Stop Trying To Change Women And Change Yourself

[@eddiekruggerr4972]

Improving yourself will give you more options. You won't have to deal with stupid mofos. Life is about choices.

[@schanderson]

True; in reality, the number of stupid mofos should go down when you improve yourself; you're lucky if you have that number to be zero

[@docshay7328]

True, improving yourself will give you options to not have to deal with dysfunctional and disrespectful women.

[@ennobleone]

facts

[@humblewolf2474]

Time is a man's best friend just stay within your positive energy

[@AM1media]

This title alone is pure gems!

[@JovhonteFirstOfHisName]

2 years later this still hitting home

[@vmoney65]

He's RIGHT. Arguing/debating with sisters (or any women) to get with them is a waste of time. The best course of action is to improve yourself- health, finances, etc. and put yourself in a position to bypass the women who were never worth your energy in the first place. Here the kicker: Live long enough and you may even see many of them sweat you from your rear view mirror... and even if they don't? Fuk'em.

[@23dgoudeau]

Your whole reality changes when you decide to change and people with like minds will come to you

[@bigwill9421]

"WHEN YOU FOLLOW, THEY WILL FLEE, WHEN YOU FLEE, THEY WILL FOLLOW."

[@AL-Broadcast]

Amen, chuuch, tabernacle, preach!

[@robertellis5977]

One thing I would say is a woman or ppl in general would change for the right person....you gotta demand a person to change through actions and less talking!!

[@jefferybarefield6372]

Yep

[@elkay18]

Please provide an example of that ever happening in history. I am not aware of it ever happening before. What I do understand affected female behavior is laws and policy. Women of the '40s & '50s behaved the way they did because laws restricted their movement. No birth control, no abortions, no education, no serious employment, no police protection, no family court, no no-fault divorce, no domestic violence laws. That's the only proof in history of the affecting the behavior of females.

[@robertellis5977]

First hand, I quit hanging around certain women because of their attitude....down the road...they started to act right....it took action for them to act right. You gotta show them somethin they never seen before...like I said less talking..more action...I agree with oshay on this one.

[@mstiffany]

Demand a person change?? That’s interesting ..especially when one can just gravitate towards those that are already in alignment with ones values and standards...

[@RudyPalos]

"Upgrade your grey matter. Cuz one day it may matter." -Deltron3030

[@staywildnthought6504]

Being the best version of you is what makes you great which is abnormal in this normal society

[@therightway4715]

This the realest shit i ever heard you say i think its time i donate

[@russellrobinson7036]

Self value is very important. Change starts within. You hit it on the mark with that talk.

[@martinmamouzette9373]

You hit this message with a red dot, middle bullseye FOR SURE!!! I needed to hear this message. CALYPSO!!!..... ORGAN!!!! 😉😆😂🤣😃😎

[@h22sparkle]

I choose not to try and change them but choose to change the folks i interact with and not deal with the ones that are not right for me.

[@dezerelgraham1985]

100% on point. When you change then she will change how she treat you.

[@jefferybarefield6372]

My Spirit brought me to this channel

[@esommouton2269]

Realist thing I've heard in a while

[@skssuccess75]

Great video and this is something I continue to do. I reminisce about an old coworker who said before he retired "Everything that is real is subject to change." Continuously allowing yourself to change for the better will result in a continuous better life.

[@trucker_gainez]

The message is still solid 5 years later 💯

[@walkerdrae]

New subscriber here. Man I just wanted to say you're doing a great service to the brothers out here man. When my inner blue pill tried to creep up I listen to videos like yours to pull! Back in. It's a process and I'm glad to have a community like this to learn from. Keep doing the damn thing man 👊🏾

[@KingBaldEagle1984_Prosperity]

Andrae Walker Oshey Duke Jackson is a God send to us Black men. I’m tired seeing us Black men begging everyone else out here for their approval from people who don’t give a damn about us .

[@YusefWateef]

You said it a lot kinder than I do when young men come to me for advice, excellent message!

[@unique7988]

Amen to this Oshay! We have nothing to prove to women, we are not made to impress them or anyone. As men and individuals we are the prize, we just need to embrace that concept. Women are who and what they are, if they are down with you then enjoy them, if they are not then move on.

[@obamascock2169]

@mizzmolly Looking at yourself as a prize is a bad way to look at it either way men or women, its a fucking toxic outlook. Its basically saying that you are the problem not me. I shouldn't have to change, or look at things I do wrong. That being said you still shouldn't completely see yourself as the problem, but you should look at your faults whether you are a man or women. Men are Women are not prizes. I think its also a bad thing to never even try to pursue a man. I think you pursue things that you want its as simple as that. Saying Never pursue a man is such a bad attitude. I think the idea that Men have to do all the work is such an outdated philosophy that Feminists just won't ever get rid of. They try to talk about how they want more liberation, and be treated like equals, but don't want to do the hard things. Its a sad fact, but Men can't walk around and wait for a girl to show up. It usually never happens, Women can though, and they don't want to change this at all.

[@gourmetthursday]

Great message ODJ! Love your exit line too: "The buffoonery remains at an all time high" - Classic!

[@TheCoolgame24]

why are you not on j the black youtube anymore

[@gourmetthursday]

christopher owens Good question! You’ll have to ask him love.

[@Thkmra]

Spoke a word on this day!

[@amtronicwrx1071]

All truth. Another classic. Don Calypso.. Organ! Brother Oshay, thank you for your service.

[@stevenjenkins3882]

Now I'm back. You're back on track. Let's do this.

[@jeffreymassey5541]

This is some strong Calypso organ s***

[@dtrain138]

Another good one. If we don't spend as much time AT LEAST thinking about how we can change ourselves for the better, we're wasting our time. I waste enough time as it is just being indecisive or overly analytical. I'd rather have that problem than not being introspective and always trying to get others to change around me.

[@peopleunite78]

It's far more easier to change the kind of women you pick than to change a woman you're with.

[@theluckylefty3486]

I have to listen to this video everyday. Great motivational video

[@devohnmitchell]

Self Improvement is Key

[@WBrizzle81]

It's not necessarily about the debate however. It's about giving voice to a grievance. This line of thinking in essence makes the case that you can't possibly self improve AND voice the grievance. It's a bad faith statement, because what it really is, is an attempt to silence unfavorable voice.

[@CrownHtsRiot]

Damn Unk O, I literally stopped talking to my child's mom and relocated bc arguing my case was NOT working. Being belittled. I said "I'd rather be grinding from a distance than be shitted on up close" I'll come back home when my shit right. The child will be fine. It's MY LIFE that's priority now.

[@martinmamouzette9373]

Your doing the right thing bro. I've been there for SURE. That peace of mind and CLARITY is the territory us men are scratching and clawing for. At least I know we both are and EVERY man should be as well.

[@EASTCOASTIMPERIAL]

What about the kid?

[@CrownHtsRiot]

IMPERIAL SEMI KING co parent, women only respect adversity. Fight for a bit, be a man, hunt and come back as a man of respect.

[@dezerelgraham1985]

Gio Roche so you left your child?

[@CrownHtsRiot]

Dezerel Jones I'm co parenting, fuck don't you understand? Typical black woman, don't know wtf sacrifice means.

[@patrickblackrock1678]

The weak are for hangs!

[@araroxx3874]

One of many things I love about you O'shay is you are Fair and speak knowledge about both sides of the spectrum!! Love the way you are. Hope you never change only more wiser and better O'shay!! Now let's see if this gets thousand plus views💋

[@dm3742]

Thank you very much, Dr. O.D. Jackson!

[@HealthyHeavyweights]

I needed this one...thank you 💯

[@bighou2359]

By far the best advice of any KZbinr on this subject. Much needed brother Oshay. Thanks bruh.

[@andrepalms]

Shared this to all my friends!!!

[@RocknRollDina]

OMG Shay you live in Poland??!?! Didn't know that. Great commentary. Yo new level of respect after this vid . I agree with, you can't change people but you can change yourself😎

[@samueladamsii6843]

100% true my brother.

[@jasonlucas382]

Talk to 'em, Talk to 'em

[@eugenesilas8884]

Real Talk brother keep it up

[@ennobleone]

upgrade and value yourself.. facts

[@mightyeye4624]

This is pure gold

[@insidemediareport9893]

Please do a show on the State of the Culture last show. They talk about Bill Cosby.

[@bluesilkk]

GREAT POINT ON THIS BROTHER

[@OshayDukeJackson]

Brother Charles would love to work with you!

[@justinhunt4767]

Great job

[@bossalinedezz]

Right on ✊🏾

[@TheCoolgame24]

its tons of people who change themsleves and when you get up there you dont make alot of friends you stay to yourself because people want something from you . men who are valuable it means someone want something from you and thats a whole new level of shit you have to deal with but you right about change yourself but you forget men who start their own shit will not be around nobody because they know someone want something. women come and go but never marry when you have alot because you can lose it. dont be a mc hammer

[@eric_brooks]

Nobody respects debates...beyond a form of entertainment.

[@LAX2SanGabriel]

Agreed and MGTOW should be change yourself TOW.

[@Jay-yy7uk]

Amazing talk

[@davidcollins5932]

Thanks Brutha

[@TheMABExperience]

Real Talk! 👂🏾💯💪🏾

[@perceptionisreality6769]

You have to deal with like minded women to who are compatible. If a chick is into Junebugs I know it's hard just keep it pushing don't try to change her. Move on to someone more suitable for you.

[@adrianmobley6805]

Show, don't tell.

[@SumDumGai5]

Good one.

[@roneymcintyrejr9714]

Calypso Organ

[@trinityhelpmeholyghost7644]

Wow 👌🏽

[@stefanmoultrie2649]

🔥 🔥

[@chaseisaac9563]

Calypso Organ.....

[@countrygirl8295]

✍

[@lilearljr589]

You 5'2 400lbs your not going to play center for the la Lakers lmfaoo

[@1879gym]

Yo Dude go get the professional help you need