Off The Record: Do You Really Want Kids or Nah?

[@hadesamsa]

15:36 please don't make your oldest girl the third parent unless you wanna be paying for her therapy years down the line lmfao source: am oldest girl, is a shitty thing to go thru

[@seanceknowles2911]

Yes, please guys no parentification. If you never want to have grandchildren and a broken relationship with your kids then no parentification. I’m not surprised the brother does that because a lot of men of other cultures think it’s ok to do that.

[@lisapineapple]

Me too, Anthony. I’m stuck on the first forever home.

[@cocx88]

My wife and I've been together for 21 years, married for the last 11 years and both come from big families. Tried on and off for years to get pregnant but was never successful. After many visits to her OB we found out my wife has PCOS. It was especially hard on my wife bc for many years her mother, grandmother and aunts would always ask why dont we have kids yet not knowing that she has a condition, so i always took the hit and became the shitty son-inlaw and said I didn't want any kids just so they would stop asking. I could tell every time they did ask her about having kids, she would die a little inside and become depress bc she knew we both wanted children. Luckily her OB helped us out and was able to balance her hormones and now we're happy parents of a 2 year old boy and a 6 month old girl.

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

You should've just told them about the condition instead of the weird hollywood lemme pretend it's my fault. What the hell is that?

[@cocx88]

@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 my wife is so prideful to a fault and is seen as the "2nd mom" in her family being the go to daughter for everything her family of 13 needed. I couldn't stand to see her fall deeper into depression bc of the constant nagging from the elders and how difficult pcos made it for us to have children. So it was an ez choice for me, if I had do it all over again, I would without hesitation.

[@cocx88]

@Jasmine my wife was already in her mid-30s when we discovered she had pcos so it made it even more difficult for us. Other couples we knew that had pcos had to go through IVF in order to have children and IVF wasn't much of an option for us as it was very costly in the state we live in.

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

@@cocx88 I don't mean to be harsh but you and her need to seriously grow up. I can already tell her depression is worsened because both of you lack the ability to stand your ground against her family.

[@cocx88]

@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 didn't know u gonna take it there, I have a great relationship with my inlaws.

[@hannah8414]

no being the oldest daughter sucks lmao if i do have a girl first definitely not parentifying them bc i firsthand know how it messes you up

[@WMB_wmb]

PLEASE…have an episode where you guys compliment each other. What you like about one another, especially as men we need to do more of that.

[@angelicanonato9272]

Lame

[@bryanquisco6342]

They’ve had. It’s in the Vegas episodes.

[@ImpureGunner]

And then at the end give Miguel the middle finger an say it was fake and continue be was everyone like not what Miguel wants.

[@KikoLovesable]

Couldn't tell if it was all jokes or not but PLEASE don't have kids expecting them to raise their siblings 🤦🏾‍♀️ It's not fair to them nor is it their responsibility. Becoming a parent is one of the most selfish things a person can do (and there's no shade intended with that). Kids don't ASK to be born, someone WANTED them here and made it happen. Kids deserve to have a childhood and be able to enjoy the life they were forced into before they get old learn that everything sucks when you grow up. The moment they're responsible for someone else like that, it takes away from their experience and makes them mature faster than necessary. There's also a chance that it makes them bitter and affects how they raise their future children. If you feel like more than one child will be too much for the ADULTS/PARENTS to handle, PLEASE hire a babysitter/nanny to help with the upbringing or take longer breaks between blasting them out 🙏🏾

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

Great message

[@alishamcg]

I think they were just joking, but I also think younger children do look up to the older (I'm from a family of 5) and natural for the eldest to take care of younger siblings. Of course never to the extent you are talking about, that's more of abuse of power or due to environment of upbringing. Me and brother were never the nanny or parent, but sometimes my older brother was the babysitter. However he was never abused into being the babysitter and it was only occasionally/not long, ex. parents had to run to the store and we didn't all want to go/or we were playing games, or went to the park/play outside. Its okay for children to learn responsibility in different avenues.

[@ayofrtho7014]

They're typical men, they're selfish, they KNOW and they don't care. Let's just hope the moms do a good job at raising them so that the eldest don't have to.

[@seanceknowles2911]

@@alishamcg it’s ok to have an older sister or brother help out overt so often but what Bart mentioned about the brother is definitely parentification and that’s really bad. The parent should always be the first one to step in, it’s their responsibility only.

[@Keebafu]

Or at least pay the older kid to babysit so it’s at least mutually beneficial..

[@kiarademoner]

Bart I have been praying for Taika and I hope that the seizures ends and he never gets a seizure again. 🐻♥️

[@c_pistons9989]

He got seizures??? Do you know why?

[@fallibleangel9101]

@@c_pistons9989 Watch their vlog channel.

[@officialniktheking6891]

@@c_pistons9989 Covid vaccine

[@fallibleangel9101]

@@__-ir6ye He/she just made up some shit and posted it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

[@m2moon793]

Growing up almost single child (my sibling is 12 years older then me) we didn’t grow up together and I’m always so envious of other kids with sibling. Imagine to have a sibling to go through all stages of life together, someone to lean on, we can’t always talk to our parents, having a sibling is the best to share life with ! I hope you Geo gets pregnant soon, It will only benefit Taika.

[@lilo638]

Eh, not necessarily. For ever story of a good sibling bond there’s the opposite. I was a happy only child until my sister came along when i was 5.

[@misteryace21]

Me & my brother are 8 years apart, we were always fighting but had that sibling love up until he went to uni & has never stayed home. Thank fuck he doesn't stay cuz we didn't develop our relationship to be a close sibling phase, so every time he does come home, we're always fighting with each other

[@chinoskateboardv]

By the time Bart’s next kid is old enough to play with, taika is gonna be in that teenager phase and won’t wanna play with his younger sibling lol

[@bumtobachelor1908]

Having Steve and Anthony go in on a joke bring a tears to my eyes

[@alexadiamond4742]

Geo is gonna kick steve's ass!!! LMAOOO he is getting on her 😂😂😂

[@zuhalter0071]

I mean, I get having a preference of a boy, but I have a boy and a girl, and I'll be damned if I haven't discovered I like Frozen and dancing! 🤣

[@Msdeanna.angela]

I think Geo & Bart would have a girl and she would be a breath of fresh air for y’all. 💞 Sometimes it’s not what you want it what you need lol Either way I hope things work out the way it’s supposed to for y’all. Selfishly sprinkling baby dust though ✨

[@kapuu42]

ay, goodnight bart and geo 🤣🤣

[@MartyD]

geriatric geo 💀

[@bethnichols2875]

I have one son and he is one of the greatest blessings I ever received. As the years have gone by I've come to realize just how much. He helps me in so many ways, even with his grandparents.

[@FiveSubj3x6]

Joe at 0:58-1:05 lmaoooooooooo hahhahahahhahah

[@peni1641]

Should this help anyone's time line, Geriatric pregnancy is having a baby when you're 35 or older.

[@BelanceM]

Actually men in their 40s are more likely to have kids with complications. So although they are ABLE to have children well into their 60s or 70s but they may have issues. The same way women in their 30s are more likely to have kids with complications or may have complications themselves throughout the pregnancy/birth. Another thing, women having children late also increase the chances of having twins. The chances are slightly raised (I think its because theyre usually taking IVF is it's a planned pregnancy.) I'm not even talking about people that have twins run in their family. You could be the first one and it's because of your baby making age lol cool right? So yeah, anyways, so when older guys often go for younger women to help give them a child women should do the same because as time goes by their swimmers are slower and your eggs isn't ripe enough to wait up for them. They need the speedy little guys. I had another fun fact to share but it escaped me since I'm watching TV 😅

[@jonahzamora6539]

6:00 ladies and gentlemen we got him

[@mablelinchow]

Lol. I was 37 when I gave birth. I was geriatric. Lol. Its 35 yrs and up to be considered geriatric

[@mmsns2144]

Yeah geo is soon to be 39

[@margub1]

Have a kid joe, you have multiple businesses. If you were in India you would’ve had a cricket team already

[@r.c.7779]

You mean if he was an Indian Muslim, regular Indians have two kids like normal people

[@neongreenstar101]

"goodnight bart and geo" lmaooooo 😂 taika is too cute

[@DemonFox369]

Finding yourself was definitely a concept. The sexual revolution in America was in the 1960s.

[@sxhxlzxb]

Only child = Nick can’t be friends w u

[@GoOnDoIt]

Would love to have kids one day. But being almost 40, I feel I missed my chance. Can't see myself as a 60yr old when my child is 20

[@amyf4577]

I just turned 21 and my dad is 70 he had kids later and maybe won’t be in my life for the longest as others but he’s the best dad I could ever ask for

[@evavox9761]

@@amyf4577 Thanks for the this! I've been feeling the same way.

[@kaninchenhupfen2300]

Huh, my dad is 70 and I’m 26. I think you’re overthinking it.

[@marrz8244]

Fing 😂 hilarious

[@goku270ljr2]

To be honest I wish I was the only child. I was so angry when my mom popped out a brother and sister for me

[@Mango_Pnch]

Grass is always greener

[@sidesideful]

This whole team need to have sons. Can't imagine any of them, especially Bart being a girl dad. But, I can imagine Steve and Anthony being girl dads xD. Idk why.

[@MichelleLuvsYa105]

my only child cousin is late to everything and not just a little late, its to the point where its just not considerate lol

[@sexybeasttyli]

35 and up is geriatric

[@6ixnThr33]

I have 6 brothers & im the only girl and middle child , both blessing & curse 🤷‍♀️😊.. I see the diff dynamics of the older brothers and my dimwit younger brothers, love them all to bits none the less though.

[@dikigurung2222]

Bart is so effortlessly funny

[@LaddRusso91]

Collin E. Jitsukawa haha

[@julietaverdejo510]

so Joe's inspiration as a father is Nick Cannon???

[@johnnykue379]

Can ya bring Bobby on please!!!

[@lisapineapple]

Ya!

[@katherinep708]

Steve shouldn't have any kid, man. I've seen him talk about kids in the previous videos.. he shouldn't have kids.

[@foggycraw6758]

What did he say lmfao

[@simoliz03]

Taika needs a little brother or sister to play with! 🤗

[@nahalrouge9415]

As a brit I'm cryinggggg🤣 you guys are so basic ❤

[@Mytube777]

I didn’t and I’m just fine.

[@quackkuryu4680]

wait how old is Geo?

[@jachcoff]

A geode (/ˈdʒiːoʊd/; from Ancient Greek γεώδης (geṓdēs) 'earthlike') is a geological secondary formation within sedimentary and volcanic rocks. Geodes are hollow, vaguely spherical rocks, in which masses of mineral matter (which may include crystals) are secluded. The crystals are formed by the filling of vesicles in volcanic and sub-volcanic rocks by minerals deposited from hydrothermal fluids; or by the dissolution of syn-genetic concretions and partial filling by the same, or other, minerals precipitated from water, groundwater or hydrothermal fluids. aka ancient

[@jonasp1355]

She will be 39 in october

[@-HazexD]

@@jonasp1355 I don't think thats right xD

[@Mytube777]

@@jachcoff She looks good. It’s not the number but the look.

[@jonasp1355]

@@-HazexD Well you think wrong...

[@kimberlydiaz6016]

I think they wanted another one after Tiff and Casey announced their pregnancy.

[@jonasgomezgallardo1342]

Joe kid won’t have citizenship in the US😳

[@giselibanez2402]

Why not?

[@jonasgomezgallardo1342]

Watch the video 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@PlayShorts3]

How come we've never met Joe's brother? Is he alive? I've heard Joe mention him a few times.

[@unit03]

bruh im younger than these guys but not much but i feel so geriatric rn

[@ChrisytinaaCoffee]

That’s gonna be a no from me dawg

[@lajsdrjfgosd2357]

At 2:30 you’re referring to what’s called “ parentfication” and it’s not a good thing

[@borregoayudando1481]

holup, is anyone gonna address the coyote tan chest rig Jo is wearing? what's that about? are chest rigs urban trendy yet?

[@Coolmist_]

Sounds like Bart wants the Tate btothers not Diaz😂

[@theSUBVERSIVE]

"practically a fossil..."

[@viviangod_win]

Who wants to tell them about sperm count and all the defects old man sperm can cause 😶

[@JV-bc8um]

I'm pregnant with my first and I don't want to have any. I'm doing OK right now but I rather have the child free life.

[@r.c.7779]

So are you gonna get rid of it?

[@JV-bc8um]

@@r.c.7779 no, I'm going through with it for my husband since he's always wanted kids. He was ok with whichever decision I would have taken. His support has been a great help in keeping me calm and not so panici

[@ccchantel]

@@JV-bc8um that’s sweet, you have a good husband

[@tinabeee7350]

I understand where Nick is coming from, but kids have their own interests and their own personalities. If you push them into an activity, they may have zero interest or may come to resent you for it. Preconceived notions about parenting go out the window once you actually have a child.

[@CuongChanster]

Need more jk babies!

[@homemadecustoms2411]

👏👏👏

[@Sorcerery101]

Not first

[@reapinthebenefit56]

U should jus b a baker 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Raptors19tdot]

jk is not over JUST BRING IN GIRLS like back then will bring in more VIEWS

[@igotthemunchies7292]

No my sister has five and she is miserable

[@lisapineapple]

Ya… Joe doesn’t need to have kids.

[@TheDraco175]

Please get rid of Ryan.

[@TurmyHD]

Damn y’all fell off hard