"I'm not even done with the story and I can tell OP's fiance and his coworker are completely BONKING--or close to it.
@froopster34254 ай бұрын
If hitting the nail on the head was a person 😂😂😂
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
You don't know men well, do you?
@CherryBlossom_20044 ай бұрын
@@zaklex3165 They know men very well that's why they're saying it. I've heard hundreds of stories of countless people. It usually starts like that and then they end up cheating on their partner
@kristalparsons54734 ай бұрын
He's crying because he likes the attention he's getting from a YOUNGER woman--and he doesn't want to give it up. Walk away, baby, while you can.
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
So? Would you have a problem with enjoying attention from a YOUNGER man?
@ihaveabsolutelynoidea78184 ай бұрын
@@zaklex3165No one should be "seeking" or "feeding into" ANY inappropriate attention from another person who isn't their wife or husband 💀
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
@@ihaveabsolutelynoidea7818 Inappropriate in who's eyes? The receiver or the giver or the spouse/significant other...they were NOT married yet, just engaged?
@ihaveabsolutelynoidea78184 ай бұрын
@@zaklex3165 Being "just engaged" does not make you exempt from respecting your partner. She saw it as inappropriate, and so does everyone else. It should have been cut from there
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
@@ihaveabsolutelynoidea7818 I don't live in the 1950's but apparently the rest of you do.
@m.r.samis-lotr2d2304 ай бұрын
Yeah saw that update coming sadly."She's like the younger sister I never had". last time I checked you don't thoroughly discuss sexual encounters with your siblings 🤦
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
You must not read much news or watch many of life stories of people but surprisingly many close siblings do have those discussions they are that open...siblings can be best friends.
@kaynebula20934 ай бұрын
Yes, they do. Many people aren’t uncomfortable discussing stuff like that with their family. Doesn’t mean anything.
@destinyc78014 ай бұрын
Depends on the siblings, a lot of them do. It’s a spectrum, there’s a normal amount of sharing like asking for advice on certain things or talking about pregnancy.etc and then there’s an amount of sharing that’s completely unhinged, like those identical twins that have the same boyfriend because they want their children to be siblings.
@whitneybennett48574 ай бұрын
Brothers might discuss it or sisters might, but I'm pretty sure siblings of different genders typically don't explicitly describe their sexual encounters to each other.
@Hmmdontknow6664 ай бұрын
I have with my big sister on multiple occasions
@EmotionalSupportChaosDemon4 ай бұрын
Whether or not he's telling the truth. His co-worker is VERY MUCH in love with him or at least wants to have sex with him. If he is that clueless, it is still very much an emotional affair, if it isn't, he's just a straight up cheater in my opinion. Refusing to listen to his wife or compromise, complaining about losing a "friendship" and then arguing with her over it.
@Rosau_Johannsen4 ай бұрын
BRUHH, I can tell exactly where she's tryna lead him with the statement: "I'm not gonna speak with you ever again, now that your fianceé doesn't want us to.". Like bruh, what she's REALLY saying is: "It's either me or your fianceé.". So manipulative and immature behaivor. It's honestly so disgusting. Smh. And the fact that it seems like he's MUUUCH more worried about his like, 2-month-old relationship with some fresh woman he found randomly, than the relationship with the one he called "the love of his life", that he has put a massive amount of effort into building. A relationship that he has spent 4 years of time, time which is never coming back, and he's SERIOUSLY chucking it all out the window for the feeling of excitent from the attention he's getting, from an almost (1)stranger who is in a (2)completely different stage in life than him? He's spent 4 years of his life building a bond with his fianceé. He prolly knows every aspect of her like the back of his hand, and yet he's throwing out his marrige, for what could be a complete psychopath.
@lunarialoonatic4 ай бұрын
First story. Coworker is not a girls girl, she knew exactly what she was doing playing the “I’ll stay away from her” 🥺 card and the fiancé is falling for it either bc he’s delusion or likes her or just seriously naive. Either way, red flag
@loosilu4 ай бұрын
Yeah, that's a girl you should NEVER trust.
@reeses_unicorn4 ай бұрын
4:19 I'm not even all the way done with the story, yet, and I can tell OP's fiance and his coworker are completely bonkers.
@ManiiDee4 ай бұрын
BLARING RED FLAG. No boundaries. He’s either cheating or stupid.
@shadowboxer14 ай бұрын
OP's fiance and his coworker broke the number one rule among coworkers by keeping things strictly business, and if they do share details about their lives, it should be kept surface level. The fiance was flattered by this coworkers attention and her sharing her TMI sex life, and I get the suspicion the coworker wanted to get with him. OP was wise to issue an ultimatum to her fiance to stop associating with the coworker or she'll call off the wedding. The fact the fiance would even share this interaction with OP raises a red flag and indicates what an idiot he is. As soon as the coworker went TMI on him, the fiance should have walked away and probably should have reported it to HR. Remember, coworkers aren't your friends.
@loosilu4 ай бұрын
The co worker is actively throwing herself at him sexually.
@DuskWolf9134 ай бұрын
agreed all that TMI stuff is disgusting wtf is wrong with that girl? if I was another coworker and I overheard that s**t I would have walked up and insulted her for being a gross skank to someone elses fiance and if she didn't knock it off I would tell the boss and have her fired you don't discuss that BS at work 😒
@KathrynA9654 ай бұрын
How would the fiancé feel if OP was having a friendly relationship with a male coworker? I doubt he would be understanding of that
@Litchinensis4 ай бұрын
I won't be surprised if he ends up with that co-worker and finds out later on that she's cheating. I mean, why else would she share about her sex life? I also think the age gap has something to do with this too.
@kurisuchiinu12063 ай бұрын
First Story: BREAK UP!!! Major red flag!! Tell him to marry to co-worker because he cried for her than ruining his OG relationship.
@lolmfs4 ай бұрын
Self respect=Leaving his ass
@riel45534 ай бұрын
'She began describing in detail her s xual encounters' Yeah that's the culture in some offices, it rarely ends well. The term NSFW was coined for a reason! The girl is sharing info about her s xual encounters and the guy says it's completely innocent. ...¿¡Qué!? No way she's like a younger sister! He should've tried saying 'she's like one of the guys!' instead. Aside from whatever the 24-year old is trying to do, so he's been working at that place for how long? And then someone new shows up that "understands and laughs at his jokes". What type of jokes are we talking about? By the NSFW conversations I'm guessing it's the type of jokes that get you in trouble with HR and his coworkers didn't want to joke like that during work hours.
@clwbchbabycakes4 ай бұрын
Sweetie - you're not toxic - you're jaded. You've seen/heard so many stories of people mistreating one another that you know what to expect when things aren't right.
@piegirl82634 ай бұрын
Yeah that guy was gonna cheat
@crystalgemgirl7314 ай бұрын
If he wasn't already.
@Maya_hee4 ай бұрын
He is cheating. He isn't a child, he knows what he is doing. And that girl is disgusting
@gred_and_forge4 ай бұрын
I am not the OP, just pasting this from the original post: UPDATE #2 I sent him this post while he was at work. He read the comments and took them to heart. My fiancé came home from work with flowers. Crying heavily. I told him that this woman would try to speak with him behind my back and she did. He realized everything I told him and what he read here was true. He apologized for not acknowledging my feelings. He said that I am the greatest thing that happened to him and he doesn’t want to lose me over this situation. He will be calling a therapist next week for him to begin private sessions. We will move to couples therapy from that point. We haven’t set a date for the wedding so, we will continue the engagement without rushing anything. Thank you so much, everyone, for your advice. It was able to feel support from this community that I wasn’t getting elsewhere. I’m eternally grateful and I have hope that he will be able to turn this situation around.
@tsugima63174 ай бұрын
Someone at work means both of the emotional friendship pair are in a position to be fired. I hope they contemplate that. Maybe that was why he was unmarried at 36. Wonder if she was forced to change jobs because of incidents like this at her old job?
@ronin74304 ай бұрын
the guy is absolutely awful he's gaslighting op she should def break it off he's terrible, emotional, an immature also seems to lack critical reasoning skills. him being 36 is crazy, if she actually goes an marries this guy after all tht anything tht happens later on is on her lik the signs r thr an vry much clear
@justarandomhumann4 ай бұрын
For once I'm awake when she uploads, it's 7.13 here rn.
@아키라-d9e4 ай бұрын
(Copied from OP's original Reddit post) UPDATE #2 I sent him this post while he was at work. He read the comments and took them to heart. My fiancé came home from work with flowers. Crying heavily. I told him that this woman would try to speak with him behind my back and she did. He realized everything I told him and what he read here was true. He apologized for not acknowledging my feelings. He said that I am the greatest thing that happened to him and he doesn’t want to lose me over this situation. He will be calling a therapist next week for him to begin private sessions. We will move to couples therapy from that point. We haven’t set a date for the wedding so, we will continue the engagement without rushing anything. Thank you so much, everyone, for your advice. It was able to feel support from this community that I wasn’t getting elsewhere. I’m eternally grateful and I have hope that he will be able to turn this situation around.
@vansnk124 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing this new update!
@princessofhell46394 ай бұрын
Replying to boost
@stranger55764 ай бұрын
Man I haven’t watched this channel in years but you were such a huge part of my childhood and these videos will always have a special place in my heart :,))
@yunakaidenpedraza4 ай бұрын
i saw a comment on tiktok how its sad cus ur content is still 2016 but honestly i think its amazing and cool. u made my childhood better i wish you the best really
@Nicholaspimpinsohard4 ай бұрын
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, he is planning on cheating on the main protagonist and he isn't fooling anyone by trying to get close to his new young work employee neither. Why in the world would any man want to know when a woman is ovulating unless that's their boyfriend. She's treating him just like he's one of her lady friends. There is nothing at all about his so-called friendship with her that's innocent. He's definitely trying to get some from her and cheat on his fiancee. You see in normsl relationships the girlfriend or fiancee would've been interjected herself in between them and set the his female friend straight. What if she had a male friend who was talking all nasty and spicy like that to her, then I wonder what exactly would he say? She should do herself a huge favor and go ahead and just call off the engagement because he's a super looser. He's only known her for 2 months and 2 months only so how can he already view her as his little sister. Actually siblings don't even discuss their s*x lives with each other because that's just weird and to much information, and plus we don't want to know what our sibling be doing in the bedroom with their partner. He treating his fiancee just like a friend while he's really trying to get with his co-worker. You are his fiancee which means that their shouldn't be any secrets between you two, and she doesn't have anything at all to feel sorry about. Yes that is emotional cheating and he's basically bragging about it right to his fiancee's face. He should just go live with his work wife. I love you my precious friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
@justarandomhumann4 ай бұрын
I love these videos, thanks Kyutie!
@Kalynnlol7774 ай бұрын
Can you read two sentence horror stories? Been a fan of you since 2018 💗
@RayF61264 ай бұрын
My partner and I engaged in this behavior while he was single. It's now been years of us being together. I was hitting on him heavily, and dude was oblivious or ignoring the green flags I was weaving in his face. He told me later that he thought he wasn't worth my attention so he thought I was just opening up to him. I eventually just kissed him.
@justworkin174 ай бұрын
This is why I can't be bothered to get into a relationship.
@camip8964 ай бұрын
You look so pretty kyutieeeee like alwayssss💕💕💕🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
@UnknownKrisx4 ай бұрын
i’m leaving this comment here so after a month or a year when someone likes it, i get reminded of this video❤️
@shadowboxer14 ай бұрын
🥉
@NuriyahWhite4 ай бұрын
Preppy
@justworkin174 ай бұрын
That's so sweet😊
@meghaghosh2545Ай бұрын
I don't understand how there are some kind of people who just open up their intimate and private lives to people whom they have known for only a few months. Office collegue of 2 months, 12 years older than you and you just talk about your sex life with him like its no big deal? "This is just the way people in the office chat" i don't know which country this is but this is immensely inappropriate behaviour and you would be reported. And the guy is not that much of an idiot as people are taking him to be. He obviously clung to this particular point instead of the other one which shows his mindset clearly.
@WittyRoseKoi4 ай бұрын
I love your videos Kyutie Happy 4th of July😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
@19GAS4 ай бұрын
Happy 4th of July!!
@snowbutterfly10134 ай бұрын
He knows the girl likes him but he likes that his girlfriend is jealous so he keeps it going
@Sxnju4 ай бұрын
kyutie be blowing up on tiktok 0:28
@pogo.mom.4 ай бұрын
if anyone finds an update, kindly tag me and drop it here... pleaseee! thank you!
@ChrissyBae4 ай бұрын
Hello kyutie!!!
@Haneul_Sky26 күн бұрын
That kind of hurt to hear that it's a red flag to not have friends. I don't have friends and it's been years like this. I don't think it's always a red flag... Or maybe it is. I am unlikable after all...
@justarandomhumann4 ай бұрын
Hi Kyuu!
@shadowboxer14 ай бұрын
🥇
@kaynebula20934 ай бұрын
I don’t think they should break up over this, because the fiancé is also being manipulated here. Not to say that he’s totally blameless, he still should value Op’s words. But the coworker seems very toxic, she starts off nice and open, friendly to start. But then she acts like Op isn’t even in the picture, like the fiancé isn’t already taken. She talks about very private stuff, stuff that you would hear about if you’re very close, not 2 month old coworkers, to make it feel to him like they are. And most creepy of all, she’s purposely forcing an ultimatum on the fiancé, op or her friendship, threatening to cut contact if he listens to op. She’s a manipulative home wrecker, and the fiancé is falling for it. Also note that he says she’s like a younger sister to him, I doubt he realizes she’s hitting on him
@loosilu4 ай бұрын
He's 36!!! he much too old to be manipulated like this. I'm embarrassed for him.
@kaynebula20934 ай бұрын
@@loosiluage doesn’t matter, you can manipulated by anyone at any time.
@loosilu4 ай бұрын
@@kaynebula2093 I just don't think that's true.
@willowsprite4 ай бұрын
@@kaynebula2093yeah, he’s being manipulated. Right into an affair. Op should just drop him if he keeps insisting on staying close to this coworker, it’s just a matter of time before she manipulates him into bed.
@whitneybennett48574 ай бұрын
But even if he was being manipulated and is just incredibly oblivious and stupid, he still made OP out to be the villain and threw her under the bus. "I really want us to be "friends" but my future wife is too much of an insecure shrew to allow it." And now on that note he's trying to guilt-trip OP and make her believe it's because of her unfounded jealousy that he "lost a good friend."
@19GAS4 ай бұрын
1:22 Youre not toxic Kyutie. But I know people who are toxic. And My Thoughts on this Story::::: This OP definitly has to Divorce him, he is behaving strange and is a weak man If I was a girl....he wouldnt be Wedding material 😄😄
@Igi211564 ай бұрын
Under 5 min❤🎉😅
@buniixoxo25694 ай бұрын
AAA HII !! ❤❤
@amateurflor134 ай бұрын
ah hecks nah
@buniixoxo25694 ай бұрын
early 🥹
@crystaldumpling4 ай бұрын
HAI
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
The female fiance' has trust issues, as there's nothing wrong with having someone AT WORK that understands you and laughs at your jokes. As for the rest of it, no big deal unless the man is weak.
@lolaleela4 ай бұрын
Are you that guy in the story?
@zaklex31654 ай бұрын
@@lolaleela No, but my fiance' knows my best friend is a female at work and I'm friends with my ex...unlike the average man, I have self control over my entire body/brain. Men and women can be JUST FRIENDS, that is a fact of science.
@goofyrat29384 ай бұрын
Hi :D
@buck994 ай бұрын
❤u
@blobbythepotato70624 ай бұрын
❤
@samantha148434 ай бұрын
Earlyyy🤭
@Thatunknowngirl864 ай бұрын
12 min ago 😱
@BangtanARMYLovelyHAPPY3 ай бұрын
Honestly, it just might be me being an aroace with absolutely 0 love experience+ not being an emotional person, but I don't really see much of a problem with this. I'd just be like, "Cool, a guy and a girl can be friends, idc. Just don't have sex and we're cool." This would TOTALLY fly under my radar. I would SUCK at relationships 😂 Ok but getting that emotional is weird though.