Open & Raw Q&A pt. 2

[@imjennim]

Ughhh, I LOVE these videos from you where you just naturally drop all these wisdom bombs on us. You've got such a way with words. I always appreciate our chats together. ALSO you have SO many hobbies (ahem): bullet journaling, spending time with your furry children, biking, reading, finding new recipes, interior design, camping!!!

[@Keilaco]

I love this! Lifting each other up!

[@poizonivy01]

I love friends that just uplift and support each other. No hate. It’s so refreshing ❤️

[@aat10Kyoko]

Agree ( ◠‿◠ ). Thanks for these videos. I live for all hobbies.Good for you, will you plan to host a “live” session on journaling? Thx

[@weylie_hoang]

Aww thanks Jenn. Love you!

[@soysaucetina]

Haha omg we all grew up with youuu who been here since her tampon video 😂

[@sunset5735]

Legendary tampon video, never forgoten! ❤😂

[@weylie_hoang]

Comments about the tampon video always makes me feel warm & fuzzy inside hehe

[@soysaucetina]

@@weylie_hoang 🥺

[@nicolehyc]

The legendary video hahaha

[@SundayswithJamie]

Yaaaas! 💗

[@EricaLoose]

“..You need to leave me alone!” Yess Weylie! You don’t need to explain yourself!

[@alottalife1772]

Haha Just wanted to write that, I swear all of us on here were cheering for her since weylie has said in the past that she wants to work on that 💪🏼 and I was like yesss guuuurl👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼🎉🎉

[@juniper3025]

Omg Money sniffing the flowers at 4:08 was the cutest thing ever

[@SamElle]

I really feel like I have grown up with you. You were my older sister when I was learning how to first put on a tampon and I really love when you do these Q&As because you are truly someone I look up to / look for your advice and insight!!!

[@88ashjen]

I agree with what you spoke about the weight of being Asian in America. I am not Asian but I am black and I felt that weight much more last year and still to this day I’m fearful of being around strangers. I know it can be difficult but you have so much support and I know that’s what the Asian community needs right now. Remember there are more people out there that supports you then believe the lies that have been pitted against your community. We are all just humans first trying to go through life.

[@AlgennExy]

Really appreciate your kind words and advice. Yes to Black and Asian solidarity! #blacklivesmatter #stopasianhate

[@weylie_hoang]

Thank you for this kind and thoughtful comment

[@sophiachang]

such a wise woman 🥰 loved this video!!!

[@KayleaAlyssa]

GIRL. YES. I’ve been with my bf for 8 years. We were engaged but I felt so pressured about marriage and planning a wedding and having kids. We were only 21. We broke off the engagement but stayed together and I’m sooooooo glad we did not go through with it. I know for a FACT that if we had gotten married at 21, we would not be together today. We are now 27. We have an awesome apartment and two fat happy cats. My bf has a fantastic job that he loves and I’m in college again for Sociology. We are very happy where we are in life right now. Don’t ever let people tell you how to live your life!!! 💜

[@weylie_hoang]

Love love love this! You gotta choose what feels right for you and I'm so happy to hear it worked out for you and your bf!

[@sophiayuna]

I honestly love how you go against the norms & don't care what other people think - so inspiring Weylie!

[@melissalam1173]

Your description of how you and Wah communicate differently is literally the same as my relationship and after 6 years, we JUST came to this conclusion. So relatable!

[@xxdoludoluxx]

When you are dating and people will push for you to get married, and after u married they will push you to have kid, and after you have 1, they will push you to have 2nd. It's endless...people should just mind their own business!

[@weylie_hoang]

LOL this is so true!!!

[@kittylover4974]

🤣 I got married at 21 and before the wedding everyone told me I was too young for marriage. Yet, five months later the same people who told me I was too young for marriage started to ask me about kids. I be like, what’s wrong with u 😂

[@hopegast8807]

I can't believe it's been almost 10 years since you started dating Wah! I remember you first telling us about him... feeling old now haha

[@weylie_hoang]

girl I'm feeling old too! We were just babies when we started dating!

[@jacmar16]

I remember the video about her taking about him while she was curling her hair with her “weird” curling iron lol

[@sirenaspeaks]

I was legit 16 when she got with him!! Lol i still cannot believe how long that was ago

[@chatkaewsiriassawakul5841]

Which video is that?

[@beatitude1000]

My husband is japanese and I'm white, his parents don't speak English and mine don't speak Japanese but our dads like the same music, my mom and my husband's dad is really into gardening. Even though we don't have the same culture or speak the same language we were able to find common interests and everyone came together. Inter-racial and international relationships add so much richness to your life. Although it can be tough love is love!

[@carissawyh]

You're so well-spoken and real! Love watching your chatty videos. And yes, people are always scandalised when I tell them I don't want to get married or have kids at this point in my life. I guess society has conditioned most people to think that women are made for motherhood.

[@jessixyooj]

I agree with you 100% about the whole marriage and kids thing....people just need to accept that not everyone dreams of that life. Me and my man is going on 10yrs also and we have no desire to wed and have kids because we truly enjoy our lives and where it’s going. We’ve never let the pressure of others affect us.

[@RainieTian]

I can hear you talk a 100 min long, really appreciate your appearance throughout the years. And listening while I think. I’d like you to answer in the next q & a : how can you find a good balance in life? What do you think you are not adequate about and how do you deal with it. Recently have been dealing a lot of stress with money, career, etc. People always call it a mid-age crisis?? Haha even though I am only 27😂. I appreciate seeing you and wah always so positive, sharing your best energy online. Being a blogger myself for 5 years knowing that it’s definitely not easy. Anyway,I will always support you, and hope you two safe and happy foreverrr 😃😁

[@ginny6371]

Rainie!

[@weylie_hoang]

Aww you're so sweet! Thanks for the topic suggestion!

[@sallibyul4697]

I CAN SIT HERE AND LISTEN TO YOU TALK FOR LIKE 5 HOURS! thank you for existing.

[@JulieNguyenYoga]

I've always admired longtime partners who don't feel the pressure to get married

[@thaon.4696]

HI Weylie!! I know that this is obviously an open and raw Q&A, but i want to thank you for being transparent with your perspective regarding marriage and having kids because like you said, there people out there who are pressured to have marriage and kids. It's topics like these that are not discussed enough, so having someone like you taking initiative will make a difference. ALSO, there's a book titled "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" is very insightful in learning about the nature of both men and women and how, for instance, each party handles a conflict!! PS LOVE YOU AND THE FAM

[@weylie_hoang]

Thank you! I'll check out that book, thank you for the rec!

[@NannaElise]

The marriage thing is so relatable!!! I’m the same age as you.. Been with him for a while now and my family and friends always ask me about marriage! LOL but tbh, never dreamed of marrying... guess it never was a priority for me? I feel like this is asked to women more than men 🥲

[@IndecisivegurrlAlex]

been married 7 years, its pretty pointless. The only thing thats positive is Id take his shit if split hahahaha

[@weylie_hoang]

I agree that this is a question that is asked towards women more than men! I think people like to put this "expiration date" on women. As if we are old goods if we aren't married or have children by a certain age. So weird! LOL

[@ascl24]

@@weylie_hoang leftover women is such a big thing in China😔 its so sad

[@BreezyRenee333]

My mom has gone straight past marriage and to grandchildren, even though I've told her numerous times I'm never having kids.

[@nativprincess1]

I dated my now husband for 15 years! We got married on our 15 year anniversary! And we were together over 20 years before we had our first child! Don’t rush! Don’t feel pressured to even do any of it at all

[@soonsuicidal]

Wow over 20yrs?! Isnt it difficult to get pregnant that late? Thats what they always tell me and i just feel so pressured. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@nativprincess1]

@@soonsuicidal no, we got together very young at 13, so we are in our mid 30’s now

[@maryxiong1798]

Been dating my man for 12 years 🥰 We don’t feel pressured or rushed to get married. When the time is right, it’ll happen 💖

[@melinarosaaaaa]

Weylie I swear your advice is like therapy, and like just a really good friend kind of vibe -thank you so much.

[@AJay-md1ll]

We eloped 5 yrs ago but people til this day still ask us when I’ll have a real wedding lol like I did just didn’t invite people and didn’t spend tons of money. So regardless people will never be content with your choices

[@weylie_hoang]

As long as you're happy that's all that matters!

[@artofsooni]

although i didn't grow up watching weylie's videos, i still find her q&a's SO comforting.

[@sunset5735]

🌼 Hi Weylie! There is a veeerryyy little chance, that you will actually read this, but i wanted to let you know, that you were the very first youtuber i have ever watched. Back in the day my english was still really bad as it isn't my first language, so i struggled to understand what you were saying, but i kept watching. I was a young, insecure girl who looked up to you as if you were my older sister and i could learn from you. I think i found you through your tampon video, then i watched your makeup tutorials and diy-s. I also gradually improved my English by listening to you speak. This channel has a very special place in my heart and i keep returting to it. I'm now 22 and although i am and will be living a very different life to yours, watching your vlogs and videos feels homey to me. Thank you, big sis ❤

[@weylie_hoang]

Awww this is the sweetest comment, thank you!! I'm glad and honored to be a part of your childhood. Thank you for sticking around. Wishing you all the best!

[@sunset5735]

@@weylie_hoang ❤❤❤ Thank you so much for your answer. It means a lot to me!! 🌻 Have a great day!

[@zengyue6045]

Weylie! Thank you for standing up for the women who don’t want to be pressured into marriage especially Asian women

[@kirstycejes5259]

I’ve been watching your vids since I was in 6th grade ....... I’m 22 now and almost done with undergrad LOL. I have always loved and appreciated these types of vids. You helped me out a lot in high school and early college with how I’ve viewed certain things and most importantly my relationship with my bf. We luv big sister weylie ♥️

[@yuchenzeng7184]

weylie is so cuuuute and pretty the fact that the dog was just lying behind all the way through... LOL

[@elliieeeats]

YES! your thoughts on marriage pinpoints exactly how i feel! I get sooo many comments and questions about getting married and get in the having children bandwagon because i've hit a certain age! I've explained similarly like what you've said yet its so rare to find any one that understands!

[@suheid15]

I've also never dreamed of my wedding 😁 glad I'm not alone

[@reynawan3693]

the amount of comfort that weylie’s videos gives

[@gnajean]

Aww money is just chillin. So cute! Literally blends in with the couch :)

[@thatsandyho]

You are not alone. I feel the same way about marriage. If it happens then it happens but I am not actively seeking out marriage! I don’t make it my goal.

[@ntsab6417]

I’m glad you and Wah are on the same page about marriage. As I age, I’m slowly coming to terms on my own views about marriage and what those around me pursue as the ultimate goal. I don’t crave for marriage and I don’t need it as well. As long as I am happy and content with my partner, that’s enough for me too. My partner, however, would like the seal of marriage, and I find that I am coming to terms with that because it is what he feels strongly about.

[@skatebarbie]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 1/2 years and I agree about the arguing/communication! Even over the last year there's been such an improvement in our communication as we continue to learn and grow together and it's crazy how you can feel even more in love as time goes on as a result!!!! It truly is an art!

[@skatebarbie]

omg i'm so excited to hear you're skating! eventually if you're able to practice even like 3 days a week for 5 or 10 minutes at a time it makes a huge difference! Skating skills come over time like one day you'll just realize you're so much better! I believe in you!!!!! Can't wait to see your setup someday! I love my pink passion suregrips !!

[@leilani2258]

My now Fiancé and I have talked about being ready for marriage wayyyy before getting engaged. Because we wanted to be sure we did it because we wanted to and not because of societal pressures. We've been together for 5 years and yes Weylie I definitely feel you on being soooooo tired of hearing people asking us when it will happen. 🙋🏽‍♀️ Like, it's not going to change anything within your relationship - yes you are bind legally but all that matters is the love you two share.

[@StyleByInez]

Preach, sis! I feel like women in their mid to late 20s are always pressured to marry especially if they’ve been with their significant other for X amount of years. Words I heard and have been living by are, “do you.. as insensitive as it sounds, people are too self-centered to really care about what you do with your life” ✨ So you do you, Weylie! You’ll always have your loyal subscribers here no matter what ❤️

[@jessicayeung7622]

Me listening to Weylie give important life advice but getting distracted my Money being adorable in the back

[@SimpleCasualChic]

Thanks for sharing your perspective on marriage. I have views that others don't agree with either!! And I feel the same way, leave a girl alone! Lol not their issue, concern, problem, etc. We can all make our own decisions on what we want to do with our personal life

[@Stephanie-mr2es]

I agree with the marriage part tbh. thanks for being so honest about it because my partner and I are in the same boat and I feel like I'm the ONLY one esp with the girls around me. I think the relationship of growing and developing is truly what's important.

[@liantorres8705]

Wow, I swear I hadn't heard you talk about marriage. I definitely agree with you! Every couple is different, marriage is not a standard for a healthy, happy life and relationship. As for me and my fiance, we decided we truly wanted to get married (always call eachother wifey/hubby, and get upset when people ask and we say we aren't actually married). It made sense for what we wanted, and it was convenient (as you said for health/financial/general reasons). But that doesn't truly change our relationship. Married or not, we love eachother, and marriage won't make that (ironically) better or worse. Life is what changes people, not marriage, and every couple decides whether or when marriage works for them :)

[@emilyho1583]

I so, so, SO appreciate you talking about your feelings around marriage. My ex and I got married after 7 years and it was really because we didn't know what else should come next and it honestly is what ended our relationship. We're still great friends, but getting married confirmed how we always felt about the subject in general. Thank you for being open and honest!! You shouldn't ever feel the need to explain yourself to others who aren't able to be objective about certain topics.

[@annabuena]

Everything you said was gold...and also, your dog in the background!!! So cute, but I think she couldn’t go down. :)

[@123asian124]

I've been watching you since secondary school (high. school) and you always said its only 4 years you can get through it.... and I did and now I'm in my last year of uni and I still remember that... thank you!!!!!

[@teresatran787]

I feel you about the questions about marriage and baby. I’m 32 and get asked about baby everyday! It’s so annoying.

[@asweetplace6736]

i feel like growing with you, it's reassuring to watch these type of talk videos, because you're like the big sister i've never had, i love u

[@kls-9589]

OMG. Home buying is a BISH......my husband and I just got our offer approved a few days ago, after 6 offers!!!! It has been crazy here in California. I've also heard it's crazy everywhere else too.

[@appassionatoLA]

Money just wanting to get off the couch 😂 anywho, always love the real talk, girl talk vids! 🥰

[@suz_corriander]

Thank you for sharing Weylie! I love that you are always confident about your choices :) I'm married but we don't want kids so the kids question is so relatable too! It's as if everyone wants an answer 'why' if you choose not to make these "milestones".

[@wendydh1212]

That providing example part helped me. I was talking to my parents about how sometimes you have to cut out toxic family. They kept saying, "but it's family, and family is family". I brought up how they cut one of my aunts out and they finally made the connection.

[@amyli9058]

talking about interracial relationships really hits home. unfortunately, my family disagrees with interracial relationships for wrong reasons and I am struggling to be happy.

[@ck2408]

me too :(

[@shannonvanduren5703]

Closing on a house with my partner next Friday!! We are in the same boat as you and Wah about marriage - if I wanted children, I'd say marriage is a little more important maybe so your kids have the same last name as you and stuff, but otherwise, a partnership is way more desirable. I believe a partnership implies mutual respect and freedom that goes beyond gender roles. Thank you for continuing to talk about your view on marriage and children and I hope one day you won't have to start it with a disclaimer!

[@ajarigore9645]

it’s so crazy how i started watching you in middle school, and im now in my second year of college. im glad you’re still making videos to this day :’) as the oldest daughter of a first generation family, you’re like the big sister i never had!! it’s also fun watching you and wah because im going into 2 years with my bf, and i understand how it’s like to be dating your best friend too.

[@AutumnS264]

Found myself uncontrollably staring at your dog in the background. Such a zen little guy.

[@vaneestherraaa]

you have the right to choose always. not everyone is traditional and that is okay! not everyone's path is about getting married and having kids. that is okay! you can simply be living with your partner for many years and not do any of those things, and that is solely up to the people in the relationship's decision. I myself, do not ever want to get married nor have kids, and that is okay! it does not mean we lack anything, it is simply a lifestyle choice. please do not pressure women into these ideologies. whether it is something you want with your partner or not, that is a conversation to have solely with them. not for the public to always chime in on. Weylie & Wah in this aspect does not have to justify and give reasons for their lifestyle. all that matters is that they are happy, thriving, and overall in a life in which they are growing together nonetheless.

[@weylie_hoang]

Thank you!

[@suimanlau]

I'm trying to catch up on all the vlogs and videos while I do chores and it makes me so happy and calm listening and watching y'all

[@Nikkix209]

Girl same! I don't want nor rush to be married anytime soon & me & my bf/child's father have been together for 7yrs lol! I feel we're already in a great place & being married won't make a difference. 🥰

[@jewlsglitters98]

I love how honest & raw you are! I appreciate that SO much in people. These are the kind of people I like to have as friends 🥰 also, where is your necklace from??? 🤩

[@roshianderson]

I’m in an interracial marriage so girl love your answer and explanation! For relationships yes! Communication and patience is so key! Sending you and wah so much love and happiness!

[@alexandriamelson9297]

I’m blasian and my bf is full Chinese, I’m so happy I’ve had the opportunity to learn about his culture and him with mine. Family is a tricky thing (especially when you interracially date). I think it just takes time and to not take things personal, family can always tell when the love is there and that always allows them to come around :)

[@iamkivi]

Love these sit-down videos 😍 I hope you can do more of these maybe just talk about different topics! I have loved seeing you evolve I’m 23 now but I remember lots of my teenage years have been with you. You do you!

[@random01759]

bihhhhh id never skip thru your vids!! even tho ive heard you talk about marriage and kids in the past multiple times lol xD

[@shimreichona.shimray5307]

So pretty 🤩 and your house is so beautiful and and your Q&A video was just like word of wisdom class. Thank you!

[@runderwood118]

GUURRRLLL .. your are glowing and makeup is looking FLAWLESSSSSSS! Excellent video!

[@kaitanyasantos1168]

Girll yass! I recently bought roller skates too! Looking forward to your skating content if you end up sharing your journey with us. Love u lots, been here since your tampon video

[@JaSiix1]

Hey Weylie, I'm a long time viewer and just wanted to say I love your channel and it's so nice to see you doing Girl Talks after all these years! They're some of my most favorite videos of yours and I'm glad to see how well you're doing too

[@yanventures]

First time this early..HI WEYLIE! 💗 So distracted by Money's cuteness when she is sleeping omg! >

[@numinuminixstix]

Ooo... sorry, another couple comments as I'm watching your vid. :) I never ever cared to get married when I was young, and the idea of a wedding STILL makes me uncomfortable. In my 20s, my then bf and I were totally against marriage (and kids) for all the reasons you state. But, I don't know, now I'm 38, and I feel differently about it! And strangely, due to no pressure from anyone whatsoever. I know it sounds dull, but I like the idea of shared taxes and having the automatic right to make decisions for your SO in the hospital, haha. :) As I get older, I feel those benefits eventually becoming more crucial. So my current bf and I want to eventually get married. I'm not at all saying YOU should get married, though. That's of course your decision! :) There are ways to get all those benefits (writing wills, etc.) if you want it. Also, my Chinese family must be an outlier, because almost every female is with a white dude! My mom (with my stepdad), myself, my older and younger sisters, and both my cousins.

[@jennifernguyen905]

Weylie: ANOTHER Q&A!!!! me: LOOK AT MONEY IN THE BACKGROUND Money: *zzzzzzz* *stares* *walks around*

[@hannahseng2037]

Miss your chatty videos ❤️ I’m excited to get married but hopefully still live as if we’re still dating. Marriage isn’t such a big deal to me bc I feel like we should treat our partner the same, married or not. I never dreamed of having a wedding either but weddings can be however you want them to be. ❤️ having a partner who shares the same views is so important 😌

[@MaroonMary]

Girl! Thank you for speaking up about the marriage thing! 🙌💗

[@Hakuismyman715]

For the questions about interracial dating, it really depends on the families but also holding your ground. I’m a white woman dating a Vietnamese-Chinese man and I’m very thankful and grateful that his family is been great to me and very accepting. I’ve always been very nervous about dating someone of another race for fear of their family not liking me and whatnot. To be fair, his older sister paved the way and dated and married a white man so it prepped his family. Apparently they were a bit hesitant and not as accepting but over time they grew to love him and he’s their son now just like my boyfriend. My family is very open and accepting so they wouldn’t care who I dated and love whoever treated me well so I’m lucky in that sense too. We’ve been dating for almost 4 years now and I think the only thing I’m worried about our interracial relationship is our families meeting and getting along on top of marriage/wedding/kids. It sounds weird but our families haven’t really met yet and it’s because our families are very different and I’m honestly worried about them not liking my family lmao. But at the end of the day we can’t control that and that’s their problem. We also don’t care for a traditional wedding and don’t want to have kids and we know his family would want a traditional wedding and Vietnamese wedding... and I don’t even want to think about what they’d think about us not wanting kids. My parents know we don’t want kids and my mom always nags about it and I know she’s upset but at the end of the day she knows that’s my decision and would accept it.. I guess we’ll get to that convo when we do but yeah that’s gonna be hard to navigate I think but just like you said Weylie, at the end of the day it’s our lives and if they love us, they should respect our decisions.

[@allthehui]

Ty for the advice and reminder that it’s ok to take a break and take care of yourself ♥️

[@SquareOneJourney]

Great video! I really enjoyed it. Can you share how you stay positive and not worry or be depress with your physical pain. The jaw for example. Thank you!

[@nicolehyc]

Little Money in the back 🌼🥰

[@ptcyyyy]

I totally feel you! Whenever I try to bring my point across to my friends, they would give me the weird stare and i get judged. Honestly, I have the same reasons as you. You're not alone!!(:

[@dvramaar]

i had to go through braces and a jaw surgery as well a while ago so i REALLY wish you all the best and a smooth process and healing experience overall ♥

[@melissadiaz111]

I had regular braces on bottom and Invisalign on top. That lasted for six months then switched to Invisalign on top and bottom for a year and a half. It’s really helped my TMJ so much. Wishing you luck.

[@rosterthao]

It's crazy to hear that question about if its OKAY to date and be in an interracial relationship . Like, yesss it is okay!! You have to live in your life. No one else does. People (family) always have something to say weather it be good or bad. You have the last say in your life. Do whatever you want with your life as long as you are safe.

[@jonnan24]

My parents never got married, it just wasn't for them. They've been happily together for over 30 years. It's not like their relationship is different just because they didn't put a rig on it. For them there's no religious meaning in it so why sweat it? Do what you want gurl! ♥♥

[@KimberlyChauu]

Weylie, you’re GLOWING!

[@strideofamind]

Omg, I had to pause the vid and had to comment! I agree 100% with you regarding marriage! I've also never once dreamed about being married, that has never every been my dream! Even when I was in a long term relationship I never felt the need to! And I always thought to myself, am I the weird one for not wanting to get married! When u said all those things I was like yessss girl, I'm not the only!!

[@_smolSam]

My partner and I have a policy on arguments, make them productive. Even if both of us are upset we try to remember it's not us verses each other it's both of us verses the problem.

[@eggegg8181]

I love that

[@xxJASMiNEE]

Always love how honest you are. It is OK to not get married at all or right away, and to not have kids if you decide so.

[@rachelnguyen4283]

ah i relate about the marriage thing! imo, weddings are too expensive, and id rather spend my money on other things. i never had a dream wedding growing up or envisioned myself having a wedding. i think i would consider getting married when i meet the right person, but im a little more hesitant about having a formal wedding. my mother disagrees tho... lol. granted, im still in my early twenties, so we will see!

[@ThisIsElized]

I totally agree with you when it comes to marriage. I have been with my significant other for like 6 years now will be 7 by the end of this year and were happy and still not married. I am engaged now and have a baby with him but I am in no rush to get married yet. I never envisioned myself getting married which is why I never created a wedding board haha :) I love watching your videos no matter what it is you upload. Your channel and wah bring lots of happiness into my life and glad I came across your channel many many years ago. I remember being in high school and now I am 26 years old

[@stichybird]

One of my biggest tips for buying your first house is to OVERestimate the costs! There will be hundreds to thousands of dollars that get tacked on for processing, inspections, etc. Don't get stuck on just the listing price. Also, build a financial cushion of at least a few months' worth of bills/mortgage just in case there's an emergency or you lose your job (you just never know!)

[@Aabbcch]

You are the only one that i enjoy her q&a even if it’s long💜

[@SuperRachel808]

I totally agree with you I been with my boyfriend almost 3 years we have a daughter together she's almost one I dont really care to be married so i get you girl people always ask me why I'm not married and they just dont get it

[@stary122522]

Weylie's videos are always out here making my day

[@kasturikregek]

Thank you for this❤ This video is not just a video. This is something more special. The way I connect with you always feels so special. 🥰sending lots of love🤗

[@PinKIYSensei]

I appreciate you sharing your perspective on marriage. I’ve been in a long-term relationship, but marriage isn’t something I “aspire” to. My partner and I have discussed it and it’s the end goal I suppose (because I do eventually want kids and I understand the benefits in terms of legality, many of which you touched on here). That said, it’s not this huge focus or priority for me. My career and education have always been my focus. So many don’t understand that and they often project their views onto me. Like, no, I don’t feel like I’m being “dragged along” or that I’m “wasting my time” or that he “loves me less” because I don’t have a ring.

[@PinKIYSensei]

My partner and I are going on ten years as well and we also don’t fight. No yelling, no being mean. That’s very important in relationships for sure.

[@urgalpalmal]

FYI you can make an advance directive that allows Wah (or vice versa) to make decisions for you or be eligible to hear your medical info.

[@Dianavietgrl15]

Omg yes I hate the pressure of getting married. I’m so glad someone said it!

[@theyehlife]

awww money trying to get off the sofa at the beginning 😆💕 love this raw Q&A btw!

[@Wewhosee-im3ii]

Bread and butter of this channel, and we are the potatoes!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@poppers72]

Imagine Wah watching with his engagement ring ready like 👁👄👁

[@weylie_hoang]

hahaha, we discuss this and we don't think engagement always needs to be a surprise. We'll discuss it when we're fully ready vs the traditional way of keeping it a secret!

[@anggunbatrisyia6748]

But like wdym by not ready? Since they have been tgt for 10 years ...? I'm just curious okie hehe

[@amayorangee]

@@anggunbatrisyia6748 As she said in the video "Yall need to leave me alone!"

[@irenesiao5246]

The background is so cute🥰 Money is a vibe

[@kellytieu]

My parents are the controlling parents, denial and traditional that they don’t see nor do they understand. It’s almost impossible for me to convince them unless I move out of my house.