OFFERING! We Have Never Loved A House More! First Time Buyers House Buying Vlogs. Lara Joanna Jarvis

[@doodleschucky]

Keep hope 🤗 I recently sold my house, I had 5 offers and went with a lovely couple that fell in love with my house, they were not the highest bidder but I instinctively knew they were right for it and wouldn’t mess me around. The sale went through like a dream. X

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

Im almost 50 and still do not own a house . It's so difficult in Ireland too. But lara it isn't everything darling. You have a lovely husband and boys and are all ok .. I wish you well and I love your realness xxx

[@dorothyronan8220]

Put a note through doors of properties you’re interested in near the property you lost. The area is important, not the inside you can change that. I’m a Mortgage Broker and this bidding war some Estate Agents are encouraging is cruel. I agree with so many other people, being a FTB with a DIP in place means you should be having offers accepted! Never discuss your income with the Estate Agents in-house Mortgage Adviser, once they know what you earn they know how much you can pay. Your personal Broker is the only person you should discuss money with. x

[@whatever62812]

Long time lurker, just came on to say no, not boring at all. So many people are going through what you are at the moment and it's nice to see someone online that's foing through that same journey. As lovely as it is to see new house tours from those that have been lucky enough to get their dream homes it is good to see the other side of it, and to know how heart-rending the process can be. Just rem, we are rooting for you and we will all be so happy for you when you finally get the 'one'!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Ah thank you so much! And thanks for taking the time to comment xx

[@yelena_yelena]

I dont think it boring video, if there is no progress. In country where I leave is the same 😭 so watching you is like understanding I am not alone with such situation. It motivates me to continue. I wish you all the best and lots of patience with the house hunting 🤗

[@luciegallagher2710]

I agree with the person who said you make a strong offer and no more viewings and take it off the market or the offer is withdrawn. If it’s a good offer and you are in a good position then they shouldn’t need anymore. We have literally just done this, we were the first to see it and made the offer straight away, told them we were not mucking about and to take it off the market. It’s the waiting that’s not good not the disappointment because you do always pick yourself back up. I’m sending you so many positive vibes. You will get there, it will happen just not this time. Sending huge hugs xxx

[@zarahills801]

Keep putting your vibrations out there for THIS house. Very similar thing happened to us. I kept calling about the house even so and looking at the pictures and visualising living there every single night with positive vibrations. Next thing I know the estate agents were calling me as the original buyers had dropped out! I've now been living in my forever dream home for 6 months. Don't give up on the house if you felt that connection. It'll come back to you.

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Oh I love that! Huge congratulations! I need to really tap into mr manifestations 🤍

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

My*!

[@suzywebb5130]

My heart really goes out to you guys. Been watching your vlogs for a while now and each time I’m like, “They’ve done it!”, and then my heart sinks when it all goes pants! Such a rollercoaster ride, much love xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Haha me too, me too! 🙈🤦🏼‍♀️ it really is such a rollercoaster! X

[@tj97x]

I really hope you continue these videos. As someone saving for their first home I find them super helpful. To see the ins and outs of everything and that it’s not always plain sailing x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Ah, thank you very much! It’s hard to know if people are interested as it’s so up and down and not much progress! Glad they’re helpful x

[@clairebunyan6045]

Oh Lara, it was so lovely to see you both so excited about this house, and I’m truly gutted for you. I’ve been there, it took us from starting to view house in Feb 19, to having my private sale fall through and having to start again, relocating 450 miles away just before the pandemic then finally getting an offer accepted on the dream home and having to wait 16 weeks to get the keys, and another 4 months of serious renovations before we could even move in. But I can tell you now that it’s been 💯 worth the heartache and the waiting. Agree with the advice about making a strong offer and asking for it to be taken off the market, that’s what we did. Don’t tell the estate agent too much, or deliberate with the agent, they are working for the client not you.

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

I’m going to have to give this “take it off the market” a go! I think in this crazy market at the moment they’ll just laugh at us! Xx

[@hannahmilton331]

Oh Lara my heart hurt for you on this one - keep going, your home is out there, you will find it! So many people here are so invested in your journey and we all want you to get your fairytale ending - believe it will happen and it will x x x

[@naomismith4933]

Have you thought about asking your landlord if they’d sell to you and you could extend it to make it what you need?

[@MrsHawkinsHouse]

I think your videos are very valuable. This is the reality for probably thousands of people as the cash buyer is now more of a concern than it probably ever has been before. I hope you keep making as many of these videos as you feel you can without it being upsetting but it’s an insight I think many people appreciate or may look back on in a year and appreciate. Thanks for telling us your story.

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much! Xx

[@brigidkeogh416]

So sorry for what you are going through. I hope you get your dream home soon.

[@rokshanakhan4699]

I really feel for you. I'm not going to roll out the regular platitudes. Keeping my fingers crossed for you x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you x

[@chloebutcher7447]

Really feel for you guys… keeping everything crossed your perfect house is just around the corner! Lots of love ❤️

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you! We really hope so xx

[@gemmajarvis1359]

Ah I'm so sorry for you guys.. just wasn't meant to be.. I believe you will find your forever home soon... keep your head up xxx

[@TheWellnessAbbey]

Are you Stu's sister? x

[@toriemmap]

We really wanted to get onto the property ladder and so bought a house which was in a location we were ok with but was much smaller than we ideally wanted and didn’t tick even half of our list, however we went with the mindset that it would only be for a couple years. I’m so glad we did it, we made money on it and 2 years later bought our dream home. I wouldn’t settle on this being your long term home, it’s really not that big a deal moving after a couple years if it gets you on the property ladder x

[@hayjay1130]

I subbed to your on my old phone and just found you again after a year... I’m so sad your still waiting for your dream home x lovely to hear a man so passionate about a possible home to be... x just remember your closer now than you have ever been to owning your home x and no videos are never boring... my sisters been getting siting over 2 yrs to get her property and it’s draining but it’s going to happen... just continue to stay on a high vibration x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Haha, yep, still here a year later 😂😆 thank you so much! Will keep my vibrations high!! Xxx

[@mrsb5646]

I really feel for you Lara, it’s such a tough process. We put in an offer on a property and had a survey done but the vendor took a higher offer so we lost both the house & £500 on the survey fee. Then it happened again on another property so we lost two houses and £1000 in survey fees, we were absolutely gutted. When our forever home came up there were 30 viewings on the first day it was available to view & we submitted an offer the same day which was not the highest offer but due to the fact that we were sold, packed and wanted to be moved in 6 weeks due to our buyer putting pressure on us to complete the vendor went with us. The right home will come up, keep the faith and even though it’s tough please keep sharing as one day you’ll look back and see that all the heartache and disappointment was worth it for what you have. Your home is out there it’s just not quite ready for you yet ❤️

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Wow thanks for sharing! That’s awful having to spend that our on surveys!! I must bare that in mind! X

[@jackieconrad4500]

Oh Lara. Please try and stay positive, i feel emotional for you. This house may have felt like the right one, but the one you eventually get will have everything that this one had and more. Sending you strength to get through this.

[@lc-wb2sf]

As they say, everything happens for a reason. From personal experience in this market, we have been looking and offering for over a year and we have finally had success. Top tip (difficult to maintain but it is worth it!) check your instant property alerts frequently throughout the day. With our new home, we were first to view as we had called within 2 minutes of receiving the email to say it was available. After us, there were 2 whole days of viewings! We truly believed previous properties were perfect for us and then our new home popped up. I’m so invested in your journey, would love for you to keep the videos up and your house is out there waiting for you! Hopefully the market will pick up and you are first time buyers, deposit ready and MIP and you will be snapped up! Keep up the good spirits, you will get there! xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Congratulations on finding your dream home! I am on there all day every day 🙈 it’s an obsession!! Sometimes they’ve already had too many viewings booked before it even gets ok rightmove! X

[@lc-wb2sf]

Lara Joanna Jarvis thank you! The other thing I meant to suggest (and this is how we found our house) is, if you aren’t already, to be on the emailing list for all the estate agents in the areas you are looking and they should let you know as soon as the property comes to the market! Call them too as and ask them if they have anything similar to what you are looking for coming to the market! Good luck, you will get there! xx

[@whitneyhults-richartz2919]

I’m so sorry. It’s just like this in the States as well. My husband has his real estate license and we can tell you it won’t be like this forever. As long as you’re comfortable still putting out house content, I’ll watch it. Sending love and hugs xx

[@kirstyhibbert3119]

Lara, you and your family are the kindest people. Can tell yourse are honest and down to earth hopefully your luck with houses change xxx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

That’s so sweet, thank you so much cx

[@2clairelouise]

I’ve just binged watched your videos over the last few days as we bought our first house together in January 2021, completed in June - I think we just got in before the market went absolutely nuts and after watching this honestly think we got in just in the nick of time. It will get better - this current situation can’t last forever and I think you would be far better off waiting now for things to calm down, otherwise you will end up paying way over the odds for a property that will end up going down in value when the market eventually comes crashing down. Not even considering the emotional toll this is clearly having on you.

[@TheWellnessAbbey]

You'll get there in the end, lovely. God blessed us with our first & forever home, so I know it's possible for others x

[@sammydeebelles9597]

Oh no I hope you are feeling a little better about the situation.. please keep sharing your journey as this is real life and it’s helpful to see it! 😘

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much for watching!! Xx

[@katebrewer2352]

I’m so sorry. Get hard with those agents Lara. They are there to get as much for their clients as they can. You are in a perfect position and they should have given the vendor your offer immediately for them to make a decision on. Go for it x

[@shaneltalbert6263]

No! Keep sharing this is a journey! Right now it is so hard but you will appreciate all you have done to finally get the house that is meant for you! Be sad allow those emotions they are so important but don’t give up it will happen 💕💕💕💕

[@catherinesnow4871]

Hi, I’m so sorry to hear you didn’t get the house but everything happens for a reason.... a better one will come along. You are in such a good position, when you put in an offer I would tell the estate agent it’s on condition that there are no more viewings and it’s taken off the market ( I’ve watched too much location, location, location 😂). Keep your chin up, it will happen. Sending hugs x

[@sharronbrown6350]

Everything happens for a reason .stay positive .im sorry you never got the house though.a house will come up eventually for you and your lovely family. Keep your chin up.xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much ❤️

[@thestrugglingperfectionist]

Don’t hesitate to put in what we in the States call a back up offer or at least let them know you’re still interested should something fall through. Sometimes the craziest of things will line up in your favor. We searched for a home for nearly 5 full years. It’s not easy. Thinking of you!

[@tracybradley4641]

Hi Laura dont give up the same happened to me the right house is waiting for you make sure to ask the estate agents if a house falls through to contact you back, keep looking the day We found our houses we did want ti go we put an offer in and got it and when I look back now all the houses we wanted were not suitable;

[@clairewalsh4029]

I’m so sorry for you guys. I hope you do keep sharing your journey, I think I and many of your followers will be crying tears of joy right there with you when you get an offer accepted! And just think - you loved the house before this one, and this one you said was miles better than that, and better things are always coming so just think what your actual home will be like! Xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Ah, you’re right! Thanks so much c

[@Al.sonGallagher]

So sorry x thinking of you x

[@renataalexandra6670]

I am so sorry! I feel you! Toronto’s market is the same! We have decided to just rent for two years as it’s all too stressful! Lots of love. Don’t stop the videos unless you want to. It’s heartbreaking to watch but life is sometimes!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much for your support!! Yes I’ve heard it’s crazy over with you guys! Xx

[@Elliecatify]

So sorry Lara. We had a similar situation when we viewed a house on Thursday and they had lots of viewings booked for Saturday. We quickly made an asking price offer and they accepted and took it off the market and cancelled all the other viewings. They had 3 children so I guess not having to keep the house clean and tidy was a bonus for them!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Oh wow, that’s good to know! Congratulations xx

[@marif7270]

Hey - please know that this kind of video isn’t boring at all! I love love love watching this and the way you talk us though the process and your updates. I agree with some other comments that estate agents aren’t to be trusted too much. It’s their job to get the best possible price for their client however I don’t agree with those that say ‘just get them to take it off the market’ - maybe a few years back, yes, but not now in this fast changing market. I bet none of these people has ever had to buy a house in this kind if situation - things are absolutely crazy out there. All the people moving out of London are going somewhere no?! Well, except all the Europeans going back home (well done Boris!). I personally know 4 or 5 families from my daughters school in London, all relocating to the countryside. It’s an exodus. And because those people all bought during the financial crash at excellent prices in London, now they’re seeing amazing returns abs are able to buy in cash and be mortgage free. Terribly, terribly unfair for people in your situation trying to buy where you have always lived! I am keeping everything crossed for you x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much for taking the time to write such a lovely comment. Yes, I agree about the comments saying to take it off the market. Not sure even kirstie and Phil will be saying that at the moment!! Xx

[@chloemcgregor1911]

I’m so sorry this one didn’t work out for you but sending you all the luck and positive vibes for next time! It’s so unfair that you’re going though all this stress but I just know you’ll get there soon and it will be so worth it in the end 💜

[@hotsashno1]

I've just recently found your channel and you are such an amazing couple, who will find and deserve a really loving home. Every disappointment is a blessing and you will find something even more suited to you. Keep your head up it is on its way xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you SO much for being here and your support! I need to keep in mind the universe has a plan! 🙏🏻

[@hotsashno1]

@@LaraJoannaJarvis Always!! 8 months ago myself and my now fiance (engaged last month) were talking about moving into my very small rented 1 bed but with a little determination and whole lot of saving we are just going through the process of buying our first place together. Sometime our plans for ourselves are just not big enough for what is in store :)

[@bethanpalmer3295]

Ahhh my heart hurts for you all! The market is mental at the moment, I can’t quite believe it. Have everything crossed that the next home you view and love ends up being yours 🤞🏼💛

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you! Yes, it really is mental! Xx

[@BexMassey]

Sorry it didn't go your way :( xx I really recommend the book Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss - it's great for negotiating. Also, watch old episodes of LLL, to pick up negotiating tips from Kirstie & Phil. From the snippets of what you're showing on here, you're giving too much away to the estate agents. You basically told them up front that you could put in an over asking price offer, but then you would struggle to go to above it - don't tell them ANYTHING about your budget. Put your offer in,follow it up with an offer email and make your offer subject to contract, survey and the property coming off the market IMMEDIATELY, with all other viewings cancelled. In a fast moving market, make your offer time sensitive - e.g. give THEM a deadline to accept the offer, that way, you're in the driving seat. They will ask to see your financial evidence at that stage, in order for it to come off the market. When submitting it, redact any financial information that gives your position away, e.g. max mortgage price. When chatting to estate agents, use silence strategically - no one likes silence, they will talk to fill it, and in doing so, may give away telling information. They will try to do this to you, so be aware.

[@bels5635]

Great advice!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much for the advice!! I agree people used to be able to say here’s our offer and it’s subject to it coming off the market immediately but this market is just something else! It’s not like those Kirsty and Phil chats back then when that seemed to do the trick. 9 offers here, 27 on the last one, it’s not really like buyers have much control over it while there’s such little stock and so much demand. Will definitely use silence more next time! I wish they could all be as honest as I’d like to think they are. Xx

[@christinehoward7808]

Hi Lara. Keep your chin up honey. Your family is lovely. Your videos are great. Don’t let it get you down x

[@vanessaellis4153]

So sorry Lara so frustrating and upsetting for you and other people on this journey. Hopefully you will find your dream home and put all this behind you. Take care xx

[@RosieRambles1]

So sorry it didn’t work out, maybe it will come back at some point as houses often do. I think in the next few weeks the market will really come back to a calmer state as the stamp duty hol will be done and you guys will have much more luck xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you! I think we might take a breather until then as it’s just so exhausting being like this! X

[@naomismith4933]

It’s madness. The housing crisis is horrendous. Sorry to hear. Good luck with the continued search.

[@catherineleanadene6840]

So sorry this is happening to you. We're just starting (older buyers and with children like you )and we had our offer accepted but it's awful waiting for the next steps nevermind 2 years..hope you find your forever home soon x

[@caitlinpaige1247]

Sending good vibes, enjoying following your journey but my heart breaks for you every time you have a setback. This will all be worth it though, you and your family will find your perfect forever home, 2 years is a drop in the ocean compared to the 20+ years you might spend in that house, keep your chin up 💐

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

That’s great advice, you’re so right!! X

[@sarahdorans1561]

Ah so sorry for you guys. It’s not like Groundhog Day. It’s real life. It’s not always easy and I think you are showing the true story of buying a house. After all the time and efforts to save to be able to buy and now yous are hit with all the disappointments. But like I said it’s real life. Really hope yous find somewhere and can get your dream home 🏡

[@annettemcintyre9308]

Don't give up, I know what it feels like but don't give

[@heathercreates8406]

So heartbroken for you! I have no doubt that it'll work out! Fingers crossed!

[@teem8602]

Would love to see some clips of the houses you go and view :) hope you find something soon 🤞 🏡

[@lizfield6486]

You’ll get there in the end. Like you said, things happen for a reason even if you don’t think so at the time.

[@doctorsham_]

Literally going through the same thing, week after week almost! So frustrating. Believer in everything happening for a reason, so I know you’ll find your perfect forever home - just hopefully sooner rather than later!

[@karenbransome6978]

Oh Lara 🤗. I really hoped this was the one. You are in my prayers for this new home. Things happen for a reason and I do believe your new home is out there. It will happen, you have all of us backing you. Xx 😘 xX

[@beingcharlotteellis]

I was crossing everything for you.. so sorry you didn't get it! Your dream home is just around the corner I'm sure xx

[@lilybee_]

What is with the home markets all over the world? So many people out of work yet everyone has money for a new house? Are businesses buying up the houses to rent them? I feel for you Lara. I do know that the home meant for you will come to you. We literally fell into our forever home last year when we werent really looking. My advice is to pray, live your best life and keep looking. My daughter bought her first home last fall in a very hot market after being heartbroken a couple of times. Her perfect home also came to her almost effortlessly in the end. The sellers were touched that my daughter and hubby were first time buyers who really loved the house. The seller stopped showing the house and accepted their offer immediately vs. waiting and getting more. They were already getting more than expected because of how hot things are. Trust God and your untuition. Maybe take a break and evaluate everything again. Make sure you're listening with your heart and pray. God can and does move mountains ❤

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much, Sheila, that is such wonderful advice. I trust that the right thing is out there and will find us! ✨

[@grahamlampert8887]

Awe I’m so sorry you didn’t get your dream home Lara. I was praying you were going to say they accepted your offer in the end. Don’t give up hope I’m sure your dream home will turn up eventually just so sorry you are having to wait so long for it. 🤞🏻 things turn out better next time. Karen x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much, Karen!! Xx

[@sssllls]

I’ve just got around to watching this and arghh how frustrating for you! 😢 I honestly feel your pain we’ve been looking for the last year and everything’s going so quick and over asking! Would you consider looking at new builds again? I know they tend to be more expensive but if you have the money, I’d say go for it to cut out all of the heartache and stress from viewings, offers, annoying estate agents etc! Just something to think about! But you will find a home soon i know it 🤞🏻 Sending positive vibes your way! 💞

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much, Sarah!! Funnily enough we were talking yesterday about new builds! It just seems like so much heartache! x

[@lizaprideaux]

Argh I had such high hopes for you, so invested in this journey with you guys. Fingers crossed for next time 🏡 x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks lovely! We really thought it was the one! X

[@mariasnape3442]

I really feel for you and I am in exactly the same situation. Currently it is an absolute nightmare especially for FTB. We can't compete with those that have cash to buy especially. I contacted some smaller estate agents yesterday for some advice and to be placed on their lists hoping that something may come along. It is heartbreaking and understand how you feel. Sending love and hugs to you and everyone else in this situation! 💕

[@amandacartrettewithautism6885]

I Am Going To The Arc Program Tomorrow, Lara.

[@gameplayerjames]

Oh I am absolutely heartbroken for you! I really struggled to get an offer accepted on a house as a single buyer, as my budget was limited. I got there in the end with a buyer who chose someone who wanted a family there over an investor, but I completely get the despair every time you are turned down. I really do hope your forever home is round the corner x x

[@peanut383shoe]

Feel for you! We’ve been looking on and off for 1/2 years. But with the market at the moment it’s just ridiculous… we’ve decided we’re waiting another year or two. It’s hard but hoped things will calm down soln

[@abbieray4309]

Hang in there Lara. It's a tough market. Such a frustrating process. Wishing you and your family the very best. P.S. definitely not boring watching these x

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much, Abbie! I’m pleased you don’t find them boring x

[@marf1999]

So sorry Lara! Take care of yourself!

[@alexandrasmicikova5808]

Every time I see u made another video about byuing the house, I say to myself, hope they get this house. Its so sad the u had so many let downs, I feel for u. Its a nightmare and I hope the right house is just around the corner for u and it will happen soon!!!! ❤️

[@shoshanachavab]

So so,sorry you missed this house. Hope the next one will be the right one

[@hannahw3068]

With what you're saying at the end about it being groundhog day - maybe the best thing at this point is to keep filming and then when you eventually find somewhere you could put together a long video with all the clips (although hopefully the next one will be the one anyway!). That way your channel doesn't get taken over by lots of similar videos, but people can still see all the frustration and time that goes into buying a house eventually- which I guess was part of the point of filming everything.

[@tarat26]

We had 20 viewings for the last house we loved. They had 24 offers considering over the asking price. Although we said we would pay above, the estate agent told us not to bother. Gutted. Hope this works for you

[@rxxx2792]

Thats why the estate agent didn't want you to put a higher offer as there was a cash buyer with the exact purchase price. When you like a house go direct to the vendor, pay a visit afterwards. Some not all estate agents undermine the duty of good faith etc ...

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

No way? Do they actually do that?! X

[@chrisnortney420]

Lara you don’t deserve this but can I just say put the house hunting on hold. Go enjoy your life . It’s only bricks and mortar. Put it on the back burner . Your time will come but in the meantime go enjoy what you have .Beautiful family .. good times to be shared . You are a lovely mother and partner ! 💛

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Oh that’s so kind, and so true! It’s so hard not to be so over invested in it but it really is something that I shouldn’t let over take our lives! Xx

[@shine388]

Oh Lara, you will get there. As you say, everything happens for a reason. We’ve been selling and buying in this scary market too, I’ve never seen anything like it but things are still coming up for sale so things are moving. Hopefully now the stamp duty holiday is coming to an end normality will resume and somewhere lovely will come on for you guys soon. Since your last video we’ve been going through the many highs and lows of offering on a gorgeous house about 30 seconds’ drive down the road. We’ve now got our full mortgage in place, had the structural survey report back and the seller has agreed to lower the price a bit for everything that needs to be done. I don’t think you truly relax until you exchange contracts to be honest. It’s such a hard market to be a part of at the moment but try to keep upbeat and attract good news your way. Your house is out there, it’s just waiting for the right moment to be put up for sale 🤞❤️

[@TheWellnessAbbey]

You're right, it's hard to fully relax until you exchange and even between exchange and completion it was still stressful!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Ah I hope that you’ve now completed on your dream home! Congratulations xx

[@shine388]

@@LaraJoannaJarvis thank you but we still haven’t exchanged!! We’re 5 months into the process now so hoping to end this soon and we’ve sworn that the next time we buy/sell will be to downsize to our retirement bungalow! 🤣 Can’t go through this stress again for a while! Hope things are going well for you guys with your search, the market is still very strange with very few properties coming onto the market here. Hope you find your one really soon! 💞

[@julielatour2836]

Hello Lara ! I'm so sorry, I understand how frustrating it can be. The same thing is happening for me in France : too many buyers and not enough houses on the market and sometimes a house is sold in less than 15 minutes (it happened to me a week ago, I almost cried).I hope you'll find your perfect house soon ! Good luck :)

[@juliebrooke6099]

Remember the estate agent works for and is paid by the vendor. Never give anything away to them that is not absolutely necessary as it may be used against you. Although you are in a good position because you don’t have a house to sell and are not in a chain, there is a real shortage of availability at the moment so sellers can pick and choose.

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

I need to learn to say much less!! I just couldn’t keep my thoughts inside for this one! We loved it so much. Xx

[@olivaparker9013]

I feel so much for you. Such a heartbreaking position to be in. The house market has gone insane

[@1976nf]

I was nervous for you watching this. I'm sorry for you and Stu & the boys. Random suggestion could you apply to Location Location Location and get Kirtsy and Phil on your side? Keep going Lara. ❤ xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Haha I could!! Do you think they’d have me?! I wonder what they’d think of this market! X

[@1976nf]

@@LaraJoannaJarvis Yes I think you would be perfect. I think they would believe the (property) world has gone mad!! Xx

[@rabbitcarrot4799]

I have been through the exact experience recently, so crazy, so stress, the moment I have been informed my offer has been rejected, I felt so sad..But like other people said anything happened for a reason, definitelt not worth stress.

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you. Yes, it's so stressful but I have every faith that our house is out there for us, and same for you! x

[@shaneltalbert6263]

I’m so sorry that is so hard 💕💕💕

[@Livingwithlucy]

Oh guys! I am so sorry 😞 Have you considered writing the owners a personal letter and posting it? You cannot guarantee the estate agent passed on your full email and I find it doubtful that they did. You could say how much you loved the house, your position, how your journey has been and your top offer. Then ask them to contact you should the house return to market for any reason. You never know what might happen in this market xxx

[@Livingwithlucy]

@@asimplealtar I disagree about it being an unfair tactic to register an interest. Note I said "should the house return to market". If the buyers pull out, what is the harm in being the first person that comes to mind to contact in this instance? I find cash buyers swooping in and closing purchases on houses as investment properties before they even make it to market far worse.

[@IsabellaKerwin]

We have just been through EXACTLY the same situation with a place! It was so so incredibly stressful! It just felt like there was no hope! It's so helpful seeing someone else go through the same situation so you know you're not the only ones! It really is so emotionally draining! We have actually now found our DREAM house and had the offer accepted but we had to view and offer on the day it went on the market which is crazy?! I really hope you guys find somewhere that you love soon!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Things are so fast paced at the moment!! So happy for you guys finding your dream home though!! Congratulations x

[@IsabellaKerwin]

@@LaraJoannaJarvis they really are ridiculous! Thank you so much! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you! X

[@gkr8271]

We were bidding on a house. Offered over 20k over the asking price and were like 8th in line. It's just so volatile and so hard at the moment!

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Wow! That's crazy!! xx

[@tarat26]

Oh gosh cash buyer 😭. That's how we lost our ideal house area. We were told it would go back on the market in a few months as property is being done up and resold - expect to pay an extra 300k though for the development. We loved it as it was. Desperately wanting our family home but there is nothing. Hang in there. They say things happen for a reason.

[@janmicallef415]

Love your videos, even though sometimes heart breaking. Would you be able to buy a price of land and build a house or try at auction? I know auction properties will probably need renovating but you will have a property that is yours. Good luck xxx

[@hazelrogers2455]

Instead of a bidding war we asked the people interested to write why they want the house and then the price they want to offer ? We took the best couple who could move quickly and the lowest price . Keep going

[@patriciaobrien3363]

I'm so sorry you didn't get it, I was so excited for you 😩

[@arvinderbains3880]

Buy it see if you can get even if it interest only mortgage. Then you can change to repayment mortgage. Renting is money down the drain. Best of luck. My prays are with you all xxx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Do you mean going up higher than our budget? Xx

[@arvinderbains3880]

@@LaraJoannaJarvis Yes which seems hard now. But your property will go up in value. This is the secret of getting on the property ladder. The other option is to buy at auction and do a house up. Just the way you want to. Live in a caravan or with friends and build your dream home. Pray to God and he will make it happen for you and your family xx

[@ashleybooth88]

I’m so sorry for you , it’s took us 2 years of looking and 20 weeks to complete it’s a nightmare at the moment: when the market went quiet I posted on local Facebook sites if anyone was selling privately and I was surprised how many were. The sellers are more flexible on price as they’re cutting the agents fees out and you both just go straight to solicitors to put the sale through. Maybe an option for you to find something that isn’t on general sale x

[@theduchessofmearns]

I agree. Quite a few folk are putting feeler posts out on the local FB community pages and others lettering houses in their chosen area.

[@ashleybooth88]

@@theduchessofmearns it kinda worked for us. We spotted a house that was for sale but not receiving viewings as it was being de-shaled. The agents wouldn’t contact the seller for me so I found her through Facebook. Was first in the door for viewings, had offer accepted and no one else viewed it. We hopefully complete on Wednesday all going well. It’s 100% worth an ask on Facebook someone always knows who is selling it and sometimes helps to be able to speak to the seller rather than a money hungry agent who wants to squeeze every penny of commission out of you

[@theduchessofmearns]

@@ashleybooth88 yes you need to think outside the box a bit. Good luck ! 😀

[@amyleaver2708]

I could feel how deflated you are, I’m so sorry it didn’t go your way. I’m a believer in fate and there’s a reason that property wasn’t for you. Wishing you and your lovely family lots of luck going forward xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thanks so much for the support!! 🤞🏼🥰

[@karenccs67]

So sorry you missed out again xx

[@deehobbs4016]

so sorry about the house, you must feel drained

[@sarahvob]

Oh I’m soooo sorry again for you. The market is mental. Maybe it will settle within another 6 months or so.

[@rachellouise3193]

Have you thought about contacting Kirsty and Phil (location, location, location)?

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

I need to do this! X

[@Cath189]

I'm so sorry Lara this was heartbreaking to watch!! What's meant for you guys will come I can feel it!! I think you addressed this but did you ever decide whether it was worth looking outside of your area? Obv the downside is not being close to family but I know over here in Northern Ireland (we moved from London and bought a house last Nov) the market is a lot less hectic at the min and you get a lot more for your money, so many gorgeous houses with massive gardens, we're in a new build and the garden is the same sq ft as the house which I never seen in England but I'm sure some other parts of England may be the same too if they're a little further out. We're loving the new pace of life here there's still enough entertaining things to do but also there's the slow living side of it, we garden and go for walks, visit beaches and country parks and explore little seaside towns - all stuff we never did in London! If you haven't been recently maybe extend your search and consider something you maybe wouldn't usually - everything else will work itself out once you find the house, don't box yourself in too much unless they're absolute non-negotiables!! Got my fingers crossed for you xx

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Thank you so much. We’ve looked along the coast from us too as we’d love to be by the sea but still the market is wild there too! Xx

[@jillharper1982]

So sorry.... would you ever consider asking if the buyers plan to rent the house out, and you could carry on renting but in a house you love. X

[@Bex6220]

Oh Lara I feel so sad for you. The right one is out there for you. Maybe going back to new builds is the way to go. The Market is just so silly, What I don't understand is how mortgage lenders loan £50k-£60k over the asking price. I pray we're not going to enter a period of lots of negative equity once this has all settled.

[@maureengreen5878]

Would you consider a new build that way you don’t have to go through all this. Also I agree with other comments about make strong offer and speak to them directly ask them to take it off the market. Or contact Kirsty and Phil!!

[@CatGoesMiaw]

I feel your pain, we have sold and moving out of our house in two days and finding it impossible to buy at the minute! Keep losing houses to ridiculous offers when the houses are nowhere near that value. So many people wanting to buy and house prices are getting ridiculous because of it 😩 xxx

[@mariacharalambous123]

Could you consider a new build where you only need to reserve the house? X

[@barbarahughes6009]

Lara,would you consider moving out of London?