Opening Up About Our Breakup | Teen Parents

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Sorry about the glare on my glasses oops!! But... I've been wanting to open up for a while now so I hope this was helpful in understanding what things have been like for us. Everyday we are working towards something better so I hope to have more news coming soon.
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FAQ
At what age did you get pregnant? 16
How old are you now? 18
How old is josh? 20
Are the twins identical? YES :)
How old are the twins? 13 months
What camera do you use? Canon t71

[@meiravjanus7810]

Ur maturity is unmatched

[@TaylorDoesStuff19]

Meirav Janus deadass

[@aymaravilca1442]

Never stop being as honest as you are, it's amazing to see people like you in KZbin

[@sophiegonzalez9465]

i try my best ❤️

[@barbaradelauz5427]

@@sophiegonzalez9465 Yeah Sophie we are not here to be negative. We got your back but this situation sucks. He's bringing so much negativity himself. I truly truly hope he reads all these comments and changes. I'd love so much for you two to workout into a healthy family and quick because I see you reaching your breaking point. I'm sure after all the love and support your parents have given you, Josh and the boys the way Josh is acting towards their daughter and grandkids has to hurt. They gave you guys especially your mom such a great head start.

[@typical.vibes_8539]

@@sophiegonzalez9465 you are right

[@MonicaPerez-sq6hb]

I agree he needs to get a job so dont get it twisted. Also these vlogs not sure bout everyone else but one reason i watch is for him to see how good of a dad he is and how much he helps so give him credit for that. So some you tube money should be his in a way. Your talking about going on the trips you organized them so don't blame him if you didn't want to pay why plan it💁‍♀️You guys kissed on new year's. Went on a trip together without baby's and last vlog he stayed the night at your house so own up. From my point of view he just needs to work if thats the case than u should push the issue the rest is on you💁‍♀️ just saying if you wanna make it work dont lead him on.

[@makeilyeader3451]

@@MonicaPerez-sq6hb I don't feel as if she is blaming him or leading him on though. Im not sure if you watched the whole video to the end but she even said they are starting over so if they are planning trips and staying the night with one another that's them starting things over. I think she just got fed up with the money aspect of it, they've been together so long I feel like he's just gotten comfortable with her and started slacking off a little and she wants to see him continue trying, such as getting a job. I feel like you kinda took this video the wrong way lol

[@mxylen]

Summary: they went thru hell and now they're trying to fix their relationship from start, so stop bothering them and making them feel pressured. Hope everything goes well 💖

[@Lilit14]

Thank u I didn't want to watch the whole video but I just wanted to know what was going on

[@Apollygirl]

Love to see teenage parents being responsible about personal “drama” and not sharing everything immediately on the internet❤️

[@pierinagg]

Um... Lmao she definitely recorded this when she was angry and didn't think about the consequences. Poor Josh

[@kyleighsharp6447]

pierina • Really!? Officially she is not angry! Poor Josh!? She literally said nothing bad! So please explain how would have consequences? Ugh!

[@skyem5574]

Kyleigh Sharp idk i agree with you but she did throw shade about his job situation

[@rachelcischke283]

As a 32 year old mom of 6...I pray my kids are as mature as you are as a teen.

[@nahjaealcorn7011]

Jasmin marie yeah ur foul as fuck.

[@peekaboocharlie8502]

何 Nani? Ignore the negativity. I get it you’re a teen parent who wants to go out and have fun and I get that. I’m pregnant at 27 with my first and I still wanna go out. However, this is your responsibility. Do not let that child down no matter how hard it is. You chose this life

[@auroragalaxyxx9007]

Rachel Cischke you should pray that ya damn kids still Just don’t get prego at even 18-19 and maybe try and wait till they find a stable damn family

[@rachelcischke283]

@@auroragalaxyxx9007 this comment was rude and highly unnecessary. Thanks no thanks.

[@brynnstanley54]

Rachel Jensen Im on your side

[@denver4838]

If everybody is commenting about how mature she is, don’t go turn around slandering Josh. That is not the point of this video...

[@chaychaybay24]

Sammie A sure there’s 2 sides to everything

[@peekaboocharlie8502]

I get that. I don’t think anyone should go run and talk shit to him. However, he’s not a real man. He’s trash.

[@malanamarie5206]

@@peekaboocharlie8502 how do you now that? He takes care of his kids and he may not have had a job when she did but at least he's there for his sons and also your comment is so hypocritical

[@elizabethlozier8698]

@@peekaboocharlie8502 How is he not a real man? He was still a kid about to go to college when the pregnancy happend. But he still stepped up and took care of the twins and raised them with so much love. He may have made some mistakes but I think he's more of a man than a lot of adults. Btw how are you gonna tell people not to trash him in the comments then proceed to trash him in your comment?

[@freesia131]

He didn't even want those kids to have his last name who does that. They are young it's gonna be years before they figure their shit out.. it be surprising if they actually end up together and happy an not together just cause they already had kids at such a young age. And also anyone can say anything if she didn't want people to talk then she shouldn't have started KZbin an put everything out there for people to judge but again she's young she may regret this later in life. Shit I always wonder how all these teen mom's babies are gonna feel when they grow up an see their parents put their whole lives online without their permission

[@marshclem2255]

If he flunked out of school, then he needs go get a job. Period. Stop paying for him, it’s enabling.

[@lindsayt7868]

yes yes yes!

[@AmreeHolliday]

Yeah says every man to a stay at home mom. I dont get it.... Women apparently can do all but when the roles are reversed a man as to have a job to take care of his family. Its hypocritical. Also Josh watches the boys everyday while she is in school. Sure he can work at night but when would he sleep? Huh? It won't work unless they are willing to put the boys in daycare. Women are more versatile. It's much harder for men let alone a young teen dad to adjust to new norms. It amazes me how he fails school and people are being harsh about it instead of wondering why? Like is he struggling, is he having a hard time finding time to study, or is he overwhelmed..... None of us needed to hear this.... But we did because all youtubers can do is sit down videos during quarantine. She literally just made Josh look bad and it shows in the comment section that we all know he will read and that's sad.

[@marshclem2255]

Amber Holliday He might be doing all he can for the boys in terms of watching them and being involved in their life, but that doesn’t entitle him to her money. She’s a student, a worker, and a mother. But on top of that, she’s not even out of high school! Why is a girl this young somehow responsible for supporting him? Even if she is the mother of his children, all money she makes should go to her and the boys alone. If Josh wants to go on trips and go out with friends and spend money, either he needs to earn that money himself, get it from his parents, or go without. I don’t care how hard it is for him. She shouldn’t be the sole breadwinner when she’s not even out of high school. They should both be pulling their weight. If he’s not in school then he needs to be working, period, even if it’s just a couple hours in the evening after she gets home from school.

[@em-up2om]

Amber Holliday as far as I can tell he only watches them when she’s at school (a mandatory thing for a high school student, also I think she doesn’t go every day I don’t exactly remember though.) lol it’s not like he’s alone with them 24/7 that’s the point I’m making

[@tourmii]

Amber Holliday the difference is they aren’t together. Specifically single. She’s not just supporting her family as the bread winner, which is fine if she was. But he isn’t her significant other. What’s going to happen if he starts dating someone else?

[@riellababe3043]

It is completely normal for one to feel like they’re doing more than the other in a relationship that involves kids. A mommy will forever give up her all if it meant that her babies would have everything! It’s just how it is. You are doing great mama. You’re doing the best you can while being a mommy of TWO, a high school student & a working women. You got this!

[@shellyb5014]

You guys are so mature for being so young. One thing you said that stuck out to me: “I felt used.” That’s a huge feeling and can really be the breakdown in a relationship. I’d suggest counseling. It’d help both of you guys communicate, in or out of a relationship. Hugs!

[@sophiegonzalez9465]

you are very right ❤️

[@peekabooicancu]

I second counselling! Every couple should do it be for marriage anyway, but it helps in these tricky situations to find clarity and also someone impartial to the situation to help.

[@courtneysachs6408]

I found that it helps even if the relationship eventually ends because you learn tools that help you better understand and communicate you needs and learn how to communicate with your partner productivity about difficult topics.

[@miranda7168]

He needs a woman to take care of him I got him!!!

[@mariahsmith6469]

Shelly B has

[@nogasherr928]

“I felt used” that’s such a horrible thing to feel and it’s a horrible thing to do to someone and use their money while not working...

[@vivsreds1006]

The level of maturity you have at such a young age is uncanny, I’ve been here since your first video and I am so happy/proud to be able to see your journey, I wish both you and Josh the best because finding that person you come back to no matter what is so hard find

[@lisa-yh3zd]

Same I was here from the very first video

[@iliat6106]

*You’re telling me you stay with the kids, go to school, work, pay all the kids stuff and pay for him too? And he doesn’t work or even go to school? Girl he is using you and you shouldn’t let him do that anymore. He should grow up and start providing for his family.*

[@g.belenalv.4139]

Exactly! I mean he sometimes helps... But since he's got time you should help him taking care of the babies.... It's the least he can do if he isn't getting a job

[@barbaradelauz5427]

Yup or at the very least pull his own weight.

[@marileje5786]

And he's not on the birth certificate! Raising kids is 24/7 hard work. I have a 1year4month old and I stay home with my baby 24/7 while my boyfriend goes to work and when i go to school he is with our baby. When one of us get home we take care together. He should be with the babies while she works and goes to school and when she gomes home he should still help. (Sorry if my English is'nt correct, I'm from Estonia.)

[@Amelie_clxrisse]

He's not using anyone and he's not a bad guy. Josh is an loyal and amazing guy and what she said was on the beginning of their break up because I know for a fact that Josh really worked his b*t off the past months to be a good dad

[@marileje5786]

@@Amelie_clxrisse I think he is a good person but he really needs to grow up. What I can see is that sophie does much more than he.

[@nataliasmith662]

I’ve been you. We are 31 now and the amount of work it takes to grow with each other and not apart is more than a job sometimes, but I can’t tell you how worth it it has been. Most full grown adults can’t be this mature so this is so amazing to see!!! We are three kids, two successful careers, and 14 years deep! You’ll make it and succeed!!!

[@sophiegonzalez9465]

this is helping me right now thank you

[@lindsayt7868]

stop paying for him sophie, make him go out and get a job/back to school. he needs to be some sort of role in society.

[@brianneblackburn2777]

Amen. This guy isn't even on their birth certificate bc he was scared... the fuck mom didn't get that choice

[@detergenthwachae]

@@brianneblackburn2777 HE ISNT???

[@ashleyevans2090]

No his family said he shouldnt be and Sophie said if he didnt want to then he didnt have to. So he didn't. She talked about it in another video.

[@Galincik]

@@brianneblackburn2777 I think it has to do more with him not wanting to pay child support, pretty messed up.

[@peekaboocharlie8502]

Girllll you can’t make him do anything he doesn’t wanna do. I get what you mean tho. She shouldn’t be paying for him at all. This girl is a grown ass woman for taking care of her twins, going to school, working. She busts her ass. He can’t say that for himself.

[@stefrey08]

He needs to work. No excuses. He has 2 kids to help support. Glad you guys are co-parenting well but he needs to step it up.

[@victorialeibrock1797]

i think you just need to stop paying for him, if he can’t afford it he doesn’t get it. he has to see how much you’re paying for and how much he’s asking you to pay for. he will realize after that

[@victorialeibrock1797]

and maybe it’ll make him realize he needs to get a job or go back to school and do well. you manage school, babies, and work. he can manage the babies and school. he’s lucky that you didnt tell him to do work school and the babies. you were very generous

[@savannawithoutanh5973]

I don't understand why he couldn't get a job. Lots of college students work their way through school. Even part time is much better than nothing.

[@victorialeibrock1797]

savannawithoutanh i know and it was nice of her to be like ok you can just do the babies and school. but i guess it’s hard cause the schedule for him was babies then home for school so idk when he would fit the job in. i mean he still could’ve gotten a weekend job

[@errolduplessis9451]

Victoria Leibrock yeah but now he can’t get a job.

[@victorialeibrock1797]

Errol Duplessis why

[@kennarock8309]

You don’t need to pay him when he helps. He’s the dad. that’s his job.

[@elakren9128]

Kenna Rock i think she means when he helps with youtube vids not taking care of the twins

[@g.belenalv.4139]

It's the same... The money goes for the babies... Besides she edits and does all the work behind... He mainly appears or holds the camera...

[@InsightofSamantha]

Exactly

[@isabellab7053]

you do know there is two kids right. they both help each other.

[@kennarock8309]

Isabella Boggs wow I definitely didn’t know that. I’m saying she doesn’t need to pay the dad of the twins.

[@Matea448]

If he's not in school he should get a job! You are in school and do youtube and if you're not together (but even if you are), it's not fair at all that you have to pay for everything.

[@Because_of_Mercy]

To Sophie: Sophie you are so so so mature for your age! Things are hard right now but they will get better 😊 Time will always pass, even the hard ones! Please know that you might not feel this, but you are super inspirational! I am so impressed by the way you manage to tackle everything on top of school! It's ok to take a break, or cry to refocus, sometimes you need that before getting back in your feet again. You go girl! To Josh: Remember that you are able to accomplish way more than your mind might tell you that you can handle. The sky's the limit! Stress can quickly overwhelm a person and take away the ability to be as open minded... I know this because I struggle with the same thing. I feel so overwhelmed that I think I'm doing everything to the best of my abilities, when in reality I could be doing more. Sometimes You have to take a step backwards, assess the situation, set your goals and priorities, and take action to reach them. You are an awesome dad and a great person! You've got this! To both of you: Y'all are so amazing! I love watching the twins as well as you both mature and grow, thank you for being so real with us ❤ 2019 sucked so bad for me, it seems like it was a little rough for y'all too. Lets see if we get through 2020 without wanting to quit everything 😂 Sorry for the long comment btw...

[@Amelie_clxrisse]

Wow this is the first comment I've saw today that doesn't spread negativity. Really appreciate the time you took into this comment ty for that

[@maddie-vl3zs]

ur amazing.

[@racheljohnson3656]

Spot on!

[@samanthalutgendorf8173]

You're such an uplifting person wow! The world needs more people like you who dont jump to bringing people down on their mistakes but instead lift them up to be better💖

[@Because_of_Mercy]

Omg thank y'all so much 😭

[@NotYourBabyGirlcom]

Gosh how can you be so mature, And for the fact you “paid” him to take care of his own kids baffles me.

[@victoriacastillo6375]

Raising 4 she paid him for helping with KZbin

[@mirandagaviria8998]

Victoria Castillo but that’s different those are his kids

[@rebeccagreen9240]

What I was thinking

[@juliana4376]

Who loves Sophie and the kids? 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@kejsibeliu3745]

and josh just because he maked some bad choices that doesnt mean hes a bed person

[@Amelie_clxrisse]

@@kejsibeliu3745 that is 100% my opinion

[@etaffate7713]

Donut24x and josh

[@angelicahuber3100]

Choosing sides is childish...wish them all the best even josh. They all deserve happiness and growth in life.

[@miranda7168]

I love Josh and the kids

[@divin3realm]

I’m 18 too and I could never imagine having to deal with these relationship issues on top of being a parent and a student like I respect you so much

[@asishsengupta9457]

Same bruh I can't even handle myself! 😂

[@fraggelrock9974]

I’ve always gotten the vibe that Sophie is a lot more invested in the relationship than him.

[@janetdeltoro9355]

Yeah

[@meganmcleod6152]

I don’t think that’s correct

[@meganmcleod6152]

Jenny Chung they are both young lol

[@shelbyschroeder4034]

He needs to find a way to support you & the boys before you guys are going to be able to fully come back together. I mean no disrespect but you’ll hold resentment if that aspect doesn’t change.

[@barbaradelauz5427]

Agree!

[@celiine1142]

... Maybe he doesnt bring the income that he should but he is there when most other teen dads would have left. So we can't say he doesnt suppor her

[@shelbyschroeder4034]

Celiine I mean financially. being in your child’s life is the bare minimum. he needs to help take care of them & money happens to be a huge factor in making sure your children are taken care of.

[@agustinacastellano5784]

@@celiine1142 He is a dad, a teen dad but a dad and just because most teen dads aren't in the picture it doesn't make his behaviour acceptable because that's literally what he is suposed to do. If she can support her family in every aspect he can do as well.

[@miranda7168]

I will take care of him!!!!

[@gcalderon15]

I think he might have gotten post natal depression. My husband did. Going from 0 to 2 babies is hard!!! More so as teen parents with so many plans and goal and dreams that may have changed. However, those babies still need clothes and food! So time to grow up and go to school or get a real job to provide for his children. Going home to chill or hang out with friends after his shift wouldn’t be an option! I’d seek child support because caring is only part of being a parent...still need to provide. My advice to him is to look into a trade!! Universities are overrated. That’s what my husband did and his pay allows me to stay home with the twins for now. PS. I totally understand you. You have every right to feel the way you do. You are super mom doing it all. He needs to step it up.

[@aurora_something]

He can't have post natal depression he's a guy

[@gcalderon15]

Kelly Fenton of course he can! Look it up.

[@aurora_something]

@@gcalderon15 Post natal depression is linked to the hormonal changes a woman goes through during labour and delivery, a man doesn't have those hormonal changes

[@gcalderon15]

Kelly Fenton I am no psychiatrist but it is a thing. Mental health. Look it up. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Male postpartum depression. It’s all over if you google search.

[@aurora_something]

@@gcalderon15 After childbirth, a dramatic drop in hormones (estrogen and progesterone) in your body may contribute to postpartum depression. Other hormones produced by your thyroid gland also may drop sharply - which can leave you feeling tired, sluggish and depressed. That's what Google says, men don't give birth. They can have a change in mood because of lack of sleep and change of schedules but it's not postnatal depression

[@aquarocks2980]

I love the way you don’t just blame him and accept half responsibility too 🥺

[@meyssounebakkouche7883]

Right?! She's so mature

[@jacklyndodson1622]

Starting over is so beneficial. My boyfriend and I lost a lot of trust and love and all of that when we were separated, but starting from the beginning, coming back as a team and building our relationship was the bets and most healthy thing for us. Wishing you both and the babies all the happiness💖

[@unpopularonion5685]

Bruh idc if you’re making 1 million dollars a day he’s a dad he can get a job you’re doing too much

[@emmagarner2612]

True

[@blathnaid6932]

Ye

[@baileykatherine8509]

He needs to get a job and establish himself somewhat as an adult in the world

[@InsightofSamantha]

Bailey Katherine so true

[@yesli...879]

Yep

[@maddie-vl3zs]

:)

[@AmreeHolliday]

But why is it when a man holds a job and the woman stays with the children it's okay. But if a woman works and the man doesn't he is all of a sudden not living up to societies expectations. I believe he should def help more with the children if this was the case but I'm still confused why all the comments are about him getting a job. Imagine if men held the mother of their children staying home with the kids to the same standards. Telling them they aren't equal or not doing enough because they don't bring home a paycheck or because they don't have a degree. These guys are super young parents, Mistakes are going to happen. Lessons will be learned. Yes you need money to live but I have seen these guys take trips and buy things they don't need which def means they are financially stable. Money shouldn't be an issue for them. The problem wasn't really surrounded by money in my opinion. Sophia felt like she was doing everything while Josh was doing very little. I really wish she would have kept this private but what else is she going to do when the only option is to stay indoors. That's why we got this video. Now the comments are nothing but telling Josh to get a job. I personally believe Josh thought KZbin would be their job. Not just hers but his too. Also Josh was watching the boys until she got home from school. So unless Josh worked a night job ,it wouldn't work and even then it wouldn't work because he would have to go straight to waking up with the kids as soon as he got off so Sophia could go to school. If he were lucky he would get 2 hrs of sleep. If Josh got a job they would need a babysitter for him to work days. No one thought about that did they. Sure you can buy your kids nice things but it will break or they will out grow it but what stays around for forever is the bond between a child and their parents.

[@Charliebubs]

I agree Josh needs to step up, but this is a sexist comment. Imagine if someone told you to establish yourself as “somewhat of a woman” for not doing something such as wearing makeup or dresses.

[@kathiesoriano6876]

I understand this so much, I’m going through something similar with my boyfriend, we have a baby together and our communication is so bad. I understand feeling like the other person is not doing enough and they feel like they are. But also have that connection to each other. I relate to this so much and hearing another teen mom talk about this makes me feel understood, even if it’s by someone I don’t know. I’m glad you shared this because I needed to hear someone else say it out loud.

[@MinecraftRox129]

I really do think he should get a job to help out even more 😕 especially since you're still in school while taking care of the babies. It could lessen up your workload too if he was actually putting in some income towards everything and helping out 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@errolduplessis9451]

Hannah Marie um he has a life and he’s probably still on a track for something they can’t keep this up forever so unless he has really good connections he probably planning for college which means a job is hard also with corona virus most likely can’t find a job for at least a month.

[@barbaradelauz5427]

Or at the very least he should get a job and pay for his own things.

[@monicadparra]

Errol Duplessis yes he has a life but his life should be his kids. They aren’t saying that it’s not hard but they are saying that he should help out a little more

[@daniellelyn2124]

@@errolduplessis9451 um almost all grocery stores are hiring during the corona virus because of how busy the stores have been. And he has a life? So does sophie. She is doing school, work, and takimg care of the babies. He needs to step up and be a father. That includes finding a job and supporting his kids or going back to school.

[@errolduplessis9451]

Danielle Lyn what state do you live in in my state you can’t do that. No job offers are allowed. And if you gather you get arrested.

[@guillerminalongo3971]

I can’t with her level of maturity! Sophie honey, you are doing a great job, and yeah, breakups are horrible when you are co-parenting. Sometimes, you need to take time and build your relationship from the beginning. Good job Soph 👏🏼

[@daniellelee2680]

I had a feeling he was this type of person when she kept saying he was encouraging her to quit her job. Bad vibes. Girl do not plan your life around him. Do your best to be independent, and make sure he is not dependent on you (especially financially). There is absolutely nothing wrong with not sharing money, even if you are together for years to come. The respect you'll gain from his independence will be very valuable to your relationship.

[@kaliforniaoconnor9683]

To the people who are saying “omg you sound so mature for a 17 year old” first of all maturity is a mindset not an age.❤️

[@CallHerCassie]

Money is the #1 reason why couples break up

[@alejeronimo6856]

Cassie B yes bcuz selfish people

[@carissab1810]

Bc some ppl like to use other ppl and some other ppl feel the need to take care of everyone

[@kramirez177]

Cheating is

[@stephanievictoriano6705]

Kiki money is first

[@jadesmith3249]

@kiki some people can forgive cheating

[@abigailcampos6287]

I'm so proud of you for sharing this. You are going through so much like going through the break up and taking care of the babies!

[@akankshashahane5703]

I'm so proud of her. She is going thru so much ❤️ keep going you are too good.

[@thebeautygirlxx1]

The maturity you guys have took on after all of this is amazing for your guys well being and the babies as well!!! Great job mom and dad 💜 it’s definitely hard but definitely worth it for the babes! Much love from Washington state!

[@hamdo3983]

The fact that they were still there for each other and give each other a hug and say i love you to death..☹☹❤ gave me goosebumps... I love you guys so much💕💕

[@AzjargalSarantsetseg0922]

Yes indeed, most men or baby daddies would just leave the mamas out there... but I think both of them are very strong, mature and patient... I'm like amazed by how mature she is... omg.... so loving

[@beleng3955]

This just proves that you never know what happens behind the camera, I'm really proud of you guys for getting through something like this. I hope everything goes well.

[@elizabethlozier8698]

You're way stronger than you think girly! Goings to school(taking ap classes which aren't a walk in the park) making majority of the income AND taking care of twins when you're in high school. You're amazing

[@sandydelgado5499]

It’s not UNFAIR AT ALL that you are making majority of the money from KZbin because to me is was VERY OBVIOUS THAT HE WASNT DOING MUCH and you are doing all the work

[@hiamkoujan4212]

Sandy Delgado Josh always helps with the babies she couldn't have handled all of this KZbin work and the babies without him .. he did his best to help her .. they are both good and strong people

[@stephann2416]

She doesn’t give him any credit, he helps a lot with the baby’s and she treats him like her little gopher. He could completely walk away anytime but he doesn’t he still does anything she wants him to but she just talks down on him. He’s in just as much of these videos and these kids life as she is, but she wants to take all the credit. She wants to talk about what he does/doesn’t do but she doesn’t have a problem dragging him on vacations or going to get her Botox

[@g.belenalv.4139]

She is in school, edits the videos and lives with the kids... Josh can do more.... And if we can say that at least he stayed cause he could have gone, well, Sophie could have had an abortion or why can't she leave now?

[@maddysmith1825]

Steph Ann Ok but saying at least he stayed is not something to congratulate him on it’s his CHILD he’s supposed to stay just as much as she is, she could just as easily leave clearly she does all of the work with yt and he is just in the videos, him taking care of them is his responsibility just as much as it is hers, he needs to put in more work to provide for his family end of story it’s not fair.

[@jolenadeck243]

Exactly! He needs his own job

[@remygirljonty]

Sophie, your maturity is unmatched. I‘m very proud of how you are handling it all. Keep being great. Everything will work out for you. 💛

[@Camille-uy3si]

I have so much respect for you right now, I am just so proud of how transparent you are with your viewers. This was very brave !! You rock girl 💕

[@etaffate7713]

Be kind in the comments. That’ll be nice.

[@w4thv]

Exactly! Glad someone else noticed. Every body here is just blaming one of the either parents.

[@jadenfarris2527]

you are so strong and mature, I'm also a senior in high school and I can't imagine being in your position at this age

[@ibethei-g-g-y7520]

I can tell you care about your babies so much and I know that you can do this with Josh or by yourself!!!❤️ keep working strong we are with you😌

[@navyakapoor4650]

stay strong Sophie! remember all of this is making you stronger, wiser and more mature....I can't even imagine being u,the way you're handling it is very impressive....I look forward to u....loads of love and support❤

[@yasminsalmeron406]

I’m extremely proud of how ya handled things! Like wow better than some ppl i know that went through this. Love you Soph 💜

[@DailyDavis]

You handled this situation very maturely, and I appreciate you guys being so transparent and trying to work things out. My husband was my first relationship, so I never had to deal with something so serious as a breakup, but I can imagine how hard that was for you both. May God be on your side delivering strength to your relationship and family😁🙏❤️

[@marcellaabrown]

thank you for being so real & raw with us. you are unbelievably mature. i love you!! you guys got this.

[@giovannamonara4252]

You’re so raw, that’s really hard to find nowadays. I hope everything works out for the best, for you two !!! You both deserve happiness & so do those gorgeous babies ❤️

[@karalynnlovison4596]

Ohhh girl, I honestly feel like you need a hug. I’m so sorry for it all I just wish that it was easier on you and josh’s as mother and father and I’ll be praying for you two to keep your friendship still alive and fun cuz I love seeing you guys both with the twins and not seeing josh on the channel would break my heart 💔

[@taylarum7767]

your momma did such a good job with you! you are literally so mature for your age!

[@charlenemarie5808]

You’re super hardworking and it’s admirable, hopefully you hear things like that a lot!

[@xoxoPilar]

I went through the same thing with my BF...I felt that i was doing way more then he was. We basically laid it all out, worked on our relationship, and started fresh. Now we’re good! But for a while it was not great and it caused us to take a break and argue a lot. It’s growing pains too. You both are individual people and will grow differently. You have to learn to grow together

[@Maddiemayx]

Omg girl I can’t believe you were sending him money.... he should’ve wanted that to go towards the babies not his gas that’s his own responsibility

[@barbaradelauz5427]

Josh wants to have his cake and eat it too... I realized this since the first break up video... He also has major commitment issues... Oh I want to be at the birth of my sons but I'm not signing the birth certificates, then it was oh I want to live with my parents but I'll go take care of the babies at Sophie's house and stay there till night time and eat all her food and have fun. Also, l want to go out with friends and date other girls yet still shop, travel and have my sons cared for (and himself) by my hs aged baby momma. Sophie, if you're reading this I hope you're claiming Josh as a dependent.

[@threadhoney9445]

@@barbaradelauz5427 you got that right! He wants boyfriend privileges but not the actual title. I don't care what society says now but a woman should never carry the finances on her back. That is a man's job. Otherwise they'll find a way to screw you over. I'll take being single over taking care of a manchild anyday.

[@cheyannecaballero2814]

@@threadhoney9445 uh no it is not a man's job solely and that is so fucking stupid to have that mindset. It is different for every relationship. If a mom and dad decide the mom wants to provide because she has a career and the dad stay home then that's completley valid. It is not a man's job to solely provide the finances a mother is extremely capable of it too.

[@kattynavarroz6439]

She accepted that, so she better deal with it

[@threadhoney9445]

@@cheyannecaballero2814 Yes, it is a man's job. A woman can contribute but should never take it on a sole responsibility. None of that "going 50/50" shit either.

[@michelem01]

you’re my favorite teen mom to watch :) you’re so mature and i respect you so much, you’re doing such a great job of raising your boys ❤️

[@rynnaiscool]

OK I'm gonna start stealing moms receipts and scanning them :)😂

[@bianca5882]

I just wanna say that I appreciate you being real with us. This is such a hard thing to bring up to thousands of people so that shows how strong you are! Keep fighting and tell Luke and Zeke I said hi HAHA

[@ellemcquire4319]

I think maybe you should just not give him any money at all, you pay for the babies and your things and nothing more. Don’t pay for his luxury while he’s doing nothing!

[@bananabellee]

A message to Josh: Go get a job and start helping your kids financially. It may seem hard, but at least trying to find a job would be better than depending on someone else. A message to Sophie: You are a great mom to the twins. Keep doing what you are currently doing.

[@charlottehache2442]

This is some serious freaking maturity I am truly impressed

[@taylorlopez7695]

This is so relatable to me. Me and my baby daddy went through similar things like me thinking he wasn’t doing enough while it felt like I was doing literally everything. Our son is now 1 1/2 , we had him at 17 and 18. I’ve learned that in order for him to start doing things on his own was for me to stop pulling all the weight and doing everything for him. it felt like I was taking care of 2 babies and in your case 3 babies! I’m sorry you’re going through so much pain I can see it in your eyes💔 You’re doing absolutely amazing and I support you 100%❤️💜❤️

[@guadafleury4558]

I love how throughout all the bad things you and Josh went through, you stayed strong for the babies. Even though what you probably wanted the most was to get away from him, you still had to co-parent and decided to ignore your own feelings for the babies wellbeing. You’re such a good parent❤️

[@ashlynbrady2301]

Your such a Amazing MOM!!!!!

[@ashleymaisonet3926]

Thank you for your honesty. It’s hard to find such a “real”, relatable youtuber!!! Sending all of the support and love to your little family!

[@TheHunterjb]

just stay strong and you'll get through it

[@holly2le]

wow, you're really mature about this situation.

[@Abby-to7xw]

Thank you so much for being so open and honest about everything. Also, you're doing awesome and you're an amazing mother! We love you and support you ❤️❤️

[@missmariix]

When Sophie is younger than you but still inspires you💗 I’m due at the end of April to my first baby girl at 22 and I hope to be as mature, level headed and as amazing as a mom as you are to your baby boys

[@-danakasian6878]

I didn’t even started the video but just so you know you are amazing and I’m happy that other girls at your age can se you and know they are not alone keep doing what you are doing girl!❤️

[@sophiegonzalez9465]

thank you we love you so much

[@gillianengstrom9695]

So proud of you and how you're handling this situation. Also I downloaded Fetch the last time you talked about it and I'm obsessed. I make my family give me all their receipts lol

[@Pixiee_Stardust]

You both have to contribute the same amount of effort and money. You both have dreams and goals.and you’re both the parents, he doesn’t get to complete his dreams while you think you don’t have to. Personally, I didn’t start watching YOUR videos and subscribed because of your videos together. I subscribed to join you in this journey. I don’t care about content with him and it is extremely unfair that you feel like you have to share your income with him. Tell him to open his own channel if he wants to start seeing money from KZbin

[@zahaabdulgadir6349]

i love the way you refer to everything with a 'we'. and it's very clear that you're going through alot. i hope you guys are doing well...

[@sarahdemartin1183]

That promo was so smooth. Queen

[@maheenrathod3325]

Literally was waiting for you to upload so that I can pass my time during this boring quarantine ❤❤

[@nk8539]

When a couple have children no matter what age they are having them the first year is the worst for the couple.it gets better when the couple loves each other and you do!!Happy to hear you are back together!!🌺🌺🌺

[@Musiccompletesmex3]

You are extremely mature and inspirational. The healing from trials and tribulations of a relationship first starts with recognizing each others faults and communicating about what needs to be done & what is able to be fixed. I love you guys so much. No body is perfect but you guys are really doing the best that you can. These babies have a great mama & a dada that loves them. On camera it may have looked ok but in reality you were screaming on the inside. But this gives a lot of insight to what was going on behind the scenes even when people thought nothing was going on. Sometimes you need to be apart to realize a persons worth in your life. This video helped a lot of people I’m sure including myself. ❤️ stay strong 🤞🏻

[@phenot5133]

Didn’t realize I was gonna cry my heart out today this much but wow you are truly such a beautiful soul. not only an amazing mama but such a wonderful pure human.

[@helenamoreira8853]

Can’t believe you are 17, you sound way more mature than a 35 year old mother, u r such an amazing mother ❤️

[@littlelucky9879]

He refused to put his name on the birth certificate yet wants to call himself the father? You can’t play dad when you want and ditch when you want cause there’s no strings attached. And this whole “shift” thing is bogus. You go to school, and come home and parent. YOU are 100% busy with non stop responsibility, where his parenting responsibility is just considered “shifts”. He gets to go home. He can go home. He can see friends. He comes to see the babies when he wants or is obligated by “shifts”. Sorry darling, but he’s just waiting for the right moment to dip.

[@jennreyes9027]

Renee Hicks I didn’t know he refused to put his name on the birth certificate 😮 do you remember in which video did she say that?

[@jessbrown9132]

Jenn Reyes I don’t know if she said he specifically refused to put his name on the birth certificate, but she did say he’s not on it.

[@littlelucky9879]

Jenn Reyes i want to say the video of her explaining her birth story or the video where she talks about the babies turning a year old

[@littlelucky9879]

She didn’t use the word “refuse” how ever she did say he did not want to and she was upset about it for a while but then learned to accept it.

[@andreahovitt4722]

Renee Hicks that’s not true at all. There was animosity with his family since they were teens, Sophie’s mom suggested he not be on it so he didn’t feel pressure and they didn’t either. Everyone was happy with that choice. He’s still the dad just can’t be summoned for child support which Sophie would not do anyway.

[@jemimachandler6151]

Your maturity and the way you seek to live out your life, parenting and relationship is inspiring and can be a lesson to us all. I am rooting for you and Josh. Sometimes making a relationship work means letting go of your preconceived notions about what a relationship is and forming new ones together. You guys seem to have the ability to love and respect one another and work and parent together at a very young age through some super challenging times. You are great parents and your kids are blessed to have the both of you so involved. They will learn from how you live and love. Glad you are sharing where you’ve been so others can learn. It is bold and brave of you to hold out on spilling everything in anger and emotion as it has come up and to instead let things gradually work their way out. I am sure there are some who have been nosy for more details but you have been smart in waiting it out. I wish you both success and love! I have been praying for your young family and will continue to do so.

[@BekahAnn232]

i just wanted to say, i went through this EXACT situation with my boyfriend and i. we broke up when i was pregnant, and we went through all these same exact trial and errors. it took us 9 months to realize we needed to let go of the past and start working towards a future that we wanted together and with our daughter, and we ended up getting back together officially a year after our breakup. we are in the best spot now as a family after working through everything we did to get here . it is so hard to overcome the trust and hurt you experience with something like this, especially having kids involved, but we did it, and i believe you guys will too. you’re doing an AMAZING job. stay strong mama!

[@benzoplus329]

I was a teen mom as well had my daughter when I was 16 and her father was 19. But he was in no way ready for a child and kinda immature about it all. We didn’t make it work , I walked away we fought for a few years but now our daughter is 16 we both have other relationships with more babies and we all get along so well you wouldn’t even kno he’s my baby daddy you would jus think we r a big group of friends one big happy family if you will. I love his wife she has helped me with my last pregnancy planning baby shower and 1st birthday as I did the same for her. It takes time to work through emotions and hurt but it’s very possible. I hope you and josh can make things work and be together and live happily ever after but also don’t beat yourselves up if you tried your hardest and it doesn’t work out. You guys are doing the best you can and sooo mature for your ages. I wish I was like you when I was your age with a baby. I most definitely wasn’t and it still bugs me to this day how some things happened. Don’t ever stop being you and being honest. Your doing an amazing job momma , love ya!

[@thehallfam3561]

Im crying. This made me realize that its probably what i need to do with my fiance. But i love you all.

[@ericas3802]

I hope everything gets straightened out for you both soon. you’re an amazing mom with your head on straight, much love to you guys

[@kearabain9430]

the maturity you have while being in any situation especially difficult ones is so inspiring. wishing the best for you and the twins

[@cxxleyla7465]

Clicked so fast, i love you and the babies. ❤️

[@daydreamfurnishings]

Sophie, as long as you are the “head of the house” he will never try because he knows you have it under control.

[@annachumachenko6676]

You’re so genuine. I’m so happy that you share all those things with us! You’re so strong and so mature. Definitely my favorite person on KZbin.

[@arialhamel4266]

This is the reason I subscribe to you. Your ability to be up front and honesty is great. You also do a great job of showing teen parenting for what it really is.

[@EpicAllison]

You guys are young and always learning! I appreciate the fact that you guys can see your mistakes and learn from them. Josh will always be your babies' dad. You will always have a different love for him because of that. Keep doing what you're doing. Reignite the flame, keep making videos, respect each other, love each other and put each other in each others' shoes.

[@hannahjeanneret8840]

Just remember that staying someone because you don’t want anyone else to have them is also toxic and will only last so long ❤️❤️I’m sure you two will figure it out, you’re extremely mature. Also remember that you’re so young and you may think no one will compare to him but everyone thinks that about their first love and it’s not the case (talking from experience). All the best xxx

[@Leratomogase]

your honesty, candidness (is that a word? lol) and maturity are unmatched. I discovered your channel a few days ago and I am hooked! Your babies are so cute and you are SO Beautiful.

[@rhianabailey1136]

I honestly applaud Sophie for this video💪🏽 so real and authentic, my absolute favourite channel

[@karolinak691]

So proud of you ❤️

[@marocostello4229]

God bless your babies ❤️❤️❤️ i also had a preemie babyy

[@racheljohnson3656]

Wow, you did a great job! You have all my support! So glad to see you guys starting over! Put yourselves first, your fans will wait for you!

[@blakelywebb4629]

I relate a lot to this, me and my long term boyfriend broke up a while ago and I can’t imagine the extra pressure of having kids together on top of a break up, even without kids it’s hard to get away from each other when you share so much but absolutely blown away that you were able to handle all of that. You’re a great mom and a great person ❤️