OP's Son Was on His Deathbed, and They Are Saying Their Last Goodbyes. Narcissistic MIL, Who Coul...

[@RepellentJeff]

Mom either has no therapist, or that therapist sucks. Basically saying “You need to open yourself up to more abuse for your abuser’s sake.”

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

mentals can control themselves better than people think. mentals lie, think they don't need help. think they don't need meds. it is everyone else's problem or fault and when faced with rock solid proof they are crappy people just deny, deflect and otherwise walk away from any possible help. I have NO sympathy for them when they harm and hurt other people.

[@southernflight5078]

A lot of times, you'll meet some half-assed therapist who only cares about their client and no one else.

[@RoseKoneko]

They only have her side. My mom is bipolar too, she never told her therapist that she tried to hit me with her car, just that I took her keys. Nothing is their fault, it’s everyone else who made them do this or that. Or even better; “I’m mentally ill, get over it” said with a shrug as an apology.

[@RemixerUltimate]

@@southernflight5078 a lot of times with clients that are really good at presenting themselves as victimized individuals, it’s really easy to be fooled into thinking they are mostly innocent, and opt for reconciliation to outside family members. The therapist is only getting one side. Group therapy tends to be the environments where they get caught in 4k.

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

@RoseKoneko So sorry you had to go through this, I sort of did too. I hope you're doing better.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

sounds like that baby had one last look at the outside. thanks for giving his little life that one last blessing. sorry for the loss ..

[@MyBlackPumpkinSoup]

Story 1 is basically two victims of abuse finding strenght in each other to get better, build a family and cut the toxicity out of their lives. Good. OP is a great dude and I wish nothing but blessings to him and his wife!

[@badluck5006]

The last story lady needs to find a safe house after she serves him he sounds like that would kill her and the daughter then hisself

[@peterwilliams6361]

The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized

[@peterwilliams6361]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

[@r.i.pmydog7723]

So you cheated

[@DamienLance]

Completely agree, but there are certain boundaries that if are crossed can never be repaired. Cheating, using your partners weakness or trauma against them etc.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I swear to God if I just lost my child and my MIL acts like that, Id be happy to go to jail.

[@CamCam-mq6ji]

The OP is rational. But the in-laws are absolutely toxic

[@jessik1810]

The op of story 2 needs to get away from this man immediately!! Get a restraining order, move, get a dog, whatever she can to protect herself! That man sound like he would kill her.

[@andersondawn3631]

If there’s no update for the second story, she’s dead. The warning signs are all there this guy is going to snap and kill her and himself and possibly even their own daughter if he can’t keep their family together. Can’t this lady see the warning the signs?

[@Thewavedemonjackal]

The post is over a year old with no update

[@alorarhodes1568]

Now she might not be able to post any more for other reasons. A lawyer will tell her "don't post anything anymore". Especially if he failed to hurt them

[@reneeharper84]

I'm worried about that too honestly

[@Twilight24682]

RIP to the child on story 1 sorry for your loss OP

[@princessmarlena1359]

Condolences to the OP and his wife over their kid. Those in-laws are monsters.

[@drifter139]

S1: wife's family is extremely toxic and evil. in times like this, we should be there for those who are grieving through the loss of a loved one. even more so the loss of a child. the fact they sounded more annoyed than anything shows they have a severe lack of empathy for anyone and would play the victim in the aftermath of situations like this

[@secretly-a-kobold]

2nd story: run FAR AWAY

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Like her back is on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@ARcinder]

Story 1. I feel bad for OP's nephew. His dad dies them mom becomes a 304.

[@amazingdoorbob5458]

What's a 304?

[@justsomedangerbigfootwithweb]

What's a 304?

[@RepellentJeff]

@@amazingdoorbob5458 A way to say a word that starts with W without it getting deleted immediately.

[@_junedays_1614]

I feel bad for the niece.

[@Blurgamer17]

​@@amazingdoorbob5458 Remember those 7-bar calculators in school you used to write words with using the num-pad? Think of the image of "304" upside-down.

[@bluediamond3248]

Story 2: WTF... LADY RUN! His eyes are dark and cold?! He pacing the floor?! He's acting like he's not himself!? I'm not even in this situation and it's giving me anxiety. What kind of psycho switch did he flip?! Lady you need to run and hide this guy is completely UNSTABLE.

[@jessblackproductions]

That first story. Barely made it through it as i am pregnant with a baby boy. Losing a baby is my biggest fear.

[@paulahowlett8452]

S2, once a cheater always a cheater. He will say it was the beer the next time too

[@brandonwoeldike2084]

Ops wife in story 1 sounds like a lovely lady, and I’m sorry for your loss. Now, I mean ALL the disrespect when I say that your wife’s family really are just bastards

[@129140163]

Don’t insult bastards like that. At the time of this comment, I have only watched up to the 5:08 mark and I’m dumbfounded by the MIL. I think there’s more wrong with her than mere narcissism. EDIT: 6:11 Yep, I was right. She’s bipolar. ON TOP of being a narcissist. I feel very sorry for OP, his wife, and her aunt and grandmother.

[@kaylawilcher9245]

I'm so sorry for your loss in Story 1

[@S.U1399]

Story 2 is a big yikes and womp-womp kind of situation, yikes for the wife and Womp-womp for the husband

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

bet daddict is glad he got drunk. and threatening self harm. just manipulation. if he follows through?? too bad, so sad. nothing left but tears and a hole in the ground. dont' let the gate hit you on the way out

[@terylsmile3642]

Last Story: OP needed to call a professional in mental health a long time ago. She's trying t manage a ticking time bomb on hope alone.

[@artemislove2941]

first story, the therapist definitely isn’t being told the truth

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

In tears at the wee bundle having his last look at the garden, and sunshine, then being disconnected. I'm not a great believer in just one God, but I am spiritual, and I'm sure his little soul is somewhere wonderful now. My beautiful and talented daughter died at 18, but I know she's looking down at me, and even after 13 years, I still talk to her everyday.

[@danielgoodrich264]

Sounds like mom needs serious professional help.

[@darrylblanch8463]

Story 2. Yes. His behavior IS typical of cheeters, love bombing, guilt tripping, stalking, using children against betrayed spouse, threatening self deletion, getting family/friends to "talk about forgiveness and reconciliation, they are eternally sorry, it was just 1 mistake, you cant destroy our family because of 1 mistake... the list goes on.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

bi polar. it is genetic you know.

[@gabrielsfilms2086]

well. 2nd op is dead.

[@gabrielsfilms2086]

well. just checked her reddit account and apparently all this was from a year ago so... yah I doubt OP is doing well

[@reneeharper84]

​@gabrielsfilms2086 unfortunately I think you're right

[@tabicat.puccino7425]

story1) im sorry you went through all of this story2) divorce him, he didn't care about your marriage, when he cheated, only after the bliss wore off, he didn't listen you, when you had sex, he was crying and gaslight, manipulating, and he's acting crazy

[@RyukinJakka]

2nd story going through all of that just because he couldn't keep it in his pants smfh. Also he's irrational and leaning into the manipulation tactics of threatening to off himself

[@madalinamazareanu2770]

He isn't threatening to off himself. Where did you see that ? He is irrational and should see a therapist, but I doubt OP could get him to do that.

[@RyukinJakka]

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[@GloriousRock]

Welp op gone

[@panzer508]

Her father has the true sigma mind set.

[@develyntwocentshenderson5739]

a mistake is putting on a black sock with a navy one. a choice is what he did. and she lets him around to tuck the kid in. what a maroon.. bugs bunny

[@Spacemanct]

Op, I want this to be private. Also op let me put this on the internet.

[@greenteafinch9833]

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[@radish6740]

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