Old Gays & Baby Gays | Truth or Drink | Cut

[@literaltrash2275]

I rannnnnn here to defend the older gays against the “are you jealous of younger gays” question but they took the words out of my brain. I don’t think it’s fair to ask older gays that, because a lot of them were robbed of the experience/ support younger gays have. It’s natural to be jealous of that. Older gays paved a good way for acceptance. Cheers to that

[@AJphilpo]

they are a big part of the reason we have rights today. props to all of them.

[@kylorenthehusky2584]

👏🏻👏🏻 agree

[@tsakanimabasa8377]

I have attached

[@swain-Ix1tv]

@Tsakani Mabasa what

[@Snarkulous]

I want to preface this by saying I don't mean this in an "All Lives Matter" kind of way: I also think it's perfectly natural for older people to be jealous of younger people in general. Older women being jealous of younger women, older men being jealous of younger men, only because even with everything you're gaining, the feeling of invincibility goes away. I'm slowly creeping towards middle age and even though the circumstances of my life are getting better, there's just something about being young that you can never get back. So, for older queer people to be jealous of younger queer people is something I think is perfectly normal and it doesn't have to be a toxic thing at all if you acknowledge it

[@이바다-d1u]

the "older gay" realizing that the people he lost after coming out weren't really important at all was inspiring.

[@b1njjj95]

Yes!!!! That hit me on a personal level.

[@IvenAkaVerlierer]

That old guy with the cap gave off such drunk-but-chill-uncle vibes it’s crazy

[@completefemboyr.n.g1308]

Gay uncle at the beach is gunna be me one day lol I only drink like 4 times a year

[@Tony.S420]

Guncle

[@quin9470]

@@Tony.S420 i was about to say gruncle stan from gravity falls

[@sheniquamason7481]

Gruncle Stan

[@MariSherge]

"I don't wanna be with anybody anymore, PERIOD" killed me

[@omlkami3898]

THIS

[@karenrn5607]

I get it though. I’m an old gay. I’m just f’n T-I-R-E-D! I met 5 women in the past month after swearing to stay single for life. 3 of them are blocked, one is boring me to death, and the last one has potential, but I’m jaded!! It’s too much work/stress!! 😊

[@kai-bo5yz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Namastame]

Came here to say this😂😂😂 I honestly feel him and I’m half his age lmao

[@YourMomActress]

I’m 27 and I feel that way IN MY SOUL

[@holly6018]

5:38 “Now i’ve only lost him in body but.. y’know, we came back together.” That’s sad but beautiful.

[@angelle_rose]

He really thought "I" stood for indigenous... 🤣🤣🤣

[@arrow2589]

I dont blame him really. The POC colors on the pride flag is probably what confused him. And hey at least indigenous folks got a shout out.

[@hntrthmpsn]

In Canada the acronym is often written as 2SLGBTQ+. 2S stands for Two-Spirit, which some Indigenous communities use as a term that to describe a uniquely Indigenous cultural, spiritual, sexual, and gender identity. Perhaps he made a connection to that?

[@kotah7717]

As an indigenous lgbtqia+ 2s (just the term I’ve heard that stuck in my head, but totally agree with Hunter) I lost my shit laughing 😂

[@ShanaLawson]

@@hntrthmpsn when I heard of 2S I immediately thought it should go in the front since it’s technically the first ever recognized group. Just bc it wasn’t known in western cultures doesn’t mean it wasn’t being acknowledged and respected elsewhere.

[@ExtremeWreck]

I thought "I" stood for ice.

[@himanshik3160]

This proves - Be it old gays or baby gays - ' Comming out is never a piece of cake. But Always worth it'. Be You. Do You. Celebrate You.

[@jamiemeyler1983]

Himanshi K #wellsaid!!.. 👏🏼👏🏼👌🏼😉

[@jamiemeyler1983]

Well said!!.. 👏🏼👏🏼👌🏼😉

[@RLTW2003]

Come out and be proud but don’t rub the shit in others faces.

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@Bea.S At least for now, anti-trans and gay laws are being passed again

[@tanie3543]

Not possible when I'll get killed for being gay in this place :) and I'll get married off to a man

[@AaMmack]

“I consider it as” is such a respectful way to speak in conversation. Props👊

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The elderly gay gentleman is the cutest grandpa ever ❤

[@johnabraham6695]

I think he's annoying

[@tideio]

@@johnabraham6695 I can see why you think that

[@thandomavuso9374]

It's because he has phlegm in his throat and he's not clearing it out 😭😭😭😭 I'm struggling to finish the video even

[@tevin1185]

That cheers had me 😭

[@jonvillanueva1000]

@@johnabraham6695 same. I went to the comments to c if anyone Said anything 💀

[@bcueva9674]

I am an old Gay and unapologetic about it. I am proud of our babies and all the things they will teach the generation that follows.

[@rhianlewis2273]

I'm in between, I think? I'm 33, so I graduated high school a good 8 years before gay marriage was legal. Even coming from a supportive family, that baggage is for real. I'm so happy for Gen z gays and beyond! So much awareness.

[@AprilCMango]

I love these pairings and really appreciate that we have a “baby gay” who’s a little older in age and has had kids

[@lauradoesart]

The poor explanation of asexuality was... something.

[@Toruk_Makto17]

yeah ik 😭

[@martinmateer2925]

Yeah it kind of rubbed me the wrong way. And it definitely ISN'T cis-hetero. Cis maybe, but not hetero. Aces by definition are not heterosexual.

[@KpTheG]

@@martinmateer2925 because they’re not sexually attracted to anyone?

[@akiyamada2306]

Ace and Aro folx are part of the Queer community .full stop.

[@martinmateer2925]

@@KpTheG correct.

[@mollygoodwin6670]

The ace ignorance is a killer tho. Asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction - and not all aces are cishet.

[@eyespliced]

Well, sorta. There is more than one shade of ace.

[@mollygoodwin6670]

@@eyespliced yes, I know. I’m ace (somewhere on the spectrum) but the basic definition of asexuality is not experiencing sexual attraction. Though I know some do, or that it’s rare.

[@NiMissNi]

Yea. You can be asexual and bi/pan romantic

[@LadyIshca]

@@eyespliced Yuuuus

[@JebusTheSavior]

But being just Ace does not make you lgbt+.

[@JStorkey6]

"Indigenous" LMAO

[@Crashandburn80]

I was a little tipsy when I answered that lol

[@kateyx7199]

When he said ‘ I lost some people , but later on I learned they weren’t that important anyways’ I felt that . ❤️‍🩹

[@MissLadyPizza]

The different understandings of the LGBTQIA letters, i can't😂😂

[@toyotaprius79]

I'm grand with the LGBT+ , because it's a positive, inclusive definition at least

[@ricardorojas3872]

@@toyotaprius79 Yeah in Spanish we also use it in terms of efficiency.

[@therewasonceacatnamedmeimc247]

-INDIGENOUS-

[@ItsSimplyAless]

@@therewasonceacatnamedmeimc247 i think he may have been thinking of “2 spirited” which has to do with indigenous culture if i’m not mistaken

[@TearMyWorldFANTAGE]

Don’t worry it’s still LGBT

[@PokhrajRoy.]

That “phone a friend” bit was such fun OMG I love it 😂

[@unebaguette9745]

As an asexual I would like to say a BIG thank you to every allies here. You are the best! Asexuality and aromanticism are valid and part of the community, no matter if you like the opposite gender, the same gender, both equally or unequally, if you like NB people, or if you are not attracted to anyone, if you're cis or trans. Acearo people still feel love and attraction, like emotional attraction, platonic attraction, sensual attraction, aesthetic attraction, ect. Informe yourself on those subjects before spitting hate.

[@Alice-rt6fz]

Yeah, the video squicked me but seeing the comments made me feel better.

[@Amor_y_Alma]

Demi here! We need more representation and the spreading of accurate information about our A subcommunity. The definition given by that person was ignorant and harmful, and it's what spurs the prejudices and hate towards our ace/aro spectrum community.

[@dylaneyy]

@@Amor_y_Alma THIS!!! it really hurts when people don't even try to understand and just end up spreading lies and hate (even if it's unintentional) which actually just turns more people away from us. if there had been information about ace and aro specs when i was growing up it would've made my life a lot less challenging. feeling like you're broken and unfixable is not healthy for anyone, it's especially not healthy when we end up feeling like we have to force ourselves into sexual experiences because we "have to like it" or "just haven't found the right person". if there was simply more information about our community it would've saved me and many other individuals a lot less isolation and trauma.

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@@dylaneyy Well jaiden animations made and aroace video that reached a lot of people. She has a large community. So that may help the future generations a bit

[@rmartin8711]

So disappointing that we still aren’t getting what asexual means even within the community. Feels isolating af

[@pickle8390]

Ikr that definition was way off! Somebody found out I was acespec today and it was hard for them to grasp, sadly this video won't help people to understand :

[@Tony.S420]

Asexual isn’t apart of the lgbtq community you guys just don’t have sex

[@rmartin8711]

@@Tony.S420 I am. I am not hetero. Moreover I am *romantically* attracted to women. Where do I belong? I am not a straight person. Additionally if you deny the “A” stands for asexual, you must be saying it stands for Ally…which means, straight people? So by that logic, straight people belong more in the LGBT community than me, a woman who likes women. I can’t make that figure.

[@Tony.S420]

But you don’t see them trynna be accepted into something their not

[@Tony.S420]

@@rmartin8711 than you just have friends who are girls🤣😂🤣

[@grutarg2938]

There was a time, about 20 years ago, when Q & A stood for questioning and allies in a campus group I was in. It made it more OK for people who were not out, or were figuring out their orientations, or who genuinely were allies which is still a powerful thing to be.

[@imjustsomeguy72]

Yeah, there's a lot of lack of chill in these comments from people who don't recognise that LGBTQIA+, like literally everything else we all hold near and dear, is a recent construct and is notsome monoloithic thing we unearthed from the bowels of the goddamn earth. If we could all maybe be a little kinder to people who clearly want to be allies (yes, even those "old fossil gays" from yesteryear who don't know what being asexual or queer means, god forbid), we might also gain some insight into the history of fight for equality and how it has had to shift over the years, and maybe avoid making shibboleths for future generations.

[@maniaccherry8490]

It so wholesome when the old gays motivated thhe young gays!Such a wholesome content❤

[@karenrn5607]

I started crying!!

[@susannathaniel874]

It was interesting that when one would give a definition instead of listening or questioning they'd be like "nope, mine is right" like the "A" once did stand for ally, now it stands for aspec. This could have been a learning experience

[@wifemomteacherlife7648]

This “Don’t say gay” bullshit makes me so angry. As a teacher I have constant contact with children who might be LGBTQIA, and there is NO WAY that I will be quiet and not support those children! All children should know unconditional love and support!

[@ericreid3540]

Let children be children, there’s nothing wrong with being LGBTQ+ but at such a young age they should have no knowledge of that

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@@ericreid3540 I knew I was gay around age 7, but didn't know what homosexuality was. If I told a teacher my feelings, they wouldn't be able to say anything back or comfort me. If I had two gay parents, am I not allowed to talk about them? Is my teacher not allowed to talk about them either? If there is homophobia in the class, is the teacher not allowed to stop it because they can't talk about gay individuals?

[@corngunner]

@@spongebobislyfe5906 that’s not what the don’t say gay bill is. The don’t say gay bill is where a teacher has to report if they hear a child’s parent is giving them hormone blockers or surgery, which is child abuse.

[@corngunner]

Obviously you don’t know what the “don’t say gay” bill is.

[@catherinebonner6902]

@corngunner You are thinking of a directive from the governor of Texas for child welfare to investigate any families whose children are transitioning. The ‘Don’t say gay’ bill was issued in Florida, and limits what can/cannot be said about sexuality in the classroom.

[@Halatheone]

You can't expect everyone to be educated on everything! It is okay that some didn't know what the a or i stood for, as long as they are respectful it is all that matters. People nowadays are taking things to the extreme especially with being politically correct! If you see that the person has no intention of offending you why get mad?

[@carolstaneck7694]

I dont think they were very respectful though.. correct me if I'm wrong, but he implied that acespec people shouldn't really be considered as part of the community* *I had used the word queer to refer to the community, but I've been made aware that not everyone is comfortable with that word since it once was a slur, so I edited it out of my comment. Sorry, guys. Didn't have the intention of hurting anyone, but thank you for letting me know.

[@revatijagdale1765]

I agree with you. No one is “cancelling” that’s not it. But as an ace person who is in love with a same sex person, I felt disoriented smack middle of an otherwise wholesome video. I respect their views as they’ve been in the scene longer. But I feel all the comments pointing out that ace people also belong to lgbtqia community speak for me and the flare of “wait what :( no” I felt when they talking about Ace people. All peace though I agree with you in the end. :)

[@EnzoPepsiCola]

@@carolstaneck7694 tbh....I get what you're saying but in the end that's his opinion

[@carolstaneck7694]

@@EnzoPepsiCola prejudice shouldn't be just brushed off as opinions

[@carolstaneck7694]

I don't think they meant it in a malicious way, but that's a conversation we should be having. While reading the comments I found more people erasing aro/ace identities, which is quite of a bummer coming from the community itself

[@completefemboyr.n.g1308]

As an 18 year old pansexual I need to have a conversation with an old timer that will understand

[@bunny-pq9vt]

the different views on terms like "gay agenda" (and "gay panic" for example) are so worrying because a lot of young gays don't know the original meanings and therefore don't realise how shocking or even harmful some things they say can be

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

I never thought about it in that way, but I see what you mean.

[@summero-my5in]

What do they mean then

[@noeyedgirl]

Could you explain a little?

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

The gay agenda was used by the religious right as a way to demonize LGBTQ+ individuals, and their acceptance. It originated from a homophobic video and has been used in all sorts of arguments. Usually based off of the "slippery slope" that LGBTQ+ positive laws would lead to incest, bestiality, and pedophilia. It is also used in other countries. The gay/trans panic argument allows the use of violence and murder against members of the LGBTQ+ community, because of unwanted sexual advances. It is a plea of temporary insanity. This argument is not outlawed, and it has been used to deflect hate crime charges, and give those who use it lighter punishments. This includes cases where the victim was beaten to death.

[@firstlast8982]

i'm pretty sure everyone knows the origin, its not like its still not used in that way but it just sounds ridiculous now BECAUSE of the fact that we talk about it in this way. Same way queer used to be a slur but now its a label used by a lot of lgbt people, its reclaiming the term and removing its power.

[@euns2eo]

2:14 INDIGENOUS IM LITERALLY DAD

[@apet6752]

Aro/ace people are valid. Queer people are valid. We welcome you to our community 🖤💜

[@unebaguette9745]

Thank you, you are going places, amazing places.

[@stacy4436]

Thank you 🥺♠️🌈

[@Amor_y_Alma]

Demi here 💜🖤🤍 Thank you. We receive so much hate from our own broader LGBTQIA+ community. It really hurts us.

[@dingdongfootball5331]

Thought it was weird when the one older guy said that asexual people are cishet. Some may be cis and heteromantic, but others are not. I think he might just not be very informed on the topic though, a lot of older people don’t know much about it

[@rianlynn3854]

thank you so much!

[@dakotac180]

Lol the old white guy is done with everyone and everything 🤣

[@Zippy15]

I like how she said that she ONLY lost her brother in body. Because the more painful loss was the initial rejection. People don't realize that sometimes the deepest grief is for those who are still alive.

[@B.B.LeGum420]

Cut needs to do "truth or toke" for our non-drinkers out there

[@augusts1]

I hope this will be a new ongoing series w/older & younger gays because I loved hearing each perspective.

[@dejWA]

love this! DEF need a longer version, though! Feels like every question was left unanswered; by the person answering, their partner, and in general.

[@dejWA]

7+ mins, but feels like 3 or 4. GIMME MOREEEE

[@trevor4530]

just here to validate anyone who is asexual, you are an important part of the community and you are seen. this includes anyone anywhere on the ace spectrum. cut maybe when things like this are said and you choose to leave it in the video, the least you can do is put a disclaimer correcting misinformation

[@unebaguette9745]

That is a great piece of advice. Also thank you.

[@childofathena_]

Yeah. I was like, "they are going to correct them, right? At least put an advice about the right definition of asexual?". I get that not everyone knows about asexuality, it's fine! But at least, correct people when they say wrong definitions/thing about it, cause others are going to watch this video and think thay asexual actually means what they said.

[@lexi219]

@@childofathena_ Could you imagine if that part had someone saying trans people or bi people weren't a part of the community or that they were basically cishet? It's wild how aces being invalidated is chill to so many people creating content.

[@berndeckenfels]

Oh my, the asexual understanding is not even strong in the scene

[@sunshineman5640]

Fr I was boutta comment this lol

[@clairecreates04]

I was so disappointed lol

[@Lilian040210]

There was absolutely no understanding involved whatsoever

[@woongfairy]

yikesss i’m not surprised but it’s still super alienating and upsetting to see the lack of awareness about asexuality. and it’s even sadder that i’m not surprised, that i’m used to seeing our identities being invalidated or used to seeing comments about how we don’t belong /:

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

You do belong in our community, anyone who says otherwise is either bigoted, or ignorant.

[@mrtymrtt5061]

not everyone is educated on it

[@raymax_1071]

This concept is so good.

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

Jaiden animations made an aroace video if you haven't seen it already

[@raymax_1071]

@@spongebobislyfe5906 Oh yeah, I did. It's pretty good, thanks for the recommendation!

[@nessienessie3739]

@@spongebobislyfe5906 It was great...

[@childofathena_]

When that person said that "asexual" meant something realated to gender i was like: "it's not- it means we don't feel the need to have sex, or we're completely against having it". Like, why people still doesn't get it- Ps. I perfectly know that there is a spectrum! That there can be no to poor attraction, not wanting to do it totally, enjoying it anyways but just not feeling the attraction to having sex. I just pointed out the general aspects, if that makes sense?

[@sakurarose5027]

green shirt girl is adorable.

[@euns2eo]

the old gentlemen and the beautiful asian person were so sweet, i want more content of them

[@astrophysiciann]

i was hurt by that moment in the video, being asexual, but coming to the comments and seeing a lot of support was comforting ♥

[@dudewars9072]

I'm homophobic

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@@dudewars9072 Get better at trolling

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

Yup there are people willing to support you in the LGBTQ+ community, and outside it as well

[@unebaguette9745]

I know I feel it too! It's amazing!

[@a_random_person___]

@@dudewars9072 ngl i think anybody named "jArEn" is homophobic

[@wendywebber6137]

Those "what do the letters stand for" answers physically hurt me.

[@NoName-qx4tr]

im upset that aspec people get isolated even in conversations happening inside the community

[@LF-mg3nx]

I hear you , that part was hard to watch honestly

[@Katiec6597]

It makes me want to cry as an asexual. And I’m biromantic

[@etnarocha2003]

Ace isn't a sexuality. It's a way of expressing your sexuality. You can be ace and be hetero. Unless you are attracted to the same gender or many others, than you are straight. That's your sexuality

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

Yeah sadly there is bigotry in the LGBTQ+ community, but there are many others who will accept and empathize with you.

[@Katiec6597]

@@spongebobislyfe5906 true. Just wish people weren’t ignorant or like this ya know. The world can suck

[@alexb389]

0:48 she REALLY called me out. Im currently sitting in my 2013 subaru legacy and the only reason im not wearing birkenstocks is bc i wantsd to wear crocx instead

[@cantbechoosy]

I LOVED the old person in white cap! I enjoyed almost everything he said and I adore his personality💜✨🙌

[@user0c34s2q2]

"the "i" is for indigenous" i died lol

[@SalamBustanji]

ASEXUALITY IS NOT CES HETREO im asexual and im NON BINARY AND I HAVE FEELING FOR ALL GENDERS AND I KNOW MANY ACE WHO IDENTIFY AS NON-BINARY OR TRANS AND SO MUCH MORE.

[@Harleylover14]

I love cranky old gays ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@revatijagdale1765]

Loved the video but felt disoriented by their views on asexuality. I hear what they’re trynna say but as an ace who’s in love with a same sex person, I can (/want to) say that I’m also a part of the community. Such statements make it kind of hard to vibe but okay.

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

You're a part of the community, don't let anyone make you believe otherwise

[@corngunner]

If your attracted to the same gender just say your gay no need to be extra and add this asexual bullshit

[@apet6752]

You DO belong in the LGBTQ+ community. Ace-erasure is a huge issue still and everyday we fight against the ignorance 💜🖤

[@marmar90000]

@@corngunner Nah, this ain't it. Just say that you don't understand what asexuality is and why it should be named, and call it a day.

[@laropalina]

Omg wow as a queer ace spec person I am not feeling the ignorance at 2:26 😬 Also why the fuck would ally be in LGBTQ when the whole point of lgbtq is non cishet?

[@nooneanonymous3340]

It did used to be part of the community, I think. But being an ally is getting more normal now, so it doesn’t really need to be. Some people still include it, however. Lgbtqiaap2sp. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, intersex, asexual, ally, pansexual, 2 spirit.

[@dianalove539]

*no time

[@Derhek]

Well Q did stand for questioning. And "queer" wasn't considered an identity, and it's still pretty nebulous let's be honest

[@Nishkween]

"Indigenous" lmao! Being Indigenous that one cracked me up. Also, a FYI, we do use "2S" in the acronym - mostly up here in Canada, but also in some places/communities in the USA as well. "2S" stands for Two Spirit.

[@Crashandburn80]

I was tipsy lol

[@Nishkween]

@@Crashandburn80 🤣

[@neversaygoodbye4]

“Here’s to you. Here’s to me. Should we ever disagree, f*ck you. Here’s to me.” That was great!! 😂😂

[@Stayville_Clown]

I’m only 17 and I’m just realizing how lucky I should feel to have parents who just don’t give a shit if I date a girl or guy. They say as long as it’s not someone who hurts me or something like that, go for it. Honestly, if you’re not as lucky as I am, I feel bad for you. One of my closest friends is trans and he has parents that would beat him for being not straight and cis.

[@이바다-d1u]

these interactions are the best lmao

[@mimidoll13]

The ignorance surrounding ace and aro people within the community really kills me.

[@TearMyWorldFANTAGE]

It’s because they aren’t part of the community, wake up.

[@mimidoll13]

@@TearMyWorldFANTAGE why do you believe that?

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@@TearMyWorldFANTAGE They're a part of the community, they face the same struggles and bigotry we do

[@spam.meisubi]

@@TearMyWorldFANTAGE why do you feel the need to be so exclusionary? the community encompasses anyone who isn't cis/het, and aro/ace people fall under that description. they feel the same alienation we do, unfortunately you're part of the problem there.

[@lostagain9386]

@@TearMyWorldFANTAGE What makes them not part of the community? Demi-sexual here. I have dated both a man and a woman- have had sex with neither. Sex is not on my radar with people- its something I *might* consider one day, but really have next to no temptation nor drive for. This goes for both Men and Women. So assuming that I was not dating at all, I would *still* be ace. Not looking for sex from *either*. Just as someone who is gay might not my in a relationship, but that still does not make them any less gay. I have no idea where you are getting it from that ace spectrum people aren't lgbtq?? Like- why exactly do you think this? I just don't know how it doesn't make sense to people?? You don't have an interest in sex is broader than just having an interest in one. That applies across the board which at the very least makes it a closer comparison to someone who is Pan- Would you tell a pansexual person that they aren't *really* pan because they happen to be dating a single gender and just assume that they are now either gay or het based on their current partner?? Seriously. Explain this thought process to me and why its so exclusionary? What are the stipulations here???

[@k.a.artistry1721]

Guy in the pink shirt is such a vibe , just wanna hang around him and laugh 😂🫶🏻

[@lynnhettrick7588]

He seems fun!

[@lucieleairth]

"Indigenous" killed me hahaha

[@jupitermoonjosi]

no because I really went straight to buy a tinashe shirt just bc that person was wearing her merch ugh i love us

[@vishalg90]

Elderly gay gentleman is MARK MOM FINLEY-The drag queen. I'm surprised nobody recognized him/her.

[@earth2ellie]

I think what would have been better is that after the LGBTQIA+ abbreviation significance, they could’ve explained what each means, particularly Aspec since that definition was wrong. They described non-binary more by my knowledge.

[@analinakos]

This is the most wholesome video I’ve seen in a while. Truly heartwarming advice all of us can take. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@babiimak3r]

Love this!! We need more of this content like this

[@djkid22]

This was a lovely episode! I love the contrast between older and younger gays. It's very interesting!

[@justacozygirl]

this hurt as an ace

[@lilrobodoge6749]

All ace's are valid, straight or not.

[@Lilian040210]

Homies how hard is it to understand? No attraction and opposite sex attraction are 2 completely different things. If u're referring to love\affection omance that ace people might experience, then it's a whole different topic and has nothing to do with term defining sexuality😤

[@lilrobodoge6749]

@@Lilian040210 English is not my first language so I'm not sure what you mean, but if you are asking what i ment when i said "straight or not", i ment those who are on the ace spectrum and are more or less straight. Maybe demisexual or aceflux and straight. And they are all still valid (regardless of romantic interest).

[@mushroomqueen8033]

He's right, it used to be Questioning and Ally

[@symone6239]

“I don’t know if I’m more gay, but I have driven a Subaru” 😭😭

[@mariakienelmido893]

Just here, waiting for the wholesome comments 🤣

[@nicholas4725]

“But I have driven a Subaru” 🤣🤣😭

[@arnav4174]

“Indigenous”😂

[@geneventide5314]

This was a very lovely video! But I do think that asexual bit was handled poorly. Aces and aromatic folks are a big part of our community. Plus queer is a very important word and definition! Very interesting perspectives

[@racheal1998]

Thank you!!!

[@ItsssSnow]

Im in the community & just being ace does not mean you’re in LGBT+. Ace the basic term is non sexual. That has nothing to do with the lgbt . Just personally someone is asexual meaning they don’t have sexual relationships more attracted to a person by their mind.

[@ItsssSnow]

I think thats what their applying!! But queer is definitely a part of it so im not sure.

[@geneventide5314]

@@ItsssSnow you’re actually wrong about that one. Asexual and aromantic people are a part of the lgbt+ community. They always have and always will. So please don’t be exclusionary it’s not very kind. I urge you to understand this.

[@spongebobislyfe5906]

@@ItsssSnow Asexuality deviates from the norm, so it is a part of the LGBTQ+ community. They face bigotry as well, and sadly it's within the community itself

[@loveandhate52]

Love waking up to people saying aspec is basically cishet and 1) ignoring all the queer/trans people who identify on the ace and aro spectrums and 2) invalidating asexual people who may also be cishet and heteroromantic, because we clearly don't feel enough invalidation for our sexuality on our own /s

[@susFrenchieDoll]

Retweet ♥️

[@newhumanzygote]

But do you really think cis het asexual people should be in the lgbtq community? Obviously queer and trans ace people are a part of the community but thats because they're..... queer and trans. not ace

[@dreamingofthemoon]

!!thiss

[@ceilingfanv]

if ur aro or ace and cishet ur not lgbt lol ur just a straight person wanting to b grouped in for some reason😭 unless u are both aro AND ace. have a great day tho

[@lexi219]

@@ceilingfanv I love it when people are proud about not understanding the basic definitions of words. Y'all just out here being openly pathetic for no reason lmaooo

[@dewkissedherba]

“and i do own TiVos, so yeah I’m more gay” 😂❤

[@leah6820-y9v]

Thank you for the older gays who came before us.

[@carlynfuller9572]

We can’t expect people to always know the definitions of things but we can educate and advocate❤️

[@lunaluna6474]

0:30 "ive just been around far too long" damn what a vibe

[@dimitrius2341]

I stan the baby gay wearing the Tinashe 333 t-shirt 😍

[@jackiem3516]

The person wearing a Tinashe shirt is automatically the coolest person in the video lol

[@crashtatti]

when he said “indigineous” 😭

[@KuroSaikKisu]

im ace and i sure as hell aint straight tho 😭💀

[@oliverzoomer4529]

The wrong definition of asexual kinda annoyed me even tho im not ace.

[@soulfoodsmama2980]

“Cargo shorts and subarus and Birkenstock’s with socks on” 💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@megancurtis9502]

It’s my opinion that the bare minimum for being in the community and a good ally to the other members is making an effort to understand their struggles so we can all support each other. Especially intersex and asexuality. The amount of people who have no idea what those are or what they may go through is unacceptable to me. Everyone is still learning, it’s the being close off to learning and indifference to others that upsets me.

[@er.469]

All Aces are welcome in the community!

[@marleymescudi]

Lolllll the way my dumb ass confidently said, “indigenous” with him. 😭

[@sebastianaguilar731]

HE SAID I FOR INDIGENOUS💀💀💀

[@leeriches8841]

Young gays really do have it a hell of a lot better than us older ones did. Even as 'recent' as 22 years ago when I started high school, there wasn't a single out gay person. I never had any close friends I felt comfortable enough speaking to about stuff like that because it just wasn't spoken about like it is today. Teachers were fairly homophobic in general so it wasn't even as though I was in an environment I felt I could possibly be open even if I plucked up all the courage in the world. My first message to younger gays is do not put yourself down because there's already plenty of people out there that will do it for you. Enjoy your youth and don't waste it chasing things you'll achieve later in life. And finally- pick up where we left off and continue the fight to make the world a safer and more loving place for the future gays.

[@WhatchaThinkingNow]

CAN I JUST SAY!!! Y’all have been giving us quality Cut videos lately! 🙌🏾💃🏾🙌🏾

[@crashtatti]

the curly hair & pink shirt are my favorite pair seem like they could be good friends

[@Crashandburn80]

I appreciate that ! She was amazing

[@NA-xp2cr]

When the person with the long black hair started talking I was so surprised.

[@Bunnironi]

ROFLMAO the older man in the hat before they take a shot. 😂😂😂

[@lynnhettrick7588]

6:35 Pink shirt guy is awesome! ❤️

[@edithsaufoi2431]

She said it looks like you need to phone a friend , I might be that friend

[@jillsarah7356]

Aro/ace people are valid. Queer people are valid. Sending support

[@lenasophie5455]

Love that the Birkenstocks with socks could either mean Gay or German haha

[@thedessway7295]

I felt hit at the Birkenstocks and socks 🤔🤣

[@whome7498]

I hope they have the "old gays" group on here I love watching them

[@kalebr560]

Took me a second to recognize mark out of drag

[@akiyamada2306]

Ace and Aro folx are part of the Queer community .full stop.

[@rebekkakofodnielsen7495]

This was so very wholesome!