Single. Sober. Celibate - Not A Flex 😮‍💨

[@smallbigsister_]

My chosen lifestyle until it feels right and safe to unpause ❤

[@faithmwania1342]

Girl, you are me, I am you. Everything you said reflects where I'm at in my life. Single, sober, and celibate going on 2 years now and loving my life.

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

Love this for you. Love it for us! It’s not easy but I’m sure you’ll agree that on many fronts, it’s worth it ❤

[@ndunyamunene8161]

Same here, choose celibacy and sobriety almost 2 years now. And it's not a flex and that doesn’t make me better than anyone. It's just a personal choice and what works for me. ❤

[@gracekimani627]

Oh my Gosh, i thought i was on this journey by myself!!! This is me Single, sober and celibate. The last time i had i drink was December 2021 before i got pregnant with my baby who is two now. Later on i realised the person i was with has been lying all through and i ended up being single pregnant and with a four year old in 🇬🇧🇬🇧 and let me tell you maina it was hard!!😢 Here i am feeling strong and knowing i have other sisters on this journey with me 🤗🤗

[@winniewawira]

This is very brave and beautiful. I really appreciate the conversation.❤

[@mpendaamani2251]

Being celibate is so far the best decision I've made for myself. Thank you Janet for this conversation

[@Janice-sd7hl]

I love tis Bby girl,she oozes wisdom,we are in the same class of thought,more grace to yu dear.

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

Much love ❤️

[@fionaachieng8270]

Janet is one of the great women of our time

[@Wanjagi254]

I like what you said that we make certain decisions in life not because it's fun like being intentionally single, let's be honest, it gets lonely at times but you look at why you're doing it, to evolve into a better person n be more self aware or whatever other reasons n that's okay. N on this journey, I've learnt, you'll have to make sacrifices every so often if you want to live a more quality life or like Abraham Maslow calls it, self actualize.

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

I love how you’ve put it. Thank you! It can get lonely, it can be confusing. But ultimately it’s a worthwhile sacrifice because of the clarity that comes with it. Wishing us more grace ❤

[@peterkabiru5144]

wow. Well said. Another anchor to check on is (Romans 12:2) Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God-this is your true and proper worship.

[@peterkabiru5144]

​@@Hobby_trails_family_unedited Hi... find time and go through 1st Corinthians Chapter 7: the whole chapter. It talks about the married, the unmarried, single and the divorced... You will get a lot more insights about it

[@virginiawaruingi]

Its a choice I've made too I'm glad more people are talking about it

[@liliangor5130]

Proud of you

[@sheilamarangu]

I am loving the Celebrities who are open about Celibacy. 4B Movements 🙌🙌😎

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

It seems to be a growing movement but everyone is on their own journey. Thanks for this 🙏🏾✨

[@tomatosoup6440]

Which celebrity?

[@sheilamarangu]

@@tomatosoup6440 Her n Many others who are international celebraties

[@alicealice4426]

It's a choice i made too and it has given me clarity into what i want as a person and opened me up to be more self aware.

[@Jojo.kazumi]

Guuuurrrllll....I resonate with this a hundred percent! My Lord! You are so real so authentic and intelligent! Healing is a beautiful journey!

[@onejikospeaks]

I'm on this very journey and I'm learning a lot and I love it here. So much peace and perspective 🙏

[@jeddyngarah]

You are amazing, and thanks for always speaking up and sharing your opinion. You are definitely well spoken and I am learning from you how to relay thoughts and opinions. That said, society defines us and often puts us in a box whose walls we are often restricted within. You have clearly surpassed those boundaries, yet still face the same sentiment from the society. It is upon us to speak up and challenge this narrative. I am here to learn from you and carry it on ❤

[@NungariwaMuchaiCeo]

I have seen wonders on celibacy,things work faster and better.Am celibate too for a minute

[@SB0810]

Good one! The assumption that we can all make the choice of where we want to be has to be the big ahaaa...

[@graceleboo5462]

Janet!I can listen to your rich wisdom a million times.❤

[@harrietbosibori]

You have spoken my mind❤❤❤thanks for sharing

[@calebmwendwamuthama1477]

What a rich talk. Thank you Janet, God be with you.

[@solomonweru8874]

Where is god in these mediocrity conversation 😮

[@irenenjeri8720]

This choice is the best.. It gives you peace, and makes you a very strong individual cause you not conforming to what everyone else is doing, on the same journey.

[@margaretchimea173]

I love your topics, they are thought provoking and eye opening. Asante. ❤

[@jaccylaughter]

Thank you Janet❤

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

Thank you too, for being here ❤

[@fidelarthur9656]

A big admirer of your work and passion for years. The celibacy decision has been making rounds among African American women as well. With due respect, I find the celibacy decision more common with 35+ years women. Why? After giving the youthful years to bad boys, monied men and partying and then somehow women find celibacy and the church? Studies have shown that 80% of women are only interested in 20% of men...nothing personal to your or your situation, promise. The current celibacy movement is not incentivized by any altruistic reason but the reality of the dating marketplace. I come in peace.

[@MKPrin76]

You really wrote all of that when you should have just said that YOU HATE WOMEN! Keep patting yourself on the back for some nonsensical, 'I 'gottcha narrative'. Women have choices and they will continue to excercise them, cry harder!

[@gracewanjiru4858]

This is pure wisdom, i Can relate.

[@OfficialJanetMbugua]

Much appreciated 🙏🏾 I’m learning everyday ❤

[@SweettoothMarie77]

I had no idea that Janet is single... I thought that she's married

[@yayo_mfalme]

You're so beautiful 😍❤️ and RUTO MUST GO 🇰🇪✊😎

[@bancywangui312]

😂😂😂

[@yayo_mfalme]

@bancywangui312 ama namna gani my fren 🤝😂

[@misssavannah973]

😂must go must go ....Janet is beautiful

[@yayo_mfalme]

@misssavannah973 viva comrade 🇰🇪✊😎😅

[@Faithiman221]

I agree she is beautiful and Ruto must go..Amen

[@viviangachuru]

Way to go Janet

[@carolkimeu5556]

Plug for the top

[@monicakinyanjui8600]

❤

[@jaybillions2023]

all i heard is maybe some day...There is hope for you young Turks !

[@Jojo.kazumi]

3rd year now! into celibacy & It's the most fulfilling journey ✨️ & yeah I look forward to a beautiful sex life in the future- at the right time. Life is beautiful when you embrace healing ❤❤❤

[@mulberrystudio22]

Ikr......

[@Famhere_]

Sex and pleasure and faith. Yea you are navigating yiur faith but you can't change the word. Sex outside marriage is fornication. I am nit posting this to be self righteous but just to say yiu can't peddle sex outside marriage if talking about faith.

[@meanda7541]

💯 Correct

[@mediatrisawino2441]

Earings

[@poundnatel1501]

"we hold so many truths to .." what do u mean.... morality depends on where we are at in life 😢

[@HibiscusfamilyKE]

Celibacy siku hizi mnaanza mkiwa wadogo aje. JM is barely 36/37 jamani. That's a hot age.

[@ichooseviolence2532]

When they get older they start celibacy bs coz they can't compete with the young girls

[@tomatosoup6440]

Darling you're a 30+ single mum. Celibacy is a non-issue at your age. That's a topic I'd expect from a Gen-Z 🙌 Just saying

[@salomekenneth4]

Wooooiii what a poor mind is this

[@tomatosoup6440]

@@salomekenneth4 This is not about your per!od poverty 🤭 Focus

[@Francisqolito]

Hey, I remember seeing you on citizen tv and I was drawn by how articulate you were. I wrote up a small Gĩkũyũ Wikipedia article (from what I could glean up online at the time) on you. ki.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Janet_Mbugua