You are not alone guys it was my experience as well. My hubby and I waited 6years by choice before we had our first child. This is BIZARRE in African (Nigerian) culture 😂😂😂. Even though when people asked we told them we were not ready etc. they did not believe us! The amount of calls and praise God for “breakthrough” we got made me realize people assumed and refused to believe we would wait by choice. I must say I understand better now because the number of couples going through fertility challenges is on the rise from people in their 20s to late 30s the rates are high! Many reached out to ask what finally worked for me and it made me understand where some of the assumptions come from. To be honest I became a bit nervous cause I was like what if when we are ready it becomes a challenge and i was approaching my mid 30s so I like okay oh I surrender oh. Motherhood and parenthood changes your relationship forever and it is hard especially in the diaspora so do what is best for you cause you don’t owe anyone explanation 💯
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Omooo! Thanks for sharing 🥰🥰🥰 Na so we see am oo! I guess that’s how we are wired as Africans but it is well sha!
@Simplementchristelle8 ай бұрын
I love your comment. My husband and I also decided to wait because we felt we were not financially ready. Unfortunately 2 years later when we finally started trying the baby wasn’t coming and the doctor said we had to go through ivf. Thanks to God after one year of saving money to afford ivf. I got pregnant with my first baby. I do regret waiting because you never know what the future holds but I respect each couple decisions just like my family respected our decisions to wait until we were more financially stable.
@Tfamewo8 ай бұрын
@@Simplementchristelle thanks for sharing and congrats 🥳 on your baby. I am very happy the journey resulted in your heart desires. There is definitely something in our environment and food etc cause the rates are too high compared to the previous generation.
@thegospelspace_19 ай бұрын
You really love each other. It's OT love train for a reason. God will help your relationship with God to be stronger. I love you❤ You guys reading the Bible and praying together is massive🎉 A family that prays together stays together.
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Aww thanks for the love and the support🥰🥰🥰
@seunosewa9 ай бұрын
The role of humour in conflict resolution is so important.
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹
@joshuadele-ijagbulu48949 ай бұрын
I like this couple.
@tildac70309 ай бұрын
Set I what was that Davido talk😂 I enjoyed this. I think it goes to show you how important it is to have a solid friendship within your relationship. I know people say marry your friend but most people don’t get the actual concept.
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰 awwwww
@comfortohenhen77099 ай бұрын
This is the OT lovetrain i love. I miss your sit-down videos
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@olaitanadeogun21678 ай бұрын
I hope my new relationship blossom into your kind of relationship
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@nnamaniruth47568 ай бұрын
This is beautiful to watch. The playfulness gangan! I love your relationship. I pray God keeps you guys till forever!❤
@OMOLARAOBAFEMI9 ай бұрын
Toyosi is a peacemaker , take it or leave it 1% bawo
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Lmaoo 😂😂😂 na true you talk
@Adannayaa9 ай бұрын
8:25 In Olu's defence "I don't want peace, I want trouble" 30:46 The DNA question is crazy crazy, wild as fuck 😂😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 top wilddddd!
@akinleyeoluwalonimi34319 ай бұрын
I didn’t want the video to end🥺🥰🥰🥰
@olamideoludoju8 ай бұрын
Dorothy is channeling her inner lawyer 😂 I understand her fr 🫂
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@florasimons61598 ай бұрын
Waiting for the next video, enjoyed watching this one 😊❤
@cey_rah9 ай бұрын
13:05 not me scrolling all over KZbin and bumping into this video and watching this and laughing to ignore my husband and then they mentioned my case😂😂😂😂😂 busted!😢
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Lmaoo hope you have gone to make up o 😂😂😂
@cey_rah8 ай бұрын
@@TheOTLoveTrain I have oooo,🤣🤣🤣🤣
@adewunmioyindamola69239 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this video! Love you guys ❤
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 🥰🥰🥰
@onimesiboluwatife70959 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for always
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome 🤗
@OluebubeMiracle-kp5ml7 ай бұрын
Make una chop my data dey go I love both of you ❤😊
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
Awww, you too muchhh! 🥰
@abenansiah82449 ай бұрын
Your vibe is beautiful
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Aww thanks 🥰
@graciousepelle14639 ай бұрын
Things are expensive ooooooooo,as Olus said I will also like to add that Children are expensive oooo
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Loud am 🤭😂
@fowetomi41719 ай бұрын
I really really like you guys and I love your contents💌
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@Smoothallysyn9 ай бұрын
Toyosi said women are harmless and I agree 😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@ABI_QUEENSAUDI10199 ай бұрын
Wow,God blessings, strength and favour on your Union Always💯🙏Nice vlog I really do enjoy it,thanks and more strength to your Elbow 🙏🙏
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@bukola_O9 ай бұрын
Love you guys. I laughed throughout 😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@thegospelspace_19 ай бұрын
Can't wait for the next video
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
😁😁😁
@nnamdin33729 ай бұрын
This was very fun to watch 😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! 🥰
@SewwithTola9 ай бұрын
That’s what they say when Dey don’t have something to say 😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
😂
@adewunmioyindamola69239 ай бұрын
Again, I love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@fejiroopubor2659 ай бұрын
You guys are just so fun ❤😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
😜😜😜
@setomionafuwa73589 ай бұрын
I enjoy watching you guys for real😂😍
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Aww thanks for watching 🥰
@juachi10009 ай бұрын
Evidence actually shows that resemblance in couples is as a result of the deeper connections! The resemblance is just a by-product of love; no DNA needed 😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Awww thanks for the insight! We should carry go be that!!! 😂
@Aridunnu_eni8 ай бұрын
I love you guys too much 😂❤❤
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@hannahjoseph58673 ай бұрын
I have a question 🙋♀️ please what are your zodiac sign 😊I really love your bond ❤ and God will continue to put love between you two 🙏😘
@Gods_favorite_girl0019 ай бұрын
7:30 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@OMOLARAOBAFEMI9 ай бұрын
Yes it’s a cultural thing to give birth almost immediately or one year Don’t mind them Awon prayer warriors
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🤭🤭🤭
@osiomogieasekome87999 ай бұрын
i thought it was one year difference between you guys
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
For whereeeee 😂😂😂
@vegasdiaryy9 ай бұрын
"What it felt like being without you, after being with you" hmmmmmm
@akinleyeoluwalonimi34319 ай бұрын
My people❤️❤️
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@hauwaabubakar85749 ай бұрын
Toyosi is me and I’m she. on the “why didn’t you sit beside me” fight😂
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@oluwadimimuabdulrasheed83899 ай бұрын
My favourite KZbin couples
@Olairawomi9 ай бұрын
Faves
@mojoyinoluwaoyinseye58608 ай бұрын
Just one last time😂😂😂 31:31
@sarabel23729 ай бұрын
I enjoyed every bit of this video 😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🥰
@oladipoblessing10367 ай бұрын
An ah na bryophyta, sporophyta …..you guys pleaee😂😂😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@eddiyonce81599 ай бұрын
Y’all are funny. Love the vibe ❤
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰 thank youuuu
@Ibksmakeover9 ай бұрын
It’s the conflict topic for me 😂😂😂. So hilarious pleas 😂😂😂😂
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@deborahcyril83679 ай бұрын
😂😂love it
@dikkodeborah23929 ай бұрын
😂😂😂I had a good laugh
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Glad you did ! 🥰
@tayomi17039 ай бұрын
It’s the DNA part for me😂😂 Olu said just one more for old time sake😂😂😩
@TheOTLoveTrain7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@adeshinafareedah94719 ай бұрын
Funny duo
@adeolaracheal82869 ай бұрын
I laughed so much 😂😂😂😂
@Motayooo9 ай бұрын
These couple 😂😂
@triumphantblessing1579 ай бұрын
Guys we can still do this let's share so we can meet up to our Target this year we can still do it..
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Oya Gingerrrr 🚀
@chefotee9 ай бұрын
What?!! Thallophyta😂😂😅
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@kimberleybarrett48149 ай бұрын
Noiceeeer
@chinazomj.o.19739 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Thalofighter? 😂😂 smh See how humble you two became while talking about Christian faith 🤣😂
@TheOTLoveTrain9 ай бұрын
Lmaoo but we humble na 😌
@evelynkyeremateng32449 ай бұрын
So why is your husband wearing earrings?
@Barakat.O9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Why not ask the husband
@ewihlarissa52669 ай бұрын
That is why is her husband not yours.
@Barakat.O9 ай бұрын
😂
@Eri_ife9 ай бұрын
Ah !may the lord judge you !!! Nothing everything you see you talk what is bad in the man wearing earrings I don’t like stupid people Iswear
@Eri_ife9 ай бұрын
And that’s why is her husband and not yours 😂😂😂
@MissGloria9 ай бұрын
Take your time with kids and have kids at your own timing ⏱️ all the best to you guys 😍 I’m always excited whenever I see your video