Only Feelings Are Real: Episode 1 - Long Distance Relationships With Toni Tone and Taiwo

[@jamiatyusuf1704]

Who is here after they got engaged ❤❤

[@drfajembolaazeezat]

I can't wait to see Taiwo and Toni get married already... Two mature self aware adults... Creme de la creme!!!

[@69avenue]

me i already tied my gele for the wedding from when i saw them together. CONFAM!

[@MSNSK25]

T square ❤

[@giftnwanja3452]

100% behind you

[@elodinmabenedicta3557]

I love them❤

[@JoyNwachukwu-w3y]

We full ground. Very intentional beings, I love to see❤

[@WrapsPops]

Toni is a very strong woman but the way she melts in Taiwos presence is so beautiful to see ❤❤❤

[@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast]

They’re friggin cuuute and definitely Good ordained

[@heyOmotayo]

Beautiful. And so healing. Because to get two nigerian men to publicy love so hard on their nigerian women on the world wide web in 2024?!! I receive this with all my heart! Sending you all SO much love! May you spend many many years gazing lovingly into each other’s eyes ❤❤❤

[@maryadedeji368]

"People miss out on all the beautiful things in life because they are trying to play a role" - Taiwo

[@mgbemena_]

I just clocked something. T x T = Toni x Taye, F x F = Fisayo x Folabi 🤭🤭

[@modesolaojumu2654]

I literally just wrote this. Loveeet 😅

[@TheDenikeOlori]

T2 and F2

[@yiwo-numenyi-nnely-shey]

So beautiful ❤❤

[@OpeyemiPhilips]

I kept thinking to myself, "These are Nigerians!!! Loving in a healthy way. Finally something I relate to and from people I admire." Fisayo! You're a genius. It has shown through your work, words and fashion statements but this side of you is so beautiful and thank you for sharing with us.

[@divinelymade4721]

Toni and Taiwo are so lucky to have found each other. I hope their love lasts a lifetime ❤

[@mercyofugar1369]

God snapped when he thought about creating smart sweet people

[@cyrealhot]

You don't need to apologize for going scriptural, we are here for it. I think most men are lazy, they don't want to invest more than they should that's why they call good men simps. We love healthy! We needed this conversation thank you!

[@LolSmilez4]

Honestly it's why a lot of them were shocked when Kirk Franklin said the same thing, they don't realise that to love God is to put others before you at times

[@RenaiPage]

“We love healthy!”❤

[@nutrifitwellnessandconslt]

It's just so refreshing to know that there are very responsible men out there who understand the value of great relationships.may we meet them,may we know them and may we marry them Amen.

[@lyndan3946]

Amen

[@itsjoie3983]

Amen oo

[@blessingushie808]

Amen

[@so_lux1]

Amen.🙏🏽 ✨

[@eleon9709]

Amen

[@EJIMANnenaNgozi]

This was great but from my experience there are a few other factors that help a long distance relationship work that were hinted but not stated explicitly 1. TRAVEL- Both ppl need to be able to travel. Becomes challenging when its only one way 2. FINANCES - both partners need to invest in it because its not cheap 3. SCHEDULING VISITS- i believe the guy needs to visit you first to show hes committed. Many men are low effort these days. Even local ones. When Taiwo mentioned booking a flight within weeks of meeting Toni to London im like hes a real one! Its not to say things wont work if you cant do these but from personal experience they can really impact the experience.

[@yolz555]

I agree. I will add direct and honest communication is key. Because that is how trust will be built. Keeping Hi God at the centre of the relationship ❤.

[@abidatakinleye3738]

People miss out on all the beautiful things in the world because they want to play a role - Taiwo.

[@yayraartiso9491]

Beyond Taiwo’s comic side he really has a beautiful,sound and respectful mindset and I now see why Toni actually fell for him not just his looks but his character as well..rooting for you … First time listening to Fisayo,I only know her cz of her clothing business but I must confess she has such a beautiful personality and I’d love to see more of her..and oh,that’s a cute man you have on your arm too gurl…..

[@shonnywilliam9350]

Its the way Toni is just looking at Taiwo with soo much love❤

[@leanolaone6431]

Listen Sis is gone gone & I love it for them❤

[@melodynwankpa5997]

Likeeee… she looks so happyyyy🥹🥰🥰

[@Bukky86]

Love the vibe/connection between Fisayo and Folabi. It seems so genuine, open and pure. You can tell that besides the relationship, there’s a great friendship there. They complement each other well. Great first episode! 👏🏽👏🏽 Toni and Fisayo are so so gorgeous!!

[@lolaatolani8510]

My sentiments exactly! I came for Toni and Taiwo’s story but was pleasantly surprised by Fisayo and Folabi’s interactions. This was a great watch!

[@charlesumukoro5426]

Honestly this has been so helpful. I lost my lady three weeks to our wedding, she passed November 15th and hearing you guys I could relate to all you guys said and my relationship was just so good. Thanks for this, healing takes time they say. Thanks again. You guys rock.

[@blessingekpo6228]

😔😟I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope God comforts you and you are able to rise from this. Stay strong.

[@hasiatabubakari8075]

Oh dear! Lots of hugs to you 🫂

[@ellamia6827]

I'm so sorry for your loss

[@Temwachii]

I’m so so sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

[@angyjoseph6438]

So sorry to hear that. May God heal and compensate you

[@Eleniaax]

The way I’m smiling 🥹🥹because now they getting married!!

[@thelmalorrindalartey1308]

Watching these people i realised how each and everyone had worked on themselves and still working and growing making it easy for both partners to be together and continue to work on one another.❤So much respect and maturity here

[@eniolakeshinro]

I’ve never related with a “relationship video” like I do with this. To hear my innermost thoughts, values and desires, so clearly articulated, is just refreshing! I want to thank you 4 for sharing this with us. I wish you all the very best in your marriages. ❤

[@lawwdhavemercy649]

Oh my gosh! Same, honestly

[@adisaabiola3253]

Exactly my thoughts. There is so much "healthiness" in one video.

[@joannaokeyogunjiofor]

The cutest, most wholesome round table conversation ever!🥹❤️

[@DIOTBRAND]

The day Toni tones and taye get engaged I will be so happy 😀 ❤

[@tim5360]

It has happened

[@batubovanessa8793]

Being comfortable with long periods of peace is so real😭

[@Cairo21]

Fisayo and Folabi are so authentic, so wholesome 🥰🥰

[@hisname2009]

Omo, forget… God dey create! See fine men and women. Damn… pls invite us to your wedding

[@abisola21ify]

Taiwo seems like an absolute gem ! Prayers worked Toni ❤️

[@Springrolllll]

Healthy relationships where you communicate>>>

[@kirstyackah9853]

The way Taiwo looks at Toni ❤

[@pelumiodutola9400]

Toni and Fisayo ❤❤❤…two ladies I love, sitting together to have the most wholesome conversation I have listened to in a very long time, is pure bliss. Your men are angels and I’m so glad that you are both deeply loved, valued and taken care of. Taiwo is so soft, so in love, love it for Toni. Folabi is a keeper. To let you how good this made me feel, I left this comment. I never leave comments. 😅❤

[@adalikestolaugh]

This was so beautiful to watch. I was cheesing from start to finish. I particularly love the rawness between Fisayo and Folabi. It takes a lot of humility to admit that your partner might be the better person. Props to him for also not lording it over you but instead giving you the grace to grow 🥺🥺🥺

[@titilayooluwatosin5891]

Fisayo's voice sounds like a sweet melody. like honey and i dont even know what honey sounds like. 😍

[@MissAmyBaybie]

I applaud the honesty across the board. Like Taiwo said "I trust people until they give a reason not to" is what I also live by. You are so in love and it is beautiful to see. I love the sneak peak of the Kai Collection dresses too ❤

[@myeurekachannel]

U can tell Toni is sooooo inlove … n I actually thought fisayo n boo were already married 🥰🥰 they looked like couples who hv being together for years..

[@ricardoricochet3021]

Me and you next❤😁

[@TK-sn2ot]

Me too. I swear I thought I saw a wedding ring on him

[@abbyaroy7436]

I have been married for 7years and my husband and I were in a long distance for 18months before we got married and then in a long distance marriage for a year before we moved in together. I can so relate with what the four of them were saying. My heart is bursting with so much love for all 4. I pray and I hope both relationships go ahead to develop to healthy marriages. ❤❤❤❤

[@abigailadeyemo]

this conversation has shifted something in my brain on my view of relationships. I’m so happy I’m seeing this at the beginning of the year 💕wishing you guys a lifetime of love and happiness!

[@haniyahbakare]

I teared up after Toni said Taye challenged her to be a better person cause it's usually the other way round where the woman is the one doing more. As someone who's done more 😢, I pictured being on the receiving end and it was so beautiful, I cried. The way words shift our mindset is so amazing! 🥰 I absolutely loved the light and love between Fisayo and Folabi as well. Seeing how comfortable they are around each other, yet individualistic they are in their personalities was so beautiful. Thank you for sharing the sunrise story, Fisayo, absolutely beautiful the way Folabi handled. I'm happy you found someone who treats you better and proud of the healing work you put into your attachment style ❤️

[@medlynpepple6703]

I love how mature these people are. Toni is such a blessed woman. Love how she and Taiwo's love has blossomed. Shout out to the host and her partner. I love how realistic and intentional they are. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm so inspired. ❤

[@123456789001zxcvbnm]

I didn’t expect to cry watching this 😢. It’s so beautiful to see black people being loved out loud and speaking deeply about their lover. This the content the world needs ❤

[@chocochic6291]

seeing this video made to realize that your upbringing really sharpens the way you view life and relationships

[@stephanieigboanugo7121]

This was so enlightening. I am relieved to see such real content on dating, especially from Nigerian couples. Lately the scene has been does he cheat question and how much does he have. Super relieved this content exists. And I wish blessings, happiness and fun on both couples.

[@rinuakinwale2596]

Best conversation I ever listened to in years, classy and yet educated 🤗🤗👏🏼thank you

[@letmebeawoman]

you knooooow

[@tolaalabi8602]

Well done Fisayo, so proud of you!

[@BlessingMoses-x7i]

I'm in a long distance relationship and I can 100% relate to Fisayo every single word she said

[@ItsMimi_]

when toni almost cried,i got real emotional. i have been following her on instagram,and shes just an amazing person.shes my big sister for life .❤❤❤

[@QueenofB.O.E]

This was so comforting to watch, I loved the authenticity of both couples and a healthy display of black love. We love to see it and may God continue to bless you’re unions 🙏🏾🖤 this has reinforced my feelings on why I need a Yoruba man lol

[@cecekam5582]

Lately, I've been immersing myself in a plethora of podcasts centered around relationships. It's fascinating to hear people express their desires and aspirations, constantly proclaiming, "I want this" and "I want that." Out of all the podcasts I've come across, there's one in particular that has captivated me to the point where I won't stray from it. It's made me realize the importance of self-reflection in my quest to find my perfect match. Without putting in the effort to understand myself and grow, I won't be able to attain the relationship I yearn for. Interestingly, in this episode , a woman candidly admitted that she's still working on herself while being in a relationship. It struck me how fortunate she is to have found someone who is not only willing to wait for her, but also actively supports her personal growth. The conversation between them was truly enlightening and inspiring. It reminded me that a successful relationship requires constant self-improvement and mutual support. This give us more!

[@theinfluentialprincess]

Hiii this is amazing. What's the podcast name title please?

[@imree8568]

@@theinfluentialprincessco ask please.

[@chinuadozie9550]

What’s the name of the podcast?

[@Sounds.like.Nilofar]

The moment he said his freind told him as much as your praying for the right partner pray for divine timing, damn that was deep I can't tell you how much divine timing is important I met the right one too at the wrong time .

[@elodinmabenedicta3557]

When u see genuine people in relationships you will know. They are so intentional about each other❤❤

[@michellehughes2012]

Fisayo was so transparent and vulnerable about her relationship, I have so much respect for her

[@stessieegouy]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we''ve been in a long distance relationship for a year because of my work. I appreciated this conversation 😊

[@oa1672]

The friendship factor is SO important

[@morayowills]

I totally get Folabi and Fisayo... as a 1st born daughter too, I find it hard to express myself and I feel like I give my brothers so love and care... I could see how Fisayo tried to stop herself from being overtly emotional... I can totally relate with you both and I wish you the best and must fulfilling love ❤❤❤

[@Shallyom]

she’s a first daughter. of course she’s a yeller 😭

[@FisayoLonge]

Looool. I’ve now changed sis 😂😭

[@haryel5058]

Lmaooo I have a good laugh 🤭🤣🤣🤣

[@therealsomabel]

😂😂😂 When I was little I was a yeller but I changed when as a little girl I did something and my mum instead of yelling at me spoke to me. I cried, like yell at me mum.. Since then, I don't yell. I talk to you, if you don't get it, I keep it moving

[@olajumokeayomiposi1127]

Gosh, can’t believe I watched a one hr + video without pausing, an hour Neva felt so short 😂 the love between Toni and Taiwo is so deep that you could feel it just by looking at them, the way they were holding hands, smiling at each other, completing each other’s sentences, whewwww I’m grateful for the both of them, I pray I find my own person too 🙏🙏 I’m here because of Toni and Taiwo but I’m now a fan of fisayo and folabi, I love when two intelligent and mature individuals are in love. You’ve gained a subscriber 😂 ❤❤❤

[@EboniM123]

I pray you find your person too 🙏🏾

[@sirizihindula]

i am so hooked, safe to say our african kings are evolving. watching healthy relationships is soothing 🥰

[@theresaokafor2628]

Omg I can relate so much to Fisayo saying she felt taken care of with how Folabi would help with even the littlest problems, the nurturing bit really hit home.

[@Ifeomaa]

Both ladies are wearing the same gowns but different colors, I guess it’s KAI Collective 😍😍

[@rochettemusonda2949]

I love how Toni & Taiwo be so healthy minded people,it's really good to see it❤❤❤ They really deserve each other. The other couple has a beautiful mindset too, the guy fabyo looks like an introvert and well put together and the lady is extroverted and expressive All in all lovely conversation😊

[@ayoolachristianah2132]

God!!! I love Toni and Taiwo’s relationship sm😍 The way they look at each other!! My God! If it’s not like this, I don’t want please😭🙏

[@ebereosemele6356]

My husband and I were long distance as well at the beginning of our relationship. It can work. Also, a man will make time and go above and beyond for the things he finds important.

[@Helennnn_o]

I can’t help but see how Toni and Taiwo have the same mannerism. The talk alike and have the same body posture and all It’s so cute and I wish them the very best ❤️

[@belledelemos9615]

Very well conducted conversation with a spontaneous narrative and great atmosphere. Congratulations. The studio aesthetics is on point Folabi. True and Real gems.. The Bell is on alert for the next episodes..:)

[@tatendadimingo8892]

I've been smiling the whole time , love Toni Tone and Taiwo and Fisayo ! Both couples compliment each other so well and the chemistry amongst all of them is great

[@winniesimeon7371]

Only 20 minutes in and this is so good. I have smiled so much . I love love ❤

[@oluwatimilehin_]

Taiwo and Toni’s love is so captivating and sweet to see. The hand touches just shows that they are a physical touch kinda couple. I love ittt ❤

[@khadeejahyusuf3563]

This is such an incredible piece and I’m glad I watched it. Toni made me cry and I’m so happy y’all are loving and loved as much as you deserve. I’m proud of you Fisayo, the stranger I love. Well done ❤

[@marveldera]

This was so beautiful to watch❤, they relally touched on important topics And the fact that Toni and Taiwo are getting married now!! ❤❤

[@deplace_tv]

This video should be titled self awareness, i see a group of mature and self aware individuals that have put in a lot of work in pereonal development.

[@theinfluentialprincess]

WOW this was so wholesome, refreshing, lovely 🥺🩷 Emotionally intelligent, mature people in HEALTHY relationships having conversations on Black love and LDR. We certainly need more like this. I loveeee! PS: God still has sons and daughters💯

[@user_sparkle77]

This was so heartwarming, two thoughtful humans with great mindsets, I could feel their trust and love right from looking at them. I pray for a successful union and I pray for this for every man and woman❤

[@theestherkay]

It's how each couple have their names starting with the same Alphabet. Toni and Taiwo. Folabi and Fisayo. Super Cute 🥰

[@khh26]

I am at a loss for words. This video was seriously the best podcast I’ve listened to in a while. Especially one on dating. I cried for at least 25 minutes in the last half. Everything about this was exceptionally done. And to know that your other half was able to show up on camera, to help you execute a podcast episode concept to promote your fashion brand is everything. This type of love is pure & rare. It brings people to their knees and speaks a language that only God Himself & the people in relationship together, understand. This video is healing & heals a lot of ideas in addition to my own mindset about long distance relationships. It couldn’t have come at a more perfect timing. This video brought me such sweet hope in a way I’ve never felt before. I will never stop believing in a love like this. And that it can & will exist for me too. Thank you.

[@KwambiPrincess]

I can listen to this conversation over and over. Simply put all relationships (long distance or not) can work and be healthy and loving but you both must be willing to put it the work to make them work.

[@lavish_schola]

This is soo beautiful and wholesome, four matured minds eloquently communicating facts.❤

[@femiadebayo9165]

Toni is one of my favorite people on SM. Very real, confident, matured

[@michelleonomeeku]

It feels so good to be watching matured people keep with so much love, intelligence and intentionality. I’m glad I gained the knowledge.

[@crestarose]

Y’all touched on such important topics omg!! I feel seen, I feel like I realised how strong my relationship is from this but also learned a lot to implement for my king! Also yes for black love!! Wow love this for us! Can’t wait for more episodes!! Subscribed ❤

[@ot4625]

The fashion and beauty at the Yoruba traditional will be fire for both sides! Imagine Kai Collective wedding pieces 🔥🔥🔥

[@Falcone807]

This is a healthy discussion, especially for those involved in dating, emphasizing complete honesty regarding what works best for you. There's no manual for relationships, but one thing is certain: you have to put in effort for it to succeed.

[@favourj1484]

Wooow niceee i like how Folabi managed their first fight. And I applaud Fisayo taking a feed back and working on it so quick. Like he said if she had stalled on that they might not be together cuz imagine someone swearing at you for a month straight, that would be toxic.

[@OHSOTRENDY777]

Taiwo and Toni are so intuned with each other. Love to see it … the physical touch,

[@lyndan3946]

I have come to love Fisayo! Shes such a strong personality and her taking accountability and giving her man credit. I love her voice too. ❤❤❤

[@Tunuwamai]

Laughed and cried so much!! Loved this so much and I’ll say it again, Fisayo you’re such a force

[@FisayoLonge]

thank you ❤

[@lyndan3946]

@@FisayoLongeomg i love you!! You are indeed a force ❤❤❤

[@B3CKiiSTAH]

I loved this video/conversation so much, the love between Toni and Taiwo and Fisayo and Folabi honestly had me tearing up at some points. Thank you for sharing!

[@lolameduteni]

I loved it! I was going to run to IG to comment there(might still do that), but I have to show my appreciation/adoration for this content here and boost it. I'm a bundle of contradictions because I personally don't desire romance, yet I enjoy romance in film and novels. Content, too, but I rarely find the kind of romance content online that appeals to me without turning me off in some way or making me roll my eyes. This was honest, earnest, gooey, goofy, funny, creative and you could not have chosen a better couple pair than you both. Will try really hard not to put both your relationships on pedestals after this, but I'm definitely rooting for F & F, T & T hard! Fisayo, you're one of one fasho.

[@Ahudaddie]

Taiwo and Toni are so physically touching people. It's the way they rub each other's hands and reach for it at intervals and just hold on to each other. Love it 😍

[@thearums8229]

This was a beautiful conversation. We need more men like this. I’m thankful my husband is one of them. 😊❤

[@sandraolweny5727]

Very authentic conversation @tonitone, you are the woman I aspire to be ...very articulate, groomed and feminine. Iam glad i stumbled onto you today.

[@yvonnendive5374]

This is a very good watch, it was super engaging I didn’t even know when 1hr reached. I’m just in awe of everyone’s strong identity in themselves, the self work that has been done❤

[@abloadebiyi]

The depth of self awareness in this video! And the depth of work Fisayo has put into her healing is awe-inspiring! I'm rooting so rooting for both couples happiness. Thank you for this transparency ❤️

[@adisaabiola3253]

This has to be the best relationship series I have watched. The uniqueness of both relationships, yet the similar values you all share is beautiful. The time Taiwo and Toni held hands, oh my gosh, I loveed it. Thank you for doing this and showing us not to settle for less. I am super glad I watched this!!!!

[@Summer-Rose]

This was so wholesome to watch! Love Toni and Taiwo’s relationship so much and I wish both couples all the happiness ❤️❤️❤️

[@olorunyomifola-oyetayo]

I LOVEDDDDD watching this. It made me so emotional thinking about how much I've been craving having my own person but I'm young, I still have time, my person is going to come and when they do, it'll be worth every minute of the wait.

[@deolaronipede372]

Toni is soo lucky. I’m so happy for their union ❤️❤️

[@Luxoafrika]

This is so wholesome to watch. This video has really sharpened my view on relationship. Healthy relationship sure do exist....... and I'm definitely having one.

[@Taurusbabe29]

I’ve always loved Toni and Taiwo, but this video is a new insight into Fisayo as an individual in love and outside of Kai Collective. I love how happy she is❤.

[@kelvinbobmanuel]

THIS IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO COOOOL!!!! I ENJOYED EVERY MOMENT. SHOUTOUT TO THE TWO MEN FOR SHOWING SO MUCH EMOTIONAL MATURITY, BEING CONFIDENT IN THEIR MASCULINITY, AND REMINDING MEN LIKE US THAT IT IS OK TO BE VULNERABLE (AS LONG YOU TRUST WHO YOU ARE VULNERABLE WITH) SO MUCH TO LEARN FROM ESPECIALLY FOR SINGLE FOLKS. Well done, Fisayo for inviting these people and having such a rich conversation

[@GiftedBut.HumanPod]

I really enjoyed watching this!! Watching loving and secure people talk about their relationships is so beautiful.This just reassured me that what you want is valid and out there. You aren’t asking too much and don’t settle for less.

[@yanmikeolowe1652]

so sweet. I'm melting. It's nice to see how different (not in a bad way) but similar y'alls relationships are.

[@OpeyemiPhilips]

I clapped when it ended. Felt like soul food!!!