People Who DESERVE Some RESPECT

[@Kyutie.]

AYEE for the first story, i meant stole the car and didn't pay back the expenses not didn't bring it back HAHAHA a bit too angry there!!

[@elithebeyonder8381]

Ok 👌 love ya video

[@tinabella5439]

Got it👍🏽

[@nemo227]

OP didn't ruin Kevin's life over the car. Kevin ruined his own life.

[@grussell76]

In that first story, Kevin should have "put family first" and not stolen the car.

[@tardismole]

Writing an apology letter because you were told to does not make it an apology. It's simply dictation of someone else's words. Those kids have learned nothing. I bet if the kids had been asked to attend the hospital for an education on cancer they may have said yes, despite their parents saying no.

[@nemo227]

The BRIDE gets to wear whatever she damn pleases!!! Marry a smarter man!

[@kanelovec4315]

Don't screw over family. Just because they blood related doesn't mean you can get them to be free atms, stores, and allow to get away with bs. Family is ment to support and help family yes. But not help family get away with crimes or entitled bs.

[@NixV0822]

2nd (Japanese) story: I think he doesn’t want to wife his gf. That’s what I got from his post. It would be awkward for him if his parents like his gf more (as she speaks their language) but he falls out-of-love with her. He is wrong though! That is because he is planning their breakup before she even meets his parents.

[@Yohannesburg]

You're reaching. They've been together a few months so I doubt marriage is even on the cards atm. He's wrong but for the right reasons, avoiding the drama that would likely come from his parents liking his gf more than his siblings' wives/husbands (of 10+ years) is the best course of action.

[@sharroon7574]

He's just being overly careful of his in-laws feelings

[@Kuhle980]

Thats what I got as well. I don't think he wants to marry her.

[@midnaphai]

@@Yohannesburg Just because she can speak japanese it doesn't mean she needs to flex with it to devalue the other spouses, but forcing her to lie about it is not "avoiding drama", that's controlling your partner to be nothing more than a fancy decoration. It's not her fault the other spouses didn't bother to engage with their partner's native language for over 10 years, she should be allowed to let her potential future family know she has learned and understands their language or real drama is definitely gonna happen when they talk with each other in japanese in front of her. People aren't polite when they think you can't understand them.

[@Yohannesburg]

@@midnaphai Point is speaking in Japanese with his parents with the other partners can come off as flexing it, especially considering they don't know her. "Fancy decoration" is WILD since more than likely the conversations will be in English anyway. You're acting like he said don't speak lol. Also, knowing their true feelings about you is a plus not a negative.

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

As a non-native english speaker who have had english-speaking partners, when we meet my family we talked english. Leaving someone out of the conversation by speaking in a langugage they don't understand, and not translating, is just so rude. So yeah, double a**hole in my eyes, both for asking her to lie, and for planning to leave her out of the conversation.

[@gaxalee7392]

Judging someone and making demands of them based on traditions they never grew up with(in this case a personal family tradition about wedding dresses) is extremely rude. Trying to force someone into a tradition that makes them unhappy is extremely rude. Trying to force a bride to give up her dream dress because it’s not your preferred style or color is extremely rude. This family needs to get their heads out of their own asses and stop shaming Op for trying to enjoy her own wedding.

[@nemo227]

Asking someone to lie about their knowledge is a STUPID thing.

[@afollowerofchrist5789]

People who deserve respect are those who show it to others. But in the age that we live in, who is willing to take that first step anymore?

[@christianwiberg447]

Family will mess you over worse than anybody else, because they should love you.

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

Ellen, I just wanted to say how much I appreciate you. I've been watching you for almost 6-7 years, and your content has grown so much! I remember watching your old videos every day back when I first started watching ❤ ilysm ellen❤ thank you for being so amazing🎉

[@bestie_jess]

wow that’s a long time how have you been(I’ve been kind late srry)

[@laurafranich4807]

For the Wedding dress story the bride should have told her husband and his family that HER family's tradition was that the brides always wore white. However, if her son chooses to wear a blush tuxedo that would be fine

[@saxmusicmail]

If you are in a situation where you are around people that speak a foreign (to you) language, you owe it to yourself and them to try to learn, if only a few phrases and sentences. Even if you speak that language badly, it will be far more appreciated by them than if you do not even attempt to learn. They will help you learn, how to pronounce words properly, laugh with you when you don't, but they appreciate that you try. A friend plays accordian in a Cajun (French) band. I asked how he learned, as most people who speak Cajun learned it from parents as very small children. He explained that as a teenager he worked in a hardware store. Cajun people that came in were frustrated that most of the staff did not understand them, but he would try to speak with them. They would correct him (gently), and teach him. After 6 months or so he was doing pretty good, and those customers would come in and seek him out. Now he plays and sings in his band and speaks it fluently. My cousins' father was in the US military, stationed in Germany for a while. They learned German literally on the playground speaking with German kids. The important thing is... TRY!

[@nemo227]

Many people need to choose a better class of acquaintances (those girls were not friends).

[@lilicorn7963]

I'm Vietnamese and I would never demand of my partner to learn to speak Vietnamese for me or my family however I would be so proud if they spoke the language or learn it even if not perfectly

[@kaileychambers6969]

Last story: Sounds like those "friends" and their parents are pretty cancerous themselves 😒

[@aliceo.5559]

In the second story, this guy's reasoning is ridiculous. They won't like her more just because she speaks Japanese, they will be impressed at most. But if she lies and says she doesn't understand Japanese and then tells them after a few meetings "oh yeah, I speak Japanese and I understood all your private conversations so far", it will be really strange for her family. And then they won't like her at all. For the story with the dress, if my new husband told me that he was disapointed when I walked down the aisle, I would burst in tears instently. Rude.

[@qbbi]

The toad is just a big fan

[@Kyutie.]

HAHAHAHA truuuu~ my #1 supporter

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

Lolll yess

[@js8303]

HAHAHA honestly!

[@qbbi]

@@Kyutie. bigger fans than all of us combined

[@kitty_claws_x]

Ellen : You guys are gonna hear a toad croak-- Toad : *CROAAAAAK* Ellen : There it is 🤣🤣🤣

[@Bethybeee]

I can’t believe how far you’ve come! Keep it up!❤️

[@kimical6492]

spent most of my day crying and seeing kyutie post is the best!!

[@winniethepooht5776]

Aw, I hope things get better for you ❤

[@lunarialoonatic]

Rooting for you! Sorry things are tough now but you got this!

[@kimical6492]

Thank u guys sm! Seeing those notifications made me rlly happy

[@LuciannaDeCelio]

Here's the thing, despite how society frames it, weddings aren't all about the bride. It's about 2 families uniting to become one. I understand that she felt like it needed to be her perfect day & the MIL was being rude, but at the same time, if she wasn't willing to compromise on this, what else won't she compromise for? Not to mention the fact that most weddings are almost entirely orchestrated by the wife. If that was the case here too, then a single change shouldn't hurt. After all, in this situation, if she gets her perfect day, then her new husband & in-laws don't. Another thing is, she went looking for "her perfect dress" & chose white even though her MIL told her their family tradition beforehand. That tells me that she didn't particularly care to begin with. Admittedly, the MIL shouldn't have gotten so up in arms & angry, but this could've still been avoided. The central problem here is that she chose her own comfort over that of her new family's. I get it in important situations, but it wasn't like the MIL was demanding a lot. The color of a dress isn't important unless it's deciding to wear some color besides black to a funeral because doing so would be being disrespectful to the deceased. If she won't stand with her family on such an insignificant issue, then how long until she stands against them on something serious?

[@Enya_artist]

Not gonna lie, if I learned Japanese, made it my job, and spent years speaking it, and then my SO asked me to LIE ABOUT IT?! Hell nah, I'm telling their family IN JAPANESE and dumping that dickhead! Japanese is one of the HARDEST languages for an english speaker to learn, and he wants her to hide it?! That's actually rediculous. If the siblings in law are jelly because of that, that's their own issues.

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah

[@aliceangelz]

If my husband says he is disappointed seeing me in a white dress then I’m loosing my husband that’s so rude

[@anonymus.ferrett]

right. it was his family’s tradition, not hers, so they had no right to be “disappointed” or force her to wear the different color. i would have filed for divorce asap 💀

[@lovelia69]

i love your hair ellen! you're super gorgeous in all of your videos! i love your videos!

[@renslvrii]

This was posted on my birthday! Have been watching you since I was in like elementary school lmaoo, I'll consider this a rlly great birthday gift

[@masha_elr3058]

Happy birthday!!

[@renslvrii]

@@masha_elr3058 Thank you!!

[@ErinPiecake]

I cannot believe people think this way!!!

[@beccaroyce675]

SHE is very consistent, i love her. more love for ellen💗💗

[@josephinekent4134]

"you guys are probably gonna here this toad-" Me: what 👹🐸

[@Paul_BTSArmy]

3rd story... Screw the hubby. I'll literally back out then & there also.

[@johnluis899]

Oh!"Wise one"

[@peanutbutter4741]

you were my childhood as a kid, and i come back from time to time to watch some vids. i'm always suprised to see you're still uploading content every single day!!!

[@mdnce7021]

For the wedding dress one I feel like it should have been discussed prior. It’s his and her wedding.

[@Liyrea]

Ellen: "no family won't always have your back" Me: "mum if I murdered someone, will tell the cops" My mum: "yes" Me: "but I'm your daughter" My mum: "your also a murder"

[@sparkleglass5228]

Hi, I love your videos! Thank you for bringing so much joy to my evenings!

[@Fitzcarraldo7]

Run in that white dress. Run far away fast.

[@bellawren]

in my family there are big age differences, and so my cousin has a nephew who is only two years older than him but still calls him nephew, and the nephew still calls him uncle, but i think its weird. (my cousin is 5)

[@beaniebaby7725]

That's not really weird since an uncle is just the brother of one of your parents, it has nothing to do with age or respect or anything like it would be for a parent or grandparent My neice is literally older than me

[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

I love these stories so much!! I love you too!! Stay safe!!

[@lillywolf4687]

That's an extremely loud toad, what the heck. Is that how they normally sound like?

[@deannthomas6142]

Kevin’s dad obviously did teach him right. First Kevin’s a thief second Kevin doesn’t take responsibility for his actions. Dad you failed.

[@karasanchez9720]

hii Ellen I absolutely loved the video and I hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and stay health and coco is adorable love y'all 💜💜💜

[@afollowerofchrist5789]

She literally posted it 3 minutes ago 😅... and the video being 10 minutes long...

[@AwoooOga3503]

Second story. WTF is wrong with OP 😐 I hope she drops you

[@markcollins2666]

$3500, to fix a Corvette, is not unreasonable at all. 1976 Corvette bodies are fiberglass, not steel. You just can't pull the dent, the whole body panel must be replaced, and the entire car repainted, since new paint on a 1976 car will never match. With any luck, his own insurance will cover it, since the car was stolen.

[@kieranewman7839]

That's not even considering whether or not there's internal damage

[@markcollins2666]

@@kieranewman7839, well, it was a sideswipe, and not an actual collision, but if it was on a door, I think you can count on it.

[@shellecebusiness7244]

I think she should change the husband

[@asaasa7900]

You totally saved me with this video! I wanted to eat but there was nothing to watchhh

[@solargomez2490]

Hi. Something crazy happened. I was on video call with my bestie and weird stuff kept happening. Her screen froze a few times and every time it froze something weird would happen like the video we were watching froze and something weird would happen every time and when my screen froze I had this wired creepy smile on my face and she said my eyes even changed color. We stayed up until almost 5 am freaked out about everything that happened

[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos kyutie

[@chezperky]

They will learn about cancer anyway so why refuse

[@evelyngilliam4187]

I'm offended that KZbin didn't notify me until 10 minutes after it was posted and not instant like usual >:I

[@zinfdrip3468]

Omg the toad :D tell it hi from me!

[@pecanpie8888]

❤

[@js8303]

Congratulations you’re first! 🎉❤

[@shadowboxer1]

Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

[@alexjohnson9877]

a STING RAY CORVETTE!!!! if anyone knows a car is a mans BABY. and the second story what if she was a nurse showed up "not a nurse" and a medical emergency happened. what dont let her step in? then get mad cause she should have??? my ex was puerto rican and her whole family spoke spanish. i am not fluent. i understand it more but i can speak basic. so i talked to her mom and grandma in spanish. yeah. my ex would insult me for how i talked in spanish...but who calls me once a week to have conversations and is mad at their daughter for having a good girlfriend but fxcked it up...lol

[@sunkak4575]

Ellen do you know mbti? What's your mbti type ,I feel u're an infp out of 16 personalities.. Btw I love your videos ♥️💗

[@delfin6927]

why do people care so much about tradition?

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

🎀ILY Ellen! 💗😍☺️🎀

[@Kyutie.]

AHHHH!!

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

@@Kyutie. you are amazing you are a 👑 QUEEN!

[@Alodin_31]

Fast savior 80

[@RaidenMeii]

Hey kyu!!😊

[@hayleesosa6530]

YAY love you😛

[@СенчуковЕвгений]

Hard mechanic 70

[@estellastar7679]

Can I see the Toad is your pet

[@deepmint.0]

Cold teacher 92

[@ДенисСмоляров-л2л]

Lonely advocat 47

[@knife6969]

Nice

[@neon4025]

Tall duck 55

[@Лисартмусс]

Gentle brother 15

[@crazyalexander8370]

Easy elk 19

[@WittyRoseKoi]

Shadow boxer I’m i third

[@shadowboxer1]

Nope. Twelfth.

[@mizorae]

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[@trinitystrom2023]

Can you say hi to me plz

[@brentbradshaw7580]

Yeah, that whole thing about the wedding dress. I agree with the guy. If it was something already discussed and she knew the tradition then that was her compromise to him. She shouldn't have been looking at white dresses from the beginning anyway. If she had put in the genuine effort she would have found their perfect dress. In the other story, I think you're overstepping the boundaries of friendship. If you listen to your comments you can clearly here yourself saying "why would they want thir child" that says all it needs to say. Raise yours and let others raise theirs. They were clearly nice and accommodating because they had their kids write those apology letters. However what the were saying to the kids mother afterwards was that, they have thought them (the kids) a lesson, they don't need to go with you for more lessons, and if more lessons are needed in the future they will be the ones to carry them somewhere or to teach. That's all. She's free to raise hers and they are free to raise their's. They are all free to get it right coming at parenting from different angles and places.

[@juliaqian6480]

I don't agree with you about the dress. They mentioned they had a tradition but she may also have a preference. Why doesn't her own preference matter? It is her wedding and the wedding of the family. If the family paid for the dress I mean it would make sense if they got a say in what kind of dress she wore but otherwise, I think it is bs. The fact that they care so much about the color of the dress says more about how much they care about superficial things than having a fun day. Now the memory of the bride about the wedding isn't that great. The family and the groom seem not great

[@brentbradshaw7580]

@@juliaqian6480 So about the wedding, and tradition. I'm not sure where or how this tradition came about for them, but it's their wedding traditions so I know she didn't just hear about the tradition or about the specific colors of the dress the day before. Look I get the feelings on the bride, and I'm able to empathize with her a bit, and I really not even including the family members etc, it's about her and her husband. If he liked it it meant this talked and stood together, the fact that he was disappointed meant that they were in disagreement on their wedding day and that should've never been the case. Yes she wanted what she wanted, there are many times like that. Her compromise in that moment was to honor him and his views or wishes, no one else's. It's not like she didn't already know ppl would have been disappointed, those ppl are a different case, bit to go ahead a willingly disappoint her husband, and I'm saying this 90% sure that they spoke about their wedding and tradition. That's where I disagree with her, especially if she feels like with the effort she could have found the color in a make that she loved. It's was one compromise of many they'll be asking of each other throughout their lifetime together. I wish them them best as they learn together.

[@rebekahwebster3104]

@@brentbradshaw7580 what about how she told the mother in law she would ask if the dress could be altered that way then great but if not then that was that. If the mother in law agreed to that and the bride did in fact ask, then the mother in law had no right to be seething and verbally disappointed after that.

[@bonthebunnycat667]

If those parents didnt have the commitment to teach their kids BASIC COMMON DECENCY, like NOT MAKE FUN OF SOMEONE OF A HIGHLY DEADLY DISEASE, then its not a "different parenting issue", its failing as an adult responsible of the morals and upbringing of a future generation of citizens. These teenagers were bullying someone who is going through FUCKING CANCER, the doctor was willing to teach about this disease to maybe awaken a tiny little bit of EMPATHY. If I was a parent and my possibly dying kid was being made fun of for slowly DYING, those kids would go home crawling and not walking sir. That mom and doctor were good enough to not only forgive but willing to teach those despicable people basic empathy.

[@imseansleader8098]

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[@js8303]

You’re actually third, but that’s still awesome! 🎉❤

[@shadowboxer1]

Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

[@sharroon7574]

3 days isn't long enough to press charges, a warnng would have been nice considering it's family.

[@midnaphai]

When someone steals and damages your car causing thousands for repairs and then blocks you without apologizing or compensating for what they've done it's not family anymore. They did get warned 3 days before police got called but decided "it's not that bad" so yea fck them.

[@js8303]

You deserve respect for posting daily! You totally have mine🤭🫶🏻

[@Kyutie.]

awwww~~

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

Yessss! She has my respect too🎀☺️ How are you ☺️

[@js8303]

@@Jiyu_Starfam I’m doing pretty well, how are you? 🥰

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

@@js8303thats good to hear!🎉 I'm doing alright😊❤

[@js8303]

@@Jiyu_Starfam that’s good to hear as well! 😁

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

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[@shadowboxer1]

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