Improving yourself will give you more options. You won't have to deal with stupid mofos. Life is about choices.
@schanderson6 жыл бұрын
True; in reality, the number of stupid mofos should go down when you improve yourself; you're lucky if you have that number to be zero
@docshay73286 жыл бұрын
True, improving yourself will give you options to not have to deal with dysfunctional and disrespectful women.
@ennobleone5 жыл бұрын
facts
@humblewolf24746 жыл бұрын
Time is a man's best friend just stay within your positive energy
@AM1media6 жыл бұрын
This title alone is pure gems!
@JovhonteFirstOfHisName3 жыл бұрын
2 years later this still hitting home
@vmoney656 жыл бұрын
He's RIGHT. Arguing/debating with sisters (or any women) to get with them is a waste of time. The best course of action is to improve yourself- health, finances, etc. and put yourself in a position to bypass the women who were never worth your energy in the first place. Here the kicker: Live long enough and you may even see many of them sweat you from your rear view mirror... and even if they don't? Fuk'em.
@23dgoudeau5 жыл бұрын
Your whole reality changes when you decide to change and people with like minds will come to you
@bigwill94216 жыл бұрын
"WHEN YOU FOLLOW, THEY WILL FLEE, WHEN YOU FLEE, THEY WILL FOLLOW."
@AL-Broadcast6 жыл бұрын
Amen, chuuch, tabernacle, preach!
@robertellis59776 жыл бұрын
One thing I would say is a woman or ppl in general would change for the right person....you gotta demand a person to change through actions and less talking!!
@jefferybarefield63726 жыл бұрын
Yep
@elkay186 жыл бұрын
Please provide an example of that ever happening in history. I am not aware of it ever happening before. What I do understand affected female behavior is laws and policy. Women of the '40s & '50s behaved the way they did because laws restricted their movement. No birth control, no abortions, no education, no serious employment, no police protection, no family court, no no-fault divorce, no domestic violence laws. That's the only proof in history of the affecting the behavior of females.
@robertellis59776 жыл бұрын
First hand, I quit hanging around certain women because of their attitude....down the road...they started to act right....it took action for them to act right. You gotta show them somethin they never seen before...like I said less talking..more action...I agree with oshay on this one.
@mstiffany5 жыл бұрын
Demand a person change?? That’s interesting ..especially when one can just gravitate towards those that are already in alignment with ones values and standards...
@RudyPalos6 жыл бұрын
"Upgrade your grey matter. Cuz one day it may matter." -Deltron3030
@staywildnthought65046 жыл бұрын
Being the best version of you is what makes you great which is abnormal in this normal society
@therightway47155 жыл бұрын
This the realest shit i ever heard you say i think its time i donate
@russellrobinson70366 жыл бұрын
Self value is very important. Change starts within. You hit it on the mark with that talk.
@martinmamouzette93736 жыл бұрын
You hit this message with a red dot, middle bullseye FOR SURE!!! I needed to hear this message. CALYPSO!!!..... ORGAN!!!! 😉😆😂🤣😃😎
@h22sparkle5 жыл бұрын
I choose not to try and change them but choose to change the folks i interact with and not deal with the ones that are not right for me.
@dezerelgraham19856 жыл бұрын
100% on point. When you change then she will change how she treat you.
@jefferybarefield63726 жыл бұрын
My Spirit brought me to this channel
@esommouton22694 жыл бұрын
Realist thing I've heard in a while
@skssuccess755 жыл бұрын
Great video and this is something I continue to do. I reminisce about an old coworker who said before he retired "Everything that is real is subject to change." Continuously allowing yourself to change for the better will result in a continuous better life.
@trucker_gainez3 ай бұрын
The message is still solid 5 years later 💯
@walkerdrae6 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here. Man I just wanted to say you're doing a great service to the brothers out here man. When my inner blue pill tried to creep up I listen to videos like yours to pull! Back in. It's a process and I'm glad to have a community like this to learn from. Keep doing the damn thing man 👊🏾
@KingBaldEagle1984_Prosperity4 жыл бұрын
Andrae Walker Oshey Duke Jackson is a God send to us Black men. I’m tired seeing us Black men begging everyone else out here for their approval from people who don’t give a damn about us .
@YusefWateef6 жыл бұрын
You said it a lot kinder than I do when young men come to me for advice, excellent message!
@unique79886 жыл бұрын
Amen to this Oshay! We have nothing to prove to women, we are not made to impress them or anyone. As men and individuals we are the prize, we just need to embrace that concept. Women are who and what they are, if they are down with you then enjoy them, if they are not then move on.
@obamascock21694 жыл бұрын
@mizzmolly Looking at yourself as a prize is a bad way to look at it either way men or women, its a fucking toxic outlook. Its basically saying that you are the problem not me. I shouldn't have to change, or look at things I do wrong. That being said you still shouldn't completely see yourself as the problem, but you should look at your faults whether you are a man or women. Men are Women are not prizes. I think its also a bad thing to never even try to pursue a man. I think you pursue things that you want its as simple as that. Saying Never pursue a man is such a bad attitude. I think the idea that Men have to do all the work is such an outdated philosophy that Feminists just won't ever get rid of. They try to talk about how they want more liberation, and be treated like equals, but don't want to do the hard things. Its a sad fact, but Men can't walk around and wait for a girl to show up. It usually never happens, Women can though, and they don't want to change this at all.
@gourmetthursday6 жыл бұрын
Great message ODJ! Love your exit line too: "The buffoonery remains at an all time high" - Classic!
@TheCoolgame246 жыл бұрын
why are you not on j the black youtube anymore
@gourmetthursday6 жыл бұрын
christopher owens Good question! You’ll have to ask him love.
@Thkmra6 жыл бұрын
Spoke a word on this day!
@amtronicwrx10716 жыл бұрын
All truth. Another classic. Don Calypso.. Organ! Brother Oshay, thank you for your service.
@stevenjenkins38826 жыл бұрын
Now I'm back. You're back on track. Let's do this.
@jeffreymassey55412 жыл бұрын
This is some strong Calypso organ s***
@dtrain1386 жыл бұрын
Another good one. If we don't spend as much time AT LEAST thinking about how we can change ourselves for the better, we're wasting our time. I waste enough time as it is just being indecisive or overly analytical. I'd rather have that problem than not being introspective and always trying to get others to change around me.
@peopleunite784 жыл бұрын
It's far more easier to change the kind of women you pick than to change a woman you're with.
@theluckylefty34865 жыл бұрын
I have to listen to this video everyday. Great motivational video
@devohnmitchell6 жыл бұрын
Self Improvement is Key
@WBrizzle816 жыл бұрын
It's not necessarily about the debate however. It's about giving voice to a grievance. This line of thinking in essence makes the case that you can't possibly self improve AND voice the grievance. It's a bad faith statement, because what it really is, is an attempt to silence unfavorable voice.
@CrownHtsRiot6 жыл бұрын
Damn Unk O, I literally stopped talking to my child's mom and relocated bc arguing my case was NOT working. Being belittled. I said "I'd rather be grinding from a distance than be shitted on up close" I'll come back home when my shit right. The child will be fine. It's MY LIFE that's priority now.
@martinmamouzette93736 жыл бұрын
Your doing the right thing bro. I've been there for SURE. That peace of mind and CLARITY is the territory us men are scratching and clawing for. At least I know we both are and EVERY man should be as well.
@EASTCOASTIMPERIAL6 жыл бұрын
What about the kid?
@CrownHtsRiot6 жыл бұрын
IMPERIAL SEMI KING co parent, women only respect adversity. Fight for a bit, be a man, hunt and come back as a man of respect.
@dezerelgraham19856 жыл бұрын
Gio Roche so you left your child?
@CrownHtsRiot6 жыл бұрын
Dezerel Jones I'm co parenting, fuck don't you understand? Typical black woman, don't know wtf sacrifice means.
@patrickblackrock16785 жыл бұрын
The weak are for hangs!
@araroxx38746 жыл бұрын
One of many things I love about you O'shay is you are Fair and speak knowledge about both sides of the spectrum!! Love the way you are. Hope you never change only more wiser and better O'shay!! Now let's see if this gets thousand plus views💋
@dm37426 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, Dr. O.D. Jackson!
@HealthyHeavyweights6 жыл бұрын
I needed this one...thank you 💯
@bighou23595 жыл бұрын
By far the best advice of any KZbinr on this subject. Much needed brother Oshay. Thanks bruh.
@andrepalms2 жыл бұрын
Shared this to all my friends!!!
@RocknRollDina6 жыл бұрын
OMG Shay you live in Poland??!?! Didn't know that. Great commentary. Yo new level of respect after this vid . I agree with, you can't change people but you can change yourself😎
@samueladamsii68436 жыл бұрын
100% true my brother.
@jasonlucas3823 жыл бұрын
Talk to 'em, Talk to 'em
@eugenesilas88847 ай бұрын
Real Talk brother keep it up
@ennobleone5 жыл бұрын
upgrade and value yourself.. facts
@mightyeye46245 жыл бұрын
This is pure gold
@insidemediareport98936 жыл бұрын
Please do a show on the State of the Culture last show. They talk about Bill Cosby.
@bluesilkk6 жыл бұрын
GREAT POINT ON THIS BROTHER
@OshayDukeJackson6 жыл бұрын
Brother Charles would love to work with you!
@justinhunt47676 жыл бұрын
Great job
@bossalinedezz6 жыл бұрын
Right on ✊🏾
@TheCoolgame246 жыл бұрын
its tons of people who change themsleves and when you get up there you dont make alot of friends you stay to yourself because people want something from you . men who are valuable it means someone want something from you and thats a whole new level of shit you have to deal with but you right about change yourself but you forget men who start their own shit will not be around nobody because they know someone want something. women come and go but never marry when you have alot because you can lose it. dont be a mc hammer
@eric_brooks5 жыл бұрын
Nobody respects debates...beyond a form of entertainment.
@LAX2SanGabriel6 жыл бұрын
Agreed and MGTOW should be change yourself TOW.
@Jay-yy7uk6 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk
@davidcollins59326 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brutha
@TheMABExperience6 жыл бұрын
Real Talk! 👂🏾💯💪🏾
@perceptionisreality67696 жыл бұрын
You have to deal with like minded women to who are compatible. If a chick is into Junebugs I know it's hard just keep it pushing don't try to change her. Move on to someone more suitable for you.
@adrianmobley68055 жыл бұрын
Show, don't tell.
@SumDumGai56 жыл бұрын
Good one.
@roneymcintyrejr97146 жыл бұрын
Calypso Organ
@trinityhelpmeholyghost76446 жыл бұрын
Wow 👌🏽
@stefanmoultrie26496 жыл бұрын
🔥 🔥
@chaseisaac95635 жыл бұрын
Calypso Organ.....
@countrygirl82956 жыл бұрын
✍
@lilearljr5896 жыл бұрын
You 5'2 400lbs your not going to play center for the la Lakers lmfaoo