, (5) and that He was seen by Cephas, then by the twelve.” God bless!!
@Leetowners
@Leetowners Күн бұрын
How are you feeling?
@ScottyMcCraigles
@ScottyMcCraigles Күн бұрын
@@Leetowners a bit better, but still struggling a fair bit. There's a lot to tackle, so working at things one day at a time. Thanks for asking.
@Leetowners
@Leetowners Күн бұрын
@@ScottyMcCraigles no worries I'm dealing with POCD but by me just knowing that i am not my thoughts It lessens my anxiety without any compulsions. Although there are moments where i do check But it has lessened
@chadgarber
@chadgarber 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. This is my greatest ocd struggle.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
It's great to hear from you Chad! I hope you're doing well!
@chadgarber
@chadgarber 2 жыл бұрын
@@ocdandanxiety Thanks!
@Isablle199
@Isablle199 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@leahrivers3243
@leahrivers3243 2 жыл бұрын
I have moral and religious scrupulosity. ERP has been an excellent tool along with medication and neurofeedback for my recovery. The insight you share, especially the false alarm and broken compass allusions are so helpful. Our rational minds know this stuff, but our OCD needs to be shown who's boss sometimes.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! OCD does need to know who's the boss! You're going to show them! 😉
@natalliareinhold8682
@natalliareinhold8682 Жыл бұрын
Can you please share more about your own experience with a neurofeedback?
@erika20927
@erika20927 2 жыл бұрын
Hope your videos help mee, having this kind of OCD is terrible , can live like this ..is hard really hard ! I been strangling with OCD for years
@spongebobsquarepants271
@spongebobsquarepants271 2 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on agnostic people, who have obsessions around being skeptical about the existence of God and uncertainty of punishment.
@playthechords7768
@playthechords7768 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@teacherduda1471
@teacherduda1471 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@amaira9113
@amaira9113 2 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@janairgendwas6068
@janairgendwas6068 3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@lonelymewman4368
@lonelymewman4368 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, i managed to cope with it by admitting that i may be an evil person. Now let's see what OCD will do now. Anxiety 24/7 that something bad will happen to me.
@omkartongare4839
@omkartongare4839 2 жыл бұрын
This is helping me
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I love to hear that! You're awesome!
@omkartongare4839
@omkartongare4839 2 жыл бұрын
@@ocdandanxiety i am feeling so amazed that you replyed btw i am from india
@SL-es5kb
@SL-es5kb 2 ай бұрын
I’m 43 and my entire life has been driven by obsessing and working to do various self applied programs to finally become a good person. Agonizing and second guessing every decision. Ruminating and replaying interactions. Waking up every morning feeling an impending sense of doom. Introspecting to find reasons for my unease or things I can do to address it. Waiting for people around me to realize what an awful person or fraud I am. Being slow at work because I apply this vigilance and questioning to everything. I am exhausted. I became Christian and that is actually what made me realize I had moral ocd because the theology is inconsistent with this.
@danj1596
@danj1596 11 ай бұрын
thank you very muchhhhh
@Mary_0888
@Mary_0888 Ай бұрын
All. The. Time. I always check what other people think and feel to see what "the right thought is" and if people are divided, its just pure panic because then my thoughts will be wrong no matter what i choose.
@davidanthony8017
@davidanthony8017 4 ай бұрын
I just recently had to sever ties with a friend who had this exact problem. He couldn’t understand the discernment between black and white vs grey thinking towards moral issues, even after I tried reasoning with him multiple times.
@xyphor317
@xyphor317 2 жыл бұрын
Have you made any videos on agoraphobia? When my ocd and anxiety started, I just avoided everything. Now I feel terrified of being places alone or far away alone.
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh I need to make one on this! I hope you can fee better.
@maymark4286
@maymark4286 Жыл бұрын
I've lost my capacity to write about my feelings due to this. I can't feel strong emotions for eight years now, due to doubting myself and thinking that someone else already did it. I feel I'm writing nothing worthy. It has developed into self-hate.
@Blessednesting
@Blessednesting Жыл бұрын
I think what’s difficult here is we are taught to take every thought captive when in all actuality taking everything thought captive does not mean to analyze, fight or attack it with scripture but means to ignore it and not give it power. That is the task for me is not to do the above mentioned when facing something I am questioning morally.
@justmadeit2
@justmadeit2 2 ай бұрын
It’s hard to accept things. It’s exhausting to struggle with this. I not only judge myself but if I hear something about a musician I like, even if it’s not proven it’s enough for me to judge them and stop listening to them. I also suffer from bad depression and I think the ocd is related too to it
@starrynight669
@starrynight669 2 жыл бұрын
It's so dumb but I'll be having these very detailed day dreams in my head and randomly my brain will imagine a scenario where I do something bad and I will feel like an evil person and I punish myself when I didn't even do anything.
@artsyalkalearnandgrowbeaut3731
@artsyalkalearnandgrowbeaut3731 Жыл бұрын
My moral ocd trapped me in my beliefs and emotions. It was crazy making. It was like whirlpool.
@heatherprivate5500
@heatherprivate5500 Жыл бұрын
Would you mind giving examples please thank you 😊
@liorki2002
@liorki2002 2 жыл бұрын
Had the looking at someone and destroying their life, someone talks about his son and the way i looked at him for 0.1 sec made my ocd tell me, somehow i dont know how but it is possible that becuause of you his sons life will get ruined because u looked at him while he talked about him yes it make sense man. Funny to see its an ocd theme i just didnt see this one on others yet.
@user-cd2jl4is4k
@user-cd2jl4is4k 2 жыл бұрын
Thnks!!
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
Of course!
@bomzan_22
@bomzan_22 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou bro..
@ocdandanxiety
@ocdandanxiety 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@distressed8786
@distressed8786 8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Jerry.anthony.c
@Jerry.anthony.c Жыл бұрын
2:20 - 100% Honest at all times 2:33 - Thinking about the past 6:40 - Lying
@andrecolombia09
@andrecolombia09 2 жыл бұрын
How can we differentiate our intuition about something, a place, a person a feeling and ocd?
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