OP's Brother Assaulted Her, but Her Entitled Parents Never Believed Her and Did Nothing. Now, The...

[@lindsay1989]

Screw her brother and the parents. Disgusting. OP should stay far away forever.

[@unclelink]

Second time I heard this story. Second time I'm writing this reply: I absolutely hate when people hide behind God and religion to commit their evil acts.

[@adalfyre7937]

Especially considering there is an accompanying verse telling parents to not infuriate and abuse their children

[@wooin4274]

my grandad touched us when we were a kid like i was 6 and my sister is 8 until we grew up he still do it but the younger times is much harsh cause he'll lick of kiss us and touched our private parts... we told grandma and his kids but they didn't believed it.

[@monkey-man7430]

Yeah to me they are no better then the nazis who did the same thing

[@nancyoneill-buck6033]

I understand how she is damaged from the horrific abuse. I have such sincere sympathy for her. The abusive family I just don't understand why they think that being verbally abusive now is going to work to make her such sacrifice.

[@nancyoneill-buck6033]

I guess they thought that they bullied and abused her in the past and it would still work

[@MizzShortai]

They are the type of parents who would go to a trial where their boy is being charged for SA and say its the girls fault and that she should have just let him do what he wanted. And then demand and apology for "putting them through this".

[@ARcinder]

Story 2: I feel bad for OP, she had no chance. Her sister could have been a 1 and so she could have been a 10, and if her personality is as she states it is any man could easily fall for her. A positive, caring, sacrificing, nurturing mother figure of a woman is every man's kryptonite so Im not upset that OP's husband fell for her. We can't help who we fall for. What I'm upset about is that he let his feelings develop. He saw the signs and let it grow in his heart. In being married, he took an oath to forsake all others. He should have worked it out of his system and dtayed loyal. He is just a coward.

[@raphaeld4313]

Bible says you have to obey your father, but it doesn't say you shouldn't SA your sister?

[@Maninawig]

Yes, it does. It also has plenty to discredit a parent who does not protect and cherish their child from evil.

[@raphaeld4313]

@@Maninawig So it turns out these supposedly religious people are only using a millenials-old belief as a facade for favoritism. I would say I'm surprised, but I assume the Bible also prohibits lying

[@Maninawig]

@@raphaeld4313 that it does, and an interesting tidbit on false claims. My comment was more to point out the hypocrısy for them to pick-and-choose the passages they want when ignoring the passages they vıolate

[@Kris-wo4pj]

​@@Maninawigif ya point out something in the bible religious people hate thats old testament and jesus died for our sins so we only follow new testament. If they follow the stuff they like and ya point out its old testament and they shouldnt follow that they freak out at ya for being a heathen.

[@Maninawig]

@@Kris-wo4pj it depends how and why you point it out. For instance, the idea of an eye for an eye was in the old testament as a way to say "do not seek interest in your vengence" but Jesus nixed that rule with "turn the other cheek" as a way to say "be the bigger person." So if you bring up the old testament, then it kinda shows that you're negating the progress. But not everything from the old testament was updated. For instance (and this one will piss off some religious people) the sins of the father no longer apply since the time of Abraham. So saying stuff like "the child has bad blood" is actually against the Bible. There's also what kind of religious person you talk to. Some theologians love the art of debate and piecing together different scriptures to get a better answer, while some are so blind they believe the Bible states the world went to hell in a handbasket. The later kind is one I don't much like associating with, while the former is the kind that lead to the discovery that the world revolved around the sun. I apply the same logic to atheists where some will protect kids depending if the other party is a priest or a teacher. Crazy is everywhere

[@yeyosilver7067]

Man, it's amazing how people who call themselves religious know nothing about the religion they say they believe in.

[@patriksvensson2360]

1st story: While not admitting to anything about her brother, OP's mother _did_ admit to some serious defamation. I'd turn loose the hounds. Also, with her husband by her side and while recording, it might be a good idea to ask her father's doctor about the timeline and inevitability of outcome of her father's condition - in front of her father, but without her mother and brother present - and then tell her father that this is _his_ last chance to repent, _his_ final opportunity to a come to Jesus moment, and have him come clean. If he refuses, toss an appropriate bible vers in his face insinuating his failure as a parental guardian, a Christian, fellow human being and end it with "God will see you for your sins. Enjoy your death." Walk out, absolved and free to live your life in peace.

[@ronnieferguson9337]

FLAWLESS!

[@Vanessa-ii7cc]

I'm petty. I would say something like: say hi to satan, cause dad is going there for sure.

[@SecretVoices25]

😂😂

[@jennyalieve4991]

💀

[@MistressOP]

second story -- GO To therapy, she gave you what you wanted. Her to "need' you. like go to therapy.

[@Ohiofelonstate]

Op just needs to move countries and change numbers... but leave the social media up and when she and her husband eventually have kids post on social media with a caption " my real family who I would do anything for"..

[@sadiewashington2855]

Story 2- OP is the ah for basically blaming her sister.

[@dokuganryu1565]

At least she acknowledged she was acting irrational.

[@steffenbauer1222]

The sister is kind and protected her why hate her?

[@zepedro6234]

​@steffenbauer1222 there must be a term in psychology or sociology to explain, but sometimes when ppl are "too good" may may come off as condescending even if that's not actually the truth

[@Shadriand]

​@@steffenbauer1222She isn't making a conscious effort to hate her sister, it's purely emotional. It sucks to go through something like that because you know logically they never did anything wrong but you still feel the way you do.

[@gracelouise3091]

🤷 eh what can you do about it? thats kind of the relationship i have with my younger siblings lol. he tells me he hates me bc i love him too much and that i should 🪦! but i love my brother and ik he doesnt truely mean any of that aka when he tell mes these things it doesnt effect me like at all. - same with my sister too

[@Pikeya]

OP needs to go to the test but tell the doctors she's being haressed and pressured to do the test.

[@RepellentJeff]

Story 2: Lord almighty what a mess.

[@queenrhubarb1676]

Police need to take stalking and harassment more seriously.

[@blood10dragon56]

The husband in the first story sounds like an angel.

[@cp49100]

Story 2 is why you shouldn't drink when you're holding a secret worth keeping

[@TheDeathmail]

Honestly, I think you should never have hidden anything from your husband.... if you did so, your husband could have protected you sooner. Also, it's too late now... but you should have called the police... you'd have been separated from your parents ages ago...

[@brakis18]

Story 2 I lost most of my sympathy for OP when she took out her husbands creepniess on her sister. She didn't do anything wrong.

[@thalamicantonio6783]

person she cared about most out shines her in most aspects(in her opinion), then her husband confesses his love for her. lot of emotions to unpack there, lashing out is expected.

[@jeffreyaguilar8028]

Goodness are these the Duggars

[@arilu89x]

Essentially YES!

[@tcw29tw]

So the last story is a mess. I hope her sister moves on while she's blaming her sister for her husband's unrequited feelings and betrayal. Pushing her sister away ain't bringing that man back. Of course he wants nothing to do with the baby. He was only using her to stay close to her sister. Also time apart won't change the fact that the OP has secretly hated her sister their entire lives.

[@inunabe82]

Wait they want her liver what’s she going to do without it

[@335chr]

You don't need to donate your entire liver

[@Darkspark06]

Also if someone gives up their dream to make you happy, theres no way he’d use then leave You

[@zerofate9669]

All in all it'd the husband's fault. He was so in love with the sister that he even drunkenly confessed it to op, couldn't answer about the intimate questions, and about keeping low contact with the sister. He was neck deep in the sister's privates. Which not only caused alot of resentment and jealousy, but now a rocky marriage for the sister. Being told that another man has always been in love with you and calling her husband a loser; getting the sister's husband angered and probably heated where he becomes protective. Op is not at fault for her feelings. It's normal to feel what she feels for someone who is dubbed 'perfect' by personality and looks. Her feelings are justified as many of us felt that way to someone in our life (my younger sister) He abandoned his baby so quick with no hesitation and gave up the house in return as he knew he would never be taken back and the fact that he also knew he couldn't keep lying to himself and pretending to love op. He needs therapy badly as his feelings are destroying his marriage, his ex wife, his daughter, and the sisters' relationship.

[@OfficialMageHD]

"He was neck deep in the sister's privates." Now I see the link between the two stories

[@CharleyOlivesss]

Why can't they just block and ignore it's not hard you don't have to answer or put up with it I don't understand why it's hard to do that to people who clearly never care allowing them to reach out to you is you expecting something from them?

[@jgrAnimations23]

Gathering evidence

[@LODintheshadows]

When mum called, I'd just sat, too bad so sad. Guess that's kama for a father that supports his own daughter being r worded. Also say I'd be sure to let them know when he is gone, I'll wave downwards and ask if it's hot enough down there

[@LODintheshadows]

Like, I know what will help get her to have an operation to help us after the years of abuse, trying to ruin her life, then she will help us... hope whatever the dad has, the mother and brother also get

[@banespeace9079]

5:51 change your damn number and private your socials. They obviously don't know where you are staying you took no steps to protect your peace

[@jeffwilliams9866]

Story 1: Unless there’s a mistake or misunderstanding of what your abusers wanted, wouldn’t giving him your liver in fact kill you? Who’s the murderer here again? It sounds more like your pretend family are the ones trying to kill you. If not, you aren’t obligated to help either your abusers nor their enablers. In fact, I’d find a way to sue them all or press charges. Or maybe circulate stories about how this so called religious family abuses children as they did.

[@jeffwilliams9866]

Story 1: after update: maybe your husband could get a console system instead they are cheaper and often have better games.

[@jeffwilliams9866]

Story 2: Ask him again when he isn’t drunk. If he’s really heartbroken about it, then your marriage might not be salvageable.

[@jeffwilliams9866]

Story 2 after updates: (I posted this way because the editing here has been wonky and doesn’t always work right so I’m posting as replies to my first post) I hate to bring this up or sound negative but your desire to not have kindness is a little concerning and might mean you will be prone to seek such unsupportive and unloving relationships. You need to work on that. Manage or lower time spent with sister if needed but it’s not very healthy or advisable to cut off people who have your back. Your husband frankly sounds weak and unsure of himself and given your sister never seemed to lead him on it was a one sided infatuation that very well could be caused by a shortage of healthy female relationships in his life before meeting you and perhaps he was ill equipped to navigate finding one. People sometimes sabotage themselves. He may even have similar issues to you, which is an unnatural need or ability to create unhealthy or find unhealthy relationships with women. His waffling indecisive personality makes it harder to be sure what’s driving his self destructive behavior.

[@cutekitty1212]

I feel bad for op is story 2. I get she is pushing her sister away but it's such a complicated and fucked up situation to be in. It's hard to blame her when someone who you think is perfect and can do no wrong is in this situation, probably a mix of severe guilt and just anger at why it had to be her sister of all people and op probably feels like she can't say anything because of everything her sister has done to help her.

[@Maninawig]

Story 2: OP is self-absorbed, unable to see that her sister's strength comes from putting the younger one first. And now that the help can be repaid, she is making her sister suffer for her husband's stupıdity

[@jgrAnimations23]

It's always the religious ones

[@joemedic710]

You can’t donate your liver.

[@nikkihorn3852]

True, they transplant a lobe not the whole thing.

[@raphaeld4313]

Isn't the liver that one organ that regenerates? I assume they donate only a part of it, letting the donnor's regrow

[@MinkxiTes]

Religious people.... seriously...

[@HeyThatsMe3]

These are not Christians scripture literally has condemned any such acts and even one family murdered an entire country over the acts against their sister. God didn’t condone the slaughter but the moral of the story was He Himself would do the same to anyone who sexual assaulted His people. Incest is spoken against over and over. She grew up in a cult not a religious family. Know the difference of evil claiming to be of God and who Gods people are

[@umagovindarajan4339]

Wait a minute?? I am not a Christian tho so I have a doubt, the bible says abandoning parents is a sin but it doesn't say anything about brother SA ing his sister and selfish parents harassing the victim and using her as a slave , Was it??🙄🤨

[@Emil_LLscpfan]

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[@SecretVoices25]

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