She CALLS Him Out For Being RACIST

[@radioactive_baby]

The first story hit me hard. I'm not mixed but as a full black woman, growing up going to a predominantly white school, I was no stranger to get ridiculed and/or bullied for my hair texture, especially by other black kids (who were doing it just so it wouldn't happen to them. To their face, at least.)

[@sharroon7574]

People are obsessed with shampoo commercial hair, you know the straight shiny long hair. Not really sure why some people see texture as a flaw.

[@radioactive_baby]

@@sharroon7574 I've had teachers call home and ask my mom to "change" my hair because "it's distracting to the other students"

[@sharroon7574]

@@radioactive_baby That is terrible, I'm sorry you were treated that way.

[@radioactive_baby]

@@sharroon7574 Thanks. It made me really insecure about my hair and I actually hated myself for it for the longest time. I'm working on self-care now, but it sometimes feels impossible to do. I'm also finally trying to learn how to do my own 4c hair

[@xangelicxblossomsx]

DUDE what! textured hair like a giant beautiful cloud of tiny curls is so pretty and unique (platonically and i hope that doesn’t sound like i’m ferishinf black people- i don’t mean to)

[@eileenhathaway1674]

Last story: She should send a sample under the name of someone who is always approved and see if it gets picked, (with their permission of course). That could prove her right or wrong.

[@Stella-gv6do]

that's what I thought she was going to do tbh, sadly it didn't happen :(

[@demon_lady122]

Or do the same recipe in the same way as another person and see which is picked

[@islajadepierre9060]

Story 1: Grace is a disloyal sister. It seems she feels the same way as the guy. Anyone who doesn’t correct garbage behavior from people they know are acting like garbage gets a side eye from me. She stands up for the guy and not her sister, ugh. I am mixed myself and have heard the “good hair” line so often, and each time I make the person explain themselves. Then I just look at them silent until they do. Lots of blustering and backpedaling. It’s funny and sad at the same time. I’ve also heard, “ is that your real hair”, had ppl pull my hair to see if it’s attached, had ppl say I’m not really this or that because of my skin tone, say I speak too proper to be blah blah blah. It’s nuts. So many ignorant ppl in the world. Story 2: the couple only got their panties in a bunch because they love arguing and being overbearing to ppl. It sucks their kids won’t get to see the grandparents but it’s their parents own fault for being argumentative and ruining everyone’s time. The others must have been complaining about them to agree so readily to pay. Story 3: the husband sucks. He sees his wife being mistreated, dismisses her feelings, and then is flabbergasted when she doesn’t want to be around them. What a donut.

[@who.o]

Not the donut 😭 donut >>>

[@keiartzmarie8276]

Bahahhahaha "donut" 🍩 😭😭😭

[@thottusthottusxoxo]

fr grace said OP should've told him he said smth wrong-why didn't YOU? You're the one dating him. Surely if your boyfriend is racist towards your half sister you end up wanting to stand up for her and point out his bigotry. It's so stupid and upsetting, not saying anything is just as bad as making a racist remark.

[@Vida7354]

Grace is just that typeof bubble head who will change her mindset after secong ANY of her dates does, no spine at all

[@goldyd144]

Many white girls (hell, some non-white girls too) are fine with dating racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. guys as long as they don't turn their vitriol on them when they have love goggles on. Grace is no different. Wouldn't be surprised if Grace doesn't invite OP to the wedding because she won't fit the "look". There's so many stories on reddit and tiktok like this, and so many girls on their bragging about being "woke allies" but also having bigoted bfs. Like literally flaunting that their bf hates everything that they claim to protect. It's sad. 😐

[@KiwiKeyblade]

For the first story, I am bi-ethnic, Hispanic and White, and I don't look Hispanic. I grew up feeling like I don't belong with my Hispanic side, and it's hurtful. If someone told me I am not Hispanic because of how I look, I quite honestly would probably cry. People have told me I am not Hispanic because I don't speak Spanish (yet, I am working on it.) It hurts, especially when you feel super separated from your culture like I do.

[@asaasa7900]

I feel you. I'm an ethnic Anglo-Dutch-German and, while I do speak one of my heritage languages, English, I only speak maybe a little better than intermediate Dutch and no German. It sucks and it's not your fault that you were never taught.

[@thottusthottusxoxo]

I hate when people are expected to learn languages for the sake of others. Like the whole point of language is definitely about culture but it's for yourself, not anybody else :(

[@asaasa7900]

@@thottusthottusxoxo I believe that if you have a language that's different from the country you come to or comes from your family, it is your responsibility to teach it to any children you may come into the care of, if at all possible. But NEVER should it be the child's fault for not having been taught it.

[@thottusthottusxoxo]

@@asaasa7900 agreed. Teach them for the sake of culture and tradition and keeping it alive, also so they have more ways to communicate with their loved ones. But if they struggle to learn or just never do, it shouldn’t have to be a problem. After all, it’s their decision

[@asaasa7900]

@@thottusthottusxoxo Not just for that, there are medical and more importantly professional and interpersonal benefits to being bilingual. Knowing a language and not at least giving an attempt to teach it to your child is severely handicapping the career viability and future memory optimisation of them. I wish I could have been taught a second language when I was young, but sadly German died out in my family 6 generations ago or so.

[@alfonzoy5]

I think it's hilarious that the deposit to stop them from being annoying ended up solving the issue completely making the deposit not even necessary.

[@js8303]

That first story is insane! What is wrong with people? 🙄

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

ikr! also your other comment like disappeared lol (idk if u deleted or if it just is a weird glitch lol) how are you??

[@Chisatoedits7651]

Yooo what's up hyb!

[@js8303]

@@Jiyu_Starfam i was wondering why Kyutie didn’t like it, all I did was edit it as I usually do :( but otherwise, I’m doing well, how are you doing? ❤

[@js8303]

@@Chisatoedits7651 omg hiii it’s been a while! i’m doing well, after tomorrow I have Thanksgiving break😎 How have you been? 😁

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

@@js8303 yeah sometimes that happens to my comments too, they disappear after being edited :( glad to hear you're doing well ! i'm doing alright :)

[@Oceana2257]

im mixed with three things, white, asian and Latina (im half Latina since my dad was fully Brazilian and my mom is half white half asian), I look more asian and have heard very racist things said to my face and behind my back but never about my hair. I honestly hate having straight hair and want curly hair like I used to (my mom didn't know how to take care of my curly hair when I was little so she brushed it all out for years mainly when it was dry, which you're not supposed to do and she ended up damaging the curl pattern, and chopped it off, making it grow back straight). if someone was being racist and told me I had good hair cus my hair is now straight, I would've let them explain their logic as well before punching the racism out of them. I truly feel sorry for that person and hope that her dad and step mom are on her side and that Grace gets her act together cus Jesus I HATE racist people and it makes my blood boil hearing these stories!!

[@sharroon7574]

Cookie samples for a family party? If you are that fussy have it catered or make all of the food yourself.

[@alexcorvin3612]

OPs reaction in the first story also works if someone tells you any sexist, ****phobic or otherwise rude "joke". Just look at them with unamused expression and ask to explain why it's funny?

[@Uthayaftw]

I haven't even completed the video, but I'm already annoyed. Why are some people like this? ?

[@JadeCaro]

I've noticed that men like the one in the last story (and there seems to be a lot of stories like that) seem to fail at seeing and understanding the actual problem. It's not about one single action in a single instance. The problem is about the intention behind the action and what the action represents and how it makes the person on the receiving end feel. Like in the case with the last story, if the mother-in-law keeps rejecting all deserts made by the wife, year after year, no matter what she makes and no matter how much effort she puts into it, it starts to feel personal. And I do think it's personal. I don't think the mother-in-law likes the daughter-in-law very much or has at least something against her. A normal mother-in-law, no matter what rules she has when organizing events, would at least accept some deserts (it doesn't have to be all of them or even every year, but at least some) made by the daughter-in-law even if they're not perfect, just to be considerate of the daughter-in-law's feelings instead of out right rejecting every single one of them every single year. Anyone making the decision of what to include in the menu would know that if they keep rejecting one person all the time, the person in question would feel left out. The only plausible reason for the mother-in-law to keep rejecting the daughter-in-law when knowing she would feel left out would be because she doesn't care, and that's assuming she's not rejecting the daughter-in-law on purpose. The husband saying that the wife is being unreasonable for not wanting to go to the family event is being an insensitive jerk because he just can't see why his wife is really hurt about this

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

No, making him explain himself is 100% the best way to make him think about what he was saying.

[@socahha]

The cookie story: The wife and other SIL both decided not to go. OP and His brother were so mad. OP still didn't get what the issue was.

[@mariawilliams8573]

I'm biracial, and my dad's white and my mom is black. I'm white but I have curly hair. People are always commenting on my hair saying its pretty and stuff.

[@julianbigelow2794]

5:02 I see nothing wrong with talking politics at a family gathering. However, if you are angry and hostile toward anyone who doesn't agree with you on every single issue, now that is problematic. If it is your house, then are the arbiter of who can and can't be in it.

[@kenniengland]

The last story sounds like they're sending in lab results to test for a deadly chemical or something weird like that. Why does it also sound like a business exchange rather than a family gathering lmao

[@PhantomMagician1846]

2nd story is such a good idea, I would add if anybody brought up political stuff your money will be donated to a political group who you disagree with

[@babymama406]

This is why you shouldn’t talk politics. If you have different views than your loved ones, just agree to disagree. I have many people in my life that I don’t agree with, but that doesn’t affect our relationship. A lot of families and friends are breaking up because of this. Some political beliefs are almost like religion to some people. Even in my family, I have a niece who doesn’t talk to her mom anymore. It’s heartbreaking.

[@aliceinwonderland8314]

I think it depends on the political issue involved, such as whether LGBTQ+ people should have equivalent rights to what straight/cis people have. Sometimes it's necessary to tell people about just how much harm their political views inflict on others. But I do think agreeing to disagree is good for some cases, and it may be necessary to let a few things slide occasionally.

[@samanthaf4851]

Babe, human rights are involved, I’m not gonna look at someone the same if they don’t think I deserve basic human rights. 🤨

[@Caitilizzie]

It honestly really depends on the political issue for me… political views reflect someone’s morals a lot of the time, so like the other replies said, if they don’t support basic human rights than that reflects negatively on my opinion of them

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Amazing how if you ask someone to explain their reasoning about certain views, you can get them to show a side of themselves they were trying to hide. Issac should have kept his mouth shut, but when he opened it, his foot went inside. And Grace had no adequate defense for him. 3:36: Two things you shouldn't discuss over any family holiday event is politics and religion if you want everything to be peaceful. I'm not sure asking for a $500 deposit was the answer, but if it weeded it out the people who would have ruined the holiday, then mission accomplished. 5:58: The fact is her MIL doesn't like her cooking, plain and simple. If I were her, I would opt out of sending anymore samples to her and go scorched earth in explaining the real reason why. Plus, she should tell her husband to grow a pair and stand up to his mother.

[@missantlers1821]

“I told him I didn’t have to make him look like a joke because he already was one.” 😂 👏 That’s how you take the trash out. The guy is a racist and the sister shouldn’t be defending his nature.

[@jansmith1226]

Hello people that exist. (I think.) First story: Why would you ever even bring that up? Like, what’s even the point? It’s so rude. Your judging her based on hair? Wtf. And yeah, she could’ve told him he was being an @sshole. But unless she explained why it wouldn’t do anything. Better to have him try and explain his own bs. Second story: Okay, Idk how to feel on this one. I don’t think OP should be making people pay to come to a thanksgiving gathering. It’s a gathering, it’s supposed to be a fun get together. People shouldn’t have to pay to come for that. And I know that they will get the money back but what if one person makes one slight comment about politics or accidentally says something. Are they going to lose their money because of that. I don’t get why OP didn’t just un-invite Kari and Bob in the first place. Just do that instead of making people give you 500$ Third story: This mom though. She’s acting like people are going to poison the food. And then the husband is like “People have preferences.” She rejected her every time. I wouldn’t call that a preference. But I don’t get the mom. Just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean other people won’t. I don’t get why she’s rejecting her. Like, let her make desserts. And then the husband just told her off and called her unreasonable. If I had worked hard to make a cookie and then the host just rejected it I wouldn’t want to come either. She worked hard on that cookie. Honestly if my girlfriend/boyfriend got rejected I would’ve been like “Just make them and bring them anyways, I’ll eat them.”

[@Lilly_M_Kenma]

I think she meant like if they bring it up and argue about it cause it sounds like they talks about to but still cool with it - the sister and bil

[@gred_and_forge]

Third story has a brief update! OP added info about the sample send out,1) OP's younger sister and SIL's samples were also rejected, 2) his mother is always "careful" about the food menu categories, not just the dessert, so she also accepts samples for appetizers,salads, etc, and 3) she doesn't force them to send samples, it's voluntary (but I'm gonna say it, it sounds like she purposefully does this every year so to her it feels like each female in the family has to fight for her approval, but that's just my opinion 🙄) The actual update OP says things were getting "out of control" cause his brother called to tell him his wife (the SIL whose sample was also rejected) says she's also backing out of the invitation and spending Thanksgiving with her family 😂 Apparently OP's wife called her and told her what she was planning to do and SIL decided it was a good idea, so now OP's brother is mad at his wife for "encouraging" his wife on this. OP is now afraid younger sis might also follow their lead and not go. His final statement was "I guess we'll try to have a discussion with my mother about this soon and see how it goes." Man I hope OP finally sees his wife's view on this whole sample thing if SIL and possibly younger sister back up his wife on not going, but considering he said "I guess we'll have a talk with my mom" it sounds unlikely, he says it's like he doesn't really want to or like it's unnecessary but he can't think of anything better at this point. What do you guys think?

[@yolas2422]

There is actually an update with the cooking story, apparently OP called his brother and his wife is backing out of the family get together too, she's having the same problem as OP, the brother is angry at OP's wife, and OP is saying how he didn't know how it got out of control so quickly and said *who knows maybe my sister won't show up* something on that line, but he and his brother is discussing it with their mother at some point apparently, the update was posted from XO Stories if anyone wanted to go listen to the update it's the very first story played on the video and is their latest video. But it's not just the mother in the wrong, OP and the brother definitely is too, like why are they not defending their wives and sister if this is going on with her as well, that's just sad that if they wanted to bring something they can't because of the MIL's rule in which is kinda stupid I thought the more food the better, because it also meant less cooking for those who are hosting.

[@moonyfruit]

That last one had me going... craaazy. I have never ever heard of a family 'rejecting' foods from gatherings. That's just... weird. And I have plenty of family members that have dietary restrictions. You want to bring something, bring it. Bringing anything at all is highly encouraged. Like, what?

[@johnpexton3614]

The wife in the sample should host and have the mother send a sample just to reject it to show her how she feels about it.

[@gazoontight]

First story: It's possible Isaac is so obtuse that he didn't realize what he ws saying. There really are people like that, who speak without thinking and then wonder why people get upset. But he should have kept his mouth shut. Secord story: Kari and Bob are known troublemakers. Anything that keeps them away is fine. Third story: Just stay home The mother is an idiot.

[@BratzRockAngels]

Isaac knew what he was doing, the fact that he even made that comment on her dark skin first and then said that her hair "makes up" for it says everything.

[@flawfuljinx]

TLDR. Feelings are valid and narcissists are blind. Story 1. It says heaps about what kind of person the sister is by not immediately stopping her bf for being blatantly racist. Even if it turns out he was being naive, the sister has no right to demand an apology from OP. But I do hope all of them get better soon. Story 2. OP's methods are extreme but for good reason. The only reason Kari and Bob are kicking a fuss is because they won't be able to preach their politics and ruin what could be a perfectly calm and fun day. OP should consider a special method for them then: agree to the parents paying for EACH TIME they bring up politics. Everyone will see how messed up they are when the parents will be charged with potentially over thousands because they won't keep politics off the table like it's their only personality trait. Story 3. To the husband in this story: it's a WONDER why this woman is still with you when you bluntly invalidate her feelings despite her decision OBVIOUSLY not being because of the cookie sample. It may not matter to the husband but not being included like this is hurtful even if he doesn't see the problem. Instead of saying "oh my mom is just serious and careful" or "people have preferences", at least consider having empathy the next time the wife is feeling invalidated by the people closest to her.

[@PokeFan-tk1iu]

Honestly if I were the couple in the last story I would ask one of the female relativates who also has to send in samples for the recipies they are using. Maybe MIL doesn't like the recipies the wife is using or maybe she purposefully leaving the wife out but the test could help determine what one it is.

[@dowsingelf77]

Me being biracial with corkscrew curls hearing Story 1: "Okay, time to cut off both Grace and Isaac. He's a racist jerk, and Grace has no sense of family loyalty. Both of them, just bye." For Story 3, there's a way to settle it fully. Have the husband send the mother a sample and only say the wife made it. If she rejects it again, he'll know his wife is right. Otherwise I think the wife is completely right on this one.

[@JesusKreist]

You assume the husband can cook, and even better than his wife at that. Unless the man has something to do with working in a restaurant as a chef it is unlikely. Especially in "traditional families". Plus the number of samples is relatively high. If the husband sends in a sample and it is only one of ... I don't know .. 10 it would only be a 1 in 10 chance his sample would be chosen. In other words it would be a 9 in 10 chance the husband and the wife would come to a false conclusion with "undeniable facts" ... How I came onto the number? Listen to the story once more, there are quite a few female family members mentioned that provide a sample, not just the wife. To spell it out= "My sisters (at least two if not more), my SIL (one), my wife (one) my female cousins (at least 2 if not more)" so at the very least the number of applicants is six. So the biggest chance the wife can numerically have is 1 out of 6, provided all samples are exactly as good as the next. And this was "only" the third sample rejected. And that is just for the relatively close proximity. I don't think guests are supposed to bring a dessert as a luggage in a plane when they arrive to TG. That the mother rejected her cooking and baking specifically is a thought she can have, but it can't be proven without forcibly strapping the mother into a lie detector.

[@dowsingelf77]

@@JesusKreist If you read carefully I did not say the husband had to cook it at all. I stated he only needed to send in a sample; could've even been store bought. Better still the sample should be something he knows his mother likes personally and that is exceptionally made. Furthermore, regardless of probability, the MIL knows whose sample is whose; the story never said the desserts were chosen at random. So MIL actually can pick and choose as opposed to randomly picking every dessert each time. Also, minor point but the holiday this concerned was Christmas, not TG.

[@JesusKreist]

@@dowsingelf77 Potato Potato. If the holiday was christmas, TG or the main celebration for our god and savior the big spaghetti monster is completely irrelevant. There is way more competition about those samples than the wife obviously cares about. The mother has at the very least 6 samples of whatever she needs for the gathering and obviously chooses 1-3 of them. That the wife's samples did not get chosen might have something to do with adverse relationship with the MIL. Or more likely with the fact that other samples that arrived simply are better than her sample. If it was *ONLY* the sample of the wife that gets rejected every time an experiment like you suggested might bring clarity. Or not. As said, without strapping the Mother to a lie detector and/or subjecting her to "festive waterboarding" it is more or less impossible to know which of these instances actually apply. Not even if the husband submits a sample he acquired from a 5* chef, as by then the obviously capable of thinking and breathing at the same time Mother would disqualify the sample because it was a scam as it differs vastly from the samples she submitted before. You can bet your a$$ or other valuable parts of your body that after that the Mother *will* hold a grudge against the wife, regardless of the outcome. Overall your simple solution: #1 is unlikely to get the desired results #2 can backfire tremendously

[@dowsingelf77]

@@JesusKreist You're inferring information here that the story never stated. It is possible to have up to 6 desserts at one event; ever been to an Italian Natale feast? While yes, we don't know if only the wife's stuff keeps getting rejected, if her samples keep being rejected that's a little specious. Again, the MIL knows who sent what, so it's not random or left to probability. If the MIL rejects the false sample on grounds of being too good or a scam, that's one thing. If she doesn't give a valid reason, that's another story. Finally... it's just a Reddit post, meant to be thought provoking or entertaining. It's great to give opinions and reasons why, but this feels a bit too much of a dissection.

[@JesusKreist]

@@dowsingelf77 Yes, you keep referring to information not stated in the story. While it is possible one can have 6 desserts at a gathering, the 6 dessert samples are the very minimum the Mother can receive. Likely the number is a lot closer to 10. Plus having 6 different desserts at a private gathering is the exception, not the rule. If *ONLY* the wife's samples get rejected every time you might be correct. But that is not stated nor even hinted at in the story. Without evidence to the contrary one can only assume there have been more rejections than only the one.

[@DarkShadowTide]

That last story though, the husband was wrong for not standing up for his wife in some way (ex. Talking to his mother privately about why she always rejects his wife's cooking). And honestly? At this point, if I was the wife, I would have sent in pot cookies to 'better sample' the other sweets.

[@femcel_undercover]

the fact u still post is so cool to me. i used to watch u when i was a kid lol

[@gred_and_forge]

Second story, I LOVE this idea! I've never been big on politics or sports, but I'm better talking about sports since politics really does seem like the topic that destroys relationships, family or otherwise. Thanksgiving (for my family) is about getting together, catching up on what's going on with us, not the rest of the world. sure we may talk about specific or major events, but usu things that effect us directly (like COVID). Plus, the rest of OP's family was in agreement, prob bc 1) as OP said the amount is agreeable based on what they can afford, 2) they prob already figured who OP was *really* aiming this at and want a stress-free/politics-free night, esp from Kari and her husband, and 3) OP was going to return the money as long as they kept politics off the discussion table, which seemed like a topic they didn't want to get into anyway, so they already knew they were getting their money back

[@Chisatoedits7651]

I love you so much Ellen thank you for the awesome stories. They're always really awesome and entertaining. Keep it up🌸🙏🔥

[@kristybutler6472]

That last story really got to me because I too was always told to just bring plastic silverware even though I'm a baker and sell my finished products to my side of the family all the time and for all occasions. His mom said that because I can't make the Vietnamese deserts "right" that I should be "useful" and bring the utensils

[@scxxt3r_]

If the husband actually defended his wife, his wife could make a desert and say he made it and if the mom likes it she is definitely disregarding the wife of purpose

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

ILY ELLEN! thanks for making my day once again!

[@asahisangel]

I think people have to follow their rules because it is there house but expecting a deposit to go to someone’s party? I’d call them insane too. I’d just uninvite them in the first place if I knew they’d be an issue. Or tell them point blank that if they start up that discussion in my house they’d be kicked out instantly

[@Riomy13]

I think with the cookie story, I'd bring some little baked goodie bags for everyone in the family to the gathering and hand them out as little gifts. So hopefully they will enjoy it, and next time MIL will have to deal with family members wondering why the wife hasn't baked anything, considering her cookies last year were so good. Yes, I am petty that much.

[@davidcollver6155]

For the first story, the young lady needs to start carrying a tape measure, people like that want to get personal about your looks. At the risk of sounding crude insist they drop trousers, you want to make sure they measure up to your sister's comfort zone. The no politics host, it is her house. The Last Story, the woman can find a better mother-in-law. She needs to let her husband know this, she doesn't need that stress in her life nobody deserves that. Since I didn't hear any mention of children in the mix, shouldn't be that hard to find another new mother-in-law along with a nicer son.

[@arthurjones3670]

The second story I went through that with a ex girlfriend friend of hers

[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

How are you doing my friend? How are you feeling? Grace isn't a nice person for not having her sisters back, but instead choosing to try to impress her so called boyfriend. I love you!! Stay safe!!

[@lovelia69]

ahhh! i love your hair! you're so pretty! i love your videos ellen!

[@OliveYoungSoul]

Girl! Where did you get your lipstick and earrings? Btw that bf in the first story is so rude!

[@Liyrea]

The second story, id say still invite them but if they do end up talking politics then either ask for 500$ or the next gathering at your place, don't invite them until they pay and don't let anyone who is not them pay for them either

[@xuimello3877]

we have similar users lmao

[@Liyrea]

@@xuimello3877 lamo

[@juliebiggerbear7300]

Regarding the second story… Good behavior deposit, I love it! It certainly seems to be weeding out their shit stirrers, doesn’t it? 😁

[@arthurjones3670]

Grace is not a great friend

[@dowsingelf77]

That and worse, Grace is not a good relative.

[@Vibes4Life536]

I feel like the first story kind of sounds like a preference, like he just doesn’t like textured hair, however the way he said it was a horrible way to say it and also it didn’t need to be said in the first place

[@missm.e9914]

where do you buy your earrings? you always wear such cute earrings!

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

My swedish ass would make surströmming-casserol and bring that. Like "oh i ran out of anchovies".

[@marcuscarlsson9618]

oh im swedish too

[@karasanchez9720]

hii Ellen I absolutely loved the video and hope that you and coco have had a wonderful day and stay healthy and coco is adorable love y'all💜💜💜

[@barbara-annperry5941]

I don't think that at least you have good hair was meant as a racist attack. She is biracial, she inherited her dad's hair. They are plenty of videos on here with women with typical afro hair and getting straight hair wigs. My dad is blonde and blue eyed. My mum dark olive Italian skin and black curly hair, her daughters me and my sister look more like her. His workmates would joke well we know who their mother is. A passing comment is just a passing comment. Why should she feel threatened for inheriting her dad's hair? People choose to be offended or not.

[@moonyfruit]

This was kind of what I was thinking. He didn't say that curly hair was "bad." (I've also personally known few black women to go curly and struggle to keep it straight, so he may have actually been referring to the stubbornness of it, who knows? We're only getting 1 biased side of the story, here.) Besides, a preference is a preference. Preference =/= racism. It's when it's absurd that it's racism in my opinion. I also totally agree that people choose to be offended. 👍

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

i want to make you some fan art i have been thinking about it for a while now lol, i might make you some fan art tmrw❤

[@viiquxx]

HII❤️❤️ im sad i havent been keeping up with the vids but im here nowww

[@arcticxabyss]

I think the only one being unreasonable in the last story is the husband, because his wife worked her butt off to bake something and then sent the sample in..only for the sample to get rejected AGAIN by her mother-in-law. hopefully the husband apologizes and realizes that his wife doesn't want to go to the party, because of the feeling that her baked goods weren't "good enough" more than once.

[@moonyfruit]

I mean, the whole idea of rejecting any food at a family get together is weird as hell to me. If people end up not really liking it, there will just be plenty of leftovers. What is the point in rejecting anything. I don't get it.

[@arcticxabyss]

@@moonyfruit yeah and it's one thing if the reason why the MIL rejected the food was because of it causing an allergic reaction to one or more people, but it's a whole different story if it was rejected because the MIL "didn't like it" for whatever reason.

[@bestie_jess]

hey kyutie fans How is everyone !

[@hertaenthusiast]

Yay!

[@sheiladcg]

where does she gets all this stories?

[@pecanpie8888]

❤ Hi Kyutie!

[@js8303]

Hii you’re second! Congratulations🎉❤

[@shadowboxer1]

@@js8303 Really, he's first on my list. Apparently, whoever was first must have deleted their comment.

[@shadowboxer1]

Anyway, here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

[@nitilamadhanagopal9399]

Hey plz can you make ur videos longer

[@drawwithshine9876]

Hiiii! Can I draw a picture of coco?

[@Kyutie.]

sureeee!

[@drawwithshine9876]

@@Kyutie. OMG Thank you!

[@wisteria3032]

1) you were a bit of a jerk. Also you did the right thing - especially if your sister wants to be with this guy for a long time. Teaching people to think is difficult and being a jerk is often a requirement. 2) You probably could have handled it better - paying a deposit was an ultimatum and for someone with such strong views it's understandable that they felt blackmailed and tried to fight it instead of complying. Best thing would have been to find a way to use their own views. Almost every single political party ever has something that says "don't be a total jerk" cause if you are people won't be willing to agree with you. 3) she was really upset and you just upset her more. I understand you find this unreasonable but you just decided she was wrong (not her actions but her thinking) try to think she is right and come up with a countermeasure. Best way to do that would be go to the Christmas dinner and be all gracious like nothing happened. Then start planning for the next festivity. What kind of sweets/cookies did your mom chose untill now? (are they very sweet? with/without butter? creamy or dry? and so on). Come up with a cake that should be accepted based on precedents. And then ask for the help of someone who lives by making desserts (it's a good investment for a peaceful life). Either your wife ends up able to do something that could actually be served at a restaurant or you lie and make a master do it. And then if it gets rejected again accept that she was right all this time

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

❤

[@shadowboxer1]

Actually third. Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

[@WittyRoseKoi]

I love your videos kyutie can you plz give my comment a heart

[@julien2168]

is she losing subs?

[@Kyutie.]

it's ok~~

[@rainbowsubs2]

From what I am guessing is youtube deleting inactive accounts.

[@AuroraLalune]

I had to re sub, so.. dunno. Could be inactive but also could be like that. Wouldn’t be the first time I had to re sub to someine

[@RaidenMeii]

Hey

[@js8303]

Hey you’re third! Congratulations 🎉❤

[@RaidenMeii]

@@js8303 thanks!

[@RaidenMeii]

@@js8303 I’m not feeling very well so I decided to wait for kyu to post!

[@shadowboxer1]

Actually second (by my count). Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

[@RaidenMeii]

@@shadowboxer1 thank you!!

[@blackassassin2161]

Hiiiiii

[@ny7825]

Heyyyyy

[@JesusKreist]

Last story: It is uncommon that the mother demanded dessert samples, but not unheard of. From the sounds of it the family is big and the number of people sending in samples is quite numerous. So the wife can't honestly expect to be chosen after only 3 times she tried. It is pretty unreasonable to assume because you and allegedly your husband like your cooking the persons from the other side of the country will like it as well. Since it is dessert and cookies the main culprit likely is called sugar.

[@yummy-j3l]

Hello

[@Boba56]

Alright who is the first 7 likes

[@WittyRoseKoi]

Kyutie plz can you plz give my comment a heart

[@the_epicice_bear9524]

FIRST I love ur posts btw :D Can I get a pin possibly? I’ve been a fan for while :>

[@shadowboxer1]

Fourth (I think).

[@liliamyuki]

I'm early yay

[@blahface240]

as a black female with the "bad hair" hearing things like that is the reason why when I was younger I had so much hate for my hair and would let my mother straighten it everyday until it was damaged and fried. I'm tired of this racial bias that people have against ethnic features especially black ones. I don't think people even realize the history of harm that texturism has caused us black people (mainly women). And then people wanna question why we wear straight wigs and weave 🙄.

[@blobbythepotato7062]

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