The Fray - How to save a life (lyrics)

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Lyrics:
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
CHORUS
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS (x2)
How to save a life
How to save a life
CHORUS (x2)
How to save a life
How to save a life

[@preachymaesanglay7995]

"It's a beautiful day to save lives" - Derek Shepherd

[@julessings8473]

Yes

[@khxdija]

Mcdreamy 😩✨

[@bglaflamme1974]

Rip

[@georgiagolding8577]

Mcdreamy

[@bretthastings2707]

Sure would be a shame.

[@apexyl5135]

The story behind this song The writer met a 17 year old kid at a camp. The kid killed himself, and the singer wished that he could’ve helped this kid

[@win3738]

It wasn't his nephew. Get your facts straight.

[@apexyl5135]

Herwin Almuallas It wasn’t his nephew? I need to call my mom, I’ve been lied to

[@win3738]

@@apexyl5135 lol

[@byronaustin8179]

StrangeTheDreamer was it about his friend? Or who was it about

[@win3738]

@@byronaustin8179 about a 17-year-old boy he met at a camp for troubled teenagers. The lead singer claims that the song is about all of the people that tried to reach out to the boy but were unsuccessful.

[@iAaaRii]

Be the friend who saves lifes. Be a friend to yourself too. Save yourself as well

[@emmanaa9146]

I was searching for some words like this. "be a friend to yourself, save yourself as well" thank you

[@mayatodorova1977]

Thank you

[@saraoverkamping8143]

Well, it is not that easy. I feel this pain for so long and somehow I'm still here. I don't know how, I don't know why but I won't go down without fighting as hard as I can

[@iAaaRii]

@@saraoverkamping8143 Hi! I may not know you but let me tell you how proud I am of you for coming this far and having this mindset of yours! I really do relate with your words, even though we might have totally different situations. I hope you'll be better and find happiness in your life 🤗 Know that you are loved!

[@saraoverkamping8143]

@@iAaaRii It is sad when you hear that from a stranger but never by the ones who should love you unconditionally. The only person who loved me is dead and I want nothing more than be with her. But life is a gift and there are still so many who are not have the luck of living a long and happy life. I may never be lucky again but I never going to care about their words again. I really hope you get better too. When you need to talk to someone I promise I listen

[@KenJagers]

If this song has deep meaning for you, Its not your fault. You did your best.

[@saraoverkamping8143]

Why has it deep meaning for you? You seem to be such a humble and caring person! 😟🍀

[@woah2257]

This is the comment I was looking for 🤝

[@oliviadraus-barrett5895]

You have no fucking idea how much I needed this...I feel like I really failed my friend, like I abandoned him..I've lost plenty of people, physically, spiritually, name it. And the majority of them within the year. But this one, this death...this one is eating me up inside.

[@maximv9500]

Thank you

[@deliamarrerro8248]

But did i really i don't know

[@MegaMGstudios]

This was a lot less dark back when I didn't speak English

[@Red_9mm]

same here

[@foxiflakes8245]

Knowledge is a curse

[@boi1595]

Oh dam this is so true

[@midnightryder1077]

You're not the only one cursed with knowledge. *holding back tears*

[@rodolfotsang4327]

What

[@rhadcliff4783]

If you're still listening to this in 2021 you're a legend

[@carsonpalmer292]

damn right

[@mohdamerhamzah3141]

Damn

[@Itz.luke937]

Back then I never knew what he said( I am German) and now this just hits different

[@lararibeiro4372]

Hey

[@CJPlaysGamez]

🥺

[@leowieckowski8802]

i lost my best friend to suicide back in 2016, the worst thing is i found her, it hurts so bad i still have nightmares. This song is really important to me, lately ive been trying to think of good things listening to it and its getting better. Everyone who lost someone important to them hang in there it really does get better.

[@josephcerrera8299]

Yeah a friend of mine was stabbed by her boyfriend and she bleed to death. I was suppose to tell her that my ex manager decided to give her an interview. Instead of going straight to tell her I went home and tell her like an hour later. If I went straight there I would have been there and could have tried to prevent it. It still kills me knowing that I had an opportunity to save her and I missed it because I wanted to shower and eat something.

[@Es.s650]

@@josephcerrera8299 it wasnt your fault stay strong rip🕊💔 im so sorry i couldnt imagine anything happening to my bsf

[@zamzamabdul6089]

@@josephcerrera8299 Just Know it wasn't your fault. You had no idea keep pushing through you got this

[@sudeannajarrett5098]

Oh honey.... I'm so sorry to hear that.

[@edgj1]

@@josephcerrera8299 I am so sorry to hear that.😥❤️🙏🏻 But you couldn’t have known what was happening and you may have been hurt or killed too in the process. Stay strong and know it’s not your fault. Much love and prayers!❤️❤️

[@jeffy4002]

I listened to this song years ago, and to this day, this song taught me to always be self-aware of my surroundings, to see if a friend are struggling with depression.

[@eceonem8762]

it's a beautiful day to save lives...

[@blueboy4020]

help

[@mypl007]

Mc Dreamy right their

[@erinbishop2511]

Loved derek

[@altherfaze7594]

Im in pain dude

[@altherfaze7594]

Derek is my fave character;-;

[@charliehaskins1475]

I'm a 60 year old man. I just exited a 10 year tunnel of depression...there were days when I wasn't sure that I would make it...some days all that kept me here was telling myself that the sun is going to be there in the morning, I should probably be there too...go easy on yourself...swim in a pool of whiskey (like I did) if you have to ( I do not recommend it)...but just be easy with yourself. You are loved!!! The sun came up today and I was happy. Just hang on :-)

[@jakeraymond1407]

Im so happy that u made it out man! we all are

[@charliehaskins1475]

@@jakeraymond1407 Thank you Jake...we all deserve to be able able to get beyond our "shit"!! love back to you!

[@thatweirdfriend1470]

Congratulations hope you have a good day or night

[@leviockerman6671]

Its great your still here... I think of depression as a part of life... to me depression is just an obstical in my way... I find depression happy 😁

[@antimatterstudios8395]

its good to see you got out of it

[@mikedanielespeja6128]

When you plan to be a hero, remember to save yourself as well.

[@vanguardrepublic]

Statement of the century

[@MrSupercar55]

This comment totally deserves more likes. Even a real life hero, such as “Sully” Sullenberger or a firefighter or a paramedic or a coastguard, would agree with that statement.

[@IshijimaKairo]

I am already saved.

[@Brookiesbees]

That is a great quote.

[@-iris-7884]

I lost my father, cousin, aunt, and uncle in 2020. I lost my best friend in 2021 due to their house burning down. I remember getting the news from the school that she was gone and I broke. All of the deaths caused a huge impact. I didn’t look at myself the same, I hated how I looked and I never had self confidence. I felt horrible, I felt it was my fault for anything that had happened. I would cry silently in my room hoping that one day life would get better. A new beginning. During this I was made fun of, I was fat shamed multiple times as well. Everyday felt never ending, like I was in this hole that I could never get out of. I lost a friend and myself during that time. I hated myself and I hated who I was. The crushing pain of losing everyone I loved overflowed my mind and I had bad anxiety that another family member or friend was going to die. When I was younger I was made fun of for crying and overtime I kind of taught myself to not cry when I was sad, but to hold in my tears. As soon as I heard the words “I’m sorry they’re gone” it made my heart sink. At the end of 2021 I started expressing myself. I started writing books and drawing realism. Writing helped because i could express myself and feel happy. The pain was still there, but I felt happy and I still feel happy. Of course I have my rough moments but I get through it :). I love myself and who I am, I’m confident and I love how I look. I can make others laugh while I’m also having a great time. The days got brighter and I would wake up and do things I love. To be completely honest with myself I’m glad I did things that made me happy, positivity made me happier every day, at first it seemed like a chore but overtime I felt better and I’m still positive. My mother would say “it’s just a big bump in the road” which kept me going. The days felt brighter and I started getting better grades and feeling happy, I can’t imagine not being who I am today. I plan on publishing my book once I’m finished :) hopefully, just hopefully things get even better from here! I lost myself, a friend and many others, but hopefully they aren’t hurting anymore! The one great thing about 2021 though was that my grandpa survived bladder cancer. Being positive helped me a lot and I’m so happy with who I am today :) (sorry if you read all this-) Edit 2: My Grandma sadly passed yesterday, but it’s just a big bump in the road. The words that made me tear up yesterday from my mother was “I’m tired of having big bumps in the road” I think it’s become a normal thing for me to lose someone to the point I’m numb to the pain of loosing someone. My book is going good but I’m tired of saying “Hopefully 2020, 2021, and 2022 are better years!” Now I tell myself “2023 will be better! You’ve got this!” It’s hard to believe but I know one day I’ll do big things, great things even. If I can make a huge crowd of people cry to a speech I said about my dad maybe I could be an inspirational speaker, but who knows. I hope that life will go good for me soon. Just trying to stay positive :). Date: 3/19/22 Edit 3: Today was an average day I hung out with friends and I feel a lot better. I hope to be something big, something incredible that makes me unique. I finished all sculpting in art class and I finished my test that I was missing. One more missing assignment and I won’t have anymore missing assignments! I’ve become a really good person I feel but I just need to keep my self confidence up, nobody can stop me even if they say rude things. Have a beautiful day :) Date: 3/21/22 Edit 5: Hey, it’s been a while :). Everything has been pretty good! I went rollerblading so that was nice :). Rumors spread like germs of course so that’s not great. Overall though it’s been a nice week. Also I enjoy being tall, I’m 5'6 B). My muscles hurt from rollerblading- but no matter what I’m going to keep positive because I know that everything will be okay! There’s something I hope to do in my life, which is inspire people. One being to love yourself no matter what. I love myself now but I took way too long to love myself and realize I’m okay if I’m different. Do great things in this world! It doesn’t have to be big, like complimenting someones shirt :). Giving someone a compliment makes there day so much better than it was or already was. Do big things even if there’s no reward because at the end of the day your reward is that you made someone smile, you made someone have a good day. Have a fantastic day! :) Date: 4/8/22 Edit 6: Hey, sorry I’ve been gone. I’ve come a long way, I’m proud of myself. :) My sister will probably move out soon (she’s 22). I don’t know if I’m ready for that. When she’s gone it’ll just be me myself and I. I mean hey, at least I have myself. :) I think life is way too short so in my life I’m going to try to do great things. All you can do is try. I’m here and I’m here to stay. Hopefully you’ll learn something from me. :) I feel I have a lot to say. I also would like to say you don’t have to be older to be mentally mature. Heck I know some adults that are more mentally immature than children. Overtime though children become more mentally mature overtime because they’ve experienced more things. That’s just what I think so yeah. I wish that everyone is safe and well, my apologies for not updating anyone- Date: 4/27/22 Edit 7: My mother was gone for 16 hours today, I’m not a big fan of being alone (my sister was on a trip for a few days) It’s lonely :). I have so much to learn but I’ll be alright. At the end of the day it’s okay if It’s just me, myself, and I. I’ll get through the bump in the road no matter what. :) I hope. Date: 5/6/22 Edit 8: Hey! It’s good to see you all again! I’ve been working on my mental health again :). Life sucks but I’m happy I’m here! I have a purpose in this world I think. Thank you all so much for the amazing comments and sharing your story, it’s so appreciated! I’m glad you all are here, I’m proud of you all!

[@pollyatkinson7884]

I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through. Hope you’re getting on ok x

[@mariobailey249]

Keep standing strong and tall, I hope things will get better and better for you.

[@JC-bq3vd]

YOU'VE GOT THIS! Your amazing and wonderful. Beautiful and wonderful. They aren't in pain anymore. But they can see you from where they are and I guarantee you they're smiling bc of what kind of person you've become. Make them proud. Keep going and know they aren't gone they just left for a little while. You'll meet up again some day. 💙🦋💜

[@-iris-7884]

@@pollyatkinson7884 it’s alright! I’ve been doing alright! I’m glad to be here :) thank you for your kind words :D

[@-iris-7884]

@@mariobailey249 Tysm! I’ll keep standing strong and tall :) thanks for your words of kindness!

[@JCEspiritu1738]

Had a friend who's really good at singing and sang this song at every party. Now he's gone, but he'll be forever missed by me and those who were around him.

[@kevinheatcoat2190]

How To Save A Knife

[@MMGN3129]

@@kevinheatcoat2190 that's a really helpful comment,

[@-Meow-859]

I lost my best friend covid made her move to online school it’s been 2 years

[@-Meow-859]

I think she’s dead

[@-Meow-859]

Heheeeee

[@mckenzigraham8273]

7 year old me: jamming out to this song in the back of the car on the way to school not knowing what it means. me listening to this song now: 😭

[@grucifer]

aaaaaaa

[@echid-8199]

me rn

[@kierasvlogs9207]

same

[@graceyamazaki3871]

Girl sameee. SAMEE LMAO

[@valeriewelch4956]

lol they need to take last name and add a er at the end phonetically of course who taught these people who are making these video's who to spell lmao

[@alexise.7103]

In this modern days lack of communication can kill someone. Sometimes all We need is someone who's willing to listen to us.

[@robinhage8556]

So easy yet so hard for most.

[@hunurutulingcong5843]

so true

[@smilealways4978]

Exactly agree

[@ソトヤママリアテレサ]

indeed. use a Replika AI,. it will listen to you and all your problems.

[@imvictius5506]

Robin Hage sex

[@MrKruffles]

I remember back in 2010 or so, when I first looked at the comment section for this video. It was often filled with bittersweet stories of lost friends and family, and in general was just a safe place for people to let out how they feel and the troubles they were facing. It's good to see that years later, it's still that safe place I remember, and even nicer to see that despite the years, people are still giving kind words to support those who're brave enough to tell their stories and open themselves up to vulnerability.

[@crummybunny777]

Guys the bible tells us more people go too hell than heaven if you live in sin and don't repent you won't be saved and god doesn't send people to hell if they go too hell they go of free choice! Hell was made for the devil and his angels you should watch billy garham give your life to Jesus we are in the last days and Jesus loves you and he shedded blood on that cross without the shedding of blood sin cannot be forgiven and sin is very serious in the eyes of god I was depressed to and sinned for fun I had suicidal thoughts I remember in my room one night I told god that of things don't change I'm gonna kms I was sorry weak and at sometimes so weak I felt like I was dying then I remember a really good day came a day I loved so much and wanted more of so on that same day I remember saying god, I'm just gonna trust you and when you try to do something right the devil attacks you so the next day was horrible I don't wanna say how it was it was just horrible! I stayed strong BC after so long of trying to go to anything else but god they all failed me so I held on to god as the reason let me skip to now and say I started off faithless now I'm so faithful in god I started off worried for my future now I know its something gods gonna handle I'm not feeling depressed anymore the whole year of 2022 was hard but with god I made it threw! Now I learned so much and love my relationship with god I know he loves and cares for me AND HE LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU TOO! I remember I was depressed and believed god didn't love me or care for me but that what the devil telling me lies and I had so many demons but now its 2023 I'm free!💗💕 give god your life today he can do things unimaginable👑😇 please don't waste time we are in the last days the bible never said just be a good person and be nice to people and you will go to heaven No you need to be willing to give up sin anything evil bad is sin even evil thoughts come to Jesus today you never know when its too late💕 and also hell is full of constant suffering and nightmare and you are forever alone Guys the bible tells us more people go too hell than heaven if you live in sin and don't repent you won't be saved and god doesn't send people to hell if they go too hell they go of free choice! Hell was made for the devil and his angels you should watch billy garham give your life to Jesus we are in the last days and Jesus loves you and he shedded blood on that cross without the shedding of blood sin cannot be forgiven and sin is very serious in the eyes of god I was depressed to and sinned for fun I had suicidal thoughts I remember in my room one night I told god that of things don't change I'm gonna kms I was sorry weak and at sometimes so weak I felt like I was dying then I remember a really good day came a day I loved so much and wanted more of so on that same day I remember saying god, I'm just gonna trust you and when you try to do something right the devil attacks you so the next day was horrible I don't wanna say how it was it was just horrible! I stayed strong BC after so long of trying to go to anything else but god they all failed me so I held on to god as the reason let me skip to now and say I started off faithless now I'm so faithful in god I started off worried for my future now I know its something gods gonna handle I'm not feeling depressed anymore the whole year of 2022 was hard but with god I made it threw! Now I learned so much and love my relationship with god I know he loves and cares for me AND HE LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU TOO! I remember I was depressed and believed god didn't love me or care for me but that what the devil telling me lies and I had so many demons but now its 2023 I'm free!💗💕 give god your life today he can do things unimaginable👑😇 please don't waste time we are in the last days the bible never said just be a good person and be nice to people and you will go to heaven No you need to be willing to give up sin anything evil bad is sin even evil thoughts come to Jesus today you never know when its too late💕❤❤❤ deadly sins are lust greed gluttony sloth envy and more but I forgot..........❤❤❤

[@strongestgamer2501]

Least schizophrenic christian@@crummybunny777

[@BreadSanta]

Funnily enough, this song has about 120bpm, making it a possible song to keep pace when performing CPR. It can literally save a life.

[@J_man-de5sw]

Finally, something good from the illuminati

[@youngblocka8128]

I prefer to use Staying Alive

[@salixuu]

i wonder if that was intentional

[@salixuu]

@@youngblocka8128 oWeN HuNt

[@briannahartley261]

Another One Bites The Dust

[@Lolbryson1987]

My dad left me at the age of 1 and got put in jail. He told my mom he belongs in there, it feels like home. I havent seen in 13 years. My mom met my Step Dad when I was only 2. She met him at the club after that night they met up for the first time. At the age of 3 my little brother came. My Step Dad has been here for 12 years hasn't left me. Thank you dad, for giving me the father figure I could've never had. *Thank you for reading this...*

[@keyboardkween8744]

@Shymonkey 2001 same here

[@glowinthedarkzombie]

Hope you're doing well, man

[@Antidarkness_577.]

Lol

[@glowinthedarkzombie]

@@Antidarkness_577. fuck do you mean "lol"

[@Antidarkness_577.]

@@glowinthedarkzombie it stands for love only love duhh

[@elikelik.2542]

So, my best friend committed suicide a couple weeks ago... I knew what she was going through. I was always by her side, I was trying to show her the beautiful side of life. I always tried to make her laugh. It wasn't enough. We were together minutes before she take her own life. We had gone to the cinema to watch a film she told me she'd like to watch. After the film, we went at our houses. She called me and we started talking about school and stuff. At some point, she stopped talking. Some minutes of silence later, she told me that she would call me back. I could hear her voice breaking as she was telling me this. She was crying... I tried calling her but she wasn't picking it up. An hour later, my phone rang and it was her brother. I could tell he was holding his tears back. He told me the news and I hang up. I collapsed to the floor crying. I miss her so much. I'm sorry for this really long paragraph. I just had to tell someone about this. Please, treat people with kindness because your words or actions may cost someone his life. She was being bullied and I couldn't do anything to help her. Now she is gone and I am here blaming myself for everything. Rest In Peace sunshine...

[@Nothoughts18]

I'm very sorry to hear that. But don't blame yourself, you did everything you could. You showed her that you'd be there for her and I bet she really appriciated it. You are very right. Treat people with respect and kindness. May your friend rest in peace

[@elikelik.2542]

Kuraiko Okami Thank you. I really hope she knows that I still love her and miss her. And I will always will

[@Nothoughts18]

@@elikelik.2542 I'm sure she does^^

[@blueze8755]

Oh i am so sry:(

[@micah8100]

It must have been really hard for you. But please hold on and keep going. Do not blame yourself. She does not want to be a burden. She'll be truly happy if you continue your life without blaming yourself. She loves you. Be strong. For her. For you.

[@Ace-OVLD]

Not knowing one of your friends is under such sorrow until its too late is fucking heartbreaking... RIP my friend ill never forget the memories we had together.

[@takarasdream2597]

Where did I go wrong, I lost myself 🙂.

[@gray-lu3dn]

me too

[@flrae_vixen7779]

It happens. It’s sad but true. Whatever’s happening, you’re not alone and never will be. Just be patient and try to stay hopeful and optimistic and you will find yourself again

[@kubenblisk6311]

I lost my best friend in 2014

[@petmalulodi8740]

I've lost my girlfriend because she falls on my friend instead of hiding it they confronted me i love them both but now they already forgot me I lost a friend somewhere along in the bitterness Where did i go wrong😔

[@Koi_Bird]

My only friend left me... Where did I go wrong. I lost myself... They left cause they said I was to anti-social......

[@vinnielee7570]

“Same time tomorrow bro?...” “Yeah I’ll be on” Last seen 4 years ago....

[@trace_gaming1279]

🙂

[@Sofia.waananen]

This hurts so much..

[@everybodyscatboy8027]

This hit me hard.I hope you are doing ok bro.

[@christhecripplercrossfaceb6017]

Maybe he got fed up with you

[@vinnielee7570]

@@christhecripplercrossfaceb6017 it’s a true story... he passed in his sleep actually bro

[@naveenalee7712]

sometimes you don't have a friend who would sing this about you. so you sing it for yourself. how to save a life. how to save your life.

[@destinyjade0]

this really hit right now🥺

[@freethrice]

Saves mine. Thank You Fray!

[@MemeRevolutionaries]

Hit me hard :'(

[@your_local_simp5699]

How did you know?

[@surreallilith]

Hehe yea that's that's me

[@Patch-lz9yi]

To the friend I almost lost: I'm glad you're still here. I'm so sorry for all they've put you through. I know none of this is easy, but you've almost made it. We all love you so much.

[@mr.coffee5220]

I always thought it was about a man who’s friendship ended, but now I realize it’s about a man’s friend who died.

[@asfpu3283]

same

[@mvmakr]

Specifically suicide

[@YeloughAnixPriest]

Death takes many forms. It's a song about grief, in the end- if someone disappears and never comes back, who's to say your grief is any lesser than if they'd died? Y'all, show your friends love and kindness, and make as many memories as you can. Sometimes mental health issues are simply too strong.

[@shivanand8367]

@@YeloughAnixPriest Very well put bud!

[@YeloughAnixPriest]

@@shivanand8367 Thanks dude! Just trying to spread some love and understanding in the world :)

[@mirandabezanson3215]

Daily reminder: Spend as much time as you can with your favourite person. You never know how long they will be around. Trust me💔

[@Ella-kj6oc]

I can only agree my best friend passed away last week

[@ahamham4532]

Jesus is my Friend! True and Faithful. :) See John 15:15-17 15 Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. 16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you. 17 These things I command you, that ye love one another.

[@ahamham4532]

@@yaboialex8862 I forgive you. Jesus loves you.

[@kaitlyn7621]

What when she left u bc cod this reason saying your to clingy a bff isn’t ment to be like that and she was the clingy one but you didn’t care

[@kabersteksofficials1855]

Too late

[@lilith7062]

"One day after my suicide" The day after my suicide, I loved my mother even more, when I saw her crying on the floor of my room, hugging my clothes with my photos scattered around her, I saw so much love past the tears in her eyes. The day after my suicide, I felt how much my father loved me, no matter how hard it was, in the midst of so much sadness, he spoke to me with tears in his eyes about how proud he was of me and how much he loved me. The day after my suicide, I saw Tumble (my furry best friend) was more incredible than I could imagine. Everytime someone came home, he would run to the door excited to see me, and seeing that it was not me, would lay down in front of the door and continue waiting for me. The day after my suicide, I felt the love of my sister when I saw her sitting in her room with eyes full of tears. She remembered the times we played, talked and argued together in our beautiful childhood. Treasured moments. The day after my suicide, I felt how important I was to my best friends. They were looking at all our pictures together...remembering the laughs we shared. The day after my suicide, I felt the sorrow in my teachers. They blamed themselves for not noticing. At night I went to the morgue to look for myself and said: "So many dreams we had", "So many loved ones", "So many people to meet", "You had so many people that loved you, yet you threw it all away?", "You have to have a lot of courage to take your life. Why didn't you use that courage to win?" Thank goodness that was just a vision. Remember: You are still here and can change your life forever. You are better than you think you are. Prettier, smarter and stronger. Make this yours. Save it to notes and read it later. Disclaimer: This is not my story I just wanted to spread it because maybe it helps some people :)

[@ansy3811]

Thank you so much. I needed this ❤️

[@333akira]

where was that love when op was still alive?

[@DTZM]

Thank u, good sir

[@DTZM]

@@333akira doesn’t matter, what matters is that u are here right now

[@misterpolyhands3183]

Thank you❤️

[@layne05]

I........actually saved a life yesterday. My girlfriend had a cord around her throat on video call (her camera was off) while I was gone for a few minutes, and I came back just before she slipped out of consciousness. She stopped once she saw me and somehow, I saved her life from a suicide attempt. I am so happy I got there in time. This is by far the best thing I've ever done in my life.

[@Shinjitsu_0]

Good job dude, you did the best thing king. Also you might wanna talk to her bout why she would wanna suicide and do all o'that. Anyways gl on ur journey and keep safe king.

[@layne05]

@@Shinjitsu_0 Thank you. Sadly we just broke up, but she's going to therapy and has been much better since then. I did talk to her about why she wanted to do it, and it just had to do with her depression and other personal stuff. I wish the best to her, and hope she gets the help she needs.

[@Shinjitsu_0]

@@layne05 well thats sad to hear but atleast shes all good now, focus on urself for now and think about other things once ur health and mind are set.

[@layne05]

@@Shinjitsu_0 I will do that. Thanks for the kind words.

[@rexroyulada6267]

This story is the happy ending I wanted to hear after knowing about the song "Baby don't cut"

[@multiapplecatzrule5346]

My best friend committed suicide last month. The last I remember of our conversation was when I was trying to talk him out of suicide on the other side of the bathroom door. The last thing I heard of him was "What's the point of life?" before I heard him collapse to the floor. The bathroom door was locked so I tried to barge in but couldn't, so I called 911 and waited in fear as the ambulance came 20 minutes later. Long story short, at his Funeral, I asked if his family members could play this song for his rememberance. R.I.P, Ryan.

[@myalonicamacho1131]

that is sad some girls killed my cat 😿😿😿😿😢😢😢

[@xxinsanexzombie]

RIP Ryan

[@shannonmurphy5888]

R.I.P Ryan

[@coricw4128]

+MULTIAPPLECATZ RULE wow that is sad.... :.(

[@queervibez3981]

R.I.P Ryan

[@lydiabowles8987]

this song hits different when you’re crying and singing along thinking about all you’re insecurities and how people have been mean to you and you’re thinking about everyone you loved who gave up on you

[@mikeywashington2609]

Keep your head up strut through it stay tru to yourself youll be good

[@tilenfon5743]

Keep your head up! Life gets hard sometimes but you aint alone

[@lydiabowles8987]

Tilen Fon thank you this genuinely made my day 🥺❤️

[@tilenfon5743]

@@lydiabowles8987 np❤

[@mayatodorova1977]

Why did you remind me :(

[@きしすすです]

“Ok lets play again tomorrow bro!” “Yeah ill be online then” Last online: 3 years ago

[@snorlax4385]

Is this a reference?

[@Joel-vk3cf]

This hits hard

[@genevieparagas9780]

Awww.

[@markerpurplemarker1901]

That was so sad. Maybe he quitted?

[@snehadas9017]

Shit, what happened?😶

[@rusticanimal2157]

Remember: anyone struggling with mental health, you’re not a joke, mental health isn’t a joke and you’re not alone, we’re in this together, you’re worth more than you know and you are loved.

[@Elijahthreet]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Elijahthreet]

I’ve been alone since my sister left and I really miss her

[@Claire_eq311]

I am 😢❤I have anxiety, adhd, and a small disorder- I just get bullied my whole life for being tiny and now I feel so sad when I look at my body. I feel ugly and not good enough 😢

[@aaron28175]

@@Claire_eq311 you arent ugly. remember that. if your mental health is in shambles don't take it as a joke and try and help it before its too late

[@MeowthRocket]

A lot of the time it feels like I'm not..... that I'm better off dead.

[@juul3837]

my best friend I've known for over 7 years is suicidal. She tried to kill herself 4 times. I barely know her anymore, she's changed so much. From this happy girl to a depressed suicidal nothing. I try to visit her as much as I can, I try to support and protect her as much as I can. But how hard I try, she seems to be slipping away more and more each time. I miss her, I lost her somewhere along in the bitterness.

[@xxxdanya7xxx]

Jackie Jackson You have to insist, don't let her alone... I know it's what she wants, but she's really shouting for help. Sometimes, we just need to know someone cares about us, and we aren't aware that our behaviour pushes them away, and we hurt them. I hope she realizes that she has a good friend who worries for her. =)

[@RisingSun73]

Jackie Jackson I'm sad to hear that. I hope you can still try to be there for her, even though I understand it is very hard. Someday she will hopefully overcome her depression and be there for you again, too. I'm sending you my thoughts and prayers, stay strong.

[@123bertolli123]

Ok u dont need to fking share that on KZbin

[@eli.1083]

123bertolli123 You need to convince her that there are people who care and that if she killed herself, she would cause grief to others that are close to her.

[@eathard.sleephard]

Jackie Jackson your comment was very moving. Lovely use of the lyric in the last sentence. Depression is a mental disorder and although your friend may be lost she is not gone, and you can get her back. Perhaps you can tell her parents and they seek out the medical attention she needs. Don't give up on her.

[@ata13lover]

Omg such essays people are writing down here. I guess this song is more inspirational than any english teacher

[@izzyizzyisreal4058]

Ok so si

[@christhecripplercrossfaceb6017]

Lol

[@aaron-gz]

wHAt DiD yUo dO tHiS sUmMer? (Present to class for grade)

[@dreamwish286]

Lmao I didn’t know what you meant until I scrolled down

[@justexisting184]

XD

[@AirwaveMusicTV]

Getting goosebumps all over everytime I listen to this.

[@rockyisbossgr9967]

WOW u just wrote something on youtube , snober

[@dkn3245]

Me too

[@hahatrumpets3536]

too bad i dont have friends ;P...

[@duckyduck2082]

I laugh. I wanna take this song seriously but the memes have ruined me.

[@999senai]

Dich findet man ja wirklich überall :D

[@bentonhennessey2026]

I had two amstaff puppies stolen from my yard and when I got in my car to look for them this was the first song that played on the radio, it still brings me to tears every time I hear it.

[@mariposa3842]

I’m so sorry!! 💕💕

[@HONDABEASTGaming]

Still listening in 2020???

[@carlyc1521]

Idol honda!

[@esmamutlu9943]

Meh! D:

[@MrMoloy23]

Regards Kay moxie idol Honda...hahaha...bbmo

[@ilianakanellopoulou6928]

Yes!!😂✌️

[@wave580]

Coach!!

[@andrewtarnowicz]

My daughter recently caught me listening to this and saw the tears streaming down my face and asked what was wrong. Now my daughter knows I am going to school to be a pastor and that work with people who are suicidal. She knows I have talked down plenty. But this song reminds me of the hard part of it all. I looked at her and said "Daddy is thinking of the lives he couldn't save." But I will never stop trying. Ever.

[@janne3982]

You're a really good person.

[@andrewtarnowicz]

@@janne3982 thank you

[@matteotodesco3523]

I really think you are a hero man! trust me!

[@briannamendenhall19]

You are an amazing person. You are helping so many people and I truly admire that. I aspire to be like you. I have helped many people and I’m only a teenager. It’s sad what this world has come to so that at my point in my life I am having to talk my peers down from suicide. Thank you for everything you do

[@personperson3180]

Andrew Tarnowicz I know how hard it is

[@Blurred_Gaming]

"The second you start blaming yourself for people's deaths,theres no coming back" -JD ( Scrubs)

[@dontmindmeimjustsomerandom5261]

that fucking scene made me bawl my eyes out

[@Blurred_Gaming]

@@dontmindmeimjustsomerandom5261 that scene was so perfect in everyway!

[@ilovecandy5448]

whos jd

[@Blurred_Gaming]

@@ilovecandy5448 Jd is a character from the show scrubs xD..

[@iiLazySundays]

Actually it was cox who said this to JD. JD just reiterated it back to cox

[@crowcypher5821]

I just lost one of my best friends today, I have so many things that I wanted to say to him physically. I hope I can see him and hug him one last time.

[@Sidguru101]

May they rest in peace, stay strong x

[@gabe_liu9095]

"dude, why your eyes teary" (try my earphone) now there two men with teary eyes

[@ventepiso]

2 men 1 device (・-・)

[@gabe_liu9095]

@@ventepiso sounds like porn. i'm in

[@stephaniechokey5704]

@@gabe_liu9095 lol tf

[@S1lv3rc0m3t]

Even though I'm normally not emotional this song just makes me think of my ex who committed suicide

[@gabe_liu9095]

@@S1lv3rc0m3t even though I don't have close relatives who commit suicide, but through this song I can feel how sad it was left by someone who committed suicide

[@alexiscastagner601]

This song makes me think back to a year ago when I was suicidal, but then I remember that I haven't felt that pain in so long and I'm genuinely happy. Hang in there everyone, it really does get tough but there's always a light at the end of the tunnel and it is worth everything to find it.

[@momol2l285]

Must be pretty far then

[@pameladavis512]

there is no light at the end of my tunnel. just a knife

[@alonewolfgirl6179]

mine is at the edge of a building @@pameladavis512

[@hiimanxiety6319]

1 year... lucky

[@irritatingperson7882]

Trust me , if you only felt that pain for a year then you don't know the pain others had to go through to get there. Do not misinterpret this as a hate comment , but be aware that for some people the light is not visible anymore , and they need more than hoping it will end. They need hope that they will survive

[@onlyopia131]

i wanna tell a little story. when i was 11, me and my family moved back to Georgia, after having spent two years in Florida. It was hard on me and my older brother, the changing curriculum made school hard and making friends was harder. After a few months, my brother managed to make some friends. His best friend became a boy named Markese. Markese was a few years older than my brother, and he couldnt have been more different than him. My brother has always been reserved, quiet and to the point. Markese was loud and obnoxious, he would do anything dumb you dared him to do, from asking random girls for their snap to doing a backflip into the pool. About two years ago, Markese's family kicked him out of his house. He walked all the way to ours, and we instantly took him in and let him live with us. Markese became like another one of my brothers. He fit right in, and there was no question that i would do anything and everything for him. I would spin on the stools in my kitchen and talk to him for forever about bands i liked, while he complained about not being able to sing the high notes in Michael Jackson songs. It was no secret to us that Markese's home life was shit. His dad was a violent drug addict, and was the one who kicked him out. But we did everything we could to make sure he knew we loved him and if they didn't want him, we sure as hell did. Two months ago, Markese hung himself. He didnt say a thing to any of us. Not to me, my mom, dad, step mom, step brother- not even my brother, his best friend. Not a day goes by where i dont regret not asking about his recent quietness, not a goddamn minute passes where i dont hate myself for not telling him any chance i could that i would do anything for him. Markese wasnt blood. I didnt grow up with him, and he was simply my brothers best friend. But i still loved him, and so did my whole family. Markese's life was not ideal, but despite that, we all still loved him with every ounce of our being and im never going to stop missing him. our late night talks, his constant complaining about girls, or his dumb overexaggerated laughs. Never. You are all so fucking important. so loved. i promise you, you matter so goddamn much to someone and losing someone to suicide never stops hurting. He was just a boy that stayed around for a few years in our basement with my brother, but words cannot describe how much I miss him and wish i couldve done something, wish i couldve known. You matter more than youll ever fucking know. There are people who will be so blessed to meet you one day, let them. Hold on for them. Hold on for everyone you care about, hold on for me, and hold on for Markese. Keep on holding because the pain in someone you love letting go never stops

[@yourfriendsteve8369]

Wow, I just, wow. People need to realise that, there is always someone out there that cares. My little bro is 10 but I dunno. I think he's depressed. His "friends" always leave him in tears, and honestly just take advantage of him. Today when this happened he was on a game and he was talking with a Mic. Next time this happens I swear I am picking up that microphone and they WILL feel my wrath!

[@doubletapgaming7786]

This hit me hard

[@yourfriendsteve8369]

The Sam pls no

[@yourfriendsteve8369]

No one cares, it would be all too easy to slip away unknowingly.. That's what my friend.

[@inuyasha3083]

I'm sorry! I really am. 💔

[@kathyandria6073]

One of the best concerts I've been to, here in North Charleston... It brought back sad memories, but this song taught me to listen and pay attention to my friends... RIP, Carey

[@lucial2069]

It's 2015 & I still listen this

[@MrKevinr8]

Same here Ani :) my Brother played it .land i was Like damn this song is gold :)

[@Legend93s]

Yes !

[@maknaehyuck9923]

Ani PizzaLover this song is so cute

[@teigan5422]

I love this song 💗

[@salahuddinaamir1045]

Same x

[@martijntonnis8585]

This comment section is just….. wow. So many sad stories at one place and it’s lovely to see how people are comforting each other. I’m very sorry for al of you who lost a good friend, stay strong! 💪

[@CraygK_15]

i love how everyone understands eachother

[@L0ve1tRetr0]

It's nice to the the evolution of comments sections from a toxic mess to a place where people can receive genuine empathy and support. 10 or 15 years ago that concept would have seemed impossible.

[@ghosttwo2]

I came here looking for instructions on how to do CPR, but got so busy reading the comments it's too late 😅

[@L0ve1tRetr0]

@@ghosttwo2 Step one you say you need to talk... No, that doesn't sound right. 🤔

[@patrickseran2035]

Yeah, I learn alot from their stories.

[@arnabdharchoudhury3093]

"Where did I go wrong I lost a friend" hits me hard.

[@rodrigogalindo2499]

My favourite part :(

[@usmarine3226]

Yeah

[@Charlotte-m6w]

Makes me cry every time , my son (age 2) saved my life , still continues to , wish more people around me listened to this song living with bpd I get judgement instead of understanding but if I lost my fight I bet everyone would cry then 😞

[@calfiger]

God bless you, I hope you're getting at least some help 🙏🏾

[@dtheres12]

I’m glad your son helps. I had someone close to me who suffered from BPD. Please please! Tell us you’re getting help or at least on meds. You’re worth it and so is your son

[@greekwoman18]

I understand you so much. I have depression and anxiety, I feel really really bad all the time. My son also same age, is the one who keeps me alive. I don't want hurt him. I know how it is to be judged all the time, and how difficult is for someone to understand your feelings. I understand you. I don't know if that matters, but I really do. I hope we both get better some day.

[@SC-wz2vh]

.

[@snowy7976]

Feel you fam

[@jomilharveyjapson4283]

SUICIDE

[@jomilharveyjapson4283]

@Christopher Hendricks just don't mind that at least you get it.

[@fantasyhochzwei8977]

Right now!

[@juanitamartinezperez2193]

🙋🙋🙋

[@I-ARE-AsiAce]

let's not lie, you searched for this video

[@user-uc5lk1gy6m]

always

[@gabbyyyyy__0]

🥲🥰

[@hebesteggle6005]

I saw Louis Tomlinson play is on piano

[@sskvrr]

Yes because this song reminds me of my dad and my grandad who died cuz my dad made a pub in my back garden for my dead grandad and my dad allways sings this on the karaoke in the pub

[@GamingIncMasterTroll]

Nah

[@miscellaneousrichardo1409]

Most of you never felt and experienced what I did. I was supporting my depressed girlfriend during months when she got worse and finally decided to suicide. I was talking with her on cell phone when she stood on the chair ready to jump and hang on hang, negotiating and waiting for police coming to her that was called by my parents. Today she is much better and finally wants to live. I'm happy that she is still alive and got through this shit. I love her very much.

[@sinan_bth2893]

Miscellaneous Richardo Boy my gf is suicidal Since 3 years and i Support her Since 6 Months. She tried to Commit suicide so many times

[@neilwez]

Sorry dude x

[@efrelynherda5707]

Depression isn't a joke😒 you can't control it and its sad

[@YeloughAnixPriest]

You're an angel, brother. I admire your dedication.

[@Jessie-yp7iy]

This also reminds me of my Grandma she passed away a few years ago and this song always makes me think about her as I also get goosebumps all over!!😭

[@wolfsraindog]

I used to sit in the living room of my old house listening to this song on my cd player. I remember one night my brother walked by me and smiled when he saw me singing it, and it made me feel so happy. I felt like he was proud of me. My brother died in a car accident 5 years ago now. I still can't listen to this without crying.

[@hayahassan3460]

MentalHygenist I'm so sorry for the loss of ur brother. Stay strong ❤️ and your brother will looking down on you at all times, so try to make him proud. I'm sure he'd want you to be happy and stay strong. Take care.

[@grey9919]

When you listen to this song, remember he's listening with you. He will always be here for you. Don't give up, he needs you to stay strong. He loves you, and i know he's proud of you, and how much you've grown. Whether mental, emotional, physical, or anything else. He always has been, and always will be. I don't have to know him or you to know that you both have made a lasting impact on someone, continue to make people smile, continue to love, and teach others to love.

[@momosworld1489]

I'm so sorry * hugs *

[@naveensharma5584]

Aww sweetie stay strong 💖

[@bup8198]

Ahhh my nigga ded lol

[@kelseycummens8515]

I could listen to this for years

[@ryookawa8057]

Definitely

[@boss_diamondz1783]

Kelsey Cummens its weird but I feel like whenever I listen to this song I just keep on thinking about power rangers

[@YTShortsHub99]

To all the people going through tough times and have suicidal thoughts, do not give up, you matter too much to give up. I was suicidal once due to depression from the after effects of leukaemia. Never give up, you have way to many people that love you and care for you. Don’t listen to things that hurt you, don’t take hurtful advice from people. Just keep strong and hold your head high. You are not alone. You are loved ❤️❤️🙏🏻

[@jackmackay4373]

Vibe check

[@IrishTankMasta]

Tristan why is your profile picture of the Australian cardinal . George Pell who was convicted of child sex crimes. And your preaching resilience ? Wow that is ironic

[@markparallag7258]

ya still alive?

[@jennadavis9493]

This song will forever resonate with me as the one song I listened to when I was in my darkest moments, and to this day it reminds me of all the awful things I did to myself to try and feel something. I’m still fighting the demons in my head every single day but this song ironically brings me a sense of peace after so many years of pain. If anyone needs this today, you are NOT alone, and you are loved and valued beyond measure ❤

[@tag_traum]

Stay strong & thx ❤

[@courtneystroud503]

My sister committed suicide yesterday. This song basically sums me up right. Absolutely broken....

[@brookedivetta5753]

Courtney Stroud ❤️❤️😭😭

[@g00seyn00sey]

Omg!! I hope ur a little better now :)

[@vertexpmed]

my cousin passed away the day before yesterday. I feel your pain.

[@emmilyhesbrook4488]

4years later are you ok baby??

[@cerys9199]

My best friend sent me this.. She told me to listen to it so i did.. I didnt know that she was giving me a sign.. She told me that she loved me and that she will miss me, i was so confused. I told her i was going to sleep... I woke up to a message from her saying that she couldn't do it anymore.. I messaged her and called and she didn't pick up or respond.. Her funeral was 3 days ago.... Rest in peace yuna...

[@ruhlehmehluviduv5304]

sorry for your loss.

[@YeloughAnixPriest]

Don't blame yourself, please. You're only a person, there's only so much that can be done and when you're tired, sometimes your brain simply *can't* figure stuff out. She loved you, and if you believe in an afterlife I think she'll be waiting there for you.

[@trishazarzoso1723]

im sorry for what happened...my friend just sent me this and i am now concerned about her, she still isnt opening up but after reading this ill try to help her the best i can..

[@mentalbreakdance1322]

I’m so sorry to hear that. How are you doing now?

[@Johnikee]

@@trishazarzoso1723 how did it go I hope she's okay

[@vichitem497]

The amount of nostalgia this song brings me is ridiculous

[@kamconey8437]

Same 🥺😩 elementary school didn’t even know what the words meant

[@mosheahvows5071]

This song was all over the radio 20 plus years ago, when I was a kid and didn't even really know what the lyrics were. It always kind of felt sad, and listening to it now, it is sad, but for a different reason. Listening to this song, I can see the past, how everyone looked and behaved back then, my old school, the old houses that are demolished, and friends and family that move on. It hurts so bad, I wish so bad we could visit that time again, just for one damn day....

[@kayxo_z5163]

*When you are jamming and crying at the same time*

[@makaylahixon3359]

Papyrus The Skeleton yessssssss

[@vanessalepen2352]

Papyrus The Skeleton meeeeee😂😂

[@wilfredoamisola7538]

vanessa lepen pl

[@silasbenjamin4497]

accurate

[@real_ice_king5502]

Artist Queen lmao true

[@GetTheGatlingVocalist]

My grandpa is diagnosed with stage 4 cancer....he has one year left with us, this was the song I sung at his wedding 8 months back and it was his first time heard me sing and he cried when he heard me... this song means so much to me

[@pascalharmens6214]

deep respect

[@cupcakeit9385]

I hope you make your time with him good and happy. 😊

[@GetTheGatlingVocalist]

Thank you everyone...he passed the day before Christmas

[@GetTheGatlingVocalist]

If anyone is wondering what my voice sounds like open up band lab and search Steven thrall I have many covers including this song.

[@ayoutubeaccount2003]

Sanity Monster can't find it

[@bleghash5305]

*tries to not make up scenarios with this song* *fails* *hurts my own feelings and stats crying*

[@itz1kryptonn294]

I thought I'm the only one who does that

[@bleghash5305]

KryptonnGaming wait I’m not the only one?

[@itz1kryptonn294]

Great minds think alike

[@bleghash5305]

KryptonnGaming very true indeed

[@humanoide7076]

Same only that inspires me to write stories but im too lazy to do it so, i always imagine stuff with songs

[@mihuvi]

It has been a week since my dog passed away and I’m listening to this to tell her that I love her even more 🕊❤️🐶

[@janetsircy9392]

I lost my son last year and it's been a struggle to want to continue on in this world, but my daughter and husband keep me pushing. All the regrets I haunt me. Just listen to your loved ones and believe them

[@dawnsfit2bfree]

My condolences to you and your family.

[@oli9220]

Keep fighting, Janet! Prayers for you!

[@MrJme20]

i dont even know what to say, but please keep strong! im crying for you right now

[@aidenhorton18]

Can’t think of anything worse than losing one of your children. Kudos to you for going on you are stronger than most.

[@mr.november4838]

Your head will wreck the love they're sending....don't miss this gifted chance of a lifetime. This is how you move forward right or wrong. They know some of your pain, it never goes away. Focus on what's in front of you! Nothing will ever replace anyone's pain, but sitting in self hell will definitely not help you. I hope family and friends can help. Tough road, life does go on, you are #1, and life is just around the corner...go catch it! Your daughter needs you too.

[@shanegoes5778]

Anyone else wish they could just go back in time?😔

[@Gh0u11]

Yes

[@no...one...]

Every single time i look into the mirror after waking up

[@ethanw6624]

@@no...one... same man I dont look at myself the same anymore

[@Unknown-xl2wo]

Yes i wanna go to the old days when your pfp isnt a trend

[@anthonyhutchinson25]

Somebody call Marty

[@daniellekellogg2619]

3 days ago my friend of 4 years killed himself by shooting himself in the head. I had talked to him earlier in the day and he acted like everything was fine. I didnt see the pain. behind his smile, his laugh, his eyes. He was soo happy. He told people he had to go home to talk to his parents what none of us knew was he was going home to an empty house. I hate myself for letting him go. He threw so many hints at us but none of took them. He helped so many people but we couldnt help him. I hate how only a few people could turn the happiest, funniest, coolest, and helpful person you could ever met and make him want to die. I hate the people who did this to him. And now he isnt here anymore. I hate how he didnt realise that we care, we loved him somuch. And I hope he knows how much it affected all of his friends and family.

[@graced1743]

Danielle Kellogg l’m sorry very sorry. I feel that pain he or she went through l’m here for u

[@MajiaMexicana]

As a suicidal person who doesn't have the guts to fully commit. I disagree with some comments. For a reason, being funny and outgoing helps aleviate our own pain and it feels good when others are happy, it helps to forget the bad. Some people are good at pretending everything is okay and making others believe it because we want to believe that. There have been many nights where I would bleed and feel good because it was a punishment of being alive and feeling that I deserve everything that has happened to me. Your friend maybe didn't want to worry you or have someone stop him because it was his decision. And sadly, no matter how many hints one can give, it truly takes someone special to aleviate those dark thoughts. Agree to disagree but I hope you are able to remember him for who he was. It's not your fault nor was it his. Sometimes demons are stronger than humanity and reasoning

[@dunnowhyimhere9789]

AirElLee that’s exactly how I feel although sometimes I think having a funny and outgoing personality has its downsides. For example, people actually start to think you could take any joke and they’ll take advantage of it and start excessively making fun of you. But yeah I mostly use my humor to mask my pain and loneliness I feel on a daily basis and I enjoy seeing other people laughing and having a good time.

[@SM-xy2gw]

I can somehow relate to your situation, one of my classmates took his own life a month ago, although we weren’t close by any means, I sat with him and my friend in one of our classes. We were the little group who never got any work done and annoyed the hell out of the teacher. This boy was genuinely the funniest and most entertaining ‘happiest’ person I’ve ever met, he impacted everyone so deeply. It hurts to know that deep down he wasn’t like that and I just still can’t believe that he felt the way he did. I’m so sorry for your loss :(

[@faith7171]

S M wow i’m so so sorry for your loss.

[@cosmicbrambleclawv2]

I remember as a kid I bought a entire cd just for this one song 😂 Still one of my favorites

[@jollyrancher4957]

I've lost most of my friends to depression, this song just kills me inside a little more

[@thatonepony5486]

then why the fuck you listening to it

[@leyahdanielle6798]

almost lost myself a few days ago.

[@thatonepony5486]

cool don't care

[@mikeengelman1158]

+ThatOnePony You must be absolutely fantastic to be around.

[@zachfriedman]

well depression is a biological function so humans end their lives short to prevent procreation/overpopulation. your friend did the world a favor

[@lolgal1996]

Did they know this song would be used in every doctor tv show ever

[@Laura-gp3dd]

truth lol

[@DOG-NIGHTMARE]

Hey! Your profile pic is a sackperson!

[@lolgal1996]

+Shara Kitten yeah I love lbp!! But I can't play rn since my PS3 broke ☹️

[@DOG-NIGHTMARE]

SpacedOutAshton Awh that sucks. I love LBP too

[@lolgal1996]

Shara Kitten hopefully im gettin a new one though :0

[@HG-fp9kb]

“Save a life” “I lost a friend” It’s all coming together now ;-;

[@vortexxthatsme446]

@Wetarded why would you say lol

[@carolinedevlin2446]

@WoLvZ_Hockeygamer30 I know how you feel... One of my best friends committed suicide 3 years ago... Happy birthday mate... You would have been 48 today....

[@masterdaniel9665]

@@carolinedevlin2446 what happened? Also im very sorry for you 😔

[@carolinedevlin2446]

@@masterdaniel9665 He stabbed himself with a meat knife... you know... the ones that look like daggers?

[@Wayward_Insomniac]

This song makes me cry a hell of a lot, it reminds me of my father who committed, after his death it feels like our entire family is falling apart with all my siblings getting into bad relationships and being manipulated into thinking the worse of there own parent. I was only 2 or 3 when my father died so it hurts that i don’t have much memory of him, I’m scared one day I might forget him but I know that I won’t.

[@kaz7796]

I lost my best friend when I was 11. Hearing this song makes me realise how much I miss him and what I would have done different to save his life. “If I’d known how to save a life” hits so hard. I love you and always will lucky 💔🕊

[@mel-jr8je]

my friend, she was going to the shop buying eggs so we can bake later, i was the one who asked her to go. i got a call from her sister an hour after that she got hit by a car when she left the house... after years ago i still have little part of me blaming myself, but no1 wudnt see that coming. i miss her to death. everytime i bake or buy eggs, i think about her, miss you baby girl❤🕊

[@degenerat9329]

@@mel-jr8je I'm so sorry 💞

[@elizabeth-qx2bs]

How old are you now?

[@thunderfan3868]

one time on club penguin i forgot to feed my puffle and he ran away.

[@lindseyxo2217]

i love jewish orphans 1 I'm sorry I had to laugh at this lol

[@tatumamour9951]

Lindsey Browniexx same lmao

[@62redhead]

i love jewish orphans 1 Better love story then twilight.

[@samroberts9423]

i love jewish orphans 1 Mine too, GOODBYE FLUFFY

[@stratocasterblitz5179]

i love jewish orphans 1 lol

[@SonnyCollinsakaBrian]

i have lost friends before, both by death and by words. but i learned how much it means to have a friend. so just hold on to them while you got them. be there for them, for some people that could mean the world to them. and if you end up losing them, never forget them. ever. and another note, don't push your friends away, you may end up hurting them more then you think.

[@harrietyes]

Both sides of the friendship, the therapist and the depressed, hurt like hell. Luckily I've only experienced one, and I don't want to ever have to lose him. He's said terrifying things, done terrifying things, showed me terrifying things. I don't know how to help, and with my anxiety I would think it's all my fault if he decides to end his life. I'm so scared. I feel like so many people forget how hard it is to be the friend who knows about the other's depression. Please, stay here. I appreciate how hard you're trying, and no matter what happens, please remember that even if the grief doesn't get smaller, life gets bigger around it. It may take awhile to grow, but I'll be with you every step of the way. If you cut life off, it'll never grow and the grief will only pile up as the world continues without you.

[@samirakhoury1762]

Hi I kno its late, but if its not to late yet, I have some advices for you to help. Sometimes situations are so hard that you dont know what to say. So you keep quiet and the hurt person will stay numb. If words wont do you have to take action. Sometimes its enough to hug people to let the feel warm again. Depressionen is something that pulls you in the darkness where you cant feel anything but cold. So try to make him feel warm. Show him, that you are there. Not with words, but with actions. Try to hug him, take his hand and ask him what it feels like, pet him,talk with him, show him new things, overall try to make him forget his problems for a moment first. Then for a day and maybe for a week. You have to give him the feeling he can talk to you everytime so when hes alone, he wont think about dangerous stuff. When people feel save they know the can do it because there is at least one person whos always on there side.

[@professerflorczak989]

I lost my best friend back in janurary, this year, to suicide. She was the only one I had. My parents where abusive and never loved me, and it only got worse when I fell into a depression because of her death. After two months (7th of March) I decided I was gonna follow her steps, and commit as well. I decided on the 10th of March would be the day, because I already live near a train station, and it would be the easiest way. 9th of March I decided to log on discord, and talk to my friends for one last time. On the server we talked on a complete stranger joined us. His name was Tommy and god was he funny. He private called me, so he could get to know me. We listened to this song together and I ended up breaking down. I bawled my eyes out, and when I said I didnt want to talk about it, he understood and helped me cheer up instead. This is now a song we listen to together, because it now reminds me.of something happy instead. Right now I'm sitting in a chair at the airport, so I can meet Tommy for the first time ever. I'm going to tell him everything, and even confess my feelings for him. He's probably straight but he deserves to know, how much he means to me.

[@TitaniumTronic]

Happy that you made it bro, with the help of tommy! Will I find a tommy in my life once everything just completely fall apart? I don't know, I hope I do.

[@professerflorczak989]

@@TitaniumTronic It might take some time, but you will. I think everyone will. It might take a long time, but you kinda just have to hold on and hope they'll make it worth it :>

[@freyak3466]

omg how did it go??

[@professerflorczak989]

@@freyak3466 We're dating :)

[@freyak3466]

@@professerflorczak989 OMGGGG thats so cool im so happy for u :)))

[@cierah3066]

This song with Callie from Greys killed me.😢

[@rlpkvncvllr8509]

MCDREAMY DEATH BRINGS ME HERE

[@0m3gA_o3]

Oh hey there dead kid

[@rawanmageed8552]

yes it did

[@hyden5676]

Scrubs- My lunch

[@mckenzietimon1243]

i’m watching it rn

[@pshubhaprasad]

It's sound way different listening with depression

[@Csaykaman]

You are worthy ok, have a nice day/night

[@beatrizquintanamontes5014]

It hits very different :(

[@saraoverkamping8143]

Absolutely agree. He lost a friend in the bitterness and you know that you lost yourself in the darkness. It hurts you even when nothing else can hurt you anymore 😔

[@anyname7095]

Hope things clear up for you, Depression is awful, speaking from experience

[@jaden6104]

Yeah. It's like listening to it for the first time all over again. Super different than when I was like eight and jammed to this song now I cry.

[@albertatoc2954]

2024? Anyone listening?

[@chrishuston1992]

WHY IS THAT ALL YOU CLOWNS KNOW HOW TO SAY IN EVERY KZbin VIDEO, IT'S ANNOYING AS HELL, QUIT SEEKING ATTENTION 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@Grimlock987]

I’m here.

[@jayhomie1983]

Don't listen to this type of music but I like this one right here

[@pauladiazleon8664]

I'm here

[@Rektum1510]

👋🏻

[@Lana-xl9kl]

it hurts harder when you are the one who was lost, when your life needs to be saved.

[@diegoquero4385]

We're here for you :)

[@TitaniumTronic]

yeah, but then nobody understand at all, that even you can't understand yourself and you don't know if you wanna die or if you wanna live lmao laugh about it so it doesnt look bad, thats what I do

[@Kurama157]

I know right

[@ՄԻԼՖՆԱԿԱՆԽԱՆ]

We don’t always lose friends outside of ourselves. Sometimes that best friend is ourselves

[@rokkfel4999]

HEY HEY PERSON LOOKING THROUGH THE COMMENTS READ THIS PLEASE You aren’t perfect you’ve made mistakes major or minor doesn’t matter your not perfect....but that’s ok your human and perfection is impossible for us so keep going keep making mistakes keep learning from them and keep on going keep living that’s as close to beating life that we can get and remember sometimes it’s ok if you only can save one person and sometimes that person is you so keep your head up.....you have a life to live

[@branoudic6501]

Damn son, very well said

[@AnnikiVee]

Well said.

[@mochicat8686]

Yea Believe and keep your head up even if someone passes away like my mom did yea it’s in the top of the comments

[@toomanystarstocount859]

I love when people Support eachother

[@rosalinaabae]

you just saved a life

[@jacobdonnellan4519]

This song was amazing, but growing up the lyrics to this song hit harder. I’m so lucky have have saved some people through hard times. I just wished that one would’ve called or texted me before. He was my coach I get I was young at the time but I would’ve done anything to still have him here on this earth. He was more than a coach he was someone I looked up to and admired he was a family friend so I always seen him even outside of training. I miss him so much

[@BlackNemisyz]

Suicide is a real problem...if you see someone who looks lonely or just doesn't fit in...go say hi or even smile at them...a simple act of kindness from a stranger can be the difference between life and death. :)

[@CheesecaykeStudios]

Aye, suicide is a real problem. The problem isn't however always that they aren't being talked to, in fact some people just quite simply want to be left alone. It's worse when you talk to somebody just because you feel sorry for them, they will know this because they aren't stupid. I have always been smiled at and said hi to, but whenever somebody does this I feel as if it's just because they either feel sorry for me or are scared of me. And think that if they simply say "Hi" or smile to make me feel better then when the day comes that I snap, or so they think, I will spare them. I'm nothing like this, and knowing that they feel that way about me feels much worse. I understand that some people just want to be nice too but unless you actually plan on being their friend, unless you actually would want to be their friend, it's best to do nothing at all. And most importantly if they don't want any friends then don't give them one, I for one prefer solitude. There is a big difference to being suicidal or just wanting to die. As to being an attention seeker, my friend. Remember that.

[@jacobbertram1]

CheesecaykeStudios Umm the songs about drugs.

[@CheesecaykeStudios]

I know that.

[@SeemoreMeow]

jake bertram I think it suggests drugs. but anything is interpritated.

[@sakiruoshinaku3683]

Charles Schaming Wrong it's for suicide...all though everyone has their own opinion

[@DanAzin]

its been 5 years and i still think about you everyday. why did you have to take your life like that. Youll always be in my heart. RIP Melissa, my pet lady bug

[@alexx3755]

💗🙏🏽

[@richardsherman3659]

LOL

[@patronsaintofpoison]

Did she/he at least fly to to top of your finger first

[@honeycrispsnail4032]

I have a pet ladybug named Jeff. He ran away last year... I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU, JEFF

[@ArtemisCrescent_]

where do u life?

[@GutsyCrunch]

The songs I really love. That are true to life. Blue October - Hate me The Fray - how to save a life Snow Patrol - chasing cars Coldplay - the scientists These were my anti depressant songs.

[@sadnax]

I heard 3 of those songs

[@trash2481]

I listened to all those songs except for the first one

[@luneditz317]

I lost a friend. I lost my cat in a very tragic accident, i kinda blame myself. My cat was a siamese one. It was my very first official cat that i had adopted, so i had to take care of it. His name was maru. He was the most cheerful cat i had ever met. He was just a kitten. It was fun taking care of him. He would always be beside me, sleeping while i was studying. Playing with me whenever he feels like it. He was just the way he was. He was perfect. He is the perfect companion that i had during my lonely times. Then suddenly one day, i found out he got hit by a tricycle (a motorcycle) and the driver just got away with it. Not even caring if he hit something. I saw his dead body. I was traumatized. His eyes were open and i started to cry when i realized he wasn’t moving. If only i hadn’t left him outside. I wish I actually got him before i ate dinner. We gave him a proper burial after that, may you rest in peace maru. ❤

[@OTMN630]

So sorry for the lost

[@sirenkit708]

I'm supposed to search 'How to cook mac and cheese' but I don't have regrets

[@user-wy5kp4qb6o]

somewhere along in the sweetness of your mac n cheese?

[@StarYoshiX]

Lmao Reading this comment eating Kraft mac and cheese XD

[@EvilEnsembleStars]

Best comment

[@sstellate]

Ingredients: 7 Kiri square portions 2 cups uncooked quick macaroni ¼ cup softened salted butter 1 cup cooking cream 2 large beaten eggs ½ cup sour cream ½ tsp. salt ¼ tsp. cayenne pepper ¼ tsp. ground black pepper 400 g grated cheddar cheese Fresh basil leaves for garnishing Instructions: Preheat oven to 180 degrees. Boil the macaroni to al dente, drain well and set aside. Reserve about 100 g of the cheddar cheese then add Kiri cream cheese and all the remaining ingredients in a large mixing bowl, stir gently until well-combined. Add the boiled macaroni to a greased baking dish and sprinkle the remaining cheddar cheese on top. Bake, uncovered, for 40-45 minutes, until hot and bubbling. Let it rest for 10 minutes then garnish with fresh basil leaves and serve.

[@samsonknightvr]

I was reading these comments about people like losing loved ones to suicide and what not then I saw this comment and started dying of laughter 🤣

[@SmartieClan]

I once had a cat, i still have that cat.

[@ConjointVR]

Nice xD

[@trailhiacabano7024]

Smartie Clan right!

[@thatoneawkwardturtle9550]

Smartie Clan whoa dude really?!!

[@trailhiacabano7024]

***** >?????? whoattt???

[@keyboardkween8744]

*cries*

[@OverZaEast]

The song that reminds me of my passed away girlfriend 9 years ago because of Leukemia . R.I.P Anna i will always love you.

[@patrickpower195]

Rip Anna 😭

[@gottagogottago8244]

R.I.P Anna😭🙏🏻

[@kaibaby4042]

😭😭😭

[@corbinbishop7097]

+Humam Eastrawan I am sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace.

[@stevenhopkins6652]

sorry for your loss man :(

[@funnydoubletd3td315]

Here I’m 2023, this song reminds me of my dad. Miss him may he rest easy.🙏🏻😔

[@394seed5]

I've always wanted to be a better person. I'm tired of feeling all these useless bouts of anger, sadness, and apathy. I'm tired of taking it all out on the people I love. I'm sick of being sick of myself each and every time. I don't want to be sad anymore, but it's what I'm used to. I'm tired of wanting to give up on my life. I don't want death to come early. I want to live and continue on fighting, but there's always this hole in my path that always brings me back down to where I began. I want to improve goddammit why can't I do such an easy thing. And most of all I'm tired of wnting to reach a standard of "okay" each and everyday. I want to be enough for myself and for the people around me, but it seems that I keep on raising that bar for "enough" every day, making it harder and harder for me to reach. I'm sick of being the obstacle to my own self-improvement. I want to be a better person, but I always keep on going back to square one, and I'm sick of it. Edit: I really just want to say thank you for all the kind comments. I never really expected this to get any attention at all. I’m glad to inform you all, that I am in a MUCH MUCH better place than I was before! 😊 Looking back at this comment made me realize just how far I’ve come, and how proud I am of myself for doing so. The old mindset of mine may come back, but with a better heart I can welcome it with open arms and forgive it. Once again, thank you for all the warm words you gave me, I really appreciate it. ❤️

[@AlexOxygen]

I agree entirely, nothing sucks more than limiting yourself when others aren't holding you back at all. I know how you feel. I have dedicated years and years into specific skills, and have developed little to none. I tend to always forget my lessons learned, or never learn the lessons I should. Just try your best to focus on your mistakes, with the intent to learn from them. Strive to test new ways of improvement. Strive to accept yourself more and more each day. Despite the cliche, you should keep a positive outlook on everything. I struggle with the same problems as you. I try my best but fail to succeed. People keep asking if I'm okay, and though they seems genuine, I can't help but question if it is legitimate or if I should take everything as if it is a lie. I'm sick of questioning whether people care or not. I'm sick of knowing what is real and what isn't. I hope you figure out what is real, and what matters to you. I wish you the best of luck through your struggles, and I hope you can finally do what you've been wanting to do for so long.

[@murphymurph]

I feel you..

[@renseal475]

This hit home so much.. Reached out to try get some help from a counselor for CBT, and hopefully it can make a difference.

[@ghadach7152]

It's okay to feel like this ❤ you never know what could happen to you , good things will happen to you , stay strong and don't give up

[@Jesus_in_the_Coliseum]

Hurts just reading, please never give up on happiness, you need to change your view of life, learn to just appreciate the things around you. Please look after yourself ❤️

[@ordinaryperson5867]

My mom was shot in 2017 and I think if I would've been there I could've stopped it...love you Mom.

[@ifeomaabiandu7496]

Im so sorry. It is well luv. Be strong ♥️

[@whatadeliciousalias9340]

HAHAHAHAH PLEASE TELL ME IT WAS THE POLICE

[@eddiemartinez4760]

@@whatadeliciousalias9340 nigga wtf ur problem

[@isabellasampson5253]

awe that's so sad, i hope you're okay!

[@gokuson452]

Im so sorry for your loss

[@ravenvanreijsen1626]

Never let TikTok find this beautifull song...

[@oliverm9110]

Actually I found this song because of tik tok

[@elliemay7029]

Hoomun Thing Yeah same ahaha

[@corporalsilver6981]

@@elliemay7029 Are you guys serious? Is nothing holy or pure anymore?

[@mountainwinds8985]

wow really people find this song from tiktok? ....

[@oliverm9110]

@@corporalsilver6981 All the videos that I've seen are innocent. I'm glad I found the the song though it's one of my favorites

[@burghbrat3319]

This song, I dedicate to my young friend who senselessly took his life. I always think of him and remember him, he was just 20 years old. I wish I had known, wish I could have helped him. I love this song but it makes me sad, too. To think that I could have helped someone but I didn't know how. That haunts me.

[@whosbrianna1768]

R.I.P my little puppy. He was blind, his head was way to big for his body and he always hit his on walls but most importantly he always tried to get back up and walk but he always fell down 😔 unfortunately the vet couldn't do anything so they had to put him down! 😭😭 at least I know he is in a better place now! 😭

[@whosbrianna1768]

Also R.I.P to my grandmother. Unfortunately she was diagnosed with boule (however u spell it) cancer. It was either her suffering or she could go to a better place (heaven). She is gone now but I really miss her and I cry all the time because of our loss. I really hate cancer and I wished it didn't exist 😭😭 I get sad and soppy whenever I think about her because I love her and I wish that she didn't have to go through the suffer that she did! 😭❤️❤️

[@sockjoeart4606]

I'm so sorry

[@breannamattes5111]

Sorry for your loss. Thats really sad

[@liamt-zonebest2348]

Poor puppy 😭 and I'm sorry about your Grandma hope your okay 😭

[@breannamattes5111]

Sorry for your losses. Poor puppy 😭 thats really sad. Sorry about your grandma too. I know how you feel, I've lost people and pets 😭

[@conejonovicCruz]

If u ever felt so sad, please look for help, talk with your family... always there will be someone that can help u :,)

[@preppermedic9470]

conejo novic Cruz respect for you bro! Thnx!

[@conejonovicCruz]

thanks bro

[@chikakumask4693]

my mom just says it's Cus I'm going through puberty. owe

[@onceuponawalkingdeadpll8355]

conejo novic Cruz I needed that

[@conejonovicCruz]

once upon a walking dead PLL me too bro

[@Chr1sh4ns3n]

to those fighting depression just remember that even soldiers do not fight alone so don't...just don't think that you should cause everyone needs someone to watch their backs

[@desfn6317]

Why isnt this pinned yet?