Officiate the Perfect Wedding Ceremony with This Script (Like a Pro)

Instead of grabbing a canned pre-written script from one of the 695,691 webpages out there, start with my full 10-part classic wedding ceremony script outline instead.
A canned script is restrictive right out of the gate. It says, “I’m not really sure what I’m doing.” When we use a wedding ceremony script outline, it communicates to our couple that we’re both flexible and structured. The process ends up being way more collaborative, and the finished ceremony ends up being way more personal.
It’s the difference between “Hey, I bought this cake. Now eat it.” and “Hey, let’s make a cake!” Or something.
Here is the ceremony script outline I start with for 100% of the weddings I officiate: the classic 10-part wedding.
In this video, I'll show you how to write a wedding ceremony script with total confidence like a pro.
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0:00 How To Officiate A Wedding
0:30 1. Ceremony Kickoff
1:13 2. Processional
2:19 3. Officiant's Speech
3:22 4. Exchange of Vows
3:59 5. Exchange of Rings
4:25 6. Pronouncement
4:57 7. Signing the Legal Docs
5:26 8. Closing Remarks
6:08 9. Presentation
6:35 10. Recessional
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[@dereksmith6097]

got it

[@goodfirebyabook]

This annihilated my stress levels. Thank you!

[@brentguest8605]

Same

[@jokerboii2008]

I was thinking the same thing after I saw this video haha.

[@SetMeFree]

I’ve been freaking out for over a year.

[@gregorymurray157]

Thanks, Mark. This is new to me after 40 years as a Radio and Wedding DJ. I am now a Universal Life Church Officiant.

[@jackwalker4180]

Brilliant information. I'm officiating my first wedding and you have settled my mind and now I feel confident to do this! Thank you for your time!!

[@jananusic208]

Excellent Video! Excuse me for chiming in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you tried - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (should be on google have a look)? It is a good one of a kind product for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech without the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate at very last got great success with it.

[@azulejo6136]

Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "celebrity wedding speeches" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my m8 got great success with it.

[@luisalfredoacostaurgelles940]

This is glorious, I have been researching "free sample wedding speeches and toasts" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my friend got great results with it.

[@johardylmots_bpk3329]

Winner of a video, I have been researching "sample wedding toasts speeches" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.

[@karenbetancourt2744]

Winner of a video, I have been researching "sample wedding toasts speeches" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.

[@a.j.schlotman5677]

I'm officiating my dad's wedding in October and I've had zero idea what to do and this really was so helpful thank you 🥰

[@chrislluv]

Thank you for this. I am officiating my boss wedding this weekend and I haven't slept in 2 days 🙃 but now I feel confident after watching this. Thank you!

[@schmairds]

Just officiated my first wedding for one of my best friends... I used your format and it went fantastically! I had many guest coming up to me afterward saying what a great job I did and most of all the bride and groom loved it too! Thank you for posting these videos!

[@jeffmoves]

what did you say do you have a script?? i'm about to do this too, super nervous

[@DeanOMiite]

Very helpful. I'm officiating my sister's wedding next weekend and they've been almost TOO loose in what they're asking for in a ceremony, having an outline to follow is great!

[@cynthiacruz9030]

im in the exact same boat!

[@dunerider88]

yep HAHA, same! And why i'm here

[@robbiesmoonmusic]

Same! I’m officiating my friend’s wedding and she’s been so picky about everything until it comes to me officiating lmaooo like now is the time I could really use some whip-cracking but thank God for these resources

[@DeanOMiite]

@@robbiesmoonmusic RIght?! Like I can handle freeform but give me SOME guidance lol My sister's wedding went awesome btw, they loved what I prepared so it all worked out.

[@ToLoveGod]

@@DeanOMiite That encouraged me cause I’m in the same situation lol, thanks dude

[@MatthewShealey]

Hey Mark. I Just officiated my cousins wedding 2 weekends ago. In front of 200+ family members and friends. It was my very first time, and with the help of your videos and instruction It was a Complete Success! Thank you for sharing your gift with all of us. And If I ever get up to Canada, Lunch is on me! Your friend, Matthew Shealey from Columbia SC. All the Best & Keep up the good work!

[@johnbenedict4106]

Just wanted to send you a BIG thank you Mark!!! I officiated my first (and likely last!) wedding in October. It went very well, mainly because of all your great advice. I was pretty freaked out about the event and your videos really helped calm me down and give me the confidence I needed. God bless you my friend! Thanks again for being such a great resource!

[@eafortuna]

Just officiated my first (and probably only) wedding for some dear friends, and this structure was infinitely helpful. Their friends and family said I killed it, and I even impressed their wedding planner at the rehearsal. Thank you so much!!

[@unboringwedding]

I love to hear it! So glad you killed it and that I played a small role in getting you there. Grateful. Best to you!

[@LetJesusTouchUrLife]

I am officiating my pastor's daughter's wedding this weekend because she wants her father to only be Dad that day and to walk her in. This has helped me out so much, as it is the first wedding I am officiating! I am excited and give glory to God for such a special privilege to officiate such a special ceremony... And thank you for this video that will help me do this confidently!!!!!

[@unboringwedding]

Officiating for your pastor‘s daughter - no pressure! Lol! Congrats on the privilege and honour of doing that. Thanks for taking the time let me know - I’m so glad I can help! Much success to you in this ceremony.

[@ravagemonkey]

I’m doing a wedding for some close friends of mine this coming summer and this video has helped me tremendously so thank you I appreciate it and keep up the good work

[@Dave-vp8qb]

Thank You! My son and soon to be daughter-in-law asked me to Officiate their wedding-now its two weeks off! Obviously, I could not refuse, but as our planning meeting approached, it all became real! I expected to get adequate planning tools from the internet Ministry/Officiant license provider--but not so much. I shook off the fear and dove right into KZbin. Thankfully I found all your tools! I’ve been pecking away at my script and plan to have a final meeting next Wednesday to make any necessary tweaks. I would be absolutely lost, up-the-creek, had I not found your videos! Incredible resource! You covered every nook and cranny! Thanks.

[@NV-uv3yz]

Officiating my first wedding in 2 weeks. Plot twist, it's for my little sister. I'm thinking I'll be more nervous on her wedding day than mine. Thank you. Thank you for your efforts. Much appreciated good sir.

[@txdragon22]

I just want to say Thank you... you made my first time doing a wedding so easy and better than I thought I would do.. It was not perfectly done without out a hiccup but after watching all your videos (many times) I learned that no one knows the hiccup but me so make the best of them and keep it fun and enjoying... I just made it part of the wedding. Telling everyone that this part is where I always stumble but rest assure we will make it through this little hiccup.. and we all laugh a little... bride and groom loved it and guests said they really enjoyed the up beat relaxed feel of this wedding and thanked me .... I got 3 more weddings from this one wedding and they want the same laid back fun style wedding.... so I just want to say Thank you

[@paiges1262]

Hello, I just wanted to write to you and say thank you. I had already put together a lot of my wedding ceremony as a one-day officiant when I discovered your videos, I had even written my own questionnaire to interview the wedding couple! Even though I didn’t need more specific help from you, I found your videos to be very informative, and quite encouraging for this novice. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate that you put all of this information out here and how kind and supportive you are to basically a community of strangers. I performed the wedding on Sunday to rave reviews from the bride and groom and family and friends, we had a wonderful time, and it was the just right thing for my very dear friends whom I officially married on Sunday. At any rate, I just wanted to thank you for being out there and putting this out into the universe, it was helpful and lovely and I think you’re terrific! Have a great day!

[@ownagemcpwnage2663]

Dude I’m getting married in a little over a month and your video helped me understand all the steps involved in the ceremony and I cannot tell you how much better I feel after watching. THANK YOU

[@jimgerwitz2617]

I don't normally comment, but I want to thank you for all these videos! I am officiating my best friend's wedding in a short time and have been admittedly completely terrified. I feel much more confident now and will be watching these again as we get closer to maintain that confidence.

[@chadm7737]

Oh my goodness - I can not thank you enough for all your guidance!!! I officiated my niece's wedding this past weekend and there is NO WAY it would have went as smoothly as it without your help here!!! It helped me from planning ahead of time, to meeting with the couple to plan the service, to the pep talk before the ceremony (which I'm a huge believer in now!!!), through the ceremony and right through the couple walking out married. So helpful - Thank you so much Mark!!! One suggestion for anyone else officiating for the first time - practice a few times a day or so before, out loud and live. Helps a lot!

[@kimmiller4445]

Incredible stuff!! Starting a new career as an officiant and your information/advice was incredible! Thanks so very much.

[@danmexon]

Thank you so much for all your videos and tips! I did my frist wedding last weekend and I freaking killed it!everyone afterwards was congratulating me on how great I was up there! Thank you so much

[@michaeldlawrence]

Perfect video - Thank you!! Officiating my first wedding on Saturday and this helped A LOT! Thank you!

[@theresaintheusvi5330]

Thank you for this great video! I was ordained two years ago, and have been unsure about some of these steps. Now, I feel more confident with your tips.

[@sharonbarwickweddings]

Your video's are always great reminders that keep me on track with my ceremonies!

[@johnwiscombe877]

Absolutely perfect info for the wedding I am doing for my niece next month. I have several ideas for what I want to say but this helped me organize what I am planning into a fluid ceremony that will be so much better after watching your video. Thank you for taking the time and being so straight forward and concise in your directions. Thank you!!!

[@bobfern13]

Thanks for this. I'm doing my daughter's wedding, and I needed to be reminded of the flow. I'm going with the couple's story as my remarks.

[@lustifier3451]

it’s my dads and stepmoms wedding tomorrow! I needed to say the words for the wedding and this helped me so much, thank you!

[@deangibson5930]

Hey Mark you get the coach of the year honors!! I did my 1st wedding on May 1st 2021 I borrowed your 10 part- broke it down to 7- modified it to fit me, took a DEEP breath and went at it FANTASTIC RESULTS!! I got 4or5 maybe 6 offers to do other weddings!! I dont know if its gonna be my thing but I do know a guy who could be a great fill in for me LOL!!! you are inspirational THANK YOU!!

[@andrewthielmann5342]

This was excellent! Thank you! I've been over thinking this so much.

[@paulshadlow5330]

I am currently studying to be a Marriage Celebrant in Australia and I must say that your videos have been a great resource . Plain simple advice from a professional. A lot of questions answered before I even asked them. Well done Sir.

[@cjvanacker]

thank you for your expertise and support.. u took a nervous man and made me a confident officiant.. thanks again

[@Cmdylvr]

I just officiated my first wedding over the weekend. It went great! I watched a ton of your videos for different pieces of advice and guidance. The wedding planner couldn’t believe it was my first wedding and the photographer couldn’t believe I wanted to actually discuss details with him. Oh! And the rehearsal was a huge help as well! The parents loved the ceremony… the couple loved it… And I just wanted to send you a quick thank you!

[@mandreyka]

Hey Mark I really want to thank you again for your videos, you really helped me officiate a wedding this past weekend for some family friends. I did make the big mistake of forgetting to tell them to be seated LOL, even though I had it written down on the page. Wedding went off great!

[@rev.claudia9843]

Thank you so much - I'm a recently licenced officiant (with a couple ceremonies under the stole) from the Haldimand-Norfolk of Lake Erie Shoreline and appreciate your expertise.

[@msjr1765]

Thank you so much! Very nicely laid out. This was just what I was needing.

[@aliciabloise6577]

I just got ordained last month so I could officiate a friend of mine's wedding and it's my first.. This was extremely helpful.. THANK YOU!!!

[@MikeFrazierMD]

THANK YOU for this video. I didn't know how to even get started on this. Great to have these guidelines.

[@bagbeatums1]

Breezed through my first wedding! Thanks from California

[@Kidderrgaming]

As a lot of comments have said, this has made me feel a lot better about this! Thank you

[@Dlwinborne]

Thank You so much for this step-by-step overview of how to officiate a wedding. My wife’s cousin asked me to officiate her wedding, so I have completed all the required jurisdictional certifications and I have an idea as to how to proceed. This guide you have provided has helped me firm up my Officiant’s Plan! Thanks again!!!

[@4regoverland]

Great video - thanks for posting this!! Took a lot of stress off my shoulders and mind!

[@bhclark6128]

Thank you for the information. I have been asked to officiate a friend's wedding in the Florida Keys soon. You have really helped me out!!

[@brennenmoloney4736]

Thank you for this! I'm officiating my friend's wedding this upcoming summer and this was very helpful.

[@omarsalazar6600]

I've officiated a few wedding now. His videos have been very helpful.

[@trentstewart8671]

My brother’s wedding is this weekend and this is a great help, thank you so much!

[@MrWilsonThanks]

I’m doing my first wedding in April, this was so helpful.!

[@CrystalMushroom]

Lifesaver! Thank you for this video

[@MW66VB]

Thanks for this. I am performing my first wedding next month. this provided a great deal of info.

[@donnadrum5447]

I'll be officiating my Grandson's wedding in September and had no clue what to do. Great information. Thank you for your informative video.

[@rachelfriend4424]

Thanks for posting great vids, sending love from London!

[@Falders1]

This video is a terrific help for a first timer like me. Thanks!

[@nate806]

this was so extremely helpful, thank you so much

[@heaslyben]

Thanks for the rundown!

[@alexanderjohnson5585]

holy hell. this turned my anxiety levels from 9 down to about a 4. Thank you very much!

[@Iloverugby]

Mark, Thank You for the solid advice and explicit examples of how to officiate a wedding for the first time. it went very well thanks in large part to you!

[@unboringwedding]

That’s awesome to hear, Michael - thanks so much for taking the time to let me know! I’m thrilled for you!

[@creativeladyplus]

Thank-you for posting and sharing your experiences. I took notes :-) They are very helpful!! I am about to officiate at my first wedding of a long time friend ( 30 years) tomorrow and have been trying to ward off anxiety all week LOL . Blessings and Gratitude!

[@raquelmata9247]

Thank You! This is going to help for my Wedding next week.

[@jacobdriver9267]

This was immensely helpful! Thank you so much!

[@emilie6356]

i’m officiating my boss’ wedding on saturday and this helped me SO much. thank you!

[@davey929]

Thanks for this great video. I was asked, by my sister, to officiate her wedding and I'm super nervous. This was very helpful.

[@ShowPeaceEnt]

Thank you. Straight to the point and considerate. U rock

[@kb-qc3zf]

My lifelong best friend asked me if I would be willing to get ordained to officiate her wedding. Of course I accepted without hesitation. Being the scatter-brain I am tho, I panicked. Thank you for laying it all out for me in such a simplistic way! :)

[@jimgreen4163]

I'm doing my 1st wedding in Sept and it happens to be with my oldest son. This is good stuff! Thanks!

[@stalkerorstalker]

Glad you posted this, helped a lot, thanks!

[@MrRussiancoma]

I'm going to do my first wedding, you were talking about me when you began!!🤣 thank you!

[@Mickey377]

This is so helpful. Thank you!!

[@ShewolfLauren]

Mark, thank you so much!

[@jasonedouard2462]

Great Information, thank you!

[@MikeJones-vb1me]

I’m about to officiate a wedding for the first time for some good friends. I’ve got it kinda figured but this is going to fill the gaps and make me feel much more prepared. Thank you!

[@dartagnantaft5918]

I'm about to officiate my second wedding. This one is for my niece and I want it to be perfect. Thanks for the tips.

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Great job!!! Easy❤️❤️❤️ I’ll bet you are awesome ❤️

[@laurietonon1636]

Thank you so much! So helpful!!

[@theshelftv430]

Life saving video

[@choosetoshine2610]

Excellent content and delivery!! New subscriber.

[@kimjaedicke3450]

Thank you this helps extremely!

[@catherinemcaleer4591]

I am doing my first wedding this summer and your tips are fantastic. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

[@unboringwedding]

You’re very welcome, Catherine! Congrats on your very first time and well done on doing some research ahead of time! :-)

[@amberhamilton-allen6759]

Thank you! Very to the point and I was able to design a Program Blueprint just listening!

[@proudofyourfreedom6274]

Calling my first wedding of my best bro this Saturday. I will be using some of this advice. Thanks.

[@yaserchow]

This was a great outline! Thanks a lot. :-)

[@gderdee6335]

I was making a wedding for my bunny and my friends bunno. Thanks for the information.

[@led6244]

I’m here because of The Big Planning podcast!

[@led6244]

@@unboringwedding omg they are both such lifesavers! I just got engaged and I listen to the everyday at work and I’ve learned a priceless amount of information that I’m grateful for, beyond measure.

[@das-md6577]

Wonderful!

[@chrisfreborg4642]

Fabulous! Thank you!!!

[@rickregister9424]

Hey Mark. I got my certification in the mail today so I am official finally

[@angrox87]

THANK YOU. 🙏

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This is awesome

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Great job

[@ajdrock]

Amazing video!

[@Highfivechurch]

This video just earned a subscriber!👏👏

[@robertdavis6613]

This is good.

[@jackarmstrong6453]

Extremely helpful. Thank you so much

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[@markofmckinney941]

I’m doing my first wedding in November and appreciate your script. It’s interesting that the couple signs the paperwork during the ceremony. Not common in the USA

[@4Isabella7]

This was sooo helpful! Ima be officiating my cousins wedding. The tricky thing is i got to do this in 3 languages!

[@1985ldiaz]

The dot over your left shoulder made me think something was on my screen...Thank you for the information!

[@paullesieur147]

This was great, I have been researching "wedding speeches for mother of the bride groom" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Heyonnor Speechless Eradicator - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my buddy got great success with it.

[@sarek22]

hahahaha I finally (spit) cleaned my screen like 3 times until it hit me.. there's nothing there!

[@fiorenzalifonti6714]

Thanks for the video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you ever tried - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (just google it)? It is a great exclusive product for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my close friend Aubrey after many years got astronomical success with it.

[@charlesbrucemellett5110]

Sing me up tobecom a minister

[@mackenzydan9279]

+ Mark Allan Groleau Excellent video content! Apologies for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Chiveard Unique Speech Framework (probably on Google)? It is a smashing exclusive guide for learning how to give an outstanding wedding speech without the hard work. Ive heard some decent things about it and my friend got great success with it.

[@adrianjoyce8088]

Thank you!!!

[@GTSierraFly]

Picked the hardest way to start, My only daughters wedding...... I want to hit a grand slam in the bottom of the ninth on this one. My baby girl deserves the best day ever!!!

[@unboringwedding]

Well, congrats on that! You got this! 👊

[@chadbaxter5578]

Doing my first wedding September 27th. Thanks!!!!

[@NeoNorr]

Great vid my friend. Thanks so much !!

[@NeoNorr]

Mark Allan Groleau my pleasure. Great info, not too long, very clear. Just your vids alone helping me build confidence to do my first wedding. You’re doing great work 👍

[@DS-pp7lo]

Thank you !!! you Rock

[@unboringwedding]

Thanks so much! Glad it helped. 👊🏻