Ooh Ladies First Panel GOSSIP & VIRAL STORIES

[@ray3art4]

I thought it was interesting that Amanda recognized the importance of getting a Master’s degree to be taken seriously by society when talking about race, but didn’t understand how people could expect that same level of professional backing when discussing an autism diagnosis.

[@MT-hk9cp]

If I could like this comment a million times. I like her but in small doses. Her lack of self-awareness is mind-blowing.

[@me-meluv6921]

Big facts....I agree

[@tammymorgan5348]

I agree, Bondy. She put her whole life on social media, was up and down my TL everyday and I don't even follow her, now we need to mind our business? Nah...B. We family now. Take our nephew to get evaluated.

[@clarissan1991]

It’s the way Necey and Jamie looked at Bondy when she was defending Amanda’s saying she was clinically diagnosed

[@rcheer09]

I really think when it comes to these men who like children it’s all true. I’ll never forget I seen a documentary on MSNBC about how a network of old men find remote / poor villages and seek the children of these areas and pay the parents to have their way with the children. It was disgusting. ALSO have y’all not seen atleast one episode of SVU. Where do yall think they are getting these story lines from?! The show has been on for over 20 years because they have so many real life situations to work from.

[@reginaoladehin1554]

Amanda had issues with Marsha Ambrosia back in the day when she was in Floetry, When she was hired on the Real she left the show because she didn't feel protected. Now Issa didn't protect her. Shannon Sharpe wasn't fair. You're right whenever she's in spaces where she's the only she's not difficult, but when she's sharing space with Black women she's there unprotected victim. Things that make you go hmmmm.

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

I never feel safe or ok around a lot of Black women .....I lived away from the US for many years... accustom to diversity in work and domestic settings....upon return to Ga, I cannot with the blk women....I am cordial but the meanness is overwhelming.

[@kdotnichole]

I can agree with the disconnect with the common denominator discourse…just bc most people find a problem, doesn’t always mean the person who’s allegedly always the problem is in the wrong. And I say this as a very introverted 🖤 woman with a serious RBF and am constantly written off as a mean btch, but I’m not the btch people try to make me out to be, I’m just quiet and I’m chillin

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

Yeah. Thee shihh ain't bout Drake being Lightskinned or Biracial. It's bout him being performative about everything he does.. and Him being Lightskinned & Not from The Hoods he speak on and perpetuate. Gives 'New New'.

[@tammymorgan5348]

I think people with money say they're not gonna leave their kids money just so they won't rely on it. It forces them to develop work ethic. That typically works for teens and adult children.

[@tashabnicole]

I definitely believe Amanda about Issa (still love her) but she definitely gives "my name Bennet and I ain't in it". And it makes sense cause those last two seasons, we didn't really see Amanda's character.

[@kdotnichole]

I called myself self-diagnosing ASD, challenged the first two psychiatrists who disagreed I was on the spectrum, then thought I was vindicated when my new psychiatrist referred me to a specialist bc she wanted to be sure in order to know how to proceed with treatment, but it was explained to me by the specialist that just bc there’s something there, it doesn’t mean that’s definitely what it is. While I do have some of the social characteristics, what I’m missing are the physical components associated with ASD. And I’m familiarizing myself more with ASD bc my goddaughter is on the spectrum.

[@MillieStatz]

Amanda was asked how old she was when she got her diagnosis she did say I was 42. Then she was asked if she had been clinically diagnosed…

[@taneishac4116]

Amanda said she was “clinically diagnosed” during the interview. She said she was recently diagnosed at age 42. Self diagnosing is very WebMD. Autism symptoms can match symptoms of other MH diagnoses. If she self diagnosed and it was confirmed by a MD has more validity, similar to the scenario Bondy mentioned because an MD will not prescribe medication unless they agree with your diagnosis.

[@Renee_nf094e]

Right, she said something like a week ago or a very recent date.

[@DeeMarie87]

No, she said “there are clinical diagnoses.”

[@Renee_nf094e]

@DeeMarie87 I just saw the clip on the plainest Jane's channel. He asked her, how old were you when you got diagnosed? She said, What's today? He said today is Thursday, the 18th. She said, soo 42 and however many days until... (she didn't complete her sentence) and then said, "I was recently diagnosed."

[@hannahsapphireblue1269]

1:39:35 No Bondy, YOU didn't catch it babe. He asked how old were you when you were diagnosed and she said 42.

[@Joyjoyjoy4]

Amanda doesn’t have autism, I believe she has something else and doesn’t want to believe it

[@longhappylife6209]

I think Drake going at Meg is deeper than that. I think he owes J Prince. And you know J Prince hates Meg for leaving his label.

[@RettyBoop]

Interesting…

[@moniqueuu8777]

And he's a weak......

[@TylesTensionTV]

not that “thang was thangin’” in regards to jeff goldblum. jami is hilarious. 😂😂😂

[@MrsSSHBurnell]

My issue with Amanda. She can self diagnosis autism by reading stuff online, but i say the same about her degree. She got advanced degrees just so she can use that as a way to validate and justify her intelligence, then she has to take people who read black history online and then deem self themselves experts in black history. Amanda was playing with words, and it's frustrating as a mom as a child with ASD. Don't try to minimize my child or her spectrum by stating it's as easy as a Google search. Then stating $10k is alot while wearing a $4k shirt. My insurance treats ASD like a mental illness so it only covers 80% of all services so I make less than her but I find a way to cover my 20% & I can't afford a $4k shirt cause I am paying for her services.

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

If I'm remembering correctly.. Mila was also underage when she and Ashton first got together.. So I also felt like they were like.. relating to a fault in a way.

[@ashaduplessis2772]

No she wasn't with him while underage. She was underage when she was his costar on that 70s show

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

@@ashaduplessis2772 ahhhh. Yes. It's the Make out Scenes and something about Ashton & ole Boy Having Bets bout Kissing her while she was 14/15.. I'm thinking about that make Allat Weird & give grooming vibes

[@jillwade123]

What everyone keeps on missing is that Amanda positions herself to be the victim and every situation and we are only getting her side of the story . We don’t know what exactly happened in these stories because she knows how to craft a narrative .

[@MT-hk9cp]

If Issa resposonded Amanda would have a fit. She probably feels it isn't worth responding but Amanda had a point

[@joanne13121]

I don’t know or follow none of these people but I know ALL of the situations very well and @bondyblue you have preached and taught the people some real ish! 💙

[@blaquehippie]

*SIX MINUTES AGO?* *MY LATE ASS!!* 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️ *PS) S/O TO MY TWO BABY MOMMAS!! & MY GIRLFRIEND IN MY HEAD*

[@MauvaisetBourgeoise]

Bondy, girl, you can like Amanda, but she was being sly and sneaky with that Autism response.

[@missebb11]

Love yall, always enjoy listening to yall opinion on stuff❤❤❤

[@celesteterry1600]

It’s something any this trio that I truly appreciate, Three blk girls for the win ❤❤

[@gwenbby2]

I’ve noticed a lot of ppl are self diagnosing themself as ADHD or autism like it’s a trend..

[@kdotnichole]

Oop, yes Bondy, you better call out Shannon and Skip’s “you my boy” dynamic

[@ShimiraLuxe]

I’ve always enjoyed your content Bondy, but now, after watching these “Ooh ladies, first” panels, I’m definitely subscribing💕. I am enjoying the different perspectives.

[@queenkeesh8660]

Good show n topics Benzino is sick and Amanda seals just needs help n therapy you can’t blame a diagnosis for being rude all The time to people u can manage it

[@brandygee9954]

MEN told men not to voice their emotions. Yet they want to now point the finger at us. Lol! Ok.

[@Cinomb]

Everyone is self diagnosing all the time especially recently with autism. If you think you have it go to the doctor. Don’t speak on it unless you know. I think it’s dangerous to start self diagnosing type of thing.

[@MrsSSHBurnell]

Exactly especially as a mom of an ASD child. Children on the spectrum are on a spectrum because it's not a monolith. Autism has similar symptoms but no one is the same in regards to the severity of the symptoms

[@Cinomb]

@@MrsSSHBurnell I feel like TikTok has made it a trend to say you have it. I know people self diagnose anxiety but I feel like that’s way different.

[@MrsSSHBurnell]

@@Cinomb I agree because self diagnosis is fine but be prepared for those who have clinical diagnosis to hold you to task especially when it feels like Amanda was using ASD as a way to explain away her personality issues

[@IamMs.A353]

Replay gang 💙💙 great show ladies 💙💕💗💙 all yall my cuzzins in my head 💙

[@iamshesheisme8954]

Jeff goldbloom should make sure that he wasn't raising spoiled kids in the first place. Don't raise them spoiled rotten now, then take it all away after he leaves. I don't understand people making life harder on your kids. Every generation should have it easier than the last not harder.He can't take it with him.

[@Iamtierrahogan]

On the Amanda Seales of it all. I’m indifferent-liked her on Insecure but don’t know much about her outside of that. I think she could’ve avoided all of this if she would’ve just been straightforward. She never said if she diagnosed herself just that the diagnosis was given. Either way just keep it 100 and stop with the verbal gymnastics trying to outsmart Shannon. It’s easier to advocate for yourself when you don’t mince words. Ppl would’ve still had stuff to say but at least no one COULD say she’s a flat out liar etc.

[@Cinomb]

I feel like even if you stayed with your child the entire time and watched them if you let them work for Nickelodeon or Disney your a bad parent. The fact you would even allow them to be around these people having an idea they are like this simply fir a check is actually sick.

[@Savvy.too.]

2:03:34 he also do a lot of perpetrating with Jamaican culture.The Meg Thee Stallion disrespect is why many of us in Toronto don’t like him, like that like that.

[@triplea_504]

Lmaoo at Bondy reading the tags 😆

[@tmac7734]

Yes🎉 please make it a podcast 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 😀

[@moniqueuu8777]

1:23:52 The Nickelodeon show episode with Diddy, where he instructs the young boys to put a helicopter down their sleeping pals' pants is telling........

[@gletracooper9108]

Facts Necey they came to us with the BS!! 😂😂😂😂YAAAASSSS in Aunt Bertha's voice!!

[@RNDiva33]

She had no plans on paying for that stylist. Anyway , that's one way for her to do it.

[@kdotnichole]

I loved My Brother & Me…all six episodes 🙃

[@MT-hk9cp]

Say what? 😂😂😂

[@MauvaisetBourgeoise]

She’s acting as if it was a multi season show and Amanda was the star, but it is a classic nevertheless.

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

Jeff played "The Fly"..... Jurassic Park and many other films.

[@BabahBoop]

The thing I hate about people saying Kendrick girl is that she isn't full black but she has two black parents

[@chysel4860]

Not the point. These rappers hate on Drake, but only deal with racially ambiguous LOOKING women. It doesn't matter if she truly is black.

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

I heard that 'something' happened to Bow Wow & Snoop Had Them Handled.. that's Juss what I heard. Idk.

[@moniqueuu8777]

Explains his behaviour, especially the su1cidal thoughts........

[@hannahsapphireblue1269]

A real journalist would have pushed the autism follow up questions so i don't understand why people are mad because SS kept asking. He was very off by many things but that wasn't one of them. Robin Roberts, Tamron Hall, Gayle King would have done the same thing. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lynnmw8537]

I wish we stop giving granny a platform

[@tashabnicole]

I was watching the video and see the thumbnail for my KZbin video for The Never Ever Mets! I 🩵 y'all!

[@TMcFlan]

Replay gang!

[@kdotnichole]

Listen, when somebody posted that Bernie Mac clip from DBAMTSCWDYJITH in reference to Kendrick and Drake, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@oce12]

Please review married at first sight

[@here4drealt333]

1:21:22 Don't forget the pickles. All that stuff suggestive AF!

[@moniqueuu8777]

And the diddy episode was very gross......

[@gletracooper9108]

Hey ladies!! 💜💜💜 this combo chat!!

[@jebrock09]

1:10:52 I don’t think those are recent pics of Kim. Like the mag just used pics from a shoot that happened a long time ago (when kimye were still a thing) but didn’t publish until now. Kanye may have fallen in love with that look and later made his new wife dress that way

[@lynnmw8537]

Why baby gotta be involved, he anit ask to be here!

[@blaquehealer5484]

Autism/ASD is a SOCIAL COMMUNICATION DISORDER so yes, she will have difficulties with social cues/ non-verbal cues, and it is persuasive. However people with high IQ (me) has difficulty with their SE IQ. Also it is not advantageous for her to get tested at her BIG age. She will need work on her SE skills w/ and w/o a social skill specialist.

[@DeeMarie87]

A medical diagnosis only gives you access to resources and accommodations. She may not want that.

[@MT-hk9cp]

Then she needs to be quiet because it appears this self-diagnosis is an angle to prevent the public from negatively commenting on her actions and she failed in her execution. It's disrespectful to people with autism who were clinically diagnosed and still fight for testing, education and accommodations.

[@Cinomb]

Benzino got to get off that crack fr

[@BrittanyStarrr-q3w]

Bondy💙

[@danyelpickett2191]

When it comes to kids Everyone should mind their business

[@zoey0212]

I don’t understand if you’re dead why do you care about where the money is.

[@nicklebaby]

No love and marriage marriage huntsville? 😢

[@miha1000]

My question is which one of y’all mfz are doctors to be tryna diagnose this baby…like FOH🙄

[@pisadorak]

Why I know Ms Gators mom this crazy af

[@EricaTyson-te5pg]

Chrisean baby still looks so small. I saw that live that said she wasn’t going to get him assessed and how we want her baby be slow. Smdh so sad

[@moniqueuu8777]

I mean 2 slow parents.......2 druggies as parents...........what did she expect.

[@R0nt311]

💚💚💚

[@renecianeneengland9014]

yes u can tell fetal alcohol syndrome babies by the eyes

[@kianidavis2042]

I agree with Bondy on the Amanda Seales view! Her decernment is top tier!

[@queenscarlettpimpsunkiss..5537]

With Erica. It's the fact she don't have the capacity to elaborate her point.. And She made it a Man thing.. So it feeds into a stigmatizing of men's emotions. And they always blaming the women for that. Even tho, it be the male collective leading the train on that and pickmes follow suit.. She need a Speech Specialist to help her with these interviews.. cuz she also got a off putting disposition.

[@MissNichole09]

I’m sorry but I think Amanda uses her “clinical diagnosis” as an excuse for her behavior. I can see her point of view in somethings but yea no

[@ohsoprettygigi4744]

Chris is corny, I went to high school with him, he was corny then and as we all can see he is corny now, sounds like he is making up for not getting girls in high school smh

[@tuushietime]

I love that Amanda is for the Culture. But... She is so Unlikeable, like Monique.

[@msjrene05]

I like Bondy, but you’re so bias when it comes to Amanda Seales. That lady is her own biggest problem. Thanks for being neutral Jami.

[@animeslave20]

When you're sharing your opinion that inherently is a bias.

[@yendaaaa]

biased? why would she be for amanda but not tasha k? lol sigh 🙄 its her opppppppinion

[@melissapope-elam790]

Joseline been to a freak off or 20 with Stevie J and Puffy that chic be doin the shit to them that they was doing to her can't nobody tell me different she toooo murch!!!

[@allisonbay1072]

Yeah she like smart blk women and when she thinks that about a person she goes light on them.

[@chantagunn9557]

@@allisonbay1072what does that even mean?? That made no sense if yall don’t like what saying why are you here??

[@kemibello9943]

I think the “these are the same people who do xyz” argument is a bit unfair because unless we sit down and actually have a dialogue about these things we genuinely don’t know what someone’s thoughts are lol there are definitely times where people have hypocritical opinions that contradict one another, but i don’t think its fair to disregard people’s opinions about a topic under the assumption that they wouldn’t keep the same energy on a similar issue. No disrespect though

[@sdmac1339]

Shaun King is white? I don't think so.

[@allisa4563]

He’s white… he just looks mixed or something like that

[@ashaduplessis2772]

He very much is white

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

​@@ashaduplessis2772...he needs to check his DNA.😅

[@sdmac1339]

Kanye is ill. He needs help.

[@sdmac1339]

He doesm't look any where near white.

[@filyjawn86]

1:37:32 😂😂😂😂 bondy u such a Gemini and I love it we see both sides but regarding Amanda this lady is not even a black woman she studied African American history at a predominantly clear taught college oh and don’t forget hip hop 😂😂😂 then the Lise the lies the lies I hope after this week we shift our energy back to our own women 😂😂😂 and before yall start prove she a black woman please cause it’s been proven she is not so why do we care 😂😂😂😂😂ijs 💙💙💙💙

[@nishaprice1731]

Amanda is black TF

[@allisa4563]

Her mother is from Grenada, those are black ppl, and her father is black.

[@Silly_u1908]

How is Amanda a non Black woman when both of her parents are Black? Her father is African American and her mother is Black Grenadian. I’m genuinely asking.

[@filyjawn86]

⁠@@Silly_u1908I’m not gonna disrespect u but I’d advise u to look up her race not ethnicity and her mother is a clear woman from there she is not black .so everyone form there is automatically black 😅😅😅 oh okay and she said her father was Jamaican then she said she don’t know him and now he African American which would make her maybe biracial maybe so now I’m genuinely asking u how is she black ? And I only replied because u did I really don’t care we got our own issues to worry about right now wouldn’t u agree

[@Colie.2010]

Hear me out…I’m with Dan on this. I’ve been saying this since it came out. The series spent more time implying that Dan was a predator than talking about the actually convicted predators and victims. I’m not saying that he ISNT one because we don’t know that. But I will say that that not one person that they brought onto the series was a victim or even someone who had allegations that he was a predator. Also, Drake stated that Dan protected him when he was going through this trial. Dan is an ass but there wasn’t any actual evidence to even imply he was a predator. So…the lawsuit is valid.

[@Cinomb]

Whaaaaatttt this is a unique perspective…..

[@Colie.2010]

@@Cinomb I’m not saying there isn’t a possibility that he is a predator. I’m just saying that I think he has grounds for a lawsuit because they didn’t find ONE real receipt, allegation, or victim. They couldn’t get any of his implied victims to come. If I were Ariana, I’d sue for even being brought into this mess.

[@Silly_u1908]

I hear you, but Amanda Bynes has already stated she was impregnated by Dan when she was a minor. She revealed this a few years ago on Twitter. The documentary creators may not have had her permission to include it. In conjunction with this, it is undeniable that his produced content on Nickelodeon is sexual. For example, he came up with the name for Amanda’s character “Penelope Taint” and asked writers to not reveal what the name meant because of the sexual content. He also asked a writer to explain a scene in a sexual manner. This scene was for kids to act out. Lastly, he also wrote the scene for Ariana Grande to sexually squeeze a potato and drizzle water all over herself. None of this is funny to kids and is meant for adult viewing. P.S. he was aware of Amanda Bynes’s statement about him and he never sued her for defamation.

[@Colie.2010]

@@Silly_u1908 it was never proven that that was actually Amanda bynes. Again, I am not saying that he DIDNT do anything to her. What I’m saying is, he may have a lawsuit. He may have produced sexual content. My thing is…no network executives saw any of the shows and signed off on it? I’m sure these shows went through many writers and executives. And NOBODY batted an eye. Again, he may be a predator. It isn’t even far fetched because him being a white male…statistically…you know. But can they say that without actual undeniable proof? Idk. We’ll have to see

[@allisonbay1072]

Didn’t Amanda call tamir rica mama a 🦝🦝? And that’s why people got mad at her.

[@lynnmw8537]

I wish we stop giving granny a platform

[@BrittanyStarrr-q3w]

Bondy💙